Moments leading to a wedding ceremony are tense, with the couple hoping it will kick off on time and without a hitch.
Sadly, this was not the case for one woman who recalls her anxiety waiting for her fiancé to receive her at the alter.
He was nowhere to be seen as family and friends waited to witness their vows.
She wrote of the humiliating moment as it finally dawned on her why he was late.
The woman identified as Twitter user Lihle Zondi wrote that
I discovered during my marriage that the reason my Ex husband was late to the ceremony of our wedding was that he went to see the women he was cheating on me with. He’s grooms men (friends) knew about it they waited for him inside the car while he s33 and made me wait.
I literally had everyone waiting I began freaking out because everyone wasn’t answer my calls Including he’s friends, im thinking the worse. Than they show up and lie that the car had a breakdown meanwhile he was out cheating.
All the while, his groomsmen were in the know but kept quiet because of this thing called bro-code
Those asking how I found out it was actually he’s brother who told me this i was so angry with myself I felt naive for not questioning things my divorce almost sent me into depression the whole thing was hard I’ve only stay strong through supportive people and praying.
People have responded to her tragic story with kind but cautionary words. Read below:
Guys are taking this bro code too extreme man!!!! It also in the bro code to correct your friend when he is about to do something stupid
Ladies, check his circle first
Here is something you ladies probably won’t like to hear, cheating is normal for a lot of men. It might not be right, but that’s what men do. The fact that he is marrying you doesn’t mean he will ever stop. It just means you’re the main chick.
Guys and nonsense bro code…no wonder they wouldn’t want their friends to date their sisters
My friend told me the other day hes been cheating on his gf, all his friends have met and chilled with the new girl. They having sex on the gf bed and even the neighbours are aware. He was bragging that the gf will never believe anyone who tells her the truth 🤯🤔
Most men have their side chicks coming to their weddings, they even come to the main table to greet and congratulate you