Living With An Infidel, Physically And Emotionally Battered – Do Women Have 9 Lives?

A huge percentage of women, if not all, have probably been with men who have either cheated on them, battered them, financially disabled them or ended up humiliating them beyond measure. So why will these women rise to see another day, put a smile on their faces, go about making their careers beautiful with all the heartache? Is it the pain that drives them or

So why will these women rise to see another day, put a smile on their faces, go about making their careers beautiful with all the heartache? Is it the pain that drives them or do they have 9 lives?

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From time immemorial, women have been treated like disposable objects to men and mistreated. Their abilities not seen or appreciated.

Ladies, Here Are The Telling Signs He’s NOT Busy, You’re Just Irrelevant To Him

Their hearts are broken over and over again yet they go through the pain of bearing children, raising them on their own and still expected to have a career. Regardless, they end up letting their guard down when a man is involved. The question begs, why should they?

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Men were meant to be the heads of the home, priests who guide the family and lead them to what is Godly. In this day in age, however, women have taken up this role while their men are busy entertaining younger women. Many are wallowing in filth as they disown the very people that loved them when all they had to offer was love.

And for what reason? “The sex is boring, she gained weight, she earns more than I do, it gets boring being with one woman, the other woman made me feel like a king,” are just some of the nonsensical reasons for their behaviour.

My response? If your wife for 10 years hadn’t nurtured your kingdom for that long, these shisha smoking, Guarana drinking, yolo confused youngsters would surely spit on your face!

But at the end of it all, I feel that women indeed have 9 lives. This is  quite enough space to take a man’s crap and turn it into something beautiful.


The Effects Of A Broken Heart – Devoted Couple Who Were Married For 75 Years Who Died Just Days Apart

A devoted couple who were married for 75 years have been buried side-by-side at the church where they wed – after one passed away within days of the other due to a “broken heart”.

Jim, 101 and Hilda Leach, 98, celebrated their diamond wedding anniversary on December 9th, 2016, marking 75 years since they tied the knot in World War Two.

Just days after their family party in Rushton Spencer, near Macclesfield, Cheshire, Jim passed away peacefully with Hilda by his side on December 17th at their home.

But their family said heartbroken Hilda did not want to be parted from her husband – and on January 2nd, she also passed away.

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Now the couple – who had two daughters, five grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren – have been buried during a joint funeral at St Mary’s Church in Bosley, Cheshire.

The church is also the same spot where in the couple got married, just as Jim was heading off to fight in the war.

Daughter, Anne Brooker said: “They were together for 75 years and mum said there was nothing to live for after dad died.

“Dad had seen everyone at the anniversary and said his goodbyes and it was his time to go, and when dad went it was time for mum to go too.

“It was a shock when mum went so quickly after losing dad but they kept going for each other. It was really emotional saying goodbye to both of them at the funeral.

“They got married in that church, their coffins were together at the service and they were buried together. They were together right until the end.”

As World War Two broke out, he met trainee chiropodist Hilda by chance at a dance.

Instantly smitten, the couple were engaged for a year before Jim was conscripted into the Army in 1941 so they had a quick wedding.


Daughter Anne described both her parents as “determined”, explaining how her mum stunned doctors years ago by fighting back to full health after contracting polio and being told she would never walk again.

She explained: “Mum and dad were both very determined. They were a wonderful couple.

“Family and community were very important to both of them. We’ll miss them very much.”




Ladies, Here Are The Telling Signs He’s NOT Busy, You’re Just Irrelevant To Him

Really wanna give someone the ultimate insult? Call them irrelevant. It’s pretty much the worst thing you could be.

Irrelevant is the worst thing you could be because you’re so insignificant, no one even bothered to think of a more precise insult. Simply put, you don’t matter.

Needless to say, nobody wants to be called irrelevant. Especially not by the guy you like. That being said, whether we admit it to ourselves or not, there are times when you are, in fact, irrelevant to the guy you’re so obsessed with.

In fact, I would go so far as to say the reason you’re so obsessed with him is because you’re irrelevant to him. The problem is that instead of just accepting the fact that we don’t matter to him, we try to make up excuses as to why this guy’s not giving us the time of day.

“He’s not talking to me because he’s mad at me!” No, you’re not relevant enough for him to bother with being mad at you.

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“He’s not talking to me because he’s busy!” No, you’re not relevant enough for him to prioritize you over literally anything else.

“He’s not talking to me because he’s dead!” No, he just doesn’t want to waste another breath in his waking life conversing with you.

I get that it can be a little confusing. Maybe he is mad at you. Maybe he is busy! Maybe he is dead!

So, check out this list of surefire signs he’s not mad or busy or dead (or any other lame excuse you managed to come up with)… you’re just irrelevant to him

  • Your friends are sick of hearing about him, but his friends don’t even know who you are
  • None of his family members know who you are (that is if he even has a family because he’s never mentioned them).
  • He straight-up doesn’t respond to some of your texts.
  • You’ve never hooked up sober.
  • If you have hooked up sober, it was in the morning after a drunk hookup

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  • You guys have never shared a meal together.
  • If you have shared a meal together, it was either late-night pizza or hungover morning meals.
  • He Snapchats you more than he texts you.
  • You’ve never been on a real date with him.
  • If you have been on a date, it was one time. And it never happened again.
  • You’ve never spoken on the phone unless it was 4 am, and you needed him to buzz you up to his place.
  • He never wants to cuddle with you.
  • He chooses even the dumbest plans over you.
  • His friends (the same ones who don’t know who you are) always come before you.
  • You’ve told him a million personal things about you, and he can barely remember any of it.
  • He’s told you he’s “not looking for anything serious.”
  • He told you he was too busy to hang out, then posted a Snapchat story of himself alone on the couch.
  • Part of you is afraid that if you stopped putting in the effort, your relationship would completely fizzle out.

STOP WASTING YOUR TIME. You are cool, and fun and smart, and even though this guy can’t seem to appreciate that, I guarantee there’s someone out there who will.

Ladies, If You MUST Know, Here Are 5 Signs To Tell If A Man Is A Virgin

It is very unfortunate you can’t determine a man’s virginity through intercourse.

The best way to be certain if your Mr. Right is virgin is to ask him outright whether he has had sexual encounters in the past.

As usual there are signs that easy give a man out if he is truly a virgin. However, if you feel too shy to ask him, read this article for clues…

Ask him politely

In men, there are no physical indicators to determine their virginity. This is unlike women where a hymen breaks during sexual intercourse and normally leaves a little bit of blood.

Find the right time and ask your man politely. Since relationships must not be built on lies, he will hopefully openly tell you everything.

Physical relationship with women

A man who is a virgin can be differentiated from a man who engages in sexual escapades by monitoring his relationship with women. A man who is particularly shy around women and is reluctant to touch them in any way is most likely a virgin.

You might notice that, when you or another woman goes to hug or touch him, he becomes agitated and awkward, without quite knowing what to do with his hands.

Test the waters

If you are so eager to know his sexual status, plan a date night and take things to the bedroom.

Most guys will accept your honest invitation and give you the best sex of your life but virgins will quickly whisk away even before you start foreplay. He will be very shy, unable to speak and not daring to look at you.

These signs might simply be inexperienced lovers who still haven’t overcome the jitters when getting intimate with a woman, as opposed to complete virgins.

Quick orgasm

Men who are having sex for the first times are desensitized to their arousal and can’t control themselves to last longer in bed. In worst cases, they might not reach orgasm or have difficulty climaxing because of anxiety.

They are nervous; always thinking about how they are performing in bed.

Clueless during love making

Having sex with a virgin can be the worst day of your life. How?

He begins by touching you clumsily and quickly, without really knowing what he should do and where he should touch. Moving their hands all over your body quickly and in a frenzied manner clearly shows they are virgins.

In Case You Didn’t Know, Here Are 5 phases Of Awkwardness In New Relationships

Have you just entered into a relationship, or you are on the brink of entering into one?

You should expect early days of awkwardness, and uncertainty in the five areas listed below…

Learning of each other’s pasts

Learning about each other’s past can be a little awkward, especially when one of you has been a little wild and adventurous and has quite a lot to reveal.

When you get to that phase, try to be as open-minded as understanding as possible.

Getting comfortable with one other

You’ll also be at the point where you are not too sure of what is cool with your partner and what is not.

Time will take care of this, and soon enough, you both will be laughing at that awkwardness.

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When to have sex

Everyone has their own beliefs and ideas for when the time is right to get intimate with someone you’re dating.

At that point where you are really unsure of where your partner stands on the matter, it makes sense to sit down and have a good chat about it.

Meeting each other’s friends

There is also the awkwardness of meeting and getting along with your partner’s friends.

This will be so especially if you date someone from different social circles from yours.

To avoid this, partners need to advise their friends to be cool and be as friendly as possible before introducing bae /boo to them.

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Meeting the family

So this might necessarily not be something that happens very much at the beginning of relationships, but it poses some awkwardness too.

Being introduced to your partner’s family is usually a serious thing and it often shows that you are both headed towards something more serious than just a relationship.

This is why ladies and guys alike are often fretful and nervous about the date with their partner’s families.

OH DEAR! “I Found Out My Fiancé Is Actually My Brother” Woman Cries Out

A female Reddit user named “oopscest” took to the online site to tell the harrowing story of one heck of a family affair. In a post titled “I found out yesterday that my fiancé and I are related. He’s known for a year,” oopscest (who conceals her identity for obvious reasons), opens up about how she stumbled upon a secret her half-brother/fiancé had been sitting on for 12 months.

Oopscest first describes how she met her partner roughly two years ago at a role-play group, and they’ve been dating since. And here’s where we get the first tip-off of what’s to come: while her father was perpetually absent from her life, she notes how her partner’s family had always been very close, and she “always thought they were perfect.” She didn’t realize the man who seemed to be her fiancé’s father was actually his stepfather until she began working on wedding invitations. (And you thought planning your wedding was stressful.)

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“While working on wedding invitations – my future MIL [mother-in-law] mentioned that my fiancé’s dad is actually his stepdad. I asked to see a picture of his real dad and I nearly passed out when my MIL showed me a pic of my dad,” oopscest wrote.

At that point, the poor bride-to-be realized she was betrothed to her own half-brother, panicked, vomited, and later confronted him. Surprisingly calm upon receiving the news, he “admitted that he’s known for a year but didn’t want to lose me. Since we always planned to be child-free, he didn’t see the problem with just keeping it from me,” she wrote.

She has been very surprised by the responses of Redditors, with many encouraging her to stay in the relationship. Those taking issue with the relationship did not criticize the incest factor, but the violation of trust in that her fiancé could keep such a tremendous secret from her. Her post received more than 3,400 comments in just nine hours.

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However, she remains unsure of how to proceed with her wedding. “I gotta say. The majority of you seem to be totally cool with the idea of brother-sister incest. I know the internet is kind of a depraved place; but I wasn’t expecting that AT ALL,” she wrote. “Unfortunately, I don’t think that same attitude would be mirrored in the offline world. And, even if it was, I’m not sure I can go through life as the girl who married her brother.”

Despite thanking fellow Redditors for their support, oopscest wrote that she is considering deleting her post, and is also considering reaching out to her father and talking to him for the first time in 10 years about this, which I imagine will make for a very interesting conversation.


Myths About Men That Might Be Ruining Your Relationships

It’s a New Year! And with it come goals to be even better in life and in love. However, here’s one big, bold relationship truth: If you bring the same old mindset and misconceptions about relationships into this “new” season, then you won’t have different results.

These myths include;

Men Are Intimidated By Your Success and Independence

Woman independent

The real truth is that men are looking for a partner in love and not a “boss.” The “right man” for you is not going to be afraid of you or intimidated by you. He’ll appreciate all that you have to offer and look forward to partnering with you.

Having Standards and Expectations Will Drive Men Away


It’s very possible that it wasn’t your high standards per say that turned him off, but your delivery. If stating your standards comes with a defensive nature and attitude, then yes, it can be a turn-off. However, if it’s simply you just discussing your desires, then men who are on the same page as you (and that is the key) won’t run at the first mention of what you will and won’t tolerate.

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There Are No Good Men Left out There

There are plenty of good men out there. And plenty of men that are committing and getting married. So don’t let a string of bad dates or the opinions of your friends cause you to lose faith that your partner is out there somewhere.

Your Husband Is Only Driven By Sex


Sex for men is an expression of love and it keeps them connected to you. And if you start thinking about it in those terms, then perhaps you’ll want to connect with them even more!

Your Man Wants You to Be Perfect

Stop putting so much pressure on yourself to be perfect in every area and give yourself some leeway. Your attitude will have a jump in the right direction the minute you do.

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Men Are Emotionless

Men have emotions just like women do, but it’s the expression of those feelings that might be different. This isn’t about good and bad, it’s just that he may handle and show his emotions differently.

Men Don’t Care About Your Needs

You can’t keep getting frustrated with him over things that you’ve never expressed. Communicate early and often and don’t leave him guessing while you’re just mad.

The Color Of Love: NBA Star Dirk Nowitzki Opens Up About Wedding A Kenyan Woman And The Culture Shock During The Dowry Ceremony

The five Kenyan women were covered from head to toe as they stood in front of an African garb-wearing Dirk Nowitzki.

One was the love of the Dallas Mavericks forward’s life. The others were decoys who if incorrectly chosen, would cost the 13-time NBA All-Star a goat as punishment. The 7-foot German nailed tough shots in the NBA Finals and the Olympics, and on this occasion he did the same, correctly picking his bride Jessica Olsson.

“It was awesome,” Nowitzki told The Undefeated. “They took my wife away. They brought five or six girls out and they were all covered. So the first thing I had to do was find my wife. So I’m walking around and looking at how tall they are.

“I guess it’s one of the traditions. If you get it wrong, you got to pay the parents a goat or something. So I was lucky. I smelled her to find the right one. So, I got lucky there. But that was just an experience that I’ll never forget.”

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Dirk Nowitzki and his wife Jessica Nowitzki attend the premiere of the film 'Nowitzki. Der Perfekte Wurf' at Cinedom on September 16, 2014 in Cologne, Germany.

Nowitzki is a worldwide known basketball name. He is the Mavs’ all-time leading scorer, the 2011 NBA Finals MVP, the 2007 NBA MVP and a two-time FIBA Europe Player of the Year. Basketball also introduced him to his wife.

The two met at a charity event for the Sports for Education and Economic Development (SEED) Project on a snowy night in February 2010. It was an NBA All-Star weekend in Dallas. The Senegal-based nonprofit uses basketball as a platform to engage youths in academic, athletic and leadership programs.

Nowitzki was tricked into raising his hand during an auction that resulted in him making a major donation in exchange for a Rolando Diaz painting. He also agreed to go on two dates for charity. But he was also hoping to get a real date with a beautiful woman he met that night named Jessica Olsson, who was working at a Dallas art gallery.

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Dirk Nowitzki arrives at the 2011 ESPY Awards at Nokia Theatre L.A. Live on July 13, 2011 in Los Angeles, California.

Jessica Nowitzki is the daughter of a Kenyan mother and Swedish father. Jessica was raised in Sweden with her younger twin brothers, Marcus and Martin, who are both professional soccer players in England and have also played for the Swedish National Team.

“What made her so special? What made me fall in love with her? First of all, she’s got to be attractive. That’s obviously part of it,” Nowitzki said with a big smile. “And I think we just clicked intellectually. She likes art, she likes sports. Her brothers both played soccer, they were professional.

“She grew up around sports. We both love tennis and we love to travel. We both love kids and family.”

Although race wasn’t a big deal to Nowitzki and Olsson, it became a topic when their relationship became public.

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Nowitzki and Olsson made their first big public appearance on July 13, 2011, when they were on the red carpet at The ESPYS awards together. They received a lot of comments on Twitter when he kissed her after winning an award during the televised show. The Twitter chatter was not necessarily negative, but it was race-related.

Dirk Nowitzki and his wife, Jessica, on their wedding day on July 20, 2012 in Dallas, Texas.

Olsson asked that Nowitzki keep an open mind to the Kenyan wedding. To no surprise, the free-spirited, comical and fun-loving German relaxed, danced to African music and even had an encounter with a helpless goat.

“Her mom threw a wedding party and that’s where some of those photos came from where I had the outfit on with a hat on,” Nowitzki, who loves Kenyan stews and barbecue, said. “It was a special experience. I’ve never, obviously, been a part of anything like that, the dances, the whole experience, the tradition of a wedding down there.

“It’s different. You have to cut a goat. Lots of symbols, all the different things. They really threw us a really traditional Kenyan wedding.”

So what did Nowitzki — a multimillionaire certainly financially capable of providing for his wife — pay in dowry?

“We kind of faked things,” Nowitzki said. “They gave me a little Kenyan shillings and I paid them that. It was literally like a whole-day event. There were hundreds and hundreds of people there.”

The Nowitzki family has quickly grown, as they now have three children, a girl and two younger boys. The plan is for the Nowitzki children to spend time in Kenya and Germany yearly to learn their heritage. Olsson’s mother has died since the wedding, but there are still a lot of family members in Kenya whom the Nowitzkis want their kids to know.

Revealed! What Your Sleep Position Says About Your Best Quality As A Couple

Every couple has a “go-to” falling asleep position, whether it’s tucking your S.O.’s (Special Other) arm underneath so you can properly spoon, or turning away from each other so you can have the most bed for your buck. But what does it really say about you?

Spooning = You’re Secret Sex Tigers

What on the surface appears to be a tender, tight hug from behind is actually bringing you into perfect bump-and-grind mode, which is likely to lead to other things. Everyone says “awww” when they see you, when in actuality, you just did the deed in a random bathroom. The best of both worlds, really.

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Turned In = You’re Disgustingly Sweet To Each Other

If your move is to nuzzle into one’s chest and revel feeling close to their heart,  you either just started dating yesterday, or you’re just so kind and loving to each other that it still feels like the honeymoon period. You know attraction isn’t just about sex; it’s about still giving your S.O. a peck even when they accidentally ordered you a side salad instead of fries.

On The Edge = You’re 100 Percent Committed To Each Other

As one of you drifts away, the other has to reach out and hold them — even if it means both of you teetering toward the edge of the bed. You’ll similarly be there for each other in bigger life events — when you have to do a long-distance relationship, when he gets a tattoo you secretly hate, etc.

Completely Entangled = You Are Nonstop, Passionately Into Each Other

You’re so goddamn in love that you literally sleep with all your limbs entwined and your faces super close to each other. You’re fueled by a passion that makes everyone at a party immediately go “oh woah, yeah, they’re together” (also, you are usually making out in a corner somewhere.) Yours is the kind of relationship that would be turned into a lovey dovey movie.

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Booty Bumpin’ = You’re So Comfortable Around Each Other

If your go-to sleep position is turning away so, you are obviously two goobers who have fortunately found each other in this world. While other couples worry about accidentally farting near the other person, you’re at the comfort level of discussing your gnarly coffee poops on a daily basis. You take “being yourself around the other person” to an entirely new level, and it’s beautiful.

On Opposite Sides Of The Bed = You’re Securely Independent

While all the other suckers are enduring extra body heat on 95 degree nights and sacrificing arm comfort for a feeling of intimacy, you two feel completely fine on your own. You proudly take your side of the bed, turn in whatever direction you please (usually away from each other’s snoring mouths), and have yourself a legitimately flawless night of sleep. And then you cuddle.

HILARIOUS: People Reveal Their Worst First Date Disasters

From getting too drunk to talking about your ex, there are some things you know you should never do on a first date.

But some people have taken bad date etiquette to a whole new level.

A Reddit user took to the site to ask people their biggest turn-off on a first date and there were a lot of horrifying responses – ranging from bringing a parental chaperone to a suitor wearing a wedding ring.

First dates can be difficult due to nervousness and the fact that you want to make a good impression but these people really struggled to impress.

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It can be as simple as one small sentence that can determine whether a second date is on the cards.

One person took to Reddit to say that their date had put them off by bringing along a parental chaperone.

Others joined in to agree, saying that if you’re not old enough to go on a date on your own then you’re not old enough to date.


Her Husband Became A Woman But Wife Reveals How She Coped

A wife has revealed the moment her husband of 12 years revealed he wanted to be a woman.

Kristin Collier, 44, from Oregon, US, had only recently given birth to their second child when her husband, Fred, told her they needed to talk.

‘He admitted to me what he hadn’t wanted to fully admit to himself. He was transgender and wanted to live the rest of his life as a woman,’ the mother of two said.

Now Kristin has spoken to Daily Mail about how she came to terms with her husband’s shock revelation and transition to become a woman called Seda, and why they continue to live as a family – along with Kristin’s new romantic partner, Richard.

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Kristin said she had not previously suspected her husband wanted to be a woman

Speaking to Daily Mail, Kristin revealed Fred’s confession came shortly after the family had experienced a house fire – and had also recently welcomed a son, who was then seven weeks old.

‘I had been with my mum, regrouping after the fire and he said “we need to talk when you get home”.’

Kristin’s husband was reluctant to elaborate until they met, but Kristin persuaded him to give her one word as a clue as to what was wrong – to which he replied ‘clothes’.

'I struggled to accept and then embrace this part of my spouse which wasn't easy at all,' Kristin said

‘As soon as he said that I freeze-framed on what happened on something that had happened early on in our relationship,’ Kristin told Daily Mail.

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‘I discovered a dress that was ripped out at the waist. I had said “what’s this?”  and the last thing I expected was for him to say “sorry, that will never happen again”.’

Fred had tried on her clothes – something Kristin filed to the back of her mind, until the day he told her he needed to talk.

'Despite the fact that we'd never sworn to stay together after her transition here we are still making it work under one roof,' Kristin said

Fred proceeded to confess to his wife that he wanted to be a woman – something Kristin admits was ‘confusing and scary’.

But, whilst the revelation was a shock, the pair did not decide to break up.

‘We were so close as friends and partners,’ Kristin said. ‘We had been together since we were 18. We did not make a decision to stay together no matter what, but we made a decision to stay present and current with each other.’

In time, Fred transitioned to become a woman, Seda, something his wife candidly admits she had conflicting feelings about.

She said the kids’ relationship with Seda is better than the one they had with their father.

‘Interestingly, when Seda was my husband he was pretty emotionally withdrawn and less available to the children. When he transitioned – and told them he of course still loved them – they were not concerned really.’

Kristin hopes that by sharing her story, she may help other families going through the same thing (pictured is her new family, with her partner Richard (left in black)

Kristin hopes that by sharing her story, she may help other families going through the same thing.


Angry Man Tarnishes His Girlfriend’s Sex Game Before She Posts Her Own Version

So men like it simple huh? This young lady must have gone through hell in her previous relationships and decided drama in the bedroom is the way to go. But what she does to this man makes him want to scream……for help! He took to social media to beg ladies to tell her to calm down. Read on;

“I went through my girlfriends chat, she was telling her friend that she will send our story to an instagram relationship page and tell them how ungrateful and unromantic I am, she even told her girlfriend that am bad in bed and my manhood is always soft. Now this is the truth since I have decided to post this before her. My girlfriend is very annoying but she thinks she is trying to be romantic Every time she will be licking her tongue like a snake and winking her eyes like cat all in the name of forming sexy. The most annoying one is when she puts her fingers inside her mouth like a little child and start to lick her lips and press her breast, who does that.

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Sometimes she try to give me lap dance which she know she is on a big side and am slim,she now want to sit on my laps and be doing rubbish,why won’t my d*** be soft. During love making she will be moaning off point and saying really annoying things like call me mummy, baby call me mummy I want you to call me mummy, like how? Maka why?
I have sat her down and asked her to change her ways that I don’t like all that drama but she won’t listen. Recently instead of her to shave her P**** hair clean as I like it, she went to style it and barbed it punk, left hair one side and shaved one side. My girlfriend is just too dramatic and put so much effort to please me with rubbish.
Am a very simple man and not ready for all the drama,if it is time to eat, cook food and serve it let us eat, but my girlfriend will start by dancing from the kitchen to the dinning table, sometimes she will break plates or cup all in the name of being romantic. Time for s3x, open leg let us do this thing, she will lick mouth, lick body, chew bed sheet, lick pillow, pour saliva all over the place, do so much drama by then my erection is weak. I know she will see this but if I have to come public to sound it to her head I will, after all she was coming here before I overtook her.
Ladies talk to her to keep it simple. Thank you.”

Girls, Here Are 10 Things You Should NOT Be Putting Up With From Guys in 2017

2016 was a rough year for women — especially for those who belong to other marginalized groups, too — and many, many men aren’t coming out of it looking too great. This year, I urge you ladies not to take anymore rubbish, so here’s a list of what you should really not put up with from guys in 2017.

Playful Lewdness

I’m not talking about catcalling (although stop it with that too) but rather about unsolicited sexual comments from guy friends in texts and the like. We all love some innuendo and/or sexting with someone you have a sexual relationship with. But if you haven’t established one, don’t let them “joke” that your outfit gives him blue balls, or that you’re crazy in bed. Demand some R.E.S.P.E.C.T!

Pinning My Behavior On Your Menstrual Cycle

There’s a term for men who do this, coined by Jessica Bennet in her book Feminist Fight Club. They’re Menstruhaters, and this behavior is sexist and gross. Your monthly cycle is probably not the reason you’re pissed with him…and be sure to make that clear.

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Commenting On Your Weight

This one seems obvious: It’s out of line for either a guy friend or someone your dating to tell you you’re looking heavier than usual. Choose a world in which men don’t get to have opinions on your size. “You look amazing” is great. “You look toned” is also nice but comments on weight should no longer be in the scope of feedback you need to hear.

Insisting They Are “One Of The Good Guys”

If you for some reason choose not to date that guy, tell him to kindly spare you his thoughts about how he is such a nice guy and how if you want to date jerks it’s your loss. Maybe and possibly, he should see a therapist to work on that sense of entitlement. Doing the right thing in some contexts doesn’t mean he can’t be an annoying in others.

Telling You You’re “Not Like Other Girls”

This “compliment,” which apparently guys still give basically means “I don’t think very highly of women, but you can be the exception to the rule as long as you keep acting in a way I like. Keep up the good work!” Boy, please.

What It Means To Regularly Have Dreams About Cheating On Your Boyfriend

WHY did you dream about that guy from the supermarket yesterday? WHY was he wearing a top hat and nothing else?! What does it mean? Do you have to tell your boyfriend? Are you actually into the weird store guy?!

We all have deeply personal, weirdly detailed dreams that we sometimes just can’t seem to shake out of our heads.

Before we tackle the juicy details, let’s start with the fact that, in the dream, you are trying to convince yourself that you aren’t cheating. Remember, dreams are a conversation with the self, about the self. In real life, what is it you are trying to convince yourself of lately that you know isn’t true? What inner dialogue have you been having with yourself that seems similar to the inner dialogue you had in this dream?

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It is going to be connected to a waking life issue that began around the same time this dream began. And it most likely has to do with your relationship.

Now, as for the cheating aspect of these dreams, it’s important to keep in mind that this is symbolic of something else and is in no way an indication that you are a trashy, little harlot!

It does, however, indicate there is something you are feeling guilty about. In most cases, cheating dreams are caused by someone in the relationship giving too much time and attention to something, which causes the other to feel left out. Are you spending too much time at work, with friends or on some project or goal that might be taking time or focus away from your boyfriend? And if so, are you justifying it to yourself? Ask yourself what you are doing that might be causing your boyfriend to feel ‘cheated’ out of his time with you.

Whatever the case, your dream might serve as a warning that you could be falling into another pattern that will lead to your current boyfriend becoming an ex. When you are able to pinpoint it, you need to change it so that the dreams will stop.

Sure, it’s a little scary admitting there’s a problem in your relationship, but at least the dreams are serving as a warning to help you deal with the problem before it gets out of hand.


Why You Should Keep Some Distance From Your Boo While In A Relationship

For many relationships to grow and thrive, couples need to understand the idea of giving each other space.

Spending a lot of time with bae or boo is good but spending too much time might not be.

Learning to strike a balance between being there and being there too much in a relationship

Here are five reasons why:

Overdependence isn’t cool

You run the risk of becoming too reliant on your partner as well as becoming too clingy.

Dependency is not exactly a bad thing, but you still need to be dependent on yourself at this dating stage.

What if you get into an ugly fight? Imagine what happens if you break up?

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No need to lose friendships because of love


In any case, your partner is meant to be your best friend, not your only friend.

Remain friends with your friends. Go out to events you used to go with them before you started dating your partner.

You knew them before you fell in love, and in the case that things do not go as planned in that relationship, they are the ones who are going to be there for you.

You need to continue being an individual

Of course, the goal of every relationship is to nurture the affair to a stage of greater intimacy on a daily basis.

As much as this goal should be pursued, you also need to continue being yourself.

Interests, goals, passions need to continue being pursued. You might need to be by yourself sometimes to get these things done.

You won’t be missing your partner

Missing your partner has a way of endearing them to you more… it makes you long for their presence, for their touch and this is a good thing because it helps keep the romance and attraction alive.

If you are with them every time and every day, how do you get to miss them?

Me time

Everyone needs to be alone sometimes, and falling in love and getting into a relationship does not magically take away that desire.

You Might Be Suprised By These ‘Ugly’ Things Guys LOVE About Girls

As girls, we sometimes pay too much attention as to how we behave around boys but you might be surprised at some things they don’t really care about. In fact, they might actually like them…Keep reading.

1.How you speak is your own business but for some reason, we tend to think that a girl cussing like a sailor is a turn-off. You will be surprised to know that it is quite the opposite. Of course, if you are on a date with a church minister you might want to re-think your language. In some other cases: girl, cuss away (if that’s what you do). Be you!

2. When you are eating popcorn and you drop some in your bra do you reach up and eat it? Don’t lie – we all do. Yes, we might think that this is unattractive but some men find it actually adorable. Next time you are in the movies let your freak flag fly! Don’t let a single pop run away from your mouth.

3.Break a sweat in front of him. Guys find it cute watching you getting what you want – whether it is a great work out session or you trying to get your new couch up four flights of stairs. Keeping your makeup and perfect appearance in tact is awesome but don’t be afraid to show him your beast mode.

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4.Let your jokes out. As girls, we joke about poop, farts, and excessive hair all the time. It is interesting but nasty jokes actually are something men like about us. We are down to make fun of yourselves and tell the world who we are! Let’s show ‘em!


5.If you are true to one cause or another and are willing to fight for it, get loud and in everyone’s face about it – don’t hide it. Passionate women are such a turn on for a lot of guys. Get wild and mildly obnoxious – your man will back you up and will definitely think how lucky he is to have you.

New Year, New Resolutions! Check Out These Tips To Make 2017 The Year You Have The Best Sex Yet!

As people make their new year’s resolutions for 2017, many of them will be the same: exercise more, drink less, have better sex.

When it comes to the last goal, Sydney-based Dr Nikki Goldstein has you covered.

The sexologist, relationships expert and author spoke to Daily Mail about how to have the best sex possible, giving her top tips for 2017.



While touching and kissing are sometimes very prominent at the start of a sexual relationship, they can die down as time goes on.

This, Dr Goldstein, says, could be holding your sex life back.

‘We’re a hypersexual society that doesn’t incorporate a lot of touch,’ she explained. ‘Upping touch not only brings more intimacy, it can help women to get more aroused and into sex.

‘Kissing a lot and touching a lot is a great way to reinvigorate your sex life.’


While porn can be something fun occasionally, studies show that watching too much of it can lead to decreased sensation when having sex.

The problem, according to the sexologist, is when people forget that porn isn’t real and not something to take tips from.

‘Porn is something that is a fantasy,’ Dr Goldstein said. ‘Porn has to keep doing things people can’t do themselves to keep them interested. It’s a cycle.

‘Despite all the technology advances in sex so many people are still unhappy in the bedroom.’


However ditching porn doesn’t mean you should just keep your sex life vanilla.

Dr Goldstein said that in 2017 you should focus on making your sex about pleasure, to try new things and to see what works.

‘Don’t be scared to experiment with pleasure and try out things you actually want to do, and not what you think you should want.

‘Explore things because of the physical pleasure they might bring not because it’s taboo.


Rather than recommend a slew of high-tech and expensive sex toys, Dr Goldstein recommended going back to basics.

‘Use more lube!’ she said. ‘Lube is the unforgotten sex toy. People think you only need it as you get older, or if you’re not turned on, but everyone should be using lube.

‘Painful sex is your bodies way to of saying stop, something’s wrong. Some of the pain from chaffing or friction can be prevented with lube.


One thing that might be stopping you from having good sex, according to Dr Goldstein, is relationship problems that have nothing to do with the act.

‘Work out if there’s an underlying issues outside of the bedroom,’ she said. ‘If a couple isn’t sleeping together there’s often an emotional problem.

‘Have a glass of wine on the couch, own your emotions, and be open and honest about what is going on.
‘Celebrate what does work in your relationship and sort out the kinks and often your sex life will improve.’


One of the biggest traps people fall into, according to the sexologist, is comparing themselves to others or getting too focused on the sex they ‘should’ be having.

‘Stop pressuring yourself to have great mind blowing sex every time,’ Dr Goldstein told Daily Mail.

‘Have sex because you want to be having sex, not because you know your friend and her husband are having sex three times a week and you think you should be too. With social media we compare ourselves to others too much.

‘Even if you don’t feel like sex, kissing and cuddling with your partner, having a little a play, is great for intimacy.

‘Plus no one is going to tell you when they’re having bad sex, so there’s no point worrying about it.’















Is This The Stingiest Wedding EVER? Bride And Groom Charge Guests For A CUP OF TEA

There have been weddings left, right and centre this season but 1 disgruntled wedding guest took to the Internet to ask if it was reasonable to be outraged at being charged for tea at a wedding.

‘Recently attending a wedding of a friend…I just felt it was a very poor and stingy wedding, at the reception they had a “hot chocolate bar” – they were charging for this (and tea, and coffee….)’ the woman, who went by the username of StingyWedding, wrote.

‘Am I wrong to think if you invite people to a wedding you actually host and therefore provide for your guests? Not expecting a free bar but some table wine and soft drinks surely?’

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The woman provided a picture advertising the hot chocolate bar.

Many people on the Mumsnet forum agreed with the original poster, saying they thought that charging to tea was ‘tight’.

‘If you can’t afford it you don’t charge people more than something costs! £2.50 for a coffee!’ commenter LelsieKnope45 said.

However others thought the issue was a storm in a teacup, saying the woman was being unfair to the couple and that weddings should be about celebrating love.

‘Maybe they just couldn’t afford to cater for everyone and given that places hike prices up for wedding functions I don’t blame them,’ one woman said.

‘It was probably a choice of have guests pay for their drinks etc or not invite them at all. I’d be thankful for the invite. If you don’t like it you can always not buy drinks and just go home.’

I’m not too sure how this would go down in Kenya but hopefully, the couple would have enough support from family and friends to cover the costs….Something to think about.