5 reasons why ladies should avoid dating a staunch football fan

I know the football season is over for now but so many times, I find myself entangled in football related arguments with ladies, and the more I argue with them on the benefits of football, the more I realize why I might probably wed when am 45.

Why? This is because it always gives me reasons why I should either avoid dating, or avoid ladies who think time spent watching football as a waste of precious time.

Honestly, I can’t live without football and yes I know I won’t marry that small leather ball.

So in regards to that I decided to highlight five concrete reasons why you should avoid a die hard football fan.


Dear ladies, it is as simple as 1,2,3. Just the way you can stay up all night keeping up with the Kardashians’ drama, that’s pretty close to how much sleep we can sacrifice to make sure we don’t miss a piece of football action.

So when am out there with the boys enjoying some Real Madrid vs Juventus match, you better look for my football socks and two pillows because the night will be extra cold.


Basically this would pop up in every point but thing is; If we are dating and we had planned to go sky diving, zip lining or even visit my in laws on a certain Saturday, which I thought there would be no football action, then all over sudden a. football fixture pops up on that same date, there is no way I am missing the game. Sorry.


Ladies love attention. In fact, it’s more of a basic need especially in relationships and this is where football always wins.

Apart from sneaking out of the bed at night to watch a game, we at times would love to invite you or probably say yes to your proposal of accompanying us to the game. Question is; Would you still get mad when my eyes will be fixed on the Television screen instead of your beautiful brown eyes?

A loyal football fan would be like “I mean c’mon it’s 90 minutes only, after that I’m all yours babe.”


Another major reason why you should avoid a staunch football fan like a plague is the probability of the guy being involved in arguments which later result to violence.

This mostly happens during football derbies, for example; Arsenal vs Chelsea, Manchester City vs Manchester United where both sections of opposing fans normally engage in banters which become heated at times.

We all know what these could lead to and you would not want to turn into his nurse or his shield when beer bottles start flying in the club.


This acts as a cover that joins the other four points.

Your bae will never be happy around you for a couple of hours if not a week when his favorite team gets a huge beating on a Sunday night, after the two of you spent the afternoon all cuddled up.

One defeat won’t hurt as much, till it becomes a habit where Arsenal go for six games without registering a win and that would mean six weeks of a moody boyfriend, which will definitely hurt your relationship.

Does age matter in relationships? Benjamin Zulu explains some facts to check before dating

Studies show that relationship satisfaction reported by age-gap couples is higher.

These couples also seem to report greater trust and commitment and lower jealousy than similar-age couples.

Over three-quarters of couples where younger women are partnered with older men report satisfying romantic relationships.

Counselling psychologist Benjamin Zulu says advises that it is okay for women to date and marry a younger man than them as long as he is not below 30.

“In Africa men mature slowly. They get ready to settle with one woman when they are 30 years and above. Although there are a few who marry below and settle the percentage is very small,” he told Joyce Omondi on TV.

“Let the lady be any age but not below 25 and the man is above 30 years.”

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A 10 year gap is very nice but preferably let the guy be older.

The life coach went ahead saying that a guy who is 40 dating a 25-year-old is right but most senior bachelors have a reason they are doing that.

“Make sure the season is a safe one as most will give a safe narrative but they were victims in the former relationships. If they stand telling you that you are the only one who understands them in the whole world, that is a red-flag and so run away because you could be their third baby mama.”

He adds that the only safe reason is if there was a genuine relationship and something happened and he became the victim in the relationship like death.

“One of the danger of dating a senior bachelor is that they think they know everything. If you date an older woman, you become their son. She will age ahead of you and you will end up cheating”

Listen to the whole conversation;

15 Reasons to Date a Cyclist

If the cute guy who just asked you out spends his weekends on a bike, don’t hesitate to say yes.

Here are 15 reasons to date a cyclist:

1. Two words: bicycle shorts.

2. It’s science: Cyclists are hot. A recent study found that cyclists who excelled in the Tour de France are perceived as more attractive than other athletes — and that the top 10 percent of cyclists “is about 25 percent more attractive than the lowest 10 percent.” Maybe fast is the new rich?

3. Cyclists are smart. According to a recent Mindlab survey, most people view cyclists as 13 percent more intelligent than the average person.

4. Cyclists are good. According to the same survey, cyclists are generally viewed as 10 percent more charitable than non-cyclists.

5. Your date will be around for a while. Pro cyclists live, on average, 6.3 more years than non-cyclists. (Um, as long as they don’t get hit by a car.)

6. Cyclists are handy. After years of honing bike-maintenance skills, your date will be up for fixing things around the house, too.

7. The great outdoors. If you’re sick of dating indoor cats, date a cyclist. You’ll get reacquainted with nature. And maybe even travel a little more.

8. Cyclists are committed — and don’t accept defeat. Hopefully this extends to their pursuit of relationship success, too.

9. No lazy bums here, just toned ones. Cyclists are disciplined, often rigorously so, and will withstand the elements to get their rides in.

10. Cyclists are constantly setting goals for themselves. If you want a forward-thinking date, look no further.

11. Cyclists have great near-death-experience stories to share, which is also why they’re also sticklers about safety.

12. You can start cycling, too! Your date will be thrilled to share his/her enthusiasm for the sport. In fact, the whole family can join in, should the two of you eventually procreate.

13. Cyclists don’t call in sick. According to a 2013 survey by the National Cycle Network, cyclists take half the number of sick days as their public transportation-riding colleagues.

14. Think your date’s obsession with the open road is a little over-the-top? He’s saner than you think. Studies have shown that vigorous exercise like cycling can boost concentration and memory while reducing stress and anxiety. The bike is good for his brain.

15. Love the planet? Cycling is as green as it gets.

Dating single moms: how to choose a present for her children

A number of gentlemen have been there and for sure, dating a single mom is not a straight-forward task. Well, partly because our society still believes in unnecessary myths and prejudices. In addition, a woman with children is usually quite busy and doesn’t have much time for dates.

Her children are a priority and after her children, she will be able to spend time with you. It also becomes trickier during holidays and celebrations because you’re likely to have to buy gifts for her children as well.

Here are gift ideas for your girlfriend that she may use together with her children

1. Bouquet

Many times men buy beautiful bouquets for their girlfriends. These go well with a box of sweets or chocolates. If you found her from a dating site, you probably got her flowers on date one. A friend of mine got his current girl from Russian brides (because he heard the one guarantee that with Russian girls, boredom is a thing of he past …story for another day) but hey, most girls love flowers. Given that single moms are usually very caring of their children, you could go further by doing a hand-made bouquet of fruits. Do your homework though! Make sure that her children have no allergies to the flowers.

2. Domestic appliances

Who said that domestic appliances are not romantic? Women with children are always happy to receive some appliances to help around the house and save time. Not only will these make her happy but it’s a creative way to you show your care about helping her find time for a date with you.

3. Couple clothes

This is if you’re getting serious with her. They tend to be very interesting gifts for women with children and give a purpose of intent to spend the future with her. In this case, you buy matching clothes for her children as well. This could be as simple as his and hers t-shirts with similar styles and a clever message together with those that go with her children. It could be your name, her name and their names.

Again, this is only for those who are getting serious.

On another note however, it is not always appropriate to buy presents for all her family. You might want to consider jewelry.

It is clear that if you know her children, you can’t ignore their birthdays and other holidays. What to present to them?

1. From 1 to 3 years old

Children from 1 to 3 years old will enjoy fascinating books, rocking chairs and wheelchairs, musical, interactive, and educational toys. Don’t buy anything too complicated or very expensive. Children at this age, pretty often, tend to break toys and tear apart books.

2. From 3 to 6 years old

The best things that you can buy for children from 3 to 6 years old are educational sets, children’s pianos, guitars and other things. For example, children who like to pain will appreciate paintings and drawing boards. Here, still, it is better not to buy too expensive things, because pretty soon those will become boring for children.

3. From 6 to 11 years old

This is when everything gets way more interesting. Now, you can present them board games, game consoles, radio-controlled models, and other potentially interesting things for you. Furthermore, you can share your hobby with her children to improve your relationship. You may also consider buying rollers, skates, bicycles, and so on.

4. Teenagers

It is pretty hard to find a good present for teens because too many things depend on your relationship with them and their mother. Usually, teens are way more demanding, and before buying a gift for them, you definitely should consult with their mother. Generally, boys from 11 to 17 years old will like gyro scooters, smartphones, fitness bracelets, gaming keyboards, mouses, gamepads, or headphones. Girls of the same age will enjoy fashion jewelry, an MP3 player, cosmetics, beautiful teddy bears, stylish headphones, smartphone cases, cool backpacks, external batteries (power banks), or flash drives.

4 places NOT to go to on a first date

I cannot for the life of me understand why a man would hustle to get a girl then take her to a kibanda for their first date.

Guys, don’t you know it’s a deal breaker?

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Dear fellow men, here are some of the places to avoid on that first date:

1. Kibandaski

We go wrong with taking a woman to these shanties just to see how they’ll handle themselves. Apparently, to sort the chaff from the grain. How now fellow men? That’s loosing a bet before the game begins. Can you image she has her face beat, and her wig is popping, then she has to deal with smoke? Furthermore she has to sit on hard benches that can rip her leggings? Also how do you expect to run a smooth conversation while other customers will be eavesdropping on your talk?

2. Club

How do you take a woman to a club on your first date? With all that noise, and mafisi salivating on your woman.



This venue fails terribly as a first date option. Not unless you are a coward who can hardly have a meaningful conversation with a lady at least you can kill your prospects by taking her here.

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3. Your house

Asking her for a first date at your house is never a good idea. Lungula comes to these women’s head and the next thing you are already labelled “fisi.” As much as a home date is economical, it’s never a good idea to make it as your option for that first date. Things could get out of hand and I bet no one ever wants a first date to end up with twa twa session. Not unless you the type that these ladies have labelled “boys”

4. Movie theater


Not unless you having a dinner date later on, this venue is no go place. When will you have time to talk while you have that head gear throughout the movie. It’s a good entertainment place but for a date, it fails terribly.

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Reasons why you need to date a short girl in 2020

Oh my! Don’t we all love short girls. And by short, I mean any lady 5’0 and below.  Sometimes you wanna tap on their head and say something like “little child of God, respect your elders”

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With that though, they are really adorable. You need to try one this year and here’s why:

1. Dramatic

Women are dramatic. I don’t need your counter argument on this. The interesting part of a short woman’s argument is that they sound fun. It’s like a little kid ranting her all and then going to the bedroom sulking. They are prone to petty drama here and there which spices up the relationship. We all love having a good argument once in a while.

2. Kis*able


I hope God has a special place in heaven for them. Lowering your head to have your lips on theirs with your hand rested above that heavy loaded bottom. They can easily get you from zero to cloud 12 in a flash. Their kis*ing game feels like heaven. In case you haven’t tried one, please do.

3. Twa twa gurus

These little babes are easy to spin and the energy is 100%. You can’t forget how portable they are. Ever had to tap out for a little water break? Get one. They drive you faster than a Subaru. I guess this whole talk is a taboo and I wouldn’t want to be cursed by the African gods.

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4. No shame

It feels good walking around in the company of short girl. And it feels better if she walks with her arms around your waist and yours around her shoulders. With a good body shape, you are sure she will steal the show.

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Every man wants a woman they can take pride in. Short girls never fail on this. They are adorable like our favourite minions.

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Vibes men pull that turns ladies off while approaching them

When a guy approaches a lady, the first impression that he makes will determine the answer he gets. At times there are some moves that a guy can make that can completely turn off someone.

Tokeo la picha la lady rejecting a man approaching her

These are some of the moves that can make one lose interest;

Intimacy on the first day. This will create a bad impression of you and your intentions towards her. Someone may actually think you have bad intentions towards them.

Everything good takes time. You should behave at your best because you are trying to win someone’s love. This also involves baby calling her yet she has not even said yes to your proposal.

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There are some guys who want to meet you today and have sex with you the next minute. This will make you a f*ck boy to that particular lady you trying to win.

However, you find the lady attractive it is not right to go that direction. This is because no one wants to be associated with a fuck boy.

The lady may be wanting to settle down with you but one you pull that kind of behaviour then you will lose the chance.

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Asking for pictures from them all the time

Moreso especially if you ask for nudes. Ladies like the kind of men that have some respect for them at all costs.

When you ask for nudes yet you just met it shows how disrespectful you are to that person. It is not wrong to ask for snaps from a person you admire.

It should be done willingly or when your bond has been well created and she feels comfortable with you.

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Asking too many questions. This is the most irritating thing that upsets most ladies. When you have met someone avoids asking too many questions about them.

They may actually think that you are interrogating them. They may either answer you wrongly or not answer at all.

Once you have known the name its good for the start and all other things will be clear to you as time goes by.

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Here’s A List Of Things That You Don’t Owe Your Partner

Being in a relationship doesn’t mean that you stop being yourself and start being someone different. A relationship should allow you to be yourself and even make you better. Your partner should respect you, but that can only happen if you learn to value yourself. There are things that people do in relationships that end up enslaving. There are things that you don’t owe your partner, the same way that they don’t owe the same to you … here is a list

1. The right to repeatedly break your heart – You cannot keep staying with someone who has repeatedly cheated on you, abused you or is physically abusive with you. You can forgive them yes but you don’t need to stay, you owe them nothing.

2. Me time’ Everyone deserves and likes to have their time alone by themselves to just sit, enjoy and embrace themselves. A time to collect your thoughts, plan things, work on you, enjoy your hobbies etc. You don’t need to be with your man 24/7/365 and vice versa. People who like being together always are controlling, that’s not love so don’t get it twisted.

3. Saying NO – It’s not a must for you to agree with everything your partner says or does. You should not be afraid to speak your mind and you should not say yes all the time. If you feel like saying no puts you in an awkward position with your partner then you need to re-analyse your relationship. If your partner loves you he doesn’t need an explanation every time you don’t want to do something.

4. The right to control your goals and dreams – Your partner doesn’t want to see you excel at work, climb up the social ladder, grow your business, chase your dreams? If at all there is no support from your partner in things that matter to you then wake up and smell the coffee. You are the only person who can kill your dreams, don’t let anyone else kill them for you.

5. The right to control your money – In as much as you may share finances, each one still needs to have their own cash aside. Sadly many people will have their partners control every little penny including what’s not theirs. You work hard for your money, it’s your right to control it, not your partner.

6. Eternal love – Times change, people change, life goes on. Sometimes even love fades away and we may meet new people. It’s only fair to you both if you’re honest. Don’t lie, don’t cheat, be honest about it because you both deserve happiness even if it’s by other people’s sides. You don’t owe anyone forever and vice versa.

Sbonza Ni Wewe! 5 compelling reasons why young girls should stay away from ‘sponsors’

Do you ever look through your Instagram feed and wonder how in the world your female pals can afford to take off to exotic holiday destinations, yet there you are trying to hustle to afford buying the Sh90 ‘imported mexican’ maize?

Sheesh! Kenyans on social media are known not to have chills when they respond in the comments section demanding that the young girl post a picture of the ‘sponsor’ behind the vacation.

Having a sponsor has become so fashionable, one can’t miss spotting a young Kenyan girl desperately holding onto an ‘ancestor’ as they are referred to.

I know it’s been said by most ladies in our generation who love dating old men, that they love ‘monied men for multiple reasons. Campus girls are notorious for dating ‘sponsors’.

Here are my five reasons why you should disown that ancestor BUT if you really must date one, how about you emulate the French President who married a much older woman for LOVE?

1.) Are you ready for a child or fun

If you want to wait to have a kid until you’re in your early 30s, your older man is going to be about 50. Having to run around after a 5-year-old is hard work, especially if it’s been that much longer since your man had a child. And trust me he will also need as much attention as the baby as you will be taking care of all his needs. He won’t be strong enough.Your kid will also have a challenge as most kids in school will mistake his father for his grandfather.

2.) You need to respect him like your father

He is older than you and he already has kids who are almost the same age as you, they respect him and the only difference between you and his kids is that you are sleeping with him. ‘So you need to know that age demands a certain level of respect. You will feel inferior and cant negotiate with him as easily as you would have with a younger man, which means you will literally be his adopted child more than you will be his young wife. Are you ready to be ordered around and be set for curfews?

3.) Your suggestions and opinions hardly count

He has lived more than you and seen more than you so by the time you settle down together, he’ll have amassed life experiences and won’t have time for your shenanigans. Your life will end up being smaller in comparison since your shared years will make up far more of your total life experience than his. He will make most of the decisions and you will have no say in the relationship as you will have to listen to daddy yo…. sorry your husband…. all the time. It’s not fun at all.

4.) You will make enough visits to buy Viagra at the chemist

At your age, I can imagine how much more you’ll be sexually active and you can’t get it all the time. Remember to him it’s not a big deal as he has had it all his life, so unless you’re fine with ‘starving ‘, think again. Then before you know it since you are a prisoner, you may have to ask the watch man or shamba boy to service you. Women supposedly experience their sexual peak at age 35, while men allegedly go downhill after turning 18..remember this is all  allegedly. Why take your chances? So think smart as money is not everything.

5.) Your Friends and his friends

The places you want to hang out, the songs you listen to, the dancing and fun you have will be worlds apart. He won’t be able to mesh easily with your crowd and will stick out like a graying, sore thumb at parties attended by fresh-faced 25-year-olds. Likewise for you at his friends’ gatherings. Most of them met his ex wife so be sure that his friends’ wife’s are not going to make life any easier for you. These women will specifically go out of their way to make you feel not welcome in their crowd. You become an automatic threat to them by being naturally prettier and having the all-powerful asset of youth.

If this doesn’t matter to you, do you boo.

Maina Kageni blasts Kenyan man who disappeared leaving his date to pay a sh37,000 bill

‘This is the height of bad manners’, shouted an exasperated Maina Kageni on Wednesday morning.

If you have been on Twitter, you must have stumbled upon a thread by a Kenyan dude who described how he left his date to pick up the Sh37,000 bill racked up during a date.

This guy takes these ladies out, they enjoy drinks, eat and have so much fun. But he does the unexpected and he bails out on them leaving behind a bill of ksh37,000.

Here is part of the thread, that will leave you in stitches or upset.

‘Nairobi living- A friend’s friend( a babe) invites me for a drink a few weeks back and later tell me she’ll be bringing friends. I go to meet her and get there before her and order my beers and chill’

Is that a man behaving badly or is it just being mean?


At this point, the chicks have mulikad him on social media.

Maina dug in, responding to this thread saying;

‘When you entertain a lady men, you must entertain her completely’.

KOT recounted their experiences with dating girls, saying majority of women take it as an opportunity to order for things they have never eaten or drank in their life.

He added;

‘Guys if you cant afford it don’t invite girls for a drink. Women never travel alone. Don’t guys know that?’

‘If you know you have a problem just say it guys, it’s bad manners to leave girls like that.’


Read more of the thread below;

Who is the problem here; is it the man or is it the women and their ordering habits?

Girls have you been embarrassed by a man like this?


Have you ever been taken for a date and abandoned there with a bill?

What’s your opinion?

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Gospel singer Hopekid flaunts new bae after dumping Yvonne

Hopekid likes them yellow yellow, just like his new pointie bae. He was recently spotted with a young lass as they shared intimate moments in public.

The dancehall singer was in the past involved with fashion blogger Yvonne Orio and their relationship seemed to be heading to the altar, until when they broke up over irreconcilable differences.

hopekid yvonne_orio

Yvonne has moved on and recently shared photos of her baby shower for her first-born child, evident that Hopekid wasn’t the love of her life.

Hopekid Yvonne Orio

After Yvonne, Hopekid moved on to one Diana D Mumbe. Their relationship was on the low key but to see him with yet another woman is proof enough that he and Diana called it quits.


The Delilah hit maker is surely enjoying himself dating and it looks like this time round, a wedding might just be what he is planning to do.

Meet his new bae.



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Taxi driver picks up heartbroken woman who was dumped by her date and invites her to hang out

This is so touching for anyone who has been dumped last minute by a dude.

Twitter user @vickto_willy took to Twitter to describe a very difficult situation she found herself in after she picked up a heartbroken passenger who was in town visiting a guy.

Just go through the thread and have an inspiring day won’t you?






Things To Avoid Doing On A First Date

The worst thing that can happen of your first date is embarrassing yourself by putting on something totally inappropriate.Your date will judge you from the first impression you give, and that is why what you wear or how you wear it matters a lot. The Standard

What to wear to dates is a discussion everyone questions. With unpredictable fashion trends in the market, what not to wear should be the concern when you want to impress your date.

What to wear to dates is a discussion everyone questions. With unpredictable fashion trends in the market, what not to wear should be the main concern when you want to impress your date.

Don’t let your first date attire ruin your chances for a second date. What you wear is the perfect opportunity to present who you are before you say a word. To win your date over with captivating style, consider the location, time of day and weather as these factors will weigh heavily on your attire choice and stay away from our top five things you shouldn’t wear on a first date.

Too much make up

I agree make up makes the face look fabulous and stunning, but too much of it can make you look like a clown. Apply makeup with moderation, you do not want to embarrass your date. If you can’t moderate, then be natural, it’s best to be yourself.


Dress right for the weather

Do not wear shorts, a trunk t-shirt with ray bun shades during cold weather or wear a trench-coat and a scarf in the scorching sun. On the same note do not do heels if you cannot walk comfortably in them.

This will spoil your date. Remember we are doing first impression.

Avoid high heels.

Do a test before your date, if you can’t walk normally in them, leave them at home.



Branded clothes

That branded t-shirt or cap that was given on your company’s retreat is not something your date would love to see you wearing on a date, it will spark a different conversation especially if it is your first date.

You do not have to break a bank to look good. Try out monochromes dressing or color matching for great.

For ladies try dresses and avoid too tight dresses.


Sports outfit

Sports outfit looks great on a sports occasion but not on a date, sport gear makes you look less serious on a date. Wear jeans or a suit if you can afford one and you do not want to look like a joker on your first date.

Sport outfit makes you look like you were not prepared for that date.


Huge purses.

They make you look high-maintained which makes guys think you’re an expensive date blahblahblah, not fair but true.

Some may fear even handling you for that first date.


Don’t wear flip flops

This is one of those pieces that expands past the dating dont’s list, and more into the every day dont’s list.  If there’s one wardrobe piece that’s a total no-no, it’s the flip-flop. Unless you’re on a sandy beach for a tropical place, get those heel-smacking sandals out of here.





Sassy Singer Cece Sagini Reveals How She Met The Love Of Her Life Victor Peace

Cece Sagini, a well known singer narrates how they met with Victor, her fiance.

The couple speaks of the story of their blog. The main aim for the vlog is to share how they met and the story of their proposal which had already been out.

They were in the same nursery school, same primary school Hospital Hill, where Victor was a class ahead of Cece. Three years ago, Victor was having a shoot for Blankets and was supposed to shoot Sahara performing in Kenya.

While shooting, he saw Cece and he was like “she is pretty”. A few weeks later, while scrolling in his computer, Victor started checking out Cece’s pictures on facebook while stalking Tandioe a photographer he looks up to.


Cece walked in with a pizza pie and they started laughing and thats how they connected. At that time she was in a relationship that was ending.

Through Victor’s friend, he got Cece’s number and they started texting. They spent time together during practice sessions and would spend time together the whole day.

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To find another way of seeing her again, he planned what to do and he came up with starting up a video thing and he will be recording her music covers and there he asked Cece to be his Girlfriend and she said yes.

Seven months later, came the NTV proposal which was a shock to her because she was told to do a song. When she was singing, then when she was about to finish one song, Victor walked into the studio while she was being interviewed and he came down on one knee and proposed which got her so surprised and people were calling to confirm the news.


Should Single Women LOWER Their Standards In Order To Find Husbands? Kenyan Men Speak Out (AUDIO)

Ladies, would you lower your expectations to secure a relationship and have a man in your life?

Well on our morning conversation today with Larry Asego, that was the main topic, regarding single women who complain they can’t find good men, yet they have set very high standards and expectations for the men they want in their lives.

According to crazy Monday; “When it comes to choosing a boyfriend, these girls seem to have quite a high regard of themselves, such that the urban areas is teeming with disgruntled women who cannot find a partner.”

single woman

The male writer went on to add; “As a woman looking for a soul mate, if you want to place your premium next to the stratosphere, you can only have yourself to blame if your love life is as hopeless as a dirty coop.”

Larry Asego wanted to know if this is actually a problem when it comes to single women not having or finding a man who they want to spend the rest of their lives with.

Some Kenyan men called and gave their views on this topic, saying that women who wait on perfect men will never get married, as others claimed that women need to lower their standards because a man may get better with time.

Listen to the full conversation below.


Love Endureth All: Skinny Young Kenyan Man Shows Off His ‘Momo’ LOVER, Looking Very Happy (PHOTOS)

Dear men, what’s your ideal woman when it comes to body size and weight?

There has been a lot of debate on whether curvy women look better than petite or average size ones and vice versa, but what I’ve gathered, it all depends on the man.

Some men prefer women with curves or who’re plus size, while others are more into ladies with petite bodies or with medium curves, so it’s all about preference.

But let’s be honest, most men are not very happy when their wives add too much weight after giving birth or when they get married.

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On several occasions I’ve asked men this question about women who stop taking care of their bodies or working out when they get married, which makes them less attractive to their husbands and trust me, that’s not a good thing for a marriage or relationship.

File/ Couple Exchanging Vows

But when a man dates or gets married to a big or plus size woman, you would expect him to be equally big or almost the same size, but to this skinny Kenyan man, it’s all about love.

The young guy got everyone excited on the internet when he shared photos of his lover, a woman who’s almost three times bigger than him, but that did not deter him from pursuing her.

Love Wins! Check Out This Sweet And LOVING PHOTOS Of Gospel Singer Evelyn Wanjiru And Her Boo

The couple looks mismatched because the man looks more like her son than a boyfriend, he can’t even put his hands around her waist due to her love handles. He even jokes about her curves, comparing her to a Range Rover.

The plump woman ‘momo’ looks very happy and comfortable with her young lover, and at some point, he shares a photo while he’s carrying the chubby woman on his back. Wow!

Is this really true love or is this a sugar mummy and Ben 10 relationship? Look at the photos below and be the judge.



Is Willy Paul MISSING His Hot Ex Girlfriend Whom He Was Set MARRY? The ‘Fanya’ Hitmaker Responds After Sharing This Loving Post

Celebrated gospel singer Willy Paul has kept away from controversy for a while now, which he attributes to focusing more on his music and personal growth.

Willy Paul real name, Wilson Abubakar Radido, recently dropped a new song dubbed Digiri, which seemed to be taking shots at Groove Awards for snubbing him in 2016 ad 2017.

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However, the singer insisted that was not the main reason he worked on the song, revealing that he was only encouraging up and coming artistes not to rely on awards or degrees in regards to music and life in general.


When the top artiste released his massive hit with Alaine, Yes I Do he revealed that he had walked down the aisle with the beauty, but it turned out to be a publicity stunt to market the song.

But who is the main lady in Willy Paul’s life? Well, we will have to keep guessing, but what I know is that he once had a very beautiful girlfriend that he was set to wed, but things didn’t go as planned.


Though the two have now gone their separate ways, they are still very cordial and once in a while, the gorgeous model shares videos dancing to Willy Paul’s songs.

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But this time round, the dancer decided to give her a shout out, revealing that he has no regrets when it comes to what they had, and calling her ‘good people’.


Willy Paul shared a photo of the young girl, looking elegant, with a short message that read; “#memories#tbt#goodpeople#noregrets.”

I reached out to the singer to ask if he misses her and if there’s a chance of them reuniting, but his answer was very vague. This is what he had to say;

That’s mine to know and mine to keep. No, I have no comment. 

I bet time will tell if the lovebirds will indeed get back together. Do they make a cute couple or not?









Mapenzi Tu! Former Tahidi High Actress And Hey Z Da Brand’s Ex Fiancée Flaunts Her New BOO After Cheating Claims (PHOTOS)

A break-up is the worst thing anyone can go through, especially if one of the partners is accused of cheating.

Gospel singer Hey Z Da Brand knows to well the pain of losing a loved one and the mother of your child because of infidelity claims.

The artiste, real name, Daniel Ng’ang’a Heho broke up with his fiancee and baby mama Mercy Njoki late last year after it emerged that she was having an affair with her boss.


Hey Z had proposed to Mercy aka Melody of Tahidi High TV series in January 2016 and the two had dated for about 6 years and had a handsome baby boy together, but as it would turn out, they would not live to see a happily-ever-after.

Mercy Njoki is a popular actress known for her role on local TV drama, Tahidi High a few years back and after accusations that she left Hey Z for another man, she never commented on the issue.

But months after their break up, she seems very comfortable revealing her new man, the same lad she was accused of cheating on her man with, by the name Bob Muriithi, and the two seem to be very happy and doing very well.


Mercy Njoki has been dating Bob for months now and from the time gap, it looks like they knew each other before separating from Hey Da Brand. The lovebirds have been hanging out and could have even have moved in together.

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Mercy and Bob also hang out a lot with former Tahidi High crew, Jackie Matubia, Abel Mutua and Phillip Karanja. Recently, the cute couple went for a romantic date. The actress shared sweet photos with her man, who she has confessed be in love with.

Check out Hey Z Da Brand’s ex-girlfriend with her new boo below.