There are women who pursue you to get back at your wife – Benjamin Zulu

 

Relationship coach Benjamin Zulu is out here spiting facts.

The motivational speaker in his Tiktok platform riles many with his statements and accounts of relationships.

In one such video, he tells husbands that their side chicks are only with him to hurt his wife.

“there are women who pursue you not because of you because of your wife to prove a point, it’s a competition a contest to destroy a good thing, you should not always think that you are that handsome and attractive, when you see people after you, sometimes the reason is it’s not you”

He continued explaining

“you are just at the centre in the line of fire they are firing elsewhere, you are the convenient, the reachable target. You’ve heard of those pathological househelps maybe or people who are hired or shamba boys you hire somebody and they start having their own motives to seduce one of you to get at the other, the househelp felt mistreated by the mistress of the house, so she starts to seduce the husband to prove a point, to get back at her. Sometimes you are not the reason you are being pursued.”

Here is the video

 

@benjaminzuluke♬ original sound – benjaminzuluke

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I don’t care if she is married – Man tells about pursuing waitress

 

Rejection is part of being a man, but that was not the message man wanted to hear from Maina Kageni after an intense discussion about why men can’t take rejection from Kenyan women.

Maina blasted men, calling them psychos and stalkers after listening to several accounts from women of the men hounding them.

Kingangi told the man’ be a man, don’t take no for an answer’ and the encouragement only made Maina more angry.

He declared he will not take no for an answer

“Nimekatia dame for the last one year.  She is a waitress and I have never stopped going for her. Infact today lunch time I will go for her I will go for lunch in that restaurant. I will not stop until I get her. Such girls are rare to find , she is the one I need. For one and a half years I have not stopped, nashindanga kwa hiyo hotel, sitoki huko. I am going for lunch and I’m not gonna let her go, coz she understands what I need in this life. Who cares if she is in a relationship. I am following my hearts desire. I just want her. I am not gonna let her go Maina we need such women I will not walk away she is a woman who is good for me”

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Man finds out he’s been sending fare to a married woman he’s never met

 

Men are not being spared by women when it comes to kula fare.

One such man amused Maina Kageni when he explained that he has been sending mpesa, and credit to a woman he has been after.

This was revealed in a morning discussion about men who can’t take rejection from women.

Maina was disgusted that men can’t take no for an answer, but co host King’angi insisted a man must be persistent and pursue whatever woman he wants until she says yes.

Mwalimu said ‘as a man you just can’t be rejected na uende, you have to keep trying mpaka aiigne ka system” But Maina asked ‘why can’t you take rejection and go away?”

“As a man you have to keep pushing until it happens’ Kingangi retorted.

This is when a man called in with his story of rejection and humiliation

“In 2016 there was this dame I katiad for almost one to two years only to find out that she is married. I was so devastated lakini. I came to find out she had a family yet alikua ananikataa lakini nikaendelkea kumtumia data na credit niendelea na hiypo form na hakuingia box na haonyeshi hanitaki hata kunihug bado sijawahi onja asali.”

He added “I found out she is married with children on social media when she shared a picture ati ‘happy family life’.I was shocked and took my L’. Yni two years I have sent her data, credit and mpesa na ilikulwa”

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Dr Dre angry ex wife served him divorce papers during granny’s burial

 

Music mogul Dr Dre was served with his divorce papers while attending his late grandmothers funeral.

According to a report from TMZ alleges that a process server confronted Dre with divorce documents while at the cemetery burying his grandmother.

Sources close to Dre said the process server handed Dre the documents as he stood by his grandmother’s casket, but his ex wife’s reps insist it was at the parking lot.

Dr Dre then reportedly reacted angrily and refused to take the documents, and the process server supposedly placed the papers near the gravesite.

Nicole filed for divorce in June, leading to a back and forth of what led to the breakdown of their marriage

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This looks cute until she asks…..Kenyans react to this romantic picture

This photo of a romantic moment between a couple has elicited hilarious reactions from Kenyans.

The man appears very confident to allow his woman to shave his beard, but KOT can’t help but ask what if she asks you a tricky question at that moment. If you fumble, she could very well cut your neck.

This hilarious thread was started by a Kenyan @fanuel who posed..this looks cute until she asks who is Annet? (if you know, you know)

@fanuel__
This looks cute until she asks , “who is Annet ?”

@man_ngete
Iyo swali kuihepa nh unaleta hasira mpaka anakucool downFace with tears of joyFace with tears of joy

@StoneThud
Call it man slaughter

@kim_lakim
Hahaha Annet ni mama wa kuosha nguo #willypoze

@teep_sii
“Mbona Mshwari wanasema wamekumiss” Face with tears of joy

@kunguruu
Hapo sasa….utajua hujui

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Karibu Kanairo! Single woman tells of encounter with married man

Guys, explain this phrase about cheating ‘I can’t help it’.

This was the topic of the Thursday morning conversation October 21, where Maina Kageni told off men for serial cheating.

He blasted men for being irresponsible “guys do you ever think of the consequences, how do you meet someone, go toa place with her and you don’t know her name?”

black man cheating 4

 

A woman told Maina of her experience with a cheating man

“Kuna jamaa alinikwamilia jana, hadi akanipea wallet I pay the bill and he is married. He had a ring then he took out his wallet and told me bebi please pay the bill. Maina I was like he he nimeangukia. I was in the club and he came to my table and ordered drinks. Who am I to refuse? He didn’t even ask for my name and he told me to go with him Since last night he has been calling me, coz I took all the money from his wallet and returned an empty one to him. I gave him my number hiyo ni jackpot, nilibeba pesa yote. I took all the money and he told me he doesn’t care for the money, he just wants me. Till now he is calling me. Those are your Kenyan men, he could not help himself”

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My selfish wife won’t let me cheat, yet sharing is caring – Man tells Maina

 

A married man desperately wants to increase his body count, but his wife remains a stumbling block for his goal.

He claimed that she is being selfish yet thousands of Kenyan women out there are single and need a man to warm their bed.

He told Maina Kageni this in a discussion on Thursday October 21, about men not being able to help themselves when it comes to cheating. Many men told Maina Kageni that there is a kashetani that prompts them to serial cheat.

Maina’s question was “why can’t you say no gentlemen? what do you mean you can’t help it, wewe sio mbwa. what is it about you that you cannot say no hata you don’t know her name”

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The man annoyed Maina with his confession

“If you want to know just how selfish wives are, they don’t want to see us with other people out there, yani our women wanataka tuu ni yeye nimemshikilia. They are not supposed to be that selfish, yeah they are being selfish they cannot let another woman have her man, yeye akisha jishikilia hataki kuona mwingine anafaidika, na wale wengine wako na baridi, because if they were not selfish at least they would allow other people to enjoy what they enjoy mbona mwingine asipate? even for an hour. they are selfish but we are ready to share”

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Girls have money, treat her right and she will spoil you – Smitten man tells

Fellas, kindly take note of this piece of advice from a fellow man.

He says women have money and rather than fumble the bag, all you gotta do is treat her right.

He adds that a woman who likes you will notice things you need in your life, go out and buy them.

He said it speaks volumes in a viral Twitter thread where other men agreed with him.

Another man also advised the same. They must be right, right?

 

@And_Its_Jay
Man you ain’t never lied lol. My ole lady got me a wallet with my dads face engraved in it for Christmas after he passed away last year. I don’t even know how she got the picture I was speechless when I opened it. Everything she’s ever got me was thoughtful af.

@EW_1984
Bruh, when I cut my hair I usually just put a towel down. My lady brought me a cape that latch to the mirror that catch the hair, Nigga…I almost cried lol

@IscoLincoln
They’d kind of finding out what you like most and what you need by asking you sometimes then when they got money they’d just surprise you bringing it without expecting. I fancy those kinda womens

@VizualSwami000
You’re right. Invited this chick over, the next day. She came handed me a gift basket full of stuff. Asked her, what was this for. She said, I did a bit of snooping around and noticed that you need all of this. I blocked her number later that night.

@MikiMouze16
I bought my my man bath and body wash so he’d smelled as handsome as he looked.

@swoledatee
Lol, a lady bought me a garage can, and mop. I was using plastic bags and rags.

@MikiMouze16
I get him beard oil, fancy soap, various hot sauces, and hoodies.

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The one simple thing a man means when he calls you trouble

If the man you are talking/dating, tells you that you are trouble, girl, he is married and getting ready to cheat with you. You are a potentially distracting person he likes and that he could easily get into trouble with you.

A woman online asked this question and was told just as much.

One man told her “That he shouldn’t be talking to you, but he enjoys it. You finna be woman #2 if you keep on ma’am”.

Do you agree? Here are more suggestions

 

@Finefem2
Means he’s got a girl but you’re making him think about throwing away his relationship to be with you.

The trouble is actually all the shit he will get from his wife/gf when he breaks up with her or gets caught cheating with you

@JayEMHolla
Mean either he thinks you’ll get him in trouble with whoever else he’s dealing with. Or if he’s single single you’ll be the one that gets him in his feelings quickly and he’s not sure if he’s ready for that or maybe he could be. Some women make men nervous

@Anaemic_Royalty
He’s cheating and you’re the side chick.

@Very_Topical
Not so precise. Means wanted a fling but on get close really enjoys your company and vibes, but weighing if your sassy, wild self is really worth being with you for the long run.

@burdenb3rry
it means run

@Shadow1D1
He’s married. Has two long term girlfriends (4 kids) and needs a new person to pursue!!
Like Sir. Do not look my trouble and allow me please!!

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Ignore your friends advice, shave shower and get an uber – Women told

While it may seem laughable, relationships in Nairobi are hard to decipher and friendships don’t make it easier.

If your friend is not in your business telling you what to do, others mind their own business even when they see red flags in your relationship.

So one woman on Twitter aptly put it that you should just do you. She wrote

 

Dear Classic 105 fam, do you agree? Remember, only you know him best.

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Date someone outside of your type – Relationship coach challenges

 

 

A relationship coach has advised people to rethink their dating strategies.

He says some people are soooo fixated on their “type” that they miss the person who would have made them a better version of themselves. They also may see it as they’re “lowering their standards” when it’s definitely not the case.

 

@domiono on Twitter wrote
Be open to dating someone outside of your norm. Your “Type” may be the biggest reason why you’re not getting what you really deserve.
 
Let me start off saying this doesn’t necessarily apply to every single person. But what I do personally believe one our main issues is, we sometimes become almost unmovable when it comes to the blueprint of how we envision our love to be.
 
I believe this limits our experiences and options. Stepping anyway from one form to potentially discovering another. Understand that their flow, walk, talk, energy and presence will be different than what we’re accustomed.
 
But at the same time, their mind, heart and spirit may match and exceed every expectation we’ve ever had. That’s not to say they can’t be attractive to us or that we can’t have even the most minimalist requirements.
 
Again, it may be formulated differently but at the same time it can stimulate all of our senses in a whole new way. It’s not about settling either. It’s just dating outside of the construct we created in our minds of what an ideal type is.
 
That’s how we end up discovering & embracing things about ourselves we’ve always internally wanted to express. The right person will do that to us. It doesn’t hurt to give it a try is all I’m saying. Peace & BlessingsBe open to dating someone outside of your norm. Your “Type” may be the biggest reason why you’re not getting what you really deserve.

— Daddy Dom😈 (@domiono) September 27, 2021

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A list of pros and cons of living separately while married

 

When you are married but neither one of you wants to move in together, what do you do?

Each lives in their own home. That’s what we are learning from an interview that Kirinyaga Governor Ann Waiguru does not live with her husband Kamotho Waiganjo.

They live in separate homes and get together on Sundays.

Here are the pros and cons of this marriage model.

Pros of Living Apart Together

  • More alone time, especially if you had a previous marriage
  • Your own space to do with as you please
  • A greater appreciation for one another
  • Appreciate siegz more
  • Reduces irritation and bitterness that comes from living with a loved one
  • Makes the relationship more interesting
  • Less likely to sacrifice their own interests for the happiness of the other
  • Fewer reasons and time for arguing
  • The ability to have companionship without being smothered by one another
  • Less conflict
  • More independence

Cons of Living Apart Together

  • It costs more to maintain two households if you have the same investments
  • Trust issues and Infidelity suspicions. Many responded that they wonder what Anne and Kamotho do on
  • weekdays before hooking up
  • You cannot have face to face chats about marital strife
  • If your spouse is sick, who takes care fo them at night in moments of need?

Dear Classic 105 fam, do what works for you

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This thread on why married men are so attractive will make you think hard

 

Men in healthy and mature long term relationships is one of the reasons married men are highly sought after by single women.

This question was debated online with a man asking why. The responses he got are below:

 

@kgadi_ZA
Because someone irons for them

@PersonYaGod
Because they have stability at home and they’re taken care of

@Koke_Moshe
These days he is eating sin ka fork and knife

@mbathamh
Law of demand and supply.

@SChrisie
Coz we like ambulances,waiting for accidents.

@Lerato_dutoit
Forbidden fruit is always delicious and nice..ask Eve

@Ms_Elljay
They are taken care of, someone does everything for them.

@TsholoChicks
And the are well nourished

@PhathuMakwarela
Someone makes sure they use the right lotion, cut hair on time, dress well, are feed ka upstairs and downstairs

@Pebetsi_Mash
Tell them…. Someone is washing and ironing those clothes and cooking their meals that’s why they don’t look hungry and crusty

@Ndabzito1
We are taken care of, upstairs and downstairs

@nyiikoGift
I always say.. Men who are taken care of, they always neat and good looking

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Maureen Waititu is happily in love in enticing Moroccan vacation 

 

Vlogger Maureen Waititu is sharing envy inducing pictures of her vacation in Morocco.

Her first photos show her holding out her hand with a ring on her finger and her glowing face tells us so.

She wrote “Good morning from Casablanca”

This is the second vacation with the mysterious man and we love to see our girl happy again.

Here are more photos of her happily in love in Morocco.

 

Eish baby girl, all we want to see if the new man. Please sis, drop us a hint.

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Girl locked in eatery along Moi Avenue trolled over unfortunate event

 

A Kenyan woman Thursday night took to her Twitter account to plead with Kenyans to look for someone to get her out of a locked eatery.

She described having been in the bathroom when the restaurant was unfortunately locked.

Twitter user swahigx told ‘Anyone who follows me, I need your help. I am locked in an eatery along Moi Avenue  peipnos pizza along Kimathi road street CBD.I was int he ladies when they locked up. Which was an hour ago. Please retweet to help me get tot he manager or owners”

Trolls were rather amused at her predicament, making fun of it.

 

 

@phelps124
Saa nne we umeenda kukunia CBD…wacha nipigie soja fulani hapo aone kama atakusaidia

@Lennoxobado
Whoever locked you up, is he or she on Twitter now? Or how is retweeting going to unlock the door? Make noise and call for help literally, guards will hear you. Or relax, daybreak is just 6 hours away…..by the way, I’ve seen someone retweet from Germany.

@lee_pius
Hope you get assistance. But just out of curiosity, ulienda ladies ukakaa, staff wakafunga hesabu ya siku,wakatoa uniform, wakazima mziki,wakazima lights, wakatoka, wakafunga, bado ukiwa ladies?? Na uyo mjamaa mlikua nayeye alikua anado??ama alikua pia yeye ladies

@Gamalbrb
Unfortunately, you can’t get help cause you have tagged the wrong accounts and also it’s curfew hours. You can sleep upstairs hapo kwa hizo cushioned seats. Pole sana.

@Gathaga_
Saa hizi labda hawa mapolisi wakusaidie ,but i don’t trust them ,mtu yeyote anaeza kuja kukusaidia can end up doing something strange to you.

 

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Housewives found cheating are swayed by boyfriends with just sh2,000

 

Girls who piga sherehe know their value unlike women stuck at home as housewives.

That is the argument a woman told Maina Kageni about the chances of a party girl cheating compared to a housewife.

She argued that housewives are easily swayed by little money as opposed to a party girl who would never accept cheap money by a sponsor.

The woman also told Maina Kageni that cases of housewives being found in her marital home with another man is one such example.

“The party girls are the best you will ever come across. How many times have you heard that the housewife is the mot loyal, then unapata when the husband travels and comes back he finds her with another man? ladies who club know  their worth and they know tactics for mafisi so getting into their trap is hard. But those who want a submissive woman don’t realize that the housewife falls for traps because she doesn’t know anything else, she is given 2k and jumps into bed, but those other girls are exposed. It is not a crime to go clubbing.”

Dear Classic 105 fam, do you agree that girls who don’t party are not exposed and are swayed easily?

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Be open minded when I go out with my girl squad – Woman assures

 

A woman who is a party animal has told men that they should be open minded when their wives go out clubbing because nothing bad happens.

She told Mwalimu Kingangi that after a long week at work, she needs to recharge and so sherehe is the plan. But King’ang’i was suspicious about women in the club, accusing them of partying with other men. But she assured him no such thing happens.

In fact, she told Mwalimu that any man she meets might be a business opportunity for her husband.

Here is her argument “I would never give up myself for a man unless he also gives up the club for me. Awache ku enda out na boyz. Ati I give up going out with my girls? I need time to with my girls relaxing. I might meet other men , but you need to be open minded. It’s not always about love, you never know I  might meet someone who might be your future business dealer. iI don’t stop you from going out, let me go out, be open minded, wewe ukienda out na majamaa of cousre you are meeting girls, do I stop you? no!! allow me niende nitongozwe, I am desirable’

Classic 105 audiences responded to her comments below:

@karteloalooh
She has to give up and leave by my rules as the man. I’m the head and she should follow. #MainaAndKingangi Never marry an out party girl she will get scared outside there come home innocently like nothing happened.

@mwixzip
I think it’s a high time I start being open minded #mainaandkingangi Face with tears of joyFace with tears of joyFace with tears of joyFace with tears of joy

@BonnieMejja
Hio ni noma,ule wa kupiga sherehe acha apige sherehe na ule wa kutulia acha atulie ju hawawezi kua same wote.

@josephn65551566
Wacha tuendee pamoja na yeye kwa hio squad ndio nkue open minded

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Wives must abide by husbands rule, sio sherehe and cheating – Kingangi

On the Friday morning conversation October 15th, it was all about mandem and sherehe.

The topic excited Maina who said ‘there is a certain kind of lady we need to discus today because your men don’t know how to deal with you – madem wa sherehe’.

Mwalimu King’ang’i faulted these women’s behavior using the lyrics of a popular song ‘hata wakifunga tupige sherehe’.

Maina reminded him ‘but that is todays women. It’s not that the rules have changed it’s that they have evolved. More and more ladies are doing road trips’

 

King’ang’i said ‘mpaka bonfire have a package for ladies wanaitwa squad, at what point do you top sherehe , how do you detach yourself from such a squad? This lifestyle has to stop. There are rules these women should follow. The man being the head of the house is not outdated. You being humble to your husband is not outdated, you being submissively is not outdated, w e are going through a very difficult time as men, hiyo tabia’

King’angi’s warning was supported by many men who said women who like sherehe over the weekend must be submissive or else.

 

 

Mwalimu King’ang’i said there are limits to a woman enjoying herself over the weekends.

@karteloalooh
@Classic105Kenya Any woman in my house has to leave by my rules because I’m the man..If she can’t she should exit leave alone outside there alone. How can you be going out as the man and the woman is going out no way #MainaAndKingangi @ItsMainaKageni

@KamauWaMbiu
We need to understand the meaning of marriage bana… And understand what comes with going to sherehe.. It will end in machos.. Single mothers sawa.. But married people 95% will end up single . that’s where ladies start comparing men

@Stevemulwa9
Shida ya hii gender imegrow baze ni ngumu sana ku reform…..kila weekend lazima watafute form #MainaAndKingangi

@RTumwesigye
Alafu wanataka vile ulimnunulia simu mpya ukimkatia kila wakati simu mpya ikitokea umnunulie as if pesa ni za simu pekee nkt

 

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