‘Teach a man to spend money on you’ Kenyan woman advises


How many times have you heard out there a married man bragging that his woman is fine, he doesn’t need to worry about things at home? Sound familiar?

This situation is very common according to one woman who called in to the Classic 105 show, to share tips on family finances.


Just read this quote first before we get into it.

Girls, it is your right to expect a man to pay for your dinner, your movie ticket, your club entry fee, or anything he has to pay for in exchange for your time. began comedian TV show host Steve Harvey.

The upset woman said to Maina Kageni that

the number one mistake women make with these men especially when you land yourself a stingy man is showing them you can be independent, especially financially.

You show a man you can take care of all your financial needs, rub it in his face? The day you come to him and ask for a coin, trust me aki sha zoea, whatever he will give you will be little or nothing knowing that you have money, when he gets used to being shown that you are financially independent?

You don’t hear them bragging out there ati my mama is a mama who sorts herself out. so this thing of miss independent it blows. the day you are needy that man won’t care. 

So what should a woman do?

From the word go let that man spend on you let him take care of you teach him how to spend on you, so girls out there, let them listen 

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A list of the weird and funniest dates people have ever experienced

What is the weirdest date you’ve ever gone on? And did it lead to another one? A twittter thread is exposing the encounters people have on dates that are simply out of this world.

Remember what may be weird to you, could be so cool to someone else. so read on and have a good laugh.

1. @postgrad_barty
what’s the weirdest date you’ve been on??? I’ll go first

we were going to see a movie and didn’t buy tickets in advance and couldn’t get two tickets next to each other so we ended up sitting on opposite sides of the theater and then the movie ended and we were like cool ok bye

1. We were seeing incredibles 2 I wasn’t gonna leave and pass up my opportunity to see it
2. It was assigned seating and there were 2 seats left in the whole theater and no gaps between groups so people couldn’t move
3. No, I never saw this man again
crying! at the disco

Anita Nderu – I’d rather sleep with Octopizzo than Prezzo

2. Twitter user @s1cken1nggg recounted
Met the guy on tinder, about 3 mins into meeting him he goes “can you buy me water and a pack of cigs”, I comply, I think I spent $70 because he kept pressuring me to buy him stuff and he didn’t spend a dime, he kept farting too ?? Then he tried to catch a pigeon with his hands

cuc laughing

3. Vanilla AlmondMilk
He kissed me and pulled back and said ‘wait there’s just a little…’ I was embarrassed I thought I had something in my teeth he put his hand in my mouth and said I think this tooth is wobbly, I was 19 with all my adult teeth

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4. Stephanie is 🐶-10
Guy I wasn’t very interested in bugged me until I agreed to a date. We went to a pub and some friends randomly joined us. After a while I guess he was feeling neglected or something. Stood suddenly, tossed a wad of cash on the table in front of me and said “Thanks for the date”

5. Fringe ♍️
This dude kept saying I should let him take me out when I come back to atlanta. Soo I finally did. I ubered to the restaurant. We ate, like 5 mins after the check came a female walked in looking crazy as HE*L and sat right next to him. Likeee I thought it was some cheaters sh**..


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I went over to this guys house for dinner and drinks and he was a bit off. So I went to the bathroom and he has a DIL*O in his tub and he came running in and was like WAiiT and I’m standing there looking at it… i gave him a courtesy 20 minutes then left

7. Brian Abrams 💭
She wanted to walk to the bars near where I lived because it was nice out — by the end of the night we were both pretty drunk & it was now a half snow half sleet snow storm but she insisted on walking back to my place anyways. Long story short I woke up at the bottom of a hill near my apartment with TWO sprained ankles , phone dead and had to crawl up the hill ..wet and freezing and walk home.
Texted her later that day after overcoming my hypothermia “wth happened last night?”
She replied sorry for pushing you down the hill I got scared

8. MAMA🌻
We matched on tinder and he happened to be in a wheelchair and he took me to a hotdog place where he ate four hotdogs and then to the beach where he asked me to blow up his arm floaties for him and we sat there for three hours watching vine complications because he couldn’t swim

9. Kyndall Elizabeth🌹
Went to lunch with this guy and in the first 5mins told me that both of his siblings were in jail and then while driving me home he said let’s take a longer route and goes to this lake in the woods and there was a cemetery and he looks at me and says “I’m not going to kill you”😅

How crazy do these dates sound to you?

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5 unrealistic things guys expect from girls

Trying to make sense of what a man wants from you can be difficult.


But here is a rundown of some of the things that guys expect from girls, that tend to cause a strain in relationships.
1. He needs a friend with benefit, but will never marry a girl who has had many relationships

Expecting a girl to be your friend with benefit for life is unrealistic. Won’t she find someone to marry, and wait just one minute is that even possible to be a friend with benefit for life?

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I have heard it said from many men that there are two types of chicks – the one to have funwith and – the one to marry.


2. Girls are expected to be natural ( we love you natural girls) but at the same time she must be super stunning

Even the moon has dark spots.
Okay, a girl can look good while being natural. But how can she manage to look SUPER S3XY without makeup. Sure, girls have natural beauty, but it doesn’t mean that you can expect her to look like you wish. Shouldn’t guys expect that a girl be caring, honest and all those nice things?

3. Be committed but not wedding crazy

Every girl has planned her wedding by the time she is done with college, whether or not she has a man.

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So expecting to date her without any mention of future plans is unrealistic.

The marriage topic WILL ALWAYS come up, and if she is committed to you, the subject will be there.


4. Being low maintenance while looking high maintenance

The expectation is that she should be both, but not trying too much.

If you want her to look like a “high maintenance” girl, you need to spend money on her for maintenance. The word itself says “high maintenance,” How can you expect her to look the same with almost no money?

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5. Being distant while still showing interest

Now this is confusing to girls. She can’t be turned on and off like a switch.

Guys, either you are in or you are out.

Is this true and what have you done when faced with such a situation?

Hilarious tweets about dating during the coronavirus outbreak


Governments worldwide are encouraging citizens to stay home as a preventative measure against coronavirus.

Many are documenting their stay at home experiences and most affected are single people, who are sharing the most hilarious memes and thoughts about dating in the coronavirus era.

1. corona date

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2. corona joke dating

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3.corona joke

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4. corona dating 4

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5. corona dating 6

6. corona dating 8

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7. corona dating 7

8. coroan dating 5

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How to win her heart as a bachelor in these hard dating times

In this dating era, you have to prove yourself better if you really need to catch the eye of that potential bae. Dating is becoming harder day by day. Money and s3ual prowess are the major power of play in modern dating. However, you can always say ahead of the pack in this high-level competition. Here are some of the things you can put in play:

1. Fridge katoto
Guys, you need this. Stock little niceties to keep the fridge enticing. Women love to eat. That’s undebatable. Stock in sausages, beef, yoghurt, soda and veggies. How awesome does that sound to the mouth? Save up a few thousand notes and get yourself this little baby.

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2. Tv
For a long period, TVs are still a common household item even with the wake of laptops. They seem to be irreplaceable and allows people to have an unending amount of entertainment. With the availability of smart TVs, people have the luxury of connecting internet and getting a wider range of entertainment ranging from YouTube, Netflix subscription and other pre-paid cable services. This could be a killer move for that lady you aiming. She could end up camping at your home because of this wild entertainment.

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3. Shoe rack
Women love order and cleanliness and most men have a big problem with the two. Men throw clothes and shoes all over making their houses untidy and smelly. How about getting yourself a good shoe rack. A woman would fall head over heels with your orderly manner. Don’t be surprised if she stays saying of how a gentleman you are because you put your shoes in place.

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4. Audio system
Music is life and the finer the output system the better it hits the soul. The market has a wide range of choice to make when you want to buy an audio system. It could be a woofer of a home theatre. With the availability of Bluetooth function, portability of your phone is assured. Women love music, they feel the lyrics and a good audio system is one of the best items they can lay hands on. Get that system, won’t you?

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Reasons why you shouldn’t disclose your financial status to your spouse

Marriage is hard already. It’s full of hustles and bustles that can be tiring at times. One of the most sensitive issues in marriage has to be finances. One of the leading causes of divorce is finances. Therefore, it’s of great advantage for you not to share your financial status to your spouse and here’s why:

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1. Kukaliwa chapati

Every man is afraid of this. A woman taking control of you because she got to know your pay cheque. It’ll be harder on you if she realizes she makes more money than you. The country has seen a rise in feminists and much of what they hold is trying to demean the role of the man. You may try to counter these thoughts at your own peril. Disclose your financial status and you’ll send yourself to the grave early.


2. You’ll die poor

You’ll die poor my brother. She’ll siphon you to the last coin. Keep her second guessing on the amount of cash you work with. You know the slogan: His money our money, her money our money. Bro, only God, the bank and yourself should know what gets into your account.

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3. Keeps the woman humbled

A woman in the dark is a woman humbled up. The moment she knows how much you are worth, the moment hell will broke loose. Don’t you want a woman who’ll eat at the palm of your hand? That’s basically what every man craves for. They’ll lie to you they want a working woman but deep down they want you to be the traditional house wife.

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4. Personal life security

How many times have we had news of women taking lives of their better halves? When she knew you had taken a life insurance. That’s where she dug your grave and was waiting for the opportune moment to send you there. Be quiet about your finances bro. It’ll be of great help.

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Things men are doing expecting to get cookie after quarantine is over


Let’s be honest, coronavirus imekalia wanaume chapati. The government has put our national bedroom, Nairobi on a lockdown. Movement is limited within Nairobi County and its environs. Men are doing all things possible to get that honey pot once this pandemic is gone.

1. Sending money

Mnatuangusha! In the men’s conference 2020, men agreed that there will be no sending money to a woman who isn’t your wife. Actually a good wife has her own source of income and doesn’t depend on her man’s money. However, it has come to the attention of the men’s conference committee that there are men who are going contrary to the decision. I know what you’ll be demanding after this pandemic. Kijana, hupati ng’o!

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mid adult couple holding hands and praying
mid adult couple holding hands and praying

2. N*des

Kuna shida wadau! People are sending pictures of their mojos. I guess it’s a way of keeping the other party wanting. What’s with people sending their small sticks without been asked by the other party. Men are busy making use of their phone’s quality camera taking photography on another level. I assume you’ll get the cookie once this is over, hopefully.

3. Recharging credit

Who are you to her? Father, brother or husband. Unless you are either of the three, what business do you have recharging her credit? Unajipea kazi si yako! You’ll die poor trying to act like the hero of the day. Bro, hutapewa!

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4. Paying bills

Umlipie rent, Wi-Fi, Netflix, aai bro, kwani wewe ni babake? You paying for things you don’t have back at home all in the name of getting some sugar. Bro, let the woman hustle and pay her own bills. Get a wife though! 2020 is the year of been a MAN! Don’t think you really special because you are helping her foot the bills. You ain’t getting the honey bro.

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Are you guilty of this? Confessions about texting the ex during quarantine

If coronavirus has you texting exes you never thought you’d want to talk to again, you’re not alone.

Blame self isolation.

Lotsa of people are confessing they are doing so. It boils down to a craving for affection and attention as we self isolate.

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Do you really want to rekindle a flame that burned out for a reason? I don’t have the answer, I can’t relate.


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Here are confessions about rekindling things with an ex:

Feel like texting my ex Woozy face

Just texted my ex “Ayo be safe out there, even tho we aren’t together i still care about you and your fams wellbeing”

why is my ex still simping over me when he literally broke up with me b*tch get over yourself i was too good for you anyways

Remember when you thought you would die when your ex left you? Look at you now, ready for your next heartbreak.

Who else has a long list of ex lover’s with a blank space wanna write some one on t….

Also, if you are one of my ex’s… This is a chance for redemption! We know it’s your fault. And that’s okay. We all make mistakes. I will take you back if you can pay me for time wasted …. Thx.

Quarantine got me in my feelings so I sang a song dedicated to my ex. (There’s another one but it’s too long for Twitter)

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my ex has been texting me all night

why are all of my ex’s hitting me up

i really just swiped right on my ex tonight

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‘Quarantine ovulation hit different’ Hilarious rants from single ladies 


Being lonely and bored in the house, during the coronavirus pandemic without bae, are two dangerous situations for a human being to go through.

Single women are tweeting their struggles during quarantine and has got so many people relating out there.

Go through and drop us your comments below:
After hii corona imeisha tunaenda straight to engagement talking stage and dating is already done

AS Roma recognises Kenyan girl in viral dance video, “Utawezana”

black couple flirt
have any single women noticed they feel more flirty and a little more…ready?
I’m so bored that I downloaded a dating app …Yup!! Plenty of fish in the sea guys!! These fish take some really bad angled selfies,have a pic as a groomsman, are all fishermen apparently and all have the same pic up line “IF CORONA DOENST TAKE YOU OUT…CAN I?

Yeah steal it.

I’m over here hoping some lady is gonna be desperate enough to settle for me after this is over

Quarantine ovulation hit really different lmao

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global pandemic* a major disaster could be regional this is GLOBAL. and yes sad that’s what it took but i’m here and ready to give love. thank you.

boy single people are gona unleash on each other when they let yall back out..I see it bubbling,lol
Me: “I need to stop going out, spending money, and dating toxic men”
Me: *doesnt stop for months*
Universe: “I said stop”
Cardi B: *in the back of my head every time I have the urge to go out* “CORONA VIRUS”


@kiaraapee..I was playing before but I’m ready for real this time
My mom asked me if corona was messing with my dating life… I said “no mom. I don’t have a dating life to mess up“

me: in 2020 i’m finally gonna start dating

corona: lol i don’t think so
F**k dating. I’m going straight for the marriage when this corona is over.

Dear Classic 105 fam, how are you staying positive in isolation?

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7 Agonizing things about dating a man shorter than you

Why is height still a factor when it comes to dating?

There’s nothing wrong with dating a guy who’s shorter than you, but it does come with its challenges.

Here are 7 very real truths about dating a guy who is shorter than you.

1. People will always make comments
Friends, or even strangers will always remind you of the height difference, and you will always remind those irritating moments. You will hear questions like ‘What’s it like’ or Does he mind it’ or someone telling you they couldn’t date a short man. It may sadly take years for you to continue hearing about the height difference even though to you it doesn’t make any difference.

2. Forget heels
Even though you are crazy about him, there are moments when you really want to wear those heels, but you will tower over him awkwardly and not feel great at all.

3. He is constantly trying to compensate
He goes out of his way to do things for you to make up for the height difference.

4. You’re very strategic about taking photos together
Selfies won’t be a thing for such couples. You may have to be strategic about taking photos for instance when sitting he should stand, or you should both sit and take that pic or else everyone will notice the height.

5. You find yourself justifying why you’re dating him
It’s a reality that you cannot deny. You will find yourself defending your choice of a bae by saying things such as ‘ he’s really sweet’ or ‘ height is just a number’ or you guys don’t know what a sweet guy he is’.

6. You feel like it’s all anyone ever sees
When you’re out in public and people look at you, you wonder if they’re thinking that you’re a girl with a short boyfriend. It’s like dating in interacial relationships, you wonder whether people judge you for dating that white guy.
You try to ignore it, but it’s just always an issue. It never goes away.

7. It makes you self-conscious about your own height
You will keep shuffling your feet whenever you are standing next to him owing to insecurities, because you fell like a giant next to him. If you are stressed out about it sis, put your heels away.

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‘Apartments named after woman are paid for by us’ Kenyan men insist to Maina


An open and honest conversation about how Kenyan men lose millions to women saw Maina slammed for insisting no man has lost money to a woman.

Maina introduced the topic asking fellas how and how much money they have ever lost to a woman to which many could not put a figure to it.

Men, how do you lose money to women? When do you even spend money on women?

Every man I meet out there says ‘we don’t talk about it’ Maina added

Co host Mwalimu Kingangi was heavily supported by male callers when he said

‘you will never hear a man brag he bought nani an apartment, or even take a woman to cops over money amenyamaza tuu kwa corner kwa bar? Asset recovery should now be involved, men are suffering’ he finished

Guys how much money have you lost to women Maina wondered, how have you lost money coz I don’t think you spend on your women.

Here are some views expressed by men about the topic:

….. I have lost almost90k to a woman, nilimwekea biashara after three months she tod me amishindwa na kazi all mymmoney gone, nimelipa rent ninin nini,


Rtd Captain Kale…

Why is it that all these apartments are named after women? These women who drive harriers, where are there husbands? They are 6ft under, they killed them, they just shed crocodile tears in the burial, washindwe #MainaAndKingangi

man caller: my wife comes from work extrmeley scared she is looking for money to pay I am told I have to get a loan fromwherever sh250k and she need it fast, ilook for the money in pain and three months down the line there are letters, where the hell did she take the money, three months down the line she is not talking, and helb peopelwant money, and now if I scream will I get the money back? People will tell me she is my wife, I asked her where she took the money and she said she paid this much ijui there was a problem, the bottomline is the money is gone, I cannot kick her out, but what do I do to get the money back, mara there other time she had a chama loan t pay now the year is ending she needs aroun d 78k last year to pay back, so I have to llokmfor and pay for it, that sis why I tell my friend not to borrow from wives

Kelvin Mwangi..

I’ve spent countlessly on my Lady, I’d be a billionaire why lie.

Nmefunzwa Kunyamaza.


Felix Agola(Mr President)..

Personally I opened from my girlfriend a business, I used to inject some money into it every month but when it caught fire I was left behind without a second thought

Masila Simon..

Its hard to quantify, there are just some expenditures we run behind the scenes for our women like trying to smell good

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Here are the places where you can find a potential lover

Love is blind and you can never tell when it’ll sweep you off your feet.

People find their future baes in the most unexpected places and love blossoms all the way into marriage. Here are some of the places you can find a potential mate:

1. Church


Where else would you kill two birds with one stone – knowing the way to eternal life and having someone to be with you for the rest of your life. There are various church groups you can join and mingle with people as you search for the best suitor. With the numerous church activities, it’s always a good bonding space to make use of. Create as many friends of the opposite se3 as possible to have a wider range of choices.

2. Workplace


This is one of the best places to find a mate. You relate with colleagues, and you can always pick a potential mate from the pack. However, these are murky waters to tread on. Office relationships can work and blossom into something greater if handled with great care.

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3. Your hood

Some times getting a mate from close proximity can be a good thing to consider. Much of the time its people you’ve always hang out with from your childhood. You know much of their social behaviors. For those who can’t work long-distance relationship, this could be the ideal place to try out. It saves you money as much as it allows you to meet up as much as you can.

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4. Corporate gigs

These are places for the deep pockets in the society. You can always pick up intimate relationships behind those boardroom doors.


Being on the same financial ladder, it gets easier to try out working on a relationship.

Dear single child of God, why don’t you try getting someone from the above places, won’t you?

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Why I will always regret lending my husband 500,000 for biashara

A woman is regretting the day she lent money she had saved her whole life, to a man who defaulted paying it back.

He sweet talked her into parting with her savings for biashara, that turned out to be fake.

It’s just that where loans are concerned, much more than money is at stake, according to her sad tale.

She recounted Maina Kageni on Thursday March 12 that

I took him to the police, he used to ask me for money on condition he gives me a post dated check. So this time I gave him my money that I had saved on a fixed deposit account, it was sh500k, and I even gave him a taxi which I paid for.

He said he is doing some business and  he will return the money, weuh reke gwire it was a back and forth. I took him to the cops, and the ocs was from his shags, and they asked for the side of my story. Do you know what the guys said, ati this is a family dispute, they can’t handle it. He even told the cops that I have been forcing him to buy me a house. The cops dismissed our case.

She said that people who lend money to family or friends live to regret it bitterly. Loans cause ill-feeling, family feuds, broken friendships and emotional problems.

Can you imagine I lost sh500k just like that, and you know what karma is a b*tch he still asks up to this day for 10k. Can you imagine, he still asks for money forgetting I have to take care of our child, he doesn’t pay a dime, and says no I want to be apart of his life

I have a new relationship but I’m cautious, and if he asks for money he must give em a collateral

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‘It’s over’ Wives blasted for taking husbands to police over loans


Ladies, have you ever taken your man to the cops Maina asked listeners on Thursday during a heated debate.

Kenyans tunapenda kustakiana, as a way of resolving our disputes.And this is no different with spouses as we came to learn on Thursday morning conversation with Maina and Kingang’i.

Maina spoke about a lady called Audrey who tweeted about never ever lending men money.

She described her horrific experience in the hands of a husband after loaning him half a million shillings, which he has never bothered to pay back.


Due to this she took him to the cops to resolve the matter, only for things to back fire for her.

The police termed it a marital dispute which they cannot deal with.

The matter ended there, with the husband free to walk away without paying back the money she had saved all her life.

A heated debate ensued with men warning women that it will be the end of the relationship, should a wife pull such a move:
If I’m to give a man money, it is an amount that I won’t feel bad when he fails to refund. The police will always turn you away immediately they hear you are partners in marriage.
Alex Olaba..#MainaAndKingangi
Maina sometimes its very difficult to solve marital issues at police station just understand that Maina nyc day

Felix Agola(Mr President)..

Maina ladies have breached a level of asking for collateral before giving us loans,which kind of world are we living on this days
Honestly Maina The reason behind all this money issue is lack of transparency especially couples. Be open & you will live stress free life. Lovers is a different case. #MainaAndKingangi secret lovers
Gideon Langat..
Consider the level of crime before proceeding further on police. Matters are solved amicably between the parties.

Benard Arap kirui..
Ukipata bibi mwenyewe anakupeleka polisi huyo sio bibi ni mangaa mrudishe kwao period #MainaAndkingangi
Peter Kimatia..
take me to police coz of money! that marriage will end same day
One of Many…
@ItsMainaKageni My Father Once took 0.5 Million from mama. He claimed its for some Job he Got. Nigga went and Drunk all that Money with His Father, Bought some Land and Left mama to Pay for that 500K. Today, i’m helping mama Pay for that loan. What a WasteExpressionless face

Allan Mwangi..
@Classic105Kenya taking your husband to police is a joke of a lifetime I can’t condone that…kwani wao no ngapi tunawapeaga na they don’t refund…I gave mine 750k na she never gave back till now n that was 5 years ago…n she gave to her brother…
when it comes to money that’s a sensitive topic. There is a difference when one uses the term “refund” that means you taking the money as a loan. And there is amount you can let slide but there is that amount ata bibi yangu ntamuitia police if
Jymo Ngash..
Whatever is in the house belongs to both of us.the way they say pesa ya bwana ni yetu.if I happen to borrow money from her then am not able to pay on time,she should wait coz pia nashugulikia familia.If she happens to take me to police that’s the end of us.

It is embarrassing how our society has changed. Where does a woman get guts to take the head of the family to the cops. Even if I don’t pay you do that you are not my wife any more. This happens when a man is experiencing financial difficulties.

mustafa zuzu mpienga

if I could ask cop to help..Langata Prison will be full..zile fare zangu wamekula… So ukichezwa wakubali pia.. dunia duara

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Good attire to smelling good, here’s how to rock it on that date

First dates can be a chilling affair for most people. You are full of anxiety because you don’t know what to expect and how things will turn out. However, there are few things you can do to make that date worthwhile:

1. Dress good


People judge you based on what you put on. You don’t want to show up on your first date looking like a clown. Wear something great, something that uplifts your self-esteem. You don’t have to wear something ratchet to look good. Sometimes this type of outfit could be a real turn off for the other person. People get attracted to your physical look before anything else. You need these points.

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2. Be inquisitive

Someone inquisitive makes a date worth remembering. Ask those questions. Show utmost interest. Give both verbal and non-verbal cues. Don’t ask petty questions though. It makes you look like a goat. Ask as much as possible to be able to learn about the other person.

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3. Keep your phone away

With most people suffering from FOMO (fear of missing out) keeping the phone at bay becomes a hard affair. The most annoying thing is being on a date with someone who’s always checking their phones.


They keep laughing out loudly. Worse is when they tell you a certain guy has been making them laugh all day. You are left wondering whether you are a piece of cabbage.

4. Smell good


We are naturally attracted to people who smell good. It’s part of the mating game. Always wear that cologne. Something that doesn’t snuff life out of the other person. Some of these deodorants smell like burnt onions. It doesn’t have to be an expensive cologne. With a few hundred shillings you can always get that perfect smelling deodorant to rock on that date. Always be on your A-game.

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7 Reasons women should never loan husbands money


The discussion on Classic 105 on Wednesday was why women loan money to their husbands, knowing very well he won’t pay back.

Several women called in recounting their sad experiences.

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The bottom line from women on the morning conversation was that lending money, especially to a significant other, can jeopardize your relationship, leading to resentment, tension, and additional debt.

Here are reasons it’s a bad idea:

1. Puts a strain in your relationship
Your bae is assuming because you are his wife, he can take his time to repay the money owed to you. Bad idea girls.

If you’ve ever loaned someone money, you know it’s not easy to ask for it back. Well, when that person is someone you’re in a romantic relationship with, it may be even more difficult. And if you live with them, it’ll probably get even more complicated.


2. Feelings of resentment arise

Imagine loaning him money and he comes home later with expensive shoes, yet he had claimed he was so broke. It’s possible you’ll feel resentful about lending the money.

3. It shifts the balance in your relationship
If your bae is dependent on you financially, it could tip the balance of power in a marriage, affecting your ability to feel like equals.


4. Feeling of anxiety arise

“You may have anxiety about getting paid back. If your significant other can’t repay you, it could jeopardize your own finances.

5. It may encourage bad spending habits

If you loan someone — aka your partner — money, particularly more than once or if they tend to borrow money from people a lot, you may enable their bad spending habits without even realizing it.
They could assume that you’ll be there for them financially whenever they need help

6. Financial stress if you also borrowed to loan them
If you borrowed the money they need, they affect how quickly you will pay back on your end, causing you stress. It may even land you at CRB.
7. You delay leaving a toxic relationship

The stress and strain of your partner owing you money may get so bad, it may lead you two to break up. But a woman will hold on until he pays back, leading to further strain between them.

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Reasons why getting into a long term relationship is hard in Kenya

Having someone you can trust and call your own has to be the most amazing thing in the world, other than getting paid on a Friday. But it all seems to be different out here. Vitu kwa ground ni different aki. But why is it getting harder to have a long term fiancee as the day goes by.

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I bet here are the reasons:

1. Lungula

The rate at which people are engaging in twa twa I bet God up there is in shock. This tops the list on the reasons why staying committed is a hard thing to do. Twa twa is readily available like your favourite vegetable at Mama Otis.


The problem is that you eventually get caught and have to be shown the door like a stray dog.

2. Open relationship

mapenzi moto

This is the term used by anyone who wants to sleep around but has that Mr or Miss Fix It in case they have ran out of options out there. There’s no commitment so they are not answerable to anyone in case you catch them getting messy with someone else. Your only responsibility is to nurse them when under emotional turmoil majorly through intimacy.

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3. Money

Love is given to the highest bidder. Money is the major determinant. If your pockets don’t run deep so does your play ground become less populated. Not unless kwa twa twa you are a guru.


As a man it’s either you’re good in bed or well loaded to keep a woman for as long as she stays. Guys are faking having money game to trap potential women cause as it is being broke will cost you every opportunity you have out there.

Bro tafuta pesa watajileta tu!

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4 places NOT to go to on a first date

I cannot for the life of me understand why a man would hustle to get a girl then take her to a kibanda for their first date.

Guys, don’t you know it’s a deal breaker?

The first date sets the bar for a man’s prospects but most are failing the boy child fraternity. Shida ni gani wanaume?

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Dear fellow men, here are some of the places to avoid on that first date:

1. Kibandaski

We go wrong with taking a woman to these shanties just to see how they’ll handle themselves. Apparently, to sort the chaff from the grain. How now fellow men? That’s loosing a bet before the game begins. Can you image she has her face beat, and her wig is popping, then she has to deal with smoke? Furthermore she has to sit on hard benches that can rip her leggings? Also how do you expect to run a smooth conversation while other customers will be eavesdropping on your talk?

2. Club

How do you take a woman to a club on your first date? With all that noise, and mafisi salivating on your woman.



This venue fails terribly as a first date option. Not unless you are a coward who can hardly have a meaningful conversation with a lady at least you can kill your prospects by taking her here.

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3. Your house

Asking her for a first date at your house is never a good idea. Lungula comes to these women’s head and the next thing you are already labelled “fisi.” As much as a home date is economical, it’s never a good idea to make it as your option for that first date. Things could get out of hand and I bet no one ever wants a first date to end up with twa twa session. Not unless you the type that these ladies have labelled “boys”

4. Movie theater


Not unless you having a dinner date later on, this venue is no go place. When will you have time to talk while you have that head gear throughout the movie. It’s a good entertainment place but for a date, it fails terribly.

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