‘I almost ran him over then he asked me out!’ People reveal surprising ways they found love on Twitter

Some people believe in love at first sight, and that you’ll know instantly when you meet the one.

But some couples’ real life tales of falling in love are far more interesting than the fairytale – as a new Twitter thread shows.

Among the people from around the world to have shared the story of how they met their partner online was a woman who said she narrowly avoided hitting her now partner with her car – only to hit it off with him when she took him for coffee to apologise.

Another person said they hated their husband when they first began working together, only to find herself falling for him as time went on.

Many met their partners in very unromantic settings, including at the supermarket doing the weekly shop, or in one case while playing World of Warcraft online.

One tweeted: ‘Went to Trader Joe’s for the first time ever. I’m in the frozen aisle trying to figure out what vegan ice cream is and a woman walks up and says ”Are you Ethiopian?”’

‘Been married for 2 years.’

Another posted: ‘At a yard sale. He bent over to grab something and I saw how nice that a** was… 11 years later, we still going strong.’

Others said they met when they were very young and are still together years down the line.

One said: ‘We went on the worlds worst date in high school that literally was so uncomfortable. Like y’all he shook my hand when I went in for a hug. I got sick from dinner. Like holy s***.

‘But then we fell in love so like worth it.’

Another tweeted: ‘I was outside in the front lawn with a friend. I was 15 years old. We watched a family move in next door. I saw him.. he saw me. I told my friend (yes at 15) that I was going to marry him.

‘Last month we celebrated our 32nd Wedding Anniversary and have been together for 39 years!’

However, others had hilarious tales of romances that got off on completely the wrong foot.

One said: ‘I was texting & driving in a parking lot…Omw to meet a different date & almost ran over this HOT guy, I slammed my brakes…He came to my window, I thought he would yell at me…but he asked me out for a drink…

‘I quickly bailed on the other guy, & been w/hot guy since,8 yrs.’

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If you live with your parents, please dive into this conversation of what Kenyan mum’s do if you wake up late

 

This kind of reminds me of the story back in May, of a dude who was sued by his parents after he refused to move out.

30-year-old man Michael Rotondo’s parents claim he would not leave their home, despite the fact that they began giving him notices in February 2018. They also offered $1,100 to help him find his own place, which Rotondo took, but continued living in their home. According to ABC7, he does not contribute to the family’s expenses or chores.

There is a discussion on Twitter by KOT that centres on a topic on parents, and the sarcastic comments they make when their children wake up late.

 What’s the first thing your mother says when you wake up at 10 a.m? There are 15 comments that Kenyan mums say to their children.

Someone shared that he was told, ‘“Siku moja utalala hivi uamke upate tulihama”’. Woii, hides in shame.

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If the comments KOT are sharing don’t leave you hollering, I don’t know what will:

lellah…Sounds exactly like my mum 😂😂 alafu she adds ‘ata huskii aibu kuamka hii masaa’ 😂😂😂😂
Mutinda 🌕

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brianmutinda_….“Hata babako ashaamka, kwani hii nyumba ni ya nani?”🤣

lellah …Wewe sasa utaolewa kwa nyumba gani?” 😂😂 she always gets me with this 🤔 naamka najipea shughuli 😁

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Leenah Kitonga…Leteeni governor chai, ameamka

Ms.Moraa Achira….Asubuhi imefika princess

i_wanjiku….Kujeni muone bibi ya mzungu ameamka……

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Ciru Mansur…Lala mpaka utoke vumbi

Mercy Njeru….She used to say…” Ni ugokirio ni maku”(utaamshwa na yako)….saa hii vile I wake up very early nisipatwe na jam ya Thika Road😣😣😣😣😣

Kamba_Girl….Jua lishachomoka hauezi lala iamue kuchomoka tena!

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Nyo Kon Turkan….”Yani hawa watoto sijui… Sijui. Nyinyi ndo mlifika saa tatu na hata hamtingiki. Sijui mtaishi na nani.. laleni kabisa” Then my dad be like let them be, “wacha walale, waamke mapema ma hakuna mahali wanaenda” then I’ll comfortably poise myself in letter C position to dreamland

Mary Maina ….”Endelea kulala utapata dunia iliisha na ukaachwa pekee yako
RobertDaSilvaJunior…Endelea kulala na wanaume wengine washaenda hustle

Winnie254….Afadhali wewe ..Mimi ni unaamka upate gunia ilibadilika au siku nyingine ilihama..am like seriously mum!??aje sasa

 

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The SEVEN personality types most likely to be unfaithful in a relationship

Infidelity is on the rampant and researchers have found out three main factors that determine adulterous behavior. prompting people to be unfaithful.

According to Daily Mail, there are three main factors that affect and determine adulterous behaviour in an individual namely brain—the neurological structures and chemistry that evolution gave you

Psychology—the mind that you’ve developed through formative experiences that imprint certain ways of thinking about the world, your place in it, and how you think about your sexual/romantic self

Culture—the environment around you, with its varying messages about sex, love, and adultery that inform both your opinions about and opportunities for infidelity

 

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Based on studies nearly 50 percent of what differentiates cheaters from non cheaters has to do with biological differences in their brain chemicals. This means that more than half of what pushes a man or woman to take the plunge to cheat has to do with both one’s environment and one’s psychology.

The most significant environmental cause is the fact that we can cheat. The easier it is to do, the more likely we will do it. Cheating is not confined to sleazy people. Under the right circumstances it is very easy to turn lustful thoughts into desperate actions.

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As we know from studies of chemical addictions, there are several environmental factors that make bad behaviors more doable.

When it comes to the psychology of cheaters, the biggest factor driving them to stray is the feeling that they’re entitled or deserve to cheat.

Research and clinical experience have identified certain personality traits to be associated with this feeling:

  • Narcissism—feeling self-entitled and putting one’s needs first
  • Lacking empathy—not being able to put oneself in one’s partner’s shoes.
  • Grandiosity—overestimating one’s abilities, especially one’s sexual prowess with others, and needing validation for one’s abilities as a lover.
  • Being impulsive—making important decisions, with major consequences, on the fly.
  • Being a novelty or thrill seeker.
  • Having an avoidant attachment style—fearing commitment.
  • Being self-destructive or masochistic.

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Cupid Struck !5 Types of men that drive women crazy and melting like teens

Women love bad boys and this is something that has been a mystery to many. It is not clear on what attracts them to these types of men but it is obvious that’s what works for them.

Bad boys attract unwanted attention regardless of whether they are handsome or not, whether loaded or not women don’t seem to consider this with many wanting to experience some adventure with the said men.

Mary J Blige sang a song dedicated to the bad boys and here she says”Me and Mr wrong get along so good even though he breaks my heart so bad, we’ve got something special going on.”

Could this be the case for our Kenyan men?

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Here are the types of men that women are attracted to.

1.Nduthi Guys

These kind of men mostly attract young girls who are either still in school or new in campus. They are liked and loathed in equal measures for their promiscuous nature .

They have mainly contributed to increased early pregnancies among teens something that has left a bitter mouth in the society.

The above behaviour has not deterred married women who are now having sexual escapes and illicit affairs with these forbidden lot.

2.Gym instructors

Every woman wants a fit man. No one likes an over sized guy who cant even pick up after himself thus gym instructors attract women. Women are mainly attracted to gym instructors for their physique which is mainly attractive but in most scenarios end up disappointed when it reaches between the sheets.

So the next time you hear your woman is are hiring a male gym instructor, be very worried as you might end up single and depressed in this cold weather.

3.Dread locked guys

There is something about guys with dreadlocks that women cant resist. Most of the men are eye candies with well toned bodies good for our instagram pages and showing off to our friends.

Unlike some men who are unkempt most dread locked guys are well kept, with the well maintained body comes a good performance between the sheets something that a woman can’t resist.

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4.Bouncers

Most girls are attracted to bouncers not because they have much to offer but because of the chances they create. Who wouldn’t want free tickets, free performance entrances and a free sexual escapade.

5.Butchery guys

Ladies love butcher guys for the free meat packages extended to them and for the servicing that is not extended to them by their husbands or boyfriends .

When you see a woman laughing heartedly with the butcher guy. just know sio wote huendea nyama.

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I Won’t Leave My Child Motherless Because I Want To Please Society! Cries Popular Radio Pesenter

Popular radio presenter, Annita Raey has penned down an emotional message outpouring her heart heart out regarding the single mother issue which has time and again been used as a source of weapon against women.
The Radio Jambo host a single mother of two is well known as a strong defender of single mothers and a powerful crusader against violence on women.
In her long post, she explains why she might never get married since she doesn’t think it is her cup of tea and that she is ready to face the societal hate and judgements directed towards women who have chosen to take care of their families on their own.
“I will not leave my kid motherless because I want to please society.” She says
Read her post below,
I refused to die for love, I refused to die for a man , I refused to be a statistic. I will not be a name on a cross because I was trying to work on us. I will not leave my kid motherless because I want to please society.
Who said that marriage is patience, who said that I should die working on a relationship. Raised by a society that teaches us not to talk about our marital problems, that teaches us that its between the both of you and a third or fourth party is a bad idea. You keep quiet and pray that it will fix itself, that you will learn to live with the beating, the cheating, the emotional distress, the depressions.
When you have no self esteem left, he has made you feel useless, no other man can love you, you hate your own body, you are not comfortable in your own skin.
Do you know what is means not to want to wake up in the morning , have you ever wished death, wanted to sleep time and not wake up in the morning ..have you ever questioned the existence of God and everything heavenly… wondered if being a woman was such a crime coz this felt like punishment ..Forget labour pains this hurts more, it kills you when you are alive it takes away your soul and leaves you void. You are dead alive.
After that you ask why we have single mums, you ask why we choose life over death, you ask why we chose to rise after being crushed to death, you ask why we choose our kids over a man, why we choose to be a story not a statistic, why we choose to be an inspiration .
She goes on to express her greatest value and motivation in life which is her two kids, whom she is ready to give up everything for since they are her pride.
I am a single mum of two kids, I have two different baby daddies, I am a testimony. I am so proud of who I have become…. Have you seen me and my babies, have you seen how happy I am.. Am glowing, am happy and content … I have fallen so many times, I have hit rock bottom and still managed to wake up. Look at me .. take a good look at me now, am alive and am living, I have no shame , I have no regrets, I have no remorse for leaving you, I feel no shame in in saying i have two kids .. I risk not finding love its okay they are love in unconditional… I risk never getting married, I am divorced marriage might not be my cup of tea.. I risk being shamed and blamed by society, its okay my pride is in my kids..
Am not scared of people who are intimidated by my power, by my will to live ,, by my will to raise my kids right… We step up to raise kids because some man out there decided he is not willing to be responsible enough, we raise kids alone because some man out there could not stay away from other women, we raise kids alone because some man out there will not stop beating women, we raise kids alone because mes some men out there have decide that dad is a title they don’t wanna have…
I am a single mum of two and that will always be my greatest title.

Furious man shares humiliating experience after his baby mama Rachel dumps him to marry another man

 

If you haven’t seen the thread for this story you are missing out. It is quite spell-binding if I must say.

So this man has been having fun with his side piece, without a care in the world, and of course taking his wife Rachel for granted. All this until there was a plot twist.

 

Just go through the story he shared, trust me your jaw will drop at the end of it.

I was married for 3 yrs until Saturday.
I used to flirt with other girls and my wife found out( kawaida tu ya wanaume).

She confronted me and I kicked her out (speak of pride), but we reconciled took her back and life continued. Still flirting with my babes, and I created a very strong password so her accessing my phone was ngumu.
Last year around May my wife started Changing, she started wearing different hairstyle from her usual ponytail and perfume, she looked more beautiful and she was ever happy.

She stopped bothering my phone and my life and I thought it was good and she was just amazing.
Most Saturdays she would take our babies out and She decorated our house, bought new stuff repainted it and the most mesmerizing thing is the new 52″ Samsung TV, a bigger fridge and a 6 seat dining table she bought and now our house looked more like a home.
I still flirted with my babes despite her Changing and around December I found my wife on my phone. How she knew my password remains a mystery to me, and she was reading my chat with this particular girl, Nancy wambui.

I shouted at her but she quietly handed the phone to me and she said “Sina ubaya”. (Little did I know)

All these is not a problem. The problem is last weekend but one she told me ameenda kuona shosho yake and I agreed.

I gave 12k for transport, and little shopping for shosho as I find more ksh for up keep ya watoto.all that is not a problem.

The problem is, I found out that my wife moved on kitambo, the time she found out I was flirting with some other girls,She met another man and her traditional was held on Saturday (juzi).

Really mama Rechael?
How did all this happen without my consent? Yaani this woman, she dated someone and she’s married bado akiwa kwangu? Unbelievable, and she still invested in house like nobody business, why did you buy this stuff? Ama zilikuwa za kunifunga tu macho?. I Never saw any sign of her cheating her phone was always on the table, I never heard her talk to anyone, all this time!! How!

All I need is custody ya my two girls I just want Rechael and Brianna back. Anyone who can assist get them. I don’t know how I’m going to live without them. I’m so hurt, They are all I need. That bitch can go wherever she wants to….

 

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Is Marriage Good Or Bad For Your Health? Psychologists Reveal

The whole business of deciding to get married can be a minefield.

From finding ‘the one’ to choosing the right date, then picking the flowers, guests, venue, food, and more – there is no end to the tumult of questions.

Once you get past the ‘big day’, it may not be a breeze but it is certainly good for your health, according to decades of research.

Studies have shown married individuals are less likely to suffer from depression and have a lower risk of developing conditions like hypertension or high cholesterol.

However, the anxiety of the wedding can be overwhelming for some, and if you’re not with the right person who makes you thrive rather than flounder, married life can be suffocating.

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So for all those who are considering taking the plunge, now is the time to think about it as we plummet into engagement season.

A recent study by researchers from the University of Melbourne found that February 14 and days such as 9/9/99 or 1/2/03 are incredibly popular wedding dates with up to five times as many weddings than on comparable ordinary days.

On Valentine’s Day, millions of couples will propose.

Dr Jen Nash, clinical psychologist on behalf of Healthspan, offers some advice on what to consider before you say ‘yes’.

1. Do you find them attractive?

Whilst looks definitely aren’t the most important thing in a good match, most couples say that a physical spark or connection is key for ongoing physical intimacy.

2. Do you agree on the big things?

Children, where you’re going to live, finances… There are so many big issues you’ll face and disagree on – some of which you cannot even foresee. You might as well work out the things that are possible to discuss now.

3. Do you get on with his or her family?

Nightmare in-laws are something we can’t control, but if you can deal with their dramas or foibles, all the better

4. How do they respond in crisis?

Do they support you when you need it and in a way that really makes a difference?

5. Can you have a laugh together?

A shared sense of humor really helps with ongoing intimacy, especially as physical attraction may naturally start to wane.

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Thika man kills lover and hangs self over breakup

A Thika man on strangled his lover and hanged himself after she demanded they break up.The bodies of Timothy Ndirangu, 23, and Grace Wanjiru, 27, a teacher at a nearby primary school, were found at their home yesterday morning.

“A pungent smell was coming from their house and when I peeped through the window I saw Ndirangu hanging and Wanjiru was lying in the bed. I notified the village elder who called the authorities,” resident David Ndito said.

Ndirangu, a welder, separated from his wife and mother of two children when he took Wanjiru as his lover.

Wanjiru’s cousin Grace Kimani said the two had been fighting for two weeks after Wanjiru said she wanted to end their relationship.

Maguguni residents mill around the police landcruiser carrying the bodies of Timothy Ndirangu and Grace Wanjiru on Monday./JOHN KAMAU

Maguguni residents mill around the police landcruiser carrying the bodies of Timothy Ndirangu and Grace Wanjiru on Monday./JOHN KAMAU

 

“Last week on Thursday he threatened to kill her and she reported the matter at Ngoliba police station, where they were both summoned. They were made to sign affidavits declaring not to fight again,” she said.

Her cousin settled in the village last October.

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“On Friday evening I called my cousin and she told me she was headed home, where they had just settled with her boyfriend. But when I called her again on Saturday she didn’t respond,” Kimani said. “I didn’t bother because I thought that she was at work. I came to learn of the what befell her today.”

Kimani said she warned her cousin to leave Ndirangu and move away from the village after he threatened to kill her.

“She failed to heed to my advice…Ndirangu was bitter and accused her of messing his life and causing problems between him and his family members,” she said.

Ndirangu’s father Musyoka Musembi said his son was hardworking. He accused Wanjiru of meddling in his son’s life and breaking up his family.

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Woman Discovers Secret Weapon To Lure Men Into Loving Her

The scent we give off – chemicals known as pheromones – are believed to play a big role in attraction.

One woman has gone to extremes to put this to test: by using her own vaginal secretions as an aphrodisiac perfume to attract men.

After carrying out some research into how, writer Allison Ramirez discovered ‘you basically just have to stick a finger down there and then use said finger to dab your “natural perfume” on your pulse points.’

According to the history books, this was a method of seduction used by courtesans of medieval Europe, who spritzed their vaginal secretions behind their ears and necks and on their chests.

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But Allison felt this was ‘a bit uncivilized’ and enlisted the help of a perfume maker to create her own personalised scent.

The ’20-something’ social media manager tested the product on a string of dates and was pleasantly surprised to find it worked. One romantic encounter ended with a smooch in a photo booth and another led to a text to meet up again.

Here she reveals in more detail all about her encounters armed with her ‘secret weapon’.

The Los Angles journalist, who carried  as part of an experiment for a Cosmopolitan feature, consulted with Saskia Wilson-Brown, the founder and director of the Institute for Art and Olfaction, who runs perfume making workshops.

She told her that essential oils rose, cinnamon, aniseed, and benzoin have aphrodisiac qualities and could work mixed with her womanly juices.

However, she warned that ‘body fluids and sweat are not stable, and probably wouldn’t do well in a formula’.

Saskia also informed her scents like pumpkin pie, lavender, licorice, and doughnuts have been found to increase blood flow to a man’s erection in a study carried out by the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago.

In the end, Allison settled on creating a sweet-smelling scent of her vagina secretions mixed with cedar, rose and civette.

black-woman-socializing-pf-378x338Armed with her ‘secret weapon’, Allison then tested out her new perfume by going out on dates.

On the first night, she met up with an old friend and ended up sharing a drunken kiss with him in a photo booth.

‘Then all of a sudden, teeth!’ she wrote. ‘It was funny, but it also kind of hurt.’

She says he replied: ‘I can’t help it. It’s that scent you have.’

Allison added: ‘The rest of the night was a blur, but his comment and actions were a pretty good indicator that my perfume was working.’

The next day she reported reapplying the purfume and visiting a McDonald’s, where she says ‘the cashier was a little nicer to me than normal’.

‘He usually rings me up without speaking to me, and this time I got a smile,’ she explained.

Days later, Allison wore her scent for a date with a friend of a friend.

She revealed he didn’t say or do anything during the date to indicate the perfume had worked but he did text her later saying he had fun and asking her out again.

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87-Year-Old Senator Marries A Woman Fit To Be His Daughter (PHOTOS)

They say age is just but a number and I agree with that.

An 87-year-old Senator Cyrus Nunieh recently married a younger woman fit to be his daughter (Rosemary  Ijeoma) in a colourful wedding ceremony that was held in Port Harcourt, Rivers State, Nigeria.

Cyrus Nunieh, who is a lawyer and former lawmaker left many wagging tongues after photos of his wedding went viral.

During their wedding day, Cyrus Nunieh confessed  that he was tired of being lonely since after his wife died in 1991 and that’s why he decided to re-marry at least to have a companion.

The old grandpa has come out to defend his wife after she was criticised for marrying him (a man older than her).

“I cannot continue to stay alone. I love her and she loves me. We understand each other and she is also intelligent. In marriage, there are advantages somewhere and disadvantages in other areas.

There is no limitation in age. Some may say you are old; you may soon die. But some were dead even before they were born. Some were one year or two years old and they die. Death is not always dependent upon a man’s age.

You know that rose is the best of all flowers and we have two Marys in the Bible; we have Mary, the mother of Jesus and Mary Magdalene,” he said in an interview with a local blog.

Cyrus Nunieh is besotted with his wife and he described her as an intelligent and charming woman.

“She too (Rosemary) is a believer of the Bible. But why are you particular about her age? She is not an infant. She is a very charming woman,” he added.

Here are photos from Cyrus and Rosemary Nunieh’s wedding

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Man kills self after second wife abandons him at first wife’s house

A jilted man in Piny Owacho village, Uriri subcounty, committed suicide in his first wife’s house after his second wife left him.

Eric Odii was pronounced dead on arrival in hospital on Friday.

His brother, Landi Oganyo, said he confessed to taking poison when they found him writhing in pain. He refused to reveal which poison he had ingested.

Area assistant chief Juliet Atieno said the first wife found the cup which her husband is suspected to have used to take the poison.

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Love Is Blind! Kenyan Woman Narrates How She Fell In Love With A Chinese Man..Very Beautiful!

Tribalism, racism are just some of the major challenges people face especially when it comes to relationships.

Many are forbidden by their families from marrying from different tribes and even races but as the days go by, it seems things are changing and our families are becoming more open to intermarrying from different cultures.

Well, a Kenyan lady recently left many shocked after she revealed how she fell in love with a Chinese man.

According to the woman, just like any other woman, the idea of marrying a Chinese man never crossed her mind but one day, things happened.

Here is here full story;

“The idea of dating or marrying a Chinese man never really crossed my mind before until when they came to our area. That’s probably the last thing you expected to hear from a Kenyan woman, but it’s true.

I draw a blank on Chinese men, apart from one simple thing. I assumed they weren’t dating material for me, and I wasn’t alone.

It made sense to me. I had only ever forged friendships with foreign Asian men at the university, feeling romance was never a possibility and had yet to move past “Hello” with any of the Chinese men at work, who almost never noticed when I smiled or waved at them while passing by. I never saw black women dating Asian men on television or in the movies. It was as if the universe decreed that there was a racial and cultural line that I was never meant to cross if I wanted to find love.

But a little over a month after this Chinese company settled in my area, Yao came into my life, I remember that day he was dressed in a black leather jacket. When my heart raced after our first dinner together, I thought it was just another youthful crush, a mistaken flirtation. Yet as Yao and I spent more time together, I realized that I loved him deeply – and that he reciprocated my feelings.

My relationship with Yao didn’t last, but he ultimately opened my heart up to the possibility of marrying someone from China. It took me a couple of date nights to realize that my assumptions about dating a Chinese – about dating Asian men overall — were a lie.

My relationship with Yao taught me that love can happen anywhere, as long as you let your heart entertain every possibility of happiness, even the happiness least expected.

Of course, dating and loving a Chinese is a different experience from Kenya. I’ve discovered that, when it comes to loving a Chinese man, actions matter much more than the typical ways that Kenyans show their love. Unlike in Kenya, where it’s common for couples to bond over swapping “war stories” of past relationships, my husband prefers not to discuss my past or his. I’ve found that meeting the parents, something that sometimes never happens in Kenya is a big deal in China and means you’re serious, which is why my husband waited over a half a year to take me home with him. These differences remind me that there’s not necessarily one right way to love someone, and they’ve opened me up to new perspectives on what it means to be in a relationship and a marriage.

By the time I met Jun in 2016, I had already imagined a Chinese husband in my future. After all, I had never felt more alive with anyone than a Chinese man or anywhere than in China, a country that ignited my passion for foreign languages and writing. I realized that a new reality made sense to me – calling someone from China my family. With the encouragement of a mutual friend, I found myself falling in love with Jun’s gentle personality, his handsome looks reminiscent of the famous Chinese diver Tian Liang, his interest in existential philosophy, his dreams of a future in service to humanity, and the way he made me laugh again and again. He was perfect for me and still is.

Sometimes, the best things in life come about when you’re willing to transcend your past and embrace a completely different future…or husband.”

This article originally appeared HERE

 

A list of things spouses would change about their partner

Wives want to change four things about their husbands… but husbands would change SIX things about their wives!

A survey of married couples found that mood swings were the thing wives would most like to change in a partner.

A survey of married couples gave a revealing insight into the daily gripes couples share with each other, including men being less grumpy and wives being more affectionate

A survey of married couples gave a revealing insight into the daily gripes couples share with each other, including men being less grumpy and wives being more affectionate

However, it seems men have a longer list of demands. Given the chance, husbands would change an average of six things about their partners, while women would only change four, the poll reveals.

For women, 35 per cent would make their partner less grumpy, while 30 per cent want them to be better listeners. Putting an end to bad habits is on the wish list for a quarter of wives – and the same number would like their husbands to become more appreciative.

For men, the top request for almost one in four was for their spouse to be more affectionate, while 22 per cent wished their other half was happier. One in five wanted their wives to be more adventurous in the bedroom. Overall, while the majority were happy in their marriage 13 per cent said they were unsure if they had ended up with the right person.

‘It appears that men would be less grumpy if they were given more affection and more adventurous sex, while women would be happier if men listened more and stopped their bad habits.

‘Regardless of the difference in complaints from both genders, the old relationship rules still apply – to try to listen to each other, to meet in the middle, and to show each other kindness, patience and respect.’

The survey of 1,500 couples by polling firm Ginger Research found that men wanted their wives to ‘dress sexier’, stop watching ‘bad TV programmes’, be more into sport and forget obsessing about their weight.

Women, however, wished their spouses would drink less, help more with chores, get rid of their beer belly and put the loo seat down. They also wanted to change their husband’s height, facial hair – and table manners.

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Bebe Cool’s wife shares a favorite moment from their wedding 14 years ago

It’s been 14 years since Uganda ragga singer Bebe Cool and his wife walked down the aisle to say ‘I Do’.

The couple shared a sweet throwback photo from their wedding, and the simplicity of the ceremony has impressed their fans.

The two love-birds tied the knot in a prviate event attended only by their bestman and maid of honor. The couple didn’t have the fancy attire we see many celebrities wearing for their nuptials today.

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One can see Bebe Cool sporting his dreadlocks, while Zuena his wife was also wearing an ordinary dress.

Read whats he posted for their walk down memory lane and see photos of their big day, that will prove to you love is real.

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bebe cool tbt wedding photo

 

Before the kids was us….Musa & Zuena.12-09-2003 was the day we said i do at Crane Chambers in a civil wedding,we are celebrating 14 years in marriage and we can’t hide our excitement.

We were so young but this Rasta man guided me to the right path and groomed me to the wife & mother i am today.
My Rasta man promised heaven on earth and am glad he has delivered 90% of what he promised,most of all this Rasta has protected me,taken care of me in all aspects and he’s one person i know that can take a bullet for me.

Am the kind that will complain on unnecessary spending be it on myself but when it comes to me he’ll do anything to put a smile on my face.


He keeps telling me he wants another wedding with me in a proper gown 👰🏻🙈 but we’ll see about that.
As we celebrate 14yrs in marriage with 5 kids & another on the way,all i ask Allah is to keep guiding & protecting us,grant us good health,lead our children in the right path of praising & serving Allah & most of all grant us long lives on this earth.


Ps.check out my matron Nelly Blossom & his best man Rama P all in our casual outfits 😂😂😂

Happy Anniversary my love Bebe Cool

 

Pepo Mbaya! Kenyan University Student Commits Suicide After Suspecting Her Boyfriend Was Cheating On Her (Photos)

On 10th September, the world marked the annual Suicide Prevention Day and since then, we have lost more lives.

Many including motivational speaker Catherine Njeri, fitness trainer Jame Mukami came out to share their horrifying stories hoping to reach out with a positive message to those with suicidal thoughts, but it seems a lot needs to be done. As a country, we need to create awareness on this special day.

“MENTAL AND SPIRITUAL HEALTH DRIVES EVERYTHING IN OUR LIVES, INCLUDING PHYSICAL HEALTH AND FITNESS. UNFORTUNATELY, MY BROTHER WAS NOT IN A MENTALLY GOOD SPACE AND CHOSE TO TAKE HIS LIFE 7 MONTHS AGO.

 

IF THERE IS 1 THING THAT’S GUARANTEED, IT’S THAT LIFE WILL HAPPEN. LIFE WILL CHALLENGE US AND THE TRUTH IS SANITY IS RELATIVE, ALL IT TAKES IS 1 BAD INCIDENT TO BREAK OUR SPIRIT SENDING US ON A DOWNWARD SPIRAL. 22 VETERANS/EX-MILITARY COMMIT SUICIDE EVERY SINGLE DAY (IN THE US) AND THAT NUMBER INCREASES WITH NON EX-MILITARY SUICIDES. SUICIDE ATTEMPTS HAPPEN EVERY SINGLE DAY. LET’S ACKNOWLEDGE THAT MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES ARE VERY REAL AND NEED TO BE CATERED TO THE SAME AS ANY OTHER DISEASE.

 

LET’S PAY ATTENTION TO OUR LOVED ONES, THOSE WHO SURVIVE IN SILENCE AND ISOLATION. LET’S LET THEM KNOW WE LOVE THEM, AND TRY TO GET THEM TO OPEN UP. IF THAT DOESN’T WORK, DON’T GIVE UP ON THEM AND DON’T BE EMBARRASSED TO SOLICIT HELP FROM FRIENDS, DOCTORS, PSYCHIATRISTS, PSYCHOLOGISTS, ANYONE THAT CAN CONNECT WITH THEM, GET THEM TO OPEN UP + PULL THEM OUT OF THEIR DARK HOLE OF DESPAIR.

 

I MISS MY BROTHER TERRIBLY AND MY HOPE IS THAT YOU DO NOT LOSE SOMEONE BECAUSE OF SOMETHING YOU COULD HAVE PREVENTED. LET’S GO THE EXTRA MILE IN LOVE, GRACE AND COMPASSION FOR EACH OTHER #BROTHERSKEEPER,” Jane Mukami wrote reminiscing hEr late brother.

Well, a  22-year-old Kabianga University student Hellen Nyambura Kinyanjui has committed suicide in a suspected love triangle. The fourth-year student was on Wednesday found hanging from a rope tied to the roof of her rented house at Chepnyogaa trading centre, Kericho county.

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Ms Nyambura, who was pursuing a degree in Communication and Public Relations, suspected that her boyfriend was cheating on her hence she decided to commit suicide.

“She was emotional and easily moved by happenings”, said Nyambura’s close friend who didn’t want to be named.

Ms Mary Masitsa, an alumni of Kabianga university who lives in the area where the late used to stay, told the Nation that Ms Nyambura left an unfinished meal thought to have been prepared before she committed suicide.

“She was a first born in a family of four and a mother of one girl”, said Ms Masitsa.

Adding that Ms Nyambura has been suicidal and she first attempted to take her life while still in second year.

“She is said to have attempted suicide while in second year.”

 

The Officer Commanding Police Division (OCPD) of the area Ferald Mbae said Nyambura’s body was discovered after her neighbours reported a foul smell emanating from her house.

“Nyambura’s neighbours reported that a smell of a decomposing body was emanating from her house, and that flies were many in her house, which had been locked from the inside. Police broke her door to gain entry into the house, where they found her hanging from a manila rope tied to the roof,” said Mbae.

Adding;

“She had no other injuries other than those caused by the nylon rope around her neck. Initial reports point to romantic relationship ‘problems but we are still investigating the circumstances under which she took her life.”

This comes barely a week after a man killed his lover in Molo and later committed suicide.

Here are photos of Ms Nyambura

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Right : Past photo of Hellen Nyambura Kinyanjui and Left; her body transferred to the mortuary (Left)

Father of four drinks poison as kids watch after quarrel

Residents of a village in Gigil are in shock after a father of four committed suicide following a domestic quarrel with the wife.

The man said to be a carpenter, drunk a farm chemical in Nagum village as his children watched and was pronounced dead on arrival at a nearby health center.

The man had earlier in the day travelled from Gilgil town to the village where the family resides before he decided to take his life in unclear circumstances.

A neighbor Johnston Kirathe told how they were attracted to the home by screams ,only to find the man in pain and writhing on the ground.

He said that efforts to rush him to hospital were thwarted by lack of a vehicle adding that it took over an hour for the man to get medical services.

“He passed on while undergoing treatment in the local health center and the body has been taken to Gilgil hospital mortuary,” he said.

Meanwhile, scores of workers involved in the construction of the SGR in Mai Mahiu Naivasha were injured after they clashed with local youths over employment opportunities.

At one point, the group blocked the busy Mai Mahiu-Narok highway before riot police officers moved in and contained the situation.

During the incident, the irate youths attacked the workers saying they were the reason for their unemployment in the area.

One of the youths Patrick Kamau said the Chinese contractor involved in the construction had decided to hire youths from other areas without considering them.

Kamau said all the workers who were working on the Nairobi-Mombasa SGR line had been brought to work for the second phase, a move he termed as wrong.

“We are perturbed by this latest move by the contractor because we agreed earlier on that youths from this area would be considered for employment once the works begin,” he said.

Mai Mahiu OCS Ezra Sambu said all the youths who were attacked were safe adding that security had been intensified at the SGR sites.

“We were alerted that there was commotion and our officers acted fast and saved the situation and we have also enhanced patrols to ensure safety for all those working at the sites,” he said.

Comedian confesses he was blinded into marrying his wife for her curves and their marriage is over

They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder or so the saying goes.

One popular comedian has found himself in a rather awkward situation, after admitting something about his wife.

The Ghanaian comedian named Benson Nana Yawoduro aka Funny face admitted in an interview with the country’s UTV’s Wofa Kwesi, that he married his wife because of her big hips and backside.

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Yes the man is secretary general of team mafisi, and his marriage has failed  because he is thirsty.

He was consumed with his wifes well endowed buttocks and blames her for ending their marriage.

He is quoted as saying: ‘I didn’t do my homework well before marrying her, adding that her big buttocks pushed me into marrying her’.

People also whispered to him that she could be seeing other men prompting his to spring into action.

He installed a car tracker in her vehicle over the suspicion she was cheating on him. What he discovered almost made him commit suicide but he restrained himself.

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He said: ‘What I’ve been through is worse then killing. I’ve moved on…but I’m hurt, because of the lies people are peddling about me’.

 

Meet Mutula Kilonzo Junior’s Gorgeous Wifey! (PHOTO)

When it comes to his private life, little is known about Makueni County Senator, Mutula Kilonzo Jnr, the son of the late Mutula Kilonzo and brother to lawyer Kethi Kilonzo.

Kilonzo jnr won the senatorial seat after a by election following the demise of his father in 2013. He went on to retain the position in the 2017 general elections.

But what many do not know is that he is a family man. He is married and is a proud father of two kids, a part of his life he has managed to keep under wraps.

However, on Thursday Kenyans got to finally see Mutula’s wife and my! she is gorgeous.

This happened when Mrs. Mutula, who goes by the name Anita Mutula jnr on Twitter, shared a cute selfie photo of her and her hubby in the senate chambers, congratulating her husband during the swearing in of elected members of both houses (Senate and parliament).

My hearty Congratulations on your 2nd swearing in! Proud of you love. May wisdom guide you throughout the term. God bless 🙏

Read Anita’s tweet alongside a photo of the two.

Check out the photo below.

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The post attracted a number of reactions from his followers who like many of us had never seen his wife.

Ralph Ngugi: Senator we can see your stronghold😍😍😍😍

Tona Antonet: Wooow..such a nice couple😘😘Congrats to him Mr senator

Gilbert Kaunda: Heeeee kumbe you’ve a very beautiful wife

Nolle Prose: Am happy for him,he s a mentor n inspire….congrats junior

Jp Owade: A very sober legislator. Keep up the great work sir. Congratulations

John Muia: My Senator!! Apart from politics and your landslide win in Makueni!! Hata wewe umejishindia. “Mundu ekawa undu wikaa!!” Shinda Ushinde.