Ben Kitili’s wife announces split from celebrity husband as she reveals ‘tough time’

 

KTN Tv anchor Ben Kitili and his wife have separated.

Bens wife Amina opened up about the split through Instagram saying they went their separate ways a month ago.

She says she broke her silence to avoid talk on the street about them.

She said ‘I want to clear the air before you start reading the headlines #thisismy story’

Ben Kitili with his wife Amina Mude and their kids
Ben Kitili with his wife Amina Mude and their kids

Ben’s wife Amina has also deleted their pictures together.

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She also admitted that ‘I don’t know what the future holds but I’m grateful for the beautiful memories and definitely the beautiful kids we made. It’s been one month of pain and tears but one day I know the light will shine’.

 

Ben Kitili with his wife Amina Mude and their kids
Ben Kitili with his wife Amina Mude and their kids

 

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5 reasons why you should marry in your 50’s

 

On the morning conversation with Mike Mondo and Mwalimu Kinga’ng’i, the topic was about why some famous Kenyans men like Charles Njonjo chose to get married later in life.

Sir Charles Njonjo married when he was 52, after lots of pressure from the late Mzee Jomo Kenyatta.

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At the time he revealed he couldn’t find a women he wanted to spend the rest of his life with.

Mike and Mwalimu debated the merits and disadvantages of marrying later in life, and also invited their listeners to submit views.

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Charles Njonjo

Here are five benefits of marrying in your 50’s:

You will only marry for love

Once you are in your late 40s or 50s, marriage union will only happen because of extreme love for each other. While most of us marry in pressure or for financial stability, kids or freedom early in our lives, people who marry late, do not have to succumb under any such pressure. All they need is pure companionship risen out of love. And that is the true essence of marriage which is why mostly second marriages are more successful.

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No insecurities

When you are younger, insecurities play out alot in your marriage. But as you age, these insecurities fade away. And once you enter in a relationship without any insecurities, it is way smoother.

No pressures in the relationship

There is no pressure to be anything other than yourself. The views and opinions of others matters little for instance the question of how soon you will get children will not arise.

No pretending
Since you are marrying later in life, there is no time for pretending about anything in life. A man or woman at this age only wants love, happiness and joy.

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You have enjoyed your single life completely

Being single is important early in life, and doing all that can be accomplished. So when you hit your 50’s you are ready to settle down no matter what and focus on the relationship.

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How to pamper your man in 20 easy ways

 

Girls how would you rate your relationship with your husband currently?

If things are thick, go through these 20 points and start making a change immediately.

1. Write a list of all the reasons you fell in love and married him. Read it to him, or leave it where he can find it.

2. Be affectionate at all time, with a hug, a wink, a spank on his backside, think out of the box girls. They will love it.

3. Whisper sweet nothings to him. Call, text, whatsapp or send him a naughty DM him at work.

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4. Be his ride or die. Drop whatever you are doing if he needs to talk to you about things he is having difficulty with. Sometimes he needs you to just listen, there are times he will ask for your opinion and there may be situations when he wants space. Do not be threatened when he needs time to be alone. Respond with compassion and understanding.

5. Do simple things for him often. Cook and serve his tea, make mandazi, polish his shoes or any small gesture that will make him feel loved and cared for.

6. Dress up for him, put some cute lipstick, or lipbalm if you’re not into beauty products. Dress up the part and flaunt your curves, he will notice and appreciate your effort.

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7. Pay attention to his needs. Sometimes we ladies tend to put our kids first, forgetting our husbands need our attention too. Make a conscious effort to take care of your husband and the little things he needs. You might need to mend his shirt, shop for new socks or buy his favourite coffee.

8. Run him a warm bath after a long day at work and hours in traffic. This Nairobi dust can also be something else. Prepare his slippers at the door, rub his back, give him a gentle massage or better yet, share the tub with him.

9. Get up early to prepare his favourite breakfast. Learn to cook if you don’t know how to. It’s true the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.

10. Tell his parents about how good a man your husband is. Praise them for raising him the way they did. This will not only please your husband, it will create a bond between you and his family.

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11. Make time for date nights, to keep the romance alive. He will always look forward to such moments.

12. Have impromptu parties, get togethers for him, and especially with his friends, can you picture him being the envy of his friends?

13. Assign and celebrate a day each month to be hubby’s day. Tell him it’s his special day, and you and your kids will do everything for him. Show him he is worth celebrating.

14. Drop your kiherehere. Find ways to talk to your husband about your needs without making it sound like you are complaining. Do not make your husband feel inadequate with your grievances, criticism and fault finding.

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15. Be the wife any husband will be proud of. Commit to learn new things, improve yourself and develop your own interests.

16. Is he balding, and the pot belly getting bigger? When he  gets insecure about his body and age, say kind words of encouragement and reassurance. Declare your devotion all over again. Remind him you married him warts and all, and will continue to love him for the rest of your life.

17. Pray with your husband especially when he is worried about something. He needs to know you are there for him.

18. Stay in bed with him when he is sick.

19. Find reasons to be together. Run errands with him, watch football with him (yes girls do it even if you don’t know what’s going on). He doesn’t really need you, but will appreciate the company.

 20. Brag about your husband to your friends, his and your family. Let everyone know how grateful you are about being married to a terrific guy. Let your husband know he is the world to you. Love him, adore him, and let him follow you to the ends of the earth!

DJ Gee Gee and wife open up about silent treatment and their imperfect marriage

Marriage is not a bed of roses and Citizen TV Bambika host DJ GeeGee has confirmed so. The father of one through his YouTube channel said no marriage is perfect and sharing his experience, he said,

I WASN’T COMMUNICATING TO MY WIFE AND THAT MEANT IT WAS EVEN HARDER FOR HER. THAT WAS ONE OF THE THINGS THAT MADE US REALLY GROW APART.

The media personality married his wife Jasmine in 2014 but four years later, they didn’t have a child yet. Jasmine narrated how on the night of their fourth anniversary they had the worst argument ever.

‘I BROUGHT UP THE CONVERSATION OF HAVING A BABY AND HE SAID I SHOULD GIVE HIM SOMETIME TO THINK ABOUT IT. I LACK PATIENCE. THAT WHEN I LOST IT, BECAUSE I WAS FEELING I HAD LOST MY YOUTH. I GOT MARRIED WHEN I HAD JUST TURNED 24. I DIDN’T WANT TO HAVE KIDS IN MY 30S. I THOUGHT HE DON’T WANNA HAVE KIDS. I THOUGHT I AM STUCK IN A CHILDLESS MARRIAGE,’ SHE SAID.

Adding,

AFTER THAT ARGUMENT, WE GREW FURTHER APART AND WE WOULD GO FOR TWO WEEKS WITHOUT TALKING. I CALLED MY MUM AND I WAS LIKE I AM COMING HOME.

 

The couple welcomed their first child a few months and on May 10 during Mother’s day, the disc jockey revealed that he was with his wife in the delivery room. In appreciation post to his wife, he wrote.

AFTER BEING AT THE DELIVERY ROOM WITH MY WIFE LIKE 9 MONTHS AGO, I REALIZED WHY THE MOTHERS’ DAY HYPE IS HUGE. MOTHER’S GO THROUGH A LOT FROM DELIVERY AND RAISING UP CHILDREN, TO ALL THE COUNTLESS MOTHERLY ROLES THAT THEY UNDERTAKE. I AM PERSONALLY EXCITED TO CELEBRATE MY WIFE ON HER FIRST MOTHERS’ DAY CELEBRATION. HAPPY MOTHERS’DAY JASMINE. YOU ARE DOING AN AMAZING JOB BEING A WIFE AND A MOTHER. SIKU NI YAKO, ULIZA UNACHOTAKA😂HAPPY MOTHERS’ DAY TO ALL MOTHER’S, MOTHER FIGURES, SPIRITUAL MOTHERS, FUTURE MOTHERS’ ETC MBARIKIWE SANA.

They named their son Uriah, which means God is light in Hebrew.

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Man told he’s adopted after discovering he is not his sons biological father

Decades old family secret was revealed in the most cruel way as one Twitter user shared a story of a mans mental struggles.

The man is suffering double tragedy after learning the son he always thought was his isn’t and worse his own parents announced to him that he is also not theirs biologically.

The heartbreaking story has attracted thousands of comments and began by disclosing that

Ngina Kenyatta hangs out with her adopted Luo brother(photo)

‘My friend just found out that his 7-year old isn’t his biological son. He has been threatening to leave the marriage and his parents have been begging him to stay. They told him that “this may be God’s plan” as he is also not their biological child. 2 revelations in 1 week.’

How would you feel if you found out your father was not your biological parent?

Abiodun Oluwaseun…
The stories surrounding DNA is getting scarier and I’m beginning to think it’s beyond infidelity. What if the baby was switched (changed) at the hospital at birth??? What if ?? Why can’t people go further to investigate the hospitals where the babies were born?

@Emmyebimoh..
Why did the parents choose to tell him this at the same time he found out his son wasn’t truly his? We should stop making everything ‘fit’ into God’s plan for our own selfish interest.

@phantomXsl..
I think his parent got it wrong. It’s a 2 different thing. Adopting a child is different from infidelity. They adopted him which was mutual agreement within the parents but his case is different from this.

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@nwaegbe_nkem..
Waow Hushed faceHushed faceHushed face I feel sad for him. Two earth shattering life events revealed in one fell swoop??? He might need to talk to a counselor. That’s a lot to take in for one person.

Dear Umu nwanyi ibe m,
Stop foisting children on men. It is not right.

@teemama2810..
I don’t get why he has to put up with a child that is not his just because he is not his ‘parents’ biological child.
This man should be allowed to make his decisions in this case.
Some women get mind sha.
Me I will pack and leave on my own sef.

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@ARAMIDE_analyze..
Why did his parents tell him that now it sounds more like a black mail to me than an explanation like we took u despite u not being our kid so u better take that kid
Who does that

@kabirdili..
This is a case of infidelity not adoption, his parents should understand that first. So they shouldn’t pressure him to stick with a wife he will continue to hate for what she did. As for the 7 yr old child, well it’s not going to be easy for him to stop being his dad.

@Sosobani..
Too many secrets ruins a family.

@Ifeade_Lu..
Nothing good ever comes out from cheating . Maybe the son was switched in the hospital? Maybe he wanted a son and she was pregnant with a girl and she paid the doctors and nurses to do the switch because this is too much in Nigeria.

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@freshprincegiwa..
Check on him to ensure he doesn’t commit suicide.

@que_hayes..
Talk about shattered trust. Poor man. My the lord be with him, thats not g— that’s a humans inability to be honest. That’s selfish af

@Ody_johnson..
Paternity fraud in this country is getting way way out of hand.

This is crazy

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10 things to stop doing if you’re unlucky in love

 

You have kissed 1000 frogs and not met the one yet.

If you feel unlucky in love, avoid doing any of these ten things:

1. Stop pitying yourself

It prevents you from finding someone else because of feelings of unworthiness. Many of us have and continue feeling this way. You are not meant to be alone.

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2. Don’t try so hard

We immediately jump back into the game with promises to do better next time. When you push yourself too hard you dont allow a genuine person to come into your life. People for your information smell a desperate person a mile off.

 

3. Hold no expectations

Having too many expectations of someone leads to disappointment.

Expect nothing and you’ll always be pleasantly surprised.

4. Don’t call him up

Listen sis, if a guy is done with you, let him go. Men should do the chasing, they love it..

5. Stop crying over them

Don’t waste your time crying over spilt milk. Crying over someone isn’t going to get you anywhere. Say thank you, next!!.

6. Keep some mystery

This is called TMI (too much information) A little mystery goes a long way. Keep yourself a little mysterious, that’s what keeps people’s attention.

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7. Stop blaming it on men

It’s not them. It’s you. This is all on you, because you keep going for the wrong person.

8. Stop going after the wrong guy

You may have a set mind what type of guy you like, however it is possible, you are focused on what shouldn’t be. Give another type of guy a chance.

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9. Be yourself

Simple.

10. Take a chance

You may surprise yourself with how well it goes.

11. Let go babe

Weka shida chini, mikono juu. It’s not worth holding on to for all the negative energy.

 

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Bereaved man’s scary and devastating moment wife left him after losing his job

 

A Kenyan man on Twitter identified as Andiwo has won hearts after his moving story of how his wife left him in his moment of need.

Andiwo revealed that his wife took everything from the house just after he had lost his job, leaving him with nothing. He was heartbroken and little did he know that it was a blessing in disguise.

So this photo was taken after our separation years back and she swept everything in our house, had just lost my job after losing dad and sister the same year, my son could sneak to check on me, had only one chair..it’s now six years and God has been good..am blessed,’ he posted accompanied by the photo below.

 ‘I prefer staying away from her, we haven’t communicated for over 6yrs now,’ he added.

The man’s son is all grown and they have a strong bond.

 

Andiwo’s tweet attracted 3.9k likes, over 600 retweets, and several comments.

 

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‘I got a second wife and expect them to get along’ polygamous man brags

Ladies, how would you feel if your husband says he wants to take a second wife?

A woman is living this painful experience and her husband admits he doesn’t care about her feelings, insisting she mst get along with her co wife.

Tne man was interviewed on Classic 105 and had no qualms admitting that the reason for seeking a second wife was because of boredom with the first.

He told Maina that

 

‘His first wife is a director in my company’ secret second wife brags

i think this relationship is workable I’m polygamous, my first wife had three, then i added another one with two kids, and this second one came with two and kids are big now. they were class one and nursery, and now they are in form four and no stress. It is something to discuss and agree, and she is a good women,

He admitted that the first wife wa snot able to cope with the situation, and had some harsh words for her

my first wife doesn’t like her and that’s not a big deal, she may never like her but I like her. the second wife knows we’ve all gone home to my parents, we’ve all met and discussed it, she may not like but she knows, she is there, I have never tried to reconcile, she is more or less accepting, she doesn’t like her coz she feels she came into her marriage, the second wife ha been with me almost 12 years.

He boldly stated he doesn’t consider his actions as betrayal, adding his reasons have been clear from the very beginning.

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Famous Kenyan men who have taken on several wives include, Francis Atwoli, the late John de Mathews, the late Ken Okoth, the late Nicholas Biwott, KANU politician Jackson Kibor among others.

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While some have worked it out with their wives to get along, others have divorced and moved on.

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Married man confesses obsession with mother in law

A married man has shocked many after he revealed that he is having an affair with his mother-in-law. He wrote to a relationship expert, confessing that he has been sleeping with his mother-in-law behind his wife’s back and he’s addicted to her.

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‘I had se3 with my mother-in-law in April and after that I tried to forget about it but I couldn’t stop thinking about her. I keep on having e**ctions and it’s painful. I mast**bate but I can’t stop thinking about her. Last week she called me to her house and we had se3 again. I blok her number but I end up blocking her and call,’ he wrote.

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Check out reactions;

secret_toolz So ur mother in law is your side chick
Only Jesus can save

dami Where was your wife when all this was happening???. Ahn God don’t use my husband to punish me for my sins and mistakes. This one is cursed.

olorianikeola You have a crown in hell fire already,

twinkles_ng Oh wow, this is more than s** it’s more than love. You need thorough prayers and deliverance

_edithakinyi You are cursed

oyin_damola It’s very wrong bro

 

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Size 8’s plea to Dj Mo for conjugal rights lands couple in counselling

 

In the premier of their Tv series ‘Dining With The Murayas’ DJ Mo and Size 8 get into a fight about conjugal rights.

A clip of the moment has gone viral showing their relationship is no different from others. They fight and have ups and downs. Their relationship isn’t perfect and have always admitted it.

The couple has a big jar in their house, where they write their problems on pieces of paper and drop them there to solve the issue later.

Size 8 complained about her husband denying her conjugal rights.

‘TUMEKAAA THREE WEEKS HATUJAHAVE SE3 KWA HII NYUMBA. FAULT NI YAKO. NIKIKUPIGIA SIMU YOU’RE BUSY WITH YOUR BOYS. [ITS BEE THREE WEEKS SINCE WE HAD SEX AND IT’S YOUR FAULT]. YOU CAN’T BE BUSY WORKING AND DENY ME MY CONJUGAL RIGHTS HUYU MSEE ANGEKUWA ANANIFANYIA JOB VENYE ANAFANYA HUKO NJE SI HAPA KWA HAO SI TUNGKUWA SAWA,’ SAID SIZE 8.

Dj Mo while defending himself said,

UNAJUA PIA WEWE SOMETIMES NIKIKUJA HME UMEVAA TSHIRT YA SENG’ENG’E..

‘Sasa fault ni yangu? Size 8 interjected. ‘Mo umeona ile issue unaeza ekelea ni tshirt pekee yake. Hauko serious. Tafuta venye tutasolve hii issue.’

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The couple called their pastor who came with his wife to counsel them.

‘WE ALWAYS HAVE PROBLEMS AND OUR MAIN PROBLEM, FOR NOW, IS DRY SPELL. I WANT YOU TO TALK TO HIM,’ THE MOTHER OF TWO TOLD HER PASTOR.

Explaining why he hasn’t been having lungula with his wife, the disc jockey said,

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UNAJUA MABOYS SAA ZENGINE UNAINGIA KWA NYUMBA UMECHOKA, UNAPATA AMEVAA TSHIRT NA UNAKOSA PSYCHE. SO YENYE ANAANZA KUONGEA VILE AKO DRY SPELL, SIMSHUGHULIKII…

His pastor, a father of four advised him to understand her, encourage her and used himself as an example to drive the point home.

SIO NYINYI PEKEE YAKE MKO NA HIZO SHIDA. EVEN US DURING OUR FIRST STAGES OF MARRIAGE I USED TO HAVE DRY SPELL. EVERYIME I ASK HER FOR SE3 SHE WOULD SAY SHE HAS A HEADACHE. THESE THINGS HAPPEN IN MARRIAGE AND AS A COUPLE, YOU HAVE TO COME UP WITH A STRATEGY. EVERY WOMAN HAS A *-SPOT AND YOU HAVE TO DISCOVER YOUR WIFE’S.

He added that,

YOU HAVE TO PREPARE/MARINATE HER FROM MORNING FOR SE3 [AT NIGHT] NOT JUST JUMPING ON HER.size 8 tv series

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On the other hand, the pastor’s wife, who was in the kitchen with Size 8 told her

‘HIS [HER PASYOR HUBBY] DEMAND WAS TOO HIGH. WE WOULD HAVE SE3 EVERY TIME.

The Mateke singer responded saying,

KITU HUNIBORE NA MO HE’S VERY BUSY. HE COMES HOME LATE. SOMETIMES WHEN HE COMES WHEN I’M ASLEEP I CAN’T WAKE UP.  I GAVE BIRTH (A FEW MONTHS AGO) AND I’M BREASTFEEDING, HOW WILL I WEAR LINGERIE?dj Mo and Size 8 ntv

The women joined the men for dinner where they extended their conversation and Dj Mo still insisted that the seng’eng’e t-shirt puts him off.

‘KWA HIVO NI TSHIRT. ME SIJACOMPLAIN HUOGI…’ SIZE 8 SAID.

The pastor’s wife advised them to be faithful in God. ‘Spiritually, prayer and putting everything in God’s hand helps other things,’ she said.

The pastor concluded by saying,

WE BELIEVE FROM TODAY YOUR MARRIAGE WILL BE GOOD.

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‘Teach a man to spend money on you’ Kenyan woman advises

 

How many times have you heard out there a married man bragging that his woman is fine, he doesn’t need to worry about things at home? Sound familiar?

This situation is very common according to one woman who called in to the Classic 105 show, to share tips on family finances.

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Just read this quote first before we get into it.

Girls, it is your right to expect a man to pay for your dinner, your movie ticket, your club entry fee, or anything he has to pay for in exchange for your time. began comedian TV show host Steve Harvey.

The upset woman said to Maina Kageni that

the number one mistake women make with these men especially when you land yourself a stingy man is showing them you can be independent, especially financially.

You show a man you can take care of all your financial needs, rub it in his face? The day you come to him and ask for a coin, trust me aki sha zoea, whatever he will give you will be little or nothing knowing that you have money, when he gets used to being shown that you are financially independent?

You don’t hear them bragging out there ati my mama is a mama who sorts herself out. so this thing of miss independent it blows. the day you are needy that man won’t care. 

So what should a woman do?

From the word go let that man spend on you let him take care of you teach him how to spend on you, so girls out there, let them listen 

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5 unrealistic things guys expect from girls

Trying to make sense of what a man wants from you can be difficult.

 

But here is a rundown of some of the things that guys expect from girls, that tend to cause a strain in relationships.
1. He needs a friend with benefit, but will never marry a girl who has had many relationships

Expecting a girl to be your friend with benefit for life is unrealistic. Won’t she find someone to marry, and wait just one minute is that even possible to be a friend with benefit for life?

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I have heard it said from many men that there are two types of chicks – the one to have funwith and – the one to marry.

 

2. Girls are expected to be natural ( we love you natural girls) but at the same time she must be super stunning

Even the moon has dark spots.
Okay, a girl can look good while being natural. But how can she manage to look SUPER S3XY without makeup. Sure, girls have natural beauty, but it doesn’t mean that you can expect her to look like you wish. Shouldn’t guys expect that a girl be caring, honest and all those nice things?

3. Be committed but not wedding crazy

Every girl has planned her wedding by the time she is done with college, whether or not she has a man.

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So expecting to date her without any mention of future plans is unrealistic.

The marriage topic WILL ALWAYS come up, and if she is committed to you, the subject will be there.

 

4. Being low maintenance while looking high maintenance

The expectation is that she should be both, but not trying too much.

If you want her to look like a “high maintenance” girl, you need to spend money on her for maintenance. The word itself says “high maintenance,” How can you expect her to look the same with almost no money?

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5. Being distant while still showing interest

Now this is confusing to girls. She can’t be turned on and off like a switch.

Guys, either you are in or you are out.

Is this true and what have you done when faced with such a situation?

My husband stole 5k from my handbag for his mpango wa kando

 

Way too often couples avoid having transparent and open discussions about money because we assume that we’re on the same page as the other person. But we’re not. And by the time we figure that out, it’s too late.

A woman called in to contribute to the morning conversation about women and husbands and the tricky topic of money.

Maina Kageni wanted to know why wives give loans to husbands knowing very well, he won’t pay back. Ladies why do you lend your men money, Maina asked saying kama uchumi ni mbaya men should go out and hustle.

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Her story is something that to this day she considers resentful.

Pesa yangu ilitolewa kwa handbag 5k na mtu akaenda umalaya, he didnt even ask, na mahali nilificha I can’t imagine how he found it.

I was out on my daily hustle and coming back I couldn’t find the money and he never came back over night, the following day I asked him why he took my money and he said ohh I will give it back,

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That was three months ago, alienda kwa mpango wake na akasepend uko, aliniibia, who else could it be? I have asked him now ni matusi naitwa mpaka mbwa, so I just look at him, he doesn’t know what the kids eat, I don’t think he will ever pay me back, naachia mungu and I know the mpango knows he stole my 5k, she does an d she uses my cash, they will pay back all those who are hurting us.

Another woman also has an equally annoying tale of her husband

I married a broke man but I had made some money and so I told him we invest it, and he would run it.

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He misused all the money I had earned for eight years, even when I was going to give birth I had no money even to buy diapers, he had misused the money. I left him after he mistreated me, amekuwa mtu ovyo he has even gone back to his mothers house.

How much money is she talking about losing?

He misused 100k that’s what men do to us in the name of love because I gave him this responsibility, and I loved him, that’s why I gave him the money, amejua hajui,

 

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Reasons why you shouldn’t disclose your financial status to your spouse

Marriage is hard already. It’s full of hustles and bustles that can be tiring at times. One of the most sensitive issues in marriage has to be finances. One of the leading causes of divorce is finances. Therefore, it’s of great advantage for you not to share your financial status to your spouse and here’s why:

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1. Kukaliwa chapati

Every man is afraid of this. A woman taking control of you because she got to know your pay cheque. It’ll be harder on you if she realizes she makes more money than you. The country has seen a rise in feminists and much of what they hold is trying to demean the role of the man. You may try to counter these thoughts at your own peril. Disclose your financial status and you’ll send yourself to the grave early.

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2. You’ll die poor

You’ll die poor my brother. She’ll siphon you to the last coin. Keep her second guessing on the amount of cash you work with. You know the slogan: His money our money, her money our money. Bro, only God, the bank and yourself should know what gets into your account.

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3. Keeps the woman humbled

A woman in the dark is a woman humbled up. The moment she knows how much you are worth, the moment hell will broke loose. Don’t you want a woman who’ll eat at the palm of your hand? That’s basically what every man craves for. They’ll lie to you they want a working woman but deep down they want you to be the traditional house wife.

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4. Personal life security

How many times have we had news of women taking lives of their better halves? When she knew you had taken a life insurance. That’s where she dug your grave and was waiting for the opportune moment to send you there. Be quiet about your finances bro. It’ll be of great help.

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Things not to do as a married man in this era

Marriage is slowly losing its relevance thanks to woke sisters and randy men being on the rise every day. Moreover, the shocking stories of married people butchering each other has made most unmarried people skeptical about getting their better half. However, there are the happily married couples and the unhappily married ones hanging on by a thread.

This article is for the married men, what not to do specifically:

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1. Doing laundry

I might pick a fight with the self-proclaimed feminists group. But dear married men, never do laundry at all. Aii, uoshe nguo yeye afanye nini? Don’t fall for the 50/50 split of house chores. As a man what’s expected of you is to create an enabling environment for the women to do her wifely duties with ease. Just slide on that recliner and play with the remote. Watch something educative like “How to know she’s cheating on you” It might come in handy later on.

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2. Being predictable

She asks for a heel, buy her a wig. She asks for a clutch bag, buy her heels. When she expects nothing, buy her a Luis Vuitton handbag. Basically be unpredictable. Predictability breeds contempt. Only a fool allows a woman to learn his moves. Utakuzoea vibaya! For as long as she can’t tell your next move, she’ll always sober up every day.

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3. Come home early

Not unless you one of the poultry in the home, you have no business coming home earlier than 10 pm. Actually rich men adverts start running from 10pm onwards. Ama unataka kuingia masaa ya diapers and washing detergents? Catch up with your fellow men. Have a few drinks for the road. Go home, eat and sleep in peace.

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4. Allow your woman to own the land where your house sits on

I give you this advice for free, the land on which your matrimonial house sits on should be solely yours as the man of the house. The name written on that title deed should be yours. In case ashikwe na makasiriko, you are secure. These people are not to be trusted at all.

That’s all my fellow men.

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The type of wives men are marrying

He who finds a wife finds a good thing, right?

That’s what the Holy Scripture tells us.

But in these times, he who finds a wife finds someone to keep him taking high blood pressure meds. They are a few happily married but the larger lot are just putting up with each other’s situations. It’s marriage my unmarried people. I’m here to talk about the wives us as the men are marrying:

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1. Disgruntled women

The type that pick war on every “little” thing you do. You throw socks on the corner of the house and she’s breathing like a lone buffalo. You press the toothpaste from the center and her head is about to blow. They are always picking up unnecessary fights. How men stick around these type of women is something I’m still figuring out. I’ll get back to you later on.

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2. Mother hen

In case she asks you to put on a jacket so that you don’t catch a cold be sure she’s the type of a wife I’m talking about. You are like a little chick to her. Be prepared to be hit with questions such as, “beib uko?” “Beib ulibeba handkerchief?” You might feel good in the beginning but a few years in marriage, it gets tiring. Basically these women have insecurity issues and you better love them good.

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3. The “woke” ones

I can’t wash a man’s clothes, I can’t cook for a man whose better part of the day is watching football and national politics. These are the type of women I’m talking about. Basically education and personal frustrations has turned them into this lame women. Oh yes! I said it! Do what you want! They are lazy ones who ride on the “rules of modern dating” rules. Marry one and you’ll begin the decaying process before your due date.

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4. The dutiful wives

In a ratio of 30 women maybe only one qualifies as a dutiful wife. They know their place as a wife and don’t need you to keep reminding them of that. They do laundry, cook for you, good twa twa session served in the night, listen to your predicaments without getting judgmental. They nurse you to sleep. They stand with you through thick and thin. Basically what I’m trying to say is that we’ll marry them in the afterlife.

In the meanwhile, pick among the top three, that’s what left on this earth we live in, won’t you?

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‘I keep a mwiko near me to keep him off,’ woman in quarantine says of husband

While Khaligraph Jones is out here begging Huddah for some, a Kenyan woman is crying she is fed up of twa twa antics with her husband in self quarantine.

She is exhausted by his incessant demands, and has figured a way to keep him off of her as they quarantine amid the coronavirus outbreak.

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On the Thursday morning conversation Maina and Kingangi discussed how men are handling being in quarantine.

The woman who called to contribute to the morning conversation about how men are handling quarantine and chill, has had enough.

She told Maina what she is doing to stop him from touching her

juu siku hizi woi twa twa mimi paka nimeweka mwiko hapo, ajaribu nimchape 

This tickled Maina as another woman called in saying she is forced to make her husband shower.

She started off by saying ‘Hii quarantine itatuonyesha mambo.. What is she talking about?

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She has now been forced to remind her husband that he needs to shower everyday.

She is hating being in quarantine with her man, who she describes as behaving worse than a baby.

he is alike a child, ni kama mtoto hana meno, I almost have to spoon feed him, and even worse hawaogi, I am forced to make him shower coz he is smelling, nimeona mwingine amejigifcha inje apige simu kwa mti wa stima nikajua ni ule mwingine anapigia,

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‘Kumbe it is a nightmare being in the house’, Maina responded to her cry.

There are no quarantine love stories, just spouses getting on each others nerves, according to the accounts of Classic 105 listeners.

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This may give you a good giggle, but women out here are suffering being forced to self quarantine with husbands they rarely see until now.

 

Dear Classic 105 fam, how are you surviving the quarantine with your spouse? Any creative ways to keep the flame burning we could share with others? Drop your comments below.

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‘He was strangling me’ Busia woman’s nose bitten off by bitter ex

 

A Busia woman is waiting for plastic surgery after her ex-boyfriend allegedly bit off the tip of her nose. Sefla Kerubo, 25, said her ex became enraged when he found out she had moved on to another man.

She says she was previously in a relationship with the ex and have tried to have a child but were unsuccessful. She blames this for the beginning of problems in their marriage.

She claims he kicked her out and later she moved on to someone new.

The bitter allegedly cornered in her at home and assaulted her, and eventually biting off her nose.

She said things got worse when he found her at her new mans house saying he was furious because ‘he gets very jealous’ of her.

She said:

‘It was last night when I was lighting the jiko to cook. I was shocked when I felt someone was holding me from the back so I turned to see who it was, to find out it was my ex boyfriend. He pushed and shoved me outside and on reaching there, I started screaming loudly, then he let go of me and I ran to the back of the house to hide. When I got there he followed me and chocked me and was holding my neck so tightly, I was unable to make any sound. He then bite off my nose and took off running.

This is a man I was in a relationship with for a year, but we ended things. We broke up recently after he chased me away from his house and that is when I met my new lover.

I would like justice to be served, because people he wanted to kill me. People should learn to accept when relationships are over, and not to go back and look for them to kill them.

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