Not many Kenyan women are hesitant about marriage, and so a confession by a city mum about her reason for rejecting a proposal sticks out.
I met my husband 12 years ago. I really didn’t want to formalize anything, and after nine years together and three children, he took the cows by force. He had to call my parents and take them there.. Personally I’m not a fan of formalizing
What’s the big deal you ask?
Weddings to the woman’s family are a big deal and in her case a proud dad’s moment to see his daughter walk down the aisle is about to be crushed.
She told Maina Kageni on Friday that
‘I don’t think I care for it’.
But what then are her expectations in the relationship?
I think I will be comfortable at 50 because as a woman we should also learn to value ourselves because formalizing is like tying me putting me in a prison
When it comes to getting married, there’s no right or wrong answer since every person has to choose what’s best for them.
Fellas, here are other reasons some women choose to remain unmarried:
- Maintaining a sense of independence
- Control over one’s one life and finances
- A lack of desire to have children
- The lack of belief in “The One.”