Maina Kageni shocked some men turn their backs on family over a woman

Kenyans have expressed a range of opinions on the subject.

Maina Kageni
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Following the viral video of Xtian Ndela's mother admitting that she hadn't seen her son's family in four years, Maina Kageni and Mwalimu Churchill discussed how a guy can transform a woman to the point of not visiting his family during their morning conversation.

Kenyans have speculated that Fatmah Banj, his current baby mama, is the root cause.

"Wewe unacheza na mapenzi. Imagine it's possible that the only person unaskiza ni yeye tu!" Mwalimu King'ang'i said. 

Maina then posed a question to the Kenyans.

"Guys, has this happened to you? What did she tell you that made you turn your back on your family?"

In response a caller said: 

Caller: I turned against my own family, I couldn't talk to my family, my sibling's. Akienda I felt like my life stood a standstill. 

Maina  Kageni: Did you feel like you were changing?

Caller : I came to release after three years. She used to tell me nobody loved me but her that she was the only one with good intentions.

Another caller in response to the same question said :

Caller: When a man marries the family has to keep away. this person is married and has found another person. In a marriage, when a woman is with the man alone you won't find that chaos. When you marry tell your family that you're creating your own family and they should stay away and give you space to take care of your family. You are an independent entity.  

Check out some social media reactions; 

Makuna Hatata Toxic behavior within a family can have a significant impact on emotional well-being of its members, particularly children who are still developing. It can also create long-lasting patterns of behavior that can be difficult to break, affecting personal relationships.

Jennifer Kanyiri Use your independent mind to distinguish what is good or bad for you ,don't let anyone manipulate your thinking in the name of love.

Timothy Railler Maina,as you lay your bed,so shall you lie....women have nothing to do with it...ni wanaume wanaamua tu kukosana na wazazi.

Kienyeji Original  Maina there are controlling ad toxic parents who want to run your home ,me I knw one tuko naye huku ameblock mamake bcs she even fakes sickness to get money from him, so sometimes u r forced ,you choose your peace.

Gilbert Koech Maina fear this gender, they tell if you value your family more than her then you could have married you sister