‘Never beg or plead in your marriage’ City mum advises 

 

If for some reason your marriage ended today, would you marry again?

This discussion was provoked by an article published in the local dailies asking Kenyan men to reveal if they would remarry, should their current marriage fail.

Not a single man said he would.

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The constant nagging, monitoring every coin spent, accusing and control are some of the reasons why men find it hell being married.

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Classic co-host Mwalimu Kingangi shared his thoughts saying

There are women who are headaches. Have you ever seen a trap you can’t get out of, there are men suffering, and would never remarry, it’s like going to form one again, never.

Mwalimu pleaded his case that many male listeners agreed with

there are men here who are finished, if they told their mother what they are going through, they would be taken back by mum, it’s just that they can’t report it to the cops

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The true colors of one woman came out when she let the truth be known to men.

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She was ready with some hard hitting facts for men saying

”Kenyan marriage life is a 50/50 gamble. If you want to marry a woman, you shouldn’t expect to be treated better while you treat her badly. Women too wouldn’t remarry after leaving our marriages!” #MainaAndKingangi

We don’t pretend, if you see something amiss, tell him. Ati oh if  you ask a man where he has been, that he will now cheat on  you? We won’t pretend that everything is ok when in the real sense it is not? My point is a man will cheat regardless, so lets not cheat each other in a marriage and if you feel you are not ready to get married, kaa na mama yako, na hakuna kubembelezana kwa marriage. Why should I beg you, it should not be one sided, not always women begging a man.

‘I dated him as a mkokoteni guy only to be dumped when he got rich’ -Mary

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A 33-year-old man caused a racas on Classic 105 after stating that wives should be taken to the village, where  they are more valuable to the family.

The man said

we cannot keep moving fom one place to another with our wives, we must leave our wives at home so that they can stabilize our homes,

I’m 33 and she is 28 and she has been in ushago for three years since graduating.

His comments riled Maina who responded

why marry someone like that and two if your education means nothing why go to school and who said it’s your decision to determine where a woman lives?

Mwalimu, who loves to push Maina’s boundaries supported the mans views commenting that

Ladies need to leave their degrees at the door once married

Many men responded to the dumping wife in the villages, with some pretty warped thoughts on women and their role in a marriage
Bronson kip..
why’d she come with me to Nairobi then she becomes a barrier whenever i do what i do that doest need her? She better stay at home doing something constractive

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Dr.Ndegwa..
Siwezi uza ng’ombe 10 kusomesha bibi University alafu nimrudishe mashinani kuchunga ng’ombe 5. A spouse should be a teammate. Build together at one spot. I am
doug onali chanchima..
Morning bibi ni kule mashambani mie in town to struggle for the better life of her

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Oscar Saina..
maina economic situation in kenya will make bibi akae nyumbani ajenge empire
Dan Patrick..
but mr Maina, can u compare a wife in gishagi making 5k a day with city wife making 30k per month…?? If it develops my family ill go for it.. #MainaAndKingangi

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