Here’s Why You Should Wife Her

When you are dating an amazing person that you can’t seem to get out of your mind, the most logical thing would be to wife her. OK! If she has all these characters

1. You’re incredibly happy to see her – If seeing your lady fills your heart with everlasting joy, you need to make sure you get to see her every single day .

2. She doesn’t take herself too seriously – If she can laugh at herself, she’s probably the kind of person who can shrug off mistakes and move on, which is a pretty great trait to have in a future spouse.

3. You want to be her kids’ dad – If you want to father her children, you should probably marry her. First of all, according to research, the kids of parents who are married are way better off (they are smarter and richer!). Also, if she’s the kind of woman you want to mother your children, that’s a great sign as well.

4. She’s smart – If your girl has a quick wit that takes her places but keeps you on your toes, she’s a keeper.

5. You love her when she’s crazy – You don’t have to be super attracted to her when she’s being a terror. But if you still love her when everything terrible is happening, you need to marry her.

6. She loves you too – If she loves you as well, this is the lady you are looking for.

7. You can’t imagine life without her – If you go practically crazy trying to imagine a future without her in it, just wife her already.

-Tosin

The Mistress, The Jump-Off Or The Wife: Which One Are You?

It is my hope that this article generates alot of comments.

A lot of times, when this almost inevitable event occurs in a woman’s life, we tend to personalize the indiscretion, when in fact it has nothing to do with us. Men cheat for a variety of reasons and most of the time it’s simply because they want to sample something new and there is always a woman willing to participate, knowingly or unknowingly.

These women fall into the category of either ‘mistress’ or ‘jump-off.’ The two play similar roles, however the mistress is most often compensated in some way. While the jump-off, for the lack of a better phrase, is simply a semen receptacle in the mind of a married man.

The role of a mistress is an interesting one. The mistress often plays the role of the therapist, among other things. Many husbands use her to vent about their marital problems, listen to the mundane occurrences that happened throughout the course of their day, or share dreams that their wives do not support. The rendezvous between the mistress and husband usually occur on a scheduled basis. Many mistresses make do with the precarious arrangement of being a part-time lover because their bills are being paid, and they only have to devote a small portion of their time, while the wife deals with the everyday nuisances that come along with marriage.  It is not always the case that the mistress is the insecure woman, who wants to wreck a home. In fact, the mistress has a vested interest in the wife not finding out, lest her flow of money or other forms of compensation be cut off. Being a part time lover to some women who play this role pays because they are crafty enough to compartmentalize their emotions.

The narcissistic and frugal among married men who stray run a huge risk of being caught by not giving some form of recompense.  Exhibit A: Tiger Woods. Some married men who engage in extra-marital affairs naively trust the ‘other woman’ with precious secrets, and would even go so far as to letting the other woman into the marital bed, which is the ultimate form of disrespect. Their narcissm would not even allow them to consider that, if they end things or miss a payment, this woman has the ability to throw a huge monkey wrench into the delicate fabric of their family life, and in fact probably has been collecting and cataloguing data involving their indiscretions.

The other kind of woman that married men cheat with are ‘jump-offs.’ Jump-offs are women who won’t admit, or are naively in the dark about their function in a man’s life. These are the women who have never been to who they think is their man’s place of residence. And he only calls at certain times, usually in the wee hours of the night or early morning. They don’t know any of his friends or family, and when they do actually have sex it’s in a car, a hotel, or at their own home. Most likely in these instances he utilizes the choice that cost the least. Jump off’s don’t get quality time outside of getting their backs banged out. No quiet dinners in chic restaurants, no shopping trips, no anniversary getaways. Nada. This is the woman that my grandmother says one should be least concerned about, quipping, “Honey if she wants to lay on her back for free that’s her business.”

Then there is the wife who is probably aware, even without empirical evidence, that her husband is cheating. Perhaps it’s a nudging, or what is called women’s intuition, but she knows. One girlfriend explained about her marital situation, “It is just as easy to fall in love with a rich man than with a poor man. They’re all going to fuck up, but at least if he’s rich, your apology gifts are a hell of a lot nicer!” Wealth aside, the almost inevitable reality of facing infidelity in your adult life comes with choices. For many, it is not a deal breaker all together. Many married couples come to an ‘understanding,’ as the old folks call it. I am sure you have heard the stories about your granddaddies or Uncles having kids who live across town, but somehow their marriage with their spouses managed to last 40 years.

No matter how bad we are, how successful in our careers, how banging our bodies may be, none among us have vaginas that are dipped in gold, neither do we nut diamonds. Halle Berry, Lisa Raye, Garcelle Beauvais experienced high profile incidents of their husbands cheating on them, hence being beautiful and famous, and highly sought after does not make one exempt. But if/when you find yourself in that unenviable situation, what side of the coin are you on. Are you the mistress, the jump-off, or the wife?

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Compliments Your Wife Needs On Her Bad Days

There are days when things just go wrong for no apparent reason, so it leaves one down and a bit under. Now if you are living with your woman or meet her during such days, the best you can do is just hug her and listen to her rant. You can also make her day, on other days not just, when she’s down by saying :

1. I’ll never get used to your smile – You are basically telling her how beautiful her smile is, day in day out and that no matter how bad her day was she should not lose the smile.

2. You’re everything I need – This lets her know that even if she has failed she still has a way of making you feel adequate and useful, you are basically telling her that you are here strength.

3. That looks good on you – A simple compliment on her dress, hairstyle, make up etc will surely brighten her day plus she will know that you have noticed her.

4. I love you – Just because you want to reassure her of your love and you may also want to tell her how happy she makes you.

5. You make me a better person – Let her know the way she has made your life improve and the differences she has brought upon you.

6. I value your opinion – Let her know that her opinion is valued and is always taken into consideration, plus you can always rely on her.

7. You’re so smart- Maybe she’s a good artist, writer, singer etc whatever she does make sure she knows you value her mind.

Mr. Bean Set To Divorce After 24 years Of Marriage

Comedian Rowan Atkinson aka Mr. Bean and his wife Sunetra are set to be granted a speedy divorce after 24 years of marriage.

According to The Sun, the star and his wife will be granted a decree nisi at London’s Central Family Court.

The couple, who have two grown children, split up in 2014 leaving 60-year-old Rowan free to start dating 32-year-old comedianne Louise Ford .

According to The Sun Sunetra was deeply upset to be replaced by such a younger woman.

Rowan and Sunetra first met in the 80s and later tied the knot in 1990.

Man Fakes Kidnapping To Cheat On His Wife And Mistress With A Third Woman

A married man faked his own kidnapping so he could be with another woman behind his mistress’s back.

Warren Green, 33, lied to his wife to travel to Edinburgh to see girlfriend Chelsea Linn.

He was not really going to see Chelsea, but another woman and then got a friend to call Chelsea and tell her he had been kidnapped, the Daily Record reported .

Green, from London, claimed he had been bundled into a car by two men and then punched and kicked as he lay chained to a radiator in an Edinburgh city center flat.

A frantic Chelsea called in police and when Green arrived at her home in Oxgangs, Edinburgh, the following day, officers were waiting for him.

The love cheat carried on insisting he had been kidnapped when the officers questioned him.

But his story soon began to unravel and he eventually admitted he had made the story up so he could “sneak off to see another girl”.

At an earlier hearing, he had admitted falsely representing to police officers that he had been abducted, assaulted and held to ransom .

Sheriff Crowe ordered Green to carry out 120 hours of unpaid work in the community and also placed him on a 12-month supervision order.

Man Arrested For Pimping His Wife To 2,742 Men

The institution of marriage is one that should remain sacred as it has always been from the beginning, but that is not the case with this couple currently embroiled in a legal battle.

A husband ‘hired out’ his wife for sex with 2,742 different clients in just four years, a court was told.

The 54-year-old man, who cannot be named for legal reasons, made the equivalent of more than £5000 close to a million shillings a month through the suburban prostitution business.

As his wife, who is 46, welcomed clients, he would sit outside their home in in the family car, along with their five-year-old child.

The couple, who have been married for 10 years, were arrested last Tuesday, but only the man was charged with pimping, and faces a decade in prison.

Prostitution is legal in France, but it is against the law to solicit for business. The man is said to have used four internet sites and text messages to organise clients for his wife. He now faces a criminal trial, and has been released on bail. 

-Dailymail

Here’s Why You Should Forget The Married Man

There are things that you should know when you are dating a married man. Firstly, your man has other commitments and you are ‘the other woman’. It’s advisable never to put your hopes and expectations on him, unless you think your relationship will end well.
However it is highly unlikely that he will leave his wife for you, and here is why:
1. They have children – Your man feels responsible for the children he has with his wife. Raising kids is a lifetime commitment. He feels grateful that his wife painfully carried his babies and laboured to deliver them. Only a few fathers will break the bond they have with these children over another woman.
2. Though his wife has put on extra weight over the years, he still sees her as the same beautiful women he met years ago. He might want to sleep with a younger body, which is how you came into the picture, but your man is more attracted to his wife’s soul and can separate sex from true feelings.
3. His wife may not understand his needs but he doesn’t really care – Your man just uses you to pass little time away from home, but will never leave home.
4. Though his wife nags him all the time... guess what? He’s used to it. And he probably believes that if he marries you, you’ll nag him as much as she does.

So before you think that it will be different with you, think again!

-Tango

Here’s Why You Shouldn’t Badmouth Your Man

It’s human nature to find flaws and faults in others and sometimes to go as far as to talk about it to whomever will listen. This is one thing we ought to stop as it is of benefit to anyone and especially if you are in a relationship.

Its mostly common with women who talk about their husbands which leads to more problems. Here’s why tearing down your man isn’t a good idea:

Negatively invites more negativity – Perhaps you had a fight or there are some personality traits or habits that just annoy you. You are tempted to call your girlfriend or family member to “vent.” The person you vent to is now thinking those same negative things about your partner as you are putting them. As you tear down your husband, the negativity grows rapidly, like pouring gasoline on a fire. Ultimately, it creates greater animosity toward your husband, and the results are nothing but bad.

Instead, try speaking about positive traits or not talking at all. Find things you love about your spouse and dwell on those instead. If something is really bugging you, rather than discuss it with someone (unless it is your husband and talking about it will be productive), try just writing it down and throwing it away. No one likes to be criticized or have their short-comings magnified. .

Words can cause damage – It’s a painful process to learn, grow and try to change and improve. It’s even harder when the person closest to you will not allow you to change by always rehashing your past faults. Having your closest friend and partner bring you down with hurtful elaborations on your flaws is counter-productive. When you focus on all the things he may be doing wrong, it can potentially hurt your husband mentally, emotionally and physically.

Try building him up often -Husbands really try their best. Compliment the things he does. Thank him for working to provide for the family. Let him know that he is a great dad. Tell him you appreciate him. Remind him of your love for him. There is always something wonderful to see. If it’s hard, start small with something like the way he looks. Look for the good he does and compliment that — just like negativity can grow, so can positivity!

A marriage takes teamwork – If you are constantly working against each other with fights, insults or other negative acts, your marriage will likely be unhappy and potentially end in heartache. On a sports team, if teammates were constantly elbowing, kicking shins or talking smack to each other, the team would fall apart. Similarly, you will begin to resent each other, not work together and become enemies. By focusing on bad qualities, you are ultimately damaging your relationship and marriage.

Work together – Good and effective communication, bonding as a couple and building each other up are necessary for a healthy marriage. Your attitude toward your husband can make all the difference. Focusing on his good qualities can make all the difference. When problems arise and they will  working together for solutions is a lot easier when you can speak with respect and love to your husband.

Kindness, love and respect can go a long way in improving behavior, thwarting negativity and learning to be a team. Avoid tearing down your husband. Find the wonderful things about him that you fell in love with and focus on those. Your marriage and relationship depends on it.

-Familyshare

Mediation fails between Maradona and ex on ‘missing’ $6 mn

An attempt at mediation has failed between former Argentina football captain Diego Maradona and his ex-wife Claudia Villafane, whom he blames for the disappearance of $6 million from his fortune.

The case is now expected to go to court.

“The mediation session is over,” Villafane’s lawyer Fernando Burlando told reporters.

“We will see what Maradona and his counsel want to do. The case may go to court, here or in the United States.”

The public row has split the family.

Maradona, 54, says the funds were taken from several of his Argentinian and foreign bank accounts.

Villafane is the mother of his two daughters Dalma and Gianinna.

Villafane, 53, launched the divorce proceedings. She manages her ex-husband’s assets so that she can keep the estate that goes to her daughters, who have backed their mother.

Maradona receives funds tied to his activities as honorary sports ambassador of Dubai and has invested some of the money in the United States.

Photo Credits : AFP

Man Shoots His Wife Dead Then Kills Himself

A man this week shot dead his wife before turning the gun on himself in a domestic brawl in Tena estate, Nairobi.

The bodies of the couple were found long after the incident had happened . They were discovered after a neighbour heard their baby crying and found the child lying next to the body of his mother.

Police say the man was a licensed gun holder and suspect that he may have killed the woman then shot himself in the head.

The two had apparently separated for long until last Friday when they started living together again in a rented house.

The bodies were later moved from the house and the child taken away by relatives. Police are investigating the incident.

Man Beats Wife And Makes Her Do A Walk Of Shame

A man has written an apology to a local newspaper for allegedly beating his wife and parading her through the city half naked after believing she had been unfaithful.

The man made his wife Wang Ni walk through traffic while wearing just her underwear while holding up a sign that read “I want to sell my body”.

The 33-year-old had allegedly been beaten by her husband Zhang, 37, then forced on a walk of shame in Yushan County, China, while he followed in his car.

The couple have two daughters but Zhang apparently works long hours and lives in another city where he runs a property development company.

According to friends of the couple, he blamed his wife for the fact that, despite 10 years of marriage, she had given him two daughters and no sons.

But the domestic abuse allegedly reached a new high when he returned home for a rare visit and decided to go out drinking with his friends who spread rumours that Wang was cheating on him with another man.

A drunken Zhang charged home and after beating Wang, and accusing her of being unfaithful, stripped her and forced her onto the streets with the sign.

After police officers rescued the traumatised woman and took her back to the police station, they called Zhang in for questioning.

The result of the questioning was proof that the young woman had not been unfaithful and that her husband simply listened to malicious rumours with no foundation.

Zhang later apologised to Wang and penned a formal apology in his local newspaper. It is not clear whether his wife has accepted his apology.

Bobby Brown Shares His Wife’s Baby Shower Photos

Bobby Brown took time off his family and in-laws legal  issues to enjoy his wife’s baby shower.

Invited guests were at their Woodland Hills home for some fun with the couple as they played some traditional baby shower games.

His wife Alicia  proudly showed off her belly, which got a henna tattoo makeover during the party.

The sex of the baby remains unknown as  the couple want to be surprised.

Bobby’s wife Alicia is due some time this summer.

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-TMZ

 

Jose Chameleone’s Beautiful Family (Photos)

Top Ugandan artist and Maina Kageni’s favourite musician Dr. Jose Chameleone is a proud family man. He is known for constantly sharing photos of his wife and children with heartfelt captions such as ‘My little Boss# Alba Shyne Mayanja #Dads precious Gem‘ on his Instagram page.

Jose has three children two boys and a girl and a super hot wife. Check out photos of his beautiful family

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Jose and his sons Alfa and Alba
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Jose Chameleone’s wife

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Jose Chameleone also shared a photo of his huge mansion on his Instagram page with the caption “Pride and Glory of a King is sitting on his throne

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Ababu Namwamba’s mother’s day gift to his wife (Photos)

For many people the ideal mother’s day gift would be either jewellery, spa treatment, salon date or a dinner date.

Ababu Namwamba who always spoils his wife, remember the time he took her to Taj Mahal in India for Valentines?  This time he took her to Iceland .

Here are the pictures:

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Credits: Facebook/AbabuNamwamba

Never Seen Before Photo of Larry Asego’s Beautiful Wife

Try google Larry Asego’s wife and the results are not quite what you expect from this celebrity presenter…and understandably so. You will only find images of himself in studio, during graduation, his baby and several photos of him hosting events.

The Classic 105 overdrive presenter has managed to keep his personal life really private so when we stumbled upon this beautiful photo of him with his wife we knew we had found a gem.

Larry attended the Sunday night 2015 Canon Photography Awards gala at the KICC accompanied by his wife. He had been nominated in 3 different categories and you can read all about the award ceremony here.

Check out the beautiful couple below.

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Rio Ferdinand’s wife Rebecca Ellison dies from cancer

Former England captain Rio Ferdinand said this morning that his ‘soulmate slipped away last night’ announcing the death of his wife Rebecca. The 35-year-old mother of three died at the Royal Marsden Hospital in London following a short battle with cancer. The QPR defender announced the tragic news on the club’s website this morning.

The QPR defender released a statement today on the club’s official website. He said: ‘My soul mate slipped away last night. Rebecca, my wonderful wife, passed away peacefully after a short battle with cancer at the Royal Marsden Hospital in London.She was a fantastic loving mother to our three beautiful children.

 

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‘She will be missed as a wife, sister, aunt, daughter and granddaughter. She will live on in our memory, as a guide and inspiration.
‘Myself, my parents Janice and Julian, along with Rebecca’s parents Lesley and Stephen, would like to thank our families, friends and my club colleagues who have rallied around in these desperate days, weeks and months.

‘I would also like to express my gratitude for the dedication and expertise of the staff led by Professors Johnstone and Clarke at the Royal Marsden. Their valiant efforts to prolong Rebecca’s all-too-short life will not be forgotten. ‘Our grief, as a family, is total. We would appreciate being allowed to mourn privately.’ A spokesman for QPR said the thoughts of everyone at the club are with Rio at this ‘immensely difficult time’.

-dailymail.co.uk

Pastor arrested for his wife’s murder

A pregnant British pastor was found dead in a hotel bathroom in Ghana – and her Christian leader husband has reportedly been arrested for murder.

Charmaine Adusah, 41, and her husband Eric Isaiah Adusah, 28, the head pastor at the Tottenham, north London, branch of Global Light Revival Ministries, had attended a church programme in the West African nation’s city of Koforidua.

According to the Daily Guide Ghana report, the couple had a disagreement about how long they should stay in Ghana – Charmaine wanted to spend a month there, while her husband argued that was far too long.

The couple checked into the Royal Mac Dic Hotel five days, according to police.

The next day, Adusah claimed he had other engagements back in the UK and left the hotel at the dawn.

He reportedly told the front desk that his wife, originally from Arbroath in Scotland, did not want to be disturbed and staff should only respond to her if she requested something.

After three days hotel staff became worried and used a spare key to get in the room.

There they found the three months pregnant woman, allegedly in the bathtub, who was described as lying prostrate with a white towel wrapped around her, almost in a decomposed state.

It was claimed Adusah was arrested on suspicion of murder, but this has yet to be confirmed.