In Janaury 2020, we found out that Vera and her Tanzanian boyfriend Jimmy Chana had broken yup.
Since then, the fascination with that relationship still continues a year later, with her fans keen to know more details about the breakup.
In a QnA over the weekend, two curious fans once again asked why she didn’t work harder to keep that relationship.
The fan asked “I honestly thought you would end up with the TZ guy. Kwani what happened? Tell us the truth please”
She revealed they dated for 5 month and not 7, as previously thought. She wrote ‘One of the most unfortunately, traumatic experiences i’ve ever had amongst all my relationship. Never judge a book by its cover, sometimes the devil u know is better than the angel you d’nt know. End up? it couldn’t even reach 7 months even if i wanted it to. ata hizo 5 months i tried so hard. it was terrible. Honestly I’m happy i didn’t continue doing that to myself. red flags are very important. what you see and ignore on day one is what ill make u leave later, eventually. so ladies don’t ever sit thinking he ill change if its his character ya’ll gon b fighting about the same thing forever! so if u cant leave now , then better tart accepting nothing will ever change & live with it. I just could never live with it. so I left.”
Vera had previously said that she and Jimmy broke up because the relationship was toxic and she couldn’t perevere just to people please people.
She went on to say that she will always put herself first
“I walked out of my relationship coz I’m not gonna stay in a toxic one just into impress people like you. You can think whatever u like at the end of the day I’m the one who’ll face the Bullshit so I will eliminate what’s not good for me. If u like say whatever, strangers on the internet will never let me tolerate bullshit from a man just to show the world that I’m still in relationship. Hell nah. I will always put myself first. On God!!!” Said Vera.
Jimmy Chansa, on the other hand confirmed that she dumped him.
“In this life make sure you are the centre of attention, coz it’s lights, camera, then action”
Then he was quizzed if he was dumped and he responded “Yes”