Relationship coach Benjamin Zulu is out here spiting facts.
The motivational speaker in his Tiktok platform riles many with his statements and accounts of relationships.
In one such video, he tells husbands that their side chicks are only with him to hurt his wife.
“there are women who pursue you not because of you because of your wife to prove a point, it’s a competition a contest to destroy a good thing, you should not always think that you are that handsome and attractive, when you see people after you, sometimes the reason is it’s not you”
He continued explaining
“you are just at the centre in the line of fire they are firing elsewhere, you are the convenient, the reachable target. You’ve heard of those pathological househelps maybe or people who are hired or shamba boys you hire somebody and they start having their own motives to seduce one of you to get at the other, the househelp felt mistreated by the mistress of the house, so she starts to seduce the husband to prove a point, to get back at her. Sometimes you are not the reason you are being pursued.”
Here is the video
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