Do Most Kenyan Women Need Anger Management Classes? Asks Maina Kageni (AUDIO)

An article in one of the local dailies written by Mike Mswati talks about Kenyan women, and how they have become an angry lot. It suggests that women are no longer the nice, polite, gentle and lovely caregivers that our mothers used to be. Apparently modern women have become grumpy, moody and an angry lot that whines about their men according to the article.

It goes further to say that you only need to check out their social media posts to see how angry Kenyan women have become.

Mwalimu agreed with the author of the article saying that compared to Ugandan women, Kenyan women have no respect for their men.

Maina then asked; “Girls, do yo agree that you need anger management classes? Guys, does this article make sense?”

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Living With An Infidel, Physically And Emotionally Battered – Do Women Have 9 Lives?

A huge percentage of women, if not all, have probably been with men who have either cheated on them, battered them, financially disabled them or ended up humiliating them beyond measure. So why will these women rise to see another day, put a smile on their faces, go about making their careers beautiful with all the heartache? Is it the pain that drives them or

So why will these women rise to see another day, put a smile on their faces, go about making their careers beautiful with all the heartache? Is it the pain that drives them or do they have 9 lives?

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From time immemorial, women have been treated like disposable objects to men and mistreated. Their abilities not seen or appreciated.

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Their hearts are broken over and over again yet they go through the pain of bearing children, raising them on their own and still expected to have a career. Regardless, they end up letting their guard down when a man is involved. The question begs, why should they?

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Men were meant to be the heads of the home, priests who guide the family and lead them to what is Godly. In this day in age, however, women have taken up this role while their men are busy entertaining younger women. Many are wallowing in filth as they disown the very people that loved them when all they had to offer was love.

And for what reason? “The sex is boring, she gained weight, she earns more than I do, it gets boring being with one woman, the other woman made me feel like a king,” are just some of the nonsensical reasons for their behaviour.

My response? If your wife for 10 years hadn’t nurtured your kingdom for that long, these shisha smoking, Guarana drinking, yolo confused youngsters would surely spit on your face!

But at the end of it all, I feel that women indeed have 9 lives. This is  quite enough space to take a man’s crap and turn it into something beautiful.

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The Effects Of A Broken Heart – Devoted Couple Who Were Married For 75 Years Who Died Just Days Apart

A devoted couple who were married for 75 years have been buried side-by-side at the church where they wed – after one passed away within days of the other due to a “broken heart”.

Jim, 101 and Hilda Leach, 98, celebrated their diamond wedding anniversary on December 9th, 2016, marking 75 years since they tied the knot in World War Two.

Just days after their family party in Rushton Spencer, near Macclesfield, Cheshire, Jim passed away peacefully with Hilda by his side on December 17th at their home.

But their family said heartbroken Hilda did not want to be parted from her husband – and on January 2nd, she also passed away.

READ; Ladies, Here Are The Telling Signs He’s NOT Busy, You’re Just Irrelevant To Him

Now the couple – who had two daughters, five grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren – have been buried during a joint funeral at St Mary’s Church in Bosley, Cheshire.

The church is also the same spot where in the couple got married, just as Jim was heading off to fight in the war.

Daughter, Anne Brooker said: “They were together for 75 years and mum said there was nothing to live for after dad died.

“Dad had seen everyone at the anniversary and said his goodbyes and it was his time to go, and when dad went it was time for mum to go too.

“It was a shock when mum went so quickly after losing dad but they kept going for each other. It was really emotional saying goodbye to both of them at the funeral.

“They got married in that church, their coffins were together at the service and they were buried together. They were together right until the end.”

As World War Two broke out, he met trainee chiropodist Hilda by chance at a dance.

Instantly smitten, the couple were engaged for a year before Jim was conscripted into the Army in 1941 so they had a quick wedding.

 

Daughter Anne described both her parents as “determined”, explaining how her mum stunned doctors years ago by fighting back to full health after contracting polio and being told she would never walk again.

She explained: “Mum and dad were both very determined. They were a wonderful couple.

“Family and community were very important to both of them. We’ll miss them very much.”

 

 

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Ladies, Here Are The Telling Signs He’s NOT Busy, You’re Just Irrelevant To Him

Really wanna give someone the ultimate insult? Call them irrelevant. It’s pretty much the worst thing you could be.

Irrelevant is the worst thing you could be because you’re so insignificant, no one even bothered to think of a more precise insult. Simply put, you don’t matter.

Needless to say, nobody wants to be called irrelevant. Especially not by the guy you like. That being said, whether we admit it to ourselves or not, there are times when you are, in fact, irrelevant to the guy you’re so obsessed with.

In fact, I would go so far as to say the reason you’re so obsessed with him is because you’re irrelevant to him. The problem is that instead of just accepting the fact that we don’t matter to him, we try to make up excuses as to why this guy’s not giving us the time of day.

“He’s not talking to me because he’s mad at me!” No, you’re not relevant enough for him to bother with being mad at you.

Ladies Please Note; EVERY Single One Of These 10 Things Is Emotional Abuse

“He’s not talking to me because he’s busy!” No, you’re not relevant enough for him to prioritize you over literally anything else.

“He’s not talking to me because he’s dead!” No, he just doesn’t want to waste another breath in his waking life conversing with you.

I get that it can be a little confusing. Maybe he is mad at you. Maybe he is busy! Maybe he is dead!

So, check out this list of surefire signs he’s not mad or busy or dead (or any other lame excuse you managed to come up with)… you’re just irrelevant to him

  • Your friends are sick of hearing about him, but his friends don’t even know who you are
  • None of his family members know who you are (that is if he even has a family because he’s never mentioned them).
  • He straight-up doesn’t respond to some of your texts.
  • You’ve never hooked up sober.
  • If you have hooked up sober, it was in the morning after a drunk hookup

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  • You guys have never shared a meal together.
  • If you have shared a meal together, it was either late-night pizza or hungover morning meals.
  • He Snapchats you more than he texts you.
  • You’ve never been on a real date with him.
  • If you have been on a date, it was one time. And it never happened again.
  • You’ve never spoken on the phone unless it was 4 am, and you needed him to buzz you up to his place.
  • He never wants to cuddle with you.
  • He chooses even the dumbest plans over you.
  • His friends (the same ones who don’t know who you are) always come before you.
  • You’ve told him a million personal things about you, and he can barely remember any of it.
  • He’s told you he’s “not looking for anything serious.”
  • He told you he was too busy to hang out, then posted a Snapchat story of himself alone on the couch.
  • Part of you is afraid that if you stopped putting in the effort, your relationship would completely fizzle out.

STOP WASTING YOUR TIME. You are cool, and fun and smart, and even though this guy can’t seem to appreciate that, I guarantee there’s someone out there who will.

Ladies Please Note; EVERY Single One Of These 10 Things Is Emotional Abuse

If you’ve never been involved with a cunning, pathological lying, narcissistic, abusive partner, you may not know what you’re dealing with.

When you date an abusive personality, you may buy into his charm, braggadocio and phony façade while downplaying his inconsiderate and questionable behavior. Or you mistrust your instincts that your boyfriend or husband is lying to you, demeaning and controlling you. Worse yet, you may think you are overreacting and crazy — as he claims you are.

If you are experiencing any of the following things, you’re in an emotionally abusive relationship;

Accusing and blaming: He shifts the responsibility and the emphasis onto you for the problems in your relationship. He says things, like: “It’s your fault.” What’s wrong with you?” “You didn’t remind me.” “Nothing I do is ever enough.”

Punishment by withholding: He refuses to listen, he ignores your questions, he withholds eye contact and he gives you the “silent treatment.” He’s punishing you! He withholds approval, appreciation, affection, information, thoughts and feelings to diminish and control you.

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Blocking and diverting: He steers the conversation by refusing to discuss an issue or he inappropriately interrupts the conversation. He twists your words, he watches TV, or he walks out of the room while you’re talking.

Contradicting: He disapproves and opposes your thoughts, perceptions or your experience of life itself. No matter what you say, he uses contradicting arguments to frustrate you and wear you down.

Discounting: He denies your experience of his abuse. He tells you that you’re hypersensitive or that you’re imagining things or that you can never be happy.

Disparaging humor: Verbal abuse is often disguised as jokes. The abuser teases, ridicules and humiliates you with sarcastic remarks about your appearance, personality, abilities and values. He makes fun of you in front of your friends and family because he knows you will avoid a public confrontation.

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General crazy-making: He uses a combination of distortion, blaming, forgetting, stonewalling and denial to confuse, frustrate and drive you to the brink of insanity. He denies the truth and twists your words, putting you on the defense.

Judging and criticizing: He harshly and unfairly criticizes you and then he passes it off as “constructive” criticism. If you object, he tells you he is only trying to help in an effort to make you feel unreasonable and guilty.

Undermining: He breaks his promises and he fails to follow through on agreements. He minimizes your efforts, interests, hobbies, achievements and concerns. He trivializes your thoughts and suggestions.

Forgetting: He “accidently”  forgets the things that are important to you. By doing this, he’s saying, “I’m in control of your time and reality.”

Now that you know the conniving, covert signs of emotional abuse, what are you going to about it?

In Case You Didn’t Know, Here Are 5 phases Of Awkwardness In New Relationships

Have you just entered into a relationship, or you are on the brink of entering into one?

You should expect early days of awkwardness, and uncertainty in the five areas listed below…

Learning of each other’s pasts

Learning about each other’s past can be a little awkward, especially when one of you has been a little wild and adventurous and has quite a lot to reveal.

When you get to that phase, try to be as open-minded as understanding as possible.

Getting comfortable with one other

You’ll also be at the point where you are not too sure of what is cool with your partner and what is not.

Time will take care of this, and soon enough, you both will be laughing at that awkwardness.

READ; Guys, why don’t you publicly appreciate your wife’s role in your success? Asks Maina Kageni (AUDIO)

When to have sex

Everyone has their own beliefs and ideas for when the time is right to get intimate with someone you’re dating.

At that point where you are really unsure of where your partner stands on the matter, it makes sense to sit down and have a good chat about it.

Meeting each other’s friends

There is also the awkwardness of meeting and getting along with your partner’s friends.

This will be so especially if you date someone from different social circles from yours.

To avoid this, partners need to advise their friends to be cool and be as friendly as possible before introducing bae /boo to them.

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Meeting the family

So this might necessarily not be something that happens very much at the beginning of relationships, but it poses some awkwardness too.

Being introduced to your partner’s family is usually a serious thing and it often shows that you are both headed towards something more serious than just a relationship.

This is why ladies and guys alike are often fretful and nervous about the date with their partner’s families.

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Heads Up Guys, These Are Some Sure Ways To Get Your Wife To Stop Nagging

‘Nyweh Nyweh Nyweh’….I’d like to think this is the sound guys hears once the wifie starts nagging and for many, it’s not a pleasant experience.

The reason women get a bad reputation for nagging, which is not the most efficient way to get things done…yet continue to do it anyway.

This is primarily due to a lack of communication. Communication is one of the things that can make or break a marriage – depending on how efficient it is.

READ; Couples Who Are Truly in Love Connect in These 5 Ways

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So why does your wife nag?

She’s not your maid

If your typical routine is to come home from work, sit on the couch and not move until it’s time for bed, then there’s your problem. That’s the reason she keeps asking you to do the same things over and over. Take a few seconds and look around before leaving a room; The less of a mess you leave, the happier your wife will be.

She isn’t sure you’re listening

If your wife asks you to take out the garbage, how long does it usually take you to do it? If you’re a person who doesn’t respond right away, or someone who forgets the favor while staring at the TV, that’s why she has to rephrase and repeat the question…constantly.

She can’t do it all alone

Contrary to popular belief, not all women want to do everything a man does. And if you’ve done her a favor in the past (like putting holes in the walls for pictures) chances are she’ll wait for you to do it again next time. If this task will take two days to complete, think about taking a day off of work and work on it or schedule out your weekend plans accordingly.

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You don’t spend enough time with her

When you get married, any and all best friends should take the back seat. Your wife should be your best friend. She should be the one you go to for advice. If you have a problem between the two of you, you discuss it with her, not your friends.

 

 

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Girl Languishes In Shame As She Admits To Sleeping With Her Cousin

Every one has that favorite family member whom they relate to quite well since childhood. Some of them go as far as falling in love with these family members but can control it and these feelings eventually fade.

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This young girl had too much guilt after sleeping with her favorite cousin, who’s feelings were clearly mutual and now she cannot face herself. She took to social media to ask for much-needed advice on how to handle the guilt. Read on;

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“I have one favorite cousin we are very close so yesterday we were both in the house together so I went to his room to talk to him because we had something we were discussing about, in the process after talking he said I should pick the rashes at his back, from then he started touching me I was lost and the time I realized I told him to stop it but he was already overwhelmed by the whole thing, so he insisted and slept with me then tears rolled out my eyes and he started apologizing to me that he didn’t know what came over him. Right now am scared if there is a punishment in one’s tradition, I can’t get it off my mind because I will have to live with the thought all my life, how do I get over it. I have pleaded for forgiveness from God because I feel so ashamed of myself. Please, I need advice😔😩.”

Myths About Men That Might Be Ruining Your Relationships

It’s a New Year! And with it come goals to be even better in life and in love. However, here’s one big, bold relationship truth: If you bring the same old mindset and misconceptions about relationships into this “new” season, then you won’t have different results.

These myths include;

Men Are Intimidated By Your Success and Independence

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The real truth is that men are looking for a partner in love and not a “boss.” The “right man” for you is not going to be afraid of you or intimidated by you. He’ll appreciate all that you have to offer and look forward to partnering with you.

Having Standards and Expectations Will Drive Men Away

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It’s very possible that it wasn’t your high standards per say that turned him off, but your delivery. If stating your standards comes with a defensive nature and attitude, then yes, it can be a turn-off. However, if it’s simply you just discussing your desires, then men who are on the same page as you (and that is the key) won’t run at the first mention of what you will and won’t tolerate.

ALSO READ; Heads Up Guys! Here Are 8 Signs You’ve Found THE Woman You Should Make Your Wife

There Are No Good Men Left out There

There are plenty of good men out there. And plenty of men that are committing and getting married. So don’t let a string of bad dates or the opinions of your friends cause you to lose faith that your partner is out there somewhere.

Your Husband Is Only Driven By Sex

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Sex for men is an expression of love and it keeps them connected to you. And if you start thinking about it in those terms, then perhaps you’ll want to connect with them even more!

Your Man Wants You to Be Perfect

Stop putting so much pressure on yourself to be perfect in every area and give yourself some leeway. Your attitude will have a jump in the right direction the minute you do.

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Men Are Emotionless

Men have emotions just like women do, but it’s the expression of those feelings that might be different. This isn’t about good and bad, it’s just that he may handle and show his emotions differently.

Men Don’t Care About Your Needs

You can’t keep getting frustrated with him over things that you’ve never expressed. Communicate early and often and don’t leave him guessing while you’re just mad.

 

 

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The Color Of Love: NBA Star Dirk Nowitzki Opens Up About Wedding A Kenyan Woman And The Culture Shock During The Dowry Ceremony

The five Kenyan women were covered from head to toe as they stood in front of an African garb-wearing Dirk Nowitzki.

One was the love of the Dallas Mavericks forward’s life. The others were decoys who if incorrectly chosen, would cost the 13-time NBA All-Star a goat as punishment. The 7-foot German nailed tough shots in the NBA Finals and the Olympics, and on this occasion he did the same, correctly picking his bride Jessica Olsson.

“It was awesome,” Nowitzki told The Undefeated. “They took my wife away. They brought five or six girls out and they were all covered. So the first thing I had to do was find my wife. So I’m walking around and looking at how tall they are.

“I guess it’s one of the traditions. If you get it wrong, you got to pay the parents a goat or something. So I was lucky. I smelled her to find the right one. So, I got lucky there. But that was just an experience that I’ll never forget.”

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Dirk Nowitzki and his wife Jessica Nowitzki attend the premiere of the film 'Nowitzki. Der Perfekte Wurf' at Cinedom on September 16, 2014 in Cologne, Germany.

Nowitzki is a worldwide known basketball name. He is the Mavs’ all-time leading scorer, the 2011 NBA Finals MVP, the 2007 NBA MVP and a two-time FIBA Europe Player of the Year. Basketball also introduced him to his wife.

The two met at a charity event for the Sports for Education and Economic Development (SEED) Project on a snowy night in February 2010. It was an NBA All-Star weekend in Dallas. The Senegal-based nonprofit uses basketball as a platform to engage youths in academic, athletic and leadership programs.

Nowitzki was tricked into raising his hand during an auction that resulted in him making a major donation in exchange for a Rolando Diaz painting. He also agreed to go on two dates for charity. But he was also hoping to get a real date with a beautiful woman he met that night named Jessica Olsson, who was working at a Dallas art gallery.

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Dirk Nowitzki arrives at the 2011 ESPY Awards at Nokia Theatre L.A. Live on July 13, 2011 in Los Angeles, California.

Jessica Nowitzki is the daughter of a Kenyan mother and Swedish father. Jessica was raised in Sweden with her younger twin brothers, Marcus and Martin, who are both professional soccer players in England and have also played for the Swedish National Team.

“What made her so special? What made me fall in love with her? First of all, she’s got to be attractive. That’s obviously part of it,” Nowitzki said with a big smile. “And I think we just clicked intellectually. She likes art, she likes sports. Her brothers both played soccer, they were professional.

“She grew up around sports. We both love tennis and we love to travel. We both love kids and family.”

Although race wasn’t a big deal to Nowitzki and Olsson, it became a topic when their relationship became public.

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Nowitzki and Olsson made their first big public appearance on July 13, 2011, when they were on the red carpet at The ESPYS awards together. They received a lot of comments on Twitter when he kissed her after winning an award during the televised show. The Twitter chatter was not necessarily negative, but it was race-related.

Dirk Nowitzki and his wife, Jessica, on their wedding day on July 20, 2012 in Dallas, Texas.

Olsson asked that Nowitzki keep an open mind to the Kenyan wedding. To no surprise, the free-spirited, comical and fun-loving German relaxed, danced to African music and even had an encounter with a helpless goat.

“Her mom threw a wedding party and that’s where some of those photos came from where I had the outfit on with a hat on,” Nowitzki, who loves Kenyan stews and barbecue, said. “It was a special experience. I’ve never, obviously, been a part of anything like that, the dances, the whole experience, the tradition of a wedding down there.

“It’s different. You have to cut a goat. Lots of symbols, all the different things. They really threw us a really traditional Kenyan wedding.”

So what did Nowitzki — a multimillionaire certainly financially capable of providing for his wife — pay in dowry?

“We kind of faked things,” Nowitzki said. “They gave me a little Kenyan shillings and I paid them that. It was literally like a whole-day event. There were hundreds and hundreds of people there.”

The Nowitzki family has quickly grown, as they now have three children, a girl and two younger boys. The plan is for the Nowitzki children to spend time in Kenya and Germany yearly to learn their heritage. Olsson’s mother has died since the wedding, but there are still a lot of family members in Kenya whom the Nowitzkis want their kids to know.

 

 

 

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The Heartbreaking Final Text Of Newlywed Knocked Down And Killed After 30th Birthday Party

The grieving husband of a newlywed who was knocked down and killed on the way home from her 30th birthday party has paid tribute to his “genuine and compassionate” wife.

Laura Murray-Woodford was struck near St Paul’s Cathedral in central London and a 39-year-old man was later arrested on suspicion of causing death by dangerous driving.

Laura, a recruitment adviser, was out celebrating her birthday and was on her way home when the tragedy unfolded.

She had only been married for six months and she texted her husband to say she was “leaving soon”.

Laura and Ben Kelly-Taylor had been a couple for six years and married on the family farm in Australia.

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Laura Murray-Woodford on her wedding day

IT consultant Ben Kelly-Taylor told the London Evening Standard : “Laura was an outgoing person. She was very socially minded and loved spending time with people.

“She wouldn’t let things get her down – she would work on them. She had a way about her of being warm and humble and making people feel comfortable. It was tragic.

“A lot of people think their loved ones are special but in this case it really was true. I fell more in love with Laura as time went on and loved being her boyfriend and husband.

“She had no reservations or doubt when she smiled – you could see she shone through. She was the same through and through – genuine and compassionate.”

Laura worked for education charity, City and Guilds, and had a degree in psychology from Coventry University as well as a master’s from the University of East London.

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She was hit by a van at 10 pm on October 20 last year and pronounced dead in the early hours of the next day.

Her mother-in-law Kym Kelly-Taylor, 58, said: “I just adored her because she was the most wonderful, beautiful, bouncy, generous and loving girl. You cannot imagine the smile she had.

“It was so devastating to lose her. Benjamin is devastated. They were so young. They wanted to start a family soon and were looking forward to having children and setting up a home together.

“But now that is all gone. You cannot imagine the amount of crying we’ve done.”

 

 

 

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Thug Filmed Rape Of His Girlfriend Then Puts Photos Of The Injuries He’d Inflicted On His Facebook

A woman has recalled the horrific abuse she was subjected to by her former partner – who boasted of his attacks by putting photos of her injuries on Facebook.

Atlanta Hammond, from Braintree, Essex, says she was subjected to daily physical abuse, banned from socialising and forced to quit her job by her ex-boyfriend.

And when the mother-of-one plucked up the courage to leave him, he threatened to publish a video of himself raping her while she slept and post it online.

The 21-year-old, who has a two-year-old son, says her former partner exerted control over her from the time they met in 2013, when she was just 18.

She said Halil Cetinkayali, 30, made her ‘feel like a princess’ – before things quickly turned sour.

Halil, who Atlanta described as a staunch Muslim, made her quit her job as a carer ‘out of respect for his faith’.

And after Googling friends’ names on the internet one day, she found he was using an alias and was wanted by police.
However, when she confronted him, he turned violent, grabbing her throat and said he would post the footage of the two of them online.

The pair stayed together, with Halil abusing her every day.

She told The Sun: ‘I didn’t have to do anything to get hit. Say the wrong thing, answer back, talk to the wrong person.

The abuse finally became too much for Atlanta one night when she attempted to escape Halil’s clutches as he slept and go to her mother’s house.

However Halil caught Atlanta as she was about to get into a cab outside their home, viciously assaulting her and stabbing her in the hip as a result.

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It was after this final attack that a brave Atlanta plucked up the courage to tell the police of the abuse, and he was arrested for wounding with intent.

But such was the power he had over his victim that Halil was able to convince Atlanta to retract her statement and he was released with an electronic tag in July 2014.

It was at this point that Halil showed her the video he had taken off himself raping Atlanta while she slept.

It was this threat that proved the final straw for the mother of one, who sent a final text to Halil with pictures of the cuts and bruises she has suffered at his hands.

Incredibly, Halil would himself post the images onto Facebook, along with the caption ‘This is the girl I beat up and cheated on for two years’.

Atlanta broke off all contact with Halil afterwards, and wouldn’t see him again until she returned to her home one day to find him lying on her bed.

He chased her into the street and viciously attacked her in broad daylight, leading neighbours to call for the police.

It was after his arrest that Atlanta finally told police officers the whole story of her physical and emotional abuse at the hands of her partner.

Halil was sentenced to 19 years and eight months in prison.

 

HILARIOUS: People Reveal Their Worst First Date Disasters

From getting too drunk to talking about your ex, there are some things you know you should never do on a first date.

But some people have taken bad date etiquette to a whole new level.

A Reddit user took to the site to ask people their biggest turn-off on a first date and there were a lot of horrifying responses – ranging from bringing a parental chaperone to a suitor wearing a wedding ring.

First dates can be difficult due to nervousness and the fact that you want to make a good impression but these people really struggled to impress.

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It can be as simple as one small sentence that can determine whether a second date is on the cards.

One person took to Reddit to say that their date had put them off by bringing along a parental chaperone.

Others joined in to agree, saying that if you’re not old enough to go on a date on your own then you’re not old enough to date.

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Janet Mbugua’s Hubby Narrates How Painful It Was Seeing Her During Childbirth

Beautiful TV news anchor and mother, Janet Mbugua, has started opening up by posting intimate memories about her and her new family.

Following in her footsteps is her hubby, Eddie Ndichu.

Eddie has written about his harrowing experience hours before Janet Mbugua gave birth to their son, Huru.

“IT HAS BEEN OVER 14 MONTHS BUT I REMEMBER THE DAY VIVIDLY. I WAS ESCORTED TO THE DOCTORS CHANGING ROOMS TO WEAR PAIR OF SCRUBS. I WAS SHAKING WITH NERVES. I COULDN’T FEEL MY ENTIRE BODY AS I CHANGED. THE THOUGHTS GOING THROUGH MY HEAD WERE THAT THIS IS REALLY HAPPENING AND THAT MY WIFE IS ON A TABLE ALL BY HERSELF. I SHOULD RUSH. IS THERE SOMETHING I COULD HAVE DONE TO PREPARE FOR THIS MOMENT?” Eddie wrote in Janet Mbugua’s blog.

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“I MAKE IT INTO THE THEATRE AND FIND HER SMALL BODY  ON THE TABLE ALL COVERED IN SURGICAL CLOTH. SHE SMILES AND I SEE SHE IS AWAKE AND NERVOUS. SHE SAYS, “I CAN’T FEEL ANYTHING”. SO I HOLD HER HAND AND KISS HER FOREHEAD GENTLY. I SAID TO HER, “THIS IS REALLY HAPPENING”. OUR CHARMING DOCTOR NARRATES, “NOT FAR TO GO… ANY MINUTE NOW”, AS HIS TEAM OPERATES ON MY WIFE. BY THIS TIME I AM SWEATING. ALL I COULD HOPE IS THAT HE IS GOING TO BE IN ONE PIECE. TWO EYES, TWO EARS, TEN FINGERS AND TOES. IS HE GOING TO BE OF SOUND MIND? HAVE ALL HIS BODY PARTS DEVELOPED COMPLETELY? WILL HE BREATHE, WILL HE CRY? THEN IN A MATTER OF SECONDS THE DOCTOR LITERALLY FLINGS HIM IN THE AIR AND SAYS ‘HERE HE IS’! THIS TINY LITTLE BODY HANGING IN THE AIR COVERED IN MUCUS. I BARELY GOT A GLIMPSE OF HIS FACE BEFORE THEY SENT HIM HAVE HIS CORD CUT. I SEE TEARS ON MY WIFE’S FACE AS SHE LAYS HELPLESSLY. I COULD SEE HOW BADLY SHE WANTED TO HOLD HIM. I CLENCH HER HAND EVEN TIGHTER AND CONSOLE HER. HE WAS WHISKED AWAY FOR NORMAL CHECKS AND A WIPE DOWN. THE DOCTOR ALLOWS ME TO GO AROUND AND WATCH THE NURSE AND HIM. IN MY EXCITEMENT I GO AROUND THE FROM WHERE MY DEAR WIFE IS CUT OPEN…. THAT’S FOR ANOTHER BLOG!!!,” HE CONTINUED.

Her Husband Became A Woman But Wife Reveals How She Coped

A wife has revealed the moment her husband of 12 years revealed he wanted to be a woman.

Kristin Collier, 44, from Oregon, US, had only recently given birth to their second child when her husband, Fred, told her they needed to talk.

‘He admitted to me what he hadn’t wanted to fully admit to himself. He was transgender and wanted to live the rest of his life as a woman,’ the mother of two said.

Now Kristin has spoken to Daily Mail about how she came to terms with her husband’s shock revelation and transition to become a woman called Seda, and why they continue to live as a family – along with Kristin’s new romantic partner, Richard.

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Kristin said she had not previously suspected her husband wanted to be a woman

Speaking to Daily Mail, Kristin revealed Fred’s confession came shortly after the family had experienced a house fire – and had also recently welcomed a son, who was then seven weeks old.

‘I had been with my mum, regrouping after the fire and he said “we need to talk when you get home”.’

Kristin’s husband was reluctant to elaborate until they met, but Kristin persuaded him to give her one word as a clue as to what was wrong – to which he replied ‘clothes’.

'I struggled to accept and then embrace this part of my spouse which wasn't easy at all,' Kristin said

‘As soon as he said that I freeze-framed on what happened on something that had happened early on in our relationship,’ Kristin told Daily Mail.

What It Means To Regularly Have Dreams About Cheating On Your Boyfriend

‘I discovered a dress that was ripped out at the waist. I had said “what’s this?”  and the last thing I expected was for him to say “sorry, that will never happen again”.’

Fred had tried on her clothes – something Kristin filed to the back of her mind, until the day he told her he needed to talk.

'Despite the fact that we'd never sworn to stay together after her transition here we are still making it work under one roof,' Kristin said

Fred proceeded to confess to his wife that he wanted to be a woman – something Kristin admits was ‘confusing and scary’.

But, whilst the revelation was a shock, the pair did not decide to break up.

‘We were so close as friends and partners,’ Kristin said. ‘We had been together since we were 18. We did not make a decision to stay together no matter what, but we made a decision to stay present and current with each other.’

In time, Fred transitioned to become a woman, Seda, something his wife candidly admits she had conflicting feelings about.

She said the kids’ relationship with Seda is better than the one they had with their father.

‘Interestingly, when Seda was my husband he was pretty emotionally withdrawn and less available to the children. When he transitioned – and told them he of course still loved them – they were not concerned really.’

Kristin hopes that by sharing her story, she may help other families going through the same thing (pictured is her new family, with her partner Richard (left in black)

Kristin hopes that by sharing her story, she may help other families going through the same thing.

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Angry Man Tarnishes His Girlfriend’s Sex Game Before She Posts Her Own Version

So men like it simple huh? This young lady must have gone through hell in her previous relationships and decided drama in the bedroom is the way to go. But what she does to this man makes him want to scream……for help! He took to social media to beg ladies to tell her to calm down. Read on;

“I went through my girlfriends chat, she was telling her friend that she will send our story to an instagram relationship page and tell them how ungrateful and unromantic I am, she even told her girlfriend that am bad in bed and my manhood is always soft. Now this is the truth since I have decided to post this before her. My girlfriend is very annoying but she thinks she is trying to be romantic Every time she will be licking her tongue like a snake and winking her eyes like cat all in the name of forming sexy. The most annoying one is when she puts her fingers inside her mouth like a little child and start to lick her lips and press her breast, who does that.

READ; Girls, Here Are 10 Things You Should NOT Be Putting Up With From Guys in 2017


Sometimes she try to give me lap dance which she know she is on a big side and am slim,she now want to sit on my laps and be doing rubbish,why won’t my d*** be soft. During love making she will be moaning off point and saying really annoying things like call me mummy, baby call me mummy I want you to call me mummy, like how? Maka why?
I have sat her down and asked her to change her ways that I don’t like all that drama but she won’t listen. Recently instead of her to shave her P**** hair clean as I like it, she went to style it and barbed it punk, left hair one side and shaved one side. My girlfriend is just too dramatic and put so much effort to please me with rubbish.
Am a very simple man and not ready for all the drama,if it is time to eat, cook food and serve it let us eat, but my girlfriend will start by dancing from the kitchen to the dinning table, sometimes she will break plates or cup all in the name of being romantic. Time for s3x, open leg let us do this thing, she will lick mouth, lick body, chew bed sheet, lick pillow, pour saliva all over the place, do so much drama by then my erection is weak. I know she will see this but if I have to come public to sound it to her head I will, after all she was coming here before I overtook her.
Ladies talk to her to keep it simple. Thank you.”

Girls, Here Are 10 Things You Should NOT Be Putting Up With From Guys in 2017

2016 was a rough year for women — especially for those who belong to other marginalized groups, too — and many, many men aren’t coming out of it looking too great. This year, I urge you ladies not to take anymore rubbish, so here’s a list of what you should really not put up with from guys in 2017.

Playful Lewdness

I’m not talking about catcalling (although stop it with that too) but rather about unsolicited sexual comments from guy friends in texts and the like. We all love some innuendo and/or sexting with someone you have a sexual relationship with. But if you haven’t established one, don’t let them “joke” that your outfit gives him blue balls, or that you’re crazy in bed. Demand some R.E.S.P.E.C.T!

Pinning My Behavior On Your Menstrual Cycle

There’s a term for men who do this, coined by Jessica Bennet in her book Feminist Fight Club. They’re Menstruhaters, and this behavior is sexist and gross. Your monthly cycle is probably not the reason you’re pissed with him…and be sure to make that clear.

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Commenting On Your Weight

This one seems obvious: It’s out of line for either a guy friend or someone your dating to tell you you’re looking heavier than usual. Choose a world in which men don’t get to have opinions on your size. “You look amazing” is great. “You look toned” is also nice but comments on weight should no longer be in the scope of feedback you need to hear.

Insisting They Are “One Of The Good Guys”

If you for some reason choose not to date that guy, tell him to kindly spare you his thoughts about how he is such a nice guy and how if you want to date jerks it’s your loss. Maybe and possibly, he should see a therapist to work on that sense of entitlement. Doing the right thing in some contexts doesn’t mean he can’t be an annoying in others.

Telling You You’re “Not Like Other Girls”

This “compliment,” which apparently guys still give basically means “I don’t think very highly of women, but you can be the exception to the rule as long as you keep acting in a way I like. Keep up the good work!” Boy, please.

What It Means To Regularly Have Dreams About Cheating On Your Boyfriend

WHY did you dream about that guy from the supermarket yesterday? WHY was he wearing a top hat and nothing else?! What does it mean? Do you have to tell your boyfriend? Are you actually into the weird store guy?!

We all have deeply personal, weirdly detailed dreams that we sometimes just can’t seem to shake out of our heads.

Before we tackle the juicy details, let’s start with the fact that, in the dream, you are trying to convince yourself that you aren’t cheating. Remember, dreams are a conversation with the self, about the self. In real life, what is it you are trying to convince yourself of lately that you know isn’t true? What inner dialogue have you been having with yourself that seems similar to the inner dialogue you had in this dream?

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It is going to be connected to a waking life issue that began around the same time this dream began. And it most likely has to do with your relationship.

Now, as for the cheating aspect of these dreams, it’s important to keep in mind that this is symbolic of something else and is in no way an indication that you are a trashy, little harlot!

It does, however, indicate there is something you are feeling guilty about. In most cases, cheating dreams are caused by someone in the relationship giving too much time and attention to something, which causes the other to feel left out. Are you spending too much time at work, with friends or on some project or goal that might be taking time or focus away from your boyfriend? And if so, are you justifying it to yourself? Ask yourself what you are doing that might be causing your boyfriend to feel ‘cheated’ out of his time with you.

Whatever the case, your dream might serve as a warning that you could be falling into another pattern that will lead to your current boyfriend becoming an ex. When you are able to pinpoint it, you need to change it so that the dreams will stop.

Sure, it’s a little scary admitting there’s a problem in your relationship, but at least the dreams are serving as a warning to help you deal with the problem before it gets out of hand.