Here’s where most women go wrong in a relationship

Today, I want to throw some insights into where women mess up when it comes to romantic relationships.

1. Overstepping their position

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There’s a reason why you are a girlfriend and not a wife. Don’t try to take up wifely duties for a guy who hasn’t ask you to be his other half. Acting like one only makes the guy angry. From here, things can nose diver real quick and trying to get them back in position can be a daunting assignment. If you are a girlfriend play along that line of duty.

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2. Camping

It all starts with subtle signs. Leaving your panty, your toothbrush, your earing, lip balm etc. As the visits intensify, more things get “forgotten” in a man’s house. How a woman ends up being part of the occupants of the house, only God knows. However, this move has caused many men to chase women out of their houses. Don’t make yourself part of the deal you signed alone. Utafukuzwa usiku wa manane!

3. Nagging

This comes as a default setting for women but some are too much. We love the drama as men. It keeps us in check. But sometimes things can go too far. We hate a woman who complains for the bigger part of the day.

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It becomes stressful. There’s already too much stress out here and we seek peace back home. You can’t be part of our headache. The issue has never been what you say but rather how you say it.

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4. Marriage pressure

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Past 27 years, most women desperately want to settle down with a man. It’s no wonder some of them will start asking when you plan to propose to them and your future plans with them. As men, we don’t like this type of pressure. Maybe you ain’t even who we want to settle with. Be calm and wait for that proposal. If you feel that it’s a long time to come through, you can as well hit the exit door.

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Bodaboda guy to watchies: People who know more about your potential bae

In case you want to start dating, I have something urgent you need to know fellas.

Everyone has that one person who gives them goosebumps. If you want to go after them, that’s a personal choice you can make. These relationship waters are mucky though.

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With that said, there are a few people in your social circles who know more than you regarding your potential target.

1. Bodaboda guy

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These guys witness a lot before the day ends. “Uyu msichana si ana vituko mingi,” in case they say this to you, my brother- abort mission! They drop people in different places every day. They get called in the middle of the night to pick someone and get them dropped to their destination. If he says this, be sure he has dropped that lady several times at different places. You just happen to in the waiting line. Young man, stay woke.

2. Mama Mboga

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They witness women come wearing all sorts of indecent clothes. Men in the company of women getting dropped off at the stage and passing by at her “kibanda” to buy groceries. They see men switching women and vice versa. They are to date with the hood romantic drama and if you listen to them carefully, you can always know who to chase and who to keep at bay.

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3. Watchmen

This is for those people who live in the rich suburbs. These guys witness more than the walls do. They allow people on foot and those driving.

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With majority of Kenyans living a nocturnal life, the night brings forth a lot of drama and shock for their eyes. Men sneaking women late in the night and having to tip them to avoid being snitched on. Listen to them if they tell you that person is a no go zone. They have first-hand information.

4. The hair dresser

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The amount of shenanigans brewed in those saloons makes the devil question his purpose. If you want to keep tabs with whats trending in your hood, just spend time in these places. Your ears might get sick over the trash talk. As much as what is said is rumors, don’t underestimate what comes out of these women’s mouths. They know so many shocking details about people. Pay attention when they tell you to leave that guy alone.

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The type of men we are raising as a nation

Men are an integral part of the society. The modern society has shaped a man into volatile being.

This has led to a society full of men projecting their frustrations towards other men, women and children. Here are some of the negative traits;

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1. Narcissism

Most men have a high sense of entitlement. They can go to the extreme bad to get what they believe is rightfully theirs. In most cases, fights have ensued as men try to outdo each other. This has killed courtesy words such as excuse me, I am sorry, please as most men don’t observe them.

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2.Violence

The media have been awash with stories of men raining blows over their women to the extent of murdering them. We are raising a society of men who solve their arguments by hitting their partners. Coupled with copious amount of anger, most men are easily agitated and end up venting their frustrations through violence. The idea passed around among men that hitting a woman once in a while is okay has enabled the unending violence towards women.

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3. Alcoholism

It’s evident that a huge number of men are struggling with alcohol addiction. Coupled with drug abuse, this has proved to be a huge menace. Men spend their evenings sipping from huge mugs filled with alcohol. They head back home wasted. All they demand for is food. Women are left frustrated as no ‘twa twa’ is given to them. Much of what they have earned for the day is spent on alcohol and women.

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4. Gambling

This has turned out to be the modern addiction. A huge number of men own at least two betting sites. They place bets on their favorite football clubs. They end up loosing more than they gain. Men love risking and this is one of the reasons gambling has gained traction here in Kenya. With various avenues to bet from, most men have been held slavery to this act.

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5. Randy

Sex is a man’s need. Men will do almost anything for that “twa twa” session. We live in a society where men view women as mere sex tools to help them quench their thirst. This has led to a breed of men who can get away with slut shaming women, touching women indecently in public and cat calling just to name but a few.

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What would you do if you find out your partner is gay?

“I walked out of the relationship immediately. If he was cheating on me with a woman, maybe I could have understood. But that my husband was the ‘woman’ in our own bedroom no way!”

This is the confession of Jane Muigai (not her real name).

Jane (37) discovered that her husband was a closet homosexual after 15 years and three lovely children.

“It was in 2015  when a missed flight at the airport saw me returning home. On arrival, I  was confronted by the reality of my man’s double life,” she recounts.

She said her seeing her then  ‘love of her life’ having a romp with another man left her speechless, sick and confused.

Asked whether she had her suspicions before?

“Well, most of his phone conversations were with men. We also had not had intercourse in years but it did not occur to me he would be gay,” she said.

Jane said her husband was a ‘staunch’ Christian who strongly condemned any hint of homosexuality.

Four years after the breakup, Jane boasts of a better relationship.

“I am happily remarried. This time I am very keen. Once bitten twice shy,” she said.

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OLDER WOMEN

The revelation can be particularly difficult for older women who imagined a peaceful retirement, spending their golden years alongside their partner, enjoying visits from grandchildren.

For Mary Akinyi (not her real name) she decided to stay in the relationship.

Akinyi (57) discovered his husband was gay in 2013 after 22 years in marriage.

“We have not had sex in years, but I cannot leave him. I also love my children and I can never think of telling them that their father, whom they look up to and love, is gay,” she said.

Despite an outward display of being a happy family woman, deep inside Akinyi is afraid he may never find real love.

As a 57-year-old straight woman in a heterosexual marriage, she has resigned himself to meeting people who want to blackmail her with threats of exposing her husband’s secret something which she says has happened on three occasions.

MEN VICTIMS TOO

It is not just married women who discover their spouses playing for the wrong team. Men too have caught their wives red-handed with women lovers.

Mark Mutiso (not his real name), discovered that the woman he was cohabiting with and considering tying the knot with was actually turned on by other women.

“We had to call it quits since I  did not want drama in my life. Where I am fighting fellow ladies for a woman,” Mutiso said.

ONE BIG HAPPY FAMILY

Whereas Mutiso could not share his woman with another woman, Kevin (not real name), a chef, does not mind a three-way relationship with his Burundian wife, Diana.

Kevin who runs a restaurant in one of Nairobi’s leafy suburbs has no qualms when his wife brings women to their matrimonial bed.

“It spices up our intercourse life and besides, which man would resist two women in his bed,” poses Francis.

“I don’t think this is cheating because my wife does the hunting,” he adds.

Moving forward

As partners ‘come out’, many partners find themselves shoved in the closet. Experts advise that one should seek immediate counselling services.

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Heartbreaking: Ex-boyfriend, 32, ‘held his former lover captive, forced her to act like a dog’

A woman has told how she was allegedly forced to act like a dog while being held captive by her abusive ex before he forced her to eat her eyebrows and eyelashes – and hacked her hair off with a knife

Danielle Dodds sobbed as she relived the ‘torturous’ assault she claims Garry McNeill carried out on her.

Miss Dodds said she was left covered in bruises with a burst lip as McNeill carried out a prolonged attacked her at her home in Linwood, Renfrewshire.

Danielle Dodds sobbed as she relived the 'torturous' assault she claims Garry McNeill carried out on her

And she said she thought she was going to die during the attack – and made peace with the fact she was going to be killed.

But she lived to tell the tale of the alleged attack, saying it came to an end when he fell asleep – and she managed to flee her property.

Giving evidence during his trial at Paisley Sheriff Court this week, Miss Dodds explained: ‘He pulled my eyelashes out. He wanted me to eat them. ‘He also pulled out part of my eyebrows.

‘He twisted my arm up my back and pushed my face in to the sofa. ‘There was a lot of prolonged aggression before he got to the torturous stuff, to be honest. ‘He had his hands on my throat. ‘He also put a blanket down my throat to stop me breathing and I was choking.

‘All of this happened on the sofa before pulling out my eyelashes. ‘He sat on top of me and was trying to ram them into my mouth. ‘I tried to keep my mouth shut as long as possible. I think I swallowed them.’

Miss Dodds said the attack continued and moved from her bedroom to the kitchen, where McNeill used a knife on her.

She explained: ‘He asked me if I would like a haircut. ‘I know Garry, I knew there was no point saying ‘no’ – it was happening. ‘He grabbed me by the top knot, pushed me on to the knees and pulled me to the kitchen like a dog and made me bark. ‘I was on my knees and he was pulling my hair.

‘He asked where I kept the scissors and I said I didn’t have any. ‘He said, ‘okay, it’ll need to be a kitchen knife, then’.

‘He grabbed me by the hair and hacked my hair off. ‘Then he asked me if he was ‘a good hairdresser’, because his mum is a hairdresser. ‘I said, ‘no’, and he said, ‘I need some practice, then, let’s go again!’. ‘He hacked away at my hair again – there was hair all over the floor.

‘There was no point in me fighting back, I thought he was going to kill me. ‘I thought I was going to be found dead in the morning, so I thought, ‘I know what he’s like, let’s just crack on and get this done’.’

Miss Dodds said that, during the attack, she managed to make a run for her front door and got out of the internal front door but got stuck in the porch.

She said Garry chased after her and caught her in the porch, pulled her back in to the flat and started raining blows on her head.

She explained: ‘He was sitting on top of me, asking me questions and, for every response he didn’t like, he punched me in the face. ‘This lasted for about 30 to 45 minutes.

‘I remember blacking out but I came back round quite quickly. ‘He eventually let me go to the toilet.’ Miss Dodds said McNeill later went to bed and fell asleep and that she managed to convince him while he was half asleep to give her back her phone.

She said she scoured her house for her spare car key, as he had the other, and that she texted a friend before leaving her property and eventually calling the police.

And she said she only returned to her home when police confirmed to her McNeill had been arrested in relation to the alleged attack.

McNeill, 32, of Glasgow, maintains his innocence over the November 2018 alleged assault and the trial, before Sheriff Colin Pettigrew, is due to continue later this month.

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Is This Former TPF Winner, Ruth Matete’s Man? Here’s Her Confession

Gospel singer, Ruth Matete has left tongues wagging on the inter webs after she posted an encrypted message on her Instagram page and a photo of her alongside one man whom she praised for helping her stand on her feet again.

According the TPF season five winner, the mystery man came at the right time when she needed redemption from her struggles and helped her see light at the end of the tunnel.

And I thought to myself, am I of any value to this world? You meet someone and they tell you it shall be well some day. God will make a way!!

The songbird has been posting a number of photos chilling with this very man whom seems to be the love of her life.

From going for road trips (recently they were in Nanyuki) to wearing matching shoes to hanging out in social places, the two are inseparable.

Check out some of their photos together below.

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She posted.

Matete then went on to narrate how she unsuccessfully tried to take her life numerous times after she had hit rock bottom. From her finances, relationships to ministry, nothing was working and at one point she thought God was indeed punishing her for something she had done.

Read her emotional post below.

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It’s been a while since I wrote something long.. The last week has been such a reflective week for me.. I am the kind of person who Writes when I feel overwhelmed, either in a good way or bad way. And recently, I have just been thinking of God’s goodness.

I’m sure we all have that one time in our lives when things were so bad we can’t compare it with any other time in our lives. I have such a year. And I remember how everything was not working for me. Thought of taking my life to end all the pain and misery… And to some point I actually tried but I wasn’t successful because God!
Finances were not working. Relationship not working. Some main friendships ended…. Ministry was not working. And I thought to myself, am I of any value to this world? You meet someone and they tell you it shall be well some day. God will make a way!! 😥😥😥 I didn’t want to hear anything that talked of future. I wanted a solution now now now! I wanted to hear, “God has made a way” “Things are okay”
It is then that I learned that you never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have. One time I moved out of my house and went to live with my dad because he was scared staying alone was not safe. I kept trying to kill myself to no avail.. At some point I even believed that God was punishing me for something I did.. Oh my!! I could write and write. But I have seen God. I have learned some major lessons in life.. 1. The pain we go through is to prepare us for the future

2. God’s timing is the best

3. God knows when you hurt and He has a reason for allowing the pain

4. The day you find out your purpose is the day you start living

5. Forgiveness of sin does not take away the punishment or consequences of the sin (Ask David in the bible)

6. God coreects us coz He loves us

7. When God wipes away your tears, He wipes it all… I mean, every kind of tear at once

8. Only God can heal a wounded heart

9. God forgives. Man does not!
10. Seek ye first the kigdom of God and His righteousness, and all these other things shall be added unto you.
#SeekForTheMainThing #God#GiveMeJesus #Purpose #Vision #Wait#Hope #Trust #IamHappy

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‘I am tired of my boyfriend!’ cries woman after dating for two years

A 24-year woman has confessed that she’s no longer interested in her boyfriend after dating for close to two years.

The woman claims that her 28-year-old boyfriend is clueless and has no plans for the future.”

“I can’t believe I am doing this..but this seems like a last resort for me…l am so tired of my present relationship. I have been dating this guy for close to 2 years.

When I met him…He was completely clueless about what he wants out of life. He just doesn’t fit me looking at him now. He is as clueless as when we met. The annoying part is I respect him so much. He cannot boldly say He has given me ANYTHING since we started dating. I have spent stipend on him countless times.

I have my flaws which he overlooks. I am just tired of him getting angry over little things, and bringing out past offense when there is another offense. I really don’t think I can handle this again. I am totally fed up. What should I do?

Reactions include:

mz_lemons: Do what makes you happy..

damz: He’s still young please leave him alone! Women mature faster than men

cheeryblozzomstore: If you are tired leave.

peters_mith: Walk away now.

da_veid: Isn’t love supposed to forgive and forget….or how does love work again?

single_parents_in_africa: If you are not careful, you’ll join him. Dump him now if you want to stay sane.

hrh_nma: Then you break up and move on… Why do people complain about everything? Bounce if you can’t take the heat …

_thatgirl_tasha: Since he’s clueless walk out of his life a guy might not hv cash but he has plans.

Shemeji Ni Mboga! Man dumps wife and marries her sister for this silly excuse

The fact that marriages in Kenya are crushing at an alarming rate is not a story.

What is interesting is the story behind the break-ups. From not fulfilling your matrimonial duties, to financial disagreements, to sliding in the DM, many people are separating from their spouses.

Well, on the Classic overdrive with Mike Mondo, a frustrated man disclosed that he has dumped his wife of 11 years to hook up with her sister.

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Urrrgh! Can you imagine going back to the father-in-law and saying that you are done with one daughter and can you please have another? Yup!. The man has no qualms with doing so, and parted from his wife.

Presenter Mike Mondo was rather interested to know what led to the break-up, and it’s because of the silliest reason.

Just listen to the outrageous account of his life and reactions from male listeners who don’t agree with what he has done audio, utajua hujui shemeji ni mboga.

Kenyan Granny files for divorce after 55 years of marriage

A 73-year-old retired teacher has filed a petition in a Kangema court to end her marriage to her 76-year-old husband, citing his ‘neglect of matrimonial duties’.

Marcella Mukami from Kiru location in Mathioya constituency said Peter Kinyugo, her husband of 55 years, abandoned her after marrying a second wife.

Mukami accused Kinyugo, a retired chief, of neglecting her family since 1984, when he married Triza Mulinge.
“The problems in our marriage were aggravated six years ago when my husband started spending weeks at my co-wife’s home without paying me a visit,” Mukami told the court on Thursday.

She said when Kinyugo married a second wife, he moved her into a house they had converted into a cow pen.
Mukami and Kinyugo have one child. Kinyugo has three children with Mulinge.

Senior resident magistrate Dennis Kivuti adjourned the hearing after Mukami protested the production of her family photographs and NHIF documents contrary to the laid down procedures.

The magistrate scheduled the case for hearing on January 18 to give time to the two parties to exchange their details and documents to allow the suit to proceed.

Kinyugo had asked the court to allow the case to proceed, saying he produced the photographs to remind her of the family activities both Mukami and Mulinge were involved in.

But Mukami’s lawyer Margaret Nyang’ati objected the production of the documents in court, saying her husband was ambushing her instead of following the legal procedure.

Mukami, who uses a wheelchair, was taken to the court from Huruma Hospital in Nanyuki where she is admitted.

-The STAR/ Alice Waithera

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Woman Discovers Secret Weapon To Lure Men Into Loving Her

The scent we give off – chemicals known as pheromones – are believed to play a big role in attraction.

One woman has gone to extremes to put this to test: by using her own vaginal secretions as an aphrodisiac perfume to attract men.

After carrying out some research into how, writer Allison Ramirez discovered ‘you basically just have to stick a finger down there and then use said finger to dab your “natural perfume” on your pulse points.’

According to the history books, this was a method of seduction used by courtesans of medieval Europe, who spritzed their vaginal secretions behind their ears and necks and on their chests.

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But Allison felt this was ‘a bit uncivilized’ and enlisted the help of a perfume maker to create her own personalised scent.

The ’20-something’ social media manager tested the product on a string of dates and was pleasantly surprised to find it worked. One romantic encounter ended with a smooch in a photo booth and another led to a text to meet up again.

Here she reveals in more detail all about her encounters armed with her ‘secret weapon’.

The Los Angles journalist, who carried  as part of an experiment for a Cosmopolitan feature, consulted with Saskia Wilson-Brown, the founder and director of the Institute for Art and Olfaction, who runs perfume making workshops.

She told her that essential oils rose, cinnamon, aniseed, and benzoin have aphrodisiac qualities and could work mixed with her womanly juices.

However, she warned that ‘body fluids and sweat are not stable, and probably wouldn’t do well in a formula’.

Saskia also informed her scents like pumpkin pie, lavender, licorice, and doughnuts have been found to increase blood flow to a man’s erection in a study carried out by the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago.

In the end, Allison settled on creating a sweet-smelling scent of her vagina secretions mixed with cedar, rose and civette.

black-woman-socializing-pf-378x338Armed with her ‘secret weapon’, Allison then tested out her new perfume by going out on dates.

On the first night, she met up with an old friend and ended up sharing a drunken kiss with him in a photo booth.

‘Then all of a sudden, teeth!’ she wrote. ‘It was funny, but it also kind of hurt.’

She says he replied: ‘I can’t help it. It’s that scent you have.’

Allison added: ‘The rest of the night was a blur, but his comment and actions were a pretty good indicator that my perfume was working.’

The next day she reported reapplying the purfume and visiting a McDonald’s, where she says ‘the cashier was a little nicer to me than normal’.

‘He usually rings me up without speaking to me, and this time I got a smile,’ she explained.

Days later, Allison wore her scent for a date with a friend of a friend.

She revealed he didn’t say or do anything during the date to indicate the perfume had worked but he did text her later saying he had fun and asking her out again.

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Uriri Man Commits Suicide In His First Wife’s House After Second Wife Ditched Him

A jilted man from Piny Owacho village in Uriri sub-county committed suicide in his first wife’s house after his second wife left him.

Eric Odii was pronounced dead after his family rushed him to the hospital on Friday evening.

He consumed the poison after prolonged marital squabbles.

Landi Oganyo, the deceased’s brother, said the man confessed to drinking poison when they found him complaining of stomach ache.

He said Odii refused to tell them which poison he had consumed.

The family said the man has been traumatised since his second wife ran away.

“He took lunch at Rapogi center before he committed suicide in his first wife’s house,” Oganyo said.

The previous day, the jilted man tried to follow his wife to their home in Suna West sub-county and was distressed after being told his wife had left for Nairobi.

Area assistant chief Juliet Atieno said the first wife found the cup which Odii used to drink the poisonous substance.

The body was taken to Rapcom hospital mortuary as investigations into the death continue.

-The Star|MANUEL ODENY

Women Beware! Signs Of An Insecure Man In A Relationship

Everyday on the Classic 105 breakfast show with Maina Kageni, we tackle relationship matters and listeners get a chance to chip in with their two cents.

One of the outstanding relationship drama we constantly hear is about insecure or paranoid men.

Where does this fear or insecurity arise from? Being in a relationship is something that needs time and dedication for it to work. Relationships are hard to deal with at some point and one would even give up without even trying to do something that would make your relationship work.

Being in love and to be loved is a healthy thing in life though  not all relationships work out, there are some people who will endure anything just to make their relationships work and set example that people in love can endure anything in this life.

Though there are some instances where your partner can be paranoid or insecure just because he or she loves you so much. If you want to know the signs of an insecure man, here are ways of finding out:

1. Jealous Of your male friends

A man who is jealous about your male friends is an indication that he is so much insecure with you. Always checking what you and your friends are up to and even requesting to join you when your friends want to take you out should make you ask yourself why he is doing such a thing or what he wants to achieve with that.

2. Eavesdropping on your communication with friends

When a friend calls you and you see your man eavesdropping it’s a sign that he wants to find out what the two of you are discussing about. This should make you worried at least because at some point he would even ask you to speak to your friend on loud speaker.

3. Gets mad when you take long to reply to his messages and phone calls

God forbid he calls you and you fail to pick up, or worse respond to his text messages. Woe onto you girls. Your man will expect answers as to why you didn’t pick up on time. Your man could even go as far as giving you silent treatment, especially if he is a very emotional man.

4. Gets mad when you talk to your ex boyfriend

It’s been said that men are more jealous than women, especially when they see their main girl talking to her ex. Perhaps he feels he doesn’t measure up? Or perhaps the man feels his wife or girlfriend still has some feelings left and could be in the process of rekindling their lost romance. Some never want to see you talk to your ex and would even prefer you change your number or even block the guy to cut the communication between you.

5. Calling every time to find out where you are

This is the biggest sign of an insecure man. A guy called in to the classic 105 show, confessing he calls his wife 30 times a day. Yani, why can’t he give her a break? When a guy calls you every time to find out where you are, what you are doing and who you are with then it simply means he is very insecure.

 

I’m In Love With This Man I Stalk On Facebook. How Do I Tell Him? Confesses City Woman

Do you currently stalk or have you ever followed your crush online, spying on their feed just to know what they are upto? I know alot of us do, but won’t confess.

Alot of relationships have been established on social media, and others have been destroyed by it. But this hasn’t deterred one city woman from proudly declaring that she has been eyeing someone on Facebook.

A lady took to social media to narrate  how she is confused about what to do after crushing on a guy on Facebook.

She has been crushing on him for sometime now, about five months and has been stalking him on Instagram and Facebook.

She says she has about 20 screenshots of him on her phone after checking out his profile, but she does not know how to go about it. She wonders if she should tell the guy or not.

Her confession is that she had sent him a “hi” message before but he did not reply and that left her feeling very bad and she is confused not knowing whether the guy will feel like she is a gold digger or maybe that’s how she goes crushing on different guys online.

“I have never felt this way before. I don’t even understand it”. She said

Here is her message:

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Dear Classic 105 fam, what would you advice her to do?

Viral Video Of A Woman Proposing To A Man Elicits Various Reactions. Is It Weird? (Man’s Crazy Reaction In Video)

Are we still living in the age where men are believed to be the ones who are supposed to propose to their women?

Well, that should not be the case because either a man or a woman can propose to each other. It is very romantic for a woman to propose to her man compared to a man proposing to her woman because people are already used to seeing men doing that compared to women which is a very rare case.

A woman in Nigeria surprised her man at a public place seeking for his hand in marriage on her knees showing his man the beautiful ring that she had bought for him and the man said yes to the proposal.

Those who were around saw the gesture and after the man accepted the proposal they applauded them. Women all over should follow this kind of footstep and stop waiting for the man to propose.

This saw reactions from various people…

Andea: I would never ever 🤦🏽‍♀️🙅🏽🙅🏽🙅🏽 all of you saying this is normal?? For where is this normal?? 😂😂 will she also pay dowry?? 🙄😩😂😂🙅🏽🙅🏽🙅🏽

Michael: Wow am speechless, am single and searching any lady in the house pls?

Debbi: What the heck😕 instead the man proposing to her, she’s proposing to him???😏🙅

Michelle: Everything for Nigeria no dey normal..abomination, abnormal, some Nigeria women don do am secretly and they are happily married…she’s not stupid 👎 she only did what she think is good for her👍 who’s game jor 😂 come I propose💍😜🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

Hannah B: And then there’s haters saying it should be the other way round. Somebody tell me where in the bible or dictionary that it says “only men can propose”.

Chijioke:  Nothing is normal about this!!!… Humans think that they can up turn the order created!!… It’s always been a man to find a wife not a woman to find a husband…Everyone one will give kudos to d lady.. “It’s normal”..”she is brave”…”that’s how it should be!!… We are in d 21st century for God sake”..well… It al ends here. When issue arises and d lady tells d man”after all I married you”…then slap, blow… Everyone of you will be in your house..everyone praising the lady should instruct their daughters to propose to their boyfriends.

Check out the man’s reaction in the video below…

Could Ghosting Be The Best Way Of Ending A Relationship?

When you want to break up with someone, do you sit them down, call them up or text them to let them know it’s over? Does it work well for you when you end the relationship that way or you would rather just disappear.

Ghosting is an expression used in dating terms and it’s when someone suddenly cuts all ties and communication with the person they’ve been seeing.

It was the dating buzz word that was widely used in 2015 and 2016.

Well I know most men and young girls love the ghosting idea.You want to know what it’s all about.Well in this case you just go silent and behave like nothing went wrong.When texted you don’t respond and when called you choose when to answer or not.What are the benefits of Ghosting;

1.) You don’t have to explain why you ended the relationship.

2.) You heal and move on faster.

3.) You feel like the hero because you ended it first.

So ghosting is all about a complete disappearing act rather than a proper goodbye.You end the romantic relationship by cutting off all contact and ignoring the former partner’s attempts to reach out. So have you “ghosted’ someone.” If so how many times or have been ghosted by someone.

If you have been ghosted then this is how to know if you’ve been a victim and what you need to do;

If you know you are in a relationship and the person does not communicate the same way they used to especially if it’s been two weeks and they are not communicating and you had no argument or you had one but it was not all that bad, then you have been ghosted.

Secondly you know this person will soon ghost you if he has never introduced you to his friends or literally anyone as his or her partner but just a friend. Be careful, you will soon be ghosted because this person is just wasting your time.

Thirdly if whenever you are making serious decisions in your lives, they never want to be part and parcel of it, you are definitely on your way to being ghosted. And if they equally don”t let you into their lives then that is not a relationship.

So since you have an idea of signs that you are about to be ghosted how do you deal with it when it happens;

First, don’t bother calling the person, i’m sure it can be tempting but remember you need to care less about them just the same way they care less about you.

Secondly, don’t stalk them.You want to turn into a stalker every time you are on their Facebook wall trying to see what they have been up to since you were ghosted by them. Or finding out from the friends, well they care less about you that’s why they left so why are you wasting your time stalking them.

Thirdly, accept and move on and don’t do anything stupid like commit suicide or fight them back or even think about telling the whole world of his groupies that you were ghosted.They possibly saw it coming and just thought you were so in love to believe that you will be ghosted. So walk away and stay calm.

Finally be careful that the next relationship you get into won’t be with someone who will make you go through the same pain. Well it’s true even our own celebrities do this, they post pictures and we think they are dating and before we know it they have ghosted each other so watch out, you don’t get ghosted like Eric Omondi ghosted Jackie Maribe and even Dennis Okari was ghosted by his own wife and baby Mama Betty Kyalo and Lilian Muli also ghosted her husband.

 

 

He’s Drop Dead Hot!!! Sexy Singer Gin Ideal Reveals Her Ideal Man

Gin Ideal is one of the fast rising artistes in the Kenyan music industry. The petite female singer is the hit maker to the song Rede that topped charts barely a day after its release.

The singer who is irresistibly one sexy lass got to sit down with this writer and reveal her dream man. Since she got into the music game, Gin has been driving city boys all crazy on social media for what they term as her hotness. Lucky are those who have met her.

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Apart from her down to earth character that I got to experience with this singer, Ideal got to tell me all about her man. Although, there’s one thing she cannot do.

She told Classic 105;

“I always say I will never advertise any man on my social media anywhere unless I have a ring on my finger”

So why would she not “advertise” him?

“Because I don’t want it to be like Gin is with the boyfriend, they have broken up with the boyfriend…I don’t want that whole thing to surround my music.”

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The singer who now has a new hit dubbed ‘Kuna Kitu‘ went on to tell Classic 105 of her dream man;

‘My ideal man is Very Hardworking, someone who I can easily talk to about anything, someone whose brutally honest with me, who is loving, someone who is very clean.”

I know you can now imagine that kind of a man in your mind….But there is one more thing she revealed.

“I’m not all about tall, dark and handsome…”

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Did I forget to tell the thirsty team Mafisi this important point?

PS: she is taken!

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Vera Sidika is on demand!

When you think of Vera Sidika, what comes to mind is her bootylicious behind, her transformed skin and her flamboyant life. So, to get to her level, man, you need to have all it takes.

Well, it seems Harmonize, a popular Tanzanian singer could not help it but sing about Vera Sidika’s juicy, bum bum. His new song featuring Rich Mavoko Show Me is one that has evoked criticism from fans over what they say is a ratchet video.

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In his video, the singer has used Vera Sidika’s look alike in his video vixen as he mentions how he would love Vera Sidika to show him her Shape. Is Vera Sidika too expensive to get her to make a cameo on his video? I’ll let you judge on that.

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Harmonize released this song days after breaking up with his older girlfriend and actress Jacqueline Wolper. In an interview with Classic 105’s Maina Kageni, the Matatizo hitmaker cited that he was very single and ready for a Kenyan girl.

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I guess Vera Sidika was that girl. But then Harmonize seems to have a taste for older women. Is Vera Sidika in for this young star?

Here is the video;

Kenyan woman ordered to payback bride price

A woman has been ordered to pay back dowry, and college fees paid by her husband. This is after an appeal court delivered a landmark ruling granting her estranged husband a divorce and refund of monies paid as bride price.

The man and his wife had been embroiled in a legal battle for a while now, according to an article published on the Nation.

The man, a 45-year-old school administrator, will also receive a refund of college fees he had paid for his wife, Ms Everline Kerubo Makini. James Mayaka paid the money for her to attend the Narok Teacher’s college between 2002 and 2004.

According to the Nation, Ms Makini had appealed against an earlier ruling by the High Court in Kisii in February 2015 but judges Wanjiru Karanja, Festus Azangalala and Gatembu Kairu ruled last week that the appeal case had no merit and upheld the finding of the lower court.

The Nation continues to report that the High Court had ordered Ms Makini to refund Sh205,000, being part payment for bride price and the fees paid for her college education, plus interest.

Mr Mayaka had petitioned the court to order Ms Makini to pay back the Sh209,000 he paid for her at the college and that she also be ordered to refund the Sh120,000 bride price.

But the court ordered Ms Makini to refund part of the amount for each category; Sh104,000 for college fees and Sh60,000 for dowry, amounting to Sh164,000.

The figure, however, rises to Sh205,000 after factoring in the interest.

Speaking to the Nation on phone, Mr Mayaka who is from Mosebeti village in Nyamira County welcomed the ruling saying: “I am happy that there is justice for the oppressed.”

He said he will now concentrate on fighting for the custody of their two children aged 11 and 13 in a court in Nyamira.

“She took our children and I would want to legally have them back because I know they are suffering,” he said, adding that his estranged wife deserted their matrimonial home in 2009. They were married under Kisii customary law in 2000 and solemnised their wedding in 2004 at the Nyamira District Commissioner’s office.

He encouraged men facing similar circumstances to seek justice, adding: “Many are just ignorant and do not know that they can seek and get justice from courts.”