List Of 5 Concrete Reasons Why You Should Avoid Dating A Staunch Football Fan!

So many times, I find myself entangled in football related arguments with ladies, and the more I argue with them on the benefits of football, the more I realize why I might probably wed when am 45.

Why? This is because it always gives me reasons why I should either avoid dating, or avoid ladies who think time spent watching football as a waste of precious time.

Honestly, I can’t live without football and yes I know I won’t marry that small leather ball.

So in regards to that I decided to highlight five concrete reasons why you should avoid a die hard football fan.

  1. COLD NIGHTS

Dear ladies, it is as simple as 1,2,3. Just the way you can stay up all night keeping up with the Kardashians, that’s pretty close to how much sleep we can sacrifice to make sure we don’t miss a piece of football action.

So when am out there with the boys enjoying some Real Madrid vs Juventus match, you better look for my football socks and two pillows because the night will be extra cold.

2. FIXTURES

Basically this would pop up in every point but thing is; If we are dating and we had planned to go sky diving, zip lining or even visit my in laws on a certain Saturday, which I thought there would be no football action, then all over sudden a. football fixture pops up on that same date, there is no way I am missing the game. Sorry.

3. ATTENTION

Ladies love attention. In fact, it’s more of a basic need especially in relationships and this is where football always wins.

Apart from sneaking out of the bed at night to watch a game, we at times would love to invite you or probably say yes to your proposal of accompanying us to the game. Question is; Would you still get mad when my eyes will be fixed on the Television screen instead of your beautiful brown eyes?

A loyal football fan would be like “I mean c’mon it’s 90 minutes only, after that I’m all yours babe.”

4. VIOLENCE

Another major reason why you should avoid a staunch football fan like a plague is the probability of the guy being involved in arguments which later result to violence.

This mostly happens during football derbies, for example; Arsenal vs Chelsea, Manchester City vs Manchester United where both sections of opposing fans normally engage in banters which become heated at times.

We all know what these could lead to and you would not want to turn into his nurse or his shield when beer bottles start flying in the club.

5. EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE

This acts as a cover that joins the other four points.

Your bae will never be happy around you for a couple of hours if not a week when his favorite team gets a huge beating on a Sunday night, after the two of you spent the afternoon all cuddled up.

One defeat won’t hurt as much, till it becomes a habit where Arsenal go for six games without registering a win and that would mean six weeks of a moody boyfriend, which will definitely hurt your relationship.

Secret Revealed! 6 Things Gospel Singer Mercy Masika Does To Avoid Relationship Drama

Gospel singer Mercy Masika is ruling the airwaves, and her star is not about to be dimmed anytime soon.

Away from her music, the celebrated singer is a wife to husband David Muguro and a mom to two beautiful kids.

Her humble personality has seen her win the hearts of many, including her husband.

And while some of her colleagues are breaking their marriages, Mercy remains steadfast solid in her relationship.

Her recent admission about her husband received the praise of many, who indicated they would emulate her. Here is what she said about her hubby David;

Marriage is about becoming a team. You’re going to spend the rest of your life learning about each other, and every now and then, things blow up. But the beauty of marriage is that if you have the right person by your side, and you both truly love each other then you’ll always figure a way to get through it. Marriage is beautiful and I love my husband.

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Recently she spoke to the standard newspaper where she further revealed her secret to a happy marriage.

This are six things she does to keep her relationship strong.

  1. Seek wise counsel. Don’t talk to all and sundry about your relation problems
  2. Submit. This doesn’t mean being a doormat.
  3. Chose your battles wisely. Sometimes I say sorry even when i’m not wrong she says. This humbles him and he learns to say sorry.
  4. Pray. This has kept me standing
  5. Sex. She says you should figure out what your spouse needs
  6. Be faithful,

 

 

Dating single moms: how to choose a present for her children

A number of gentlemen have been there and for sure, dating a single mom is not a straight-forward task. Well, partly because our society still believes in unnecessary myths and prejudices. In addition, a woman with children is usually quite busy and doesn’t have much time for dates.

Her children are a priority and after her children, she will be able to spend time with you. It also becomes trickier during holidays and celebrations because you’re likely to have to buy gifts for her children as well.

Here are gift ideas for your girlfriend that she may use together with her children

1. Bouquet

Many times men buy beautiful bouquets for their girlfriends. These go well with a box of sweets or chocolates. If you found her from a dating site, you probably got her flowers on date one. A friend of mine got his current girl from Russian brides (because he heard the one guarantee that with Russian girls, boredom is a thing of he past …story for another day) but hey, most girls love flowers. Given that single moms are usually very caring of their children, you could go further by doing a hand-made bouquet of fruits. Do your homework though! Make sure that her children have no allergies to the flowers.

2. Domestic appliances

Who said that domestic appliances are not romantic? Women with children are always happy to receive some appliances to help around the house and save time. Not only will these make her happy but it’s a creative way to you show your care about helping her find time for a date with you.

3. Couple clothes

This is if you’re getting serious with her. They tend to be very interesting gifts for women with children and give a purpose of intent to spend the future with her. In this case, you buy matching clothes for her children as well. This could be as simple as his and hers t-shirts with similar styles and a clever message together with those that go with her children. It could be your name, her name and their names.

Again, this is only for those who are getting serious.

On another note however, it is not always appropriate to buy presents for all her family. You might want to consider jewelry.

It is clear that if you know her children, you can’t ignore their birthdays and other holidays. What to present to them?

1. From 1 to 3 years old

Children from 1 to 3 years old will enjoy fascinating books, rocking chairs and wheelchairs, musical, interactive, and educational toys. Don’t buy anything too complicated or very expensive. Children at this age, pretty often, tend to break toys and tear apart books.

2. From 3 to 6 years old

The best things that you can buy for children from 3 to 6 years old are educational sets, children’s pianos, guitars and other things. For example, children who like to pain will appreciate paintings and drawing boards. Here, still, it is better not to buy too expensive things, because pretty soon those will become boring for children.

3. From 6 to 11 years old

This is when everything gets way more interesting. Now, you can present them board games, game consoles, radio-controlled models, and other potentially interesting things for you. Furthermore, you can share your hobby with her children to improve your relationship. You may also consider buying rollers, skates, bicycles, and so on.

4. Teenagers

It is pretty hard to find a good present for teens because too many things depend on your relationship with them and their mother. Usually, teens are way more demanding, and before buying a gift for them, you definitely should consult with their mother. Generally, boys from 11 to 17 years old will like gyro scooters, smartphones, fitness bracelets, gaming keyboards, mouses, gamepads, or headphones. Girls of the same age will enjoy fashion jewelry, an MP3 player, cosmetics, beautiful teddy bears, stylish headphones, smartphone cases, cool backpacks, external batteries (power banks), or flash drives.

Here’s where most women go wrong in a relationship

Today, I want to throw some insights into where women mess up when it comes to romantic relationships.

1. Overstepping their position

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There’s a reason why you are a girlfriend and not a wife. Don’t try to take up wifely duties for a guy who hasn’t ask you to be his other half. Acting like one only makes the guy angry. From here, things can nose diver real quick and trying to get them back in position can be a daunting assignment. If you are a girlfriend play along that line of duty.

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2. Camping

It all starts with subtle signs. Leaving your panty, your toothbrush, your earing, lip balm etc. As the visits intensify, more things get “forgotten” in a man’s house. How a woman ends up being part of the occupants of the house, only God knows. However, this move has caused many men to chase women out of their houses. Don’t make yourself part of the deal you signed alone. Utafukuzwa usiku wa manane!

3. Nagging

This comes as a default setting for women but some are too much. We love the drama as men. It keeps us in check. But sometimes things can go too far. We hate a woman who complains for the bigger part of the day.

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It becomes stressful. There’s already too much stress out here and we seek peace back home. You can’t be part of our headache. The issue has never been what you say but rather how you say it.

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4. Marriage pressure

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Past 27 years, most women desperately want to settle down with a man. It’s no wonder some of them will start asking when you plan to propose to them and your future plans with them. As men, we don’t like this type of pressure. Maybe you ain’t even who we want to settle with. Be calm and wait for that proposal. If you feel that it’s a long time to come through, you can as well hit the exit door.

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It’s post Valentines, and we are all evaluating our situationships.

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The men’s conference went down, and here’s leakage of what was  said about the types of women we men date.

1. Psychopaths

If you haven’t dated this type, guess what, you might ended up marrying one. You’re familiar with those chicks that show up at your house 11pm banging the door like they are being chased. The type that brings up petty drama and end up telling you how she missed being in an argument with you. The type that attacks any female they feel is a threat to them. They even turn physical.

2. Mother-hen

They fuss over you incessantly. Ever had a chick that’d call you at night if you are wearing a sweater coz it’s cold, or that chick who sends you dieting ideas, calling you all day checking on your progress cause your health is of importance for the greater good?

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The type that show up when you having a good time with the boys squad only to tell you they were afraid you’d come home late and they fear you could get killed. The type that write you a shopping list with the exact price for each item. They’re more like a mother to you than a lover.

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3. Ride or Die

FYI: If you fall on one of this please keep her. It’s hard to come by such babes.

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She puts up with anything and people around you think  she’s crazy. They say a woman gives you seven chances to mend your wrong ways before she hits the door. Ride or die hang on for the 100th+ time. She holds on cause of that one nice thing you hold in you. They love you the hard way.

4. Cry babies

Women are generally emotional beings, that’s undisputed. Far from that, some are just petty cry babies. They cry over almost anything.

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5. Twa Twa maniacs

They are the bedroom bullies. The type that have been advocating for women to go for what they want. If you ever asked for time out while on twa twa, that’s the type of women I’m talking about. They leave you confused as much as their ratchetness is a positive trait.

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How to spend a romantic weekend with your spouse

After a long week of working, you need to spend time with your family and rest.

This is how you can spend a romantic weekend with your spouse;

1. Massage

This will help your muscles to relax and improve your body blood flow.

You can go to a spa with your partner or do the massage at the comfort of your home. You can also massage your partner and alternate the procedure.

It prepares your body for the other week of working.

 

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2. Date

Take your partner on a date and have some alone time, just the two of you.

This will help to strengthen your relationship and show your partner how much you love and care for them.

3. Sharing house chores

This may seem menial and almost commonplace but in reality, it is very romantic.

Watching your spouse doing house chores and helping out helps a lot.

This involves teaching your partner to do some of the chores that they know nothing about.

It helps in strengthening your bond.

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4. Watching movie

This will make you relax and relieve all the stress you had throughout the week.

Watch a movie that both of you like and make a great memory out of it.

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5. Picnic

Weekends are always known to be resting time.

Take your partner out for a picnic, observe the features and environment and the pastures.

Take pictures of each other, laugh and make great memories.

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6. Fun games

Playing with your partner plays a great role in your marriage.

It will help in creating a greater bond.

Play games that you love and also train your spouse new games that they knew nothing about.

Playing also helps in refreshing your body and mind.

7. Cooking

Take this time and make your spouse the best dishes that they love.

Teach them how to cook for the meals they do not know how to cook.

You can also make it more fun by competing on knowing who is the best cook between the two of you.

8. Sharing past memories

You can take this moment to remember your past moments even before you got married.

You can look at your old pictures together and compare with your current to see if there is a difference and make some comments on each other.

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9. Workouts

Take this time to observe your health too.

You can go to the gym and workout or even do some home workouts together.

Do some morning or even runs to maintain your weight.

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10. Walks

Take a walk in the evening with your partner and whisper sweet romantic words to them.

Tell your partner how much you care and love them.

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These are some of the ways to know your man loves you

There is nothing sweet as having someone who truly loves and cares for you by your side. These are some of the things that your man will pull to show that they care;

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Making you his priority

You will know someone loves you by the way they treat you. If you are a number one priority in his life or in everything he does then he does love you.

Always there for you

Someone who loves you will always be by your side in times of happiness and sadness. They will never have an excuse of being with you because they treasure you a lot.

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Interested in everything you do

You will see from his interest in you and whatever you do. This involves cooking, cleaning or even singing and dancing. The will always want to be committed to your activities and always offer to help.

 

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Asks for your opinion

Someone who adores you will always ask for your opinion and advice before doing anything in them. They will always consult you before taking any step rather than doing anything they want to.

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Respects your decisions

When you tell someone what you think about something and reasons for your decisions, that person has some love for you. It not only shows that the person respects your decisions, but also you in person.

Its all in his touch

You can also know if someone cares from their touch. The kisses, the hugs and even when you cuddle you will always have that feeling of love. You will always feel safe when around them.

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Confides in you

They will be honest with you on everything and always tell you the truth no matter how painful it may be.

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Things Not To Ask Your Hubby To Do. Because They Will Mess Them Up (Hilarious Photos)

Women are often convinced that they’re better at doing things around the house – and these pictures might just prove it.

Ladies have taken to social media to share snapshots of the times they asked their partners to tend to household chores and childcare duties – with laugh out loud results.

Clearly put out by being asked to carry out mundane chores, some men used the opportunity to play a prank on their wives, while others were feeling so lazy that their attempts at helping backfired in epic fashion.

Women have shared snapshots of the times they asked their partners to tend to household chores and childcare duties – and the results, including this attempt at fixing the toilet, may make them wish they’d just done it themselves

Some of the tasks included put some pasta on the stove,  buy six potatoes for dinner, hang their mirror among other chores…
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‘I knew you were gonna be my headache,’ Otile Brown to his ex Nabayet

Weeks after being dumped by his Ethiopian bae Nabayet, Otile Brown has shared a brief narration on how he met the love of his life.

Otile and Nabayet recently broke up under unclear circumstances prompting him to ask the public to intervene and ask for forgiveness.

‘I remember when we first met in Australia after months of talking on phone for hours everyday without getting bored

You pulled up on me in a black biker short, a big ass 2pac black Tshirt (which is mine nowadays😉) and yeezys sneakers.

With no make up on, no nothing 🤣 you wasn’t trying hard to impress and that is when I knew you was gonna be my headache, coz that’s my type of cool.’

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Otile went on to praise Nabayet for being a giver and not a taker like most women are.

‘You never ask for anything from me -you’re the type that like to give and never takes and sometimes it’s annoying. LISTEN 👂 

Relationships aren’t easy and the more serious it gets sometimes, the more terrifying it becomes coz we’re young and stupidly cursed but I’m ready to risk it all for your fine ass…

Happiest birthday 🎂 @nabbi__ ila ndo ivo ,I’ll make sure i have something special for your fine ass when we link InshaAllah!.’

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First date conversations to avoid

Securing a first date pretty much means that someone has given you a chance to spend time with them, and so you must be well prepared.

Have you ever watched the local dating shows on TV and cringed at the conversations people are holding? Yikes!

Some awkward things like wanting to know what tribe someone is should not arise folks! Here are topics to completely avoid:

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Religious and political beliefs

This is normally a very sensitive topic when it comes to your personal beliefs. Most people during dates try to avoid talking about such beliefs because you may never know whether they are religious or follow any political affiliates. It’s tricky to say something like your religion, which is premised on things like whether you’ll go to heaven or hell, can be affected by the dirty, secular world of politics. To avoid being in an awkward situation just avoid talking about religion and politics. You’ll be in the clear.

Past relationships and hurts

Ain’t you not trying to get over your ex? And that is why you are having a date,  to get over your past relationship. It is a clear indication when you talk about your previous relationship, means you are still not over your ex. This is a sign that you are just having a casual date and nothing serious will come from the first date. Ladies try avoiding talking about your previous hurt relationships.

Ethnicity and cultural differences

Tribalism is a very sensitive topic and people try to shun away from the topic. Such topics cause uproar between individuals of different backgrounds. To avoid being tribal, it’s safe to avoid such topics to be on the safe side. We are all from different cultural backgrounds and we should be willing to accommodate each other.

Celebrities who slid into DMs and fell in love

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Finances and how much each earns

During a first date, it is advisable to avoid the money topic. You would not want to be labelled a ‘golddigger’ during the first date. Note, when you find your date asking about your financial status during your first date run. This will be a relationship based on financial benefits.

Where the relationship is going after the date

If you will give or get a second date after the first, then that is a clear indication that the date was a success and chances of a second date is evident. You really cannot know where a relationship is going after the first date, asking this question leads to a dwindle and lack of interest in the person.

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Celebrities who slid into DMs and fell in love

Most ladies tend to ignore their direct messages known as DMs to anyone who tries to hit them up due to the fact that the DMs are normally used for hitting up shawties just for a one night stand. Nevertheless, there have been some Kenyan celebrities who chose not to ignore and move with the flow.

Most of them have married each other and are living happily together while others, it didn’t quite make it through to even a second year of being together.

Bahati and Diana Marua

Bahati narrated: “We met before we did the video together. It was a month before then. I was online at midnight and i saw someone had liked my photos, ka sita. Ni usiku, there is nothing to do. Interactions sio mob hiyo time. I was like, who is this? I checked her profile and liked her photos.”

“I asked, ‘Do you like to pray?’ Bahati added.

The dual got married in secrecy in 2017 in a traditional wedding where only friends and close friends were invited.

The two have two biological children and one adopted son. The couple seem to be very happily married.

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Risper Faith and Brian Muriuri

Risper Faith revealed this through her Instagram stories where she told her fans not to ignore their Direct messages since that is where she met her husband.

The socialite married her hunk in a very lavish wedding in the year 2018.

They have been married for almost a year now and both of them welcomed their newborn baby boy this year.

The two are happily married as they have made us believe through their social media posts.

A sign that DMs can really blossom into marriage.

Willy Paul and Susan Mwaniki

“THERE WAS A TIME HE POSTED ON HIS INSTA STORIES THAT HE WANTED A VIDEO VIXEN AND THAT ANYONE INTERESTED SHOULD TALK TO HIM.SO I DID, I GAVE HIM MY NUMBER AFTER HE ASKED FOR IT. AFTER THAT, I DON’T KNOW HOW BUSINESS TURNED INTO OTHER THINGS.” She wrote.

The union between Willy Paul and Susan turned out to be a love and hate relationship.

After Susan sent her number to the musician what seemed to be a sincere form of asking for a job turned out into something else she elaborated.

They dated for one year and broke up after allegations that the Gospel musician used to beat her.

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Reasons why you can’t leave an abusive relationship

We need to understand why we are energetically connected or stuck in relationships that are not good for us, yet we know it.

Trauma bonding is the main reason why women cannot leave abusive relationships.

Women tend to bond with men that they have emotionally gotten attached either through intimacy, children, or conversation. As a woman, if you choose people who are not healthy in your space, you may tend to be very difficult because you do not know how healthy relationships feel or look like.

Your body doesn’t know that you are linking with an abusive person. A trauma bond is bonding with someone who is toxic, abusive. Trauma is what happens over time, it’s not like physical abuse or s33ual abuse. Does not happen once, but over a long time like being passive-aggressive.

Unless you are mindful of how your blueprint looks like, then you’ll be able to identify how an abusive relationship looks like.

When your friends and family see that you ain’t the same person, not the person you once were. Personality has changed, and they have seen things in your partner and ask things like, ‘why are you still with the person?’

You project your feelings to that person that you want to believe that the person you fell in love with is a good person but it’s normally a form of love bombing.  It’s normally a hard pill to swallow when you realize that the person you came to love is not the right man for you because the guy was love bombing you and playing with your emotions.

If she’s not your first choice, don’t waste her time

It is never easy to accept that you are in an abusive relationship, especially when you have children with a toxic man. This is because you do not want your child or children to live without a fatherly figure because you still have hope on the person and you can still see that the man has room to change so you keep blinding yourself.

In order to stop this trauma bond, you have to accept that it’s an addiction. You need to accept that this person is no longer the person you fell in love with. Accept that the relationship is over and you’ve been addicted. Your happiness comes first, and you have to decide on it and stop making decisions that are not geared towards your happiness. Just do things that make you happy and want to try to do different things that will help you from digressing from the toxic relationship.

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If she’s not your first choice, don’t waste her time

If she’s not your first choice, don’t waste her time. Don’t treat her like she’s second-best. Don’t chase her if she’s not the one you truly want to be with. Don’t play games.

If she’s not your first choice, don’t ask her personal questions. Don’t let her open up to you about her past, her childhood or her fears. Don’t let her reveal her heart to you if you’re not ready to love her. Don’t ask for a place in her heart if you’re not planning on staying there.

If she’s not your first choice, don’t awaken her love if you’re not ready to love her. Don’t hold her if you’ll easily let her go. Don’t claim her if you can’t be the one she needs.

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 If she’s not your first choice, don’t stop her from finding the one who would put her first.

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If she’s not your first choice, please leave. Leave and don’t disturb her peace. Leave instead of half-loving her. Leave instead of lying to her. Leave because she doesn’t need you. Leave because she will eventually leave you.

She will leave when she realizes that your presence is not that much different from your absence. She will leave because she learned to choose herself when people didn’t choose her.

If she’s not your first choice, don’t expect to be hers. Because she’s the kind of girl who wants to love until her very last breath. She’s the kind of girl who believes in fairytales and forever and growing old with the one she loves laughing at the same jokes on their front porch.

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She’s the kind of girl who will send you love songs and write you love letters and get your favorite candy every time she sees you. She’s the kind of girl who will give you the world and the galaxies and the universe but she needs you to meet her there.

You can’t meet her half-way. You can’t ask her to suppress her love. You can’t ask her to be number two. She’s the kind of girl who wants it all or nothing and she won’t settle until she finds someone who is ready and not afraid to choose her every single day.

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Here are six things that attract women to a man

Different women have different tastes when it comes to men, while some sleep with a man for his money others are attracted by something else.

Here are things that attract a woman to a man

1.Confidence

There is nothing as sexy as a man who is oozing confidence, a man who knows what they he is capable of and is not scared to go for it.

2. Stamina

Yes you read that right, who would want to go out with a man who cannot keep his erection for more than a minute? So stamina is a plus.

If you have no stamina as a man, kula mrenda, chapa tizi and lets meet behind the tent.

3.Experience

Experience is important maybe it be while looking for a job or not it is paramount. For most women a man who know where to touch and when is a complete turn on.

It would be really uncomfortable and tiring for a woman to keep pointing where her G spot is to a 30 something year old.

As a man just do your homework and then come implement it .

Dressing like a fire fighter to bed kills the mood – shouts Captain Kale

4. Explore

Milan Kundera once said that

“Making love with a woman and sleeping with her are two separate passions not merely different but opposite.”

Every woman loves a man who loves to explore, a man who is ready to find out what parts of my body will make her orgasm.

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5.Financial stability

Truth be told, no woman wants a broke man for a husband/wife. We all know pesa hutafutwa but how about you make some mullah and then look for a wife.

[email protected] alone is not enough to sustain a relationship, as most women would say

‘Heri nilie kwenye range Rover kuliko ncheke kwenye boda boda’

6. A clean man

People say mwanaume ni jasho but as a lady I will tell you thats a lie.

Women love a man who has his business together, a good cologne, well fitting clothes, shaven beard and well maintained nails.

We wouldn’t want to lose our precious honey pots to filthy nails, eew.

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Stop thinking about him, because he is not thinking about you ladies

Ladies, do you ever know when you are the second option to a man? Or do you just ignore the signs, that he may be hinting on you that, just maybe he is seeing someone else?

Ladies why would you go out of your way to satisfy someone else’s man knowing very well that he has someone in his life at the moment?

On the other hand, why is it that men will want to eat the whole cake and leave nothing for the rest? You clearly know that you have a beau that you are dating, but will still want to entertain some other lady on the other side.

A young lady narrates her ordeal with a man she thought was in love with her to a point she would do anything and everything for. When the wise men said love is blind, they weren’t wrong at all.

On a leaked direct message, the distressed lady pours out her heart to the man in question over her being played with like a toy. Her emotions were toyed with as she writes how hurt and embarrassed she was after she thought she was with a man who loved her, only to find out that their was another lady in the man’s life who apparently seemed as the main chick.

She bought the guy a TV, Xbox accessories and also supported him whenever he needed it, to a point she gave him Ksh. 2000 just for the guy to take her love for granted.

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She also writes how they used to go on dates with the guy and also how he used to tell her how she was the only one in his life and how he loves her and her alone. Only to find out that the fellow was entertaining another woman.

With no hesitation and remorse over what the guy did, he replied back claiming he was with the other girl everyday and not with her. Stating how he used to post her on his Instagram stories and Snap-chat.

“I Just thought you didn’t care, but I appreciate the 2k and the good summer vibes” he continues. He sarcastically continues telling the woman that she will never be forgotten, that is if he was till loved.

Those comments angered the lady in question, which resulted to exchange of verbal words.

All I can say is, love makes you foolish. It makes you throw every bit of logic away, do stupid things, dangerous things.

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10 Reasons Why People ignore you

Its probably very confusing when  someone ignores you or starts becoming uncertain about you. Have you ever been to a date and thought it was successful only for the  other person not to reply back with either a call or a message?

We have all been ignored one time or another, and we all know that terrible feeling that follows. You keep asking yourself questions, trying to put the pieces together of what you may have done wrong or what may have happened to them.

Sometimes it may not be your fault, but it may be an act of just not being liked or you did something provoking to receive the silent treatment from either your peers or loved ones.

10 Reasons Why People ignore you;

  •  Your presence doesn’t grab attention

When people talk about first impressions, simply means what people think about you or perceive about you when they first meet you. People pay more attention to those who are more self-confident. Maybe the reason why people ignore you is that you don’t give people enough to capture the eye’s attention. This may be the chance to work on your body language, self-confidence and how you approach other people. These things are key to grabbing attention.

  • You are too needy

People tend to ignore or avoid people who can not stand on their own. Your over reliance will make them feel suffocated. Step back, give them some space, don’t always be the one who goes after them, let them also come to you.

  • You have negative energy

People don’t want to be around someone who will drag them down and pour water onto their ideas. As much as in life we may go through rough patches, that doesn’t give you the chance to be negative all your life. Learn to work on your problems, as people tend to be more attracted to positive people.

  • You worry too much about being liked

If you try too hard to be liked, then officially you’ll push people away. People pleasers are everywhere, always trying to hard to please people an act that drives people away.

  • You are too intense.

Having opinions and being passionate about the things you like is good. In fact, it is very important to have a belief system that you believe in, but if you are too passionate, rigid and too intense ready to argue then you will only chase people away. Tone down on your intensity and reserve your arguments for the right time.

  • You are not serious in anything you do

If you have come to be known for not keeping promises or always arriving late or cancelling, you shouldn’t wonder why people are ignoring you. They may claim you are not serious and wouldn’t want anything to do with you. If you don’t take people seriously, neither will they take you serious as well.

  • You don’t contribute much

Have you ever been in a relationship that ended up you just giving? A one sided relationship is not enjoyable, thus driving the other party away.

  • You are selfish

Qualities that generate a well satisfying relationship is selflessness. Thus selfish people normally have a hard time keeping friends and hence most people tend to ignore selfish people.

  • You are dishonest

Sometimes we tell lies to guard our private lives to those we do not trust. But if you are the person who constantly tells lies, then trust is hard to be built.

  • Boasting to much

Occasionally people like bragging over the accomplishments they have made. Doing this once in awhile is not harmful but doing it over and over makes you repulsive and seem arrogant. Let your achievements talk about themselves for if you’ve made it, those achievements will be seen.

All in all, feeling ignored by people may be a very unpleasant thing to feel but if you find this problem in one or two relationships in your life then the problem ain’t you but them.

 

‘No one ever died over lack of [email protected]’ Pastor Burale advises men to zip up

Pastor Robert Burale has advised women to be very careful when it comes to relationships given that they are on the losing end when things fail to work.

Giving his reasons for this Burale says,

As a lady you are at a disadvantage when you get pregnant it is your life that will stop while his still continues.

So don’t get excited when a guy calls you at midnight talking in his deep voice.

The man will move on once you get pregnant and you will waste 2-3 years.

‘The woman I loved was in love with someone else’ Cries Mungala Mbuvi

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He advises men to zip up or go home.

Men control your zip as for the women keep the file closed, No visa to Bangkok.

You might chose to ignore my advise and end up a prisoner or might listen and end up a governor, it’s all up to you.

What Daddy Owen does to reassure his wife about female stalkers

In conclusion Burale advises men to focus on bettering themselves given that no job market looks for a man with abs

Men stop taking photos holding your crotch. A good job and a better bank account is better.

And please stop sleeping around. Have you ever heard someone has/is dying for lack of [email protected]?

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‘The woman I loved was in love with someone else’ Cries Mungala Mbuvi

Classic 105 radio presenter Mungala Mbuvi has opened up on how he loved a woman who could never love him back.

According to Mbuvi his crush loved another.

In the 1990’s I was in love with a woman named Samantha. I really loved her but she was in a love with a guy called Eric. I guess I was just unlucky in love.

She was lightskin, beautiful but sadly she never loved me.

I do not know why I have bad luck with chicks. Samantha had a friend named Maureen and she was beautiful .

‘I was earning 50k,’ Mike Mondo reveals woman rejected him over ‘little’ salary

Well Mbuvi has since moved on from the heartbreak.

Mike Mondo has also in the past talked about how he was dumped for earning too little.

According to Mike the woman felt the Ksh 50,000 he was making was peanuts.

I have been left because of how much I make. It was kidogo. When I started doing radio I used to make 50 g’s a month. This lady I was seeing told me that that was too little telling me that she couldn’t be with a man that was making that little.

And she refused me for that. She left. Now every once in a while she sends messages telling me that we should catch up.

Mike Mondo and his bae

Terry Muikamba had also confessed that she was once dumped for being too nice.

I was once dumped because I was too nice.

According to the guy our relationship had no drama and he wanted that in the relationship.

 

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