When you walk down the aisle to say ‘I Do’ to the love of your life, many family members and friends are excited to see a couple begin a new lease of life.
Sadly, this isn’t always the case as many are living in pretense. Kumbe bedroom kuna mambo hivi?
It turns out that there is all sorts of drama facing husbands and wives, and all this behind closed doors. Not even their children are aware mummy and daddy are fighting.
When you have a disagreement with your spouse, how do you punish them? Fights in marriages will always happen according to the accounts of several Classic 105 callers who narrated their corporal punishments from spouses when they kosea one another.
A man revealed that,’ For me in public or in front of the kids we are this wonderful couple who show love and affection, but trust me when we get to the bedroom I take my mattress and sleep on the floor. I did this for nine months and then in the morning I am the first one to wake up so that my kids don’t run to our bedroom and fine me sleeping on the floor. Everyday and my kids would think daddy is always an early riser, but it’s because I don’t want them to know our situation.
Another female caller disclosed how her husband locks her in the toilet.When she was pregnant, he would tell her to sleep in the bathroom, he would lock her in the toilet, and he would pick a fight with me at 3am, I owuld sit on the toilet mat, until he is ready to let me out. I would miss going to work because of this issue, I had to make up excuses so my boss wouldn’t fire me.
Another female caller said; ‘I don’t know whether I should pity spouses because in my case I knew that my husband was having an affair for a long time and when I went to the place he used to live because we lived apart and anytime when he came home we would chat nicely to me, but when we go to the bedroom he would sleep in his suit and he sleeps on the foot of the bed while I sleep on the other side. He doesn’t want me to talk to him when we are in the bedroom, or touch me. When I ask him about it he says for what?I am not interested! at some point I locked him out of my life I forgot about him and now he is trying to get back to me, asking what happened?
Think this is bad, just read through another wife’s tale…My husband tells my children to sleep with me while he sleeps in their bed as punishment to me. He is the one cheating on me but he punishes me instead.
The question is: is punishment ht best way to resolve marital drama? What’s your take n the topic?