‘She’s old and not going anywhere’ Mans reason for avoiding marriage

 

A man has been putting off getting married to his baby mama because he wants her to age, making sure she’s out of the market after wasting her time.

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Wanting to “test” the relationship a little longer before taking the plunge is a situation many Kenyan couples find themselves in today.

One of the main reasons your man may be uninterested in marrying you is because he wants to marry you when you are older and can’t move on.

They want you to commit to him for so long that you will have no other choice when you hit past 40 years.

The man called in to Classic 105 confirming this truth

What is the purpose of a wedding, as long as my heart wants you what else do you want?What’s the need of showing the public that I love you in a wedding yet after a few years we will divorce, si as long as my heart knows! 

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He continues

Look at the rate of divorce in Kenya. Look at today’s weddings, how many people are holding Sh2million weddings, then divorce soon after? What is the value of a wedding? 

So what is his solution or alternative to marriage?

It’s very simple he argues. Come we stay together, have kids and in ten to twenty years we will see how things are. At that point I also know she has nowhere to go, coz who wants a woman with all these children? Which man will marry her? 

t this point ladies I fail to see the logic behind staying with someone who doesn’t want to marry you if you want to marry. Perhaps some men want to wait for the right person, not you.

 

 

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The most annoying wedding request couples can ever ask Maina Kageni

 

If you’re not planning on paying for your wedding entirely, but rely on friends, count Maina Kageni out.

First of all why are wedding so expensive these days?

Some couples, or their families, decide they simply must pull out all the stops for a wedding. They want nothing but the best, even if they can’t afford to pay for it. To facilitate their dreams, they call on friends to fork out the money.

Maina is having none of these. He spoke about it in a discussion with Mwalimu Kingangi about failed relationships and more specifically people referred to as serial divorcees.

He said,

never invite me to a pre-wedding. I will never contribute, why should I con tribute for another man to go  and enjoy someone? I left the group

Back in April this year, a bride cancelled her wedding after friends refused to contribute to her dream wedding.

Her budget was 60,000 pounds, and explains why it’s expensive

“A local psychic told us to go with the more expensive option, and we thought why the hell not?”

She made sure to RSVP the wedding with a cash demand.

The bride also explained she “made it CLEAR. If you couldn’t contribute, you weren’t invited to our exclusive wedding. It’s a once and a lifetime [sic] party.”

Much to the bride’s dismay, she and her fiancé quickly discovered that people were not willing to pay $1,500 to attend their special day.

In a now deleted Facebook post, she shared the reasons for the cancellation, saying, “I specifically…asked for cash gifts. How could we have our wedding that we dreamed of without proper funding? We talked to a few people who even promised us more to make our dream come true.”

 

 

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A list of famous people who just love getting married

 

Do you get shocked to hear some of our favorite celebrities have been married 3 to 4 times? No? Me either. Some of them have even expressed their feelings that they don’t like being lonely and so need to be with someone all the time.

Yet there are those who have wed 8 to 9 times, and British American actress Elizabeth Taylor comes to mind here.

That’s way too many times if you ask me. Perhaps they should just chill out for a while.

Check out this list of such famous people who have made headlines with multiple marriages:

Kim Kardashian: Kim Kardashian is currently married to Kanye West. Together, they have 4 children. But Kanye is actually Kim’s third husband. She had a short 72-day marriage to NBA star Kris Humphries. However, Kris was her second husband – before she was famous, she was married at a young age to music producer, Damon Thomas from 2000 – 2004.

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Kim Kardashian at the MET gala

Jeniffer Lopez: Jenny from the block has walked down the aisle three times. Her first husband was Cuban waiter, Ojani Noa, they were married for just under a year. Second husband was back-up dancer Cris Judd. They were married September 2001, to June 2002 – even shorter this time. Then she married singer, Marc Anthony in 2004. Together they had twins, but the couple did not live happily ever after. Their divorce was finalized in 2014. She is now planning her wedding to Alex Rodriguez, who’s divorced.

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Angelina Jolie: Angelina Jolie has been married three times. Her first husband was British actor, Jonny Lee Miller. The wedding ceremony saw Angelina wearing rubber pants and a white T-shirt with her husband’s name written on the back in her own blood. Her second marriage was in Vegas to actor Billy Bob Thornton after dating for only 2 months. Her third marriage was to Brad Pitt – they have recently filed for divorce.

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Kenny Rogers:The country legend has been married 5 times. His first wife was Janice Gordon; from 1958 till 1960. Then came Jean Rogers; from 1960 till 1963. Third wife was Margo Anderson from 1964 till 1976. His fourth marriage was to Marianne Gordon; they married in 1977 and divorced in 1993. It cost him $60 million. Finally, his fifth marriage is to Wanda Miller. They married in 1997 and are still married. Looks like he finally learned when to hold ’em.

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Larry King: Former CNN talk show host has been married eight times to seven different women. In 1997, he married his last wife, Shawn Southwick. On King and Southwick’s 10th anniversary in September 2007, Southwick joked she was “the only wife to have lasted into the two digits”. Larry and Shawn King filed for divorce in 2010 but reconciled, and filed for divorce again in 2019.

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Nicholas Cage: Cage has been married four times. His first wife was actress Patricia Arquette, his second marriage was to singer and songwriter Lisa Marie Presley, daughter of Elvis Presley. Very fitting, seeing as Cage is an Elvis fan. His third wife is Alice Kim together they have a son, Kal-El. In March 2019, Cage married Erika Koike in Las Vegas, only to file for annulment four days later.

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“There was a recent breakup,” Cage, 55, said in an interview with The New York Times Magazine. “I don’t really want to talk about it. I was pretty upset about that and the way things happened.”

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Symbol of everlasting love? Jackie Maribe engagement ring missing

 

Jacque Maribe’s addressing her relationship status with ex boo Jowie.

Jowie proposed to Maribe on July 30, 2018, in a surprise moment witnessed by her best friends. They served us couple goals until last September when the devil visited their relationship.

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Both Maribe and Jowie were arrested in connection with the murder of businesswoman Monica Kimani and put behind bars. But after several court hearings, Maribe was granted bail while Jowie, the main suspect in Monica’s murder, was taken to Kamiti.

‘I panicked and ran back into my bedroom’ Jacque Maribe narrates how Jowie came home soaked in blood

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Jacque Maribe crying at Milimani Law Courts

Before she was even released on bail, Jacque removed her engagement ring, a clear sign that the gloves of love had fallen off. She even went ahead to delete photos from her engagement party from her Instagram page.

 

Well, the former Citizen TV political affairs journalist, who publicly revealed that Eric Omondi is the father of her son, is a happy soul.

‘I met Jowie at a Jubilee party’ Jacque Maribe narrates

She shared a photo seated next to the comedian in a public area and captioned it,

The king himself @ericomondi comedy is you. You done did it!

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Comedian Eric Omondi with his baby mama Jacque

Fans flooded her comment section and one claimed that she had seen her still wearing her engagement ring.

As zoomers association unadhani hatujaona engagement ring ya Jowie? Main husband ni nani?’ the fan wrote.

Maribe responded saying,

Am I still wearing it?

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The ex-TV girl’s latest photos clearly show that she no longer wears the engagement ring, but normal rings just for fun.

Did Kirigo Ngarua warn her buddy Jacque Maribe that dating Jowie was bad news?Here is the proof

Check out more comments from Jacque’s fans

douglas_kiplagat Who is your friend? then who is f***k mate? then who is husband 😎?… Unatusumbua akili

carol.muturi Lazima child support 😄thou ni itumbi ama ni Eric

ras_abu_msafi Unazunguka kwa wanaume kushinda trolley ya supermarket

marrionfayh What about joe

sandra So it’s not jowie or the other one..it’s now Eric omondi? Si watu wanajua kutafuta😂😂@jacquemaribe

mtelemsiah @jacquemaribe second born tumengoja sana

cllr_junior Please don’t betray our Boy @dennisitumbi kindly…. He made us fall in your wings.

 

Follow Your Heart: Disabled bride sparks outpouring of love after wedding

 

While many physically challenged people may give up any hope of finding love,  a disabled woman on Twitter has won hearts following her real love story.

People were left  in a flood of tears (insert emoji) as she shared details of her wedding to the online community in a twitter thread.

She shared the tear jerking moment with her able bodied new husband writing

@TheBlqis…

I got married to the Love Of My Life. I’d like to write an epistle but words aren’t enough. Alhamdulillah ❤️

Bilad is a disability advocate who refers to herself as the wheelchair queen.

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She added about being besotted with her man and hoping to inspire others to believe in real love
I love my wedding pictures. My husband was smiling from ear to ear through it all. May Allah keep us this happy. ❤️

Read reactions below that prove real love exists and everyone wants their own happy ending.
@meeforreal..
Congratulations… Am really happy for you….
Your Man is a rare kind…
@oluquent..
What I know is he’s done her no favor. Love found them and they are both happy.

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@Safreenarrhh..
I’m happy for u babe,happy married life sis,may urs b among d best,Allah ya kawo kazantar daki😜😜
@bash_smart..
Hml I always say this “love is love no 2 ways about it….honestly I feel dis couple
@BabiesR4..
You are so pretty. He wasn’t passing you up! And a beautiful heart looks like. Congrats!
@yakubujiya1..
Thanks for giving her a life to live 🙏

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@umaragare..
wish you all the best happy marriage life with your love 💕

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Jennifer Lopez looked wedding ready at her engagement party

 

American singer JLo turned 50 in July and what a time for the latino star.

Jennifer Lopez celebrated her engagement to Alex Rodriguez with an engagement party in Los Angeles Friday night.

Her man A Rod proposed to her back in March, and this party was the official moment for family and friends.

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She wrote

he most beautifully elegant night.

After her engagement in March she spoke about dreams for her big day

“I’d like a big wedding, I’d like to get married in a church this time,” she revealed of her plans for wedding No. 4. “Never been married in a church.”

It is expected the wedding will follow shortly, perhaps before the year ends.

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A list of what I expect as a husband and what I expect my wife to do

Nothing is as frustrating to a spouse when expectations are unclear, unhealthy, unspoken or unmet.
What’s worse is when these expectations are not communicated to the spouse because of the belief that ‘we are in sync’, and he/she knows what I like.
Experts have often drawn the line at what is acceptable and what isn’t but not so according to one man who wrote his list of demands.
This isn’t the case as a man on social media laid down the law to his wife:
1. I expect my tea ready on the table when I get in from work and no excuses if it is not.
2. My wife has to do everything for our children and I am not to be disturbed if I want to watch tv or whatever I want to do.
3. I expect the dishes to be washed and the house to be tidy and clean at all times
4. I expect my clothes washed, ironed and ready for me to wear.
5. I expect to be waited on and looked after like a king and all my needs fulfilled. If they are not then their will be consquences.
Dear Classic 105 fam, is this a partner making another live in fear of them and does the other think in nay way they are trapped in a controlling relationship? Drop us your thoughts.

Inside this celebrity Whatsapp group planning Davido’s wedding

 

 

 

You know how many of us can’t stand being added onto whats app groups without prior consultation?

Well, celebrities too are victim of this bad habit.

Some naughty person created a Whatsapp group for Davido’s celebrity friends.

this comes after Nigerian singer Davido over the weekend proposed to his girlfriend Chioma. He shared the good news saying

A beautiful life. My beautiful wife. Thank you for everything @thechefchi ! And thank you in advance for what we expecting 

Ok, enough of this go through and see how each celebrity reacted

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It continues to say that

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The next response was

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Are your ribs cracking yet?

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And finally there is this one

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Why Diamond Platnumz skipped Harmonize’s grand wedding

Alot has been said about Diamond and Harmonize that has to do with a purported beef over switching labels.

This past weekend, photos of Harmonize’s secret wedding were leaked and his fans were surprised.

Bongo sensation Harmonize and his longtime girlfriend Sarah Michelotti exchanged vows in two wedding ceremonies.

The first ceremony was a Muslim wedding which where the couple solemnized their union in accordance with Islamic wedding rites.

Harmonize’s mother in law lavishes praise on singer after nuptials

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After the Muslim wedding, Harmonize and Sarah exchanged vows in a colorful white wedding which was also held in Dar es Salaam on Saturday September 7th.

At the wedding none of his WCB pals were present, leaving tongues wagging.

But there is an explanation for Diamonds absence from the nuptials.

Diamond is currently in Germany on tour. He moves to Canada in October for performances mid month.

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Maina Kageni’s message to Harmonize after lavish wedding

Bongo singer Harmonize broke the internet this past weekend, with a secret wedding.

The wedding was a two part series, and the couple looked adorable during their big day.

Classic 105’s Maina Kageni is a close pal and attended the wedding.

He revealed in an interview about Harmonize taking the plunge

‘I’m proud of you for taking this big step’

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The lovebirds left a lasting impression on Maina who gushed over them adding

‘He is marrying someone he has known for a while, and that’s good’

Harmonize and his Italian girlfriend Sarah Michelotti had been dating for a while and the two have on numerous occasions hang out with Maina.

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Congratulations as they begin the next big step of planning a family.

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Harmonize’s mother in law lavishes praise on singer after nuptials

Bongo sensation Harmonize and his longtime girlfriend Sarah Michelotti exchanged vows in two wedding ceremonies.

The first ceremony was a Muslim wedding which where the couple solemnized their union in accordance with Islamic wedding rites.

After the Muslim wedding, Harmonize and Sarah exchanged vows in a colorful white wedding which was also held in Dar es Salaam on Saturday September 7th.

Sarah and her mother

 

The couple got engaged in Italy a few months ago and Sarah’s family, especially her mother has been very supportive of their relationship.

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After the wedding, the excited Sarah took to social media to confirm that she was taken.

FOREVER JESHI🖤❤️💍… I LOVE YOU. 07/09/2019,’ she poted accompanied by the photo below.

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Newlyweds Sarah and her singer hubby

Sarah’s mother, who was among the 100 invited guests, took to social media to wish the newlyweds nothing but the best.

Le grand jour le bonheur [The great day happiness],’ she wrote.

In another post, she wrote

Beautiful couple.

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Maureen Kunga gushes over moving and emotional wedding: Picture

 

Elani’s Maureen Kunga said I do at an exclusive wedding ceremony held in Naivasha.

She shared a sweet message about the ceremony and a photo saying

BEST.DAY.OF.MY.LIFE

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Mauren has been keeping information about her nuptials under wraps.

We’re not sure how some celebrities manage to withhold such information yet they are in the public eye,  and frequently being watched but somehow, they pull it off.

Congratulations Maureen, we wish you a happy married life.

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There was nothing grand about The Rock’s secret wedding to longtime girlfriend 

 

Actor The Rock aka Dwayne Johnson has such a simple wedding you will question why Kenyans continue to send millions on a one day event.

Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson and longtime girlfriend Lauren Hashian tied the knot in an intimate ceremony in Hawaii on Aug. 18.

The happy couple is still beaming with happiness a they continue to share photos of the happy day on Instagram.

He wrote

Our Hawaiian wedding was beautiful and I want to thank our incredible staff for their outstanding work. 
To carry out my #1 goal of complete privacy, no wedding planners or outside resources were hired. Everything you see was created by hand, by staff and family only. 
The end results were spectacular I will forever be grateful for helping our hearts sing on this day. 

It turns out it was very easy for the to plan an inexpensive wedding. From serving tiny burgers, to writing the menu on a whiteboard, see pictures of their incredible but cheap wedding.

Here’s how they did it:

  1. They did not have a bloated guest list. It was only family and friends PERIODT, not a plus ten peopletherockweddingfood
  2. They asked for wedding help not wedding gifts. Their family helped plan everything. They did not have wedding planners like Kenyans are known to do.therockwedding3
  3. They held the ceremony in a house, with a really tiny outdoor setup, not tents, no crazy expensive flowers, and other decor.therockwedding2
  4. The catering was done by friends, drastically cutting down the costtherockwedding1
  5. They skipped the groomsmen and bridesmaids dramatherockweddingchef
  6. They made their own invitation cards,

 

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JB Masanduku sets a very special date to marry his fiancée

In three months time, comedian JB Masanduku will say ‘I Do’ to his new love.

Comedian JB Masanduku’s wedding plans are all set. JB was to wed his fiancée Jackie Karanja during her birthday on August 24, but has postponed it to November 11.

“That is my late mum’s birthday and I want to honour her as I honour the person I love,” JB told Word Is. He says his fiancée always speaks about how she would have wanted to meet her.

“I have talked to my people and the plans are all set. She chose to honour my mum,” he said.

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JB says his mother was the most generous person he knew and taught him that,

“Whenever there is a problem, I don’t need to be quick to react and that has helped me.”

Among the people he has invited to the wedding is Deputy President William Ruto. “Ruto was easy when I invited him,” he said.

Others include comedian Churchill, Teacher Wanjiku, DJ Shiti and TV presenter Betty Kyallo. The wedding will be purple-themed, and the comedy legends who worked with his father will attend.

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JB and Jackie, an actor at a local TV station, met last year and paid dowry early this year.

“It was love at first sight because when I looked at her, I knew she was the one and she is a nice lady,” JB said.

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Loulou Hassan blissfully happy as she toasts ten year anniversary

 

Citizen TV anchors LouLou Hassan and Rashid Abdalla are honoring their ten year wedding anniversary in a special way.

Exclusive: ‘It’s fun’ Rashid Abdallah opens up on working with his wife Lulu

Loulou shared an intimate photo of their hands, showing off their bling.

She wrote an emotional message that read

Thank you for always being my rainbow after a storm.
#10yearsstrong
#HappyAnniversary

 

 


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Mipango yangu yote ya kando ni wakikuyu, Sonko confesses

Lulu Hassan met Rashid back when he was working at QTV, and another radio station.

He’d heard her voice on Radio, and he was eager to meet her in person. This was just after Lulu Hassan lost her mother, and he was there for her through her grief.

“When I remembered my mother I would cry a lot and Rashid was always there to offer me a shoulder to lean on. With time I grew so close to him. The rest is history,”

 

‘Not a good example’ Sarah Kabu criticizes Manu Chandaria for cheap wedding 

 

Kenya is the fourth most expensive country in the world to do a wedding according to 2018 statistics.

The average price of a wedding in Kenya is $34,854 (Ksh 3,500,000).According to a 2018 survey by Samantha Bridals, the current average cost of a wedding in Kenya is about $34,854. However, the report also reveals that many couples try to stick to a budget of $14,900 (Ksh 149,6209) or under.

On Friday, industrialist Manu Chandaria formalized his relationship at the AG’s office.

But popular travel expert Sarah Kabu of Bonfire Adventures does not agree with his choice at having a cheap wedding. She wrote down her opinion on Instagram, but was quickly criticized by Kenyans.

Billionaire Manu Chandaria finally weds after 64 years of marriage

She wrote

DR. Chandaria I know you are not a Christian but even Jesus turned water into wine in a wedding to allow the couple make merry at their wedding evening parry… billionaires are you so mean to throw a big wedding party for your friend’s and relatives to enjoy the fruits of ur labour …

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.this is not a good example to the young couples being mocked for asking help to do a big community wedding… we all look forward to walk our kids down the aisle after graduation… this is the next right of passage actually traditionally and biblically ur parents should help pay dowry….youths msiogope kufanya big weddings na kama wewe hutaki kuchanga for a friends or relatives wedding please dont attend the wedding.. u dance and eat like nobody’s business. even Jesus changad for a wedding

Dear KOT, does the sound of a ‘budget’ wedding make you cringe?

‘You have married a hardworking woman,’ Uhuru Kenyatta praises Anne Waiguru on wedding day

Her fans reacted differently
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He has done no mistake.. We are all at liberty to live our lives how we deem fit. He wanted his marriage officiated that way…he did not ask anyone to emulate him…who died and crowned us judges??kila mtu aishi atakavyo.simple.
theonlycelesteliyai
I agree with you and him. In short, live and let live. Wale wanataka kuchangia wenzao wachange. Wale hawataki wasichange. Wale wanataka ndoa kubwa wafanye. Wale wa “come-we-figure-this-out-together” pia wajibambe. Let’s accommodate everyone’s decisions. That way, we live peaceably with all.

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Kila mtu apambane na hali yake, kwanza wale wa kuweka watu kwa committee za harusi na kuwekewa targets without consent.

A look inside President Uhuru Kenyatta’s wedding invitation to his son’s itara

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There is nothing wrong with an AG’s wedding. This is what they decided to show us, we don’t know if there was a grand celebration later on. Some people prefer privacy.

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Fascinating facts about the late Tom Mboya’s wedding 

 

The late Tom Mboya was a charismatic man who eloquence grabbed the attention of everyone.

His wedding to Pamela Arwa Odede at Nairobi’s Saint Peter’s Clavers Church on January 20, 1962, was named the wedding of the decade.

His groomsmen was also the ultimate boys club. The late Prof. David Wasawo was the best man in the wedding, with Charles Mugane Njonjo among the groomsmen. The wedding was presided over by Nairobi Archbishop, JJ McCarthy.
In April 1962, Ebony Magazine published a lead feature on the January 1962 wedding of Tom Mboya and Pamela Odede

The lucky couple received an apostolic blessing from Pope John XXIII and a message from the Aga Khan.

He was the most sought after bachelor at the time.

 

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8 Lessons Dj Soxxy’s wife has learnt in marriage

DJ Soxxy and wife Ciiku wa soxxy have celebrated their 8th year in marriage with a trip to Dubai.

They are one of the celebrity couples who have given other young couples something to admire in marriage.

Ciiku wa Soxxy took to her social media to pen a long beautiful message to hubby which read;

#tbt❤️ To 8years ago when I chose to stick by this guy @djsoxxy..

Before I got married, I read somewhere ‘marriage is not for the faint of heart’ and I thought kwani how hard is marriage..

DJ-SOXXY-WIFE

It’s the only institution you get a certificate before you even start the course….

Some of you have inboxed me and requested I do my 8 lessons in 8years and I will take up the challenge..

May it be interactive and let’s all learn from each other…

Look out for my next post #1of8 
#8in8 #family #marriagelessons#marriageisworkbutworthit#marriageshouldthrivenotsurvive

 

The long lesson post read,

I started my marriage journey by standing in front of God and man. So God should always be an important person in your marriage. Looking back and seeing the toughest bumps we have crossed or overcome.. I doubt we would still be standing were it not for God. 

It’s important for you as the wife to have your own spiritual nourishment, for the husband his own, for the 2 of you together, for the children individually and for the whole family together.

Prayer has calmed me when all I wanted to do was yell, prayer has sorted out stuff even before I knew what was coming my way and prayer has healed us when we didn’t know whether healing would occur. So I can’t emphasize this enough… Pray, seek God all the time. 

Some lady contacted me asking me how can I make my husband do date nights with me and I told her you can’t make or change him, pray about it.

I could tell that’s not the answer she wanted to hear, she contacted me around 3/4 months later she prayed about it everyday and God started moving and they were doing their 3rd date night.

Guess we love to complicate things, overthink, over analyze.. Relax and just Put God in it… #1of8#marriageshouldthrivenotsurvive#marriageworks#marriageisworkbutworthit

 

 

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