10 Weird things every couples does whenever together

Couples tend to do certain things that they actually cannot do when they are around other people.

Here is a list of those quirky and weird things you do with your bae behind closed doors.

Sharing food

When they are together they can feed their partner for all they care. It shows how much you care and love your wife or husband. This may not be the case when they are at a friend’s place or even in public but its more comfortable when they are on their own

Sharing and smelling clothes

They normally do this especially if they don’t wear the same clothing sizes. They can hence make fun on how each looks on the other partner’s attire. They can go to the extent of smelling the dirty clothes of their partner and make fun of the sweat smell.

Showering together

To other couples it can be a normal routine while to others it can be once in a while as a romance sign. All the same they cannot do it when anyone is around but themselves.

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Grooming each other

Your partner has to look nice and well presented all the time. This can be wiping some food remains off their face, teeth, hair or any sort of dirt.

Sharing toothbrushes

This can be unhealthy as other people see it but it is not the same case with your partner. When they become married for instance they become one hence can share anything that belongs to their partner. They may at times share them knowingly or unknowingly especially if the brushes resemble.

Hanging out naked

Spending time with your partner while half dressed or naked is not a bad idea. As a couple, they will find it comfortable and actually more romantic. It may seem disrespectful or embarrassing if someone finds them unexpectedly and thus why they do this in their own privacy.

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Cuddling

This the best place to be especially after a long tiresome day. It makes one feel relaxed under their partner’s arms and warmth. Cuddling actually can help one to get the best of mind and act as a stress reliever.

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Funny dance moves

This is a form of entertainment to kill boredom especially when they are free. This really strengthens the relationship as they share happy moments together. These dances can be either genuine or maybe they may be imitating someone who dances in those particular moves.

Backbiting other couples

This happens in basically all relationships. At the time they can talk about other couples either in a nice way or bad way depending on how they relate with them.

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Fights

Every marriage or relationship has challenges and fighting is one of them. This can be as a result of disagreement on a certain issue or in times of making decisions. Fighting can also be a sign of love especially when they are having fun or playing around the house.

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What would you do if you find out your partner is gay?

“I walked out of the relationship immediately. If he was cheating on me with a woman, maybe I could have understood. But that my husband was the ‘woman’ in our own bedroom no way!”

This is the confession of Jane Muigai (not her real name).

Jane (37) discovered that her husband was a closet homosexual after 15 years and three lovely children.

“It was in 2015  when a missed flight at the airport saw me returning home. On arrival, I  was confronted by the reality of my man’s double life,” she recounts.

She said her seeing her then  ‘love of her life’ having a romp with another man left her speechless, sick and confused.

Asked whether she had her suspicions before?

“Well, most of his phone conversations were with men. We also had not had intercourse in years but it did not occur to me he would be gay,” she said.

Jane said her husband was a ‘staunch’ Christian who strongly condemned any hint of homosexuality.

Four years after the breakup, Jane boasts of a better relationship.

“I am happily remarried. This time I am very keen. Once bitten twice shy,” she said.

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OLDER WOMEN

The revelation can be particularly difficult for older women who imagined a peaceful retirement, spending their golden years alongside their partner, enjoying visits from grandchildren.

For Mary Akinyi (not her real name) she decided to stay in the relationship.

Akinyi (57) discovered his husband was gay in 2013 after 22 years in marriage.

“We have not had sex in years, but I cannot leave him. I also love my children and I can never think of telling them that their father, whom they look up to and love, is gay,” she said.

Despite an outward display of being a happy family woman, deep inside Akinyi is afraid he may never find real love.

As a 57-year-old straight woman in a heterosexual marriage, she has resigned himself to meeting people who want to blackmail her with threats of exposing her husband’s secret something which she says has happened on three occasions.

MEN VICTIMS TOO

It is not just married women who discover their spouses playing for the wrong team. Men too have caught their wives red-handed with women lovers.

Mark Mutiso (not his real name), discovered that the woman he was cohabiting with and considering tying the knot with was actually turned on by other women.

“We had to call it quits since I  did not want drama in my life. Where I am fighting fellow ladies for a woman,” Mutiso said.

ONE BIG HAPPY FAMILY

Whereas Mutiso could not share his woman with another woman, Kevin (not real name), a chef, does not mind a three-way relationship with his Burundian wife, Diana.

Kevin who runs a restaurant in one of Nairobi’s leafy suburbs has no qualms when his wife brings women to their matrimonial bed.

“It spices up our intercourse life and besides, which man would resist two women in his bed,” poses Francis.

“I don’t think this is cheating because my wife does the hunting,” he adds.

Moving forward

As partners ‘come out’, many partners find themselves shoved in the closet. Experts advise that one should seek immediate counselling services.

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Rules to ensure that your marriage survives in an open relationship

Open relationships is not a new thing, it’s just that it’s now being highlighted in public, and social media.

Don’t just agree to go into an open relationship with your partner before setting your own terms. Who wants to get caught up in God knows what?

An open relationship is one which two partners agree to enter into intimate relationships with others, while still together.

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Below are rules to follow

  • Set Emotional Boundaries

Even though people say they don’t think they’ll get jealous, they often do!! Just stating facts. Navigating the emotional guidelines can be even trickier than the physical ones.

Be free to state what you want of your other. No one wants a heartbreak coming their way.

  • Discuss how much time you will spend with other partners.

Well, you want to get to know your other partner well or intimately but remember you also need time for both of you to keep your spark ignited.

One key thing to agree on is whether you’ll each be actively or passively exploring other relationships.

  • Be specific on whom you both hooking up with.

Despite it being an open relationship, it doesn’t necessary mean you are allowed to be with just anyone. Make sure your partner is aware and comfortable of whom you choose.

There are certain people one might feel more or less jealous or threatened by thus, good to discuss with your partner and know their preferences.

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  • Set your se3ual boundaries.

It’s better to talk these things through in advance rather than risking a partner’s surprise hurt or disappointment after the fact.”

Narrow down into detail, if it’s ok to be intimate or not. And if it’s ok to engage intimately, talk of safe measures and contraceptives.

Don’t shy off, that might be your breaking or making up factor.

 

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  • Decide how you will be talking on your relationship status between each other & others.

What to note; Will you tell each other about outside hookups at all? And if so, how much detail will you share? There’s likely going to be some element of trial and error here.

You might find that hearing that your partner was just with someone else makes you angry or makes you want to hear more.

After agreeing among the two of you, set records straight on what to tell others.

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  • Proper communication & Transparency

This should be the ground rule with your significant other if you are totally in the open relationship game.

Don’t let them hear rumors on whom you are hooking up with or what you been doing without informing them.

Listen more on the audio below on what Kenyans had to say

 

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‘His mpango wa kando comes to baby sit his kids’ Kenyans open up about accepting being in an open marriage/relationship (Audio)

 

Would you accept to be in an open relationship?

An open relationship/marriage refers to a marriage in which the partners agree to let each other have intimate relations outside the marriage.

During the Morning show on Classic 105 Maina Kageni gave his fans a chance to contribute on whether they would allow themselves to be in an open relationship and below are the responses.

“Open relationships work for some people and I think its incredible but for me I don’t want to share the person I love with anybody. I deserve to honor who I am and what I want.”

Another asks

“I share my wife with who? Lets share cars my wife should be like Caesars wife, beyond reproach, open relationship my foot.”

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Another adds

“Siwezi share bibi yangu na mtu,  hata kwa dawa. It’s like sharing a tooth brush with a neighbor over my dead body.”

Another fan says

“Sadly most of the relationships are open unaware by either of the party because when some issues are not addressed both of them opt  to sort it elsewhere.

Be worried when your partner stops complaining of matters that were of concern.”

Just when you think you have heard enough another female fan says

“I can relate to that. My friend’s husband brings his mpango wa kando in to the house, my friend had to adjust . Nowadays the mpango wa kando even comes to baby sit her kids and she has her own room in that house.”

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Listen to this pretty interesting conversation in the audio below:

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