Would you date your friend’s ex or any of your ex’s friends?

We all have an ex in our lives that we once associated ourselves with.

People make up and break up but sometimes breaking up becomes the best option when things don’t get better. However, the way things end can determine the relationship that occurs after the relationship hits rock bottom and ends.

Ex’s sometimes become the worst enemies because it becomes hard to forgive and forget the past while others become best friends.

Most of the time, your friends end up hating your ex just because they are your friends but how would you feel if your friend dated your ex?

In my opinion, it all depends on the situation because sometimes things happen and we can’t avoid them.

If my friend is dating my ex and she comes to find out that I had dated the same guy in the past, well that is not an issue because she had no idea, but if my friend actually knows that he is my ex and goes ahead to date. I mean? That’s just plain disrespectful.

It also depends with the level of friendship we are in. If we are close, don’t be disrespectful their are many fishes in the sea but if we just say hi and bye to each other, you can go ahead and date him.

On the other hand, my ex’s friends are not off limit. I would give it a thought. A deep one, especially if the friend in question is a snack.

We are all different some see it as good, others as bad, and others don’t even care if you get married to the ex.

Would you date your friends ex or any of your ex’s friends?

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‘You had your time..now I get the wedding’: Bride’s ‘scary’ open letter to her fiancé’s high school girlfriend goes viral

A bride-to-be’s gloating open letter to her fiancé’s high school girlfriend has gone viral after it was branded ‘scary’ by readers.

In a piece called ‘You May Have Worn The Prom Dress With Him, But I Get To Wear The Wedding Dress’ published on The Odyssey, student Victoria Higgins admitted to being jealous of the girl her husband-to-be took to his prom – but bragged about being the woman who gets to marry him.

Victoria, thought to be a student at Missouri State University, wrote: ‘I wish that I could say I’m sorry it didn’t work out for you, but I can’t’, adding that it ‘kills her’ that she didn’t know her partner in high school and get to cheer him on at sports matches.

Her letter has now gone viral, with startled readers calling the bride-to-be a ‘bunny boiler’ on social media.

In the story, Higgins wrote that while many teenage girls think they will marry their high school boyfriends, she was the one to whom the unnamed woman’s prom date had eventually popped the question.

She said: ‘You had your time, and now I get the wedding. You got to dress up in high school, but I get to dress up for my wedding with him.

‘He may have put a corsage on your wrist, but he will be putting the wedding ring on my finger.’

Despite her pride at being the one who got to marry the unnamed man, she admitted to experiencing huge jealousy at now sharing the milestones of a teenage romance with him.

She wrote: ‘It kills me that I couldn’t be there for him because I know I would have actually been there wholeheartedly. I would have done it out of love, not as a popularity appearance.’

Higgins told the ex girlfriend that she wasn’t ‘sorry’ that she didn’t get to end up with the man she’s marrying, but assured her that she would ‘find someone too’.

The article has now been shared thousands of times on social media by users who mocked Higgins’ ‘scary’ attitude towards her fiancé’s ex.

One tweeted: ‘Jesus Christ, don’t even have to read the article. The title alone screams ”bunny boiler”.’

‘He needs to run! RUN FOR HIS LIFE!!!’ another posted.

A third said: ‘This piece is one example of why I sometimes think, in all seriousness, that the minimum age for marriage should be 30.’

‘She sounds like she’s 1 break up away from being a bunny boiler,’ another agreed

-Dailymail

Relationship expert reveals the five uncomfortable questions to ask on a first date

The dating game can be emotionally brutal – particularly if you find yourself suddenly single in your 30s and getting acquainted with divorcees and partners with kids.

To adjust to your new normal, social commentator Kerri Sackville recommends asking your date five questions from the get-go to determine whether they’re right for you.

From asking about their previous partners to outlining what’s important to them – no topic is off limits, Whimn reports.

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Who are the most important people in your life?

While they may rattle off their parents, best friends or kids – sometimes the follow up question of ‘why’ is even more telling. This question allows you to assess how good the other person is at forming close relationships.

This would tend to be the type of question which would open them up to speaking about the people they aren’t close to.

So if they have an estranged connection to their parents they may scoff at your mentioning of them and explain where things went wrong.

What do you want from a relationship right now?

You’ll want to know clearly from the outset how emotionally available your potential partner is.

They may say they’re only looking for something casual at the moment or alternatively admit they’re ready to settle in for the long haul.

This is your chance to see whether your own ideas about where the relationship is going are the same.

If they differ you’ll only encounter problems later down the track, so it’s important you’re honest with each other from the outset.

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When did you break up with your ex-partner?

Kerri makes it clear that most men will actively avoid talking about their ex-partner so early into the relationship, but it’s imperative the conversation is had.

‘Some men join dating sites before they have even moved out of the family home. And many are less than scrupulously honest about when they split from their wife,’ she told Whimn.

‘A man whose wife of 25 years left him three weeks ago is unlikely to be emotionally available. And a man who is still living in the family home hasn’t even started the process of separation. Ask the question, and then make an informed decision.’

How do you feel about your ex? Are you still in contact?

If your partner’s demeanour darkens as soon as you bring up their ex it’s ‘saying he’s still not over her,’ Kerri reasoned.

Most times it’s expected there will be some kind of outburst at the mere mention of her name – rather than a probably more truthful ‘we just grew apart.’

But if they begin crying at the table in front of you it might be worth determining whether starting a new romantic relationship is the right move. 

When do you see your kids?

If you’re on a date with a divorcee who has an agreement with his ex-wife about custody, it’s worth checking how often he spends time with their children.

Not only does it give you a general idea of how often you’ll get to see each other, on a deeper level is opens up a conversation about his family values.

Furious man shares humiliating experience after his baby mama Rachel dumps him to marry another man

 

If you haven’t seen the thread for this story you are missing out. It is quite spell-binding if I must say.

So this man has been having fun with his side piece, without a care in the world, and of course taking his wife Rachel for granted. All this until there was a plot twist.

 

Just go through the story he shared, trust me your jaw will drop at the end of it.

I was married for 3 yrs until Saturday.
I used to flirt with other girls and my wife found out( kawaida tu ya wanaume).

She confronted me and I kicked her out (speak of pride), but we reconciled took her back and life continued. Still flirting with my babes, and I created a very strong password so her accessing my phone was ngumu.
Last year around May my wife started Changing, she started wearing different hairstyle from her usual ponytail and perfume, she looked more beautiful and she was ever happy.

She stopped bothering my phone and my life and I thought it was good and she was just amazing.
Most Saturdays she would take our babies out and She decorated our house, bought new stuff repainted it and the most mesmerizing thing is the new 52″ Samsung TV, a bigger fridge and a 6 seat dining table she bought and now our house looked more like a home.
I still flirted with my babes despite her Changing and around December I found my wife on my phone. How she knew my password remains a mystery to me, and she was reading my chat with this particular girl, Nancy wambui.

I shouted at her but she quietly handed the phone to me and she said “Sina ubaya”. (Little did I know)

All these is not a problem. The problem is last weekend but one she told me ameenda kuona shosho yake and I agreed.

I gave 12k for transport, and little shopping for shosho as I find more ksh for up keep ya watoto.all that is not a problem.

The problem is, I found out that my wife moved on kitambo, the time she found out I was flirting with some other girls,She met another man and her traditional was held on Saturday (juzi).

Really mama Rechael?
How did all this happen without my consent? Yaani this woman, she dated someone and she’s married bado akiwa kwangu? Unbelievable, and she still invested in house like nobody business, why did you buy this stuff? Ama zilikuwa za kunifunga tu macho?. I Never saw any sign of her cheating her phone was always on the table, I never heard her talk to anyone, all this time!! How!

All I need is custody ya my two girls I just want Rechael and Brianna back. Anyone who can assist get them. I don’t know how I’m going to live without them. I’m so hurt, They are all I need. That bitch can go wherever she wants to….

 

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Woman in romantic relationship with brother admits to being pregnant for him

A Radio Jambo caller has shocked many after she revealed that she was pregnant with her brother’s child.

During the Toboa Siri segment with Mbusii and Lion on the popular Teketeke show, the caller narrated how she broke up with her husband and later hooked up with her 27-year-old brother, whom she claims is handsome.

“Ilikuwa last year August, I broke up with my husband after a quarrel and went back to my parents’ home. After 3 months, my elder brother broke up with his wife and we started dating,” she said.

The 22-year-old woman said she’s now two months pregnant.

“I’m now two months pregnant with his kid. My parents and siblings don’t know about it. We’ve kept it a secret between us,” explained the caller.

She went ahead to disclose that she wants her parents to know about the relationship.

“When parents ask me about my pregnancy, I tell him it belongs to my husband. I want my parents to know that I’m pregnant because I feel guilty.”

The bold woman has praised her brother for being a bedroom bully, unlike her husband who can’t fulfill her conjugal rights.

Guy who lives with two girls shares relatable story that will make you giggle

A guy called Craig Shapes on Twitter has shared his experience of living with two girls, and I must admit I agree with him. Fellas, if you’re wondering what it’s like, go through his thread;

The club DJ took to Twitter where he listed in a 15-point thread exactly what he’d learned.

Shapes documents everything from his realisation that the ladies share every message, to the countless hair grips he’s encountered, their crying at reality TV, and even the importance of dressing gowns.

Craig's shrewd observations about his life with two women racked up thousands of likes and retweets 

The viral thread has already racked up thousands of likes and re-tweets as people have told Craig how the too can relate to it.

He wrote: ‘Last year, I moved in with my girlfriend and her best mate. They’re both girls. Some of the s*** I’ve seen is EYE OPENING mate (a thread).’

‘They show each other ALL of the messages that they receive from everybody. Nobody is safe. Girls don’t need screenshots mate, they have photographic screenshot memories,’ his first point read.

He went on to discuss how the girls will constantly talk about their toilet habits, joking: ‘”I NEED A POO” is probably the most used phrase in this house.’

Craig said that he had woken up with hair grips stuck to his body and how he finds random clumps of hair all over the flat.

He explained that Billie and Sarah like to make sure that he looks his best and enjoy plucking his eyebrows.

The club DJ said he would find countless hair grips, has to watch reality TV, wears dressing gowns, takes part in Instagram stalking and has to watch the girls in their catwalk shows

Craig admitted he has grown accustomed to the amount of reality TV they have to watch, which includes Keeping Up With The Kardashians, ITV2’s Ibiza Weekender and Love Island, Ru Paul’s Drag Race, MTV’s Ex On The Beach, as well as Geordie Shore.

‘And the worst thing is, I actually gave in and really got into Love Island,’ he said of last year’s popular series.

All three of them like to lounge around in their dressing gowns when hungover and the girls might also indulge in a spot of Instagram stalking.

And while ‘everything is a drama’ – like washing their hair, choosing an outfit or having visitors, Craig added that he wouldn’t change it.

One woman had become invested in finding out more about the trio and asked Craig for a picture of the girls and he was only too willing to oblige

‘All I’d say tho is that you don’t know true loyalty until you’ve lived with girls. And the house is full of laughter every day. Love them x’

He then finished: ‘One more tho… they’re both currently crying at DIY SOS. And crying at something on the telly is completely normal[sic].’ .

When he realised just how popular his shrewd commentary had become he shared a snap of himself with both girls, thanking his newfound fan-base for ‘all the love’.

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Trouble in paradise? Anerlisa Muigai deletes pics of her boyfriend from her social media accounts

Keroche heiress Anerlisa Muigai has been laying low like an envelope of late after she was exposed for not paying a city shylock a debt amounting to Sh19. 9 million.

Flamboyant businessman Ben Kangangi responds to Anerlisa Muigai’s claims he conned her as he flaunts luxurious car

Anerlisa Muigai, who introduced her boyfriend to the online community a few months ago has been sharing pics hanging out with the lucky man identified as Don to the annoyance of many.
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But of late, Don has been missing on anerlisa Muigai’s timeline and she deleted all his pics from her social media accounts leaving many with more questions than answers.

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Did Anerlisa Muigai part ways with Don or she has decided to keep him off the social scene?


Well, only Anerlisa knows the naked truth.

Husband writes wife heartfelt letter apologizing for mistaking her emotions for weakness

In Kenya we call this mwamaume kamili. Girls, don’t you agree?

A married man wrote an open letter to his wife after he walked in on her passed out asleep on the couch, having worked a 12 hour shift only to come home to demanding children and household chores. He found her asleep with both of their kids in her hands.

He explained that he wrote the letter to her and other men out there hoping it resonates with more men than they realize.

Read it and see that yes there are some good men out there.

So many times i called her weak for her intense emotional reactions toward different things… Told her to grow up, “be a woman”, “stop being so insecure”… I’m so hard on my wife and oftentimes disconnected, because the strength i thought she needed, i couldn’t see that she already had it. I confused her love and weakness for me, for lack of strength as a woman…

Twice i watched her give birth to nearly 8lb babies, without epidurals and minimum assistance.. I watch her come home everyday to a 3yr with absolutely no chill whatsoever, after a 12hr shift, and have to stay up with him despite being tired.

Even with all that she rarely complains and deals with my shit. How could I be so damn stupid, to see “weakness” within all of this?? Today, when i walked into the living room and saw this I realized just how much of a fool I AM… We miss what’s there in plain sight because we become fixated on the fantasy, not realizing that our reality is the fantasy… Sometimes you just have to remove the spec from your own eye!

I thank God for my wife, for the ups and downs, and everyday lessons and the strength she has that i was blind to see. I am grateful for the revelation that today has brought 

Here is the post that has some men up in arms while the women praised him for being so emotional.

 

Fellas, what do you think?

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‘I regret educating my wife’ cries man as he shares traumatic experience of his wife’s abuse (AUDIO)

 

In the crazy Monday pullout, an article claims that empowerment has spoiled Kenyan women. Do women become a disaster when empowered?

We recently celebrated International Women’s day, and everyone made sure hey shared great messages for the women in their lives.

But one man was having a hard time. He seems to be going through torture after disclosing that he spent loads of cash educating his wife, only for her to change completely. He insists her attitude was good and pleasant when he met her, but it later changed and has been causing him grief.

He revealed saying;

I’m married and I don’t have a problem empowering women. My wife did her degree when we were married. typically our current woman, when you empower her she changes to something else. I can see what I can see from my wife. From what we had and what we have right now. after she is getting to una jua ile kuona kamwangaza kidogo. She has changed very much and still she hasn’t gone so far. So it means if she goes so far, more than she isi today, our lives would drastically change. I have no problem with that I will live with the pain, if it’s getting me to have anger I will be angry all my life, I won’t divorce her, I love my kids, I will keep her to what she will change to. She’s never so polite like she used to be, She becomes the man of the house, She can do anything on her own.

If I could turn back the hands of time, I would not take her to school. I would suggest we survive on what I am making even if it’s Sh500.

I will write books and do videos for my son, to teach him that women are monsters. I want to do it for my son, so that when they grow up they will read what I went through, women are monsters.

When you educate lover hoping to marry her only to be dumped after graduation

Another man said;

There is no bigger lie that has been told to people than women empowerment. Here’s why.

You see in the past a man would be educated then he would finish school, go back to the village and marry a woman, and perhaps take her for a small course or open a small business for her. That’s how life was.. Today the empowered girl will not even think of going back to where she is from a finding a partner from there, lifting them up from poverty.

In this modern era, if your from a poor background as a lady, the chances of a company CEO to marry you are nonexistent. So what do the poor women do? They end up in prostitution. Its a social norm, because the company CEO will probably not want a woman who doesn’t have a degree. Most of these ladies who have degrees are from middle class

Giving your woman education is ok. But being the man of the house, you must draw the lines, whether she is a CEO or whatever, make sure she knows you are the man’, declared anther man, who insisted that a woman must respect a man and he too will respect her.

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SO SAD: 25-year-old Bar Stabbed To Death By Lover In West Pokot

A 25 year-old bar attendant was stabbed to death in Makutano town, West Pokot by her lover after the two quarreled on Friday night.

Area OCPD Anthony Wanjuu said Becky Ekidor was stabbed on the left side of her abdomen before being dumped by the roadside.

“This was after she was chased away from her place of work by the man who was identified as Cock Barasa,” he said.

“The suspect was drinking at the bar when he all over a sudden turned against the woman. The patrons fled after the suspect removed a knife from his jacket pocket.”

He said Becky managed to escape but was pursued by the suspect who reportedly stabbed her outside the bar.

The body was taken to Kapenguria county hospital mortuary awaiting postmortem.

The OCPD urged all bar owners to be screening their customers before they gain entry into the premises.

“It seems like the suspect had planned to murder the lady because he was armed with a knife while in the bar,” Wanjuu said.

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Thika man kills lover and hangs self over breakup

A Thika man on strangled his lover and hanged himself after she demanded they break up.The bodies of Timothy Ndirangu, 23, and Grace Wanjiru, 27, a teacher at a nearby primary school, were found at their home yesterday morning.

“A pungent smell was coming from their house and when I peeped through the window I saw Ndirangu hanging and Wanjiru was lying in the bed. I notified the village elder who called the authorities,” resident David Ndito said.

Ndirangu, a welder, separated from his wife and mother of two children when he took Wanjiru as his lover.

Wanjiru’s cousin Grace Kimani said the two had been fighting for two weeks after Wanjiru said she wanted to end their relationship.

Maguguni residents mill around the police landcruiser carrying the bodies of Timothy Ndirangu and Grace Wanjiru on Monday./JOHN KAMAU

Maguguni residents mill around the police landcruiser carrying the bodies of Timothy Ndirangu and Grace Wanjiru on Monday./JOHN KAMAU

 

“Last week on Thursday he threatened to kill her and she reported the matter at Ngoliba police station, where they were both summoned. They were made to sign affidavits declaring not to fight again,” she said.

Her cousin settled in the village last October.

Controversial prophet Bushiri compares his wife to his ex who dumped him for another man

“On Friday evening I called my cousin and she told me she was headed home, where they had just settled with her boyfriend. But when I called her again on Saturday she didn’t respond,” Kimani said. “I didn’t bother because I thought that she was at work. I came to learn of the what befell her today.”

Kimani said she warned her cousin to leave Ndirangu and move away from the village after he threatened to kill her.

“She failed to heed to my advice…Ndirangu was bitter and accused her of messing his life and causing problems between him and his family members,” she said.

Ndirangu’s father Musyoka Musembi said his son was hardworking. He accused Wanjiru of meddling in his son’s life and breaking up his family.

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Is it true that women lose their freedom after marriage asks Maina Kageni in eyeopening discussion (AUDIO)

Is it true that women have to give up their freedom once married to make the marriage work?

If you are married, have you found that you have had to compromise some things to please your partner?

Here is a list of 15 things which, if you give up on them, will make your married life a lot easier and a lot happier. We hold on to so many things that cause a great deal of stress and frustration in our relationships – and instead of letting them all go, instead of allowing our relationships to flourish and blossom – we cling on to them. Not anymore. Starting today you will give up on all those things that no longer serve you, and you will embrace change. Starting today you will make your marriage work, according to relationship expert Luminita D. Saviuc . Ready? Here we go:

1. Give up your unrealistic expectations

2. Give up control

3. Give up possessiveness

4. Give up criticism

5. Give up the need to fix your partner

6. Give up your jealous behavior

7. Give up on your fears

8. Give up the chase for perfection

9. Give up on blame

10. Give up the need to always be right

11. Give up living your life according to the other person’s expectations

12. Give up your clingy behavior

13. Give up asking for more than you give

14. Give up your emotional baggage

15. Give up attachment

Listen to the audio to see if people have had to give up any of the above

 

 

Why women say ‘all men are trash’ (AUDIO)

 

For the longest time ever, we have heard women classify all men as ‘dogs’, while men have vehemently denied they are, saying that the faults of one should not result in a generalization of all men.

This is the one thing that Mwalimu Kingang’i wanted to ask female callers, but was a little scared to say it loud.

Perhaps he feared the women battalion and their response. So Maina Kageni did it on his behalf asking girls why they generalize all men as dogs.

One woman said, ‘When we get hurt by a man we bounce right back, while when they are hurt by one woman it becomes a problem.

Another said, marriage is just over-ratted. It doesn’t bother me when a man wants to dog us. Its not the end of the world. Women get emotionally frustrated, just because of a man? Kwani what is so special about these men? A man will not torment me, I need to focus on my career and children, if he has a problem he can go back to his mother., an emotional woman shouted.

Anther one said, ‘Men are just men, they are human beings like us, we can also make our decisions. Tell them not to think they are brighter than us’.

Purity Ng’ethe….
@ItsMainaKageni its a fact you see how dogs go around sniffing around every corner thats how these men are.. same characters with this animal have you even seen a hen with such habits and men will always be men want to sniff everywhere #MainaAndKingangi
Zippy Mwikali‏…
Replying to @Charity04544721 @ItsMainaKageni @Classic105Kenya
It’s like all men come from one family all together, the characters may be different but the result is all the same #MainaAndKingangi
Sharon shanien‏…
#MainaAndKingangi Wen we get hurt by a man, we bounce right back up and still treat the next relnship with respect and compassion. Men, on the other hand get hurt by one woman & use it as an excuse to treat all future partners like complete garbage, so y cmplans? @ItsMainaKageni
Merline Osita‏…
@Classic105Kenya @ItsMainaKageni #MainaAndKingangi @lusava_alfred @Charity04544721 ….true the caller is right…don’t run into a Marriage because you want a Man…men are all the Same..its okay to be SINGLE. Habari Ndio hiyo Mwalimu.

Habari ndio hio.

Listen to the audio below of a rather interesting debate between men and women regarding this accusation.

 

Achana Na Slay Queens: High School Principal Warns Students Against Romance Or Else

A leading public school headteacher has warned pupils he will give them a ‘worse reference’ for university – if they have a sweetheart in school.

Toby Belfield, principal at £34,500-a-year Ruthin School in Wales, wrote in an email to staff that he ‘strongly disapproves’ of pupils being in romances with each other.

He warned a list of sanctions against would-be school sweethearts – including expulsion and marked-down uni references.

This is what a dormitory in an expensive school in Kenya looks like (Photo)

Mr Belfield said anyone in year 11 or the lower sixth form usually aged 15 to 17 would be expelled if found to have a boyfriend or girlfriend in school.

In his email to staff, Mr Belfield said: ‘School is not the place for romantic relationships – ever.

‘I STRONGLY disapprove of any boyfriend/girlfriend relationships – and it will ALWAYS affect any university reference I write (meaning – any student in a relationship will definitely get a worse reference from me).

‘Relationships can start at university – not at Ruthin School.

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‘I will be talking to staff and, as in previous years, I will put together a list of any student with a boyfriend or girlfriend. These students – if in L6 (lower sixth form) or F5 (year 11) can expect to find new school in September.

‘There are plenty of students that wish to attend Ruthin School without the diversion of romance – and these students can replace those students whose focus is on bf/gf relationships.’

Mr Belfield is headteacher of the ancient fee-paying school in Ruthin, North Wales, which is ranked number 12 in the Times 2017 A Level League Tables.

In February last year leaked emails to staff showed him ranting about female pupils wearing skirts that ‘look like they are going to a nightclub’ and ‘pathetic students pretending to be ill’, after looking for ways to dismiss students whose parents had already paid their fees.

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“Everyone has the right to be interested in anyone,” says openly bi-sexual upcoming Kenyan model

Gone are the days when people were scared of being labeled gay or lesbian. This is according to upcoming Kenyan nude art photography model Purple Bloom.

The beauty says that “the days people are open minded about the issue so there’s really no one on my side who’s treated me differently or criticized me.”

She told me during my casual, on record conversation with her. Bloom says that she encounters people who try to persuade her to be a certain way, but she feels that gender should not be a barrier to dating.

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“People say that I’m too pretty to date the same sex and that I should try them first. However, I’m not gender biased; I think sexuality is fluid so whoever I find myself connected to, I go with the flow,” she reveals.

Speaking of the experience that led her to try dating the opposite sex, Bloom says that she once “tried maybe one or two guys but didn’t work out.” However, she is not completely done with the males.

“I have really ‘ditched’ guys. Like I said sexuality is fluid. Everyone has the right to be interested in anyone. Right now with a girl because we connect on a lot of levels. Doesn’t mean I wouldn’t date a guy.”

Some notable gender fluid celebrities around the world include Miley Cyrus, Ruby Rose and Steven Tyler.

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Meet the TV presenter who discovered she was a side chick on Christmas day (Photos)

Ouch! Hurts right?

Well, a Nigerian TV presenter-cum-actress in Nigeria sadly over the festive period discovered some rather hurtful facts.

All along as she was dating, she assumed she was the main chick, only on Christmas day to find out she was the side chick.

The TV presenter Layole Oyatogun penned down a letter to herself, after discovering the shocking news. Girls, what would you do at a time when humanity is celebrating love, togetherness and family?

It turns out she went to pay him a visit on Christmas day and she couldn’t get into the house. According to her accounts of the incident, he was inside with another chick.

He heartfelt note in part read;

‘Year 2017 was a nasty era In October I lost my dearest mum, my one true rock!!On Christmas day I found out I was the side chick. I couldn’t get in because my boyfriend had another girl in his house. I have closed the chapter called 2017 in my life.’ She surmarized her experience.

Welcome 2018! For a while I’ve been waiting for you, waiting to turn this chapter, waiting for this chance to begin anew! pray tell me, will you be good to me? PLEASE WILL YOU?
Year 2017 was a nasty era, I remember in January of that year I made the proverbial proclamation..”this year is my year”, I disown it now, too many trials on top tribulation. In October i lost my dearest mum, my one true rock!
On Christmas day i found out I was the side chick! I couldn’t get in because my boyfriend had another girl in his house, the list goes on. I have closed the chapter called 2017 in my life, I won’t curse it, won’t nurse it, even rehearse it in the least bit, But surely, however slowly, i will disperse it so God can reverse it.
Don’t get me wrong, still I’m grateful for a lot! life, health and a whole lot more cos just like gold, i went through the fire but came back super lit! I give God all the glory.
2018!!! I have found strength within.. So lets take it from here, let’s take this amazing journey together. With God & guts, UNSTOPPABLE is the word.

Happy New Year People!

In another post, she penned a note to herself as advice for the new year.

Check out the beautiful TV presenter.

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City Girl Confesses Of Her Thirst For Her Sister’s Husband

Staying with relatives is not easy. Some will always stir trouble and others do anything that will break up your marriage.

A city girl who stays with her elder sister who is married has confessed that whenever she sees her brother-in-law (her sister’s husband), she becomes horny and always has that urge to having sexual intercourse with him.

“I stay with my elder sister and I am very horny, the only person on my mind is her husband. I just can’t stop thinking of him, and he is reading in his study room and I just feel like doing something crazy like an adventure. I am fighting it but it is fighting back. Please, what should I do now? I have had my bath 4 times, I have prayed, I am even listening to music as I type but my wetness is dripping and he is the one I am missing,” she wrote.

Check out some reactions;

Favour.nkem: Wicked sister. Mercy🙌

Mamiibeji: Thunder fire you, daughter of Jezebel

Omattutee: Your wetness is dripping… No that’s not normal

Ediaries: What happened to your fingers madam

Oreke: Holy ghost Fire!!!

Neyomi: Hoe…go and look for ur own man… Don’t spoil a good home haba mana the things our own blood do to us these days is crazy.. Apologies to Sodom and Gomorrah

Ms_opemipo: Sigh! This life is just hard!

Alynn: It wouldn’t be good lusting and sleeping with ur sister’s husband. Do the right thing.

Adeesuwaa: This is why I will neva accommodate any sister or friends in my house😡if you spend more dan 1hr I will so pursue the person before you start hearing it’s the work of the devil ❌

Lerrybrixton:  Are you crazy, your sister’s husband, then you’ve ruined ya life

Solomon: Your sister’s husband. Go and masturbate, or call one of your exes to come eat his left over. But please please, leave that man alone. It’s because of people like you that women are scared to invite family to stay.

Taymetorpeh: You are a complete home wrecker!

Makakene: Carry your load and leave that house in Jesus name, amen  .

Shona_dtease: Imagine him fucking you and your sister walking in and seeing you too, then she goes back without you two noticing and she goes to the kitchen to boil hot water, then she comes back and pour the boiled water on you and your skin starts to peel and you’re in excruciating pain……………keep imagining how deformed and butter you’ll be for the rest of your life just because your pussy swallowed your sense……..I’m sure the imagination would help

Lady_hollar: This is actually a mental disorder, u need to see a doctor.

Ivy: Why do you have eyes on your sister’s husband?

 

Six Reasons Why Mr Good Enough Is Better Husband Material Than Mr Right Whom You May Never Meet

Still in desperate pursuit of ‘The One’? It might be time to take a look around you – because you’ve probably already met him.

According to MailOnline sex expert, Tracey Cox, Mr Good Enough is better husband material than the elusive Mr Right – and chances are he’s already your best friend.

As Tracey explains, we may put the men we get along with well, who don’t cause us problems, call when they’re supposed to and love us to pieces in the friend basket, but these men are actually the ones we should be spending the rest of our lives with.

Here, she shares six reasons why giving up the search for Mr Right and going for Mr Good Enough will lead you to a happy, long-lasting and loving relationship.

 

1. Rollercoaster relationships are bad news

Is there anyone out there post 35 who doesn’t think SATC’s Carrie Bradshaw made a huge mistake in marrying Big rather than the sweet, kind, dependable Aidan?

Big made lots of grand gestures but didn’t even turn up to his own wedding!

Yes he was handsome and rich but where does that get you if the guy’s flakier than a pastry?

Rollercoaster relationships are hugely exciting when you’re younger: you thrive on the drama of them, convinced that the massive highs and lows are a sign of true passion.

But when we’re older and wiser, sensible people realise they’re a sign of incompatibility not true love.

2. Update your ‘must have’ partner list

‘Steady does it’ might not be the sexiest saying you’ve heard but reliability is a massive plus in a husband and a father.

Dependable, supportive, thoughtful, kind, generous – you wouldn’t dream of putting these attributes on your ‘Must have partner list’ when you were young.

Back then, it’s all about ‘Must be tall, ‘Must be great in bed’, ‘Must be rich’, ‘Must have blonde hair’.

When you’re older, the list changes – and it should do!

The qualities that appeal for short-term flings are very different to what works long-term.

A partner for life is just that: someone you have to spent pretty much every single day with until you die (or split).

Think about it logically: is it hot sex and good looks that are going to keep you interested for the next 30 years? Or a good sense of humour? Who is going to keep you sane when the kids are flinging food all over the kitchen for the 65th time that week?

Happy Ever After is about having a teammate, someone who is on your side, watching your back.

Handsome and sexy are nice but they’re not crucial ingredients.

3. A slow burn is better that a hot fire

Instant, passionate love – the sort we’ve been taught to believe is ‘real’ love – is like a wild fire.

There’s a spark and suddenly it’s raging, engulfing everything in its path.

Love that’s based on friendship and compatibility starts quietly.

 

It can take a while before there’s even a tiny flicker but if you nurture it, it builds slowly but consistently.

Passionate love has a high likelihood of burning out because it puts people on high pedestals and tends to involve idealisation.

The sort of people who think passionate love is the only relationship worth considering are often idealists; romantic fantasists who are easily disappointed when their lovers turn out to be human and imperfect.

4. Too much too soon blinds us to the real person

Strong feeling and emotion very early into a relationship isn’t necessarily a good thing for another reason: new sex and falling in love can blind us to what’s really in front of us.

We fall in love with the idea of being in love before we really get to know the person.

Love that starts as friendship or I-really-like-them-but-not-sure-if-I-fancy-them is built on a foundation of things that matter.

You keep seeing those people not for their looks or sexual appeal but because you like their personality and sense of humour; they’re kind to you and great company.

These qualities aren’t transient: unlike looks or sex appeal they last the test of time.

5. But what about sex?

True, chemistry is helpful when it comes to sex and you obviously need to find the person attractive in some way for the relationships to work romantically.

But familiarity breeds lust: research shows the more we like someone, the more attractive they get.

Just because they didn’t blow your socks off attraction wise on date one, two or three doesn’t mean they won’t a few weeks or months in.

The more we get to know someone, the more attractive qualities you’ll see.

We’ve all watched a couple where one or both change over the years.

Put someone you couldn’t possibly fancy in different clothes, give them a new hair cut and a confidence boost and you might be very surprised by how you feel.

Besides, they just might have something else under their belt – great technique.

Nothing is more important for satisfying, long-term sex than good technique.

They might not be a 10 in the looks department but that doesn’t mean they won’t be a 10 in bed!

Less attractive people are more likely to have their sexual skills than Mr or Mrs Sex On Legs because they know they can’t just coast on their looks.

(Also, remember, technique can be taught. You can turn anyone into a fantastic lover if you tell them what you want and crave.)

6. Liking someone is more important than loving someone

Recent US research – 50 years worth – studied couples to find out the secrets to making a relationship last.

Not surprisingly, they found ‘being able to talk and laugh’ as one of the top four qualities.

If you can laugh during times of greatest stress, there is enormous potential for survival and growth, say the researchers.

Go for the guy who listens and makes you laugh and you can’t go wrong.

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