Here’s How To Tell If She’s More Than A Friend To Him

Your man has this female friend that makes you uncomfortable for some reason but he always assures you that there is nothing going on between them. This might be true, but in some cases there is more than meets the eye.

You constantly feel like you’re in competition with this girl but again he reassures you that “She’s just a friend” your intuition tells you that it’s more than that. How do you confirm your suspicions ?

1. He Talks Glowingly About Her – When he talks about her, you see his eyes glaze over with the look that you thought he reserved just for you. It’s the look your man gave you when you first met and fell in love. If you see that starry look in his eyes when he talks about her, danger is lurking.

2. He Runs To Her With His Problems – You are his girlfriend and hence if he has a problem he will run to you with it. But if she gets to know about his issues before you do then there is a problem one that you need to be keen on.

3. Spends time alone with her – If there’s always something that the two of them have to do together alone, keep a watchful eye on their behavior. They might try to justify it by saying that this is their “friend thing”, or that they’ve always done this together and you can join them next time. Maybe it’s true, but don’t let them blind side you with a dramatic turn in your relationship where you find yourself alone.

4. Find her things around – The most common excuse is “she has no space at her house” so he thought he could keep them for her. Granted it may be true and whatever it is that she being stored is what you need to be keen on. Her clothes for instance, hair brushes, shoes etc are very personal items that could mean there’s more to it.

5. He’s There For Her When She Needs A Man’s Helping Hand – If her car breaks down she will call him and he will be there to sort it out. She needs to move out, plumbing,painting etc If your man is always responsive to her requests …. then fish and find out.

6. He Takes Her Calls When He’s With You – Even worse, he walks away from you so that he can talk with her in private. If he doesn’t want you to listen in on their conversation, this is a serious danger sign that she’s more than “just a friend”.

7. He Acts Jealous When She Has A Date – In his eyes, no other guy is good enough for his “girl” friend, and you get to listen to his criticism of the guys she goes out with. You may feel puzzled by his overzealous critique of her suitors and wonder why he’s so picky about who she dates if they’re “just friends”.

8. They Have inside stories and jokes – When you’re all hanging out together and they seem to share a private joke that you know nothing about, that’s a danger sign — especially if they don’t want to cue you in on the joke so that you can laugh with them. Their private stories could indicate a private, secret relationship that doesn’t include you.

9. You Catch Him In Half-Truths About Her – Your boyfriend knows that you don’t like him hanging out with his female “friend”, so he “forgets” to tell you they went to the movies together or hung out alone at her apartment. Anything short of complete honesty and transparency when it comes to his “friend” could signal a relationship that’s moving OUT of the friend zone.

Boy gets banned from school for wearing a fake bomb

A US high school student has been suspended after strapping a fake bomb to his waist to ask a girl to prom.

Ibrahim Ahmad wore the bogus suicide belt in a questionable bid to win a date with classmate Rilea Wolfe.

The 18-year-old was suspended for five days from the school after the stunt.

Fortunately for him the girl said yes, but the disciplinary action will keep him from attending Saturday night’s prom, reports the Columbian.

The teenager said he was inspired to make the fake bomb by stuffing red paper tubes attached to red wires into the pockets of a paintball vest.

Ibrahim took to the stage in the cafeteria at lunchtime and held a sign that read: “I kno it’s A little Late, But I’m kinda…THE BOMB! Rilea, Will U Be My Date To Prom?”

He told the Columbian: “I’m Middle Eastern, and I thought the bomb was kind of funny and clever. He says he wore it for less than a minute, asked her out , then took a picture and took it off, but the school administration got upset.

But Mark Mansell, superintendent of the school district, said the student’s stunt showed “blatant disrespect, given the way the world is today and school safety, even if one parent or one student was upset about this, it causes issues,” he told the Columbian.

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Baby girl gives “birth” to twins

A baby girl with a rare, mysterious medical condition was found to be ‘pregnant’ with twins when born.

The girl, born to Chinese mainland parents in Queen Elizabeth Hospital Hong Kong, had to undergo surgery at just three weeks old to remove them.

The foetuses, 8 to 10 weeks gestated, had legs, arms, a spine, rib cage and intestines.

Both were also covered in skin one weighed 14.2 grammes and the other 9.3 grammes – and each had an umbilical cord.

The surgery was successful and the girl was discharged from hospital eight days later.

The condition, known as foetus in fetu occurs in just one in 500,000 births in the world and less than 200 cases have ever been reported.

Doctors are yet to fully understand what causes the condition.

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The two foetuses in the stomach (Picture: Hong Kong Medical Journal)

MCA jailed 15years for defiling a minor

Member of County Assembly was sentenced to 15 years imprisonment over a defilement offense by a Migori court on Friday.

Lukas Masa Hura will also serve a separate three month jail term or pay a fine of sh10, 000 after he was convicted for an offence of escaping from custody on a day he was arrested for defiling a 13-year-old schoolgirl in Kuria East Sub County.

Rongo Senior Resident Magistrate Purity Rugut said the prosecution had proved beyond reasonable doubt that Hura, who served as a County Representative for Ntimaru East Ward, had committed the offence of defiling the class six pupil at a local primary school.

“The Prosecution had effectively showed through the evidences adduced before court that the accused had assaulted the minor on May 11, 2014,” said the Judge in her two hour judgment.

The Court had earlier heard that the MCA committed the offence at a lodging where he had forcefully dragged the girl into the room after he lured her into the premises.

Details provided to the prosecution by the minor indicated how the politician held hostage the victim for several hours before she was saved by Police from Ntimaru police station who had been alerted by members of the public at around 7pm.

In her long narrative to the court, the girl had earlier stated that she had gone to collect charcoal and vegetables from her mother at Ntimaru market but while on her way back home, the MCA pounced on her and dragged her into a nearby bar before pushing her into a room where he defiled her.

But the accused who made a self-defense in court after dropping his long time lawyer on accusation of not being serious with his case told the court that on the material day, he was at his home celebrating a newborn son.

“I never saw any police officers then, and if I had done anything wrong, they would have come for me. They only arrested me on May 20, 2014 while I was headed for the County Assembly in Migori Town,” he said.

But a report by police had indicated that after he was arrested, he managed to escape from two policemen.

A medical officer from Ntimaru District Hospital, where the girl was taken for screening to ascertain if she was defiled, testified in the case and told the court that the alleged act was confirmed after the victim was presented at the facility.

The medical officer testified despite failure by the Government Chemist to establish a DNA link between the fluids taken from the victim’s linen and those of the accused politician.

Magistrate Rugut said: “Whereas the evidence of Government Analyst showed that there was no link between DNA profile of the accused person and prosecution witness number one(the girl), the medical evidence of Prosecution witness number six(the clinical officer from Kehancha District Hospital) confirmed that the girl’s hymen was broken subsequently corroborating the evidence.

“Although the accused is a first offender and I do reckon that the court’s hands in sexual offences are tied. I proceed to sentence him for 15 years in jail for defiling the minor,” the magistrate said.

The Rongo law courts were cordoned by a contingent of policemen who ensured that there was no interference during the court process that took over 30 minutes.

The case was supposed to be heard at the Kehancha Law Courts but authorities took caution against crowd trouble and moved it to Rongo more than 100 kilometers away.

– The Star

14 year old girl arrested for killing husband with rat poison

A teenage girl is accused of murdering her 35-year-old husband and three others by lacing food she had prepared for a post-marriage celebration with rat poison.

Wasila Tasi’u allegedly asked a seven-year-old to buy the poison from a nearby shop – hours before the four people died suddenly after eating the same meal on 5 April.

Prosecutors believe the 14-year-old had regretted her marriage to Umar Sani, a farmer with several wives, and was looking for a way out.

The prosecution is seeking the death penalty in the case.

The child bride, from the village of Unguwar Yansoro, had sobbed quietly when she first appeared at Gezawa High Court in northern Nigeria. During the latest hearing, she entered a plea of not guilty.

Abdulrahim Ibrahim, their neighbour, has claimed he was offered some of the food, but “noticed some sandy-like particles, black in colour”.

He told the judge: “I was not comfortable with the taste. It was only Umar who continued eating.”

The four deaths have been brought under one murder charge, and the case has been adjourned until 22 December.

Tasi’u’s father told the Associated Press that he was appealing to a Nigerian court to spare his daughter the death sentence

“We are appealing to the judge to consider Wasilat’s plea,” Isyaku Tasi’u said.

Wasila Tasi’u is being held in state juvenile custody.

The case had outraged human rights activists, who say a girl married to a man more than twice her age should be treated as a victim, not a criminal.

Child brides are common in the poverty-stricken, predominantly Muslim northern Nigeria region.

According to Human Rights Watch, it has been 17 years since a juvenile offender was last executed in Nigeria.

-Skynews

Gervinho tries to smuggles girl into Italy

AS Roma and Ivorian forward Gervinho is famed for his mind-blowing dribbling skills but the same can not be said about his finishing.

Gervinho never has trouble manouevring past tight and stubborn defences but for some strange reason he almost always fails miserably in putting the ball in the net.

The former Arsenal forward seems to have translated that form off the pitch with remarkable success. A story has emerged in Ivorian dailies that he attempted to smuggle a lady to Italy after his nation’s 4-3 home defeat to DR Congo in a 2015 AFCON qualifier match played last month.

Knowing that he is a player key to their success this season, AS Roma had chartered a private jet to pick the player from Abidjan after the match but Gervinho was not keen to make the trip to Rome with just the pilot for company. The forward had a female companion with whom he definitely wanted to spend some sweet time with but there was a problem, the lady lacked the required travel documents to allow her to travel to Italy.

But Gervinho being Gervinho, he was not short of tools from his bag of tricks to solve that problem and after greasing the hands of four airport officials, the forward was boarding the plane with his catch. However Gervinho must have forgotten that his finishing skills are not as ace as his dribbling and it is on getting on the plane with the lady that the pilot informed him he was given strict instructions to carry him and only him. The lady had to board off the plane as on top of lacking travel documents she was also an unauthorized passenger.

The pilot also reported the incident to the relevant authorities and according to reports, the four airports official who Gervinho bribed have been relieved of their duties.

Poor Gervinho! A great dribbler he is but a poor finisher he will always be.

Radio Jambo

Man held for attempted rape

Police in Lari have arrested  30 year old man for assaulting and attempting to rape an 18 year old girl in Nyambare district village.

Jackson Thairu is said to have waylaid the form four student as she walked home on Wednesday evening and dragged her into the bush.

He knocked out the girl’s tooth as she struggled with him.

A witness said the road to the girl’s home neighbours the uplands forest and Thairu was hiding inside the bush,he grabbed the girl as she was passing and pulled her into the bush.

He says he had seen the man standing there but wasn’t aware of the reason.

Neighbours heard her screaming and they rushed out to help her. They tried to lynch Thairu but he was rescued by the AP officres who took him to the police station.

Source: The Star

 

To The Girl Who Let The Nice Guy Go

I’ve seen it happen way too many times: The nice guy loses the girl for being exactly who he is.

What’s even worse is if he’s really the nice guy, he’s going to lose her and say nothing about it. He’ll accept it as something she truly wants and give her his best wishes, as she walks away being everything he could ever want.

On behalf of all the nice guys out there, this is to the girl who walked out on the best thing that ever happened to her:

Dear Girl Who Walked Away,

It’s not like you weren’t aware of what you were getting yourself into. He told you he was nice. He trusted easily and gave you all he could when he could.

The nice guy believes in doing things right. He was there when you needed him to be, and he went out of his way to make sure you knew just how much you could mean to someone.

We live in a generation where we all have to wear masks and play parts to make it through the battlefield of dating in the 21st century. There is no such thing as giving it your all.

We like quotes on Facebook and post things on Instagram stating we want the masochist one day and the romantic the next. We play these games where being available can only happen sometimes, and playing hard-to-get must be our number one priority. Why?

I thought the ultimate goal was to eventually settle down. I mean, what is the point of dating if you have no desire for it to go anywhere? If a one-night stand is what you’re looking for, leave the good guys alone and toy within the levels you lay down.

Save yourself time and energy because the good guy isn’t going to make it easy to just walk away. The good guy cares, so he’ll get his explanation from you even though he knows it’ll be a load of bull.

Every girl says she likes the assh*le because he’s the challenge — the one she must break, train and force to be more than just a douchebag. Have you ever thought, however, maybe you were the girl in need of learning what it means to actually feel again?

You went through something, like we all do, and because of it you changed. It’s normal and heartbreak happens, but the next assh*le didn’t fix what the first one did; he kept it the same or made it worse. His priority was not you and couldn’t be you. So now you’re bitter and closed off from anything remotely more satisfying than a one-night stand.

I won’t deny that the assh*le is fun or that a good time isn’t promised with him, but when it’s all said and done, is it ever more than just a good time? Probably not.

In fact, the assh*le has a charm about him; it’s the charm you justify your pursuit with. You say, “There’s just something about him.” However, it’s probably the same quality that ended up hurting you in the past.

So you tried to push the nice guy away. When he wouldn’t go away, you pushed harder. Still, he didn’t give up and every time you pushed harder, he pulled you in even more.

He ignored your fears and forced you to grow; he fought for your passions when you were too busy writing them off. He forgot your wants and focused on everything you needed. Then you walked away because he was too nice.

He gave you too much of everything you wanted, and life got too easy. You wanted conflict and hardship as if everything else in life did not promise you an endless journey of just that. This is where you failed.

The nice guy has been hurt, too, he just chose to stay nice. He learned that different people were going to provide him different things in life. The nice guy also chose not to let any of it change who he was.

So, he let you walk away and he called it a day. Everyone always says there are plenty of fish in the sea, and he let you go knowing this, even though it hurt.

What you don’t know is that someone else is out there, and she won’t be as foolish you. When you realize all you really want is the nice guy who cares about you too much, it’s going to be too late. Some other girl will be able to see how great he is, and she won’t waste a minute.

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So you lost your Ted Mosby and, I promise, to him you were Robin. The nice guys are there to give you a break, a light to something more than the games we identify our generation with.

He may have loved you too soon and it was too crazy and too much, but guys like Mosby don’t happen every day; they happen never. He got you the blue French horn, and he made you feel love when love was no longer a part of your vocabulary. You were now saying “I love you” again and remembering what it felt like.

He was the guy you were supposed to end up with, who makes everything change. I just wish you’d see it before another girl does because at the end of the day, everyone, including the nice guy you don’t deserve, is rooting only for you.