Tag: Kenyan Men

Battered Kenyan woman exposes husband after he heard this rumor about her

Posted on by Caren Nyota

Cases of domestic violence have been rampant of late. Everyday, many report cases of women who have been abused by their husbands, relatives or even the public (matatu crew) but not all of them get justice.

Human rights activists and gender-based violence organizations have always been on the forefront working towards eradicating all forms of violence against women and girls in Kenya, but it seems violence against women is not going to end anytime soon.

A Kenyan woman, identified as Leah Wambui, is a victim of domestic violence and she has finally spoken out about it for the first time.

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The young mother took to social media to share her story of how she was thoroughly battered by her husband, disfiguring her lips. According to Leah, this is not the first time she has been beaten by her husband. He is used to it.

“Domestic violence at its worst, some of us still suffer in silence but not anymore nimeamua kutoa sauti. Ongea usikike,” she wrote on her Facebook account

Wambui went ahead to reveal that her husband had heard some rumour that’s why he battered her. He then begged for forgiveness later on after confirming that there was nothing serious about the rumour he had heard. Wambui has fled her home and she is currently being housed by her friend and she is calling upon well-wishers to help her.

“Ladies, may this never happen to you in the name of love. I have learned it the hard way. Some men are evil and will never change. Don’t waste your time hoping its gonna get better ruuuuuun because it only gets worse. The guy tore my clothes before my kids after hitting me hard over a rumour he heard. Continue reading “Battered Kenyan woman exposes husband after he heard this rumor about her” →

‘Young Ladies Just Waste Their Time With SPONSORS For Money And Expect To Get Married When They’re Older’ Kenyan Man Cries Out (AUDIO)

Posted on by Cynthia Misiki

Nowadays, there are a lot of ladies who are 35 years and above and have not settled down.

For some, it’s because they just don’t need a man in their lives, but for others, they claim that they haven’t found a man who meets their standards.

Larry Asego recently revealed that he has a 35-year-old lady friend, who informed him that she hasn’t settled down because she hasn’t found a man who meets her standards.

Other than that, she went on to say that her family has been pressuring her to find a man to settle down with and start a family, something that’s totally bothering her because she doesn’t understand why they are pushing her so much.

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“Is it such a big deal if a woman is 35 years and is not married?” asked Larry Asego, who didn’t get what the big deal is if a woman is not yet married at that age.

‘Stop Showing Off Your Cleavage,’ KTN’s Yvonne Okwara Gives Her CANDID Advice To Single Women On How To Attract a GOOD Men

Now, a regular listener called in and revealed that the reason women get to 35 and are not married, is because they waste their younger years with sponsors and when they get older, they realize it’s too late and no man wants to be with them.

He went on to add that; “What are they waiting for, as for me, I think hakuna right man for these ladies, as long as you have money.”

Listen to the full audio below as this irritated Kenyan man attacks women who are wasting their years with sponsors.

 

‘I Found Out That My WIFE Was a Prostitute’ Confesses a Troubled Kenyan Man (AUDIO)

Posted on by Cynthia Misiki

A Kenyan man has come out to reveal he found out that his wife was doing dirty business at night when he goes out to work on night shifts.

This came out during Maina Kageni’s breakfast show, where the top radio presenter was asking why married men are always telling bachelors not to get married.

During his conversations in the morning, Maina Kageni revealed that he has realised that men who have settled down always advise their single brothers not to get married, and he couldn’t help but wonder why.

Ati Ki? Kenyan Man Reveals How His Wife Is Jealous To The Point Where She Doesn’t Trust Him With Her Mother (AUDIO)

So, as usual, Maina gave the opportunity to Kenyan men, so that they can finally speak out and open up on what really goes on in their marriages and why having a wife is apparently such a bad experience.

That’s when a troubled Kenyan man decided to share and talk about his ex-wife, who was apparently a prostitute. According to the man, he found his wife taking a shower at 2 am when he was coming from work.

GHAI! Kenyan Man Reveals How His Wife Of One Year CHEATED On Him With His Blood BROTHER (AUDIO)

When he asked the lady, she didn’t answer him, then he decided that he will do his investigation, and true to his doubts, he found out that the lady was actually leaving the house when he went to work at night.

The 33-year-old added that even his neighbors confirmed that the woman would go outside immediately he left the house for work, and after he had gathered enough proof and found out that she used to be a sex worker, he decided to call it quits.

Listen to all the shocking details below.

 

 

‘My Husband Just SLEEPS And Does Nothing The Whole Day’ Cries Out a Kenyan Lady Married To a JOBLESS Man For 7 Years (AUDIO)

Posted on by Cynthia Misiki

Ladies, would agree to be the one footing the bills and waking up to go to work to fend for your husband and kids? And how long can you maintain a jobless man before you kick him to the curb?

This was the question Maina Kageni posed to listeners after a Kenyan lady revealed that her man has not had a job for 20 years and that she’s been footing all the bills, educating the kids and paying for insurance.

The conversation arose after women came out to defend themselves after men attacked and accused them of being ‘gold diggers’ and money lovers.

“I Left My Wife Because She Was OVERLY RELIGIOUS” Cries Out a Troubled Kenyan Man (AUDIO)

According to men, women make money and wealth a priority when it comes to relationships, and that when a man is broke, women don’t want anything to do with him, or when he runs out of money, she walks away from him.

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It was at this point that women decided to reveal that they also do support men who are jobless, refuting the claims that money comes first in a relationship and making it clear that it’s their duty to support their families.

One particular caller came out to confess that her husband doesn’t work nor does he even try to get a job, or support her in any way. She went on to add that she leaves him sleeping as she wakes up to go and toil.

“As we are talking, niko job and he is in the house, sleeping,” said the devastated woman, who revealed that he’s been jobless for the last 7 years and that he’s never given her even a coin.

Listen as she narrates her story in the audio below, as the Kenyan lady reveals how she’s the pillar of her family, but can’t leave the man, because of her son.

 

 

 

 

Nani Kama Mama! Kenyan Man Reveals How His Mother Donated Her Liver To Save His Life And His Painful Ordeal

Posted on by Caren Nyota

Remember Anthony Maina Ng’ang’a? Well, he is the Kenyan man who left many shedding tears after he narrated how God saved him from death.

In 2015, Maina developed a liver disease that changed the colour his eyes to yellow (Jaundice) and was forced to undergo treatment in India. With the help of well-wishers, Maina managed to raise money and traveled abroad.

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“ON THE LEFT THAT’S ME IN DECEMBER 2015 ON THE RIGHT IT’S ME ON MY BIRTHDAY 31ST AUGUST 2016. AND ON THAT NOTE MAY GOD GIVE YOU ALL A GOODNIGHT, COUNTING THE DAYS LEFT FOR ME TO RETURN TO KENYA,”

Maina shared after a successful transplant while still in India.

Well, Anthony Maina is back home. His health has improved compared to last year when he was ailing. He is a happy man finally.

On 13th June this year, Maina took to Facebook to thank God for giving him another chance to live and also his mother who donated her liver to him. Here is what he posted.

“Today marks one year since my liver transplant.
Last year a day like today I underwent a surgery that took more than 15 hours. I know it was by the hand of God that I survived it. I still remember what the doctor told me when I was able to walk. ‘You gave me a scare young man you should be really grateful to God.’
Happy rebirth to me and I’d like to thank my mother for giving me her liver.”

Here is the new photo he shared

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Isn’t God great?

Kenyans are overwhelmed and here is what some of them had to say;

Gracie: Nani kama mama? We thank God for mamas.

Mariam: Proud of your mom, may God give her internal liver…

Njoroge: God is great always, thanks to your mom too, you look awesomely healthy brother

Terry: Kindly can someone tell me what happened to his mother after removing her liver. Did she survive after that? Mother’s love is pure indeed!

Anthony: Maina Ng’ang’a, your mom surely deserves a standing ovation. She is a true definition of a selfless mom

Esther: Jehovah is indeed faithful when people write a negative verdict about Your life and God says otherwise. You will live long! Your mom is a blessing!

Liz: We thank God for your loving mom, for enabling her to do this for you, I pray that God grants you both good health, love. Please love your mom, most of all God who has made all this possible

Ati Ki? Kenyan Man Reveals How His Wife Is Jealous To The Point Where She Doesn’t Trust Him With Her Mother (AUDIO)

Posted on by Cynthia Misiki

A Kenyan man recently revealed how he found out that his wife was having an affair with his father.The surprising thing about all this is that he didn’t blame the father, but rather put all the blame on the wife, saying that she was the one tempting him.

The surprising thing about all this is that he didn’t blame the father, but rather put all the blame on the wife, saying that she was the one tempting him.

This conversation prompted Maina Kageni to ask men why they blame their women if they found out that she was romantically involved with the father, and not the dads themselves.

As the discussion went on, a certain revealed that he never allows men to look at his wife, and when they try to, he warns them to keep their eyes of his woman and stop ogling.

It was then that another married man decided to give his experience, saying that it’s not just a problem men have, but that women also get too insecure in public.

The man revealed how he has a very insecure wife who gets mad whenever another woman gives him a stare, to the point that she gets jealous even when the sister is friendly with him.

At some point, during his birthday, wife’s mother brought him a cake, which did not go well with her. The wife got mad and didn’t talk to the husband for days.

When the married man called Maina Kageni, he revealed that they were not in good terms with wife, saying that he doesn’t know what to do about her insecurity, yet he’s never cheated on her. Listen to the interesting confession below.

 

“I Found Used Condoms Under Our Matrimonial BED But I Can’t LEAVE Him” Cries Out a Married Kenyan Lady (AUDIO)

Posted on by Cynthia Misiki

Girls, what would you do if you found used condoms under your matrimonial bed and it wasn’t you who used them with your husband or boyfriend?

This is the dilemma that one certain woman is going through after she found out used condoms in her bedroom and when she asked the man, he claimed that it was his friend who used the room. Funny I know!

Maina Kageni was discussing the issue of men who cheat, on his popular breakfast show, after some male callers revealed that it hurts more when their women cheat on them.

Different men called in to give their experiences where their wives were unfaithful as some of them took the chance to criticize women who stray, and in the middle of the conversation, a woman shocked listeners when she confessed that she knows her man cheats but she can’t leave.

According to the anonymous lady, she has severally found used condoms in her bedroom and when she questions her husbands where they came from, he gives lame excuses.

At one point, he told her that it was his friends who used the bedroom and left the condoms there, and another time, he found a woman in their house after he had lied that he’s with the cousins.

This woman has been married for 10 years and despite all the cheating evidence, she still can’t leave the husband after all the hurtful things he’s done to her. Find out why this is so in the shocking audio below.

 

 

 

Kenyan Man Confesses How He Found Out That Two Of His Children ARE NOT HIS. The Way He Handled It Will SHOCK You (AUDIO)

Posted on by Cynthia Misiki

This week, Maina Kageni ‘s breakfast show has featured some pretty heated conversations about women and how they change after marriage.

The discussion started when the top radio personality asked men why some of them stay with a woman for years, only to pack up and leave one day without marrying her.

This elicited sharp reactions from Kenyan men who defended themselves, revealing that they put up with alot from their wives but choose to keep quiet about it to avoid ridicule.

During a conversation about how some women become liars and ‘devils’ after getting married, a man revealed how he found out that his wife had HIV, which she contracted when he was working away from home.

This confession encouraged others to reveal many family secrets and some challenges they face with their wives.

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A certain caller, who didn’t identify himself, called in to reveal how he discovered that out of his four children, two were not his. The two are twins.

The married man opened up to Maina Kageni, saying that he found out about three months ago after doing a DNA test, that he was not their biological father.

“I’m raising two that are not mine. I have done a DNA test Maina. I have four kids, two are twins are the other two are still twins,” the man started by explaining.

The surprising part is that he hasn’t told the wife or discussed this with her and has decided to pretend and stay in the marriage until the kids are all grown then he will walk away.

Listen to the startling confession below.

 

 

SHOCKING! Kenyan Man Confesses How He Found Out His Wife Had HIV And Still Forgave Her (AUDIO)

Posted on by Cynthia Misiki

Just when you start to think that marriage is easy, more married people come out to reveal details that can make one think twice about settling down, that’s if you are still single.

On Maina Kageni’s breakfast show, a man came out to reveal that he settled down with a woman but when they moved in together, she changed, becoming a liar, and just wasting time in the house doing nothing, all the while accusing him of having affairs.

The interesting part is that they are still living together, and are ‘happily’ married.

The shocking part of the morning talk was when the married man called Maina Kageni to reveal that his wife is HIV positive while he’s not, something that happened a few years back when he started working out of town.

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The man disclosed that she was his college sweetheart and they now have a child together, however after a year together she cheated on him and contracted the virus. Inspite of this he forgave her for the sake of their child.

Maina Kageni was perturbed by this story of how this forgiving man continues to live with the wife knowing that she contracted the virus when he was busy toiling hard for them.

The caller confessed this on national radio, saying that he decided to stay because of the child and also so that he can take care of her because he feels it’s his obligation.

Men, would you forgive your wife if she did this to you? Listen as the man opens up about his situation below.

 

 

 

 

If You Thought Online Dating Doesn’t Work, Think Again

Posted on by Tracy Mutinda

Kenyan WomenWe have heard on countless occasions of people who visit different dating sites looking for love. Well, that is not necessarily the case, as some people just sign in to see what exactly the sites are all about or what they have to offer.

The world out here is cruel, and hearts have been broken. The next option that people feel will work for them is definitely the dating sites.

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Gone are the days when one would wet their pillows with endless tears just because a guy or lady has left them.

At first, the whole dating site culture was more of a Western thing. Most of us learned about this from movies, although movies tend to exaggerate most parts of it.

Well, the dating sites are not only valued in Western countries, but in Kenya, too. Yes, we too are interested in finding the one that completes us.

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Reports indicate that 14% of Kenyans are actually using different dating sites to find their true love. The reports continue to reveal that women are actually the biggest participants, with 8 out of 10 women finding the one they’ve been dreaming of.

The dating sites indeed do help individuals to find their lost soulmate, and if you are still doubting this, you need Jesus.

Nairobi Woman Turns Down Mpango wa Kando’s Exotic Holiday, Still Loves Jobless Husband

Posted on by Caren Nyota

Dear Kenyan men, do not generalise all women. Don’t call her promiscuous, lazy, immature, golddigger or stingy just because you dated someone who possessed all these characters at some point in your life. There are a few who are decent, loving, kind and faithful. They are ready to build an empire with you from scratch to something.

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Well, a Kenyan woman has left Kenyans talking for days after she made certain confessions about her mpango wa kando (side dish). The woman, who didn’t want her identity revealed, claimed that her mpango wa kando is a wealthy man and they recently planned to celebrate her birthday in Mauritius, one of the beautiful countries in Africa. But she ‘pulled out’. The married woman further went ahead to confess how she loves her jobless husband and children and won’t ruin her marriage just because of money.

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“Good morning mums
I need advice.. don’t bother running to my profile it’s protected.
So I met this guy sometimes last year.We’ve always been in touch just casual greetings until early this year he showed interest in me. He knows I’m married, he’s married too but still wanted us to have a relationship.

I refused but 1 week ago I gave in after looking at the bright side of it. This man was going to transform my life I felt it. He’s development conscious and not this kawa sponsors. We’ll we’d even planned a vacation to Mauritius, and I was to get a car from him on my birthday(BTW he’s very rich). But something behind has been telling me all this is wrong…. so last night. I looked at my beautiful children, my husband (who is jobless by the way) and decided wacha tuteseke but ain’t going on with the relationship. I sent him a long text and ended things which he accepted like a gentleman..

I sent him a long text and ended things which he accepted like a gentleman..Now tell me ,did I throw away an opportunity of a lifetime ama I did the right thing? NB I haven’t slept with him.

NB I haven’t slept with him.
No judging me please…..thank you,” she posted.

The post attracted a lot of comments with many fellow married women congratulating her for the brave decision. Check out some of the comments.

Lynn: You made a very wise decision dear, may God protect your marriage.

Ruth: Kudos dear, the money factor is very tempting, but never let it get into your head.God will reward you, just be patient Continue reading “Nairobi Woman Turns Down Mpango wa Kando’s Exotic Holiday, Still Loves Jobless Husband” →

Dear ladies, here is how to know that you are dating an ‘ancestor’

Posted on by Caren Nyota

It’s always a dream or rather wish of any woman to have a good life, a nice husband, and family. To many, this come true but to some, it doesn’t. We have seen many women of our generations ‘make it’ thanks to the new crop of men i.e sponsors who spend all their savings on these beauties. From showering them with expensive gifts to renting them luxurious apartments in the city’s suburbs, these species of men (sponsors) have indeed saved many from poverty.

Sponsors come in different ages. We have ancestors someone; who is twice your age and fossils; who are your father’s agemates or your grandpa’s age or even older. Dear ladies, here are 8 ways to tell that your sponsor is a fossil (someone old enough to be your grandfather and here are some of the interesting answers I got

1. Dress code

He wears those shiny oversized suits, a hat, and a leather jacket is a must (starter pack ya sponsor). They always dress as if they are going for horse racing events and so should you. He will never allow you to dress skimpily. If you spot a chic in a club dressed in a trouser, knee length boots, a leather jacket, and t-shirt, be sure she is with her sponsor.

 

2. Music

His type of music says it all. A fossil cannot take you to to a classy joint. He will take you to Mugithii Night or at his local somewhere in Kiambu, Muthiga, Dagoretti Corner or somewhere around Ruaka or Donholm for mbuzi choma and guaranas.

 

3. No selfies

He will never allow you to take photos of him or you two when you’re together. They are ‘allergic’ to photos maybe because they are old and rarely have social media accounts. They have a Whatsapp group where they exchange photos of naked women and discuss how they would smash if they are given a chance.

 

4. Choice of drinks

A fossil will never buy you Moet or other expensive drinks (izo onea tu kwa adverts). Most of they like these Guarana-guzzling generation. He will buy you a six pack knowing that you will pay letter in kindness. And for him, he only takes beer (local beer to be precise).

 

5. ‘Come with your friends’

He will always ask you to tag along with your friends whenever he invites you out. This is a chance for him to prey on your friends so be careful! Next time he will ask you for a threesome. Ladies, if your man asks you to invite your friends don’t.

 

6. Hang out joints

They will always hang out at their friends’ local pub. Every time he invites you out just know unapelekwa pale kwa Njoroge for mutura and supu ya kichwa. They like promoting their friends.

 

7. Oh! He will never satisfy you in bed. He cannot last long. Most are one minute men.

 

MEN TAKE NOTE! This Has To Be The Most Romantic Kenyan Man, Listen To How He Thinks Women Should Be Treated (AUDIO)

Posted on by Cynthia Misiki

There has been a discussion going on about trust in marriages and how women have issues with their husbands to the point where they trust their pastors more than their spouses.

According to a new online poll, women trust their pastors more, followed by their children, and then their male supervisors at work and at number four, their husbands, results that shocked Kenyan men.

Maina Kageni decided that it would be nice to go to the root of the problem and find out what the main issue is and how often men take the time to have deep, intimate talks with their wives.

Basically, the popular radio presenter had this one question to the men; “When is the last time you had a deep, decent and honest conversation with your better half? And I’m not talking about a conversation about rent, school fees, money, gas, and electricity.”

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As it turns out, a lot of men were offended by the online poll which revealed that they were number four when it comes to the trust scale from their wives, with some even telling Maina Kageni that’s why they even cheat on them.

Most men called in ranting about how their women are not loyal, and how they have guts to go talk to other men, with others saying their role in the family is to look for money and pay for bills and not engage in lovely dovey and personal talks.

But in the midst of all the negative comments, there was this particular man who was saddened by how Kenyan men blame their women for everything, even when they know at times it’s their fault and they don’t even put any effort to make things work, like talking to them.

He described how a real man is the one who treats his woman right, spends time with her, gets romantic, compliments her and that way, she will trust him and open up more.

Listen to the sweet, loving man below, this is one romantic Kenyan man who knows how to treat a lady.

 

OH NO! Married Men Express Their Disappointment After Poll Reveals That Women Trust Pastors More Than Their Husbands (AUDIO)

Posted on by Cynthia Misiki

Looks like married life is not as easy as couples make it look from the outside.

So, a new online poll suggests that women trust their pastors more than they trust their husbands, and that’s not all.

Other than the women trusting their pastors more, the poll also suggested that men rank number four in this hierarchy of trust, with women trusting their pastors first, then their children, their male supervisors at work and then their husbands.

This came as a shock to Maina Kageni, who posed the question to caller on why women don’t have trust in their husbands at all, is it the man’s fault or is it the women who just want to seek attention outside?

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One of the reasons people get married is because they have love and trust for each other, so what happens when you can’t trust the person who should be the love of your life or when you find out that your wife can’t trust you?

You would think that for a married woman, the only other person she would trust other than her parents, would be her better half since he is the one she decided to spend the rest of her life with.

When Maina Kageni revealed the results of this online poll, Kenyan men did not take it lightly, with most of them ranting about how their wives are ungrateful and show them, love, thus they end up cheating on them.

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But it was not just the men who were angered by this poll, there’s a certain female caller who defended the men, telling the women that even pastors are men and can also turn against them later on since they are also human beings.

Listen to the short audio below as married men candidly open up to Maina Kageni.

 

 

 

Kenyan Single Mothers Reveal The Agony They Go Through Dealing With Unsupportive Dads (Audio)

Posted on by Cynthia Misiki

There was a very interesting discussion today on Maina and King’ang’i in the morning, as the issue of men who abandon their children went on another level, with women revealing the hardships they go through as single mothers.

Maina asked the listeners a straight forward question about dead beat dads; “Should men who abandon their children when they are young deserve to part of their lives later on?”

Why would a man demand to be part of a child’s life much later when they are grown up yet he rejected him/her and disowned the mother when she was pregnant and has never cared how she makes ends met or if the kid is going to school or if they have basic needs?

This conversation sparked a lot of reactions from both men and women to the point where a married man revealed that he has more than 20 children outside wedlock and was not ashamed to admit that he does not bother about them.

Listen to the drama on the audio below.

 

 

 

Here Is The Shocking Reason Kenyan Men Are So Frustrated With Their Mother-In-Laws

Posted on by Cynthia Misiki

This week started off with an interesting conversation on the morning show with Maina and King’ang’i, about how parents are nowadays ruining the institution of marriage by encouraging their children to walk out at the slightest sign of stress or trouble.

This is in comparison to the old times when parents would advice their daughters or sons to stick in marriages through thick and thin, despite the challenges.

In regards to this, Kenyan men have now come out to reveal how mother-in-laws frustrate them by demanding financial support, yet they still have families to take care of. Maina Kageni’s big question today was: “what is wrong with a mother demanding that her son-in-law be financially stable?”

Well, this question sparked a lot of reactions from male callers. Listen to their rant below as they explain how they have to part with cash to financially support their wife’s family.

A Kenyan Married Man Reveals How He Allows His Wife To Keep In Touch With Her Ex-boyfriend

Posted on by Cynthia Misiki

This issue of keeping in touch with exes is still on people’s minds. This comes hot on the heels of Prince William’s visit to Kenya where he also attended his ex-girlfriend’s wedding in Isiolo last weekend.

A Classic 105 listener revealed on air that he has no problem with his wife keeping in touch with her ex-boyfriend, as long as he doesn’t cross set boundaries because the guy is still obsessed with her and even follows her to her workplace and home.

The male caller apparently allows them to keep in touch because after all he is the one who won her heart and eventually married her. This comment sparked a lot of reactions from other male and female callers during the morning conversation with Maina Kageni and King’ang’i.

Listen to the audio below to hear their opinions.