4 major signs a man is ready to marry

 

You can stop trying to manipulate, sweet talk or pressure him into asking you to marry him. If he isn’t ready, nothing you do will change or make him marry you girls.

Here are the four signs that we will get into below.

1. His oat-sowing days are over 2. He’s financially independent 3. He’s discovered his desire to be a dad 4. He starts acting like a husband.

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So let’s get down to it in length.

He is done sowing his wild oats

In most cases, it’s a matter of getting “it” out of his system onto other serious matters in life.

If a man has that period in his life where he is all over the place, having multiple intimate relationships, he is not ready to marry.  However ladies, if you do notice that he has slowed down and is chilled, you’ve got a winner siz. This is a testament to how much he has matured.

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He’s financially independent

I can’t begin to tell you how many times I have heard it from men that they are not ready to take on a wife and begin a family until they have money, while for women it’s the contrary. Some men don’t want to get married until they can afford to finance the wedding themselves. Others want to wait until they own a home. It’s also important to men to be able to cover emergencies—for you, themselves, and future children— without the embarrassment of borrowing while a married man.

Ladies, who wants a man with no financial plans in mind?

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He’s hinted at wanting to be a dad

Men have a common fear about fatherhood. If a man is ready and declares he wants to jump into the unknown, he is ready to marry and settle down.

He starts acting like a husband

When your boyfriend start enjoying being around children, even offers to babysit someones kids, you will know that he can handle being around his own children in the future. If he is also thinking about how to pay for children’s needs, it might hint at his desire to settle down.

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Fellas am I wrong? Drop your comments below.

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8 predictable but absolutely common lies men tell in relationships

There are many reasons why he might lie; either he doesn’t want to hurt you with the truth, he wants to avoid drama, he wants to impress you or he thinks you won’t appreciate him being honest.

So let’s get down to the list of lies he and others obviously tell women. Kubali kudanganywa ladies.

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  1. I’ll be home in 20 minutes: He always has to make a quick stop, but he also knows that not telling you his whereabouts is a tricky matter, and so the excuse of I’ll be there in 20 minutes arises. Quick question though girls. Do we always have to know everything bae does and at what time. This kind of reminds me of Size 8 who pesters and nags husband Dj Mo with incessant phone calls. Chill, he will be home.liesmeme
  2.  Just go have fun babe: Because his male ego is so fragile, he can’t fathom you going out and enjoying without him.  To hide this, he will encourage you by saying ‘ Just go have fun, I trust you’ . It’s lies. He is a wreck thinking about all those hottie men out there hitting on you and he is going nuts.

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  3. She’s just a friend, nothing else: Big eye roll. 4387-anim
  4. It’s not you. I just have a lot of stuff going on:
    It actually is about you and your relationship. You are not part of his plans just yet. Try and find out what the real problem is because if issues are swept under the carpet, he becomes more withdrawn.

    My ex lied he slept in a matatu from 7pm to 4am to hide an affair

  5. I’ll call you: Wauuz this is the mother of all lies girls. How many times has your man  – crush, boyfriend or whatever you call him, not called you when they said they would? 492384298-anim
  6. I’ll leave my wife for you: He does this for the benefit of your self esteem.
  7. I don’t think your thighs are too big: This one I must admit we do pile on the pressure for them to tell us we are skinny. Girl simply stop asking him if you are fat or thick, or whatever sensitive words we should be using in this cancel culture of 2020.
  8. Your the only girl I talk with: So why is he texting her?  If he bluntly tells you that you are the only girl who he is with at the moment, please do not fall for it siz.

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That’s Magical! 6 surprising signs the person you’re dating is right for you

 

How can you tell someone is a good fit for you? Do you let time tell you or are there tell tle signs he or she is the real deal?

Here are the 6 tell tale signs it’s the real deal:

They like and value you just the way you are
We all put our best foot forward when dating, but once we get comfortable that kind of takes a back seat and we show them who we really are. Will this person value this person they are no seeing? If they are comfortable with it, then you have the real deal.

 

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They don’t EVER want to change you for something else
We have that little thing called intuition. Do you listen to it? It’s not just about a potnetial date, but even when you don’t feel safe in the streets and something tells you to get out. Listen to this. If the person you are datign acceot you for who you are then your gut is right and you are on the right path.

They listen to you
Someone once asked me how I know if your date is likely to make a good spouse, and I responded that they should listen and understand you plus they should remember small details that you even forgot. If they listen and show genuine interest, then girl you are on the right path, hold onto that manz. They also remember things that you have told them about yourself.

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They care when you are sad and want to comfort you 
Do they reach out and ask if you need to talk? Are they compassionate? Or are they doing many other things as you talk about what’s bothering you. It’s important to know what kind of human being the person is.

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The two of you are excited to be with each other
That feeling of butterflies plays a very important role if you are excited about him or her. Sharing the same feeling of excitement when together is a sure fire sign.

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10 types of toxic people in your life you should be careful about

It’s already stressful trying to live in these times of covid, without having to add toxic people onto the list of things you have to put up with.

If you have these type of people in your life, you need to kick them to the curb and live your best life.

Here’s how to identify those types of people:

1. The Moshene ones
Talk about adding salt to sugar. These types of people are insecure and use their tongue to twist facts and distort information. They want to be accepted by others and so they gossip to seek attention. They are a cancer you cannot heal.

2. The Pretentious ones
These types only act as friends on their terms, anything else they won’t accept. When you need their help they won’t be available, but expect you to drop everything for them. d on; rather, you have to recognize their pretentious traits and establish boundaries within such relationships.

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3. The Egotist
Being around an arrogant person who doesn’t treat you with respect and instead chooses to harass or worse intimidate you is someone you need to get rid of.

4. The Envious
Jealous is another cancer that cannot be cured. These type of people are never really happy for any successful move you make and will talk about you behind your back. No amount of inclusion in your life will make them appreciate or respect you. Kick them to the curb.

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5. The Victim
The victims never accept responsibility. They are great at pointing their fingers at others and never accepting that they have made a mistake.

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6. The backward type
These types have a way of distorting your progress and dragging you backwards to old habits. They believe in being stagnant and want you to be the same person you were.

7. The Judgmental ones
Nothing is ever good enough for this type of person and won’t listen to you. The disdain they emit will ruin your happiness.

 

8. The Parasite
Just like the word suggest, they stick on you, suck the life out of you and at the end of the day they get what they want, but you are left feeling like an empty shell of your former self.

9. The Control freak
This type wants things to go their way or its the highway. They play mind game son you, deceive you to achieve their end game.

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10. The Liar
Toxic people who are endemic liars destroy you in order for them to grow. They won’t support you and you can forget honesty from them.

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5 common breakup mistakes that makes things even worse

We all make mistakes after a terrible breakup, making the situation only worse.

*Slowly lifts hand* Anyho

From going on a social media rant to bad mouthing, here is a list of the things we make the experience alot harder on ourselves.

1. Don;t try to punish them: So they were a terrible person who lied and cheated on you. Don’t start trading insults at them hoping to inflict the same pain on them.

2. Leave their new bae alone: Tempting as it may be to reach out and mudsling your ex to his/her new bae, resist all temptations. Things could really backfire and make you look like that unstable person whom your ex is grateful to have left.

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3. Hanging out at what was your favorite spot: With this you are hoping to catch a glimpse of him/her perhaps with the intention of reigniting a flame? It won’t work.
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4. A quick text or call to check up on them: Avoid this at all cost. Each phone call invites more conflicted feelings, essentially re-starting the breakup and forcing your ex to evaluate the relationship all over again.

5. Going into a new relationship: This is called the rebound. Relationship experts say this is a bad coping strategy as one should take the time to be alone and datign coaches say if you jump back into the dating scene too soon, you haven’t given yourself a chance to learn from the experience, or mourn the end of your relationship.

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Kenyan men share how they forgave wives for cheating multiple times

 

 

Classic host Maina Kageni and his co host Mwalimu Kingangi discussed a viral video of a Kenyan lawyer crying as he watches another man ‘eat’ his woman in Naivasha.

In the video, the lawyer (above) says he forgives her for the act and weighing in on this, Maina said ‘I have never heard of a Kenyan man forgiving his wife for cheating.’

In the video shared severally,  the lawyer is seen apologizing to the girl and saying that he still loves her, and amazes KOT when he tells her he will wait outside until she finishes twa twa.

‘We came here to Naivasha with you.. I didn’t know I’m bringing someone for you to f****. I’m sorry for the drama I caused…but its ok.. Baby I still love you. You have a history with this guy..Just finish f*****g him. I’m here waiting for you,’ he says.

Mwalimu wondered why Maina would say that because according to him, Kenyan men are very romantic and love their wives dearly.

A similar story has also been trending. It all has to do with Will Smith and wife Jada discussing how she had an affair, and she used the word entanglement to describe her relationship with August Alsina.

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Jada Pinkett and August Alsina

 

This prompted a flood of reactions from Classic 105 fans, some of whom recounted how they have found themselves in similar situations, and have had to forgive a cheating spouse.

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Men shared how they forgave while others spoke about not tolerating such nonsense.

Caller: “The first time my wife cheated on me I forgave her and then it happened for the second time. Lazima ukue na roho”

Caller: “The same thing happened to me. I took my wife to Naivasha and then we went to the club. When I went to the washroom, sikumpata kumbe she left with another guy. I left Naivasha that day.”
@AkokoSpector..
That man must have been bewitched nothing can explain the nonsense he displayed
Classic 105 Kenya Caller: “I have forgiven my wife so many times and if she decides to do it again, I will still forgive her.” #MainaAndKingangi

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@PeterWa66937579..
Can’t believe what Ave heard from you,that’s why I told myself to be extre caution with this gender,coz I know how they hurt a man,gosh,,but I can’t do such a thing,mwanaume ni kulia na kumove km ambulance ,kwani wanawake wameisha,,,he need to be tough
@DanPat001..
Ata anakaa aje…. Mwanaume ni kujicompose so kujiachilia kipumbavu ivi…. Mimi nikungoje ukitoka kufanyiwa operation na ndume mwenzangu….nijikute …#MainaAndKingangi

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8 sweet ANSWERS when bae asks ‘why do you like me’

 

No one and nothing can quite prepare you for this question.

Your mind races, your heart pounds really fast and the silence is threateningly loud.

Guys, when a woman asks you’ why do you like me’, what is your answer?

Is there a correct answer that a woman wants to hear?

Here are some really sweet answers to say when your girlfriends asks why you like her:

You are beautiful: You are like sunshine itself, and I feel better when I’m with you.

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You are funny: You make me feel more alive than anyone ever has.

You are smart: You teach me how to be a better partner. You encourage me, support me and let me know how I can best support you.

You know how to get things done. 

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You are passionate: I love you for your passion for life. It’s contagious.

You inspire me: You make me want to be a better person.

I can see a future with you by my side: You accept me for me. I don’t have to hide. You let me be myself, and I thank you for that. It’s amazing to be loved by you.

You complete me: Before I met you, I never felt whole. With you in my life, I am.

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The 21 funniest names saved on peoples phones

 

Do you give people fun contact names on your phone?

Ladies are known to save people they encounter wit the funniest names. From Mike was Nyama to Davy wa Tusker, here is a list we spotted circulating online.

 

 

1. @afosewa..
Cockroach, Bike

2. @Loyaltyyy_____..
Do not reply
🏆BI*CH IM THUGNIFICENT🇿🇼

3. @Kunta_Hendrix..
Bomboclat 😄

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4. @SizzlleBodyGirl..
Never Gonna Happen 😂

5. @AdedotunIfeolu3..
Parasite

6. @P_Odjugo..
Fool dnt pick

7. @khul_dan..
Stranger

8. @Mide_caesar..
Don’t call back

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9. @KingJudeIII..
Mad Miriam
Mayor of ikorodu🇳🇬

10. @Mayor_ikdu..
THE G.O.A.T
OfficialAyblog

11. @ayoblog..
Baby rat
Timi_Tomiii😋

12. @Reys_Reina..
Stalker

13. @lerat0_..
Wrong number, cute voice doe

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14. @homa_kenneth..
Never pickup
God’s Errand Boy

15. @CarthyMister..
Jennifer-Borrow money

16. @Zhulaykha3..
Data consumer😅
Witch✝️

17. @Miimzz___..
Baby elephant

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18. @That_black_mua..
Next door

19. @teebliz_…
Coward

20. @iamChiefStan..
saved my side chicks number as “Bus Pilot”

21. @premebiell…
Weird flexer

 

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11 people reveal their funniest and weird first date experiences

There are so many ways a first date can go horribly wrong.

We all have our fair share of cringe-worthy horror stories from bad dates.

Here are 11 of the worst date stories told by women and men. There is simply no better way to describe these experiences, so just read through:

1. Met this cute white guy at a party. we went on a date to dennys and on the way home he told me his life story & almost crashed the car when he broke down crying hysterically about his best friend who committed suicide. I comforted him but I was honestly scared for my life.he drove 30mph in a 50mph speed limit because he said he enjoyed my company so much. asked me to say nigga. told me he liked my “african american hair” asked me if I wanted head and he didn’t care if I shaved. never again

2. Planned to take shorty out, she instead suggests we chill she cook and watch movies. Cool ima get some. I get there she dragged one of the park benches to the crib…she had no other furniture. Disturbed but she fine AF. She offer me a drink and go upstairs. No furniture up there.Bed on floor. I’m like how we gon watch movie, she said I got a computer. Still wanted to beat lol. We laying on bed and she start smoking but gets up to stuff a towel down at another door. I ain’t pay it no mind. Bout 10 min later her son come out he like 5.

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3. Went on a date with a guy, I arrive to his house he says we are taking his car, but throws me the keys Cause his license is suspended (red flag 1) ,overlooked it & begin to drive only to get stopped by a girl w/a baby, asking through the drivers window when he coming back.We ain’t even back out the parking space yet and this girl seems aggressive, We leave and drive to the seafood place , there I ask “ Was that your sister?”, he replies naw sorry my baby mama be tripping

4. Met this dude on twitter, he asked me out. I had to pick him up bc the day of the date he decided to tell me he didn’t have a car. Ok, cool. Go to pick him up he gets in the car smelling like raid roach spray, I kid you not. The date turned out pretty good. We went to dinner then.Went to the levee and smoked a few, watched the sun set. Pretty fucking great. Then I went to take him home, we pull up to his house, he was constantly attempting feel on me, even tried to put his hands in my pants. I kept saying stop he wouldn’t so I grabbed my gun.

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5. We met for coffee & I was already feeling a NO in my spirit but I was trying to be nice. He showed me pictures of his daughter and asked if I had any kids. I said no so his response was “How many abortions have you had because you’re too pretty for no one to knock you up.

6. Once I went on a date in college and it went nicely, but as he was dropping me off at home he locked his key in the car. I called Triple A & gave him a hanger to try to get the key out himself. He had a meltdown and beat his car with the hanger. I watched from a window inside.

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7. Me and this chick went for dinner when all of a sudden her ex popped up. He came in being wild disrespectful, calling her out her name so I punched him in his face!! She had the nerve to get mad at me for defending her!! I left both they ass there!! didn’t even pay the check

8. Went on a double date with my bestie and the guy she hooked me up with was fiiiine..so his phone keeps going off im like oh here we go i say “you gonna answer that”? he says “nah im good..she in labor but ion know of its mine anyways”.

9. Went on a date with this guy & everything was nice & sweet until he made a stop by his “homeboy” place. Long story short he had me waiting in the car for like 2 hours. I saved the location & googled his ex address the next day. This KAKA had me outside of her house.

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10. Went on a first date with a guy, who invited his “best friend” the proceeded to ignore me and talk amongst themselves for 30min. I left midway through didn’t even eat the food I ordered. The fool called me 3 days later to ask me why I left.

11. Our first date was dinner and a movie. After the movie, she points up to a billboard and asked, “when are you going to give me one of those”. The billboard has a baby on it.

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People share the absolutely rude ways they talk to bae on phone after a quarrel

Relationship fights are normal.

After a fight with your boo, are you ever in a mood to talk to them politely on phone or do you blow up not worried about hurting his feelings?

Depeding on how the fight started and went down, give each other some time.

I’ve been watching these hilarious Tiktok videos of how girls pour water on their eyes when bae calls after a fight. Yup girls do some pretty downright hilarious things to make manz regret making her mad.

So a question about this was asked and people have responded with how they angrily talk when he or she calls after a fight.

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Are you guilty of responding in the following ways?
1. hernamebeal
Silence…. then when he says “hello” I say “speak then” but now in typing this I realise how ridiculous I am, and will change
2. dalenjie
How may I help you sir? *with mad attitude 😂

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3. nellysofunny
“WHAT ??” Or “you called me…
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“Wassup” in my aggravated voice 😂
princessbeaux
***phone rings***
nobody:
me:
him: hello
me: yeah

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Answer…..
Say nothin….
He don’t talk in 5 seconds be like 🗣 you gon talk or not😫😂🤣😭

_yeahhhoe
Answer and just breath lol
ikanty
“Yo” is the only word he going get other than tht it’s “hmmm” “mmmhmm” and “mmmm”
oanirbaco
Hit decline a few times, then pick up and hold the phone in silence 😂😂😂

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You don’t answer it… you ignore them and then text them WHAT?!
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“You called”

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Answer…..then wait for him to say something firs

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….well after he’s called about 5 times and then texted saying, “Take me off block” 😂

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Heartwarming video of newly weds feeding each other mandazi and soda

 

There was no ten tier cake or champagne to mark their wedding, but all the same they made do with what they could afford.

A video of a couple during their simple wedding has elicited mixed reaction, with men praising the couple and ladies saying they expect nothing but champagne and cake.

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@blaqNaami..
Many women would have been wives if they stop demanding white wedding

@yabitchchanel..
They look so content. A lot of women will willingly do this but most guys now are not trustworthy you struggle with them and little in life when they have small money they throw you away.

@St_Jhonne..
You seem to think this is funny. These are two people whi despite the circumstances of their lives, they choose to be happy and contented. Mind you, it doesn’t mean their lives would always remain this way. Their story is inspiring. Laugh all you want.

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@Da_BrandBrain..
They’ll live happily forever

@IamCeo_SAJ..
They may live together without any matters of infidelity while those so called expensive wedding couples keep suspecting each other and keep browsing each others phones.
The goal is to get married and stop jumping frm one person to the other.

@merce_des28..
God doesn’t bless a marriage base on riches or poverty,he blesses it because they had a Godly relationship before marriage.

@brakk0.._
Y’all focusing on glamour wedding when you truly know u don’t have enough to spend on such. Love this video mhen. Guys let’s cut our cost according our sizes

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@mungav..
We normalize laughing at lifestyles we deem lower than oursRelieved faceRelieved faceRelieved faceRelieved faceRelieved face some might never attain the happiness that these two will have with all your money and luxuries.

@Bebelino..
This marriage might be happier than most expensive ones lol

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7 body language clues that say he’s definitely interested in you

Girls, don’t let these fellas try and tell you this isn’t true. they do all these signs subconsciously and it is up to you siz to take note and allow him to make a move.

A mans body language is his inner thoughts. So learn these body movements to tell you what he is not saying in words.

Let’s get into it girls.

1. He will raise his eyebrow or flash them

When he see’s a girl he is attracted to, the eyebrows rise and fall rather fast. Even sponsors do it, so it’s not an age related physical clue.

Lifting our brows pulls the eyes open and allows more light to reflect off the surface, making them look bright, large and inviting. A flash might be easy to miss but they’re so reliable, if you do spot one, you may know someone likes you before they’ve even registered it themselves.

2. His lips part

Manz Lips part, his nostrils flare, revealing he likes you and his lips will automatically part for a moment when your eyes first lock.

If he likes what he sees, his lips will automatically part for a moment when your eyes first lock.

3. His nostrils flare and his face generally opens up

The raised brows, parted lips, flaring nostrils and wide eyes give the whole face a friendly open expression.

4. He’ll spread his legs while sitting opposite, to give you a display of family jewels

He’s subconsciously letting you have a good look at what’s on offer. As long as he isn’t making it feel creepy (yes there are men who are downright disgusting) , then girl he is interested

5. He leans toward you when you talk

If you are in a quiet environment and there is absolutely no reason to lean in and seem as if noise is distracting him from hearing you, it means he’s interested in what you have to say and of course you as a female.

6. He licks his lips in a cute and loving way

He takes a deep breath when he sees you and comes as close to your face as he can, and his breathing is as e\relaxed as can be, then licks his lips, he is interested. When you’re attracted to someone, your mouth produces extra saliva, and if he licks them, then he is telling you he is interested .

7. His pupils dilate

The eyes according to experts responds to the same thing the brain likes. And this also explains for instance whey your eyes pop for instance when you see icecream, because your brain has seen something you like and want.

 

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16 first date questions to spark conversation

Dating does not call for people to be timid, how else will you strike up a conversation that will hopefully lead to something serious?

First dates are nerve-racking for anyone, PERIODT. Thinking of questions to ask becomes harder when a cute girl or boy is sitting across from you.

Here are some general run off the mill questions for that tricky first date, to avoid awkwardness of silence.

1. Are you a morning or night person? This determines whether you strike up conversations at what time of the day, so you don’t irritate someone.

2. What’s your favorite restaurant? This helps avoid taking her on a date to a place with food she hates.

3. What’s your dream job?

4. What would your perfect vacation look like? Guys can gauge if she is adventurous or not, and how to handle things going forward.

5. What would your perfect morning be like?

6. Who are your kind of people?

7. What odd talent do you have?

8. What do you like to do in your free time?
Know her hobbies, and join her in one.

9. Am I what you expected from my profile?’
Some people are different from what they present on social media,

10. Who is the most fascinating person you’ve met?
She or he might have an interesting story to tell.

11. What was the last book you really got into?
If you are looking for a widely read date, this would definitely be a question you should ask.

12. What are some movies you really enjoyed?
This might give you an idea of the types of movies she enjoys.

13. What TV series do you keep coming back to and re-watching?

It’s something to bond over.

14. What music artist do you never get tired of?

15. Where would your friends or family be most surprised to find out about you?

16. What do you like but are embarrassed to admit?
We all have our guilty pleasures.

 

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10 things to stop doing if you’re unlucky in love

 

You have kissed 1000 frogs and not met the one yet.

If you feel unlucky in love, avoid doing any of these ten things:

1. Stop pitying yourself

It prevents you from finding someone else because of feelings of unworthiness. Many of us have and continue feeling this way. You are not meant to be alone.

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2. Don’t try so hard

We immediately jump back into the game with promises to do better next time. When you push yourself too hard you dont allow a genuine person to come into your life. People for your information smell a desperate person a mile off.

 

3. Hold no expectations

Having too many expectations of someone leads to disappointment.

Expect nothing and you’ll always be pleasantly surprised.

4. Don’t call him up

Listen sis, if a guy is done with you, let him go. Men should do the chasing, they love it..

5. Stop crying over them

Don’t waste your time crying over spilt milk. Crying over someone isn’t going to get you anywhere. Say thank you, next!!.

6. Keep some mystery

This is called TMI (too much information) A little mystery goes a long way. Keep yourself a little mysterious, that’s what keeps people’s attention.

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7. Stop blaming it on men

It’s not them. It’s you. This is all on you, because you keep going for the wrong person.

8. Stop going after the wrong guy

You may have a set mind what type of guy you like, however it is possible, you are focused on what shouldn’t be. Give another type of guy a chance.

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9. Be yourself

Simple.

10. Take a chance

You may surprise yourself with how well it goes.

11. Let go babe

Weka shida chini, mikono juu. It’s not worth holding on to for all the negative energy.

 

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‘Teach a man to spend money on you’ Kenyan woman advises

 

How many times have you heard out there a married man bragging that his woman is fine, he doesn’t need to worry about things at home? Sound familiar?

This situation is very common according to one woman who called in to the Classic 105 show, to share tips on family finances.

Money
Money

Just read this quote first before we get into it.

Girls, it is your right to expect a man to pay for your dinner, your movie ticket, your club entry fee, or anything he has to pay for in exchange for your time. began comedian TV show host Steve Harvey.

The upset woman said to Maina Kageni that

the number one mistake women make with these men especially when you land yourself a stingy man is showing them you can be independent, especially financially.

You show a man you can take care of all your financial needs, rub it in his face? The day you come to him and ask for a coin, trust me aki sha zoea, whatever he will give you will be little or nothing knowing that you have money, when he gets used to being shown that you are financially independent?

You don’t hear them bragging out there ati my mama is a mama who sorts herself out. so this thing of miss independent it blows. the day you are needy that man won’t care. 

So what should a woman do?

From the word go let that man spend on you let him take care of you teach him how to spend on you, so girls out there, let them listen 

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A list of the weird and funniest dates people have ever experienced

What is the weirdest date you’ve ever gone on? And did it lead to another one? A twittter thread is exposing the encounters people have on dates that are simply out of this world.

Remember what may be weird to you, could be so cool to someone else. so read on and have a good laugh.

1. @postgrad_barty
what’s the weirdest date you’ve been on??? I’ll go first

we were going to see a movie and didn’t buy tickets in advance and couldn’t get two tickets next to each other so we ended up sitting on opposite sides of the theater and then the movie ended and we were like cool ok bye

1. We were seeing incredibles 2 I wasn’t gonna leave and pass up my opportunity to see it
2. It was assigned seating and there were 2 seats left in the whole theater and no gaps between groups so people couldn’t move
3. No, I never saw this man again
crying! at the disco

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2. Twitter user @s1cken1nggg recounted
Met the guy on tinder, about 3 mins into meeting him he goes “can you buy me water and a pack of cigs”, I comply, I think I spent $70 because he kept pressuring me to buy him stuff and he didn’t spend a dime, he kept farting too ?? Then he tried to catch a pigeon with his hands

cuc laughing

3. Vanilla AlmondMilk
@dadfancier
He kissed me and pulled back and said ‘wait there’s just a little…’ I was embarrassed I thought I had something in my teeth he put his hand in my mouth and said I think this tooth is wobbly, I was 19 with all my adult teeth

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4. Stephanie is 🐶-10
@Stefaniy
Guy I wasn’t very interested in bugged me until I agreed to a date. We went to a pub and some friends randomly joined us. After a while I guess he was feeling neglected or something. Stood suddenly, tossed a wad of cash on the table in front of me and said “Thanks for the date”

5. Fringe ♍️
@Loyalty_a_Mustt
This dude kept saying I should let him take me out when I come back to atlanta. Soo I finally did. I ubered to the restaurant. We ate, like 5 mins after the check came a female walked in looking crazy as HE*L and sat right next to him. Likeee I thought it was some cheaters sh**..

old-woman-laughing

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6. ТИМА
@moonresidue
I went over to this guys house for dinner and drinks and he was a bit off. So I went to the bathroom and he has a DIL*O in his tub and he came running in and was like WAiiT and I’m standing there looking at it… i gave him a courtesy 20 minutes then left

7. Brian Abrams 💭
@CleOptiRealist
She wanted to walk to the bars near where I lived because it was nice out — by the end of the night we were both pretty drunk & it was now a half snow half sleet snow storm but she insisted on walking back to my place anyways. Long story short I woke up at the bottom of a hill near my apartment with TWO sprained ankles , phone dead and had to crawl up the hill ..wet and freezing and walk home.
Texted her later that day after overcoming my hypothermia “wth happened last night?”
She replied sorry for pushing you down the hill I got scared

8. MAMA🌻
@shayleighfrantz
We matched on tinder and he happened to be in a wheelchair and he took me to a hotdog place where he ate four hotdogs and then to the beach where he asked me to blow up his arm floaties for him and we sat there for three hours watching vine complications because he couldn’t swim

9. Kyndall Elizabeth🌹
@klizzy99
Went to lunch with this guy and in the first 5mins told me that both of his siblings were in jail and then while driving me home he said let’s take a longer route and goes to this lake in the woods and there was a cemetery and he looks at me and says “I’m not going to kill you”😅

How crazy do these dates sound to you?

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5 unrealistic things guys expect from girls

Trying to make sense of what a man wants from you can be difficult.

 

But here is a rundown of some of the things that guys expect from girls, that tend to cause a strain in relationships.
1. He needs a friend with benefit, but will never marry a girl who has had many relationships

Expecting a girl to be your friend with benefit for life is unrealistic. Won’t she find someone to marry, and wait just one minute is that even possible to be a friend with benefit for life?

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I have heard it said from many men that there are two types of chicks – the one to have funwith and – the one to marry.

 

2. Girls are expected to be natural ( we love you natural girls) but at the same time she must be super stunning

Even the moon has dark spots.
Okay, a girl can look good while being natural. But how can she manage to look SUPER S3XY without makeup. Sure, girls have natural beauty, but it doesn’t mean that you can expect her to look like you wish. Shouldn’t guys expect that a girl be caring, honest and all those nice things?

3. Be committed but not wedding crazy

Every girl has planned her wedding by the time she is done with college, whether or not she has a man.

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So expecting to date her without any mention of future plans is unrealistic.

The marriage topic WILL ALWAYS come up, and if she is committed to you, the subject will be there.

 

4. Being low maintenance while looking high maintenance

The expectation is that she should be both, but not trying too much.

If you want her to look like a “high maintenance” girl, you need to spend money on her for maintenance. The word itself says “high maintenance,” How can you expect her to look the same with almost no money?

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5. Being distant while still showing interest

Now this is confusing to girls. She can’t be turned on and off like a switch.

Guys, either you are in or you are out.

Is this true and what have you done when faced with such a situation?

Hilarious tweets about dating during the coronavirus outbreak

 

Governments worldwide are encouraging citizens to stay home as a preventative measure against coronavirus.

Many are documenting their stay at home experiences and most affected are single people, who are sharing the most hilarious memes and thoughts about dating in the coronavirus era.

1. corona date

Idris Elba tests positive for coronavirus 

2. corona joke dating

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3.corona joke

Nyce Wanjeri reveals intimate details of the new man she is dating (exclusive)

4. corona dating 4

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5. corona dating 6

6. corona dating 8

Being with Diamond is like watching the Titanic movie praying it doesn’t sink – Hamisa

7. corona dating 7

8. coroan dating 5

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