Photos of a slim man carrying a plus-size woman on his back leaves many mesmerized

They say love is blind and I agree with that. Photos of a man carrying his plus-sized woman on his back have gone viral on social media leaving Netizens mesmerized.

According to reports, the man and his plus size woman have been dating for quite a while and they are set to walk down the aisle very soon.

Hana heshima! Billionaire Jackson Kibor seeks to divorce 3rd wife for intolerance

The couple is a great example of the Swahili saying, nafasi ya dereva ni ile ile. Check out the photos

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Shemeji Ni Mboga! Man dumps wife and marries her sister for this silly excuse

The fact that marriages in Kenya are crushing at an alarming rate is not a story.

What is interesting is the story behind the break-ups. From not fulfilling your matrimonial duties, to financial disagreements, to sliding in the DM, many people are separating from their spouses.

Well, on the Classic overdrive with Mike Mondo, a frustrated man disclosed that he has dumped his wife of 11 years to hook up with her sister.

Man Catches His Wife Pants Down With Lover In Classroom, Gets His Leg Cut Off

Urrrgh! Can you imagine going back to the father-in-law and saying that you are done with one daughter and can you please have another? Yup!. The man has no qualms with doing so, and parted from his wife.

Presenter Mike Mondo was rather interested to know what led to the break-up, and it’s because of the silliest reason.

Just listen to the outrageous account of his life and reactions from male listeners who don’t agree with what he has done audio, utajua hujui shemeji ni mboga.

Man punches girlfriend in the shower because she ate the last cookie

 

A butcher punched his girlfriend in the face when he discovered she ate the last chocolate chip cookie, police said.

Richard Hessic, 31, of Port St Lucie, Florida was arrested last Thursday night following the snack-related attack on his live-in girlfriend.

When questioned by police, the 6-foot-4 butcher admitted that he became enraged when he discovered that the last of his favorite chocolate chip cookies was gone.

Hessic confronted his girlfriend of three years, a 34-year-old nurse, but he got the feeling that she was ‘blowing him off’, according to an incident report obtained by The Smoking Gun.

The victim said she tried to make light of the cookie conundrum and joked with Hessic about ‘reviewing the surveillance cameras to see who ate the cookie’.

But the illicitly devoured treat was no laughing matter for Hessic.

The girlfriend later told police she did not want to argue over ‘something so petty’ and offered to buy more cookies as a way to make it up to Hessic.

Incensed by the woman’s unwillingness to take his cookie grievance seriously, Hessic allegedly followed his girlfriend into the bathroom, ripped down the shower curtain while she was bathing and punched her on the left side of her face.

The responding officer observed in his report that while talking to the victim, he did not notice any swelling or bruising on her face.

Hessic was booked into the St Lucie County Jail on a misdemeanor charge of domestic battery.

He was later released and placed under house arrest with GPS monitoring. A judge has barred the Hessic from contacting his girlfriend.

The 31-year-old is due back in court for his arraignment on December 28.

Records show that the man was previously arrested on charges of battery, fleeing and eluding, child abuse and driving with a suspended license.

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Man Catches His Wife Pants Down With Lover In Classroom, Gets His Leg Cut Off

A man attacked his ‘cheating’ wife after trailing her and the lover to a school compound in Awendo town. But the confrontation went terribly wrong.

Tom Nyakongo had long suspected that his wife had an extra-marital affair. He traced his wife, a casual worker at Sussana Academy, after she delayed coming home.

South Kombok chief Beatrice Awuor said Nyakongo “found his wife and her lover having sex at a classroom she is supposed to sweep. The enraged Nyakongo confronted the two lovers and accosted the man,” Awuor said, adding the woman encouraged her lover to “cut the stupid man following me”.

“The lover picked a panga  and cut Nyakongo in the leg, before escaping. The woman failed to raise the alarm,” Awuor said.

Nyakongo was rushed to Rapcom Hospital in Awendo and referred to Migori Referral Hospital and later to Tenwek Hospital, Bomet, where he died.

Angry villagers tried to lynch the woman, but police rescued her.

-The Star/ Manuel Odeny

Woman Gate Crushes Her Own Funeral After Husband Plotted To Kill Her

A woman in Australia surprised her family and husband by showing up at her own funeral.

According to BBC, the husband to Noel Rukundo had hired hitmen to kill her while she took a trip from Australia to her native country Burundi.

Reports from Australia Broadcasting Corporation, say her husband had paid the equivalent of 7 million shillings to have his wife ‘finished’.

She was accosted by the gunmen who instead of killing her showed her the evidence of payment and telephone conversation between them and her husband. They then told her that they do not kill women and children and let her go.

Afterwards they called the man and asked for more money claiming to have finished the job. Balenga then informed relatives and friends that his wife had died in a road accident and began the funeral arrangements.

Rukundo was able to get her husband to confess that he wanted to murder her after she “surprised” him at her own funeral. The man has since been found guilty of attempted murder and is currently serving a 9 year sentence in Melbourne.

Man Kills Son After Arguing With Wife

A six year old boy lost his life as a result of a disagreement between his parents in Embu.

Embu police are now  investigating the incident in which the boy’s father allegedly murdered his son, and then attempted to kill himself, after an argument with his wife.

Neighbors say the wife had fled after the argument, and later sought police help in trying to get back her son saying she feared for his life.

The suspect is currently admitted in hospital and will be arraigned in court once discharged.

Here’s Why You Should Wife Her

When you are dating an amazing person that you can’t seem to get out of your mind, the most logical thing would be to wife her. OK! If she has all these characters

1. You’re incredibly happy to see her – If seeing your lady fills your heart with everlasting joy, you need to make sure you get to see her every single day .

2. She doesn’t take herself too seriously – If she can laugh at herself, she’s probably the kind of person who can shrug off mistakes and move on, which is a pretty great trait to have in a future spouse.

3. You want to be her kids’ dad – If you want to father her children, you should probably marry her. First of all, according to research, the kids of parents who are married are way better off (they are smarter and richer!). Also, if she’s the kind of woman you want to mother your children, that’s a great sign as well.

4. She’s smart – If your girl has a quick wit that takes her places but keeps you on your toes, she’s a keeper.

5. You love her when she’s crazy – You don’t have to be super attracted to her when she’s being a terror. But if you still love her when everything terrible is happening, you need to marry her.

6. She loves you too – If she loves you as well, this is the lady you are looking for.

7. You can’t imagine life without her – If you go practically crazy trying to imagine a future without her in it, just wife her already.

-Tosin

Man Faces Jail Term For Halting Traffic To Propose To His Girlfriend

There are so many ways to propose to your would be spouse, the classic dinner then ring, the engagement party, the ring in champagne, ring on cake as dessert etc .One man decided to halt traffic to engage his girlfriend a romantic act that could land him jail time.

A newly-engaged man is facing charges after he stopped traffic on a busy motorway in Texas to propose to his girlfriend.

According to the Houston Chronicle, Vidal Valldares ground traffic to a halt on Sunday when he popped the question.

According to reports he was aided by friends who stood in front of lanes of traffic while he proposed to his girlfriend Michelle Wycoff, who accepted.

Mr Valldares posted a picture of the proposal online, with the message: “When you shut down one of the biggest and busiest freeways in the entire country (I45) and you ask your girl if she wants to marry you, that moment is priceless love you @mlwycoff #shesaidyes”.

Mr Valldares will now face a charge of obstructing a highway for his stunt on the I45, according to the Harris County District Attorney’s office.

In as much as the friends were overjoyed at their engagement and the support from their friends, many who were on the highway were unimpressed by their actions.

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Man Leaves Family Behind To Live As 6 Year Old Girl

According to The Independent, a man named Stefonknee (pronounced ‘Stephanie’) Wolschtt, had been married for 23 years when he realized he was transgender.

He is now living with an adoptive family as a six year old girl, because he “doesn’t want to grow up”.

According to a video posted by The transgender project, Stefonknee says “I can’t deny I was married. I can’t deny I have children. But I’ve moved forward now and I’ve gone back to being a child,”

Wolschtt said his wife could not accept him as a transgender woman. He was told to either “stop being trans or leave”.

To me, ‘stop being trans’ isn’t something I could do,” he says. “It would be like telling me to stop being 6ft 2 or leave.”

Feeling rejected by his family, Wolschtt left and now lives with an adoptive family, who he says are “totally comfortable with me being a little girl”.

He explains how his new parents’ youngest granddaughter wanted a little sister and decided Wolschtt should be younger than her.

We have a great time. We color, we do kid’s stuff,” he says.

It’s called play therapy. No medication, no suicide thoughts. And I just get to play.”

Wolschtt spoke of how he became suicidal and was hospitalized a month after taking part in the first Toronto transgender march in 2009 and again in 2012 after his daughter asked him to attend her wedding dressed like a man and he should seat behind and not address the family members.

Man Marries Pizza Because It’s Loyal

First there was a woman who marries herself, then a man who married a tree, another woman married her dog and now a man has married pizza! Yes that’s right, pizza in a ceremony that  allegedly took place in a pizzeria in the city of Tomsk, in Russia.

The bride was thin and crispy and wore a veil. The groom (who wasn’t named) wore his best clean shirt.

The former-bachelor says he decided to commit to his favourite fast food after getting bored of the single life.

He was quoted saying ‘Love between two humans is a complicated wild thing,’ Pizza, on the other hand, ‘would not reject you or betray you, and speaking quite frankly and sincerely, I love it.’

Russian authorities, however, refused to officially register the marriage and a church also turned the newlyweds down.

So, in the end, the ceremony took place in a local pizzeria with the chefs and managers as witnesses.

The restaurant even presented them with a non-official but very smart wedding certificate on a clipboard.

-Metro

Here’s What To Do When Your Man Pulls Away

sometimes when a man just wants space, he will be quiet and withdraw from everyone and want to be alone. A woman’s reaction would be to nag, nag, and nag him more wanting to know what the problem is that may eventually lead to a fight. This happens because a woman will most probably think that it’s her fault the man is silent, yet without realizing it he could be distracted by other things such as work, business or personal projects among other reasons.

 

Instead of spoiling for a fight , just let the man be and understand that:

 

It’s normal for men to pull away from time to time, women can do it too. The best you can do is give him space to feel free and be his own person. Don’t take it personally until there is good reason to take it personally.

 

Give him space graciously – don’t huff and puff and play games, give him space from the heart, he should at no stage sense that you are annoyed or pissed with him. Do not dish out “negative” energy – replace it with love and understanding energy.

 

If you deal with time apart from him with finesse, it will make him realize how wonderful you are and how much he values you. Be cool, not insecure.

 

Embrace the space and use the time well,  just let him know you are there when he needs you.

 

When he does contact you try to make sure you don’t make him wrong, don’t say – “where have you been, you should have called me”, instead say something more along the lines of, “hey, so nice to speak with you” or “hi, so nice to hear your voice, what’s been happening?”

 

If he often “pulls away” or rarely seems present and emotionally available, go and then you may decide if this man is for you. Sometimes he is not actually pulling away, he may never have been there to begin with.

 

Sometimes people meet and come together when they are both emotionally unhealthy (needy, depressed, hurt), and over the course of the relationship one person may become emotionally stronger and more independent. If you remain overly dependent on him it may feel as though he’s trying to distance himself, which he might be, he may also be simply be in a better place and ready for a more balanced connection, versus a dependent relationship. So you may need to get some professional support to assist you.

N. Piat

Things You Should Remember When Your Man Checks Out Other Females

When you are together with your man and another woman walks by, with all the blessed areas that you lack ….. he will sneak a peak at her. Many ladies prefer to pretend they haven’t noticed his glance… but sometimes it’s hard to ignore. However, do not take it personal as it’s just a moment and in as much as you will feel bad about it, learn to let it go.

But keep this in mind, when you notice his eyes wandering:

1. Companionship is not skin deep – If you are in a healthy relationship, there is something you have to offer your man that another woman does not: history, relationship and your companionship. Attraction may have initially triggered your connection, but real relationships evolve from the googly-eyed phase to something with meaning and depth. Love obviously doesn’t come from beauty. Thank goodness for that! You offer something of depth to your man – the beautiful companionship that cannot be created in a glance.

2. We were created to appreciate beauty – We are naturally drawn to it. That’s what makes art, movies and photos so alluring. It’s natural to notice beauty. Men and women both do it. It’s not a personal slight to notice another woman’s beauty. It is just a natural acknowledgment of something we are created to appreciate.

3. Beauty is not a limited resource – Your man noticed this woman – is pretty, doesn’t mean you aren’t. There is no cap on beauty distribution. Learn to genuinely be happy for someone else’s success, someone else’s attractiveness and someone else’s happiness. What we sometimes forget is that these characteristics are not like a pie. It’s not as if one person receiving a huge slice results in you receiving something smaller.

4. You control your self esteem – This is hard. It’s not an overnight fix either. Media bombards us with all sorts of things we should try to base our self-esteem off of: looks, talents, friends, jobs, popularity, social class, relationship status. The problem is, all of those things can be taken away from us. There is absolutely one thing you control in your life and that is how you treat others. Your self-esteem will grow as you focus on loving others. Then, at this weak moment of wondering if your man would rather be with that girl than you, you know you are worth loving because you love yourself.

5. His reaction says more about him than you – Yes, self esteem is important, but how the man handles this situation says a lot about his respect for you and his character. Noticing is different than ogling. If he’s doing this habitually, it’s disrespectful to you. Communicate with him that this makes you feel uncomfortable or inadequate when he handles this situation disrespectfully.

6. Take a step back – We’re all careless at some point. We do and say things with good intentions that come off wrong. To him, this moment is probably not a big deal. In a healthy relationship, your man wants you to be happy. He isn’t deliberately intending to hurt your feelings. Look at the whole picture of your relationship. We tend to blow careless moments out of proportion, forgetting that most of the time we have something very good going on in the relationship. You can let it go and realize it’s unintentional, or you can kindly address it.

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Man Fakes Kidnapping To Cheat On His Wife And Mistress With A Third Woman

A married man faked his own kidnapping so he could be with another woman behind his mistress’s back.

Warren Green, 33, lied to his wife to travel to Edinburgh to see girlfriend Chelsea Linn.

He was not really going to see Chelsea, but another woman and then got a friend to call Chelsea and tell her he had been kidnapped, the Daily Record reported .

Green, from London, claimed he had been bundled into a car by two men and then punched and kicked as he lay chained to a radiator in an Edinburgh city center flat.

A frantic Chelsea called in police and when Green arrived at her home in Oxgangs, Edinburgh, the following day, officers were waiting for him.

The love cheat carried on insisting he had been kidnapped when the officers questioned him.

But his story soon began to unravel and he eventually admitted he had made the story up so he could “sneak off to see another girl”.

At an earlier hearing, he had admitted falsely representing to police officers that he had been abducted, assaulted and held to ransom .

Sheriff Crowe ordered Green to carry out 120 hours of unpaid work in the community and also placed him on a 12-month supervision order.

Here Are Some Of The Reasons Why Your Man Is Angry At You

Women have a habit of running their mouths when they are angry and mostly ebd uo saying things that they would never take. While all this happens your man will be looking at you wondering what all the drama is about and may even chose to ignore you.

But then later on you apologise and then he just pulls away from you. There are things you might have said that may have led to this ‘withdrawal” :

Here are a few words considered offensive which you shouldn’t say to your man:

1. ‘You spend so much on your friends’: They are his friends and not yours and telling him he wastes money on them would make it look like you are in charge of his finances. He is likely to stop discussing money matters with you if you both get back together.

2. ‘You don’t measure up to my brother/father’s status’:You shouldn’t have considered a relationship if he didn’t meet your family’s standards in the first place. Reminding him of his current position could make him resentful towards you.

3.Cursing with the ‘F’ word: He may understand if you are having a conversation about something, as long as it’s not directed at him. Directing the ‘F’ word at your boyfriend could cause a gradual breakdown of your relationship.

4. Snide comments about his mother: His mother is a no-go area for you. Doesn’t matter how much he disagrees with her, it doesn’t give you the right to make derogatory remarks about your partner’s mother. He may see you as a disrespectful person generally.

5. ‘You are still hung on your ex’: Doesn’t matter how obvious it is, reminding him of his past relationship could bring about some unexpected reactions. Let him tell you about his past when he’s ready.

-Pulse

Five Things A Man Will Not Tell You

Unlike women who seem like an open book, men aren’t exactly open and it can be quite a task to figure out what they like. So if they won’t tell you these things, it’s up to you to just observe.

They love the ‘boyfriend’ tag – Contrary to popular belief guys love being in love too. They like the boyfriend tag and no, all boys are definitely not the immature types who are scared of being committed.

They don’t like games after a commitment – When a guy opens his heart to you, it would be very wrong to keep playing the ‘hard-to-get’ games. Avoid it. When a girl pulls away the guy will too and soon the relationship will be over so it’s better to avoid the psychological tug of war.

They want their friends to like you – Approval of friends is something that is big for a guy and they would like it if their friends like you. However, they are scared that their friends might covet you. This is something you totally have no control over at all but then guys do get more secure as they get older. If you’ve ever been dumped by a guy who you thought really liked you shortly after meeting his friends, take comfort in the fact that you were probably just too hot for him to handle.

Don’t love their friends; like them – Of course they do not want you to ditch them for their friends and they don’t want you to go out of your way to get their friends to like you because they want your energy focused on them all the time. As long as their friends and you can hang out without incident the boyfriend in them is happy.

They worry that they will lose you – People keep writing about how to keep a guy interested in you but actually when a guy likes you then it is not hard at all. Actually it is the guys who are worried that you might dump them. Just be his girlfriend and he is happy!

-TOI

Here’s Why You Shouldn’t Badmouth Your Man

It’s human nature to find flaws and faults in others and sometimes to go as far as to talk about it to whomever will listen. This is one thing we ought to stop as it is of benefit to anyone and especially if you are in a relationship.

Its mostly common with women who talk about their husbands which leads to more problems. Here’s why tearing down your man isn’t a good idea:

Negatively invites more negativity – Perhaps you had a fight or there are some personality traits or habits that just annoy you. You are tempted to call your girlfriend or family member to “vent.” The person you vent to is now thinking those same negative things about your partner as you are putting them. As you tear down your husband, the negativity grows rapidly, like pouring gasoline on a fire. Ultimately, it creates greater animosity toward your husband, and the results are nothing but bad.

Instead, try speaking about positive traits or not talking at all. Find things you love about your spouse and dwell on those instead. If something is really bugging you, rather than discuss it with someone (unless it is your husband and talking about it will be productive), try just writing it down and throwing it away. No one likes to be criticized or have their short-comings magnified. .

Words can cause damage – It’s a painful process to learn, grow and try to change and improve. It’s even harder when the person closest to you will not allow you to change by always rehashing your past faults. Having your closest friend and partner bring you down with hurtful elaborations on your flaws is counter-productive. When you focus on all the things he may be doing wrong, it can potentially hurt your husband mentally, emotionally and physically.

Try building him up often -Husbands really try their best. Compliment the things he does. Thank him for working to provide for the family. Let him know that he is a great dad. Tell him you appreciate him. Remind him of your love for him. There is always something wonderful to see. If it’s hard, start small with something like the way he looks. Look for the good he does and compliment that — just like negativity can grow, so can positivity!

A marriage takes teamwork – If you are constantly working against each other with fights, insults or other negative acts, your marriage will likely be unhappy and potentially end in heartache. On a sports team, if teammates were constantly elbowing, kicking shins or talking smack to each other, the team would fall apart. Similarly, you will begin to resent each other, not work together and become enemies. By focusing on bad qualities, you are ultimately damaging your relationship and marriage.

Work together – Good and effective communication, bonding as a couple and building each other up are necessary for a healthy marriage. Your attitude toward your husband can make all the difference. Focusing on his good qualities can make all the difference. When problems arise and they will  working together for solutions is a lot easier when you can speak with respect and love to your husband.

Kindness, love and respect can go a long way in improving behavior, thwarting negativity and learning to be a team. Avoid tearing down your husband. Find the wonderful things about him that you fell in love with and focus on those. Your marriage and relationship depends on it.

-Familyshare

What Is Worst Thing That You’ve Found On Your Partners Phone?

A woman is fighting for her life in hospital after she killed her boyfriend and later tried to take her own life by stabbing herself.

The woman is said to have found text messages from another woman on her boyfriend’s phone.

Mwalimu feels that the woman may have taken the text message out of context and was wrong for going through the man’s phone.

Although Maina does not condone the woman’s actions he feels that there must be more to the text messages than people may know. It could have been a steamy text or even private images hence her harsh reaction.

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Compliments Your Man Would Love To Hear

The same way a woman likes to hear compliments is the very same way a man would also like to hear compliments. No one would pass a chance to get a compliment because lets be honest, it makes you feel good and will probably make you smile.

So take a moment and appreciate the man in your life, in little ways and it will change your relationship by making it better. Here are some of the compliments a man would like to hear.

1. I respect you – It may sound old school but if you show your man that you respect him, he will become a better man in return. This is not to say that he is a bad man, it’s just to say that he will improve on the little things to help bring you closer. Women want to feel close, loved and safe, men just want to be respected that’s it. Respect doesn’t mean that you agree blindly to everything, it means that you support his vision, dreams, thoughts etc and even when you have a different opinion on issues you still have his interests at heart.

2. You look handsome – “You look beautiful” how does that feel? Good, right? He will also feel the exact same way so you should tell him often. Plus it’s really good for his ego, so stroke it. Tell him or when he wakes up, when he is leaving for work or even when he has just finished changing a flat tyre.

3. Thank you – It doesn’t matter what has been done, he may have cooked dinner, washed the dishes, bought you a gift, helped you zip up your dress, hugged you when you cried, picked you from work, etc the list is endless. There are so many reasons to say thank you, you don’t have to wait for something big.

4. I trust youThis doesn’t mean that he is going to stray or anything. It simply means that you want him around him to possibly build a future or continue forward with him. It shows you have faith in his ways and leadership.

5. I’ve got your back – This simply lets your man know that you are with him every step of the way. You support him when the world is against him.

6. I’m sorry – It’s not the man’s prerogative to apologize and bring you flowers every time you fight. Apologize for your mistakes no matter how small and move on from there. It will make both of you feel better about the whole situation. You can also take him for an apology date.

7. You make me better – This shows your man that you value him as a person and the input he makes in your life. It also shows him that you appreciate whatever efforts he puts to make your life better than it was and there are better days to come.

A relationship is about the two of you and for it to prosper it will take an effort from both. Don’t just let your man be and not appreciate him because it will take a toll on the relationship. The same way it would if he would just ignore you.