Tanzanian doctor Jimmy Chansa and ex boyfriend to Vera Sidika in an interview with Millard Ayo a few days ago, told that he is happy for Vera who is in love and pregnant with her first child.
The interview here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKw_sUTFvWk on Ayo Tv, impressed fans who told him he is handling things maturely.
He was asked how he felt for trending all because of dating her back then.
He responded ‘it was a relationship where I was on autopilot. Sometimes I would go to Nairobi to see her, sometimes she would come to Tanzania to see me. I don’t remember how long we dated siwezi ukumbuka, inaeza maliza miaka ni mda mfupi. This is one of the longest relationships I ever had. She was a good person, genuine, ako real. We met at a party, na kawaida stori na nini happened, tukainigia kwa mahuiano”
Did he mind the way she put their relationship online?
He said no “Hio ni culture ya Kenya, they are not conservative”
Jimmy was also asked if he was warned about dating Vera and he somewhat agreed.
“It’s normal, but I am an adult I wouldn’t be with someone who would be bad for me. Mimi sifuati sana comments za social media, lakini kama manadamu kuna watu walikuwa wanasema coz they know her from social media People looked at her liek she is expensive to maintaimn because she is a socialite but me I looked at her like my fiancée so the feeling is different”
So why did they break up? He wouldn’t reveal the details only saying “ni mambo ya kawaida kwa mauhusiano kuachana. Breaking up in Africa is taken as a very negative thing, but it’s not. It’s normal. If you have no intention to marry someone, set them free to go find someone else who will”
So did Vera dump him? He remained coy about it
“sitaongea kuhusu hilo. Hatukuachana kwa ubaya ” The interviewer tried to get him to confess if it was because of cheating or any beef, but again he refusec toeb dranwn into it “hio pia sitasema tuliachana sio kwa ubaya haijawahi kuwa na ubaya”
Jimmy also told that he doesn’t intend to slide in her DM “I have never been in touch with her after our breakup., I don’t think kama hiyo ni heshima. Lengo la kuachana na mtu ni kumruhusu amove on. So ukiwa umamcheki mtu it going back and forth, ni kama unamlazimisha, hatujawahi chekiana”
He finished that he has alot of admiration for her and wished her the best in her pregnancy journey and new love with Otile Brown “I respect Vee sana, her family, I respect her family coz ndugu yake ni mwenzangu sana. I am happy for her as long as she is haapy”
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