I have not seen my son for close to one year-Estranged father tells Maina sadly

Maina and King’ang’i had a vigourous conversation today regarding men who complained that their kids are kept away from them by the kid’s mothers.

Maina was shocked that such a thing could happen and couldn’t wrap his head around it.

He wondered if it could be possible?

King’ang’i meanwhile felt that those men who were complaining were speaking truthfully and that it was an issue that was afflicting many men.

Is there a problem with parenting today asks Maina Kageni

One man chimed in with a very sad story, speaking about how the mother of his child had run away with his 5-month-old son. He said that he had not seen the kid for close to one year, not for want of trying. He said that the child’s mother had a father who was a licensed firearm holder and that he couldn’t go to see the kid. The story is below;

We (men) are really suffering. I got married to a woman who had two kids from another man. I took her in, paid everything for them. God’s luck I got a son with her. Since we got that child, I stayed with that child for 5 months, on the 6th month she left and went to her parents again. I have not seen my son for close to one year. I am still providing for the kid but the mother refuses me to see the kid. The mother tells me to go on and look for another woman. They are using the children to punish men. To find a woman who wants a better family in this day and age is hard! There are one in a million.

Some other comments from listeners are below;

I have tried to see my child. It is impossible-Message from a man.

Maina you will never understand women-Message from a man.

I have been trying for months to see my kid with no success, yet I am willing to co-parent-Message from a man.

I tell the father of my child that he will never see his kid until he contributes. I just tell my lawyer that if he wants to see his kid then he has to go to court. He has never contributed to raise the boy. We have even gone to court but he doesn’t want to contribute to the upbringing-A woman told Maina.

How do you punish your children, asks Maina Kageni after boys online rant

Why can’t a man just move on when we break-up?-A woman told Maina.

Until the day he starts to cater for the kids, then that’s when he will see the kids-A woman told Maina.

Why do these things only happen to those people who have money? More money, more problems-Message from a man.

Some of us men are really struggling. We have differences. I will support the baby in the school, she will support shelter and food. I saw the baby in March at school. In April on school holidays, she started making excuses that I should get the kid. She took the kid upcountry and she is staying with her mother. I am told to pay the school fees and don’t see your kid. I miss my son- A sad man told Maina.

There is no woman who would block a responsible man from their kids. Deadbeat dads should stop giving excuses-A man told Maina.

I haven’t barred my ex from seeing his kids. He refused to see his kids-A woman told Maina.

 

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The Tupac Shakur quote about life and moving on

 

If you are a Maina Kageni fan,  you know that he loves the late American rapper Tupac Shakur.

Here at Classic 105, we are marking the 23rd death anniversary of the rapper all week.

2pac died on 13th September, 1996..

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The rapper often treated fans to lots of quotes on life, love and it’s worth noting it’s because he was a poet and a social activist.

Tupac without a doubt lived a tough life and his quotes have proven to have helped many prove the odds wrong.

Maina has been touched with this quote from Tupac. He spoke about his life saying

‘There are people who’ve been raised on Tupac, there are babies who’ve been named after Tupac, and it’s because of what was between his ears. He had a choice to either fail having come from  the ghetto without having a father and all he had was a mothers love but look at the things he did.’

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Here’s the quote:

Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back because it simply means that you are two steps ahead

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The ultimatums Kenyan women have given ‘lazy’ spouses

 

Women have revealed their thoughts on unemployed spouses and it’s pretty harsh.

Mwalimu Kingangi on Friday started a very interesting conversation about role responsiblibites in terms of money, noting that ‘a woman will rememeber the first time she gave you 50 bob.’

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He was upset that many wives have been bragging about paying bills and outing men who are unemployed. He figured that women are not understanding that unemployment is a temporary situation, and this men should be respected.

Mwalimu said

You will never hear a man say how he paid bills but when a woman does pay bills for a man, she will announce it to the world, t will be front page news, you are telling the entire world how you are helping your husband, why do women have to announce. Do you know you would rather take money from a shylock than ask a wife for money. 

So Maina sought to know from ladies: why are you like that? Is it that you feel unappreciated, is it that you feel that you do so much for this man and it’s not appreciated?

Let’s have this chat ladies, and be honest. Women opened up with all sorts of accusation you need to read below:

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Woman caller: God did not say women should provide and that is why we complain, we are not bragging, she is saying you are just another bugger, if you are useless man one day you shall be called bugger

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Another woman concurred noting that

we are living with Kenyan men that are bums, we are paying all bills and they they have nothing to say because they are doing nothing, why should I be paying his bills? I have a man I supported for ten years. I left the bugger,  I  took him to school I paid his fees, I paid the mortgage and all he does is wear a nice suit, buy nyama choma, and entertainment friends, what will he say he did for his family? Nothing!!!

Dear Classic fam, are these women being petty or are their grievances justified? Drop us your comments.

 

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Maina Kageni’s embarrassing visit with a chicken to see a ‘BROKE’ Juacali

 

Can you possibly picture Maina Kageni carrying a chicken in a carton to visit someone? No? Well, it happened.

Only this time in a dream. Please don’t log off, give me a chance to explain.

A woman called Maina Kageni, confessing how she dreamt about him going to visit Juacali, who was ‘broke’ and ‘destitute’.

 

Though we may be loathe to admit it, many of us devote a lot of our brain space to thinking about celebrities — which naturally means that dreams about celebrities are a regular element of many of our nocturnal lives.

She described the incredible dream to Maina

I dreamt about you last night …hahahah ngai, ati we were in a bus and you had a chicken, by the way I am serious, and we were going to meet Juacali, you were going to encourage Juacali to take heart and not get discouraged

Then from there I don’t know what happened to the chicken, by the way I am serious it’s not a joke alafu Maina you had a box and put the chicken inside, ati Juacali alikuwa chini kabisa alikuwa amechapa

Embarrassed or confused? Here was Maina’s response to her weird dream

Touch wood, Goodbye

 

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Kingang’i interrupted as woman loudly explains how they cheat

 

A woman won the praise of Maina Kageni after explaining to a confused Mwalimu Kingang’i what happens when wives are dumped in the village.

In a clip heard on air, the woman confronts Mwalimu after he said that the village is the best place for a married woman to live as the man hustles in Nairobi.

Before he could continue, the woman blurted out

If there are no jobs in Nairobi, why have you decided I go to the village and leave you behind in Nairobi? To do what if you also don’t have a job?

Are you counting cars? Huna kazi sina kazi umebaki ukufanya nini kuhesabu gari?

Mwalimu tried to offer an explanation for his statement, and said

Mimi nimebaki niangalie hewa ya pesa, you know things are thick, you know one of us has to stay and most likely it’s not you..

but the woman interrupted, explaining that

You stay in Nairobi at your own risk and if you think you are torturing your wife by telling her to stay int he village, wee kaa hapo, who do you think is ploughing me (unafikiri nalimwa na nani Wakunaji ni wengi…..)

You want me to slay with cows in the village? We met in Nairobi and started our life in the city, why do you want to kick me to the village?

You are sick there is no way you are remaining in the city, doing what? And furthermore let me tell you a secret, who do you think is sorting me out? You know those workers you hire? The one who has a six pack and milks the cow and digs the shamba, that is whom is sorting me out ehe, eheh ehe!!! (you figure it out )

Maina Kageni dug in with a similar view to the woman offering this advise to men for free

you stay in Nairobi at your own risk if you have a wife in ushago and think you are stressing her, heeh you stay there…

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Shagz is the best place for married women – men reveal relationship opinions

 

 

A 33-year-old man caused a racas on Classic 105 after stating that wives should be taken to the village, where  they are more valuable to the family.

The man said

we cannot keep moving fom one place to another with our wives, we must leave our wives at home so that they can stabilize our homes,

I’m 33 and she is 28 and she has been in ushago for three years since graduating.

His comments riled Maina who responded

why marry someone like that and two if your education means nothing why go to school and who said it’s your decision to determine where a woman lives?

Mwalimu, who loves to push Maina’s boundaries supported the mans views commenting that

Ladies need to leave their degrees at the door once married

Many men responded to the dumping wife in the villages, with some pretty warped thoughts on women and their role in a marriage
Bronson kip..
why’d she come with me to Nairobi then she becomes a barrier whenever i do what i do that doest need her? She better stay at home doing something constractive

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Dr.Ndegwa..
Siwezi uza ng’ombe 10 kusomesha bibi University alafu nimrudishe mashinani kuchunga ng’ombe 5. A spouse should be a teammate. Build together at one spot. I am
doug onali chanchima..
Morning bibi ni kule mashambani mie in town to struggle for the better life of her

skepticalbabaymeme

Oscar Saina..
maina economic situation in kenya will make bibi akae nyumbani ajenge empire
Dan Patrick..
but mr Maina, can u compare a wife in gishagi making 5k a day with city wife making 30k per month…?? If it develops my family ill go for it.. #MainaAndKingangi

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Maina Kageni’s message to Harmonize after lavish wedding

Bongo singer Harmonize broke the internet this past weekend, with a secret wedding.

The wedding was a two part series, and the couple looked adorable during their big day.

Classic 105’s Maina Kageni is a close pal and attended the wedding.

He revealed in an interview about Harmonize taking the plunge

‘I’m proud of you for taking this big step’

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The lovebirds left a lasting impression on Maina who gushed over them adding

‘He is marrying someone he has known for a while, and that’s good’

Harmonize and his Italian girlfriend Sarah Michelotti had been dating for a while and the two have on numerous occasions hang out with Maina.

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Congratulations as they begin the next big step of planning a family.

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Nagging and Clingy: Why Kalenjin men dump wives in ushago

A Kalenjin man left Maina Kageni astonished after sharing details of his living conditions.

No, he is not homeless, or living large. He says he is happily married and living separate from his wife, and it’s the best thing EVER!

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Now before you wonder what the hell he is talking about, he has a reason for it.

I have been married for four years and after a year I took her ushago, you know there is reality of life, you cannot be doing cosmetic things of ‘we are in love’, let us not live the western life

Notice the lack of empathy he has for his wife as he continues his life story

we cannot keep moving from one place to another with our wives, we have to leave our wives back at home to stabilize things, so for me I can’t allow to move with my wife, and she is back home by the way she is a very good farmer very good manager, my farm is doing well just because she is doing a good job

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So I see her once a month, that’s what is done in Kajlenjin. We don’t have to agree on such things, it’s men who decide.

I am 33 and she is 28, and she is doing very well infact I opened a shop for her, she is a graduate, we had to get educated, so we have to live a reality life not movies, infact I am looking for a school for her to teach so that she is busy.

Would you ever live apart from your partner? Or do you love the closeness? Or do you wish you could? Do you already? Tell us below.

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My ex would have breastfed his mother if she told him to – angry ex confesses

 

 
There are many things that can be deal breakers when it comes to relationships, and finding yourself involved with a mama’s boy can be a pretty high contender.

A woman called in to the Maina and Kinga’gi show saying she dumped her ex boyfriend over his tight mother-son bond.

telling how she was annoyed her grown up bae was behaving

it is the reason why I left my boyfriend, maybe he doesn’t even know the reason, because he was acting like a hooligan, he was the type of person when he wakes up it’s his mother,  every weekend it’s his mother, over the weekend he is at his mothers,

She was upset with what she had gotten herself into and his ‘unhealthy’ relationship

he is 27 years, what is he going for in her house? He couldn’t make a decision because his mother would control him,

She describes how she dealt with his overbearing mother

I wanted a wedding and his mother told him to move in with me instead, and that if I didn’t want this I should move on, that is exactly what I did.  I didn’t understand why a man with mandevu, should listen to his mother, kama ni kunyonya, si ata mimi niko na matiti anyonye zangu. Kwani he goes to breastfeed? I also have breasts he can come s*ck mine instead of hers.

 

This is a struggle you are going to fight as long as you are with this man, his mother Maina assured her.

Here’s a list of the daily struggles you might face while dating a mama’s boy:

1. He will never truly be independent.
2. He’ll never believe anything unless his mom tells him so.

3. She will try and control your life now too.

5. She will always have the final say.

10. He’ll call her about every little thing.

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Maina and Kingangi tribute to Hell’s Gate flash flood victims

 

News of the demise of several tourists at Hell’s Gate in Naivasha has shocked Kenyans.

Tragedy struck again at Hells Gate National Park, when a group of tourists and their guide got overwhelmed by a flash flood, caused by a severe rainstorm some distance away.

KWS broke the news saying

It is with deep sorrow that we announce a tragedy this evening in Hell’s Gate National Park in Naivasha, in which an unknown number of tourists are feared to have drowned in flash floods while others survived

Pictured: Naivasha MP Jayne Kihara consoles grieving families at Hells Gate

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Six of the seven bodies of the flash flood victims have been recovered, leaving one tourist missing. The seven victims included five Kenyan tourists, a local guide and a non-resident.

The search and rescue operation continues. The park has also been closed.

Maina Kageni and co-host Mwalimu Kingangi sent out their tributes to the dead and injured saying

I’ve been to Hell’s Gate. It’s crazy, that’s why they are called flash floods, but it’s the most beautiful place there, just be careful, you just don’t know when the water comes, to the affected families pole sana,

Jane Kihara the area MP has also condoled with the families. She shared her message that read

It’s such a sad situation for one to loose loved ones through such an unexpected tragedy like it happened to these families

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Men confess about the types of women they don’t want to marry

A story that’s made the Monday pullout on the Standard quotes men as suggesting there are no women to marry.

Apparently many Kenyan women are undomesticated, needy, lazy, thankless slay queens, madam freebbies, team clueless, and women who play hard to get and much more.

A couple of men told Maina Kageni that there are no women to marry in Kenya.

The men told me that there are no worthy women to marry, that  women have too much baggage, that there are so many eligible bachelors, just that there are no women worth calling marriage material

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Maina’s co-host Mwalimu Kingangu slammed women adding

Kenyan men are getting a raw deal, yet men are in so much demand, we are an endangered species. They women are kichwa ngumu

Maina opend up debate to listeners with this question

Are Kenyan women unamarriable?

Kenyan women intimidate men: because a woman will not sit in the house and wait for you to do everything for her,

Do Kenyan women come with too much baggage?

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A majority of male callers were of the opinion that women are just gold diggers. Sample their views below

charles maina…
WOMEN ARE NATURALLY EXPENSIVE,
Take the one you can afford and stop saying that women Love money
Lakini,electricity,women and hot porridge are the three things I fear in Kenya😂#MainaAndKingangi

Dickie Múrími… Gone are the days when love was love nowadays money has replaced the real love .. bitter truth 😥😥 #MainaAndKingangi
Jose Dot Mali Ya Mungu..
I’m waiting to see that day a lady banker getting married to a mkokoteni guy @itsmainakageni #MainaAndKingangi

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Cheruiyot🇰🇪..
Do you expect us to marry all these girls who get married in campus do kinds of abortion? am 28 and not in a harry, on the other side wengine wanakula pitza to they are lazy to gor for it they ask for delivery imebaki walishwe #MainaAndKingangi

Douglas Davins..
I have never seen a man leave a woman because she is broke. In fact, I’ve seen men working for years to support a woman to support a woman who never got lucky to be employed. Don’t tell me its a mans duty to provide while u use equality where it suits u.. #MainaAndKingangi

 

What’s your opinion of this line of thinking? Drop your comments below.

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Maina Kageni reacts to Zari’s MCM’s ‘new look’

 

 

Peter of the former boy band P Square has been showing off the major transformation on Instagram, and his Kenyan pal Maina Kageni has an opinion about it.

Peter got a new set of teeth, and wrote about why he needed to do something about his previous ‘bad’ teeth.

 I had always been a tad self conscious of smiling because of a protrusion in my dentition, it also affected my confidence a bit. This made me consider options of getting braces (imagine at my age!) I’m in a business where looks count and I was turning down opportunities because I wasn’t confident enough to explore them.

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When my friends at @atteliadentinvited me over, talked me through the process and assured me that I was in the best hands, I trusted them and believe me they were right.

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They gave me first class treatment and hospitality. Made sure I was comfortable and delivered on the Hollywood Million Dollar smile they promised.
My confidence level is at 150% now and I’m ready to take on the world and all those opportunities now! So watch out now, me and my million dollar smile are coming! Thank you so much @atteliadent for this transformation🤗🙏🏽🙏🏽🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷 I swear! wahala Dey 🤣😁 I go dey Smile for Life No bi for only picture! Una go taya for me🤣😂🤣😂🤣 This is trouble in paradise!

 

Even Zari, the woman he was alleged to have had a fling with commented cheekily about his new look.

She wrote

Love it…. ama bout to stunt on them too😜😁

Maina dug in praising him for doing something to uplift himself.

Maina said

I don’t know which doctor he went to in Turkey, oh my god it totally changed his look, what a real smile ought to look like.

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I forgave my wife for cheating because.. I’m ALSO GUILTY

 

When is it advisable to come clean about adultery and when is it better to keep things hush hush?

A man beat a hasty retreat after initiating a probe on his cheating wife.

He began narrating his discovery

what surprises me most is that our women are so discreet in what they do

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Does this statement come from personally experiencing something? He responds firmly, without hesitation.

yes

I just found out, I bumped into it. It was just a coincidence, of course I asked who is this and you see the mos intriguing part of it is that even if you ask her best friend, she will never admit it too.

He has a theory why women cheat more than men, something Maina Kageni dismissed as completely macho.

women are the masters, at the same time they are also masters of suspicion they suspect their men because they are guilty

 

while he was quizzing his wife about the affair, did he bother to find out how long she had been cheating?

well I didn’t get to find out how long it was we just has to sit down and sort it out

Perhaps by now you are wondering how a husband can get past cheating. He explains how they sorted it out

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I gave her an option because after all I felt it was unfair just to tell her to go home and I also had a mpango wa kando at the same time.

So Hol’ up, he forgave his cheating wife because he was also cheating? will wonders never cease….

yes….. he responded and hang up his phone.

 

Dear Classic 105 fam, do you have some major tea to drop? We are listening.

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My wife eyes me like the Tom Mboya statue after checking my phone

 

The conversation on Classic 105 was about women going through their mens phones.

This topic was based on evidence Mary Kaitany produced in court in the divorce proceeding against husband Linturi.

Kitanys testimony included a revelation that she found illicit content on her husbands phone. She told a packed courtoom

“Initially it was cheating and just like other women, I would sneak into his phone. I became suspicious of his moves because he would come home later, didn’t want to give me my conjugal rights and he would be quarrelling,” Kitany said.

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Woman on phone

Classic host Maina Kageni was rather shocked by how messy the divorce case appeared.

Is there a Kenyan man without nudes on his phone? Is there a Kenyan man whose hone you wont go through and get upset? Why do you entertain those things, so why don’t you see them and delete them?

Is there a Kenyan mans phone you can go through and not find anything incriminating? If Kenyan men were to be divorced based on contents on their phone would anyone be left married?

Ladies why do you go to his phone?how do you get his pin number and what are the logistics to get it?

A man called in with his hilarious story of how his wife got hold of his PIN number to access the contents of the phone.

when you are happy in your marriage and are at home, they will try and sneak through your phone me I had a problem with my wife one day, I think they have eyes like a chameleone, one looks infront the other on the side, you see when your opening your phone when she’s next to you she is facing forward you are facing down and she has already crammed the PIN no matter how long it is.

The worst thing is you will never know when she has read your messages you have it in the evening you go sleep at the same time but when you wake up she is so mad at you. She is looking at you like that statue along Tom Mboya street.

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One day she told me something and what I heard was from the context of a text message on my phone. Unfortunately I had not even opened that text so I asked her kwani these days I live with a witch, coz I didn’t hear you come out of bed, not even a sense of movement,

So what did his wife see: a text or whatsapp message?

I work at a high comission so we have these groups so somebody had said and I like the way this guy is tall coll and hardworking you know it was just a compliemnt but to her it intepreted different.

In my phone I assure you there are no nudes.

Dear classic 105 fam, do you believe him or nah? Also drop your thoughts on womens habit of snooping in a mans phone.

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Why you will never hear Maina Kageni sing EVER AGAIN

Hearing his voice will make your heart flutter and even his melodious voice has charmed legendary singer Pete Odera.

One of the talents Classic host Maina Kageni does not and will exploit is his singing skills.

He can croon, but don’t expect to hear him sing as he revealed shyly to musicians Pete Odera and June Gachui on tuesday morning.

Maina while reminiscing about groups like Zanaziki comprising Sue, Susan Matiba  said

If ever I could sing again on stage, it would be a Luther Vandross song (keeping my faith in you).

Maina Kageni
Maina Kageni

He however insisted that in as much as it is tempting, he will never go back on stage insisting

That’s another life

Maina used to work as a truck driver after flying out to study in the USA.

He has also flipped burgers (worked at a food joint).

He is also a really good cook.

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‘I turn 50’ Veteran singer Pete Odera’s big birthday plans

 

Veteran singer and songwriter Pete Odera began his musical journey almost 30 years ago.

Odera and Tedd Josiah and the late Salli Oyugi formed Kenya’s first contemporary Christian gospel group, “Hart” in 1993.

Pete joined Maina Kageni in studio where he revealed he will be turning 50 on 31st August.

It will be thirty years in the business next year, you know I’m turning 50 

He got emotional speaking about being in the business 30 years and lessons learnt

Some say we were foolish to take that journey. In the music business it takes courage, it’s gonna take everything out of you, like an extremely jealous lover,

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Pete who doubles up as a pastor played a great role in mentoring many. He has shown the ropes to Eric Wanaina, and currently Ivlyn Mutua and Danny gift.

He announced his birthday plans to Maaina Kageni, and included the details on his Instagram

3 Friends; 3 Birthdays in one month;
One group-HART;
Esther, Tedd and Pete.

Celebrating life, love and friendship.
Be part of this celebration.
This Saturday 31st August at the Prestige Ballroom from 6pm.
Get your tickets [email protected]/=
TILL No. 664 578

He also wrote abut turning 50

Keep your head up.
It may hurt like hell, excruciating..but keep hoping.
Your song will still be heard.
Your story will be told.
Your gift, your faith & your God will make it happen.
#Pete@50

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Luther Vandross Fan Will Love This! Kenyans to celebrate icon in special concert

His voice made us melt, and want to be in love.

A show dedicated to the music and memory of Luther will go down this Friday at Braeburn.

If you are a Luther Vandross fan and want to reminisce his love songs, then this concert is for you.

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A group of select male singers will take to stage to perform his songs and promise fans and music lovers a great time.

Pete Odera and June Gachui joined Classic 105’s Maina Kageni in studio Tuesday morning with details of the concert.

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June spoke about the concert saying

A few years ago we set up this thing called the tribute series to recognize the work that people have gone before us have done, and it’s two part, the living legends and the fallen ones. So we thought why don’t we be more strategic about it, and pick people who are still contributing to our lives musically.

So this Friday we are honoring the legendary Luther Vandross. 

We have a lineup of amazing male crooners, and alot of people don’t know that some people can really sing. These kids will open their mouths and your jaws will drop. They are such hidden gems, your jaw will drop.

We have 20 plus songs, so we have a mix of some hits, some uptempo, you know those that will make you hold the hand of the person next to you, we have also asked the singers to make the music their own.

Pete added

I’ve been so surprised myself by the outpouring of talent, the disgorgement of talent in that particular generation. 

Here’s some amazing fact about Luther Vandross that you didn’t know:

 

  •  – He got his first big break as a backup singer for David Bowie
  • He made his TV debut on Sesame Street
  • He got paid in macadamia nuts
  • He sang commercial jingles before becoming a singer

 

Experience all the hits from his amazing career, culminating over 40 million album sales and eight Grammy awards including many of the greatest dance anthems and love songs ever written,

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I’m 35 and tired of my husband, he can get a second wife – city mum shouts

The discussion this week on Classic 105 has been about accepting the reality that is second wives.

Most contributors confessed that they are either second wives, or are thinking about it seriously.

Take this unnamed woman who was unable to convince Maina that second wives bring stability in marriages. Her story is made for movies.

‘I met our husband when he was 33 years and was already married, he didn’t have anything (broke), me coming to the picture we have opened a business together. I have made his life better, this wife she was just sitting pretty I have made sure she is part of the company. Am I really bad, ameleta ID hata hajui she is a director of this company. It’s a  high time people knew second wives are not that bad.

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This prompted another woman to narrate how she is tired of her husband and is ready to welcome a second wife.

 I think sometimes sharing is caring. I have personally asked him to get another wife. It’s important msaidiane (help each other), sometimes it’s the man who you feel you don’t understand, so saa zingine maybe he needs to get another wife, a sample so we see whether he is the problem or it’s me, to see if he will improve or appreciate the first wife better.

Can you possibly wrap your head around this fact? She adds

I’ve been married for about ten years and we have children hatusumbuani, we are each looking for money, and the small quarrels, so I want him to relieve me of stress and take it elsewhere.

relationship-quest

Relationships are overwhelming, and he should kindly inform me if they also have kids, respect me, all I need is respect if we have to share akiskia aende naye kabisa ( if they want they can go and stay together I don’t care), me I don’t care, you can’t force emotions of someone, so if he feels he wants someone else let him go, for me I don’t think it’s worth fighting for a man,

I’m only 35, I don’t mind him getting another one, and I am okay with this all I need is him to be open and tell me

Crazy right? Like I can’t even begin to fathom this entire story.

Dear Classic 105 fam, have you ever heard such madness? Drop us your comments about your experience, serve some tea people!

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