How to spend a romantic weekend with your spouse

After a long week of working, you need to spend time with your family and rest.

This is how you can spend a romantic weekend with your spouse;

1. Massage

This will help your muscles to relax and improve your body blood flow.

You can go to a spa with your partner or do the massage at the comfort of your home. You can also massage your partner and alternate the procedure.

It prepares your body for the other week of working.

 

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2. Date

Take your partner on a date and have some alone time, just the two of you.

This will help to strengthen your relationship and show your partner how much you love and care for them.

3. Sharing house chores

This may seem menial and almost commonplace but in reality, it is very romantic.

Watching your spouse doing house chores and helping out helps a lot.

This involves teaching your partner to do some of the chores that they know nothing about.

It helps in strengthening your bond.

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4. Watching movie

This will make you relax and relieve all the stress you had throughout the week.

Watch a movie that both of you like and make a great memory out of it.

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5. Picnic

Weekends are always known to be resting time.

Take your partner out for a picnic, observe the features and environment and the pastures.

Take pictures of each other, laugh and make great memories.

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6. Fun games

Playing with your partner plays a great role in your marriage.

It will help in creating a greater bond.

Play games that you love and also train your spouse new games that they knew nothing about.

Playing also helps in refreshing your body and mind.

7. Cooking

Take this time and make your spouse the best dishes that they love.

Teach them how to cook for the meals they do not know how to cook.

You can also make it more fun by competing on knowing who is the best cook between the two of you.

8. Sharing past memories

You can take this moment to remember your past moments even before you got married.

You can look at your old pictures together and compare with your current to see if there is a difference and make some comments on each other.

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9. Workouts

Take this time to observe your health too.

You can go to the gym and workout or even do some home workouts together.

Do some morning or even runs to maintain your weight.

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10. Walks

Take a walk in the evening with your partner and whisper sweet romantic words to them.

Tell your partner how much you care and love them.

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These are some of the ways to know your man loves you

There is nothing sweet as having someone who truly loves and cares for you by your side. These are some of the things that your man will pull to show that they care;

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Making you his priority

You will know someone loves you by the way they treat you. If you are a number one priority in his life or in everything he does then he does love you.

Always there for you

Someone who loves you will always be by your side in times of happiness and sadness. They will never have an excuse of being with you because they treasure you a lot.

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Interested in everything you do

You will see from his interest in you and whatever you do. This involves cooking, cleaning or even singing and dancing. The will always want to be committed to your activities and always offer to help.

 

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Asks for your opinion

Someone who adores you will always ask for your opinion and advice before doing anything in them. They will always consult you before taking any step rather than doing anything they want to.

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Respects your decisions

When you tell someone what you think about something and reasons for your decisions, that person has some love for you. It not only shows that the person respects your decisions, but also you in person.

Its all in his touch

You can also know if someone cares from their touch. The kisses, the hugs and even when you cuddle you will always have that feeling of love. You will always feel safe when around them.

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Confides in you

They will be honest with you on everything and always tell you the truth no matter how painful it may be.

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Things Not To Ask Your Hubby To Do. Because They Will Mess Them Up (Hilarious Photos)

Women are often convinced that they’re better at doing things around the house – and these pictures might just prove it.

Ladies have taken to social media to share snapshots of the times they asked their partners to tend to household chores and childcare duties – with laugh out loud results.

Clearly put out by being asked to carry out mundane chores, some men used the opportunity to play a prank on their wives, while others were feeling so lazy that their attempts at helping backfired in epic fashion.

Women have shared snapshots of the times they asked their partners to tend to household chores and childcare duties – and the results, including this attempt at fixing the toilet, may make them wish they’d just done it themselves

Some of the tasks included put some pasta on the stove,  buy six potatoes for dinner, hang their mirror among other chores…
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‘I knew you were gonna be my headache,’ Otile Brown to his ex Nabayet

Weeks after being dumped by his Ethiopian bae Nabayet, Otile Brown has shared a brief narration on how he met the love of his life.

Otile and Nabayet recently broke up under unclear circumstances prompting him to ask the public to intervene and ask for forgiveness.

‘I remember when we first met in Australia after months of talking on phone for hours everyday without getting bored

You pulled up on me in a black biker short, a big ass 2pac black Tshirt (which is mine nowadays😉) and yeezys sneakers.

With no make up on, no nothing 🤣 you wasn’t trying hard to impress and that is when I knew you was gonna be my headache, coz that’s my type of cool.’

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Otile and Nabayet

Otile went on to praise Nabayet for being a giver and not a taker like most women are.

‘You never ask for anything from me -you’re the type that like to give and never takes and sometimes it’s annoying. LISTEN 👂 

Relationships aren’t easy and the more serious it gets sometimes, the more terrifying it becomes coz we’re young and stupidly cursed but I’m ready to risk it all for your fine ass…

Happiest birthday 🎂 @nabbi__ ila ndo ivo ,I’ll make sure i have something special for your fine ass when we link InshaAllah!.’

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First date conversations to avoid

Securing a first date pretty much means that someone has given you a chance to spend time with them, and so you must be well prepared.

Have you ever watched the local dating shows on TV and cringed at the conversations people are holding? Yikes!

Some awkward things like wanting to know what tribe someone is should not arise folks! Here are topics to completely avoid:

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Religious and political beliefs

This is normally a very sensitive topic when it comes to your personal beliefs. Most people during dates try to avoid talking about such beliefs because you may never know whether they are religious or follow any political affiliates. It’s tricky to say something like your religion, which is premised on things like whether you’ll go to heaven or hell, can be affected by the dirty, secular world of politics. To avoid being in an awkward situation just avoid talking about religion and politics. You’ll be in the clear.

Past relationships and hurts

Ain’t you not trying to get over your ex? And that is why you are having a date,  to get over your past relationship. It is a clear indication when you talk about your previous relationship, means you are still not over your ex. This is a sign that you are just having a casual date and nothing serious will come from the first date. Ladies try avoiding talking about your previous hurt relationships.

Ethnicity and cultural differences

Tribalism is a very sensitive topic and people try to shun away from the topic. Such topics cause uproar between individuals of different backgrounds. To avoid being tribal, it’s safe to avoid such topics to be on the safe side. We are all from different cultural backgrounds and we should be willing to accommodate each other.

Celebrities who slid into DMs and fell in love

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Finances and how much each earns

During a first date, it is advisable to avoid the money topic. You would not want to be labelled a ‘golddigger’ during the first date. Note, when you find your date asking about your financial status during your first date run. This will be a relationship based on financial benefits.

Where the relationship is going after the date

If you will give or get a second date after the first, then that is a clear indication that the date was a success and chances of a second date is evident. You really cannot know where a relationship is going after the first date, asking this question leads to a dwindle and lack of interest in the person.

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Celebrities who slid into DMs and fell in love

Most ladies tend to ignore their direct messages known as DMs to anyone who tries to hit them up due to the fact that the DMs are normally used for hitting up shawties just for a one night stand. Nevertheless, there have been some Kenyan celebrities who chose not to ignore and move with the flow.

Most of them have married each other and are living happily together while others, it didn’t quite make it through to even a second year of being together.

Bahati and Diana Marua

Bahati narrated: “We met before we did the video together. It was a month before then. I was online at midnight and i saw someone had liked my photos, ka sita. Ni usiku, there is nothing to do. Interactions sio mob hiyo time. I was like, who is this? I checked her profile and liked her photos.”

“I asked, ‘Do you like to pray?’ Bahati added.

The dual got married in secrecy in 2017 in a traditional wedding where only friends and close friends were invited.

The two have two biological children and one adopted son. The couple seem to be very happily married.

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Risper Faith and Brian Muriuri

Risper Faith revealed this through her Instagram stories where she told her fans not to ignore their Direct messages since that is where she met her husband.

The socialite married her hunk in a very lavish wedding in the year 2018.

They have been married for almost a year now and both of them welcomed their newborn baby boy this year.

The two are happily married as they have made us believe through their social media posts.

A sign that DMs can really blossom into marriage.

Willy Paul and Susan Mwaniki

“THERE WAS A TIME HE POSTED ON HIS INSTA STORIES THAT HE WANTED A VIDEO VIXEN AND THAT ANYONE INTERESTED SHOULD TALK TO HIM.SO I DID, I GAVE HIM MY NUMBER AFTER HE ASKED FOR IT. AFTER THAT, I DON’T KNOW HOW BUSINESS TURNED INTO OTHER THINGS.” She wrote.

The union between Willy Paul and Susan turned out to be a love and hate relationship.

After Susan sent her number to the musician what seemed to be a sincere form of asking for a job turned out into something else she elaborated.

They dated for one year and broke up after allegations that the Gospel musician used to beat her.

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Reasons why you can’t leave an abusive relationship

We need to understand why we are energetically connected or stuck in relationships that are not good for us, yet we know it.

Trauma bonding is the main reason why women cannot leave abusive relationships.

Women tend to bond with men that they have emotionally gotten attached either through intimacy, children, or conversation. As a woman, if you choose people who are not healthy in your space, you may tend to be very difficult because you do not know how healthy relationships feel or look like.

Your body doesn’t know that you are linking with an abusive person. A trauma bond is bonding with someone who is toxic, abusive. Trauma is what happens over time, it’s not like physical abuse or s33ual abuse. Does not happen once, but over a long time like being passive-aggressive.

Unless you are mindful of how your blueprint looks like, then you’ll be able to identify how an abusive relationship looks like.

When your friends and family see that you ain’t the same person, not the person you once were. Personality has changed, and they have seen things in your partner and ask things like, ‘why are you still with the person?’

You project your feelings to that person that you want to believe that the person you fell in love with is a good person but it’s normally a form of love bombing.  It’s normally a hard pill to swallow when you realize that the person you came to love is not the right man for you because the guy was love bombing you and playing with your emotions.

If she’s not your first choice, don’t waste her time

It is never easy to accept that you are in an abusive relationship, especially when you have children with a toxic man. This is because you do not want your child or children to live without a fatherly figure because you still have hope on the person and you can still see that the man has room to change so you keep blinding yourself.

In order to stop this trauma bond, you have to accept that it’s an addiction. You need to accept that this person is no longer the person you fell in love with. Accept that the relationship is over and you’ve been addicted. Your happiness comes first, and you have to decide on it and stop making decisions that are not geared towards your happiness. Just do things that make you happy and want to try to do different things that will help you from digressing from the toxic relationship.

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If she’s not your first choice, don’t waste her time

If she’s not your first choice, don’t waste her time. Don’t treat her like she’s second-best. Don’t chase her if she’s not the one you truly want to be with. Don’t play games.

If she’s not your first choice, don’t ask her personal questions. Don’t let her open up to you about her past, her childhood or her fears. Don’t let her reveal her heart to you if you’re not ready to love her. Don’t ask for a place in her heart if you’re not planning on staying there.

If she’s not your first choice, don’t awaken her love if you’re not ready to love her. Don’t hold her if you’ll easily let her go. Don’t claim her if you can’t be the one she needs.

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 If she’s not your first choice, don’t stop her from finding the one who would put her first.

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If she’s not your first choice, please leave. Leave and don’t disturb her peace. Leave instead of half-loving her. Leave instead of lying to her. Leave because she doesn’t need you. Leave because she will eventually leave you.

She will leave when she realizes that your presence is not that much different from your absence. She will leave because she learned to choose herself when people didn’t choose her.

If she’s not your first choice, don’t expect to be hers. Because she’s the kind of girl who wants to love until her very last breath. She’s the kind of girl who believes in fairytales and forever and growing old with the one she loves laughing at the same jokes on their front porch.

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She’s the kind of girl who will send you love songs and write you love letters and get your favorite candy every time she sees you. She’s the kind of girl who will give you the world and the galaxies and the universe but she needs you to meet her there.

You can’t meet her half-way. You can’t ask her to suppress her love. You can’t ask her to be number two. She’s the kind of girl who wants it all or nothing and she won’t settle until she finds someone who is ready and not afraid to choose her every single day.

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Here are six things that attract women to a man

Different women have different tastes when it comes to men, while some sleep with a man for his money others are attracted by something else.

Here are things that attract a woman to a man

1.Confidence

There is nothing as sexy as a man who is oozing confidence, a man who knows what they he is capable of and is not scared to go for it.

2. Stamina

Yes you read that right, who would want to go out with a man who cannot keep his erection for more than a minute? So stamina is a plus.

If you have no stamina as a man, kula mrenda, chapa tizi and lets meet behind the tent.

3.Experience

Experience is important maybe it be while looking for a job or not it is paramount. For most women a man who know where to touch and when is a complete turn on.

It would be really uncomfortable and tiring for a woman to keep pointing where her G spot is to a 30 something year old.

As a man just do your homework and then come implement it .

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4. Explore

Milan Kundera once said that

“Making love with a woman and sleeping with her are two separate passions not merely different but opposite.”

Every woman loves a man who loves to explore, a man who is ready to find out what parts of my body will make her orgasm.

It would be really annoying for a woman to start counting all the weekends on a calendar just because she is having boring [email protected]

5.Financial stability

Truth be told, no woman wants a broke man for a husband/wife. We all know pesa hutafutwa but how about you make some mullah and then look for a wife.

[email protected] alone is not enough to sustain a relationship, as most women would say

‘Heri nilie kwenye range Rover kuliko ncheke kwenye boda boda’

6. A clean man

People say mwanaume ni jasho but as a lady I will tell you thats a lie.

Women love a man who has his business together, a good cologne, well fitting clothes, shaven beard and well maintained nails.

We wouldn’t want to lose our precious honey pots to filthy nails, eew.

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Stop thinking about him, because he is not thinking about you ladies

Ladies, do you ever know when you are the second option to a man? Or do you just ignore the signs, that he may be hinting on you that, just maybe he is seeing someone else?

Ladies why would you go out of your way to satisfy someone else’s man knowing very well that he has someone in his life at the moment?

On the other hand, why is it that men will want to eat the whole cake and leave nothing for the rest? You clearly know that you have a beau that you are dating, but will still want to entertain some other lady on the other side.

A young lady narrates her ordeal with a man she thought was in love with her to a point she would do anything and everything for. When the wise men said love is blind, they weren’t wrong at all.

On a leaked direct message, the distressed lady pours out her heart to the man in question over her being played with like a toy. Her emotions were toyed with as she writes how hurt and embarrassed she was after she thought she was with a man who loved her, only to find out that their was another lady in the man’s life who apparently seemed as the main chick.

She bought the guy a TV, Xbox accessories and also supported him whenever he needed it, to a point she gave him Ksh. 2000 just for the guy to take her love for granted.

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She also writes how they used to go on dates with the guy and also how he used to tell her how she was the only one in his life and how he loves her and her alone. Only to find out that the fellow was entertaining another woman.

With no hesitation and remorse over what the guy did, he replied back claiming he was with the other girl everyday and not with her. Stating how he used to post her on his Instagram stories and Snap-chat.

“I Just thought you didn’t care, but I appreciate the 2k and the good summer vibes” he continues. He sarcastically continues telling the woman that she will never be forgotten, that is if he was till loved.

Those comments angered the lady in question, which resulted to exchange of verbal words.

All I can say is, love makes you foolish. It makes you throw every bit of logic away, do stupid things, dangerous things.

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10 Reasons Why People ignore you

Its probably very confusing when  someone ignores you or starts becoming uncertain about you. Have you ever been to a date and thought it was successful only for the  other person not to reply back with either a call or a message?

We have all been ignored one time or another, and we all know that terrible feeling that follows. You keep asking yourself questions, trying to put the pieces together of what you may have done wrong or what may have happened to them.

Sometimes it may not be your fault, but it may be an act of just not being liked or you did something provoking to receive the silent treatment from either your peers or loved ones.

10 Reasons Why People ignore you;

  •  Your presence doesn’t grab attention

When people talk about first impressions, simply means what people think about you or perceive about you when they first meet you. People pay more attention to those who are more self-confident. Maybe the reason why people ignore you is that you don’t give people enough to capture the eye’s attention. This may be the chance to work on your body language, self-confidence and how you approach other people. These things are key to grabbing attention.

  • You are too needy

People tend to ignore or avoid people who can not stand on their own. Your over reliance will make them feel suffocated. Step back, give them some space, don’t always be the one who goes after them, let them also come to you.

  • You have negative energy

People don’t want to be around someone who will drag them down and pour water onto their ideas. As much as in life we may go through rough patches, that doesn’t give you the chance to be negative all your life. Learn to work on your problems, as people tend to be more attracted to positive people.

  • You worry too much about being liked

If you try too hard to be liked, then officially you’ll push people away. People pleasers are everywhere, always trying to hard to please people an act that drives people away.

  • You are too intense.

Having opinions and being passionate about the things you like is good. In fact, it is very important to have a belief system that you believe in, but if you are too passionate, rigid and too intense ready to argue then you will only chase people away. Tone down on your intensity and reserve your arguments for the right time.

  • You are not serious in anything you do

If you have come to be known for not keeping promises or always arriving late or cancelling, you shouldn’t wonder why people are ignoring you. They may claim you are not serious and wouldn’t want anything to do with you. If you don’t take people seriously, neither will they take you serious as well.

  • You don’t contribute much

Have you ever been in a relationship that ended up you just giving? A one sided relationship is not enjoyable, thus driving the other party away.

  • You are selfish

Qualities that generate a well satisfying relationship is selflessness. Thus selfish people normally have a hard time keeping friends and hence most people tend to ignore selfish people.

  • You are dishonest

Sometimes we tell lies to guard our private lives to those we do not trust. But if you are the person who constantly tells lies, then trust is hard to be built.

  • Boasting to much

Occasionally people like bragging over the accomplishments they have made. Doing this once in awhile is not harmful but doing it over and over makes you repulsive and seem arrogant. Let your achievements talk about themselves for if you’ve made it, those achievements will be seen.

All in all, feeling ignored by people may be a very unpleasant thing to feel but if you find this problem in one or two relationships in your life then the problem ain’t you but them.

 

‘No one ever died over lack of [email protected]’ Pastor Burale advises men to zip up

Pastor Robert Burale has advised women to be very careful when it comes to relationships given that they are on the losing end when things fail to work.

Giving his reasons for this Burale says,

As a lady you are at a disadvantage when you get pregnant it is your life that will stop while his still continues.

So don’t get excited when a guy calls you at midnight talking in his deep voice.

The man will move on once you get pregnant and you will waste 2-3 years.

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He advises men to zip up or go home.

Men control your zip as for the women keep the file closed, No visa to Bangkok.

You might chose to ignore my advise and end up a prisoner or might listen and end up a governor, it’s all up to you.

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In conclusion Burale advises men to focus on bettering themselves given that no job market looks for a man with abs

Men stop taking photos holding your crotch. A good job and a better bank account is better.

And please stop sleeping around. Have you ever heard someone has/is dying for lack of [email protected]?

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‘The woman I loved was in love with someone else’ Cries Mungala Mbuvi

Classic 105 radio presenter Mungala Mbuvi has opened up on how he loved a woman who could never love him back.

According to Mbuvi his crush loved another.

In the 1990’s I was in love with a woman named Samantha. I really loved her but she was in a love with a guy called Eric. I guess I was just unlucky in love.

She was lightskin, beautiful but sadly she never loved me.

I do not know why I have bad luck with chicks. Samantha had a friend named Maureen and she was beautiful .

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Well Mbuvi has since moved on from the heartbreak.

Mike Mondo has also in the past talked about how he was dumped for earning too little.

According to Mike the woman felt the Ksh 50,000 he was making was peanuts.

I have been left because of how much I make. It was kidogo. When I started doing radio I used to make 50 g’s a month. This lady I was seeing told me that that was too little telling me that she couldn’t be with a man that was making that little.

And she refused me for that. She left. Now every once in a while she sends messages telling me that we should catch up.

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Terry Muikamba had also confessed that she was once dumped for being too nice.

I was once dumped because I was too nice.

According to the guy our relationship had no drama and he wanted that in the relationship.

 

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From tusome katiba to Mombasa raha, here are words used to ask for [email protected]

 

Intimacy is one of the basic needs for every couple that needs to be fulfilled to keep a relationship going.

Here are words that the youth are using to engage in such.

Asked on how they would ask for [email protected] without sounding needy or asking directly.

Most of them said, currently the best way to say it is by doing so indirectly.

“The best play is to just make a move, not say, ‘Can we have sex?’ Ask if ‘inaweza’.

Sheng is the in thing.

I decided to get the Sheng’ words the youths are using.

Check out the list. Some will use an indirect means to ask.

  • Uko home nikam?’
  • ‘Nataka therapy.’
  • ‘Zinadai mbaya.’
  • ‘Twende Pekejeng.’
  • ‘Kunyanduana.’
  • ‘Kulambana lolo.’

From lamba lolo to rombosa here is what these sheng words mean

Another friend came and joined the conversation and said for him, if the person they are asking for [email protected] from is their spouse, they will go direct.

Kama ni Mpango, ama Team Tangatanga, lazima ukue mjanjez, I mean you have to request like this,

  • ‘Kam tupike supper.’

Other Sheng words for [email protected] include,

  • ‘Mkunaji,
  • kusoma katiba,
  • piga miti,
  • Mombasa raha.’

Just so you know, the best [email protected] is the enthusiastic fun kind that happens naturally.

Now you know how you get your lady to want to sleep with you without ruining the fun that sex demands.

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Reasons why you should avoid online dating

How dangerous is online dating? Countless people have shared horrific experiences about what they thought was meeting a compatible date online, and the risks involved.

 

But it’s not always gloom. There are those who hit it off very well with potential online dates, and we are happy for them.
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Here are other reasons why it is dangerous to do online dating. Read through and decide if it’s for you:

Identity

It is easier for people to hing their real identity online because you never know them. One can pretend to be what they are not in terms of their gender and their physical appearance. They can send you photos which are not theirs. This can be a great disappointment when you know the truth especially if you had fallen for them.

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Hidden characters and behaviors

People tend to bring out their best behaviour online. At times they can send you googled messages that drive you crazy yet they are playing with your mind. One can be of best behavior to win your heart, then later reveal their dark past when you are hooked.

Intentions

You have to learn that not everyone has good intentions with you. They may be psychopaths looking for victims to kill. You should avoid exchanging your photos and details with strangers because they may use them against you.

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Mutual connection

When you are in a relationship, the connection should be mutual. This helps in strengthening your bond and building your relationship. This happens when you spend most of your time together and get to know each other more.

Rejection

When you are in a relationship with a person you have never met, the expectations of the person are ever high. You always expect them to be better or just as you see them online. When you meet and find the comparison differs then rejection comes in. You either reject them or you get rejected.

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Heartbreaks

You are likely going to be heartbroken when the person changes their character and behavior. People get tired of pretending and pleasing you as they were doing online and reveal their shocking true colors,

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The kindest ways to breakup with someone

Being dumped can be the most hurting thing to happen to someone especially if you never expected it.

Letting go of the person you love most is  also the hardest decision for one to make.

However this can be done in more easier and honest ways without hurting anyone’s feelings.

They include;

Ask for it

This is the best and easiest way to ask for a breakup. Tell your partner the reasons as to why you want to stay away from them. When you ghost someone without their knowledge, it will be hard for them to let go especially if they were never ready for it.

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Talk about it

Texting a person or making a phone call is not the coolest way of doing it. Talk with the person face to face and give her the reasons that led to your decisions. This will make them understand you and have a positive thought about the situation.

Give your partner time 

Once you have told your partner, give them time to think about it. Let them tell you what they think about your decision. Let it be a decision made between the two of you so as to avoid hurting feelings of other people.

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Be honest

Once you have decided to part ways with someone, be honest to them. Give them honest reasons why you think the relationship will not work anymore. Let them understand that you are the reason for it all and not them to prevent them from blaming themselves. Never lie to make them better because if they know the truth later on, they will never forgive you.

Mind your words

The way you bring out the words should be in the kindest and most humble way. Avoid using harsh words to them and make them take it in a more positive way.

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The expectations every son anticipates from their mother

Studies show that sons are more connected to their mothers than fathers. This creates a great bond between them that they can confide in them. However there are expectations that they normally want their mothers to meet.

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They include;

Support

Support is the number one expectation that every child expects from their parents. As boys grow they expect their mother to be with them in every step in life. He expects to be supported in whatever he needs to do and not what the mother wants him to do.

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Freedom

When you restrict your son from doing what you think is not right for them, at times they end up being naughty. Give them the freedom they want but with precautions. This will actually create a strong bond of trust between the mother and son.

Role model

At one point in life, the son will grow into a man who will marry and start his family. They will hence look up to you in everything that you do and wish to have someone like you in the future. Most of the time, sons want women who are similar in character to their mother. They also look at what you do in life and tend to copy.

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Guidance

A son needs to be guided at any point in life, in every step. They normally go through some emotional challenges hence need to be taught on how to overcome them. They also need guidance on how to handle a woman or girlfriends when the right time comes.

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Love

This is the number one expectation from every child. They need to be loved and given all the care they deserve. This helps to create a good relationship between them.

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‘Actually I am happy,’ Vanessa responds to Jux’s relationship

Vanessa Mdee has been quiet for some time after her breakup.

This made most of her fans to think that she was hurt because her ex-boyfriend had moved on.

Vanessa broke the silence revealing that she had had nothing against Jux’s new relationship.

She said, ‘I’m not the first and the last to break up’

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Adding, ‘We had broken up like many months ago but we did not make it public. This is because we noticed it could affect most of our fans. I am not the first person to break up neither will I be the last its something normal.

Let people stop attacking me and seeing as if I am the bad one. People get married for years and they divorce after all.

When things do not work out well it is good to part ways. I am actually happy for Juma and I do respect him a lot. So this is the last time I am going to talk about this so whoever has a question should ask now.’

This is what told for her fans who had many unanswered questions in their minds.

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The artiste also thanked all those that supported her music and also urged them to maintain the spirit.

‘For those supporting my music thanks a lot and keep doing so. I am growing in the industry as well as Juma and everyone is happy. I am actually happy and wish them well.’ 

Below is a picture of Jux and his new girlfriend.

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Her fans were of the opinion that she had become more beautiful and happy since the breakup and were happy for her.

Is it because of the breakup?

Is she seeing someone else that makes her such happy?

These are some of the questions that most people were left asking because she seemed to be more glowed up and beautiful.

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