Do you initially agree to a date, then last minute back out?
In the age of digital, we all make promises we have no intention of fulfilling.
So we ghost the individual rather than being woman enough and telling him.
So if you want to know how to cancel a date, here are pointers to use next time and save boy child some heart ache.
1. Decide if you should text or call
Do you want to see the person you’re ditching again? If your answer is yes, call them and be nice about the situation. If it was someone a friend hooked you up with, Text them..problem solved.
Make sure that you begin your text or call with some form of apology. It shows that you’re aware of the inconvenience you are causing someone else, and you validate that their time, that you have totally wasted (he could have been with someone else).
Keep the apology short, and simple, no need to rumble on, he doesn’t have all the time in the world sis. It’s last minute inconveniences.
Explain why you need to get out of plans. Did your shoe break and you hated the thought of going back home, then leaving again? Tell him if you are truly interested in him.
Perhaps you can mention that it put you in a bad mood and would make a really bad date. Ask for a raincheck.
Mothers always told us honesty is the best policy.
Be intentional to go out with him this time round. In fact take the initiative to plan the next date, so he is aware you are emotionally interested. Otherwise, your crush might think they’re getting dissed, rejected, or ghosted.
Do you have other ways you politely handle your situashionships? Drop them below, we will share.
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