I made him lazy! Regretful woman tells Maina

Today morning, Maina and King'ang'i discussed why and how men budget on a woman's money.

Maina advised men not to marry someone's daughter if they did not have money to support the family.  

"You don't have the money to marry someone's daughter just leave her alone. How do you budget on a woman's money?" Maina asked.

Mwalimu King'ang'i, on the other hand, emphasized the importance of women contributing to the well-being of their families. King'ang'i also described how Covid had affected many family heads, resulting in their wives chipping in financially.

"Kama akona pesa unajua ile kitu ilitufanyikia wakati wa Covid lazima women they chip in," King'ang'i said.

 "Unamsaidia kwa nini?" Maina asked the morning conversation listeners. 

Caller: Good morning, I want to give men a very practical concept. Money is to a man, beauty is to a woman. Wanaume wajitume, watoke nje na wafanye kazi. Mwanaume ni kukaa ngumu."

Another female caller aired out that her and her husband cost share their expenses.

Maina Kageni: Wewe unamsaidia aje kwa nyumba yako?

Caller: Nalipa rent, food  na yeye analipa school fees ya watoto.

Another caller expressed how not letting his husband play his role has made her suffer in marriage. 

Caller: Good morning Maina, I  used to pay rent, school fees for my children and do other things like buying food and clothes for my children. I didn't realize that a was making my husband lazy I suffered enough in that marriage na mimi nilijichuna masikio.

See what others had to say on social media below:

Patrick Njoroge its not about depending or budgeting of her money...reasonable ladies will see her husband struggling and chip in willingly, now Maina you are p[reaching selfishness banaa.

𝐊𝐢ק𝐫𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐡i If she has monies why not? I'll budget on her money as if it's mine. Na lazima pia anipee ya kulewa kama nakunywa

Hon. Waititu Martini When men started depending on women, this is when we started diluting our masculinity,....let me tell you main, mwanaume ni kujituma, ukitegemea mtu hapo ndio madharau huanza kujipika.

Brian labatt, and why should you marry in the first place, Maina I have two baby mama's with my two kids life is full, I can't risk my life marrying daughters of Jezebel.

Amb. WhiteWe don't marry because of money, a man to leaves his papas to join his wife. "Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have."