KTN News presenter ties the knot in a lavish traditional themed wedding

KTN News presenter Fridah Mwaka on Saturday 10, August 2019 formalized her engagement to her fiancé in a ‘traditional’- themed event in Kibwezi, Makueni County.

The union came two months after the lovebirds got engaged at a private event in Nairobi. Ms Mwaka joined KTN News back in March 2018, after, Mashirima Kapombe, then later switched to Citizen TV. If that isn’t enough, the talented News anchor went ahead to make her mark after she impressed the judges with her fluent Kiswahili speaking skills during KTN’s the presenter show.

The Daystar University alumnus also worked as a radio presenter at Kubamba radio, where she worked alongside her close friend and music producer, Saint P.

Although Fridah Mwaka has managed to keep her love life and camera-shy fiancé private from the world, her close and very dear friend and music producer Saint P posted the couples first-ever picture together on his Instagram page expressing his joy in their union of love.

“I cannot explain how happy and excited i am for u. I am happy that u have started a new face in ur life. I am happy for you sana.
May God bless you. I pray for joy, happiness… oneness… You are blessed.
I am confident in the man that is your husband now. I am happy that he shall he has chose to love you.. to take care of you and care for you sooo much.
Occupy this chapter with gladness, that God has done it, has won it… and has Loved it for you.
I love you my dear friend and all love an success for me.
Nawapenda.” Saint P wrote.

‘All groomsmen backed out before my wedding day’ – Pastor Chris Atemo

Sources close to Fridah Mwaka have revealed that the couples official church wedding is set for late November this year.

(Photo: Kate_shiks photography)

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Cupid Struck! 5 Types of men that drive women crazy

Women love bad boys and this is something that has been a mystery to many. It is not clear on what attracts them to these types of men but it is obvious that’s what works for them.

Bad boys attract unwanted attention regardless of whether they are handsome or not, whether loaded or not women don’t seem to consider this with many wanting to experience some adventure with the said men.

Mary J Blige sang a song dedicated to the bad boys and here she says”Me and Mr wrong get along so good even though he breaks my heart so bad, we’ve got something special going on.”

Could this be the case for our Kenyan men?

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Here are the types of men that women are attracted to.

1. Nduthi Guys

These kind of men mostly attract young girls who are either still in school or new in campus. They are liked and loathed in equal measures for their promiscuous nature .

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They have mainly contributed to increased early pregnancies among teens something that has left a bitter mouth in the society.

The above behaviour has not deterred married women who are now having sexual escapes and illicit affairs with these forbidden lot.

2. Gym instructors

Every woman wants a fit man. No one likes an over sized guy who cant even pick up after himself thus gym instructors attract women. Women are mainly attracted to gym instructors for their physique which is mainly attractive but in most scenarios end up disappointed when it reaches between the sheets.

So the next time you hear your woman is are hiring a male gym instructor, be very worried as you might end up single and depressed in this cold weather.

3. Dread locked guys

There is something about guys with dreadlocks that women cant resist. Most of the men are eye candies with well toned bodies good for our instagram pages and showing off to our friends.

Unlike some men who are unkempt most dread locked guys are well kept, with the well maintained body comes a good performance between the sheets something that a woman can’t resist.

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4. Bouncers

Most girls are attracted to bouncers not because they have much to offer but because of the chances they create. Who wouldn’t want free tickets, free performance entrances and a free sexual escapade.

5. Butchery guys

Ladies love butcher guys for the free meat packages extended to them and for the servicing that is not extended to them by their husbands or boyfriends .

When you see a woman laughing heartedly with the butcher guy. just know sio wote huendea nyama.

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When love meets sports: Ghana’s football couple walk down the isle

I know you are used to hearing the phrase, ‘Love is in the air’ but what if a couple never met on an aircraft?, hot air balloon or even in an airport?.

Anyway, it is rare we hear news of two footballers tying the knot as many footballers settle for models and vice versa, till a Ghanaian football couple walked down the isle this past Thursday, January 5, 2019.

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Ghana men’s national team ‘Black Stars’ forward, David Accam and women’s national team ‘Black Queens’ striker Florence Dadson started the year with a bang by saying ‘I do’ in an invites-only  traditional ceremony held in Cape Coast.

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The two birds are based in the United States of America and have been dating for more than an year.

28-year-old Accam, plays for Philadelphia Union in Major League Soccer (MLS) while 26-year-old Dadson plays for Gulf Coast Texans.

The couple’s white wedding is expected to be held in Accra in March.

We from Radiojambo.co.ke wish the two love birds all the best in their marriage.

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Ladies Here’s A List Of The Reasons Why He Dumped You

Heartbreaks are so painful and take time to heal. However, we may be the cause of our own pain because of things we do consciously or unconsciously. We get heartbroken time and time again yet we don’t know why.

Well here are some of the reasons why :

1. You don’t listen – When someone talks to you, you should listen, this means that you are keen to hear what is being said. Many women listen with the aim of replying which means they don’t get the message. Let your man speak his mind and stop interrupting him. A man wants someone who will listen to them, not someone who will make him feel like his opinion doesn’t matter.

2. Listening to your friends – Friendships are important and we all need them, however we need to know when to draw the lines between our friendship and your relationships. Three is a crowd, you cannot let your friends opinions run things between you and your man.

3. He’s not dating your family – Just like friendships, family is also important, but again you need to draw the line. What happens between you and your man is between the two of you and not your family. If you have a small fight and keep running to tell it to your family then you will lose your man as he will be in constant war with his in-laws and will probably end up avoiding them.

4. Separate lives – Just because you are dating, doesn’t mean that you have to spend 100% of the time together. We all have our separate lives. You can’t drag your man to the shopping sprees, salon, and picnics with the girls etc. Chances are your man won’t drag you along when he goes to watch the game or have drinks with the boys.

5. Questioning – If your man wanted to be questioned about his every move and decision he would just go to prison. You are not his guard, so let him do his own thing. Questioning him all the time about where he is, what he is doing etc will make you single.

6. Being too dependent – Men want a grown woman who can handle her business, but still let him know that there’s a place in her life that only he can fill. If you come to a guy for every single thing, and can’t seem to make up your mind or make decisions … it will eventually get tiring and he will move on.

7. Negative – All human beings make mistakes every once in while. Nobody can stand always being criticized because it belittles them. People like to be appreciated so if you never have anything good to say he will look for it elsewhere.

A Love So Sweet: Newly-weds win hearts after riding a bike to the ceremony

They are setting the bar to wedding rituals. If you are looking for a way to cut down spending on weddings, this is it.

On average hiring wedding vehicles costs about Sh30,000, a cost that not many can afford to spend. It’s even worse trying to get friends and family to offer their fancy cars.

A cute couple have impressed many after photos of them riding a bike caught the attention of social media.

Girls, would you put aside your pride and hop onto a bicycle on your big day?

Check out the pics which have gone viral

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Sbonza Ni Wewe! 5 compelling reasons why young girls should stay away from ‘sponsors’

Do you ever look through your Instagram feed and wonder how in the world your female pals can afford to take off to exotic holiday destinations, yet there you are trying to hustle to afford buying the Sh90 ‘imported mexican’ maize?

Sheesh! Kenyans on social media are known not to have chills when they respond in the comments section demanding that the young girl post a picture of the ‘sponsor’ behind the vacation.

Having a sponsor has become so fashionable, one can’t miss spotting a young Kenyan girl desperately holding onto an ‘ancestor’ as they are referred to.

I know it’s been said by most ladies in our generation who love dating old men, that they love ‘monied men for multiple reasons. Campus girls are notorious for dating ‘sponsors’.

Here are my five reasons why you should disown that ancestor BUT if you really must date one, how about you emulate the French President who married a much older woman for LOVE?

1.) Are you ready for a child or fun

If you want to wait to have a kid until you’re in your early 30s, your older man is going to be about 50. Having to run around after a 5-year-old is hard work, especially if it’s been that much longer since your man had a child. And trust me he will also need as much attention as the baby as you will be taking care of all his needs. He won’t be strong enough.Your kid will also have a challenge as most kids in school will mistake his father for his grandfather.

2.) You need to respect him like your father

He is older than you and he already has kids who are almost the same age as you, they respect him and the only difference between you and his kids is that you are sleeping with him. ‘So you need to know that age demands a certain level of respect. You will feel inferior and cant negotiate with him as easily as you would have with a younger man, which means you will literally be his adopted child more than you will be his young wife. Are you ready to be ordered around and be set for curfews?

3.) Your suggestions and opinions hardly count

He has lived more than you and seen more than you so by the time you settle down together, he’ll have amassed life experiences and won’t have time for your shenanigans. Your life will end up being smaller in comparison since your shared years will make up far more of your total life experience than his. He will make most of the decisions and you will have no say in the relationship as you will have to listen to daddy yo…. sorry your husband…. all the time. It’s not fun at all.

4.) You will make enough visits to buy Viagra at the chemist

At your age, I can imagine how much more you’ll be sexually active and you can’t get it all the time. Remember to him it’s not a big deal as he has had it all his life, so unless you’re fine with ‘starving ‘, think again. Then before you know it since you are a prisoner, you may have to ask the watch man or shamba boy to service you. Women supposedly experience their sexual peak at age 35, while men allegedly go downhill after turning 18..remember this is all  allegedly. Why take your chances? So think smart as money is not everything.

5.) Your Friends and his friends

The places you want to hang out, the songs you listen to, the dancing and fun you have will be worlds apart. He won’t be able to mesh easily with your crowd and will stick out like a graying, sore thumb at parties attended by fresh-faced 25-year-olds. Likewise for you at his friends’ gatherings. Most of them met his ex wife so be sure that his friends’ wife’s are not going to make life any easier for you. These women will specifically go out of their way to make you feel not welcome in their crowd. You become an automatic threat to them by being naturally prettier and having the all-powerful asset of youth.

If this doesn’t matter to you, do you boo.

Love at first sight is real! Study finds we register beauty in less than a second

Love at first sight is real – and it triggers a rush of pleasure akin to the euphoria triggered by sugar, psychologists have found.

The experience of beauty has been the subject of fascination for philosophers for millennia, but psychologists have struggled to concretely measure it.

Almost every philosopher that’s tackled it – from Plato to Kant – has espoused that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and to experience that beauty, the beholder must keenly study the subject.

Most conclude that it is an ineffable ‘experience’ that could last minutes, days, or even a lifetime.

However, a new study by New York University psychologists has found it is much more simple than that: they found that it takes a person just one second to register that they find something beautiful.

What’s more, it is not impossible to quantify, as previously thought: when a person sees something beautiful, they experience an intense jolt of pleasure.

‘We say hedonists should skip the candy and go straight to beauty – it’s exactly the same,’ Denis Pelli, psychology professor at NYU who co-authored the study alongside his doctoral student Aenne Brielmann, told DailyMail.com.

The new research, published today in the journal Current Biology, is a piece of a broader puzzle that is the subject of Brielmann’s PhD project: trying to understand how ‘beauty’ can be measured, to better understand how it affects our actions in day-to-day life.

‘Beauty is famously subjective and supposed to be intractable by science – but some of its key properties follow simple rules,’ Pelli said.

‘Philosophers have long supposed the feeling of beauty is a special kind of pleasure. Yet, our analysis of research in the field shows the feeling of beauty may merely be a very intense pleasure – not otherwise special.’

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Awww: Jacque Maribe’s fiancé Jowie proves why he is husband material

Jacque Maribe is smitten with love. She can’t stop gushing about her new bae, Jowie.

The Citizen TV presenter and her lover have been dating for two years now. And last Saturday, they decided to make things official.

Jowie went on his knee to ask for Jacque Maribe’s hand in marriage and she said ‘YES’.

 

 Yesterday Jacque Maribe and Jowie celebrated their friendaversary and the mother of one took to social media to shower her partner with love.

“WE’VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A WHILE NOW,
WE’RE GROWING STRONGER EVERYDAY NOW,
IT FEELS SO GOOD AND THERE’S NO DOUBT,
I WILL STAY WITH YOU…
AS EACH MORNING BRINGS SUNRISE,
AND THE FLOWERS BLOOM IN SPRINGTIME,
ON MY LOVE YOU CAN RELY,
AND I’LL STAY WITH YOU…
OH I’LL STAY WITH YOU THROUGH THE UPS AND THE DOWNS,
OH I’LL STAY WITH YOU WHEN NO ONE ELSE IS AROUND,
AND WHEN THE DARK CLOUDS ARISE,
I WILL STAY BY YOUR SIDE,
I KNOW WE’LL BE ALRIGHT,
I WILL STAY WITH YOU… HAPPY JTEAM DAY ” READ HER MESSAGE.”

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Jowie, on the other hand, bought Maribe a bouquet of flowers, took a pic, shared it online and he confessed his love for the woman who makes him go gaga.

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He wrote:

“HAPPY ANNIVERSARY BABY. I LOVE YOU.”

The lovebirds later in the evening went on a date and Jacque shared the photo below.

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People in open relationships are just as emotionally satisfied as monogamous couples – study

People in open relationships are no more sexually and emotionally satisfied than monogamous couples, new research suggests.

As long as couples have sex to be close to each other or to fulfill their desires, there is no difference in how content people are with their partners, a study found.

Those who get intimate for less personal reasons, such as to avoid an argument, are less likely to be happy in their relationships regardless of whether it is open or monogamous, the research adds.

Lead author Jessica Wood, from the University of Guelph, said: ‘We found people in consensual, non-monogamous relationships experience the same levels of relationship satisfaction, psychological well-being and sexual satisfaction as those in monogamous relationships.

‘This debunks societal views of monogamy as being the ideal relationship structure.’

Up to seven per cent of people in the US are in open relationships and as many as 48 per cent in the UK are interested in being polygamous.

How the research was carried out 

The researchers analysed 142 people in open relationships and 206 who were committed to one person.

The participants were asked how sexually and emotionally satisfied they are with their partners, as well as how sexually fulfilled they felt.

Those with multiple partners focused on their main one.

Questions included whether they considered separating from their partner and if they confided in them.

‘It’s assumed these people are having sex with everyone all the time’

Speaking of polygamy, Ms Wood said: ‘It’s more common than most people think.

‘We are at a point where we are expecting a lot from our partners. We want to have sexual fulfillment and excitement but also emotional and financial support.

‘Trying to fulfill all these needs can put pressure on relationships. To deal with this pressure, we are seeing some people look to consensually non-monogamous relationships.’

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Do you think it’s possible to be in love with two people at once?

While most have room in their heart for just one partner, one woman has fallen in love with two men at the same time.

In a letter to New Zealand-based sex and relationship columnist, Jennifer Souness, the woman said she had become ‘insanely attracted’ to a man she had worked with for the past year.

However, she said she also has a boyfriend of two years – a man she is still attracted to and happens to love very much.

In the letter the women said her dilemma was whether or not to broach the question of a polyamorous relationship with her partner as she felt convinced she was in love with both.

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In a bid to untangle the complexity of the situation, Ms Souness said there were two issues which needed to be considered.

The first– the question of polyamory, the advice columnist said generally speaking once a couple has established feelings for each other within the confines of a monogamous relationship, it’s usually too late to negotiate an open one.

The second – the perception of the woman’s feelings towards her co-worker – was a little more complex.

Ms Souness said, developing an attraction for a work colleague wasn’t an entirely uncommon scenario – especially with pheromones at play.   However, she added, it was also entirely possible to keep things in check and stop them from spiraling with an awareness about the nature of romantic attraction.

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According to Daily Mail, Ms Souness said although the young woman described her relationship with her partner as ‘happy’ she said feelings for others can develop if at any time the relationship had been through a troubled patch.

‘Was there a period when you didn’t feel so positive?’ Ms Souness asked. ‘A moment when things went flat, when you felt unappreciated or misunderstood, allowing your co-worker’s attention to quietly slip in through a side window?’

The relationship expert said at times like these people were most susceptible to flattery – when we believe our wants and needs aren’t being met.

She also added that’s when another can start to seem more attractive – and the cycle begins.

Also added was the reality of the young woman’s situation as she was unavailable, was probably driving the intensity of her suitor’s feelings and in turn making her feel ‘irresistible and completely invincible’.

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But she said, in the event she did leave her partner for this other man and after the initial attraction waned, this new relationship would eventually end up in the same place as her current one.

‘All relationships end up travelling down that same road to familiarity, putting you right back where you started.’

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Previously speaking to Australian sexologist Dr Nikki Goldstein, said an office romance – irrespective of its nature – is a fairly common occurrence these days.

However, this was a complex territory and the situation always needed to be handled with care.

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‘If you’re working and your roles overlap there are going to be some issues. The problem is being able to differentiate those two lives,’ the expert said.

‘It’s going to be very hard to decipher that line between knowing which feelings are professional and which are feelings are being influenced by the fact that there’s a relationship there.’

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‘I almost ran him over then he asked me out!’ People reveal surprising ways they found love on Twitter

Some people believe in love at first sight, and that you’ll know instantly when you meet the one.

But some couples’ real life tales of falling in love are far more interesting than the fairytale – as a new Twitter thread shows.

Among the people from around the world to have shared the story of how they met their partner online was a woman who said she narrowly avoided hitting her now partner with her car – only to hit it off with him when she took him for coffee to apologise.

Another person said they hated their husband when they first began working together, only to find herself falling for him as time went on.

Many met their partners in very unromantic settings, including at the supermarket doing the weekly shop, or in one case while playing World of Warcraft online.

One tweeted: ‘Went to Trader Joe’s for the first time ever. I’m in the frozen aisle trying to figure out what vegan ice cream is and a woman walks up and says ”Are you Ethiopian?”’

‘Been married for 2 years.’

Another posted: ‘At a yard sale. He bent over to grab something and I saw how nice that a** was… 11 years later, we still going strong.’

Others said they met when they were very young and are still together years down the line.

One said: ‘We went on the worlds worst date in high school that literally was so uncomfortable. Like y’all he shook my hand when I went in for a hug. I got sick from dinner. Like holy s***.

‘But then we fell in love so like worth it.’

Another tweeted: ‘I was outside in the front lawn with a friend. I was 15 years old. We watched a family move in next door. I saw him.. he saw me. I told my friend (yes at 15) that I was going to marry him.

‘Last month we celebrated our 32nd Wedding Anniversary and have been together for 39 years!’

However, others had hilarious tales of romances that got off on completely the wrong foot.

One said: ‘I was texting & driving in a parking lot…Omw to meet a different date & almost ran over this HOT guy, I slammed my brakes…He came to my window, I thought he would yell at me…but he asked me out for a drink…

‘I quickly bailed on the other guy, & been w/hot guy since,8 yrs.’

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If you live with your parents, please dive into this conversation of what Kenyan mum’s do if you wake up late

 

This kind of reminds me of the story back in May, of a dude who was sued by his parents after he refused to move out.

30-year-old man Michael Rotondo’s parents claim he would not leave their home, despite the fact that they began giving him notices in February 2018. They also offered $1,100 to help him find his own place, which Rotondo took, but continued living in their home. According to ABC7, he does not contribute to the family’s expenses or chores.

There is a discussion on Twitter by KOT that centres on a topic on parents, and the sarcastic comments they make when their children wake up late.

 What’s the first thing your mother says when you wake up at 10 a.m? There are 15 comments that Kenyan mums say to their children.

Someone shared that he was told, ‘“Siku moja utalala hivi uamke upate tulihama”’. Woii, hides in shame.

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If the comments KOT are sharing don’t leave you hollering, I don’t know what will:

lellah…Sounds exactly like my mum 😂😂 alafu she adds ‘ata huskii aibu kuamka hii masaa’ 😂😂😂😂
Mutinda 🌕

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brianmutinda_….“Hata babako ashaamka, kwani hii nyumba ni ya nani?”🤣

lellah …Wewe sasa utaolewa kwa nyumba gani?” 😂😂 she always gets me with this 🤔 naamka najipea shughuli 😁

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Leenah Kitonga…Leteeni governor chai, ameamka

Ms.Moraa Achira….Asubuhi imefika princess

i_wanjiku….Kujeni muone bibi ya mzungu ameamka……

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Ciru Mansur…Lala mpaka utoke vumbi

Mercy Njeru….She used to say…” Ni ugokirio ni maku”(utaamshwa na yako)….saa hii vile I wake up very early nisipatwe na jam ya Thika Road😣😣😣😣😣

Kamba_Girl….Jua lishachomoka hauezi lala iamue kuchomoka tena!

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Nyo Kon Turkan….”Yani hawa watoto sijui… Sijui. Nyinyi ndo mlifika saa tatu na hata hamtingiki. Sijui mtaishi na nani.. laleni kabisa” Then my dad be like let them be, “wacha walale, waamke mapema ma hakuna mahali wanaenda” then I’ll comfortably poise myself in letter C position to dreamland

Mary Maina ….”Endelea kulala utapata dunia iliisha na ukaachwa pekee yako
RobertDaSilvaJunior…Endelea kulala na wanaume wengine washaenda hustle

Winnie254….Afadhali wewe ..Mimi ni unaamka upate gunia ilibadilika au siku nyingine ilihama..am like seriously mum!??aje sasa

 

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The SEVEN personality types most likely to be unfaithful in a relationship

Infidelity is on the rampant and researchers have found out three main factors that determine adulterous behavior. prompting people to be unfaithful.

According to Daily Mail, there are three main factors that affect and determine adulterous behaviour in an individual namely brain—the neurological structures and chemistry that evolution gave you

Psychology—the mind that you’ve developed through formative experiences that imprint certain ways of thinking about the world, your place in it, and how you think about your sexual/romantic self

Culture—the environment around you, with its varying messages about sex, love, and adultery that inform both your opinions about and opportunities for infidelity

 

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Former Nairobi D cast member Risper Faith accidentally reveals she is pregnant

Based on studies nearly 50 percent of what differentiates cheaters from non cheaters has to do with biological differences in their brain chemicals. This means that more than half of what pushes a man or woman to take the plunge to cheat has to do with both one’s environment and one’s psychology.

The most significant environmental cause is the fact that we can cheat. The easier it is to do, the more likely we will do it. Cheating is not confined to sleazy people. Under the right circumstances it is very easy to turn lustful thoughts into desperate actions.

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As we know from studies of chemical addictions, there are several environmental factors that make bad behaviors more doable.

When it comes to the psychology of cheaters, the biggest factor driving them to stray is the feeling that they’re entitled or deserve to cheat.

Research and clinical experience have identified certain personality traits to be associated with this feeling:

  • Narcissism—feeling self-entitled and putting one’s needs first
  • Lacking empathy—not being able to put oneself in one’s partner’s shoes.
  • Grandiosity—overestimating one’s abilities, especially one’s sexual prowess with others, and needing validation for one’s abilities as a lover.
  • Being impulsive—making important decisions, with major consequences, on the fly.
  • Being a novelty or thrill seeker.
  • Having an avoidant attachment style—fearing commitment.
  • Being self-destructive or masochistic.

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I Won’t Leave My Child Motherless Because I Want To Please Society! Cries Popular Radio Pesenter

Popular radio presenter, Annita Raey has penned down an emotional message outpouring her heart heart out regarding the single mother issue which has time and again been used as a source of weapon against women.
The Radio Jambo host a single mother of two is well known as a strong defender of single mothers and a powerful crusader against violence on women.
In her long post, she explains why she might never get married since she doesn’t think it is her cup of tea and that she is ready to face the societal hate and judgements directed towards women who have chosen to take care of their families on their own.
“I will not leave my kid motherless because I want to please society.” She says
Read her post below,
I refused to die for love, I refused to die for a man , I refused to be a statistic. I will not be a name on a cross because I was trying to work on us. I will not leave my kid motherless because I want to please society.
Who said that marriage is patience, who said that I should die working on a relationship. Raised by a society that teaches us not to talk about our marital problems, that teaches us that its between the both of you and a third or fourth party is a bad idea. You keep quiet and pray that it will fix itself, that you will learn to live with the beating, the cheating, the emotional distress, the depressions.
When you have no self esteem left, he has made you feel useless, no other man can love you, you hate your own body, you are not comfortable in your own skin.
Do you know what is means not to want to wake up in the morning , have you ever wished death, wanted to sleep time and not wake up in the morning ..have you ever questioned the existence of God and everything heavenly… wondered if being a woman was such a crime coz this felt like punishment ..Forget labour pains this hurts more, it kills you when you are alive it takes away your soul and leaves you void. You are dead alive.
After that you ask why we have single mums, you ask why we choose life over death, you ask why we chose to rise after being crushed to death, you ask why we choose our kids over a man, why we choose to be a story not a statistic, why we choose to be an inspiration .
She goes on to express her greatest value and motivation in life which is her two kids, whom she is ready to give up everything for since they are her pride.
I am a single mum of two kids, I have two different baby daddies, I am a testimony. I am so proud of who I have become…. Have you seen me and my babies, have you seen how happy I am.. Am glowing, am happy and content … I have fallen so many times, I have hit rock bottom and still managed to wake up. Look at me .. take a good look at me now, am alive and am living, I have no shame , I have no regrets, I have no remorse for leaving you, I feel no shame in in saying i have two kids .. I risk not finding love its okay they are love in unconditional… I risk never getting married, I am divorced marriage might not be my cup of tea.. I risk being shamed and blamed by society, its okay my pride is in my kids..
Am not scared of people who are intimidated by my power, by my will to live ,, by my will to raise my kids right… We step up to raise kids because some man out there decided he is not willing to be responsible enough, we raise kids alone because some man out there could not stay away from other women, we raise kids alone because some man out there will not stop beating women, we raise kids alone because mes some men out there have decide that dad is a title they don’t wanna have…
I am a single mum of two and that will always be my greatest title.

Furious man shares humiliating experience after his baby mama Rachel dumps him to marry another man

 

If you haven’t seen the thread for this story you are missing out. It is quite spell-binding if I must say.

So this man has been having fun with his side piece, without a care in the world, and of course taking his wife Rachel for granted. All this until there was a plot twist.

 

Just go through the story he shared, trust me your jaw will drop at the end of it.

I was married for 3 yrs until Saturday.
I used to flirt with other girls and my wife found out( kawaida tu ya wanaume).

She confronted me and I kicked her out (speak of pride), but we reconciled took her back and life continued. Still flirting with my babes, and I created a very strong password so her accessing my phone was ngumu.
Last year around May my wife started Changing, she started wearing different hairstyle from her usual ponytail and perfume, she looked more beautiful and she was ever happy.

She stopped bothering my phone and my life and I thought it was good and she was just amazing.
Most Saturdays she would take our babies out and She decorated our house, bought new stuff repainted it and the most mesmerizing thing is the new 52″ Samsung TV, a bigger fridge and a 6 seat dining table she bought and now our house looked more like a home.
I still flirted with my babes despite her Changing and around December I found my wife on my phone. How she knew my password remains a mystery to me, and she was reading my chat with this particular girl, Nancy wambui.

I shouted at her but she quietly handed the phone to me and she said “Sina ubaya”. (Little did I know)

All these is not a problem. The problem is last weekend but one she told me ameenda kuona shosho yake and I agreed.

I gave 12k for transport, and little shopping for shosho as I find more ksh for up keep ya watoto.all that is not a problem.

The problem is, I found out that my wife moved on kitambo, the time she found out I was flirting with some other girls,She met another man and her traditional was held on Saturday (juzi).

Really mama Rechael?
How did all this happen without my consent? Yaani this woman, she dated someone and she’s married bado akiwa kwangu? Unbelievable, and she still invested in house like nobody business, why did you buy this stuff? Ama zilikuwa za kunifunga tu macho?. I Never saw any sign of her cheating her phone was always on the table, I never heard her talk to anyone, all this time!! How!

All I need is custody ya my two girls I just want Rechael and Brianna back. Anyone who can assist get them. I don’t know how I’m going to live without them. I’m so hurt, They are all I need. That bitch can go wherever she wants to….

 

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Is Marriage Good Or Bad For Your Health? Psychologists Reveal

The whole business of deciding to get married can be a minefield.

From finding ‘the one’ to choosing the right date, then picking the flowers, guests, venue, food, and more – there is no end to the tumult of questions.

Once you get past the ‘big day’, it may not be a breeze but it is certainly good for your health, according to decades of research.

Studies have shown married individuals are less likely to suffer from depression and have a lower risk of developing conditions like hypertension or high cholesterol.

However, the anxiety of the wedding can be overwhelming for some, and if you’re not with the right person who makes you thrive rather than flounder, married life can be suffocating.

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So for all those who are considering taking the plunge, now is the time to think about it as we plummet into engagement season.

A recent study by researchers from the University of Melbourne found that February 14 and days such as 9/9/99 or 1/2/03 are incredibly popular wedding dates with up to five times as many weddings than on comparable ordinary days.

On Valentine’s Day, millions of couples will propose.

Dr Jen Nash, clinical psychologist on behalf of Healthspan, offers some advice on what to consider before you say ‘yes’.

1. Do you find them attractive?

Whilst looks definitely aren’t the most important thing in a good match, most couples say that a physical spark or connection is key for ongoing physical intimacy.

2. Do you agree on the big things?

Children, where you’re going to live, finances… There are so many big issues you’ll face and disagree on – some of which you cannot even foresee. You might as well work out the things that are possible to discuss now.

3. Do you get on with his or her family?

Nightmare in-laws are something we can’t control, but if you can deal with their dramas or foibles, all the better

4. How do they respond in crisis?

Do they support you when you need it and in a way that really makes a difference?

5. Can you have a laugh together?

A shared sense of humor really helps with ongoing intimacy, especially as physical attraction may naturally start to wane.

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Thika man kills lover and hangs self over breakup

A Thika man on strangled his lover and hanged himself after she demanded they break up.The bodies of Timothy Ndirangu, 23, and Grace Wanjiru, 27, a teacher at a nearby primary school, were found at their home yesterday morning.

“A pungent smell was coming from their house and when I peeped through the window I saw Ndirangu hanging and Wanjiru was lying in the bed. I notified the village elder who called the authorities,” resident David Ndito said.

Ndirangu, a welder, separated from his wife and mother of two children when he took Wanjiru as his lover.

Wanjiru’s cousin Grace Kimani said the two had been fighting for two weeks after Wanjiru said she wanted to end their relationship.

Maguguni residents mill around the police landcruiser carrying the bodies of Timothy Ndirangu and Grace Wanjiru on Monday./JOHN KAMAU

Maguguni residents mill around the police landcruiser carrying the bodies of Timothy Ndirangu and Grace Wanjiru on Monday./JOHN KAMAU

 

“Last week on Thursday he threatened to kill her and she reported the matter at Ngoliba police station, where they were both summoned. They were made to sign affidavits declaring not to fight again,” she said.

Her cousin settled in the village last October.

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“On Friday evening I called my cousin and she told me she was headed home, where they had just settled with her boyfriend. But when I called her again on Saturday she didn’t respond,” Kimani said. “I didn’t bother because I thought that she was at work. I came to learn of the what befell her today.”

Kimani said she warned her cousin to leave Ndirangu and move away from the village after he threatened to kill her.

“She failed to heed to my advice…Ndirangu was bitter and accused her of messing his life and causing problems between him and his family members,” she said.

Ndirangu’s father Musyoka Musembi said his son was hardworking. He accused Wanjiru of meddling in his son’s life and breaking up his family.

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Woman Discovers Secret Weapon To Lure Men Into Loving Her

The scent we give off – chemicals known as pheromones – are believed to play a big role in attraction.

One woman has gone to extremes to put this to test: by using her own vaginal secretions as an aphrodisiac perfume to attract men.

After carrying out some research into how, writer Allison Ramirez discovered ‘you basically just have to stick a finger down there and then use said finger to dab your “natural perfume” on your pulse points.’

According to the history books, this was a method of seduction used by courtesans of medieval Europe, who spritzed their vaginal secretions behind their ears and necks and on their chests.

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But Allison felt this was ‘a bit uncivilized’ and enlisted the help of a perfume maker to create her own personalised scent.

The ’20-something’ social media manager tested the product on a string of dates and was pleasantly surprised to find it worked. One romantic encounter ended with a smooch in a photo booth and another led to a text to meet up again.

Here she reveals in more detail all about her encounters armed with her ‘secret weapon’.

The Los Angles journalist, who carried  as part of an experiment for a Cosmopolitan feature, consulted with Saskia Wilson-Brown, the founder and director of the Institute for Art and Olfaction, who runs perfume making workshops.

She told her that essential oils rose, cinnamon, aniseed, and benzoin have aphrodisiac qualities and could work mixed with her womanly juices.

However, she warned that ‘body fluids and sweat are not stable, and probably wouldn’t do well in a formula’.

Saskia also informed her scents like pumpkin pie, lavender, licorice, and doughnuts have been found to increase blood flow to a man’s erection in a study carried out by the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago.

In the end, Allison settled on creating a sweet-smelling scent of her vagina secretions mixed with cedar, rose and civette.

black-woman-socializing-pf-378x338Armed with her ‘secret weapon’, Allison then tested out her new perfume by going out on dates.

On the first night, she met up with an old friend and ended up sharing a drunken kiss with him in a photo booth.

‘Then all of a sudden, teeth!’ she wrote. ‘It was funny, but it also kind of hurt.’

She says he replied: ‘I can’t help it. It’s that scent you have.’

Allison added: ‘The rest of the night was a blur, but his comment and actions were a pretty good indicator that my perfume was working.’

The next day she reported reapplying the purfume and visiting a McDonald’s, where she says ‘the cashier was a little nicer to me than normal’.

‘He usually rings me up without speaking to me, and this time I got a smile,’ she explained.

Days later, Allison wore her scent for a date with a friend of a friend.

She revealed he didn’t say or do anything during the date to indicate the perfume had worked but he did text her later saying he had fun and asking her out again.

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