The issue of things insecure men do to their wives was the centre of focus on Wednesday February 23 on the Maina and Kingangi in the morning show.
Maina advised a woman who told him that her husband guards her like a hawk, to leave. he told him that she is taken to the supermarket and to the gym where he stands by waiting for her to finish.
Several women confessed what their insecure husbands do
The first woman said ‘I go to work with my husband, and everyday we hang out together, if any man at work tries to talk to me, he warns them, and threatens to kill them. Aki I am so tired of his behavior. He follows me when I go to the toilet and if I stay too long he shouts to find out what’s going on’.
The second womn told about her car beign tracked
‘he put a tracker on my car, and I used to wonder how he knows where I am, to discover he had put a tracker. If he doesn’t get me, he calls my entire family to find out where I am.’
Does it sound like the worst thing to be single on 14th of February? Not at all. It is totally never a bad thing to have no partner during this period. There are plenty of things to do from the long list on this day when you are single.
It can be a local spa, have night out with friends go to a concert and let loose on the dance floor to have as much fun. There is too much pressure that women put themselves through, some women get to a point of looking for partners few days to valentine so they can spend time like lovers then break up next day, some do this because of peer pressure, they see their friends hanging out with their partners and would wish to do the same as them.
Link up with family
Among the long list of spending valentine while single is spending or having good time with family to have a remarkable tremendous moment. It is often commented that family members may want to go out and that means you are left all by yourself. Then food might be the way to your heart. Make heavy breakfast, go out and have good lunch in a fancy restaurant.
Staying at home is also a great deal. Try virtual cooking class for truly unforgettable meal when you are in the house. Tired of washing utensils and cleaning the kitchen? Order some food from your preferred restaurant, try out some new crazy dishes, crazy sea food for example. You can never go wrong with a heart shaped pizza. Take some great food that day other than stressing yourself out looking for a random guy for spending your day with.
Whatever you choose doing on this Valentine’s Day 2022 you can never go wrong with Valentine’s Day wishes to your family. Need help putting your feelings into words? I‘d be so pleased to do just that. Tell your family: wishing you a very happy valentine’s day to every member of my family, you do not know how grateful I am for keeping my life this beautiful. You guys make my life easy by showing your support and admiration throughout my life. My family is my valentine since I was born because this kind of love you give me is exquisite, happy Valentine’s Day dear family
Love is in the air whether you are a romantic movie fun or a love through pillow game fun altogether you can never ignore the warm fuzzies that are floating around this time of the year. In honor of valentine day I prepared a list of some warm romantic movies to watch during this season. You love series or you just prefer movies? Get entertained right from the house. If you have time these are the perfect movie ideas for valentine.
Among the List of the movies you can consider during this valentines period is: Friends with benefits – when a recruiter and an art director strike up a friendship, they decide to capitalize on their chemistry with casual s*x and no emotional attachment.
Think like a man – A woman set out to solve their relationship problems using advice from a love selling book but the men in their live are less than cooperative.
Seriously single – while her free living besties urges her to embrace singlehood, a commitment craving social media expert can’t stop following the life of a former lover.
Valentine day: the tripwires of modern love re exposed in a carousel involving relationships and the single life on the most romantic day of the year.
Royal treatment – New York hair dresser seizes the chance to work at the wedding of a charming prince but when sparks between them fly with love or duty – prevail?
Resort love – Reeling from a broken heart and career meltdown. A singer takes a gig at a swanky island resort where her ex fiancé happens to be getting married.
About time – Sparks fly a musical actress fast approaching the end of her life span and a man who has the ability to stop her clock from ticking.
Set it up – in desperate need of a break from the office two beleaguered assistants’ team up to trick their workaholic bosses into falling in love.
The fun part of this is that you can either do it at home watching them from your couch or head over to the local theatre with your partner and take some of these flicks with the rest of the team.
A man who found himself behind bars after a domestic squabble has sworn t go back to her.
The husband told Maina Kageni in a discussion about unhappy husbands that the love he has for her is 90 percent and the rest is for the kids.
Maina Kageni asked gentlemen ‘Guys, What would you want your woman to do starting today for you to be happy
The husband then called and confessed that his wife put him in jail, in cirucmstances he cannot understand.
‘she reported me akaniweka ndani for three months now mpaka nashiwndwa what do women need? every basic need, we argued about a quarrel it wasn’t good anyway but finally I don’t know what happened. i was called and put in for three months, i have given her everything, we are almost back again, i am willing to go back to that woman who put me in jail for the children. if you have a family you can understand more of what i am saying, and when i go back to her i will not love her like before i love her 90 percent, the rest is for children, Maina if you don’t know how it is, coz you love your children and the end of the day the children will suffer, after giving her everything, and i don’t even have a side chick and all of a sudden we had conflict and is not good, and then I’m in jail, ni kama anafikiria vibaya and I’m still gonna go back to her’
Dear Classic 105 fam, do you sympathize with his situation?
Trying to make sense of what a man wants from you can be difficult.
But here is a rundown of some of the things that guys expect from girls, that tend to cause a strain in relationships.
1. He needs a friend with benefit, but will never marry a girl who has had many relationships
Expecting a girl to be your friend with benefit for life is unrealistic. Won’t she find someone to marry, and wait just one minute is that even possible to be a friend with benefit for life?
I have heard it said from many men that there are two types of chicks – the one to have funwith and – the one to marry.
2. Girls are expected to be natural ( we love you natural girls) but at the same time she must be super stunning
Even the moon has dark spots.
Okay, a girl can look good while being natural. But how can she manage to look SUPER S3XY without makeup. Sure, girls have natural beauty, but it doesn’t mean that you can expect her to look like you wish. Shouldn’t guys expect that a girl be caring, honest and all those nice things?
3. Be committed but not wedding crazy
Every girl has planned her wedding by the time she is done with college, whether or not she has a man.
So expecting to date her without any mention of future plans is unrealistic.
The marriage topic WILL ALWAYS come up, and if she is committed to you, the subject will be there.
4. Being low maintenance while looking high maintenance
The expectation is that she should be both, but not trying too much.
If you want her to look like a “high maintenance” girl, you need to spend money on her for maintenance. The word itself says “high maintenance,” How can you expect her to look the same with almost no money?
After everything even me pushing him away, he always made sure i was ok….always made sure he could be there even if i wanted to vent. He looked through my emotional state and still wanted to make me his wife. He is the calm in my storm and has helped me so much.
After telling him I was extremely weak and nauseous after my first round of chemo, he came with bud, a smoothie, and stayed with me overnight. That was a couple months in, and he’s still my best friend a year later.
When he gets up in the middle of the night to turn the A/c on & off for me. Showing me grace & patience no matter the situation. Being able to give me constructive criticism. Always being my friend before all else
I didn’t realize it myself at first. One of my best friends realized it first and told me.
I realized for myself when I realized he was showing up for me, every single day. Even on the bad days – he was holding it down. Even from states away – he was there for me 24/7.
When he figured out I didn’t have food and came an hour and a half across town via 3 buses with a full chicken, a huge container of rice and fresh garlic sauce. He wanted to make enough so I could eat for the week
When I told him I didn’t like one of his bad habits and he changed it immediately! Didn’t question me, doesn’t sneak and do it, just nipped it in the bud! Plus he cooks for me and thoroughly enjoys it
He did a lot of small things that showed me but, when he did something that really hurt me, he took accountability, apologized by changing his behavior, & when I felt like it was my fault he did it (past abuse) he got upset w/ me for even thinking to blame myself for his actions
Crying even thinking about everything my husband has done for me, for us. I think the 1st time was back in HS. His family took me in during a rough time w/my mom. He stood up for me, never judged me, never threw it back in my face, + he was my everything when I had nothing.
He kissed me good night and started to walk away. Then turned back around to kiss me again.
She tells alot about dating a white man having been with him for 8 years now and two children. “Patience is very important when you are trusting for significant changes in your life. It’s hard not to worry or wonder but surely sometimes it’s necessary not to think too hard when you can’t seem to find solutions to your problems. I’m thankful for my journey. I’m thankful for my family. I’m thankful for every person who has been part of my journey. I’m a happy woman.”
Ciru is also judged alot online and hits back at critics to defend her man and their marriage.
She is mature, well mannered, and full of respect, and beautiful inside out, God bless your marriage and family.
Am also 28 and my husband is 55 and we are happy what matters is happiness in the marriage.
Shiru be happy
sue wa kuria
Kaa anaprovide kila kitu na huna dry spell tuliza huko age is just a number.
Was watching barothi wa bururi,,, and one story was like,,,shire is in heaven on earth and the character wa barothi was even hell ni nothing to her story,so the major focus is just one genuine love and care,keep up the good family shiro….
Shiro is such a strong girl! I admire her maturity and courage.
The tweet attracted over 70k likes and comments showing how passionate people are about the topic.
Silent treatment like a dog, being scolded like a child, being mistreated in front of ppl and brushing it off as jokes New moon with face talking down on my interests unprovoked, and then literally cheating right under my nose and saying nothing until provoked
After confronting him, He told me he was raised right and knows how to treat women. He just didn’t think I was worth the effort.
When he got into a relationship with someone else 3 months after we split but it took 8 months of talking before we got together and at first he said he didn’t want a relationship.
It was that moment I realised the “with you” was silent Face with tears of joy
He invited me on a camping trip with his friends & their girlfriends. I had too much to drink and accidentally blacked out for the first time ever. He threw me in a tent by myself all night barefoot, no blankets and covered in my own vomit Slightly smiling face
When he cheated and said he was thinking about me the whole time
Lol one time he hurt my feelings and I cried and he got the biggest smile and said “are you crying? Girl, have a good day” and left Loudly crying face
When he locked me in house on New year’s eve and went to two new year’s party. He didn’t even have food on his house Loudly crying faceLoudly crying face.
Noticed the way he spoke about some girl. The awe, the happiness, the pure joy about him made me know that he never thought of me in those terms…
He said he can only post his female bestie and not me because the family knew herRolling on the floor laughing
When family members were asking him where he was, he always said « with Thomas ». In front of my face Skull. I still wonder who he was seeing when he was telling ME he was with Thomas Smiling face with open mouth and cold sweatClown face
My high school boyfriend called me chubby. I weighed 112, 5’6 and the year before lost my period from lack of body fat from running cross country. When I said what the hell, he said he was “only joking” He also like the nickname A-cup. Christ, I wish I could shake my 17r old self
Nothing I said was ever taken seriously. The way he spoke to/about our friends was passionate vs me who got an “idk” if asked how he felt about me. He was also jealous of my achievements and would get “randomly” moody about it but never admit to it
A 63 year old woman has lost Sh10million after falling for the tricks of a Nigerian man posing as singer Bruno Mars.
Two Nigerians, Basil Amadi and Chinwedu Azugnwu are trending with people not believing a woman can fall for this scam. Both men were charged with money laundering, and Azuonwu’s bail is set at $30,000.
According to ABC30, Chinwendu Azuonwu was charged with third-degree felony money laundering last month.
The victim told authorities she was 63-years-old when she started an Instagram account, and she began to speak with Azunwu, who posed as the “That’s What I Like” singer.
The 63-year-old woman told the police that he made her believe that he was interested in pursuing a romantic relationship, and she fell in love with who she thought was the real singer. Azonwu, and his alleged accomplice, Basil Amadi went the extra mile to legitimize the encounter. They would send photos of Bruno Mars on tour, to make the woman believe it was really the “24K Magic” artist.
According to police, she was convinced Mars needed help with touring expenses.
Court documents show she thought he was going to quit his tour to be with her. He first asked for a check for $10,000, and two days later asked for $90,000.
A woman shutting down is a pretty normal scenario in many marriages. Just look at couples in traffic not speaking to one another and seeming angry.
This was the topic of discussion on Classic 105 Tubonge Tuesday where Maina Kageni could not understand how couples go for a month without talking to one another.
Mwalimu his co host told him that ‘it’s kawaida’ to see a couple at home pass one another like strangers.
Here are reasons for it:
1. For women, it is a defense mechanism for not feeling loved when not heard by their husbands. For men, it is often defensiveness against feeling disrespected when he interprets what he hears as criticism and control.
2. It’s hard to make conversation if you feel like you talk about the same subjects all the time.
3. Anger that has nit been healed or resolved.
4. They have grown apart and developed separate interest
5. They stop being curious and stop asking questions. Heard the saying ‘wacha ikae ivo tuu? Yup, they are not interested.
6. Being so busy in our jobs, you don’t have time to talk, and all you want to do is sleep when you get home.
The person who came up with the phrase ‘love is blind’ knew exactly what they were talking about, Because WOW!!!
A woman, who is an events planner, had a rather rude shock from her man. She describes in a somewhat hilarious manner how he formed a group for them
He cheated when I found out he decided to introduced me to the girl and surprisingly I didn’t have a problem with it, then he went on and created a whatsapp group added me and the new Bae, we used to talk on that group we were even planning a vacation.
Every morning he would Greet us in the group like “Good morning my two beautiful wives” and we would each reply “morning love
She is so chilled out about the relationship and reveals why she isn’t stressed
Right there and then I realized that I have no problem with polygamy marriage at all.
Guys I’m not making this up, this is the girl we still talk.
Her confession has triggered a flood of question with many asking how they were able to cooperate, whether they did 3Sums, and to date how things are going. Really guys?
Read how people are praising the man and calling him a legend:
Legendary stuff, can he be invited as a guest speaker to the men’s conference next year!!! 😂 😂 😂 😂, I still can’t believe what I have just read 😭😭😭@mandla20..
This guy should be given the podium for an hour in next year’s mens [email protected]
He’s our Secretary General for next year’s men’s conference
In respect…i salute ur ex…he was living on another planet…a true legend…tell him …i said i owe him money ye six pack..4 doing the most 😂😂
This guy is a legend. Whatever he did tou you girls should be studied in school.
This is actually very possible when you’re in love. I have been in a very similar situation and I wonder why I didn’t mind.
This is what happens when you’re in a relationship for your partner and not for yourself
Reminds me of this girl who created a WhatsApp group and added all the guys in the squad she had smashed
Girls how would you rate your relationship with your husband currently?
If things are thick, go through these 20 points and start making a change immediately.
1. Write a list of all the reasons you fell in love and married him. Read it to him, or leave it where he can find it.
2. Be affectionate at all time, with a hug, a wink, a spank on his backside, think out of the box girls. They will love it.
3. Whisper sweet nothings to him. Call, text, whatsapp or send him a naughty DM him at work.
4. Be his ride or die. Drop whatever you are doing if he needs to talk to you about things he is having difficulty with. Sometimes he needs you to just listen, there are times he will ask for your opinion and there may be situations when he wants space. Do not be threatened when he needs time to be alone. Respond with compassion and understanding.
5. Do simple things for him often. Cook and serve his tea, make mandazi, polish his shoes or any small gesture that will make him feel loved and cared for.
6. Dress up for him, put some cute lipstick, or lipbalm if you’re not into beauty products. Dress up the part and flaunt your curves, he will notice and appreciate your effort.
7. Pay attention to his needs. Sometimes we ladies tend to put our kids first, forgetting our husbands need our attention too. Make a conscious effort to take care of your husband and the little things he needs. You might need to mend his shirt, shop for new socks or buy his favourite coffee.
8. Run him a warm bath after a long day at work and hours in traffic. This Nairobi dust can also be something else. Prepare his slippers at the door, rub his back, give him a gentle massage or better yet, share the tub with him.
9. Get up early to prepare his favourite breakfast. Learn to cook if you don’t know how to. It’s true the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
10. Tell his parents about how good a man your husband is. Praise them for raising him the way they did. This will not only please your husband, it will create a bond between you and his family.
11. Make time for date nights, to keep the romance alive. He will always look forward to such moments.
12. Have impromptu parties, get togethers for him, and especially with his friends, can you picture him being the envy of his friends?
13. Assign and celebrate a day each month to be hubby’s day. Tell him it’s his special day, and you and your kids will do everything for him. Show him he is worth celebrating.
14. Drop your kiherehere. Find ways to talk to your husband about your needs without making it sound like you are complaining. Do not make your husband feel inadequate with your grievances, criticism and fault finding.
15. Be the wife any husband will be proud of. Commit to learn new things, improve yourself and develop your own interests.
16. Is he balding, and the pot belly getting bigger? When he gets insecure about his body and age, say kind words of encouragement and reassurance. Declare your devotion all over again. Remind him you married him warts and all, and will continue to love him for the rest of your life.
17. Pray with your husband especially when he is worried about something. He needs to know you are there for him.
18. Stay in bed with him when he is sick.
19. Find reasons to be together. Run errands with him, watch football with him (yes girls do it even if you don’t know what’s going on). He doesn’t really need you, but will appreciate the company.
20. Brag about your husband to your friends, his and your family. Let everyone know how grateful you are about being married to a terrific guy. Let your husband know he is the world to you. Love him, adore him, and let him follow you to the ends of the earth!
Having someone you can trust and call your own has to be the most amazing thing in the world, other than getting paid on a Friday. But it all seems to be different out here. Vitu kwa ground ni different aki. But why is it getting harder to have a long term fiancee as the day goes by.
The rate at which people are engaging in twa twa I bet God up there is in shock. This tops the list on the reasons why staying committed is a hard thing to do. Twa twa is readily available like your favourite vegetable at Mama Otis.
The problem is that you eventually get caught and have to be shown the door like a stray dog.
2. Open relationship
This is the term used by anyone who wants to sleep around but has that Mr or Miss Fix It in case they have ran out of options out there. There’s no commitment so they are not answerable to anyone in case you catch them getting messy with someone else. Your only responsibility is to nurse them when under emotional turmoil majorly through intimacy.
Love is given to the highest bidder. Money is the major determinant. If your pockets don’t run deep so does your play ground become less populated. Not unless kwa twa twa you are a guru.
As a man it’s either you’re good in bed or well loaded to keep a woman for as long as she stays. Guys are faking having money game to trap potential women cause as it is being broke will cost you every opportunity you have out there.
Sammy Esen Yaaani ..one couple ni 1.5m na poster ni ya 150 shillings?
Don Joh Ram… So, someone will just go to mpesa and click “lipa na mpesa” and pay 1.5m? I need to know such people 🤣😅
Chris Tangut ..How can you transfer 1.5m through Mpesa
Nduati Michuki.. 1.5m after kudesign poster na Microsoft Excel ? 🤣🤣🤣
Yvonne Odhiambo.. This flyer looks like a garbage site pale grogon 🤦🏼♀️