Horrified women slam rule book which details ’30 ways to keep your husband’

Horrified women have slammed a rule book which claims to detail the ’30 ways to keep your husband’.

The list of rules was posted to US-based Facebook page ‘That’s it, I’m wedding shaming’, by an anonymous guest who revealed it had been posted to a wedding planning group she was part of.

The controversial guidelines include the advice to ‘never to raise your voice at your husband’ and to ‘provide regular sex so he doesn’t stray’, and the unnamed original author claimed that many of the points were backed up by passages from the bible.

Posting the screengrabs to the page, the horrified guest wrote: ‘Titled ’30 ways to keep your husband’ and shared in a wedding planning group. So many people were happily tagging their partners!’.

Women have been left horrified by a list of 30 rules for keeping your husband, posted to a US-based Facebook page, claiming that women should submit to their partners in every way (stock image)

The advice quickly racked up over a thousand likes and outraged comments.

Titled ‘Every woman should read these godly rules for women’, the first rule on behavior reads: ‘Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. It’s a sign of disrespect’.

Referring to housework, another reads: ‘Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties’.

And perhaps the most controversial rule advised women to keep their husband satisfied in the bedroom department – or another woman would.

30 ways for a ‘godly woman’ to keep her husband

Every woman should read these 30 rules for godly women.

Men: Your future wife should read this

1. Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. It’s a sign of disrespect.

2. Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other’s keeper.

3. Never use attitudes and moods to communicate with your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don’t have a happy home.

4. 4. Never compare your husband to other men, you’ve no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his ego, his love for you will diminish.

5. Never ill treat your husband’s friends because you don’t like them, the person who’s supposed to get rid of them is your husband.

6. Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.

7. Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.

8. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.

9. Never be a wasteful wife. Your husband’s sweat is too previous to be wasted.

10. Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to men. If you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long (even the anointed ones).

11. Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.

12. Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.

13. Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don’t do that.

14. Don’t forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.

15. Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

16. Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks

17. Your parents of family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don’t waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave

18. Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?

19. Don’t forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bedrock of every happy home.

20. If your idea is better than his, never compare yourself to him. It’s always teamwork.

21. Don’t be too judgmental to your husband. No man wants a nagging wife

22. A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn’t even know that her body needs a bath.

23. Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try change your cooking. No man jokes with food.

24. Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.

25. Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.

26. Don’t associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.

27. Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.

28. Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.

29. You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.

30. A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family

-Dailymail

Kenyan woman narrates how she used witchcraft to steal someone’s husband

Like Jim Reeves sang, this world is not my home I’m just a passing through, that is exactly my to go song whenever I hear/witness nasty stuff.

Well I have been humming to that jam the last few days, after one chic called in and confessed to using Kamuti on someone’s husband.

According to the chic named Cate, she has a moneyed ka sponsor who is obviously someone’s husband. She revealed that thanks to her mom’s assistance, she uses kamuti to keep the man hypnotized for their own benefits.

She says that her mother who is a mganga, helps her get some bizarre stuff which she mixes in the poor man’s food to get him hooked. In return she gets monetary benefits in exchange for sex.

After being with the sponsor for a few years, the man has already bought Cate and her mom a house while his wife and kids live in a rented house.

Read her confession below.

Siku hizi mapenzi lazima uingize kamuti. Mimi nilikuwa na date bwana ya wenyewe lakini mganga aliniambia nimpatie private parts za crocodile.

First mamangu mwenyewe kwanza ni mganga, sasa ananipatia namuekea kwa chakula, ana perform na hakuna mahali ataenda.

Wakati wa kula zile chakula, unajifanya mgonjwa ili yeye mwenyewe ale.

Why didn’t she look for her own husband?

Mwanaume mwenyewe ni mtamu, nimekuwa naye kwa miaka miwili na siwezi mzalia kwani nataka tu pesa. Mapenzi ninayompa ni ya uchawi.

How much does she get from the sponsor?

Per day yule jamaa huniwachia elfu tano bora tu nimuoshe miguu na nimpe kila kitu anataka.

Mimi nimenunuliwa nyumba na bibi yake ndiye anakodisha, mimi mambo ya kukodisha siwezi. Akileta nyokonyoko tutamfukuza na mamangu kwani kila kitu tume register na mamangu kwa jina langu.

Mimi nampa dawa kila siku na ikiisha nguvu narudi, akiruka akili.

Listen to the audio HERE

Newly wed husband hangs himself after fighting with wife following three miscarriages

A newlywed husband hanged himself following a row with his wife ahead of her starting IVF following three miscarriages, an inquest has heard.

Jack Gilbert, 28, and his spouse of one year Gemma were due to undergo IVF after she suffered three miscarriages.

But just three days before they were due to start the course, the couple – who had just celebrated their first wedding anniversary – had a row following which she blocked his calls and text messages.

Mr Gilbert, a joiner, was later found dead at his mother’s home in Adswood, near Stockport in Greater Manchester.

Inquiries revealed that, in the hours before the tragedy, Mr Gilbert had gone to watch the World Cup second round match between England and Columbia.

Videos of him recorded on the night of the match show him looking ‘so happy’ and singing and cheering – but tests showed he had been taking cocaine.

An inquest in Stockport heard the Gilberts had married in July 2017 at the luxurious Tudor Hall in Hale Barns near Altrincham and soon began trying for a baby.

Mrs Gilbert in her 20s, said in a statement: ‘We had a whirlwind romance. Jack had a little boy called Archie with his ex-girlfriend and we saw him a lot.

‘He proposed to me in Tenerife and we got married at Tudor Hall in Hale Barns. We had a few ups and downs, we were trying for a baby.

‘In February 2018 we lost a baby and Jack left home for three days and would not answer my calls or texts. On July 3, 2018 we argued again and he called me names and checked my phone.

‘I told him he had no right. I said something like ‘go get it out your system’ and told him to come back when we were on the same wavelength.

‘I met him in the pub though and he seemed happy to see me. When we were leaving, I told him that my brother was angry about the way he had been treating me. He was really angry and just went back into the pub.

‘I spoke to him the following morning and we argued. I spent the day with a friend and wanted to clear my head for a bit. I didn’t find out that he died until I turned my phone on at about 11pm.

‘He never gave any indication that he would harm himself. We had only just celebrated our first wedding anniversary and were hoping to start our own family.’

Mr Gilbert’s mother Michelle Mulvihill told the hearing: ‘Jack was a lovely person. He was very popular and kind-hearted. He worked hard and had many friends.

‘He was a massive part of our family. We were always together, all of us. He was a great dad. I did not think he had any problems with his mental health whatsoever. He was a smiley, happy person.

‘He got married to Gemma about a year before he died. They had been arguing, they were due to start IVF on the Saturday. Gemma had three miscarriages so there was quite a lot of stress.

‘But the arguments were nothing more than you would expect. He had just won a massive contract at work. Everything was going great. He only drank alcohol socially at weekends like any other 28-year-old.’

Recalling the days leading up to the tragedy, she added: ‘On July 3 I came home from work and my eldest daughter asked if she could take me out for tea. Jack rang me and asked if I could come pick him up. I would never say no to him, that night I told him I was out for tea.

‘He said he was already at the pub with some friends watching the England match but said that his suitcase was at my house for good. It was about 8 o’clock when I told him to make his own way home.

‘I rang after the game to see if he wanted picking him but he didn’t pick up. There are videos of him that evening when they had won and was singing and cheering, he looks so happy.

‘When I got up for work the next morning I looked in the bedroom and he was not there. I had been calling him all morning and got through to him in the afternoon, he just said he had stayed at a friend’s house.

‘He sounded tired but nothing that I would not expect. He spoke to his sister on the phone as well, I just told him to get some rest.

‘I got home from work at about 6pm. I went into the bedroom and the bed looked like it was quite messed up as though someone had been on it but he was not there. Then I found him in the bathroom.’

The hearing was told Mr Gilbert’s GP records show that he never reported having any symptoms of depression or anxiety and was never prescribed any medication for his mental health.

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‘My Husband Is A Chronic Womanizer,’ Cries Frustrated Married Woman

A frustrated married woman has narrated her sad marriage life leaving many shocked. According to this woman, her husband, a father of her child has been mistreating her and he even disrespects her and parents.

She claims her husband has turned into a party animal, is a wife batterer and dates young girls and working-class women. This further claims that she indeed wanted to save her marriage but her husband’s actions speak a lot. Clearly, he doesn’t want anything to do with her again.

Here is her full story. Go through;

“I have been in this marriage for almost 5 years now and God has blessed me with one kid. The sad thing is my husband is frustrating me to leave. He hasn’t verbally asked me to but his actions speak volumes.

My husband is a chronic womanizer who jumps from single ladies to married women. He is also an entrepreneur and we both run the same business but he owns the business. Right under my nose, he dates the young girls and women working for us as long as he likes them.

He doesn’t respect me at all. He beats me up any time I confront him about his illicit affairs. His family is not helping on this matters because they always back him up. The problem now is that he has stopped eating my food and he comes home anytime he likes. I have separated my room from his because of his lifestyle. He has stopped telling me when he is going out and where he is going to. He goes in and out any time he likes and however, he pleases. He has also told me to stop telling him when I am going out.

I’m confused because he doesn’t even see me as his wife again. I have prayed and I have been to several churches for solutions but to no avail. He embarrasses me in the presence of our employees as he wishes. I am no longer finding it funny and he is always telling everyone including his family members that I want to kill and that I am also having affair which is not true.

He doesn’t have any respect for my parents and my family members. He wants to frustrate me to move out on my own so that he can then tell his family and mine that I moved out on my own. I really don’t know what to do, so I need your candid advice to avoid making regrettable mistakes.”

Credits: Motherhoodinstyle

From Grass To Grace: This Is The Humble Story Of The 100 Bob Wedding Groom

Many have talked about the 100 bob wedding couple. Their simplistic life and pure love for each other has touched everyone who has come across their life story. Well, here is a background story on the 100 bob groom, Wilson Mutura Wanjohi.

Wilson was employed as a fruit seller at Kasarani. Note: He did not own the fruit stand, he was an employee. That did not stop him from loving his job and executing it to the best of his abilities.

According to social media activist Ndungu Nyoro, Wilson was passionate about everything he did from his job to serving the church as a choir member.

HE SAYS,”WHEN IT CAME TO CHURCH MATTERS, HE SERVED GOD WITH ALL HIS HEART AND SOUL. HE IS A MEMBER OF PRAISE AND WORSHIP TEAM. THE MORNING BEFORE THEIR KSHS 100 WEDDING, HE DANCED PASSIONATELY DURING PRAISE AND WORSHIP SESSION BEFORE DASHING TO BUY THE TWO RINGS THAT WOULD BE USED FOR THEIR ‘CEREMONY’. WILSON HAPPILY WEDDED ANNE IN THE SIMPLEST WEDDING OF THE YEAR. AND BECAUSE HE HONOURED GOD, OUR LORD HONOURED HIM TOO.”

The couple had a grand do-over wedding on Valentine’s day surrounded by friends and family. Check out the photos in the link below.

From 100 Bob Wedding To Sh 3.5M Ceremony, Check Out These Heartwarming Pics

Wilson is still stunned at how his life has changed. He doesn’t have to go back to his job as a fruit vendor but rather, he can become a supplier of fruits and fresh produce to his former boss. They got a 1 million bob wedding present that will cater for that.

Posting a photo of his days as fruit vendor beside the photos of his honeymoon, Wilson wrote on his Facebook page,

“COMPARE NOW, GOD IS ALWAYS FAITHFUL.”

Wilson Mutura

Eunice Njeri Talks About Her Valentine’s Day Plans (AUDIO)

Eunice Njeri is one of the most popular praise and worship gospel artists in the land. Don’t take my word for it, just check out how many views her songs get on Youtube and the number of times her songs are requested on gospel shows.

Word went round recently that she had opted to call it quits on her marriage and hadn’t even bothered to sign her marriage certificate. She didn’t just divorce Izzo Raps, she annulled their marriage -she literally refreshed everything like it had never happened!

Eunice Njeri Announces Separation From ‘Husband’ Just Few Months After Tying The Knot

Understandingly, she has been dodging the media ever since she broke news of the annulment on her social media profiles. She was a smart enough to control the narrative then refused to say more than she was willing to.

‘Why I Am Alone This Valentine’s Day,’ Gospel Star Mbuvi Explains

Our questions were thus left hanging…

Her silence has been pervasive until today. I called her up and asked after her plans for Valentines and when she heard it was Uncle Chim Tuna calling, she acquiesced and gave a short statement:

Girls, Do You Sometimes Look At Your Husband And Regret Marrying Him? Asks Maina Kageni (AUDIO)

Emmy Kosgei Makes Sweet Admission About Her Marriage To Apostle Anselm

It is Valentine’s day and people are showing the colour of their heart. And it bleeds love -nothing but love. However, Emmy Kosgei has made an interesting revelation about her relationship with Apostle Anselm Madubuko.

Emmy Kosgei doesn’t shy away from showing off her love for the man of God who is almost twice her age.

Fans have been waiting for the award-winning megastar known for hits like Taai and Taunet Nelel to announce the eventual addition to the family.

Here’s How Emmy Kosgei Inspires Us To Celebrate Our BFF’s This Weekend

Emmy Kosgei’s Valentine’s message dripped of nothing but love.

“I love this man.. he is the best thing that happened to me! I’m blessed with a loving and prayerful man, I’m blessed that I didn’t miss my divine moment.. Anselm Madubuko you mean the world to me! I’m wiser, deeper in things of God, you’ve made me a better person! You’ve shown me love and care.. I feel so special????????????????????… Nkem!” she wrote.

She also revealed that marriages are hard work, especially after Eunice Njeri’s lasted 24-hours.

EMMY WROTE, “YOU ARE THE GOD I SEE????????..I LOVE YOU TO THE MOON AND BEYOND..! I DONT TAKE THIS FOR GRANTED COZ MANY MARRIAGES ARE GOING THRU FIRE,OTHERS HAVE DIVORCED,OTHERS ARE HANGING IN THERE,OTHERS ARE HEARTBROKEN… I AM GREATFUL HUN.AND I KEEP THEM IN PRAYERS.. MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU FOR ME! MAY HE GRANT YOU GRACE, WISDOM, HEALTH, LONGEVITY AND FRESH OIL AS YOU CARRY OUT YOUR APOSTOLIC MANDATE AS A GENERAL AND FATHER TO NATIONS! I LOVE YOU!❤ “YOUR NUBIAN QUEEN”

‘Why I Am Alone This Valentine’s Day,’ Gospel Star Mbuvi Explains

Valentine’s Day is a day for all those love birds who make the single people cringe. Thus it is probably the worst time to be alone as you watch everyone else couple up, but for renown gospel artiste, Mbuvi, he really has no choice.

It seems Mbuvi will be spending his Valentine’s all alone. The star was linked to the gorgeous Kambua before she was stolen away from the life of singlehood by, Pastor Jackson Mathu.

Drama Free! Top 10 Kenyan Gospel Artistes Who Have Managed To Keep Scandals Away

So, is the Kwata Kawire singer single and available? Has he found someone to warm his bed? Why is he spending Valentine’s all alone?

Mbuvi explained,

“NO I AM NOT AVAILABLE. I AM ACTUALLY DATING SOMEONE, BUT WE HAVE AGREED TO KEEP IT ON THE DOWN LOW. UNFORTUNATELY THIS VALENTINES I AM WORKING, I’LL BE MAKING A CELEBRITY APPEARANCE AT THE AFTER 40 HOTEL IN TOWN SO I CAN’T TAKE MY BABY ALONG.”

Being a celeb comes with its own issues, while regular people flaunt their bae’s with no second thought celebs have to think twice.

Exposing your significant other to the drama of publicity and constant attention from fans can cause serious issues in the relationship.

Though some celebs choose to go public with their relationships, Mbuvi has chosen to keep private things private.

He says:

“THE DINE WITH THE STAR’S CAMPAIGN THAT I AM HEADLINING WILL HAVE A LOT OF MEDIA ATTENTION SO I CAN’T COME WITH MY GIRLFRIEND. I GUESS THIS VALENTINE I WILL HAVE TO FLY SOLO.”

Do You Remember Taking Your Date To These Places Back In The Day?

From 100 Bob Wedding To Sh 3.5M Ceremony, Check Out These Heartwarming Pics

Today’s wedding is a far cry from this couple’s 100 bob wedding officiated back on January 30th, 2017. Wilson Wanjohi and Anne Muhonja is the proud couple who have been blessed with a Sh 3.5 million bob wedding. Now they look like a million dollar couple.

Beside the Sh 3.5 million do-over wedding, Wilson and Anne also got other presents like an-all-expense paid honeymoon in Diani.

Pesa Otas! 100 Bob Wedding Couple Can Now Own Millions

The five-day trip saw the couple soak up the sun at a 4-star hotel at the coast.

Another well-wisher blessed them with an even better present that will help then eke out a living and be productive members of society.

From 100 Bob Wedding To 4-Star Hotel! Humble Couple Fly Off To Beach Side Honeymoon After Social Media Blows Up

 

Here are photos from the lavish wedding…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Happy Valentine’s everyone!

Janet Mbugua’s Hubby Narrates How Painful It Was Seeing Her During Childbirth

Beautiful TV news anchor and mother, Janet Mbugua, has started opening up by posting intimate memories about her and her new family.

Following in her footsteps is her hubby, Eddie Ndichu.

Eddie has written about his harrowing experience hours before Janet Mbugua gave birth to their son, Huru.

“IT HAS BEEN OVER 14 MONTHS BUT I REMEMBER THE DAY VIVIDLY. I WAS ESCORTED TO THE DOCTORS CHANGING ROOMS TO WEAR PAIR OF SCRUBS. I WAS SHAKING WITH NERVES. I COULDN’T FEEL MY ENTIRE BODY AS I CHANGED. THE THOUGHTS GOING THROUGH MY HEAD WERE THAT THIS IS REALLY HAPPENING AND THAT MY WIFE IS ON A TABLE ALL BY HERSELF. I SHOULD RUSH. IS THERE SOMETHING I COULD HAVE DONE TO PREPARE FOR THIS MOMENT?” Eddie wrote in Janet Mbugua’s blog.

READ; Menstrual Leave Is Now A Thing! Should Women Have 1 Day Off Per Month During Their Periods?


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JANET-SON

 

“I MAKE IT INTO THE THEATRE AND FIND HER SMALL BODY  ON THE TABLE ALL COVERED IN SURGICAL CLOTH. SHE SMILES AND I SEE SHE IS AWAKE AND NERVOUS. SHE SAYS, “I CAN’T FEEL ANYTHING”. SO I HOLD HER HAND AND KISS HER FOREHEAD GENTLY. I SAID TO HER, “THIS IS REALLY HAPPENING”. OUR CHARMING DOCTOR NARRATES, “NOT FAR TO GO… ANY MINUTE NOW”, AS HIS TEAM OPERATES ON MY WIFE. BY THIS TIME I AM SWEATING. ALL I COULD HOPE IS THAT HE IS GOING TO BE IN ONE PIECE. TWO EYES, TWO EARS, TEN FINGERS AND TOES. IS HE GOING TO BE OF SOUND MIND? HAVE ALL HIS BODY PARTS DEVELOPED COMPLETELY? WILL HE BREATHE, WILL HE CRY? THEN IN A MATTER OF SECONDS THE DOCTOR LITERALLY FLINGS HIM IN THE AIR AND SAYS ‘HERE HE IS’! THIS TINY LITTLE BODY HANGING IN THE AIR COVERED IN MUCUS. I BARELY GOT A GLIMPSE OF HIS FACE BEFORE THEY SENT HIM HAVE HIS CORD CUT. I SEE TEARS ON MY WIFE’S FACE AS SHE LAYS HELPLESSLY. I COULD SEE HOW BADLY SHE WANTED TO HOLD HIM. I CLENCH HER HAND EVEN TIGHTER AND CONSOLE HER. HE WAS WHISKED AWAY FOR NORMAL CHECKS AND A WIPE DOWN. THE DOCTOR ALLOWS ME TO GO AROUND AND WATCH THE NURSE AND HIM. IN MY EXCITEMENT I GO AROUND THE FROM WHERE MY DEAR WIFE IS CUT OPEN…. THAT’S FOR ANOTHER BLOG!!!,” HE CONTINUED.

If Your Guy Does These 16 Things, Congrats! You’ve Found A Real Man

Let’s get straight into this:

1. He is hygienic, but cleans his nails and trims his nose hairs outside of a nail salon.

2. He can balance both swag and sophistication and a career and a personal life without too many proverbial exclamation points (and certainly not multiple ones in a text message. No, no, no).

3. He reserves his “LOL” for actual laughter, which he exudes out loud and often.

4. He isn’t looking to play “pen pal” with you through your iPhone because he knows that all text and no play makes Johnny a very dull boy.

5. When he’s interested in a woman, he doesn’t wait three days to call her, but he does actually call her, and when he does, he asks her out for dinner, makes reservations, picks a great bottle of wine (because he knows how to) and then makes sure she gets home safely.

6. If he wants to see her again, he lets her know, and if he doesn’t, he politely lets her know that it was a pleasure to spend time with her, even if it wasn’t. He does, however, let her know gently and firmly enough that he’s not interested so that she doesn’t waste her time thinking it might become something it won’t.

7. He reads actual books and newspapers and holds opinions on everything from scotch pairings to world events all the while understanding that not all of his opinions are facts and that not everyone has to agree with him in order for him to maintain his relationships or his manhood. In fact, he enjoys it when you don’t agree with him because it means he gets to indulge you in a good debate or leave you thinking a little bit harder about things than when you sat down in front of him.

8. He opens doors and takes coats, not because he feels a woman is weak, but because he is strong enough to show that he cares about the comfort of those around him.

9. Sure, he might want to get into a woman’s bed, but he’s also interested in getting into her head as experience has shown him that seduction is a delicate dance and the man who resides in her mind has conquered every other part of her.

10. He appreciates a woman who shows she cares for him, but he isn’t interested in being courted. He enjoys taking the lead in courting and doesn’t need to be “chased” because he’s in desperate need of an ego stroke. He also won’t play “puppy dog” to a woman who takes advantage of this.

11. He doesn’t look to be anyone’s father or savior, and he doesn’t pretend to be the leading man in any woman’s fairy tale. He’s just a man looking for a partner who can slay her own dragons, pay her own bills and explore the world alongside him.

12. He looks for a woman who doesn’t need him, but wants him, not for money or the happiness or a baby or a safety net, but solely for who he is.

13. He has a career, a hobby, a family of close friends and a favorite way to have his steak prepared and he isn’t the least bit intimidated when the woman in front of him shares these qualities; quite the contrary, it makes him want her more.

14. He has taken the time to get to know himself and has a strong understanding of his own character and convictions, what he values and what he doesn’t. He is a man who is honest with himself about himself and therefore is OK being honest with those around him.

15. He takes as much pride in the way he treats women he’s with as he does his job and the way he looks.

16. He’s not the bad boy, a good boy, or a boy at all; he’s a man. A leading man, and he’s looking not for a good girl, but a great woman. One who shares all of the solid qualities that he brings to the table, and perhaps, can teach him something along the way. He’s willing to wait and work for this woman, to fight for her and will gladly hold out for her as long as he needs to. But when she comes along, he doesn’t sit on the fence; he’s smart enough to know when he’s gotten damned lucky. And when she finds him, she should be smart enough to know the same.

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Are First Wives A Mistake, Replaced By Mpango Wa Kando?

Today’s conversation was about men , their wives and their mpango wa kando. Alot of men say that there is a reason why they have mpango wa kando and those who don’t have are different.

The reason why a man has a mpango wa kando is because the first wife was a mistake and they are trying to correct it.

The men who do not have mpango wa kando is because they got it right the first time.

Mwalimu agreed to this and said that most men are trapped by pregnancies and women who move in and won’t leave.

Here is what the listeners had to say:

Woman Gate Crushes Her Own Funeral After Husband Plotted To Kill Her

A woman in Australia surprised her family and husband by showing up at her own funeral.

According to BBC, the husband to Noel Rukundo had hired hitmen to kill her while she took a trip from Australia to her native country Burundi.

Reports from Australia Broadcasting Corporation, say her husband had paid the equivalent of 7 million shillings to have his wife ‘finished’.

She was accosted by the gunmen who instead of killing her showed her the evidence of payment and telephone conversation between them and her husband. They then told her that they do not kill women and children and let her go.

Afterwards they called the man and asked for more money claiming to have finished the job. Balenga then informed relatives and friends that his wife had died in a road accident and began the funeral arrangements.

Rukundo was able to get her husband to confess that he wanted to murder her after she “surprised” him at her own funeral. The man has since been found guilty of attempted murder and is currently serving a 9 year sentence in Melbourne.

Marriage ‘Ni Kuvumilia’ If He Is Cheating On You

In marriage the best thing ‘ni kuvumilia’ , according to a lady caller this morning.

During the morning show. Maina Kageni and Mwalimu Kingangi had an interesting conversation with a woman caller, who said Kenyan women must accept the reality that their husband has another woman, and there is nothing you can do about that, based on her experience.

According to the caller, if he is providing you with everything, your should not stop him from having another woman. Its that simple, she argued.

While some callers agreed with this woman’s statement, others protested this notion with a female caller saying that no one has to suck up to someone who is cheating.

Listen to audio of the conversation Maina had with his listeners below:

 

Are You An Instagram Boyfriend/Husband?

We all know those people who always have pictures of themselves looking all gorgeous and fine on Instagram, and they usually fill our feed with their pictures.

Most of the pictures are of themselves either eating, drinking, showing off shoes, a new outfit, dancing, waking up you name it …the pictures are not selfies which they would ordinarily take themselves.

Question is who takes these pictures? In most cases it is the boyfriends and husbands of these women who are behind the cameras, or it could be the ‘sponsor’.

These disgruntled men have now set up with a website instagramhusband.com where they share their experiences and sympathize with each other.

They posted a video about what they go through, watch it here:

 

Woman Sends A Rather Odd Birthday Wish To Her Husband

A woman from Sierra Leone took to Facebook to wish her husband a happy birthday, but unlike what would be expected the message wasn’t sweet or encouraging, in fact it was quite the opposite.

Florence Campbell, wished her husband nothing but pain and suffering and also prayed that the wrath of God befalls him for the pain he has put her through.

She then proceeded to post photos of herself with injuries inflicted on her, allegedly by her husband who she says will soon be her ex as she has filed for divorce with the case starting today.

Happy birthday my husband and would be ex-husband James Alphonso Campbell the most wicked and voilent man I have ever…

Posted by Florence Sabo Campbell on Sunday, December 6, 2015

Friends, family, sympathisers and Co – victims.I thank you and appreciate all your support you’ve given to me but you…

Posted by Florence Sabo Campbell on Monday, December 7, 2015

Study: Sharing A Husband Is Not Such A Bad Idea

Polygyny – refers to situations where one man has multiple wives – narrow from of polygamy.  New research has found that the practice of sharing a husband may, in some circumstances, lead to greater health and wealth for women and their children.

Most countries around the globe ban or restrict marriages to not more than one spouse at a time. And polygyny is decried by the United Nations Human Rights Commission and women’s rights organizations as discriminatory to women.

For the study, the researchers compared polygynous and monogamous households in 56 villages in northern Tanzania, where polygyny is widespread among certain ethnic groups, including the Maasai. When comparing households within individual villages, polygynous households often had better access to food and healthier children.

Polygynous households also owned more cattle and farmed more land than monogamous households. These findings support evolutionary anthropological accounts of marriage indicating that polygyny can be in a woman’s strategic interest when women depend on men for resources.

The research highlighted the importance of local context in studying the health implications of cultural practices and suggests that in some settings, prohibiting polygyny could be disadvantageous to women by restricting their marriage options.

Tanzania faces a high burden of food insecurity and malnutrition. Previous research showed that nearly 60 percent of Tanzanian Maasai children experience stunting.

“Our study suggests that highly polygynous, predominantly Maasai, villages do poorly not because of polygyny, but because of vulnerability to drought, low service provision and broader socio-political disadvantages,” lead author of the study David Lawson from London School of Hygiene & Tropical Medicine explained.

The study was published in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.

Man Arrested For Pimping His Wife To 2,742 Men

The institution of marriage is one that should remain sacred as it has always been from the beginning, but that is not the case with this couple currently embroiled in a legal battle.

A husband ‘hired out’ his wife for sex with 2,742 different clients in just four years, a court was told.

The 54-year-old man, who cannot be named for legal reasons, made the equivalent of more than £5000 close to a million shillings a month through the suburban prostitution business.

As his wife, who is 46, welcomed clients, he would sit outside their home in in the family car, along with their five-year-old child.

The couple, who have been married for 10 years, were arrested last Tuesday, but only the man was charged with pimping, and faces a decade in prison.

Prostitution is legal in France, but it is against the law to solicit for business. The man is said to have used four internet sites and text messages to organise clients for his wife. He now faces a criminal trial, and has been released on bail. 

-Dailymail