Here Are The Six Types Of Women To Date

Granted, you have dated 10 or even 20 women, all of them have different things to offer. However as a man there are six types of women that you should date. Here is a list:

1. The Urban Sophisticate

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Her strengths: This woman is funny, hot, and spontaneous. When you walk into a room with her, everyone stares at you in envy because she has presence.

Her weaknesses: If you don’t have confidence this is not a woman you want to date. This woman gets off on attention and chances are you might be jealous. Just make sure she wants you as much, not just for the perks.

Her bedroom persona: She’s uninhibited and nicely groomed. Tell her you like her on top, preferably wearing something expensive that makes her breasts look hot.

2. The Arty Hipster

Her strengths: She knows where all the art shows with free wine/cocktails are, she’s stylish but not as much as the sophisticate. She’s a great catch if you are into art and music. She likes nerds and intellects.

Her weaknesses: Do you keep going after her because you hope her cool will rub off on you? If your interests don’t match, don’t expect to just coast along on her taste.

Her bedroom persona: The good news: She’s dirty. The bad news: Her bed’s not that clean.

3. The Vegan Yoga Gal

Her strengths: She’s got great skin and a long neck, and she gives you long back rubs with wacky oils. All that deep breathing means she rarely flies off the handle, and you value this perhaps even more than you value her amazing, high, tight rear, which is saying a lot.

Her weaknesses: Most of these women are interested in men who are into the same stuff they are. Love her, love her lifestyle.

Her bedroom persona: She’s just as Kama Sutra-esque as you were hoping—but no quickies. She likes it slow and soulful.

4. The Alpha Female

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Her strengths: She graduated from college in 3 years and went right to law school without taking a vacation. She’s hard to keep up with. A scientist, artist or teacher would be suitable for this woman, not an alpha male.

Her weaknesses: She has a lot in common with alpha males, but these relationships are too intense because they have no time for each other.

Her bedroom persona: She’s efficient and skilled, but she can be more than sufficiently animal if you help her let her guard down.

5. The Intimacy Junkie

Her strengths: She goes to yoga, too, but it’s the easy kind that’s more about “connection to the self” than sculpting a smoking body. So what if she’s a little in your face. The sex is amazing, good kisser, very intense, like connecting and is verbal so she can help you communicate.

Her weaknesses: The intimacy junkie makes you feel great at first. She’s so into you and your feelings. Analytical men will find themselves easily ensnared in her macramé web. This will be brought about by her questioning where the relationship is.

Her bedroom persona: She’ll do anything, including some things that scare you. The word harness comes to mind. Tell her you’ll do it if she gets waxed.

6. The Happy Homemaker

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Her strengths: She’s no gold digger—all she wants is a nice cosy home, family etc. She wants to have your kids, take care of them, and take care of you. A man who grew up in a very traditional household will love her, and, conversely, a guy who grew up with domestic chaos craves this woman for the stable home she provides.

Her weaknesses: Remember that when she says she’s not going to work, she means it. Career-minded men could be happy with an arrangement that allows them to focus on their work while she manages his domestic life. But if the financial stress builds, you may not be able to convince her to get a job.

Her bedroom persona: She’ll be accommodating and eager at first, less so with each offspring. Find a good babysitter so the two of you can steal a moment away.
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Types Of Women You Need To Avoid

The dating pool is filled with different kinds of people, from the kind soul, the freak, the “mama kanisa”, virgin Mary, the psycho to the drama queen. While looking for that woman who will rock your world, you need to understand that everyone is different. With that in mind, you should also avoid certain types of women for you to have a peaceful relationship.

Here are some of the women you need to avoid at all cost:

Madam clingy: This has got to be one of the worst types of woman you will want to be around, let alone date officially. Filled with insecurity and jealousy, she will not let you have a peace of mind. She will be possessive and will want to mark her territory. Unfortunately you will only realize this once deep into the relationship because in most cases we ignore the signs.

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Madam “guess what’s on my mind” : This type of woman will expect you to read her mind all the time. In fact she will constantly “test” how well you know her to see if you really love her and often gets offended if you get it wrong. You are expected to be a mind reader, and we all know men don’t like guessing!

The chatter box : There is talk and then there is too much talk. This kind of woman will talk about any and everything both relevant and otherwise. While being talkative isn’t a bad thing, men don’t like people who cannot listen or respect that a conversation should allow both parties to voice their opinions. You can’t be the host and the guest at the same time.

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Madam Independent: A woman who has made it in life and career and seems to have it all plus everything going on will be an automatic threat to a man. She also takes equality more than seriously. However, they will still approach her, but the problem comes when she treats the man like she doesn’t need him and has everything covered. Hallo “feminists”

Madam Perfect – This is the batch of women that think they are everything and you should be honored that they considered you. They will make you worship the ground they walk on because they are simply doing you a favor by being in your presence.

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Madam Me, Me, Me – These women looove themselves, they are confident, beautiful, radiant and much more simply because they know and have accepted who they are. This makes them the best to approach because they are the perfect “chase”. The problem comes when she switches from sweet to B#$%& real quick. She likes things to be about her, it’s a relationship but not a team effort because she comes first and in most cases she can become emotionally distant because she shields herself from being hurt.

These Men Will Never Marry You

The ultimate goal for most serious couples is to get married in the long run. However you need to access the character of your man to tell if he will marry you or if he is suitable.

Here are three types of men who will not marry you:

1. He moved in with you and has no job – Usually this type of man was the typical mama’s boy and was spoon fed forever. So he neither knows how, nor has the desire to, become self- sufficient. This man goes from his momma’s house to his woman’s house as long as she is willing to take care of him. If you have to take care of him like a child, he is not going to marry you.

2. He never talks about marriage – When you bring up the subject, he may go along with you to keep you happy. Ask him to set a date and pay attention to his response. Does he laugh it off or say “let’s talk about it later” or does he just change the subject? If he doesn’t talk about it, especially after you have been together for years, he is not going to marry you.

3. He’s a serial baby daddy -Why would you want to be with someone who’s fathered several children with several women yet parents none of them (this should be obvious if he is sitting around on your couch)? You may even have kids by him, but if he doesn’t talk about marriage during or after your pregnancy/pregnancies, chances are he never will.

-Tosin

Types of men you should avoid

Dating is not easy, you will end up meeting the crazies, psycho, players and even the nicest person but it’s not always easy. Everyone will come with their baggage, it just depends on why you choose to handle. However if you are a single lady, beware: If you catch one of these guys on your line, it would be wise to just throw him back in the sea and keep trying for your prize winner.

1. The Damaged Goods – There are so many people popping up on the dating scene who were burned by their first marriages or serious relationships. They are angry, untrusting and bitter. Every question you ask them is only half-answered because the walls they have built up inside are so high and impenetrable. Conversations feel very one-sided, and you will forever feel like you are pushing them to open up. These singles need therapists to deal with their issues, not new mates.

2. The Man-Child – This guy refuses to grow up. Every night is like a college frat party. Every date involves a beer. Every weekend revolves around his friends.He is lazy. He probably works a job you had in college and has no real ambition to do much else. If you are looking for a mature, meaningful relationship that is going to go somewhere, he isn’t for you.

3. The Guy Afraid Of Commitment – This can be an extension of number two, but not always. These guys can have great jobs, their own places and generally a lot going for them. But, they would rather date for 15 years than ever really commit to you. If you are looking to build a future, this one is going to take some work. He hasn’t made a life commitment to someone before you, and he likely won’t with you or after you. This guy is the stereotypical bachelor for life.

4. The Narcissist – Watch out for this one, as these daters will love themselves more than they will ever be capable of loving you. They generally attract mates who are codependent because they are often so eager to please. Codependents are generally passive by nature and don’t like to make waves in their lives. They are often submissive and easily manipulated, while the narcissist is controlling and calculated.You may not know you are in the midst of narcissists because they come off as charming, romantic, intelligent and flawless in the beginning. Eventually, narcissists convince their codependents they are unworthy of the love of others and break down their self-esteem to give themselves the power they need to thrive.

5. The Booty Caller – These people are dating for one — and only one — reason. They will start off by saying, “I am not that type of man or woman,” but that’s generally a red flag they are exactly that. They will try sweet-talking their way right into your bedroom, get what they want and then hit the highway.The booty caller will likely be checking out other people while on the date with you, not paying attention to a thing you are saying. Instead of complimenting your mind or personality, his compliments will strictly be about your looks and will generally be suggestive in nature.

6. The Mooch – So you finally have a great career and can consider yourself financially stable. The mooch will prey on women in this situation. Since women are generally caring by nature, they will try to help their mates.The mooch will start by needing 1k for a soda here or you to pay for a dinner there, but eventually, he’ll say he is too broke to afford anything. He will promise to pay you back, but he never will. Sometimes, you find yourself feeling bad, and you try to help so much that it starts affecting your own finances. You’ll need to take a step back and realize you gave him thousands of dollars, and he has given you nothing but stress and excuses.

7. The Big Talker – This is the guy who makes the big plans. He will talk about romantic trips you are going to take, a wedding, children and home ownership. He is all about the talk and never about the action.Something will always come up, or he’ll pretend the conversation never happened to begin with. He will get your hopes up and let you down so often that you learn to put little to no faith in anything he ever says. Why do we stay? Because the plans sound great, and there is always a glimmer of hope they will actually come into fruition. 

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You Can’t Resist These Types Of Men…

Women like certain types of men and it’s something that is widely known. The reasons vary from one person to another but one thing is certain there is always a “type” . It’s also not a “one size fits all” situation but, women have a certain kind they are attracted to.

Here are the most common types that women find most appealing according to Foxnews

The intelligent one: He instigates conversations that are intellectually stimulating, and listens to what she has to say in response. He makes her laugh with his clever sense of humor, and has an uncanny ability to make politics interesting. He can shoot the breeze with her for hours, and it will never get boring.

Why he is so irresistible: An intellectual connection is a big part of what sustains a relationship, and if you can show her that you’ve got that, she’ll be hooked pretty quickly

The confident guy: He is totally secure and sure of himself. He is assertive in public, and gives off an aura of power and control. In a relationship, he doesn’t get jealous of other men; he doesn’t feel threatened by his girlfriend’s male friends or co-workers.

Why he is so irresistible: Women are attracted to confident men. Consider this: If you think you are great, she will probably be influenced to think the same. The confident man doesn’t seek approval from women, and this makes them want him even more.

The artistic guy: The artistic guy is spontaneous and lives for the moment. Often, he will use his creativity to woo her, such as with a song he has written about her or a painting he has made for her.

Why he is so irresistible: Every woman wants to feel unique and special. There is no better way to make her feel this way than to use her as your muse or your source of inspiration. She is intrigued by the artistic guy’s creative mind, and especially by the way he incorporates her into his art

The exotic One He comes from a faraway exotic country, and has a cute accent or a unique way of seeing the world. His social customs, and everyday behavior can be a little quirky, but he always manages to come off as uniquely charming.

Why he is so irresistible: Women often choose this kind of guy if they are curious about the world, but most of the appeal comes down to a fascination with dating someone from another culture.

The considerate guy: He holds open her car door, and pulls out her chair. He foots the bill for dinner, and makes sure to offer her dessert. He always asks her out with reasonable notice, and picks her up at her door. He is generally sensitive to how she is feeling, and when she is ready to go home.

Why he is so irresistible: Once a woman has gone through her share of the bad guy, the rude guy and the not-calling-her-back guy, she will likely re-evaluate her priorities. It takes a bit of maturity on her part to realize this, but eventually most girls come around and realize that they want a guy who will treat them well in the long run.

The romantic: He believes in classic romance. He is constantly bringing her flowers, chocolate and lighting candles during dinner. He calls her often to let her know he is thinking about her, and looks into her eyes and tells her how he feels.

Why he is so irresistible: A woman loves to feel appreciated, and the romantic guy makes this happen. He uses romantic gestures to show her he is thinking about her. As an added bonus, she feels free to reciprocate and act on her own romantic tendencies.


The free spirit guy/ the Bad Boy : The free spirit guy goes where the wind takes him, and the wind usually takes him on some kind of whacky adventure. He might ride a motorcycle, or he might skip work to take her on a last-minute road trip, but this guy doesn’t worry too much about the consequences – he just sees where his own devices take him.

Why he is so irresistible: Every woman wants a bit of a rebel. She loves his carefree attitude and hopes that it will rub off on her too. The bad boy spirit adds an element of youthfulness to the relationship, and she loves to try taming him, although she knows she’ll never actually succeed

The meaning of how he kisses you

Kissing is a way of communication but only if you can be able to decode the meaning.

The way a man kisses you is an instant indicator of his mood and feelings.

Depending on how the two of you relate different kisses have different meanings.

Here is a quick guide to different types of kisses and what your man is trying to tell you.

Beginners kiss – When your man is still getting used to your body and his liking for you, be prepared for a little fumbling. It can be a simple meeting of lips or a gentle swirl about your mouth area. He’s just getting used to you and likes it.

Sensual kiss – Soft, sensual and lingering is meant to arouse you! His hands will be roving all over your body and he wants you to know that he’s in the mood for a little loving.

Sip kiss – This one is fairly unique. He’ll take a sip of his favourite drink and then get you to kiss him. Great tasting lips and great sensation too. Guaranteed to turn you on!

Talking kiss – He’ll keep whispering nice things into your ears and your mouth. This should tell you that he’s really in a romantic mood and you should try the same.

 Teaser kiss – This type of kiss is  designed to turn you on! He’ll start by nibbling on your ears and then your face and lightly whispering down your hands and arms, even nuzzle down your cleavage. In fact he’ll kiss you everywhere except your mouth and it shows that he’s feeling frisky and he wants you to get into the mood too.

Aggressive-Buzzing kiss – He’ll grab your face and give you a rough and ready kiss designed to get you wild while at the same time humming along your face and your lips. Get ready for wild and aggressive lovemaking too as he’s in the mood for it.