If for some reason your marriage ended today, would you marry again?
This discussion was provoked by an article published in the local dailies asking Kenyan men to reveal if they would remarry, should their current marriage fail.
Not a single man said he would.
The constant nagging, monitoring every coin spent, accusing and control are some of the reasons why men find it hell being married.
Classic co-host Mwalimu Kingangi shared his thoughts saying
There are women who are headaches. Have you ever seen a trap you can’t get out of, there are men suffering, and would never remarry, it’s like going to form one again, never.
Mwalimu pleaded his case that many male listeners agreed with
there are men here who are finished, if they told their mother what they are going through, they would be taken back by mum, it’s just that they can’t report it to the cops
The true colors of one woman came out when she let the truth be known to men.
She was ready with some hard hitting facts for men saying
”Kenyan marriage life is a 50/50 gamble. If you want to marry a woman, you shouldn’t expect to be treated better while you treat her badly. Women too wouldn’t remarry after leaving our marriages!” #MainaAndKingangi
We don’t pretend, if you see something amiss, tell him. Ati oh if you ask a man where he has been, that he will now cheat on you? We won’t pretend that everything is ok when in the real sense it is not? My point is a man will cheat regardless, so lets not cheat each other in a marriage and if you feel you are not ready to get married, kaa na mama yako, na hakuna kubembelezana kwa marriage. Why should I beg you, it should not be one sided, not always women begging a man.