‘His life is complicated, I make it better’ side chick confesses

 

There is a lot of truth to the phrase “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.” Though this isn’t always the case if you read on below.

A man, his side chick and the wife are in an open relationship, and loving it.

They are making things work out because the wife has given permission to the side chick to handle her man in tough times.

The mistress told Maina Kageni on Thursday that

‘anytime they have an argument, she asks me to come in and neutralize things’

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She added

I have been a side chick for four years, and the man’s wife told me to take care of the man, and anytime she is not around anytime she needs her kids to be picked up she asks me to, anytime they have an argument I come in and neutralize things

This love triangle is so fascinating that Mwalimu Kingangi and Maina were left speechless.

There is no drama, heartache and scandals because as she explains ‘we are close’.

She figured that I came first in the man’s life before they got married, so when she realized I am still in her mans life she decided I would rather know there is only one person in his life. So we are very close and the man knows that. We actually have dinner together as a family, we even take the kids out together.

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Having more than one lover or significant other is perfectly fine, we should all do what makes us happy…. as long as you’re being honest and everyone is aware of everyone.

Dear Classic 105 fam, what has been your experience if any.

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‘We will see our children when we feel like it’ men tell side chicks

 

If you are a mpango wa kando stay in your lane ladies.

This was the message men asked Maina Kageni to pass on to Kenyan side chicks who feel they should be paid attention, just like wives.

Their message was

Please tell our ladies with whom we have children out there that we shall come into the lives of those children when the time is appropriate, don’t force the agenda,

That could be when they start schooling, that could even later in their life, don’t rush us.

Maina Kageni turned this into the morning conversation asking ladies if they were comfortable with the message.

Do you agree with them that men you have a child with and he is married with a family of his own, that his time is not your own, atakupimia masaa,

Do you understand where they are coming from ladies?

Several women called in responding with their own life stories with married men

One female caller shocked Maina when she said

It’s true, they will jipanga their time. Like for me nilipata ball and I never knew he was married, he came to see my child when he was two years and from then he comes when he feels like, he sees the child counted times, like four times in five years

And does he support his child financially?

No, maybe when he comes he says maybe nitalipa school fees, unamuwacha tuu, the first time when he say our child was when he was two years, you can’t force him, he will come when he feels like and say where is my daughter?

Another woman also concurred with her story

I have my man and he isn’t bothered being ther emotionally and financially, he has never seen our child. MMy baby is two years now, he has never seen her, he says when the time is appropriate, and when I was pregnant we were together, na kuzaa alikuwa, ehe,

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‘If you help a man grow he will eventually leave you,’ women declare

 

 

A list of the qualities women want in men has upset many.

Among the list is a man should earn a six figure salary and live in certain neighborhoods to date and eventually marry some Kenyan girls.

One woman who had a bad experience in her marriage defended girls rights to demand men be financially stable, rather than waste their time with deadbeats.

She told Classic 105’s Mike Mondo that

I’m talking from a point of experience. You support your husband because your putting in 50 per cent on the table of the family budget. You help him with everything, to build an empire.

You are woman carrying his children and then along the way when he feels comfortable because you have been supporting him, he feels he wants another woman to enjoy my sweat.

Look at the people who have been supported by their wives, other than having a mpango wa kando what else do they have? What does the man give despite insults at the end of the day? So let our daughters not contribute to the family.

Is this true that when you help a man grow financially, that eventually he is going to leave you asked mike Mondo.

Mwalimu wasn’t convinced that all men are bad, defending them by saying

It’s a few rotten apples, right now ladies need to help their men said Mwalimu.

 

Leave the few rotten apples a majority who have been helped by their woman are appreciative and if you do something good for men they never forget added mwalimu. The problem is bad news travels father than good news he reiterated.

Mike opene dup the conversation to listeners and online users.

Caller

I’ve been listening and my issue was I’ve been dating this guy. I delivered a baby in 2017. At their home we didn’t even have a toilet so I had to build a toilet. I built a three bedroom mansion, I built a gate of 35 thousand shillings. I bought a probox to do business, I have bought him a car and in April I found condom and I asked him what he was doing. He said he was given by those PSI guys.

Another female caller disclosed her story about being dumped for a younger girl

I’m paying a very big loan and he is enjoying himself with other women.

The situation is however not so bad for all woman. A female caller urging for restraint.

Relationships are about building each other and I understand why they can be bitter with a man after building him. My advice to women in relationships is give and take. If you reach a situation where you are the only giver and don’t get anything in return there is something wrong. When it is one sided you become bitter. You have to be careful to grow together ans that it’s not one sided.

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‘My wife sends money to other men but refused to bail me out while admitted in hospital’ Men narrate why they love their Mpango wa Kando’s to death

Mpango wa Kando’s are here to stay and that is the bitter truth that married women are putting up with.

Men have become more bold with their Mpango’s and hard as it may to believe, most men would rather spend on their mpango’s than on their  wives.

Here is why

“I have a wife and I met her when she was not working. When she got a job her true colors started popping.

She was busy splashing money on other men and relatives and when asked she would answer back by telling me that that is her money.

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I got fed up and decided to look for another woman because she used to use her money out there on her colleague.

The Mpesa transactions were there but what hurt me the most is that one day I was hospitalized and she refused to clear my bill saying that she don’t have money.”

He adds

“My second wife is who bailed me out, and right now my wife is jobless but I do not give a damn about what she goes through.”

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