“He is more emotional than I am” – whispers Millie wa Jesus

The Wa Jesus family have been trending on our social timelines for all the good reasons, including the recent announcement that they are expectant.

Two other couples are expecting anew bundle of joy: namely Kambua and the Bahati’s.

However what the fans do not know is that not only is Milly wa Jesus emotional, she was quick to add that the husband was more emotional than her.

She disclosed this in an exclusive interview with Classic 105  saying,

He is basically emotional.

He is more emotional than I am.

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Well Kabi had something to add on to that saying that his perspective about marriage was different and that having married the love of his life was the best thing that could have happened to him.

He added that when getting into a relationship with someone should be so important that that person knows your past well enough to help you make a better future and that is what Milly did for him.

In his words he said;

Growing up in Kayole I never thought I would get married in a church.

I knew I would get married but my perspective was getting married but if it would fail one could always opt out but she changed that narrative.

Even during the proposal I was very emotional but I thought I had to be strong because it was live on television.

I had to keep my composure but I was so happy I couldn’t even keep calm.

 

 

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Tips: 10 ways for ladies to get over a breakup

It is normal to fall in love and be in a relationship. The problem comes when you break up and you find it difficult to get over it. Here are some of the ways to get over a breakup easily;

Tokeo la picha la breakup

 

Rebound. After the breakup, look for a strange person if you are comfortable with it. The guy should be an upgrade from your ex and don’t be in a rush with it. Spend time with him and talk about social matters, be good friends. This will probably help you forget about the past experience that you had.

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Create an ex-free environment. When in a relationship, we tend to create good memories which includes taking photos and buying each other gifts. This is important as it helps you remember about your ex. When you have broken up with your ex, it necessary to avoid or do away with anything that makes you remember what you had. Avoid visiting the places that you used to visit together during your happy moments, cooking their best meals, watching their favorites movies and also do away with all the gifts and anything that relates to them.

Avoid giving your relationship details to social media. This includes updating all your relationship statuses to your facebook walls. Once you breakup with the same person it will be hard to accept the fact that all those memories were all in vain as it is done. Once you delete the photos and all that you will make people curious into investigating your personal life.

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Avoid his friends and family. Meeting his friends and family will not only brig memories back but also make high chances of you two meeting. If invited to parties with his friends avoid going because you are likely to meet him there. It will be more hurting especially if he moved on already and you still have feelings.

Don’t blame yourself. Once you break up have it in mind that the mistake did not involve you alone, both of you. It may be that you messed up but it again involves two parties. When you start blaming yourself, you will  probably never get over it. Stay as positive as you can, and that everything happens for a reason.

Cry. This is one way of letting your feelings out. You may be so hurt that you just want to scream your lungs out. If that makes you feel better then it’s allowed for you to do so. You will notice that after crying you will be somehow relieved.

Tokeo la picha la crying

Don’t be friends with him. At times you may feel that you cannot be without him hence you opt for friendship. This will never help as you may find one party wants to be more than friends yet the other is not interested at all because they found a new bae. You need to forget your past and carry on with life.

Cut your conversation with your ex. This involves contact, and not following them on all social media platforms. This will prevent you from stalking them online.

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Do not talk bad about them. This should be avoided especially when you are sharing your experience with your friends. Sometimes they can have pity on you making you to feel even more hurt that you never deserved the heartbreak.

Do not talk about your ex to your current. At times you may argue with your boyfriend and be like,’ my ex used to do this, my ex used to tell me that’, This shows that you have not yet given up on your past. This can also put your current relationship at risk because no one likes to be compared with exes.

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5 unrealistic things guys expect from girls

 

Trying to make sense of what a man wants from you can be difficult.

 

But here is a rundown of some of the things that guys expect from girls, that tend to cause a strain in relationships.
1. He needs a friend with benefit, but will never marry a girl who has had many relationships

Expecting a girl to be your friend with benefit for life is unrealistic. Won’t she find someone to marry, and wait just one minute is that even possible to be a friend with benefit for life?

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I have heard it said from many men that there are two types of chicks – the one to have funwith and – the one to marry.

 

2. Girls are expected to be natural ( we love you natural girls) but at the same time she must be super stunning

Even the moon has dark spots.
Okay, a girl can look good while being natural. But how can she manage to look SUPER S3XY without makeup. Sure, girls have natural beauty, but it doesn’t mean that you can expect her to look like you wish. Shouldn’t guys expect that a girl be caring, honest and all those nice things?

3. Be committed but not wedding crazy

Every girl has planned her wedding by the time she is done with college, whether or not she has a man.

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So expecting to date her without any mention of future plans is unrealistic.

The marriage topic WILL ALWAYS come up, and if she is committed to you, the subject will be there.

 

4. Being low maintenance while looking high maintenance

The expectation is that she should be both, but not trying too much.

If you want her to look like a “high maintenance” girl, you need to spend money on her for maintenance. The word itself says “high maintenance,” How can you expect her to look the same with almost no money?

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5. Being distant while still showing interest

Now this is confusing to girls. She can’t be turned on and off like a switch.

Guys, either you are in or you are out.

Is this true and what have you done when faced with such a situation?

The touching message from the wife of the late former 400M champion Nicholas Bett’s wife

It’s barely three months since former 400m hurdles champion Nicholas Bett went to be with the Lord.

 

The sprinter was involved in a grisly road accident early August while driving to upcountry, where he had an appointment with his doctor. He perished barely 24 hours after representing the country at a competition in Asaba, Nigeria

Bett had two wives though the second wife was not welcomed to his funeral by his family. The champion and his first wife Gladys were blessed with three kids while he had one daughter named Kylie with his second wife Brenda.

Nicholas Bett

The champion was later laid to rest and his second wife, who he lived with in Nairobi’s Lang’ata estate was barred from stepping anywhere near his family’s home.

The mother of one is yet to come to terms with the death of her lover and she shared a tearjerking message which read;

OUR LIFE IN ONE PICTURE
THERE’S NO AMOUNT OF ANYTHING THAT WOULD MAKE ME FORGET ABOUT US BABES
IT’S CLEAR WE WILL NEVER GET ONE LIKE YOU💔
KYLIE WILL NEVER SEE THE LOVE YOU SHOWED HER
I WISH YOU YOU COULD ALITTLE BIT MORE

MEMORIES IS ALL WE GOT NOW 💜💜🖤🖤🖤
LOVE IS GONE… PHYSICAL REMAIN A MYSTERY 🖤🖤🖤
WE LOVE YOU TILL WE MEET AGAIN PAPA KOKOO

Brenda went ahead to share another post, reminiscing the good times they spent together.

I WISH GOD COULD GIVE US MORE YEARS
THE SUPPORT 💐 GREAT FATHER TO KYLIE 💐💐💐🌷🌹 LOVE PAPAA
IT’S SO UNFORTUNATE THAT WE CANT LAUGH AND DANCE TOGETHER THE KENENE SONGS
I MISS YOU BABIE I MISS YOU SO MUCH 😭😭😭🌹.

Nicholas Bett
Late Nicholas Bett with his daughter

On October 10, Mashujaa day, The young widow celebrated her husband in a sweet message that read:

HAPPY MASHUJAA DAY PAPS GREAT LEGEND OF MINE # KENYAN HERO LOVE YOU SWEETHEART. HEROES NEVER DIE 💐💐💐💐🌺🌺🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪 FROM ME AND KYLIE @ IMARA DAIMA.

Nicholas Bett

In another message, she wrote:

HOW I MISS US 😥😥
I WISH I WAS GIVEN MORE YEARS TO LIVE WITH YOU
WE HAD A GREAT FUTURE 😥
THE HEARTACHE IS INCURABLE
YOU LEFT A HOLE THAT NO ONE WILL EVER FILL IN OUR HEARTS
WE MISS YOU PAPAA ❤️
TILL WE MEET AGAIN NICHOLAS BETT WITH LOVE ❤️.

 

Brenda is slowly getting back on her feet and her latest post, she wrote;

IT’S ABOUT GOD THAT I CAN STILL AFFORD TO SMILE

Nicholas Bett's second wife
Bett’s second wife