Dr Love: Allan wants a sugar mummy to spoil him rotten

Allan is a young man who is open to experience a relationship with a sugar mummy.

He called Dr Love on Classic 105, asking for help in landing the woman of his dreams.

Dr Love hooks up people on the mapenzi show, unfortunately he could not help Alan for this reason.

Dr Love explains his predicament about this particular kind of dating arrangement.

‘I have done hookups here as far as sugar mummys go but without much success. I think there are better places to find sugar mummys. You should go to places where these women hang out, like church and find older ladies who want younger men to do things with them.’ 

Here are some suggestions where you can find a sugar mummy

1. Golf clubs: These older women enjoy a good game of golf, and kick back after a long day.

2. Church: These older women always congregate in churches for all sorts of meeting. Make sure you have a schedule of all meetings to take place for older women.

3. Country music concerts: If you can develop some interest in mugithi, then you can be sure you will land the sugar mummy of your dreams.


The information on this website and the advice given by Dr Love is for general reference only and should not be misconstrued as counseling advice, or diagnosis, or as a replacement for psychotherapy, or to be used to treat mental illness. Dr Love’s advice is intended as a guide only. It is not intended to replace professional counseling nor is it intended to cover all areas and/or issues that might arise in human relationships. No person or body should act on the basis of the information on this website and Dr Love’s advice without taking appropriate advice from a counselor, psychologist or psychiatrist. Do not disregard any professional advice because of Dr Love’s advice or the information on this website.

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3 things women do after men splash money on them


A woman advised women on classic 105 that they must do everything possible to get a man to shamelessly spend money on them.

the number one mistake women make with these men especially when you land yourself a stingy man is showing them you can be independent, especially financially.

You show a man you can take care of all your financial needs, rub it in his face? The day you come to him and ask for a coin, trust me aki sha zoea, whatever he will give you will be little or nothing knowing that you have money, when he gets used to being shown that you are financially independent?

Men use money to get the woman they want. While women, subtly and skillfully, use their femininity to reel in the man of their dreams.

Men know their job is to win a woman’s affection, love and commitment and they will court you with their compliments and gentlemanly manners—and whether they will admit it or not, they are fully aware that gifts are part of a woman’s love language.

Depending on a man’s level of interest in you, his finances and generosity, he will spend money to get you to go on a date with him and he will surprise you with trinkets and sparkle to woo and wow you.

He will send you flowers, wine and dine you, take you shopping for clothes and treat you to all-expense-paid trips, because in his mind, he is investing in you and his future.

Once a man is done ‘investing’ in you a woman tends to do these three things:

– felt obligated to go out with him again
– Expect to sleep with him
– Feel like a gold-digger

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