Check Out 5 VERY Simple Tricks That Will Help You Master The Art Of FLIRTING Successfully

I’m not sure how many of you remember Would Like to Meet?

It was a popular BBC show that taught people who struggled to find a relationship how to flirt, communicate and dress more effectively.

I was the flirting and body language expert and for years studied and taught body language techniques to all different types of people. Of all these techniques, those involving eye contact were the most successful of all.

Which is hardly surprising when you consider we communicate more with our eyes than any other part of our body.


Here’s five tried-and-true techniques that really work.

1. The four-and-a-half second scan
A normal face scan lasts three seconds, scan for four-and-a-half and it’s clear they’ve ‘caught your eye’.

Eye contact of more than 10 seconds between two people means one of two things: you’re about to fight or have sex (well, you want to anyway).

Prolonged eye contact produces intense emotional reactions regardless of whether it’s a fist or a pair of lips heading your way.

It activates the nervous system, raises our heart rate and blood flow and stimulates the production of certain hormones.

Just about everyone knows being watched is a sign someone’s interested, so if you want to subtly make your intentions known, this is the way to do it.

2. The slide and settle
Let your eyes settle on someone so they’re aware you’ve noticed them, then as they’re still watching you, slide your eyes around the room before settling back on them again.

This effectively says, ‘You instantly attracted me and you’re still the pick of the room even after I’ve checked out the competition.’

One other point while we’re on the topic of eye slides – if you’re interested, it’s best to break the very first eye contact made by dropping your eyes straight down, then directly up again to lock eyes after a few seconds.

If someone’s eyes instead slide away from yours to the side or upward and don’t return after a minute or two, they’re almost definitely not interested.

black woman flirt

3. The flirting triangle
Eye movement studies show we look at different parts of other people’s faces depending on the situation and level of attractiveness.

When looking at strangers or in business situations, we make a small triangle by moving our eyes from eye to eye, dipping them as we move across the bridge of the nose. With friends or in more friendly social situations, the triangle widens as our eyes drop below eye level to include the nose and the mouth.

With lovers and people we fancy, the triangle broadens even further, dropping below the mouth to include the breasts and other good bits like the genitals.

4. Blink if you fancy them
It’s easy to see where the term ‘batting your eyelashes’ originated from: if someone looks at us and likes what they see, they tend to blink more.

Because the brain associates rapid blinking with finding someone sexually attractive, the more you blink at someone, the more attracted you feel to them. This, of course, can be manipulated for your benefit! You can increase the blink rate of the person you’re talking to, by blinking more yourself.

If the person likes you, they’ll unconsciously try to match their blink rate to keep in sync with you, which in turn, makes you both feel more attracted to each other! Don’t automatically assume slow blinking means disinterest, however.


5. Wink if you want more
Nudge, nudge, wink, wink jokes and Carry On films have turned a once sexy flirt tool into a bit of a joke.

But, a quiet wink matched with a sexy smile can be incredibly bonding simply because it’s secret and implies the two of you are closer than others present.

So ignore the bad press: delivered at the right moment, a simple wink can be devastatingly effective.

Try a two-eyed wink for variation by blinking in slow motion, consciously slowing it down to half or a third of the normal speed (the average blink lasts one fortieth of a second).

How I Dropped Off My Boyfriend’s Mpango Wa Kando At His House – Female Taxi Driver Discloses

It was a normal day for this female taxi driver as she got a request to pick up and drop off another female passenger.

One woman, who drives an Uber taxi has taken to social media to recount how she unknowingly dropped off her boyfriends side chick to his apartment.

According to the posts, the female taxi driver had been told by her boyfriend that he was leaving town to go visit his ailing mother. So of course, as the understanding girlfriend she bid him goodbye as she left to go to work.

Here is her story;

So I drive for uber why I just pick this girl up and drop her off to a d**k appointment and the d**k appointment was my mans house


She put the apartment complex address not the actual apartment number …… PLEASEEEE OMG

Her boyfriend and shes so excited She hasn’t seen him in forever blah blah blah I’m relating I’m like yeah my man just left out of town

We parted ways earlier this morning from his apartment he got in his car I got in mine he drove off like he was going to the airport

My man told me he was going to ny to see his mom she’s in the hospital he had luggage packed an everything I stayed with him the night befor

We in the car and we just riding she telling me about herself I let her help herself to my dam water In my backseat

She was playing music about love that was relating to my dam man the whole time and im in the car like yasssssss

She’s like ok I got the number at this point I’m like ok we counting the building numbers down as we are riding through the buildings

She’s getting the apartment building number while I’m saying this via txt I drive to the gate that’s open even though it’s a exit

Anyways fast forward to us pulling up to the gate at the apartment complex I’m like my boyfriend lives out here

my stomach starts to drop as we get closer to a familiar building and I see his car outside at this point I’m like

He come out the house ready to assist with luggage AND THE DEVIL ROSE UP OUT OF ME LIKE ARE YOU DEAD A**RIGHT NOW he runs

she said “I think this is it right here this is his car”

As I’m hitting him I guess the nurturing women ig her decided to protect “our mAn” and she tries HITS me

anyways this is the reason I now have new luggage

His dum a** couldn’t eat me to the door before I started beating his a** he was gone leave her outside with me too lol sad

It dawned on me when I was tweeting the first tweet to tell the story the luggage was in my car

My navigation telling me to turn around forgot to end the ride

At this point my heart hurts I’m tired I can’t fight no more so I’m calling my friends jazz and deneka and I’m hysterical

in the seat as I’m getting in the car she charged at me again couldn’t get to me she kicks my car this ni**a yelling telling me to leave

He just seemed like he was protecting her when trying to break it up and I’m his girl ain’t that crazy she talking crazy at this point

At the point where it hits me my anger became towards her she don’t even know what’s going on so I turn on her

b**ch not even knowing her luggage still in the car she willing to wear the same outfit for god knows how long to protect her man”.


Relationship Problems You Just Can’t Fix

Heart breaks, arguments and lies are common in relationships. For some relationships they never stop because both of you can’t do anything well together. Before you know it, everything starts to fall apart and because you don’t want to be called single yet you know that relationship is not working and will never work, you keep trying. Now you need to wake up and accept that you can’t fix it and even if you try trapping them by getting pregnant or making that woman pregnant it won’t just work.

When do you know that you can’t fix the problem?

1.) There is chronic infidelity

Being in a relationship with a serial cheater is hard. This guy or lady constantly cheats and keeps asking for forgiveness and before you know it, they are right back at it, they’ll never change. If they can’t leave all the other affairs and have an only affair with you then you will never be their only true love. The truth is that you can do anything to make them happy but they will never appreciate you because that’s who they are. Cheating is a lot deeper than just stepping out on your partner. It can make your partner feel worthless, inadequate, not good enough for you, etc. If you’re constantly making your partner feel like he/she isn’t worthy of ALL of your love then you’re bound to be single again. Here’s your last chance: have a serious, open conversation about the cause of your infidelity without placing blame on the person who’s suffering from your actions. If it doesn’t work after this confrontation then you just can’t fix it.

2.) No trust

If you can’t trust them then you can’t keep them. When he or she keeps lying then trust becomes an issue so you will have a hard time always snooping to find out from his or her friends whether its true they are with your spouse. There people who never say the truth to their partners; they are never open about their future plans, their family h ow much they earn, the projects they are doing. They basically never have the truth coming out of their mouths. If they don’t open up yet you are meant to be each others support system, then it’s not worth it because that means they’ll be lying about who they truly are. Relationships like these chip away at your self-esteem and may result in you feeling anxious or disappointed in the relationship and probably unknowingly distancing yourself from your partner.

3.) Secrets

We all have them. The real problem with secrets is they eventually come out, at least partially. A careless word, a gesture, even a nightmare and you suddenly have a clue that there is something he has never told you. That is an intolerable state of affairs. If you keep so many secrets from each other then that’s going to be a hard relationship to keep because with all these secrets come with no trust.Women or men who never put things straight at the beginning of a relationship will always have to cover up a lie with another and soon the secret will be out. If you have a child from a previous relationship .don’t hide it just tell them and if they can’t handle it then leave or break up. Trust me when it finally gets out, you won’t be able to fix it. You can’t keep that secret in a relationship forever so you can’t fix it with a secret.

4.) Narcissistic partner

It’s always about them, how they feel and how they matter more than you. Seriously you need to take the attention off yourself sometimes and focus on your partner. Spend a day catering to your significant other just to show him/her that you’re fully aware you’re not in a relationship with yourself. It’s always them calling, sending messages they basically do more than the significant other in the relationship. Selfish partners well its hard to fix that also unless they really feel you are more important than them, then they’ll always be more important than you. If your partner truly has narcissistic personality disorder (as opposed to someone with narcissistic traits), maintaining your relationship is going to be an uphill task. Most of the time, they criticize you for making their life miserable as you stop life from being all about them and want them to make it about you as well.

5.) You have incompatible s3x drives

For most people, a mutually fulfilling s3x life is incredibly important in a long-term relationship. That’s exactly why you should establish your s3xual compatibility early on. If your spouse has zero interest in sharing s3xual pleasures but you treasure your s3xuality, your partner might end up feeling less interesting to you. And you may begin to feel that a marriage or relationship without s3x is unacceptable. It’s unfortunate but you can’t teach them and this may lead to one of you cheating because you are so incompatible when it comes to bedroom matters. So it is important to establish the s3xual compatibility between you and your partner at some point in the relationship before you both seriously commit to each other for the long term. You need to know that a happy, long-term relationship is a mutually fulfilling s3x life.

These are just some few things you can’t fix, in case you notice more don’t go spending money at a counselors’ office just break up and find someone whose issues you can fix and they can as well fix yours and call it what it should be.

Kenyan Women Savagely Attack Bi Mswafari After She Told Single Mothers This

Citizen TV’s relationship counsellor Bi Mswafari is one of the most popular personalities around. She has managed to create a niche for herself in the flooded showbiz industry. Known for her role of advising married couples, Bi Mswafiri has managed to gain both ardent fans and haters. She also has a huge following.

Bi Mswafari who is always known for teaching women how to be submissive to their husbands, forgive their men whenever they do wrong and cook for them.

Recently, she was savagely mauled by Kenyan women on social media. Last weekend, when discussing the topic on whether single mothers should get married with their children or not, Bi Msawfiri on live TV, said that single mothers should leave their children at home when getting married.

According to her, a woman should not trust a stepfather with her children especially girls. She urged that it could be safer to leave your children with your mother rather than going with them to your new husband. But this did not go well with single mothers. 

This generated a heated debate on social media and as usual, women came out in large numbers to savagely attack Bi Mswafiri. Most of them claim that she is irrelevant and her advice always favours men not women.

Here are some of the comments…

That women is a traditionalist, if you listen to her she insinuates women should ‘worship their husbands’ . Hizo enzi za mabibi kuitika mabwana wakikohoa ziliisha. We are in a new era.

Enny: In Kikuyu we say ‘weda mburi wedaga nginya kamukwa kayo’ meaning the man should also want my kid too meaning I wont have to leave my kid at home in short popote niendapo mtoto wangu ataenda Kare gane.

Liz: You either love me with my baggage or leave me alone…My kid comes first na siwezi wacha yeye nyuma…I can’t…That’s my treasure.

Lilian angrily retorted, “So you chose your happiness over your child happiness. For a man. You deny your kid, your love, attention and just you for a man..Chiiiie???????????? kwani what is he offering, eternal life, life forever, life after death, surly stick to Jesus he has all this and he is a man.”

Sharon: One thing about this stupid woman, she worships men, no way am going to leave my kid for a man kama hatanipenda na mtoto wangu boss tembeza kiatu, ata tukimeet ya kwanza before my name is my pride, my label, mama Belva.

Renee: Most of her ideas do not work in the current society. Everything has changed I wonder how she expects these old school ideas to still hold. She once said “mume avuliwe koti, atiliwe maji kwa bafu….. Bra bra bra,. Kwani ni toto? Shower zingolewe ama? N all this for what benefit?. Me thinks couples should be real to one another.

Awino: People still watch and listen to that old hag who has been left behind by the world. The last time i watched is when she said that married men do not seduce ladies for MWK it is the ladies who go for them.

Aoko: What that woman smokes only God knows. I stopped watching her crap.

Shikoh: Ashindwe sana…ati ni kazi ya mama kulipia watoto fees.

Stacey: Mimi huyu mama anafaa kutolewa kwa TV kabisa izi advice zake apeleke gishagi kule ametoka, she has outlived her relevance.

Juliet: Kitanda usichokilalia hujui kunguni mwake, maybe she thinks it’s someone’s fault to be a single mum.

Juma: Watoi wangu mbele mimi nyuma.

Rozy: Ukinunua ng’ombe lazima utaikubali na kamba yake…so if a man wants me and am single he should accept my kids too. Kwanza the first thing I will tell him nina watoi wawili, their isn’t half a deal you either in or out.

Favor: You either love me with my baggage or leave me alone…My kid comes first na siwezi wacha yeye nyuma…I can’t…That’s my treasure.

Girlfriend attacks boyfriend with hot water following a love dispute

A middle-aged man from Kang’oo village in Gatundu North Sub County is recovering from grave burns after his girlfriend poured hot water on his chest following a love dispute.

Peter Waithaka is said to have engaged in a domestic row with Leah Nyambara on 10th March 2017 at Kang’oo shopping centre leading to the attack.

‘Nyambara came as I was taking my beer at a local bar and started shouting at me; I asked her to leave me alone and as I took more beer with my friends, she went to her house, boiled water and using a thermos she carried the hot water to where we were. She splashed the water on my chest unexpectedly. She is suspecting that I have another girlfriend and that prompted the row,’ narrated Waithaka.

Speaking while grimacing in pain outside his house in Kang’oo on Sunday, Waithaka said he immediately fell unconscious and was rushed to Igegania level four for urgent medical attention where he was admitted for three days before he was discharged. He revealed that the condition of his wounds had since improved following quick and effective medication.

He said that the said girlfriend has since gone into hiding after being confronted by fuming locals who wanted to lynch her. ‘The young lady is a no go zone. She is ever in fights with us but the Waithaka incident was extreme. We are warning her to continue hiding because we will not allow her to reside in our peaceful village,’ said John Mwangi,’ a resident.

The ailing man reported the matter to Mwea police officers who according to him are yet to apprehend Nyambara.

Waithaka now wants action taken against Nyambara who owns a green grocery shop before she does more harm to him. He also wants the hospital bill to be paid by Nyambara.

Nyambara joins a list of women involved in domestic abuse against their husbands, with wives resorting to using hot water to burn their men, with the recent one happening in Nyeri County.

Why your relationship issues are your business

You need to stop making social media your album of relationship issues especially when it’s a non issue. The kind of women who post their mpango wa kando on social media, well that’s a bit immature and unnecessary. The one who calls the mpango wa kando and tells them to leave their husband that’s also not your assignment, the one who goes to his office to cause drama, that’s also very timely and embarrassing and finally the one who burns down their car or paints it with insults or even kill them, it’s not a solution. Women all these is a lot of work that you need to stop doing. It doesn’t matter how serious it is but there’s always a way of handling issues.

Why you shouldn’t post on social media

Because most people don’t really care. It’s just like any other story to them. Very few people will turn up at your door step to embrace and comfort you. You are going to be the talk of town and yes people are really going to participate with their contributions to more than 100 comments. More energy is needed to read them especially when looking for all the negative ones that will make you feel better. More pain as other people will think you are the problem and others will even do a photoshop of your photo and mpango wa kando and comment how she looks better than you. You will lose your friends’ and most of all your husband’s respect. We completely understand that you are hurt, but don’t stoop too low to post photos and abusive words on face book.

Stop calling your competitor

Most women totally do this and it makes them buy credit that’s enough to mark their territories by abusing the other woman terribly. Well you sound ridiculous when you are talking and trust me mwk is going to report you to hubby and he might deny the allegations, warn you against calling her or even strengthen their relationship as now that you know, he’ll think so am free and there is really nothing to hide. So don’t call that other woman especially when alone, you’d rather call while he is there, put it on loud speaker and ask him to talk rather than snoop and get hurt.H ave you ever noticed how much energy you use to abuse her and how you even get angrier than you were before you spoke to her because she won’t answer your burning questions while others are so arrogant that they tell you how that is equally their husband. So just save yourself the energy and stop playing detective.

You show up at his and her office and cause drama

You do know this will cost you fare and the worst part is you will be very embarrassed and he might lose his job. On the other hand you might end up fighting with this lady and it will as well cost you your respect. So don’t just show up.Wait for him at home.The commotion you cause in the office won’t put either of them in a position to answer you. If you really respect yourself don’t show up in his office or her office with your karate gloves on, because I’m sure if you watched yourself in a video after that, you would wonder which devil made me do that. Wait for him at home and deal with your house issues at home. The office is not your house where you air your dirty linen for people to know. Remember wise women handle their matrimonial problems in a wise manner.

Domestic violence and killing each other

Falling in love is a big deal for all of us but falling in control with your love is also a very big deal.We hear of so many stories of people killing each other and even causing so much harm to each other in the name of love. Well, we understand you invested your everything in that relationship and this fellow just decided to cheat on you and you are definitely very mad at that time and can end up doing something very stupid. So you need to relax and take a breather before you end up doing something that will make you spend the rest of your life in jail or in court cases. The number of people who kill each other for love in our society rises each day and the main reason is because most of them don’t want to control their anger and understand that no man is perfect. You can give a relationship your best shot but you should also learn to expect anything. When you put your heart into it also use your mind to reason with your heart. It’s time people stop killing each other for love and that can only happen when you don’t expect too much and make this person a small god.

Healing and Change

There are relationships that have survived cheating and lessons have been learnt. Some people get so heart broken they develop trust issues in the next relationship. It has been claimed that some people are natural born cheaters and is the reason why they never get satisfied with one partner. For others, it may be because their needs are not being met by their spouses. Others cheat to test the waters and be popular whereas others it’s all about the company they keep.



Man writes a memo to his wife warning her to expect a co-wife

So you’re happily married to your husband when he suddenly drops a bomb shell on you.

He alerts you through a memo that you should expect a co-wife. And he is not asking you rather telling you. It turns out that this is what one husband has done, based on the memo he allegedly wrote below.

These are topics we regularlyy confront on classic 105 with morning presenter Maina Kageni, and the on air interactions make every weekday something to look forward to.

Girls, what would you do if your husband, boyfriend pulled such a move? Do you leave or stay?

In the memo it states;,” I’m intending to being in a new female family memeber. She will be received at Chamluchi Hotel, then thereafter she will immediately assume her duties as my second wife”.

The memo continues,” Her name and other details will be revealed on the reception date”.

Notice in the same memo all family members including the in-laws have been notified. Kilimani mums mko wapi?


mans letter

Reasons Why Young Girls Are Dating Sponsors

Why do young girls prefer to date sponsors rather than guys their own age? We ask. Well, sponsors have long existed before this generation however the term sponsors was introduced recently to refer to older men that date younger girls and give them money. One does not necessarily have to have an intimate relationship with a girl for him to be considered a sponsor. One can automatically become a sponsor once he gives money to a younger girl for whatever reason be it for rent, up keep, hair, nails, rent, tuition or even partying.

Here are some of the reasons girls date sponsors;

1. Older men usually allow the younger girls that they sponsor to do whatever they want without questioning them about their whereabouts or what they are doing or whom they are with. This is a kind of freedom most girls want especially in college.

2. Sponsors always have an understanding with the younger girls that their relationship is purely for fun unless they both start developing feelings for each other along the way. Therefore the younger girl can easily move on with her life and date another guy when she is ready to start dating seriously without the older guy catching feelings and the reverse is true.

3. Sponsor relationships are more often than not more beneficial to the younger girl since whenever she needs something, the sponsor she is dating usually takes care of it. A girl’s issues can range from small things like airtime, perfume, clothes, shoes, hair, nails to bigger things like rent, tuition, insurance among others that the sponsor is willing to sort out for her only if she dates him.

4. Younger girls often want to have fun and who better to have fun with than a guy that does not mind spending a couple of tens of thousands of shillings in one night. Sponsors know how to spoil a girl rotten and the fact that they are older and know exactly what a girl wants to hear makes younger girls feel like they are the better option.

5. Younger girls are drawn to social media that tends to promote a certain lifestyle. Therefore for them to keep up with trends and fit into the high-end life style they see on social media but can’t afford, they resort to getting a sponsor who can help them maintain that life style they so desperately want to live.

Describe your ex using a funny movie title

No seriously, how would you describe your ex?

So I asked my friends who’ve moved on to new relations and those who chose to be single to describe the above, and while some shied away from responding, others quickly jumped in with their responses.

Here is the list of funny movie titles they say accurately describe their former bae”s

!. Dumb and Dumber; Are you surprised by this? If you ever watched the movie, two friends drive around the country to return a briefcase left by one of their girls. They both land themselves in crazy situations.


2. The Walking Dead

This is a horror drama TV series, where the main actor wakes up from a coma to find the world in ruins.

Haha. I laughed when I heard this one.




3. Rocky

In the movie a small time boxer goes against a heavy weight champion with surprising results.

The lady who chose this movie title disclosed that she was a punching bag whenever her boyfriend experienced his bad moods.


4. Who sent you


5. High School Musical

In this contemporary musical comedy, a popular high school basketball star and a shy, academically gifted hook up. Cute right?


6. The Hooligan



7. My Big Fat Greek Wedding

A single girl creates a major stir within her Greek family by falling for a guy who has one fatal character.


What would your funny movie title be? Leave your comments below.


SHAMELESS! Check Out How This Married Man Disgraced a Kenyan Lady Begging For a Romantic Relationship With Him (SCREENSHOT)

With the rising cases of infidelity, it’s easy to say that all men are unfaithful. But the truth is there are some good men left, there is hope for humanity!

Take for instance a certain married man who received a text message from a lady identified as Mercy Esther inviting him for a coffee date.

Naturally, most men, married or otherwise, would put aside everything that they are doing to meet the lady hoping against hope that it will be more that a date.

But not this man who told off the lady without mincing his words. At first, he tried being polite by telling her that was supposed to pick his kids and take his wife for dinner.

FOR LOVE OR MONEY? Kenyan ‘Clande’ Reveals She’s In Love With a Married Man, People React (Audio)

When she kept insisting and suggesting that they could have the ‘date’ at her apartment along Baricho Road, the man told her to “peleka nyege zake mbali” with no chills.

It’s funny how ladies seem to like married men or those in relationships of late.Gone are the days when women would actually wait for a man to make a move on them, they are the ones who are taking the lead, well, not all, though, just some.

Gone are the days when women would actually wait for a man to make a move on them, they are the ones who are taking the lead, well, not all, though, just some.

Check out the screenshot:















Courtesy: David Kingsley

Why we are at an 80% divorce rate in Kenya

Have you recently attended wedding festivities, only for an announcement to be made after a few months that the couple has called it quits?

What’s worse is the large sums of money spent by families to join in holy matrimony the love-birds. It also doesn’t help that we constantly hear of celebrity marriages ending, putting into question the institution of marriage.

Money and Infidelity Top Reasons For Divorce In Kenya

According to recent statistics, divorce rates in Kenya are as high as 80 per cent. Infidelity and money issues rank highest as the reasons why marriages are falling apart in Kenya.

Here are some of the things you need to try doing before you wed;

1. Going for counseling

Most couples don’t go for counseling as much as they go for wedding gown and venue shopping when they’re preparing for the big day.Well most people will say counseling is normal stuff, but is it really? Neither is going for an HIV test normal stuff. So the same way you go for that test, you need to test that courtship before you get married. Go for counseling classes even for a whole year or six months, you need to be sure that you are truly ready to go down this road than you are sure about walking down that aisle.

Girls, do you sometimes look at your husband and regret marrying him?

2. Courtship

Boy meets girl, falls in love and after six months, he gets down on one knee and propose,s. The answer most often than not is a resounding ‘YES’. but do most girls says yes without thinking about what they are getting themselves into? Next step is introduction to the respective families and before we know it the wedding bells are ringing and before the wedding photos are out we are going to the lawyers for divorce papers. Courtship means taking time to understand that this lady or guy is from a different background and it’s not about the good and tasty times, but it’s if you are still going to stand by them when things get tough. Court for long enough and don’t just be excited about posting engagement rings and changing the status on your social media.

Ladies, How Many Of You Have Cheated To Save Your Marriage?

3. Fast and furious

We are living in a generation where if things don’t move fast people get very furious.Patience is important I must say.You don’t need to earn the married status that fast unless you are ready. Have you noticed that gowns are getting better as the days go by, so don’t be in a hurry to put it on if you can’t really put up with him or her.You have to wait for 9 months for a baby to fully be ready for the world, that should be the case, no one gets pregnant today and delivers tomorrow. Unfortunately that is where we mostly go wrong. I know of people who’ve coated for seven years and they’re still loving each other and have no kids.

4. What are you getting yourself into

Marriage isn’t what we watch in the movies, I bet we still don’t understand that up to date and that’s why the divorce rate is still too high. Most of the time separation is very common in our society. It’s not all about the fact that he has a well paying job, you have a good physique rather it’s about when there’s no money and she doesn’t look that good, will I still love him or her. Fighting is going to be there but let it not get to domestic violence which is very common in our society.You need to know what you are getting yourself into.

5. Be prepared

It’s going to be a tough and very long journey where you’ll not love coming back home every day. You’ll remember the texts that use to say, I wish we were living together right now and change them to, how did I even start living with you or I can’t wait to walk down the aisle and exchange vows to who even opened by words to say I do to you. It is going to come along with all that but as long as you say I was prepared and we are going through this together because during courtship and counseling, I wasn’t fast and furious and I knew what I was getting myself into.


LOVE GONE SOUR! Top Comedian Dr Ofweneke Officially Confirms That He’s Separated From Singer Wife

Kenyan comedian and top Mcee Dr Ofweneke is one of the top entertainers in Kenya and over the years, he’s mastered his craft when it comes to making it big in the industry.

His humor and jokes are out of this world and there’s no doubt that he has worked hard to ensure that he does what he does well, without disappointing his fans.

The rib-cracking comedian and TV host is also a father.


Well, there was a story that was recently published in regards to his baby mama and girlfriend, Nicah looking at wedding gowns, and we had posed the question if the two were intending on walking down the aisle soon.

But Dr Ofweneke has come out to shut down rumors. A source who did not want to be named informed us that he has revealed that he is no longer together with his baby mama, Niccah who is a gospel artiste.

So that raises the question, who is Nicah getting married to considering the two are no longer together?

There have been rumors of marital strife since last year following accusations of infidelity, however to date none of them has denied nor confirmed the rumors.


At some point, it was said that they had reconciled after patching things up, but it looks like it didn’t work out after all. Even on their social media pages, none has a picture of the other and they seem to post sarcastic posts.

A few days ago when Nicah was celebrating her birthday, she revealed she had received a cake from a secret admirer, and we’re still debating if it was from Ofweneke.

Well, we wish them all the best in their endeavors as they start over.










Courtesy; Tracy Mutinda

35-Year-Old Man Commits Suicide Days After Killing His Wife

Residents of a Naivasha village woke up to a rude shock after a man who was on the run for killing his wife committed suicide.

The 35-year-old man had on Friday killed his wife at Kamae village in Kinangop and dumped her body in the forest before fleeing the area.

Police have been looking for him ever since and his body was found hanging on a tree at Mwiciringiri village some 10kms from Naivasha town.

A witness James Kamau said the suspect had run to his parent’s home soon after committing the act to his wife before finally hanging himself.

Kamau said his body was found in the morning by workers in a nearby quarry and this forced them to cut down the tree he hang himself on since it was very tall.

“He chose the tallest tree in the area to commit the act and we had to cut it down so as to get the body,” he said.

Last week, the deceased and his wife went to Kamae forest to fetch some firewood and never returned home and her body was found later on in the day with deep cuts in the head.

A senior officer who did not want to be named confirmed the incidence saying the body had been collected and taken to the Naivasha sub-county Hospital Mortuary.

He confirmed that the body picked this morning was that of the suspect they had been looking for in connection with the murder of the woman last week.

Meanwhile, one person died and several others sustained injuries following a multiple road accident along Mai Mahiu-Narok road.

The accident involving five vehicles, occurred after a driver of a water tanker lost control and hit four vehicles killing one on the spot.

Three more sustained injuries and were rushed to several hospitals and treated for minor injuries and discharged.

A witness James Njoroge said the water tanker was in high speed when the driver lost control and rammed into the other four vehicles.

“One of the passengers in the water tanker died on the spot after he was thrown out and the vehicle rolled over him,” he said.

The officer confirmed the incident saying they were holding the driver of the tanker in connection with the accident while the body had been collected and taken to the mortuary.

Sizzling Romance! This Is How Bahati And His Beautiful Girlfriend Diana Marua Met

Every love story has a beginning.

So does Bahati’s fairy tale story with video vixen and model, Diana Marua.

Bahati was on Kiss FM’s breakfast show with Adelle Onyango and Shaffie Weru. He was put on the hot seat and asked about his new boo, Diana Marua.

He was asked how he met Diana. The two played the role of groom and bride in his music video Mapenzi.

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Bahati said, “Hizi streets tuu,” adding, “I don’t normally respond to these questions.” After being pushed, the Kumbe Kumbe hitmaker narrated;

“We met before we did the video together. It was a month before then. I was online at midnight and I saw someone had liked my photos, ka sita. Ni usiku, there is nothing to do. Interactions sio mob hiyo time. I was like, who is this? I checked her profile and liked her photos.”


Mr Seed interjected, “Are you saved,” he said laughing.

“I asked, ‘Do you like to pray?’ Bahati added, “I was kidding. I don’t slide into DMs,” answering Adelle’s query if he hit Diana up on her Instagram direct messages.

Shaffie asked Bahati what a prayer partner is, Bahati finally defined it for all his fans.

“Huyo ni mtu mnaweza pray na yeye and share a lot,” he said. Adding, “I was wondering what the big deal is with a prayer partner? Si you need to date?”


Wilbroda Is An Attractive Woman! Papa Shirandula Salivates For On Screen Wife (EXCLUSIVE)

We all know him as Papa Shirandula from his popular local TV comedy and Charles Bukeko (Papa Shirandula) is one man who has hit the headlines with his never-ending jokes.

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It has been years after he and popular TV actress Wilbroda – who is well known as his wife on screen – had an on-screen relationship. And yes, acting is a career where you may have to pretend to be in love but sometimes the act may actually become reality. Just ask Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie.

When asked if he is in love with screen wife, Jackie Nyaminde, aka Wilbroda, Papa Shirandula poured his heart out citing that Wilbroda was an attractive and beautiful woman. Could he be falling in love with his “fake” wife?


The internet went wild after he had one of the most flamboyant weddings in the country, leaving many middle aged women crying into their pillows. Papa has, however, had quite a journey as an actor with him moving to Nairobi’s Eastlands, from where he would trek daily to the National Theatre.

This is what he had to say about Wilbroda;

“Wilbroda is a beautiful woman, a strong woman and she has everything a woman should have. Any man can get attracted to her….She is beautiful.”

Let’s Take A Journey Through Kenya’s History With These Iconic Love Songs

Every generation has love songs that defines the term ‘love’ for them. This is true whether you are 60 or 13. We all have that song that is ours. Or so we think.

The truth, however, is that we aren’t exactly snowflakes. There are millions of other people who share our taste in music and that is why songs such as African Woman by 2face Idibia (which isn’t Kenyan) but it defined love for an entire generation.

Vincent and I sat down and had a look at some of these love songs and we came up with the following list:

Emmy Kosgei Makes Sweet Admission About Her Marriage To Apostle Anselm

It is Valentine’s day and people are showing the colour of their heart. And it bleeds love -nothing but love. However, Emmy Kosgei has made an interesting revelation about her relationship with Apostle Anselm Madubuko.

Emmy Kosgei doesn’t shy away from showing off her love for the man of God who is almost twice her age.

Fans have been waiting for the award-winning megastar known for hits like Taai and Taunet Nelel to announce the eventual addition to the family.

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Emmy Kosgei’s Valentine’s message dripped of nothing but love.

“I love this man.. he is the best thing that happened to me! I’m blessed with a loving and prayerful man, I’m blessed that I didn’t miss my divine moment.. Anselm Madubuko you mean the world to me! I’m wiser, deeper in things of God, you’ve made me a better person! You’ve shown me love and care.. I feel so special????????????????????… Nkem!” she wrote.

She also revealed that marriages are hard work, especially after Eunice Njeri’s lasted 24-hours.


From 100 Bob Wedding To Sh 3.5M Ceremony, Check Out These Heartwarming Pics

Today’s wedding is a far cry from this couple’s 100 bob wedding officiated back on January 30th, 2017. Wilson Wanjohi and Anne Muhonja is the proud couple who have been blessed with a Sh 3.5 million bob wedding. Now they look like a million dollar couple.

Beside the Sh 3.5 million do-over wedding, Wilson and Anne also got other presents like an-all-expense paid honeymoon in Diani.

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The five-day trip saw the couple soak up the sun at a 4-star hotel at the coast.

Another well-wisher blessed them with an even better present that will help then eke out a living and be productive members of society.

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Here are photos from the lavish wedding…








Happy Valentine’s everyone!