Having someone you can trust and call your own has to be the most amazing thing in the world, other than getting paid on a Friday. But it all seems to be different out here. Vitu kwa ground ni different aki. But why is it getting harder to have a long term fiancee as the day goes by.
The rate at which people are engaging in twa twa I bet God up there is in shock. This tops the list on the reasons why staying committed is a hard thing to do. Twa twa is readily available like your favourite vegetable at Mama Otis.
The problem is that you eventually get caught and have to be shown the door like a stray dog.
2. Open relationship
This is the term used by anyone who wants to sleep around but has that Mr or Miss Fix It in case they have ran out of options out there. There’s no commitment so they are not answerable to anyone in case you catch them getting messy with someone else. Your only responsibility is to nurse them when under emotional turmoil majorly through intimacy.
Love is given to the highest bidder. Money is the major determinant. If your pockets don’t run deep so does your play ground become less populated. Not unless kwa twa twa you are a guru.
As a man it’s either you’re good in bed or well loaded to keep a woman for as long as she stays. Guys are faking having money game to trap potential women cause as it is being broke will cost you every opportunity you have out there.
Sammy Esen Yaaani ..one couple ni 1.5m na poster ni ya 150 shillings?
Don Joh Ram… So, someone will just go to mpesa and click “lipa na mpesa” and pay 1.5m? I need to know such people 🤣😅
Chris Tangut ..How can you transfer 1.5m through Mpesa
Nduati Michuki.. 1.5m after kudesign poster na Microsoft Excel ? 🤣🤣🤣
Yvonne Odhiambo.. This flyer looks like a garbage site pale grogon 🤦🏼♀️
The person who came up with the phrase ‘love is blind’ knew exactly what they were talking about, Because WOW!!!
A woman, who is an events planner, had a rather rude shock from her man. She describes in a somewhat hilarious manner how he formed a group for them
He cheated when I found out he decided to introduced me to the girl and surprisingly I didn’t have a problem with it, then he went on and created a whatsapp group added me and the new Bae, we used to talk on that group we were even planning a vacation.
Every morning he would Greet us in the group like “Good morning my two beautiful wives” and we would each reply “morning love
She is so chilled out about the relationship and reveals why she isn’t stressed
Right there and then I realized that I have no problem with polygamy marriage at all.
Guys I’m not making this up, this is the girl we still talk.
Her confession has triggered a flood of question with many asking how they were able to cooperate, whether they did 3Sums, and to date how things are going. Really guys?
Read how people are praising the man and calling him a legend:
Legendary stuff, can he be invited as a guest speaker to the men’s conference next year!!! 😂 😂 😂 😂, I still can’t believe what I have just read 😭😭😭@mandla20..
This guy should be given the podium for an hour in next year’s mens conference.
He’s our Secretary General for next year’s men’s conference
In respect…i salute ur ex…he was living on another planet…a true legend…tell him …i said i owe him money ye six pack..4 doing the most 😂😂
This guy is a legend. Whatever he did tou you girls should be studied in school.
This is actually very possible when you’re in love. I have been in a very similar situation and I wonder why I didn’t mind.
This is what happens when you’re in a relationship for your partner and not for yourself
Reminds me of this girl who created a WhatsApp group and added all the guys in the squad she had smashed
When you walk down the aisle, you take a vow to stick together through thick and thin.
It’s something we say but don’t really ponder for long because our wedding day is supposed to be happy, right? So, what does it really look like to live out this vow?
That is exactly what one Kenyan man is doing, to the outrage of many.
He told Maina Kageni on Monday that he even washes her inner wear, especially when she wakes up late in a rush to scrub her panties. He says when he finds them when he get home before her, he will wash them for her, and put them outside to air. because she forgot to wash her panties, he helps her washing it. She cleans my boxers so why not?
In another scenario, a female caller shocked listeners on Wednesday with her tale of what her husband does for her that is so romantic.
I have a man. He washes my panties, I don’t tell him to do it, he just wakes up washes his and mine, and when I’m cleaning the house he also helps. I hate ironing clothes, so he does so and even for our daughters, he doesn’t complain.
Even when I’m sitting down at home, he cleans, this is a man I really appreciate I don’t have to tell him to do stuff. He also washes my panties, you know at times ladies soil their panties but he washes them. It’s not a matter of being controlled, there are men out there who are good, even when I’m sick he washes me, he takes a basin puts hot water, scrubs me and will serve me any food in bed.
Matete told Word Is on Monday, “Tell her to provide proof they are still married. I am aware that John is her ex-husband but they are not married anymore. I know the children because they are my husband’s kids.”
She walked down the aisle with John on November 22 at a private wedding. “The wedding was successful, we thank God,” she said.
Previously, Matete, who is the daughter of Selina actor Abel Amunga, has opened up about growing in an abusive home.
“My mum got married to another man and later she introduced me to my biological father. I had never been to school I was always at home doing house chores,” she told Ebru TV.
Saying goodbye to your soulmate for good is not an easy thing to do. We have all witnessed it in one way or another, be it family or friends.
A man has moved many to tears after penning a heart breaking goodbye to his dead wife on Twitter (see post below).
His fond farewell according to social media, has restored faith in love.
He began by writing
Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji’un, on Wednesday I lost my love of my life, my best friend, my soul mate. I lost my wife and my unborn child. Two years ago you held my face when we got married, today I held your face when I went down in the grave with you. My heart is broken
I cry for the future we lost, but grateful for the past and the memories we had. You completed me beyond words, I pray you get the highest place in jannah and that I will be reunited with you again. You had a life full of people who loved you but you had the biggest heart
The emotional post has captured hearts of social media users who have also paid tribute to her.
Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji’un, on Wednesday I lost my love of my life, my best friend, my soul mate. I lost my wife and my unborn child. Two years ago you held my face when we got married, today I held your face when I went down in the grave with you. My heart is broken and pic.twitter.com/FY1TbHaAtA
Apart from your mother you won’t find a women to uplift a man, from zero. Never!!!
The Luo man called in to disprove Mwalimu’s theory with his personal account.
Ladies help men and they help a lot, they don’t shout about it. I am driving a car she bought for me, even sometimes when I drive a mpango wa kando I feel guilty. I think about what I am doing, but I can’t stop it. She doesn’t complain about the girls in my car, and forgives me every time.
I men how lucky can a man be? Isn’t he worried that perhaps her silence means something else?
You will see from his interest in you and whatever you do. This involves cooking, cleaning or even singing and dancing. The will always want to be committed to your activities and always offer to help.
Asks for your opinion
Someone who adores you will always ask for your opinion and advice before doing anything in them. They will always consult you before taking any step rather than doing anything they want to.
When you tell someone what you think about something and reasons for your decisions, that person has some love for you. It not only shows that the person respects your decisions, but also you in person.
Its all in his touch
You can also know if someone cares from their touch. The kisses, the hugs and even when you cuddle you will always have that feeling of love. You will always feel safe when around them.
Do you get shocked to hear some of our favorite celebrities have been married 3 to 4 times? No? Me either. Some of them have even expressed their feelings that they don’t like being lonely and so need to be with someone all the time.
Yet there are those who have wed 8 to 9 times, and British American actress Elizabeth Taylor comes to mind here.
That’s way too many times if you ask me. Perhaps they should just chill out for a while.
Check out this list of such famous people who have made headlines with multiple marriages:
Kim Kardashian: Kim Kardashian is currently married to Kanye West. Together, they have 4 children. But Kanye is actually Kim’s third husband. She had a short 72-day marriage to NBA star Kris Humphries. However, Kris was her second husband – before she was famous, she was married at a young age to music producer, Damon Thomas from 2000 – 2004.
Jeniffer Lopez: Jenny from the block has walked down the aisle three times. Her first husband was Cuban waiter, Ojani Noa, they were married for just under a year. Second husband was back-up dancer Cris Judd. They were married September 2001, to June 2002 – even shorter this time. Then she married singer, Marc Anthony in 2004. Together they had twins, but the couple did not live happily ever after. Their divorce was finalized in 2014. She is now planning her wedding to Alex Rodriguez, who’s divorced.
Angelina Jolie: Angelina Jolie has been married three times. Her first husband was British actor, Jonny Lee Miller. The wedding ceremony saw Angelina wearing rubber pants and a white T-shirt with her husband’s name written on the back in her own blood. Her second marriage was in Vegas to actor Billy Bob Thornton after dating for only 2 months. Her third marriage was to Brad Pitt – they have recently filed for divorce.
Kenny Rogers:The country legend has been married 5 times. His first wife was Janice Gordon; from 1958 till 1960. Then came Jean Rogers; from 1960 till 1963. Third wife was Margo Anderson from 1964 till 1976. His fourth marriage was to Marianne Gordon; they married in 1977 and divorced in 1993. It cost him $60 million. Finally, his fifth marriage is to Wanda Miller. They married in 1997 and are still married. Looks like he finally learned when to hold ’em.
Larry King: Former CNN talk show host has been married eight times to seven different women. In 1997, he married his last wife, Shawn Southwick. On King and Southwick’s 10th anniversary in September 2007, Southwick joked she was “the only wife to have lasted into the two digits”. Larry and Shawn King filed for divorce in 2010 but reconciled, and filed for divorce again in 2019.
Nicholas Cage: Cage has been married four times. His first wife was actress Patricia Arquette, his second marriage was to singer and songwriter Lisa Marie Presley, daughter of Elvis Presley. Very fitting, seeing as Cage is an Elvis fan. His third wife is Alice Kim together they have a son, Kal-El. In March 2019, Cage married Erika Koike in Las Vegas, only to file for annulment four days later.
“There was a recent breakup,” Cage, 55, said in an interview with The New York Times Magazine. “I don’t really want to talk about it. I was pretty upset about that and the way things happened.”
Nyashinski crashed the dreams of many lasses this weekend after news of his traditional wedding became public.
Over the weekend, the couple held a secret and intimate ceremony to celebrate their union. Only close friends and family were in attendance.
Immediately after the wedding, he took to social media and flaunted his new love. Further to that, he has already become a relationship expert after dropping quotes. He took to twitter and said,
The responses to this tweet are just too hilarious. Most of them making fun of him for being an expert after a day of marriage. Here are a few hilarious comments:
Nyashinski replied to one guy telling him that he may be two days in the game, however he knows how it is played.
Mzae, mi niko fiti. Niko kwa fertile land.
Other comments were from followers who were concerned he is planning to cheat.
Kibet: Budda umeanza quotes mapema. Was it a wrong decision???
Dan: Bro are you thinking about doing it?? …coz you are saying its too long should we expect it sooner???
Saal: Kwani ushaanza kucheat?
Poggie: He admits it not a mistake, its a designed move
Nyashinksi must be having a good laugh in what tweeps are calling honeymoon time. Though I doubt people go on a honeymoon after a traditional wedding. He still has a white wedding to do.
His followers are already doubting the couple will last long. Especially the men on his timeline telling him it is too early to speak. Now he is high on love and that is why he thinks he will not cheat.
Those giving Nyashinski the benefit of doubt have told him they want to see results of their love in nine months.
His caught the country by surprise when he announced at Nairobi Hospital on July 29 the death of his wife, Bomet Governor Joyce Laboso.
It was only hours after doctors had switched off life support machines on Laboso but Edwin Abonyo hardly betrayed any emotion.
The man who had spent decades working behind the scenes would during the period before his wife’s burial to worm his way into the hearts of many by his dignity in loss.
Laboso succumbed to cancer after along treatment both in Nairobi, the United Kingdom and India.
Exactly three months on today, the father of Ted, Brian, Marco and Mina told the Star in an exclusive interview that he has been living in hell since his wife’s demise.
Abonyo said his family is still struggling to come to terms with the loss.
Describing a difficult phase of his life strength and humour, Abonyo told the Star that though he appear the strongest when the grief was fresh, he was the most affected of his family.
Abonyo said watching his wife endure the pain and see life slowly ebb away from her body sapped strength out of him, leaving a gaping hole in his heart.
“I have cried a lot in private. Whenever I step in our house, our room, in particular, the emotions come fresh. I remember everything and the memories kill me,” Abonyo said.
At some point, his eldest son Brian and his foster daughter walked in to join the conversation with the Star.
“June and July were the hardest as her situation got worse. Organ failures, swelling of the leg, her inability to walk and being bedridden went in quick succession,” Brian said.
Even more excruciating, he said, was watching her choke in pain with intravenous tubes all over her as the aggressive tumour grew, undeterred by the rigorous chemo and radiotherapies.
Even more gut-wrenching, Abonyo added, was the fact that he knew his wife had a slim chance of making it “as science records very few treatment success rates for second-time relapse of cancer.”
“In fact, at some point, I told the doctors not to actively resuscitate her as the pain became overbearing and her chances were growing negligible. I did the same for my mother, mother in law,” he added.
Abonyo said that he has not re-arranged the house and even the wardrobes in his city, Sotik and Fort Ternan homes.
In fact, there is still a picture of the former governor, a condolence book and four reddish candles sitting on a small table at the entrance corridor leading to his living room, depicting a mourning mood in the Kilimani, Nairobi home.
Even at Fort Ternan home, they put fresh flowers every time they travel back, which is every weekend, he said.
Abonyo said when Laboso’s cancer recurred, he was a fearful man, knowing that her survival chances were rapidly dwindling.
“When my wife first got diagnosed in the early 90s at Nairobi Hospital, I stopped all I was doing and drove to Nyalenda in Kisumu where my parents were living to cry at their feet,” he said. “I told them Joyce was dying.”
Though Laboso survived this, he relived the experience when Laboso gave him a call from the US that she had been rediagnosed with it, only that this time, he did not run to cry to his parents.
Abonyo and his son Brian Ochieng’ said Laboso’s relapse was detected at MD Anderson Cancer Centre in the US when she went there on an official trip, sourcing for medical equipment and areas of partnership for her Bomet administration.
“She then just decided to take advantage of the trip to the facility to check herself. She was not feeling any pain at the time but I had observed she would complain of being tied frequently while here,” Abonyo said.
“When I got that call, I was devastated. I told her to wind up her trip and travel home so we start treatment,” he said.
As his wife received care from medics, he would feel a part of him was waste away.
“I had been away for 15 years and I thought coming back would allow me to be with mum and the family for a good time. This was not to be. It’s been a tearful period,” Brian said.
After the burial, Brian said, he remained at their For Ternan home for two weeks after everybody had returned to the city, an experience which left him lonely, only accompanied his mother’s grave.
“Every time I would see the grave, I would be broken. But we have tried to smart out of it because we are not the first to be bereaved,” he said.
For Mina, entering her parent’s room and seeing the belongings of the former governor brings back the pain afresh.
“It has been a traumatic experience. All of us lost weight and I, in fact, got white hair,” Mina, who served the governor as her private secretary in all her public life, said.
Sh2 million bill
Abonyo said while he tried to clear all the hospital bills with the help of the state and friends, it is not yet done.
He said with his son Brian, they were recently surprised to receive communication from the London hospital demanding Sh2 million arrears.
“Together with my son, we cleared with the hospital, so we were surprised to have the bill,” he said.
“I however told them that we actually lost the patient, and since then they went silent. So we don’t know whether they will pursue it or let it slide,” added.
Expressing his profuse gratitude to friends who helped, Abonyo said, however, that not all the platitudes at his wife’s funeral were truthful.
“Politicians are notorious liars. In fact, when we heard what they would say, we sometimes just retreated with Brian to laugh,” he said.
“But [President] Uhuru is a good man,” he added.
“The state must be well appreciated. It afforded us much help. Joyce also had numerous friends who were loyal, genuine and true,” he added.
Among the friends he mentioned were Nairobi speaker Beatrice Elachi who, he said, visited them in London and spent nights with the governor at Nairobi Hospital.
CAS Rachel Shebesh, governors Anne Waiguru and Charity Ngilu, he said, also proved genuine friends.
Justin and Selena’s love story and eventual fall out has now been exposed years after their breakup.
Selena Gomez released a new song from her forthcoming third album called “Lose You to Love Me.” on October 23. It’s about letting go of a toxic ex in order to learn self-love.
Fans are saying every lyric in the song screams Justin Beiber.
In the song, she talks about all the times they got back together, and being warned against him by family, plus a breakdown because of the toll the relationship was taking on her.
“This song was inspired by many things that have happened in my life since releasing my last album,” the 27-year-old said in a statement. “I want people to feel hope and to know you will come out the other side stronger and a better version of yourself.”
Bieber and Gomez dated on and off from 2010 to 2018, before splitting for good in March 2018. Bieber got back together with Hailey Baldwin, and they wed.
Here are lyrics: “You promised the world and I fell for it / I put you first and you adored it.” The song starts off with this line, like a reference to when Gomez reconciled with Bieber in 2017, despite her mom’s concerns. According to online reports, Selena and her mum argued about this, and her mum unfollowed her on social media and was hospitalized.
“I saw the signs and I ignored it / Rose-colored glasses all distorted.” Gomez and Bieber dated on and off again from 2010 to 2018, and despite all the cheating allegations and reported fighting, Gomez still defended her decision to get back with Bieber in 2017.
“We’d always go into it blindly.” Selena repeats about all the times they got back together.
“This dance, it was killing me softly.” This also seems like a reference to their multiple breakups and how their tumultuous relationship was taking a toll on her.
“I gave my all and they all know it.” Because so much of Bieber and Gomez’s relationship was public, fans know how much Gomez really tried to make things work with Bieber.
“In two months, you replaced us / Like it was easy.” This is perhaps the most telling lyric. Gomez and Bieber broke up for good in March 2018, and two months later, rumors went viral that he had reunited with now wife Hailey Baldwin.
“I needed to lose you to love me.” Ultimately, Gomez needed to break from Bieber to learn to love herself. “And now the chapter is closed and done.” Bieber and Baldwin held two weddign ceremonies in 2018 and 2019, so it’s a wrap.
“And now it’s goodbye, it’s goodbye for us.” This is basically Gomez’s goodbye letter to Bieber.
They say a healthy relationship is one where both parties fully trust each other without reservation.
If your guy doesn’t trust you, is it because of his own insecurities? This was the discussion on Classic 105 morning conversation with Maina and Kingangi.
Mwalimu was of the opinion that women do things to raise the red flag.
He added, ‘When you see a man keep quiet he is observing, you can’t just get up and go.’
What are the reasons for lack of trust? Have you behaved in a way or done something specifically that would make your partner not have trust in you? What kind of relationship is it and what are your goals for the relationship?
Here are four signs your partner doesn’t trust you
1. They check your phone multiple times
Do they consistently steal your phone away from you to check what you’ve been up to? Does it happen anytime you leave their sight most of all?
This can be one of the most frustrating expressions of mistrust because it’s an invasion of your privacy.
2. They ask a lot of probing questions
Does your partner ask you probing-type questions constantly? Questions such as:
Why did you take so long?
Why are you going there?
How long are you going to be there?
Who are you with?
If it seems that every moment of every day– or very frequently, at least– they demand to know where you are, what you’re doing, and who you’re with, they have big trust issues.
3. They have this need to know where you are at all times and perhaps will accompany you
If you feel like you’re being kept under close surveillance, there are probably some serious trust issues about.
One of the more common behaviors is calling the people or places you said you’d be at to confirm that you’re there or to check social for the same reasons, always trying to keep tabs on your position and pouncing anytime you can’t be located.
4. They attempt to control your behavior
One much more serious sign that your partner doesn’t trust you is by using controlling behavior in a broader sense.
As opposed to simply checking up on your location or questioning you frequently, the person might seek to control where you go and who you spend time with, dictating how you live your day-to-day life in an effort to make themselves feel better about their insecurity.
Dear Classic 105 fam, what other signs are there to suggest your partner doesn’t trust you? Drop your comments below, we will share them.
Jacque Maribe’s addressing her relationship status with ex boo Jowie.
Jowie proposed to Maribe on July 30, 2018, in a surprise moment witnessed by her best friends. They served us couple goals until last September when the devil visited their relationship.
Both Maribe and Jowie were arrested in connection with the murder of businesswoman Monica Kimani and put behind bars. But after several court hearings, Maribe was granted bail while Jowie, the main suspect in Monica’s murder, was taken to Kamiti.
Before she was even released on bail, Jacque removed her engagement ring, a clear sign that the gloves of love had fallen off. She even went ahead to delete photos from her engagement party from her Instagram page.
Well, the former Citizen TV political affairs journalist, who publicly revealed that Eric Omondi is the father of her son, is a happy soul.
The singer, who was interviewed by Wasafi, recently spoke about her current man who loves her the way she is. Yes, even looking like a Teletubby!
The socialite mentioned that she met her boyfriend Jimmy Chansa, who is from Tanzania, while she was in TZ,
‘We met here in Tanzania. We started communicating and what followed was dating. I feel like a hopeless romantic and when I fall in love, I do for real. We have so many things in common and he is the love of my life. I really do love him. We have been dating for five months now,’ she said.
She added that the two connect and this doesn’t feel like all the bad toxic relationships she has been in before.
‘When you meet someone, you feel like he is the one. It’s not a matter of time but respect and understanding. I’m 30 and I think I’m ready for kids. I am a keeper unless I can’t take it. My relationship with a Nigerian guy was abusive, I had to leave.’
It is interesting that Miss Sidika is open to having a kid at the moment. After the catastrophic aftermath of her break-up with Otile, she revealed that she wasn’t ready to have a kid with him because she didn’t think he could handle fatherhood.
Chansa must really have made a great impression on her after dating for only 5 months. Otile should take notes…Had to take a shot at him. I just had to.
Allan is a young man who is open to experience a relationship with a sugar mummy.
He called Dr Love on Classic 105, asking for help in landing the woman of his dreams.
Dr Love hooks up people on the mapenzi show, unfortunately he could not help Alan for this reason.
Dr Love explains his predicament about this particular kind of dating arrangement.
‘I have done hookups here as far as sugar mummys go but without much success. I think there are better places to find sugar mummys. You should go to places where these women hang out, like church and find older ladies who want younger men to do things with them.’
Here are some suggestions where you can find a sugar mummy
1. Golf clubs: These older women enjoy a good game of golf, and kick back after a long day.
2. Church: These older women always congregate in churches for all sorts of meeting. Make sure you have a schedule of all meetings to take place for older women.
3. Country music concerts: If you can develop some interest in mugithi, then you can be sure you will land the sugar mummy of your dreams.
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