Esther Musila has highlighted 20 ways in which one needs to respect them self this year. Musila, who is married to gospel artiste Guardian Angel has been using her social media platform to encourage and motivate her fans.
This month, Musila celebrated one year marriage anniversary.
"One year ago on this day, I married my best friend and of all the love stories in the world, ours will always be my favourite. This has been a beautiful journey, I'm still your bride, you're still my groom. It's been one year but it's still a honeymoon...Everyday I love you more than the day before. You make Mr & Mrs look so easy....Happy anniversary to the love of my life and many many more to come.🥂🥂🥂I love you Mr. Omwaka💞💞"
In her opinion, here are 20 ways to respect yourself in 2023.
1.Stop looking for who is not looking for you.
2... Stop begging.
3... Stop saying more than necessary.
4...When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.
5... Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.
6... Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it.
7... Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.
8... Stop entertaining gossip about other people.
9...Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.
10... Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.
11... Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals
12...Respect your time.
13... Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.
14... Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.
15... Be scarce sometimes.
16... Be a giver more than a receiver.
17... Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.
18...Treat people exactly the way they deserve.
19... When someone owes you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.
20... Be good at what you do.
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