‘I keep a mwiko near me to keep him off,’ woman in quarantine says of husband

While Khaligraph Jones is out here begging Huddah for some, a Kenyan woman is crying she is fed up of twa twa antics with her husband in self quarantine.

She is exhausted by his incessant demands, and has figured a way to keep him off of her as they quarantine amid the coronavirus outbreak.

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On the Thursday morning conversation Maina and Kingangi discussed how men are handling being in quarantine.

The woman who called to contribute to the morning conversation about how men are handling quarantine and chill, has had enough.

She told Maina what she is doing to stop him from touching her

juu siku hizi woi twa twa mimi paka nimeweka mwiko hapo, ajaribu nimchape 

This tickled Maina as another woman called in saying she is forced to make her husband shower.

She started off by saying ‘Hii quarantine itatuonyesha mambo.. What is she talking about?

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She has now been forced to remind her husband that he needs to shower everyday.

She is hating being in quarantine with her man, who she describes as behaving worse than a baby.

he is alike a child, ni kama mtoto hana meno, I almost have to spoon feed him, and even worse hawaogi, I am forced to make him shower coz he is smelling, nimeona mwingine amejigifcha inje apige simu kwa mti wa stima nikajua ni ule mwingine anapigia,

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‘Kumbe it is a nightmare being in the house’, Maina responded to her cry.

There are no quarantine love stories, just spouses getting on each others nerves, according to the accounts of Classic 105 listeners.

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This may give you a good giggle, but women out here are suffering being forced to self quarantine with husbands they rarely see until now.

 

Dear Classic 105 fam, how are you surviving the quarantine with your spouse? Any creative ways to keep the flame burning we could share with others? Drop your comments below.

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‘He was strangling me’ Busia woman’s nose bitten off by bitter ex

 

A Busia woman is waiting for plastic surgery after her ex-boyfriend allegedly bit off the tip of her nose. Sefla Kerubo, 25, said her ex became enraged when he found out she had moved on to another man.

She says she was previously in a relationship with the ex and have tried to have a child but were unsuccessful. She blames this for the beginning of problems in their marriage.

She claims he kicked her out and later she moved on to someone new.

The bitter allegedly cornered in her at home and assaulted her, and eventually biting off her nose.

She said things got worse when he found her at her new mans house saying he was furious because ‘he gets very jealous’ of her.

She said:

‘It was last night when I was lighting the jiko to cook. I was shocked when I felt someone was holding me from the back so I turned to see who it was, to find out it was my ex boyfriend. He pushed and shoved me outside and on reaching there, I started screaming loudly, then he let go of me and I ran to the back of the house to hide. When I got there he followed me and chocked me and was holding my neck so tightly, I was unable to make any sound. He then bite off my nose and took off running.

This is a man I was in a relationship with for a year, but we ended things. We broke up recently after he chased me away from his house and that is when I met my new lover.

I would like justice to be served, because people he wanted to kill me. People should learn to accept when relationships are over, and not to go back and look for them to kill them.

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‘Apartments named after woman are paid for by us’ Kenyan men insist to Maina

 

An open and honest conversation about how Kenyan men lose millions to women saw Maina slammed for insisting no man has lost money to a woman.

Maina introduced the topic asking fellas how and how much money they have ever lost to a woman to which many could not put a figure to it.

Men, how do you lose money to women? When do you even spend money on women?

Every man I meet out there says ‘we don’t talk about it’ Maina added

Co host Mwalimu Kingangi was heavily supported by male callers when he said

‘you will never hear a man brag he bought nani an apartment, or even take a woman to cops over money amenyamaza tuu kwa corner kwa bar? Asset recovery should now be involved, men are suffering’ he finished

Guys how much money have you lost to women Maina wondered, how have you lost money coz I don’t think you spend on your women.

Here are some views expressed by men about the topic:

….. I have lost almost90k to a woman, nilimwekea biashara after three months she tod me amishindwa na kazi all mymmoney gone, nimelipa rent ninin nini,

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Rtd Captain Kale…

Why is it that all these apartments are named after women? These women who drive harriers, where are there husbands? They are 6ft under, they killed them, they just shed crocodile tears in the burial, washindwe #MainaAndKingangi

man caller: my wife comes from work extrmeley scared she is looking for money to pay I am told I have to get a loan fromwherever sh250k and she need it fast, ilook for the money in pain and three months down the line there are letters, where the hell did she take the money, three months down the line she is not talking, and helb peopelwant money, and now if I scream will I get the money back? People will tell me she is my wife, I asked her where she took the money and she said she paid this much ijui there was a problem, the bottomline is the money is gone, I cannot kick her out, but what do I do to get the money back, mara there other time she had a chama loan t pay now the year is ending she needs aroun d 78k last year to pay back, so I have to llokmfor and pay for it, that sis why I tell my friend not to borrow from wives

Kelvin Mwangi..

I’ve spent countlessly on my Lady, I’d be a billionaire why lie.

Nmefunzwa Kunyamaza.

Married

Felix Agola(Mr President)..

Personally I opened from my girlfriend a business, I used to inject some money into it every month but when it caught fire I was left behind without a second thought

Masila Simon..

Its hard to quantify, there are just some expenditures we run behind the scenes for our women like trying to smell good

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‘It’s over’ Wives blasted for taking husbands to police over loans

 

Ladies, have you ever taken your man to the cops Maina asked listeners on Thursday during a heated debate.

Kenyans tunapenda kustakiana, as a way of resolving our disputes.And this is no different with spouses as we came to learn on Thursday morning conversation with Maina and Kingang’i.

Maina spoke about a lady called Audrey who tweeted about never ever lending men money.

She described her horrific experience in the hands of a husband after loaning him half a million shillings, which he has never bothered to pay back.

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Due to this she took him to the cops to resolve the matter, only for things to back fire for her.

The police termed it a marital dispute which they cannot deal with.

The matter ended there, with the husband free to walk away without paying back the money she had saved all her life.

A heated debate ensued with men warning women that it will be the end of the relationship, should a wife pull such a move:
@sheibahati..
If I’m to give a man money, it is an amount that I won’t feel bad when he fails to refund. The police will always turn you away immediately they hear you are partners in marriage.
Alex Olaba..#MainaAndKingangi
Maina sometimes its very difficult to solve marital issues at police station just understand that Maina nyc day

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Felix Agola(Mr President)..

Maina ladies have breached a level of asking for collateral before giving us loans,which kind of world are we living on this days
ciiramaina..
Honestly Maina The reason behind all this money issue is lack of transparency especially couples. Be open & you will live stress free life. Lovers is a different case. #MainaAndKingangi secret lovers
Gideon Langat..
Consider the level of crime before proceeding further on police. Matters are solved amicably between the parties.

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Benard Arap kirui..
Ukipata bibi mwenyewe anakupeleka polisi huyo sio bibi ni mangaa mrudishe kwao period #MainaAndkingangi
Peter Kimatia..
take me to police coz of money! that marriage will end same day
One of Many…
@ItsMainaKageni My Father Once took 0.5 Million from mama. He claimed its for some Job he Got. Nigga went and Drunk all that Money with His Father, Bought some Land and Left mama to Pay for that 500K. Today, i’m helping mama Pay for that loan. What a WasteExpressionless face
@Classic105Kenya

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Allan Mwangi..
@Classic105Kenya taking your husband to police is a joke of a lifetime I can’t condone that…kwani wao no ngapi tunawapeaga na they don’t refund…I gave mine 750k na she never gave back till now n that was 5 years ago…n she gave to her brother…
@Griffins_Jay..
when it comes to money that’s a sensitive topic. There is a difference when one uses the term “refund” that means you taking the money as a loan. And there is amount you can let slide but there is that amount ata bibi yangu ntamuitia police if
Jymo Ngash..
Whatever is in the house belongs to both of us.the way they say pesa ya bwana ni yetu.if I happen to borrow money from her then am not able to pay on time,she should wait coz pia nashugulikia familia.If she happens to take me to police that’s the end of us.

Ranyo.
@ranyowest..
It is embarrassing how our society has changed. Where does a woman get guts to take the head of the family to the cops. Even if I don’t pay you do that you are not my wife any more. This happens when a man is experiencing financial difficulties.

mustafa zuzu mpienga
@MustafaMbare..

if I could ask cop to help..Langata Prison will be full..zile fare zangu wamekula… So ukichezwa wakubali pia.. dunia duara

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7 Reasons women should never loan husbands money

 

The discussion on Classic 105 on Wednesday was why women loan money to their husbands, knowing very well he won’t pay back.

Several women called in recounting their sad experiences.

Read here

My husband stole 5k from my handbag for his mpango wa kando

The bottom line from women on the morning conversation was that lending money, especially to a significant other, can jeopardize your relationship, leading to resentment, tension, and additional debt.

Here are reasons it’s a bad idea:

1. Puts a strain in your relationship
Your bae is assuming because you are his wife, he can take his time to repay the money owed to you. Bad idea girls.

If you’ve ever loaned someone money, you know it’s not easy to ask for it back. Well, when that person is someone you’re in a romantic relationship with, it may be even more difficult. And if you live with them, it’ll probably get even more complicated.

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Fight

2. Feelings of resentment arise

Imagine loaning him money and he comes home later with expensive shoes, yet he had claimed he was so broke. It’s possible you’ll feel resentful about lending the money.

3. It shifts the balance in your relationship
If your bae is dependent on you financially, it could tip the balance of power in a marriage, affecting your ability to feel like equals.

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4. Feeling of anxiety arise

“You may have anxiety about getting paid back. If your significant other can’t repay you, it could jeopardize your own finances.

5. It may encourage bad spending habits

If you loan someone — aka your partner — money, particularly more than once or if they tend to borrow money from people a lot, you may enable their bad spending habits without even realizing it.
They could assume that you’ll be there for them financially whenever they need help

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6. Financial stress if you also borrowed to loan them
If you borrowed the money they need, they affect how quickly you will pay back on your end, causing you stress. It may even land you at CRB.
7. You delay leaving a toxic relationship

The stress and strain of your partner owing you money may get so bad, it may lead you two to break up. But a woman will hold on until he pays back, leading to further strain between them.

Also read more here

My husband stole 5k from my handbag for his mpango wa kando

 

Way too often couples avoid having transparent and open discussions about money because we assume that we’re on the same page as the other person. But we’re not. And by the time we figure that out, it’s too late.

A woman called in to contribute to the morning conversation about women and husbands and the tricky topic of money.

Maina Kageni wanted to know why wives give loans to husbands knowing very well, he won’t pay back. Ladies why do you lend your men money, Maina asked saying kama uchumi ni mbaya men should go out and hustle.

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Her story is something that to this day she considers resentful.

Pesa yangu ilitolewa kwa handbag 5k na mtu akaenda umalaya, he didnt even ask, na mahali nilificha I can’t imagine how he found it.

I was out on my daily hustle and coming back I couldn’t find the money and he never came back over night, the following day I asked him why he took my money and he said ohh I will give it back,

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That was three months ago, alienda kwa mpango wake na akasepend uko, aliniibia, who else could it be? I have asked him now ni matusi naitwa mpaka mbwa, so I just look at him, he doesn’t know what the kids eat, I don’t think he will ever pay me back, naachia mungu and I know the mpango knows he stole my 5k, she does an d she uses my cash, they will pay back all those who are hurting us.

Another woman also has an equally annoying tale of her husband

I married a broke man but I had made some money and so I told him we invest it, and he would run it.

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He misused all the money I had earned for eight years, even when I was going to give birth I had no money even to buy diapers, he had misused the money. I left him after he mistreated me, amekuwa mtu ovyo he has even gone back to his mothers house.

How much money is she talking about losing?

He misused 100k that’s what men do to us in the name of love because I gave him this responsibility, and I loved him, that’s why I gave him the money, amejua hajui,

 

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My husband forbids me from talking to my in laws after fighting

 

When your husband or wife has an argument with their sibling, should you also have been with them too?

It’s normal for siblings to fight, and move on after an argument.

But one woman presented to Maina Kageni her very special and frustrating family situation.

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The woman spoke of the troubles she faces because her situation ‘is very silly’.

Her husband has a habit of fighting with his brother, and after, warns her not to talk to her sister in law and children.

Frustrating right? It’s worse because they live in the same compound, and life is unbearable.

When they argue he tells me that if I talk to my sister in law I will see. He tells me to even tell my nieces and nephews not to come to our house.

Yet we live in the same compound in ushago, so even my brother in laws wife has been warned not to talk to me also.

She gets so upset with me when the brothers fight and the worst thing is that our husbands usually quietly makeup and don’t tell us.

We only get to see them talking with each other. Can you imagine after they have told us not to talk to each other?

They fight in the bar and tell us not to talk to each other, I even have to tell my kids not to talk to their cousins because daddy said so, then when the men make up they don’t tell us we just see them with each other, it is so hard

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If your husband is not in good terms with his friend, should you also be expected to carry the same grudge?

Also read more here

 

Most common lies used by married men to have affairs

 

A photo of married men showing off their rings with a caption that they are faithful, has created a conversation about the lies men tell to get a side chick to fall for his lies and get into a relationship with them.

The photo (above) shared by Twitter user Pholoho stirred Twitter into sharing a thread of lies men tell.

The low down from the responses is that married men are always ‘single and ready to mingle’.

Kweli au rongo?

See the list of lies married men tell single girls in order to date them as a side chick.

Incidentally girls, do tell if you have fallen line, hook and sinker for these lies.

We won’t judge, I promise!!!

Lesego Tlhabi
@LesegoTlhabi
“I wish I met you first”

“If I divorce her, she’ll get everything so I’m only married by name”

“I’m in the process of talking to lawyers but I need to see what this is first”

“Even my friends say I’m happier when I’m with you”

“I’m only there for my kids”

thejoy
@thejoy4u..
U have been through a lot😂😂😂😂
IG: Singy.m
@singitamalulek3..
“Im married but it’s not that serious”

“There’s no love anymore, it’s just partnership”

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Lura A Dye
@LuraADye1..
I can’t believe I haven’t seen the classic “She doesn’t understand me.”

YT: Busay Rad
@miss_Rad..
“We don’t sleep in the same room anymore”
“I wash my own clothes”

Ndivhu
@TebogoThagwana..
“You can love 2 people at the same time. “
“She’s just the mother of my children, I can’t kick her out “.

Ivorine♓
@PuleIvorine..
“I can be myself when I am with you”

ntsa shown the door meme

Love Minenhle
@TheeRamzie..
” Me having a wife doesn’t change how i feel about you.”

” This ring is just a formality but we aren’t married anymore.”

“she said she’ll kill herself if i divorce her.”

” may we please focus on us and not other people”

Irene DN
@irene4usall..
“Let’s not talk about her, you are ruining the mood”
“I can take the ring off if it makes you uncomfortable, but I don’t think wearing it should be such a big deal” 🙄

DNM
@DonnahNelly..
“I’m not happy in my marriage”

“I haven’t divorced her because of the children”

“We don’t sleep together and haven’t for a very long time”

“I don’t love her anymore and I don’t think I ever did”

“I’m in the process of a divorce”

DARKDINDI
@ThembiCoka..
My sister was asking about you. She says she wishes I had married you, she’s feels closer to you.

ositameme

 MaryJane
“I married her because my parents forced me cos she was pregnant”

“We dont sleep in the same bedroom”…2 weeks later you spot them together at the mall wifey 🤰

Black Queen
@blackqueenrsa..
“I wish I could take you as my second wife but my wife wont agree, she’ll leave with everything”

Pumza
@Pumi_vee..
“I married her because she fell pregnant and I didn’t want my child to grow up like I did.. But it is you that I love”

meme covr for aug

Baby Blue
@lebogangmphogo..
” we are separating… we no longer get intimate” 🙄

Kushkins
@kushkinsm..
“Its complicated”
“If only I had met you sooner”
“Don’t concern yourself about her”.

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@shuezn1..
She trapped me (((((((drumroll)))))))

نجود the Artist
@jooo0d..
“I don’t think humans were meant to be monogamous”

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Michelle Wolfswinkel
@mewolf155..
She’s using the kids against me in the divorce. If I go ahead, I’ll only see (insert name) in supervised visits once a (insert very long time).

Thembi Love Kobeli
@ThembiKobeli..
I married her cause she was pregnant and that’s how I was raised at home you impregnate her girl you marry her but I don’t love her …. You are the love of my life …. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Letlhogonolo Mogale
@connie_smashs..
“we are in the process of separation”
“Marriage doesn’t you are happy, you make me happy ”
“I will take you as a second wife”
“What I have with my wife will never affect us”

what in the hell meme

poppy ngakane
@poppyngakane1..
A friend of mine was told “She’s been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer so I can’t end our loveless marriage, doctors gave her less than a year to live”. needless to say 5 years later the wife is still healthy😘😘

Ayanda Naledi Mngomezulu
@AyandaMngome..
“I wish you were the mother of my kids”

Moyisi Welemva
@I_Am_Moyisi..
“Yes I am married. However, I couldn’t stop living because I didn’t know any better then. If you’d ask me to choose again, I’d most probably make a different decision. It’s nothing to do with her or the kids but my choices” .

Inkhosikati Pina Wantmore
@song_wantmore..
“My wife gave me boys only so I want us to make a baby girl

upset kid meme

Mash
@Boka2016..
Got married outta parental/peer pressure

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@makhozasp..
“she hasn’t given me  in months/years”
“She is going through depression”
“We had a car accident, I was the driver and now she has metal pains in her body”
“She fell sick and now she is bed ridden”
The list goes on

Ndingum-Afrika🌍🇿🇦
@KanyoKngwendu..
“I will divorce her and marry you”
“We are not on speaking terms”
“I don’t want my kids to grow up without a father”

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Would you marry your spouse if you had to do it all over again asks Maina

 
Would you still marry your significant other if you had the chance to do it over again?

Maina and Kingangi debated this very interesting topic and the resounding answer was a NO.

I regret wasting years of my life with my exe

Read on for some candid reflections on what makes men say they will never contemplate such a move.

Most male callers would not do it all over again.

One man started it all off saying without a shadow of a doubt, he would never do it

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gody mc jnr..
No no no …..I dint know I married a devil.this pple are nice mwanzoni but the time they give birth sijui pembe xinatokekezea wapi.kama si watoto huyu tungemalizana kitambo.tunaumia kimoyomoyo
Clr. Ja-zine Flag of Kenya..
A thousand times. God gave me a woman of my type. I appreciate her so much.

i’m secretly planning to leave my husband of 27 years

Wanjiru Kinyanjui..
85% of guys complaining just want to be with their side chick but the second they step out they wanna be back. I’m sure if the guy re-evaluated he’d see the problem and change his approach…happy wife happy life bro! Remember the move “Why Did I Get Married?”
Elseo mwavula™(mambea)..
Maina kile unatutafutia hutokuja kututeteea 99% hawataoa walionao kwa sasa tumechoka hii usisome maana jioni naeza pata pumziko la ugenini
@JoshNjoroge10..
Okie I don’t like being married but if I was to go back and marry again I would choose my wife all over again
@ItsMainaKageni

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@illinstrumentals..

If its marrying the same woman, reke nemwo,
I’ve been assaulted by the woman I married not once but twice.
We are going through pain, but speaking it out makes us seem inferior and overpowered.
I rather be single.
Josh Njoroge..
Okie I don’t like being married but if I was to go back and marry again I would choose my wife all over again @ItsMainaKageni

Also read more here

i’m secretly planning to leave my husband of 27 years

She insists she bears no anger, but is firm she can no longer remain in a loveless marriage.

A woman revealed that she has made up her mind to leave her husband of 27 years, and he has no clue.

She said that despite all her hopes and dreams in the beginning, and all her good intentions now, it seems impossible to continue her marriage, according to her confession on air.

She said

‘I’ve gone through alot. When I married this man 27 years ago, I saw him as somebody who has focus, only to realize this man is nothing. This guy has gone to the best schools, colleges in Kenya but huyu mbtu hana mbele wala nyuma.’

I’ve gone through alot, I’ve persevered, and enough is enough she told Maina. Ive been gong home, coming back he comes abck to me I’ve tolerated alot right now I’m planning look for my own plot pack and leave. 

I’m ready to forego those 27 years and leave. I have four children, but right now I’ve had enough 

How long did it take her to realize she has made a mistake?

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She responded to Maina

this was after 15 years, but all along I was just saying this man is going to change but everyday it becomes words and words and words. I have waited, I have paid for the children school fees I pay the house rent, he comes he feeds breakfast, launch and dinner na hana habari hata. He doesn’t pay for anything. I pay school fees then go to the Headmaster, he comes to pay after a year then I’m refunded. That has been going on and on. 

Relationship experts say that when people harbor deep, which can’t be resolved, it could be time to let go.

My children have got to a point where they know their father won’t pay for anything, when I tell them to go ask their father for money they tell me afadhali ikae, It’s got to a point right now I don’t want to leave blindly, I am quietly planning my exit I am looking for a plot I build my own house that is what I am focusing on. I am just fed up That man has a good salary he is working with one of the best companies but he doesn’t own property, not even a chicken shed, and if you look at him, he seems a very respectable man every woman will admire that man.

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The woman said she could no longer remain married to someone for whom she had “no respect.”

but in reality hana mbele wala nyuma Ive wasted my time but I don’t want to regret it because if I regret it I will not move on I will just pick the pieces and move on, she finished

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If a man takes more than six months to propose, dump him – Bishop advises

 

Girls what’s the absolute longest you would wait before your bae proposes?

An article about why men waste women’s time in the Standard newspaper formed the basis of the Monday morning conversation on Classic 105.

Maina and Kingangi debated the matter with Maina insisting that too many Kenyan men are wasting womens time instead of making their intentions clear from the beginning of the relationship.

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Mwalimu shocked Maina by declaring that infact men want to propose but it’s the woman who wastes his time. Really? Maina wasn’t having this story.

A Classic 105 fan named Bishop called in to weigh in on the matter. He advised woman that if a man doesn’t propose within six months of dating, then she should ‘run for it’ because he will waste her time eventually.

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Girls, when dating how long do you wait for the proposal? Is six months good enough for you or too soon?

Here are things a man considers before popping the question to you.

He thinks about himself as a husband and family man. He also considers your parents and trying to impress them. He is trying to figure out the method of proposing, that also goes hand in hand with the type of ring to buy the woman of his dreams.

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While some would prefer to be in a relationship for years before thinking about getting married, others said time doesn’t really matter. Read reactions from Classic fans below:
Alphas Arap Lagat©..
@Classic105Kenya When a man dates you for a long time you ladies, he’s trying to understand, learn, know who you’re, tests your patience and your true love. If you fail on those that’s when he knows you aren’t the one. No time wastage ladies but ultimate test. #MainaAndKingangi

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@danteokeo..
Maina you are misleading women ! Propose what ? Try put a ring on her hapo ndo shida and real her exposes itself . Utajua hujui ni kichwa

A caller said “Men who date for more than one year without proposing to ladies are just wasting their time. If it goes more than that ladies dump that man”

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I’ve tried dumping my stubborn girlfriend 50 times

 

In Kenya we say in Kiswahili that ‘ukiwachwa kubali kuachika’, which in English means if someone leaves you just accept and move on.

Yet this is the nightmare that one Kenyan man is finding hard to deal with.

In a confession on Classic 105 radio, the man told Maina Kageni that he has unsuccessfully tried dumping his stubborn girlfriend, but she won’t leave.

His multiple attempts at kicking her out of his house have backfired and he is now a very frustrated man.

What would possess a woman to refuse to be dumped and stay in the mans house despite him saying he is done?

He explains

I have tried to chase my girlfriend away from my house close to 50 times and she refuses to go, and she is still here infact I sent her sister a message to tell her to leave kwa amani, yeye amekataa na amesema haendi haendi,

How do you deal with someone who refuses to get dumped? And another question, how do you get a stubborn person to leave?

The man continued about his depressing story saying that

I don’t know what to do, itabidi ninganngane na hali yangu, wanaume huku nje wanaumia they just don’t talk about it

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My girlfriend wanted me to raise another mans child

A discussion about why men would never take back their wives who dumped them, led to an interesting revelation from a Kenyan man who as he puts it is being ‘tricked’.

His girlfriend wants him to raise someone else’s child, according to the confession made on Classic 105.

Maina Kageni sought to know from men if they would take back a wife who left them, in the same way that wives take back husbands who leave.

Many men were emphatic they would never do that, and Maina reminded them wives take back men who dumped them, so why not reciprocate?

Co host Mwalimu Kinga’ngi

by the time a woman comes back she has seen you have money and she is here to finish you

The man told his story of how his cheating girlfriend tried to trick him into accepting she was pregnant and raise another mans child.

I had this girl she was in school from form two, we dated until she finished, that was in 2008, she moved in with me but continued with university. after she cleared she came we lived together and got pregnant.

I can tell you aot of things started showing up, when she went to hospital she lied to me the hospital she is in, I looked for her only to come find out that the hospital she was in, she confessed to my neighbors that event the child is not mine, she never talked to me about the child. I took her in even with the child. after I found out the child is not mine, I took her back, I came to find out even the birth certificate is not written anything, even today I can tell you she is trying today to get back to me, I cannot take her back, every time I was with her I can see everything she was telling me, was a lie

you can’t take someone you were with four years ago, you don’t know what she is bringing back

Men reacted to this story advising their peers to never take back an ex wife, because they figure she could return with alot, including diseases from other men. Really guys?

Dear Classic 105 fam, when a woman has been away for say ten years, and realizes she made a mistake and wants to go back to her relationship, would you take her back?

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We feel inferior dating military girls –  Kenyan men confess

 

 

A cry for help from a women in the military to Maina Kageni to find a boyfriend elicited a heated discussion on Classic 105.

The woman, who is with the Kenya Defense Forces, told Maina in a letter that she is finding it difficult to date, because men are all afraid of female cops.

This lady sent a picture to me. She is beautiful and she was complaining that men keep away from her kind, she works in the defense forces and she says they are desperate for love, but hawakatiwi, and she wants to know what do Kenyan men want?

This perception was supported by men who called in saying they fear dating or even marrying Kenyan female cops.

Mwalimu gave his opinion saying ‘Weuh utanyoroshwa (you will get a beating) How do you shout at her and ask her to cook? Do you know what will happen to you, Mwalimu added

‘She won’t beat you’, Maina shouted at Kingangi to which he responded saying

‘She will, you will be embarrassed’  mwalimu insisted aiiiii.

So who is going to love them Maina asked the audience?

Here are the views of men who called in.

@Annle31456401..

Maïna,,our men are cowards,,they can’t handle strong,rich and learned and beautiful women,no wonder akina vera,,anerlisa muigai,Sarah Hassan and others wameenda tz and SAfrica,,,

@banardkip..

Try with your own risk

@Dansan_Eminen..

G3 AK47 M7 ain’t spoons Those people are so inhumane coz of the training they go through Never Never attempt to date them

@shwartsS..

Men fear marrying soldiers queens because they know they are disciplines & they can’t entertain them to do whatever they want, #kukaliwa chapo lazma upende usipende mkioana

@george_gichuki..

Si she will be asking me for hongo in the house bedminton ikifika

wacha nikae bila bibi kama ni hao

@Dansan_Eminen..

This photo wraps it all Just imagine that vigorous training and you expect her to be submissive #MainaAndKingangi

Maina hao wanafaa kuoana wenyewe kwa wenyewe. Sometimes they are rough. unaimagine ukikuja nyumbani late itakua shida.”

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5 reasons why you should marry in your 50’s

 

On the morning conversation with Mike Mondo and Mwalimu Kinga’ng’i, the topic was about why some famous Kenyans men like Charles Njonjo chose to get married later in life.

Sir Charles Njonjo married when he was 52, after lots of pressure from the late Mzee Jomo Kenyatta.

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At the time he revealed he couldn’t find a women he wanted to spend the rest of his life with.

Mike and Mwalimu debated the merits and disadvantages of marrying later in life, and also invited their listeners to submit views.

charles njonjo at tom mboya memeorial
Charles Njonjo

Here are five benefits of marrying in your 50’s:

You will only marry for love

Once you are in your late 40s or 50s, marriage union will only happen because of extreme love for each other. While most of us marry in pressure or for financial stability, kids or freedom early in our lives, people who marry late, do not have to succumb under any such pressure. All they need is pure companionship risen out of love. And that is the true essence of marriage which is why mostly second marriages are more successful.

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No insecurities

When you are younger, insecurities play out alot in your marriage. But as you age, these insecurities fade away. And once you enter in a relationship without any insecurities, it is way smoother.

No pressures in the relationship

There is no pressure to be anything other than yourself. The views and opinions of others matters little for instance the question of how soon you will get children will not arise.

No pretending
Since you are marrying later in life, there is no time for pretending about anything in life. A man or woman at this age only wants love, happiness and joy.

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You have enjoyed your single life completely

Being single is important early in life, and doing all that can be accomplished. So when you hit your 50’s you are ready to settle down no matter what and focus on the relationship.

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‘She wanted we wait until marriage’ Bride turns out to be man

 

A groom has shockingly discovered the person he married is in fact a man, and worse a notorious thief whose secret was uncovered at a police station

Sheikh Mohammed Mutumba, the Imam of Kyampisi Masjid Noor mosque in Uganda is regretting believing his brides excuse not to ‘twa twa’ before marriage.

The Sheikh discovered he married a man, after ‘she’ was arrested for stealing from the neighbors in their plot.

Police searched the body of the ‘women’ only to discover it is a man.

The bride has told the Sheikh that she was on her period and needed two weeks, noted The Daily Monitor.

The understanding groom believed her. But her luck run out when she was accused by neighbours of stealing a TV.

The women was frog marched to the police station, where the Imam witnessed after a body search that his wife was a man.

The Imam regretted being cheated into paying dowry which included two goats, two bags of sugar, three busuutis (a colorful floor-length dress), a carton of salt and a Koran.

The reactions to the story were swift, with many saying you must test drive a car before marriage.

Mii Attmore …Road test muhimu

Muslims call us hoes and kaffirs because they marry virgins
Kimeeleweka😂😂

Chaurembo Mercy New Mii Attmore huyu mzee lazima ameonja zaidi ya 20. Ni vyenye leo pwangu kapata pwanguzi

Mii Attmore Chaurembo Mercy New 😂😂😂😂lakini Bibi harusi looks so much of a nigger I wonder alishindwa kujua aji

Daniella Dave Danvid ..Ohh what a waste of time and love.
Jeanette Ambicha Rickdaville Owino 😂😂😂😂😂 importance of being sure before you there.. doesn’t seem like they have split 🤔🤔🤔

Kanini Kaseo ..Unamaanisha hajawahi kugurumisha hio gari?

Kizza Chrispine Charles Mugo… it’s true it happened here in Uganda, Mukono last week, the case is already in court.

Vincent Vinnie Vinny.. Road test muhinu

Walter Uzoma.. My question is, did the father of the alleged imposter also took part in the marrital scam, by collecting Cows from his fellow man to give out his own SON out to another MAN for marriage purpose?

Becky Adams.. I see this as drama. How do u convince me that, even the people who dressed up the bride didn’t know she was a man? I’ve stared properly at this bride, naye I have failed to see which part exactly attracted Imam. Maybe they were meeting only at night and in darkness😁😁🤭

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Woman seeks advice after finding out about husbands secret family

 

You’ve known him even longer than that. And then one day, boom, without warning, you suddenly find out that there is another family.

A woman calling herself Blu Heart @toni_mat wrote a hear breaking confession of discovering her husband had children out of wedlock.

My boyfriend added his side chick to our Whatsapp group

She was stunned, confused and angry as a thousand questions ran through her mind. How could he have two kids when they had been together, in a monogamous union she believed — for the past 7 years?

She couldn’t imagine he was capable of infidelity.

Coming to terms with his secret has been hard.

She wrote

Discovered that my husband has 2 kids, a year older than our oldest child, born on the same year, with different women.

But now came a sickening feeling that made her head spin. She added

After 7 years of marriage.

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People reacted with kind words on her heartbreak:

@RonaldMathe4..
2/3 of my married friends have kids out of the wedlock and their wives are not aware.

@ellenmolefe..
If ur married u sud be scared, never trust a married guy the things they say to us singles but hey…

@khoze_khoza..
The kids are the one’s going to suffer the most. First hand experience.

@Gogoseyintweni..
Now this is just wrong … Sorry

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She’s Glowing: Nun falls in love and marries in lavish ceremony

 

Celibacy is not an easy thing, and even Pastor Burale has told us this severally. Read more by clicking on the link.

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The interwebs has such stories. One twitter user by the name @VictorIsreal_ shared photos of a nun who has renounced her religion to marry the love of her life.

nun 1

The nun has tickled many who say she is better off leaving the convent and living a normal life.

Literally everyone commenting about it say only one thing is responsible for her decision. Can you guess?

nun 4
@ChiomaPhi.._
Reverend Sisters can decide to get married if they later find out they are not called, as far as they have not taken the Perpetual Vow or Final Profession of Vow. Once d final vow is taken, there’s no going back.
@DavidMadufor..
I pity people that do such things they don’t enjoy at all even the rev that sex with sisters they later get caught and disgraced publicly and for the rev father who have taken final vow and go back won’t understand his life again because God will so punish but the fact reman 👇
@Enigma__Mag..
So they are no longer married to Jesus🤔👀👀👀

nun 2
@winfieldlloyd.._
She taste the bola one time and her life never remained the same 🍆🍆🍆😂😂
@drapper9.._
Just look at the way she’s glowing in that last frame..
@justsayingfactz..
It’s better to leave and marry than to stay and be sleeping around. Kudos to her

nun 3
@lucy23717851..
She tasted d goodness of____ and decided to forward ever.fill d gap pls
@johntubor.._
Look at the glow

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