Finding Love Again: Mejja reveals his new bae

 

 

Mejja from the Kansol is one of Kenyans favorite artistes who sadly has not been so lucky with love compared to love from his fans.

A few months ago, he granted us an exclusive interview where he opened up about his former relationship and how he will no longer trust women.

Mejja

Guess this new bae has literally swept him off his feet. Because he is declaring that she is his property.

Beauty And The Beast 💙 I am taking my babe to Pangani to buy Miraa. She loved me in my ghetto state and now she is my ghetto queen. People on the comment section do not come out here saying she is public property, she is my private property. Anyway, I love you wagenge and God bless.

Mejja had made a vow, never to trust women again after his wife suddenly left him.

WE HAD NOT DISAGREED, ACTUALLY WE WERE SO HAPPY. I WAS IN THIKA AND I GOT HER MESSAGE ASKING ME IF I HAD ARRIVED WELL. I TOLD HER YES AND THE NEXT THING SHE TOLD ME WAS ‘MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE’

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The whole breakup led him to depression and for over a year he was fighting this feeling. What hurt him most was the absence of his daughter. He couldn’t imagine her living in another man’s house.

 

Matters of the heart require a lot of patience and we are glad that he took his time off and now he has found a beautiful lady as a potential life partner.

Right now, the Kansol are being played in every party and club after they released their hit banger, Accelerator featuring Vivian.

Meet Mejja’s queen,

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Pierra Makena reminds fans once again why she’s the queen of curves

Pierra Makena is snatching edges with alluring pictures of her curvy figure.

She appeared to be living her best life on vacation and took to Instagram to share photos.

The reaction of fans including her celebrity pals reminds us once again why she is the queen of curves.

Dj Pierra regularly treats her fans to cute photos and this time round she posed for an array of pictures on her vacay

She is dazzling and even girl pals Michelle Katami and Massawe Japanni agree.

Call it what you want but Dj Pierra is feeling it and loving it.

The curvy girl shared a caption that read in Spanish

Como estas!

creo que estoy enamorado

Buenas noches

creo que estoy enamorado, which when translated to English means ‘I think I am in love.’

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Earlier she had also shared how she felt about her vacay

I don’t wanna leave…..😲😲 This has been a good holiday.

Read comments about her

michelle.ntalami
@pierramakenaofficial Heh! Mpaka I’m blushing! 😍 Fire! 🔥

deejaykalonje
Eish. Sorry basi
chigubangala
Looking really good. You lost some weight?

kig1985
and shes back, u lost the weight beautifully mami, muy bueno bonita

kendy_lauren
Drippn’ sause❤️😍🔥🤤🤤

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Sponsors: Why taxi drivers love clubs along Kiambu and Langata road

Dating applications, mushrooming clubs, taxi services among other factors have made sponsors very accessible to women.

The access has been investigated by Star reporter Njeri Mbugua who says

The practice, once used by young girls from poor backgrounds to earn a little extra money, has for many become an accepted lifestyle choice.

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A 2018 study on the culture among university students in Nairobi found that one in every five girls had a sponsor. The study was conducted by Busara Centre for Behavioural Economics.

Further, over 70 per cent of the respondents said a sponsor should pay for trips, rent, hair and beauty, outings, restaurant meals, food and shopping, dates and gifts.

Young man dating an old woman

The Star also learns that digital taxi applications are widely used to facilitate transactional sex.

A driver speaking on condition of anonymity says when men or even women do not want their spouses to know their whereabouts, they opt to take digital taxis.

“To avoid being tracked by their partners or being recognised using their vehicles, a lot of these old men will use us to take them to hotels or lodgings with these girls,” he said. 

The driver also reveals that the increase in entertainment joints, especially out of town, also plays a supporting role in such relationships.

“During the weekends, we have very specific clubs along Kiambu Road or Langata Road where you will find most drivers parked because they know business will be good,” he said. 

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“A lot of young girls will flock these clubs because they know there are rich men waiting.”

Another driver, also speaking on condition of anonymity, says they have found a side hustle.

“Sometimes when we get requests to pick up girls from hotels, we start talking to them about their sponsors. If they are not happy with the amount of money or benefits they receive, we offer to hook them up with richer men in exchange for a small fee,” he said. 

While it has become easier to get into the relationships, they are short term in nature, with controlling power belonging to the sponsor.

According to the study by Busara, sponsors know they can end the relationship any time they want.

Pregnancy, infections such as HIV or STIs, violation of secrecy and demands for exclusivity are some of the most common reasons a sponsor may leave.

Additional reporting by Kelvin Alex

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Otile Brown’s cryptic message after girlfriends black rose remarks

Otile Brown may have just added some major fuel to the fire that fans will use to speculate about a possible breakup with his Ethiopian bae.

The breakup rumours first emerged on Tuesday when Nabayet shared a photo of a bouquet of black rose flowers on Instagram. In the caption of the photo, she indicated that ‘they cannot take away the energy’.

She, however, did not comment directly on whether the flowers signified her breakup with Otile Brown or not.

Nabayet black rose

The two began dating early this year shortly after Otile Brown had a nasty break up with Kenyan socialite-cum-business lady Vera Sidika. None of the two has directly addressed the breakup allegations.

Otile recently shared an Instagram post that has fuelled rumours of a breakup with his Ethiopian girlfriend Nabayet.

The singer has remained silent on the state of their relationship following the rumours about the breakup.

He wrote;

“change your ways for them and they still nag & complain. What you do 🤷‍♂️? 🏃 #justinlovemusic#wegotnothingbutlove,” Otile Brown wrote on Instagram.

otile and nabayet

It is not yet clear as to who exactly Otile Brown was referring to. However, a section of Kenyans has argued that the singer was referring to his girlfriend Nabayet.

Check out their harsh comments and opinion over the reported breakup

stacey_kigo
Wewe usituambie mmeachana na nabbi tena.You know I follow you bcs of her

eastafricann__
What did you do to Nabbi!?🙄 She is too much of sweetheart to be doing you wrong… fix it before you regret. Quote me on this few years down the line

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Bring shemeji back or we will turn against you… team Nabbi here 🙋‍♀️

deniskinara
Shida kubwa ya wasanii wetu wa kenya na kupenda kurudia manguo igeni kidogo wabongo haswa Otile na Willy Pozee

lindabelinda_ronney
So with ya caption,you n nabbi ni past tense ama?u got be kidding,why😥?amber alikuja kuharibu mapenzi aki

elvis_azunah_
@otilebrown ..advice from a fellow brother..your relationship issues you always don’t have to publicize all the time …try solving them as a real man by understanding where she is coming from and heading .Maybe you are the problem not them bro…

lovenexmakau
Why did vera dump you? Nabbi now, io vedio yako na amber nilijua tu😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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The sweet reason Joyce Omondi and Waihiga Mwaura keep things private

Fans always scramble to get as much information about media power couple Waihiga Mwaura and his wife Joyce Omondi. This is more so because the two keep their private life very close to their chests.

Little is known about their lovey dovey side.

That is why, despite being in the limelight, they managed to keep their relationship under wraps until a few days to their wedding.

The lovebirds started dating while they were both working for Citizen TV; Waihiga as a sports news anchor and Joyce Omondi as host of gospel show Rauka.

In a recent and rare interview with Salon Magazine, the couple revealed why they kept their relationship secret.

“We keep to ourselves and rarely post about each other apart from special occasions. Anything precious is best kept hidden and that has been our policy,” said the couple.

Waihiga and Omondi further revealed that some of their colleagues didn’t know they were dating until they tied the knot.

“We decided to be very private about our relationship from the beginning. Many people [including our colleagues] did not know that we were dating until we got married,” said the couple, adding, “That is why this is the first and only interview we shall do in a very long time.”

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They told the magazine that they met in 2012 on a Sunday morning when Joyce was leaving the set of her show. Waihiga pursued the gospel musician for a while but she was hesitant to get into a relationship with him. She eventually gave in and they started dating secretly, leading to their wedding on December 18th, 2015 at Sawela Lodge in Naivasha.

In a different interview with Chat Spot, Joyce stated that she had been missing from TV for six years and her new show will give her an opportunity to interact with young people.

“It’s been 6 years since I got back on air and the show I’m doing really is a dream. Because I’ve been looking at how I can have a platform to talk with young people. To do all these other light fun things but still infuse my faith and this show I am doing, is it.”

During the period she was away, she pursued her Masters Degree and many opportunities came along but she believes that not every opportunity is the right one.

“There have been opportunities that have come along but I personally believe that it’s very important to understand that not every opportunity is the right one. And it’s wisdom, it is discipline and it’s self-love and value to know which opportunities you should take and which ones you should leave behind.”

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Sorry Sis! 6 signs you may just be a booty call

Is your man serious or is he just looking for a good time in bed?

If you’ve ever asked yourself that question, you already know. But you may want to read on just to be sure.

In some situations, it’s easy to get confused about what’s going on between you and a potential beau. A guy may just be taking things slowly, like a cautious young man. Other guys may just be casual, you know nothing serious there, mate! Or, others may consider themselves players you may have been classed as the dreaded booty call, and you don’t even know it yet.

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Signs you are just a booty call:

  1. He is very secretive when on his phone to a point he does the bob and weave with his phone hiding the contents of his phone from you. This also can imply that he is se3ting with another beau behind your back.
  2. The conversation that revolves around the both of you is just plain old msolokombo. Feelings and gratification revolve around pekejeng. If you claim not to be well informed about his life and the things that he likes, then girl you his booty call or rather his side dish for when his main ain’t available.
  3. If he doesn’t check up on you, or ask you how your day has been? That’s a red flag that he ain’t with you emotionally and that he doesn’t care about your feelings whatsoever. Just contacts you when he wants to “nyandua” you.
  4. Not part of his daily life. If he doesn’t involve you in his day to life or the both of ya’ll do not hangout in public places other than the time he only wants you in his bed then you are his clandestine. Also when you try bringing in the question of being  in a serious relation with your “man” and he casually shrugs it off or makes flimsy excuses then, you just ain’t that special to him.
  5. Its all about relieving s33ual tension or some sort of fantasies he’s always been skimming up his sleeves. No real bonding, just being physically satisfied and when all that is said and done, he will give you the boot, no sleeping over when the deed is done or if he is at your place he will leave with no hesitation.
  6. Nyanduaing is mostly on his terms and whenever the both of ya’ll are tispy or drunk. No point will there be any intimate moment when the both of you are sober.

What are or were some of the red flags you have or came across that you knew you were just a booty call?

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To snag a man, let him do the chasing – Classic fan Captain Kale advises

 

FACT! Most men love a good chase.

It turns out that men today say our ancestors were right- that ladies shouldn’t make the first move.

Can you imagine having to tell your children that you chased your husband and perhaps proposed to him?

Of course not.

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Some women don’t want to admit it, but we all want a guy to approach us, fall madly in love, and not be able to wait to call us.

So how do you make that happen?

Classic 105 fan Captain Kale says it’s not that complicated. He was responding to a conversation on the morning show which sought to find out why women are labelled as cheap.

He said:

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“These women have no reason to say we are cheap. How do you expect a guy who lives with his mother akuletee nyama? When a man leaves you don’t go saying that Kenyan men are bad or cheap.”

Kale insists it’s not nearly as difficult as girls make it to be.

Or is his truth about girls who make the first move very hard hitting?

Kale added about the importance of not ruining a good thing, and why he needs to call you, and when it’s okay to give it away.

‘These women don’t even have reasons. They don’t have any proof, these women are old and go looking for boys in campus, these women should go back to how it was back in the day and they wait for us to katia them. Us Kenyan men are very few and we are special’

Their answers show that the odds are against those trying to muster up the guts to do the asking first.

Do you agree Classic 105 fam? Drop your comments below

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The one thing Kenyan men do that annoys women 

 

Every woman says a good Kenyan man is hard to find.

And it all boils down to the one thing they don’t do.

When a fella visits a woman’s house he must go with something. Unfortunately, many Kenyan men turn up at a woman’s house empty handed, then place demands for food and a place to sleep after the nights activities.

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Like seriously, why would a man go to a woman’s house, where he doesn’t pay rent, knock on the door empty handed and expect a good time with her? It’s no wonder, women are playing the field.

On the Thursday conversation, Maina opened up the phone lines to men about allegations from women, that men are the ones who are cheap.

Mwalimu argues men are not cheap they just pretend. ‘Kenyan men have a lot of dignity, if you think they are cheap they are just pretending, and end up gaining’

Ladies have you ever encountered a cheap Kenyan man and it astounded you? Maina asked women.

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This after on Wednesday a caller accused women of being the cheapest, that all they need to buy a Kenyan girl is a mzinga, and she falls for it.

Here are a sample of views from women about this annoying habit

Jennifer Kanyiri..
Why would a man go to a lady’s house, men need to style up and be the gentlemen they claim to be #MainaAndKingangi

@moniqueKimm..
Some men are just lazy and want everything the cheap way. He’ll come eat, sleep alafu asnore till morning lol

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“Kenyan men are cheap! Nowadays you will meet a guy, he will come to our house, hajakuja ata na nyama ama maziwa alafu anauliza tutakula nini? Who does that?” #MainaAndKingangi

Thaimoni wa gasmonkey..
chali kulala kwa hao ya dame iyo nayo haileti shangwe,,,nyumba hulipi wachana nayo
Rosemary..
@ItsMainaKageni Men of today are annoying!! Begging money from ladies. Sisi sio fuliza, tala, branch, okash … Cheap=Men period @Classic105Kenya

 

 

 

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Boda Boda rider reveals how they manage to date Kenyan girls

You may find them disorderly on the roads, but they are snagging Kenyan girls faster than the average man.

What’s the secret to landing that girl, that the average Brayo or Mikey can’t?

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I mean just sample this tweet from a girl

 

 

A man confessed to Maina Kageni that in between cars honking and the rushing wind, they are able to seduce and land the girl of every mans dream.

He said:

‘I meet five girls on average and manage to bed two. I do boda work, I stop my bike and they agree to go to a room. It just falls into place, out of five girls that I do, its only two I might chew, we take them slowly on our bikes while we ingiza her box’

Even KOT have noticed the Boda Boda power over girls. Here are hilarious reactions

charles maina..
I fear them so much kwanza wa murang’a, kuna mmoja alichukua girlfriend yangu those days 😂😂😂😂😂#MainaAndKingangi

Sarahllito🌼💮🌸..
Apr 8
Uta ride bodaboda… Uta ride bodaboda… Utah do what 😂😂😂🙆🙆🙆

Purity Ng’ethe..
😂😂😂😂mimi aki na si chuki ama nini msee wa nduthi hawezi niingisha box aaaaiii aca #MainaAndKingangi

charles maina…
Apr 8
Hii nimekataa, 😂😂😂😂😂 hawa wanatumia mpaka kamuti #mainaandkingangi

Rodriguez..
Kwani nowadays ladies are that cheap??

wamichira..
They have access to sure bets(warembo)

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See how easy it is?

How immaturity cost Pastor Kanyari’s marriage to Betty Bayo

The reason that led to the end of pastor Victor Kanyari’s marriage to Betty Bayo has been made public.

Speaking to Word Is on Saturday, Kanyari said that they married while very young and immature.

“Betty was the best woman I have ever met but I think when we met we were both still childish, I was only 31 years.”

It is the main reason the marriage did not work because Betty was not a bad lady. She could have her perspective but the age contributed to the breakup.

Kanyari said they were not strong and grown enough to handle marriage life, but now they are mature and able to decide the best for themselves.

Many believe that the two separated after Betty realised that her husband had been running a false ministry.

“She was overcome by Pastor Kanyari’s scandalous life. The TV expose was not the main reason because she stood by me.

Kanyari would not listen to anything she told him.

“Like when she wants me to come home early, it was always a problem for me.” He says Betty was the best woman he has ever met.

Asked if he still loves Betty, Kanyari said, he cannot say yes or no.

“You cannot force love to anyone. Na ukiachwa achika. I would say, if she loves me, I love her too but if she does not, then why should I force myself to her? If you are mature enough you let things unfold themselves without forcing them to happen because it could affect both of us.” Love is a journey, and I loved her then but for now, I don’t know what her heart has.

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Betty has finally moved on and is set to wed. Kanyari said,

“The time will for me to move on and the whole world will know but for now no hurry in Africa. I will move on when I want, let me have my good time and continue serving God,” he said.

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Saumu Mbuvi fights back at accusations of bad parenting

Mike Sonko’s daughter Saumu is at ‘war’ with a section of women she has termed as haters on social media.

Saumu, who is currently dating Lamu Senator Anwar Loitiptip, shared a photo of them together with her daughter and they looked perfect.

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She captioned the above pic

CALL IT A CLAN, CALL IT A NETWORK, CALL IT A TRIBE, CALL IT A FAMILY: WHATEVER YOU CALL IT, WHOEVER YOU ARE, YOU NEED ONE..YET IT IS NOT DEFINED BY OUR GENES BUT IT IS BUILT AND MAINTAINED THROUGH LOVE AND RESPECT 🙏🏽❤️#BLESSED

One of Saumu’s followers commented on her post, lecturing her on how to ‘raise’ her daughter with businessman Ben Gatu.

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Saumu Mbuvi and her lover Lamu senator Anwar

The follower identified as Ma Kasaine wrote,

CHUNGA SANA HUYO MTOTO. DON’T KEEP INTRODUCING DIFFERENT MEN IN YOUR LIFE, IT’S NOT GOOD FOR HER.

 

This didn’t go down well with the governor’s daughter and she came out guns blazing. She told off the lady

@MA_KASAINE WITH YOUR AGE …MAISHA YANGU INAKUASHIA NINI..WEWE LEA WAKO UTAKAVYO…THIS LIFE DIDN’T COME WITH A MANUAL!! LET’S SEE HOW YOUR DAUGHTER WILL TURN OUT!!! ARE YOU GOD TO JUDGE,’ SHE RESPONDED.

Adding,

PELEKA MENOPAUSE POLEPOLE. NEXT TIME U WANT TO SPREAD YOUR NEGATIVITY KEEP TO YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY NOT PEOPLES KIDS!!.

Mike Sonko's daughter Mike Sonko's daughter

Saumu’s distasteful comments saw her trend on social media pages and she savagely attacked women.

WAMAMA WA CHIT CHAT WATAFUTIWE KAZI YA KUFUA NGUO WAACHANE NA MAISHA YA WATU. IF YOU KNOW THEM TAG THEM ALL! MENOPAUSE IWAPELEKE POLEPOLE JAMENI. DEAR GOD PLEASE KEEP THESE WOMEN BUSY WE ARE TIRED OF THEM. BLESS THEIR POCKETS SO THEY CAN FIND BETTER THINGS TO DO WITH THEIR LIVES.

She shared another post holding a few dollars with a caption that read,

HOW I READ THEIR COMMENTS.

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She later pulled down the posts and shared another one, which read,

HE WHO MUST DESTROY OTHERS TO SUCCEED MUST KNOW THAT DESTRUCTION AWAITS HIM AT THE GATE OF HIS SUCCESS.

The mother of one then shared a message to critics, talking about her past life experiences, that have toughened her.

WHILE THEY ARE WAITING FOR HER DOWNFALL, WHAT THEY DON’T KNOW IS SHE HAS ALREADY STUMBLED, FELL AND GOT BACK UP!! NO TURNING BACK.

 

Saumu’s remarks comes barely a week after her father was criticized for attacking Suba MP Millie Odhiambo for being childless.

…JUST THE WAY YOU HAVE OPENED YOUR MOUTH WIDE IN THIS PICTURE, I AM LONGING FOR THE DAY YOU SHALL OPEN WIDE YOUR LEGS TO GIVE BIRTH TO A CHILD SO THAT YOU EXPERIENCE THE PAIN THAT THE MOTHERS I AM DEFENDING GO THROUGH. YOU MUST RESPECT THOSE SINGLE MOTHERS WHO STRUGGLE WITH THEIR KIDS AS MEN GO MISSING.

 

Times Nicki Minaj has become a hot topic with her ex convict bae

 

Nicki Minaj’s thug boyfriend Kenneth ‘Zoo’ Petty, is at the centre of unwanted attention.

Her boyfriend is a convicted felon.

The singer has been dropping hints all over social media about her lover.

She has taken multiple times to Instagram to show the world that she is having fun and is serious about her bae.

Is she fully aware he has a record?

Petty was convicted in 1995 of first-degree attempted rape and pleaded guilty in 2006 to first-degree manslaughter. (He has served several years in prison for his crimes.)

“He was 15, she was 16 … in a relationship [in the rape case]. But go awf, Internet,” she wrote on Instagram on December 10, 2018, the same day she posted a risqué photo in bed with Petty. “Y’all can’t run my life. Y’all can’t even run y’all own life. Thank you boo.”

TMZ reports that the couple was spotted at the Beverly Hills courthouse on Monday at the marriage license bureau window, and filed the paperwork to get married.

While the world is blindsided by his criminal past, see pictures of her love interest:

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Nicki and Petty
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Nicki and Keneth

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Thailand King anoints his mistress as his official concubine

 

Thailand‘s King has made his mistress a royal consort in a ceremony attended by his new wife, marking the first time the country’s modern monarchy has publicly admitted to polygamy.

King Maha Vajiralongkorn made his former bodyguard, 34-year-old Sineenat Wongvajirapakdi, his chao khun phra (royal noble consort) in a ceremony on his 67th birthday.

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Queen Suthida was sitting next to him.

He poured ceremonial water over Ms Sineenat’s head to officially anoint her a concubine during a televised service on Sunday.

During the service she lay on the floor to remain lower than the King’s feet, in accordance Thai royal tradition.

The move marks the first time a Thai king has publicly had more than one partner since an absolute monarch ruled the country in 1932.

Major General Sineenat was also given four medals, such as ‘most noble order of the crown of Thailand’ and ‘most exalted order of the white elephant, special class’, as well as being lauded for her time as a senior officer in the King’s bodyguard team the Ratchawallop Police Retainers.

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Ms Sineenat, who is known as Koi but used to be called Niramon Ounprom, was formerly a nurse at the Ananda Mahidol army hospital.

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What does a Kenya woman have to do to keep her man faithful Maina asks

The Classic 105 morning conversation was something that many Kenyans discuss either silently or in groups. And not one solution to the problem has been found.

‘I feel I am in season 5 of my life’ Makena Njeri responds to cheating scandal

What am I talking about? Maina Kageni was asked by a lady to ask Kenyan men on air this question below:

What do we have to do for them to remain faithful to us? What do they want? We are ready to listen

What is it that Kenyan men want their ladies to do to remain loyal? Can you please give them a point breakdown.

‘I paid my own bride price but he keeps cheating on me’ Shouts woman

It’s very simple according to the thoughts of Mwalimu Kingangi who says women should do ‘nothing’.

wakae hivo wachane na sisi. They don’t need to do anything, there are things you can’t change.

You know when a man saw you on day one, that is the image they have, do you get it ? So this metamorphosis yako they are not part of it, they still have that mental picture of when they first met you.

A male caller totally agreed with Kingangi saying

‘There is nothing they can do, hakuna even if you whine your waist, there is nothing, men want diversity and we were made that way by the way.’

A woman also supported this point of view leaving Maina skeptical.

Eko Dydda’s wife Cynthia exposes his cheating

‘I am not a man but I can tell you there is nothing that woman can do. I am a living experience.

I have given everything to the one I have, you can give a man everything but he will still go out, it’s only the man who wants, no matter what you do, it’s his vision not yourself.’

A similar view was held by two others in the thoughts below:

‘Listen good, a man was created with a default setting of being a polygamous man you cannot reset it, even the way you bought your phone you cannot reset it, you either work with it or nothing’

How sad is that posed Maina Kageni saying,

Are you telling me that you will just accept and go to bed knowing he is doing things challenged Maina as he asked for more reactions from listeners.

What’s been your experience girls?

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‘I don’t mind another’ proud third wife speaks out

A good number of women admitted on Classic 105 that they don’t mind being wife number 2, 3 ,4 or whatever.

They also agreed that they would warmly welcome another addition, and live in harmony.

Read one confession below;

I am number three and I’ve never been taken to his home. He acknowledges all the children and even number one knows there is number two, number two knows I am number three and I am open to number four. I don’t have an issue with that I have been with him nine years I have three children with him and my parents have never seen him, they don’t even care who fathers my children as long as they are taken care of.

Maina interrupted her rightfully shocked as to what she had just revealed.

Ladies why do you live like this? Why do you let stuff like this happen? Where is your securities ladies? That man is exercising something called impunity!

Her story elicited a debate online with fans tagging Classic 105.
@William62677086..
Replying to @moniqueKimm @ItsMainaKageni and @Classic105Kenya
Nowadays, The Mpango wa kandos enjoy the same rights and privileges that the wives do, so wives shouldn’t feel very special..

LILIAN ABILLA..
I know of my neighbour who at his wifes death, and these traditions of ours could not bury his wife because he had never even taken a spoon to his wifes home. that man never appreciated the wifes family.
@moniqueKimm..
@ItsMainaKageni Women should know that if you haven’t seen your in laws then just know you’re not a wife full stop!! @Classic105Kenya #MainaAndKingangi
@DeeMwaniki1..
it’s not fair to criticise a relationship that’s clean n clear for there’s no betrayal & they’re all comfortable, the 3 of them emotionally and financially, their parents are not complaining🤔, who are we?😅#MainaAndKingangi we’re not the JUDGE✌
@IreneNjagi3..
Maina, that is sheer madness. I can’t live with a man who hasn’t met my parents and I haven’t met his leave alone having babies for him. That is a lifetime commitment, what does she tell her children when they enquire on the paternal grandparents?. Let women stop desperation.!
@William62677086..
I am just trying to figure how King Solomon lived with his 700 wives and 300 Mpango wa kandos, imagine how those Ladies used to fight each other.

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The secret to scoring a second date? Share your dessert!

 

Some rely on charm or good looks, but the real secret to securing a second date is to share your food.

Psychologists at Leeds University analysed the dining habits of couples on the Channel 4 series First Dates, where potential partners are set up on blind dates in a restaurant.

They compared almost 60 dates where couples shared food with 49 who did not.

The overwhelming majority of those who tasted each other’s dishes agreed to meet again, against 42 per cent of couples who did not share.

Dessert was the most popular dish to split.

‘One person feeding another may represent ‘courtship’ feeding that signals sexual interest,’ wrote the researchers in the journal Appetite.

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Do Kenyan men understand the meaning of being given a second chance asks Maina Kageni

Yesterday in some peoples eyes, a miracle happened and that was Esther Arunga who was staring down at 25 years in prison for admitting to lying to police.

People reckon she has been through enough, and needed a second chance.

Maina Kageni reacted to her 10 month sentence saying

That’s what you call a second chance and I want to ask a question coz Kenyans take so much for granted. Do Kenyans understand the meaning of a second chance. Do men understand the meaning of being given a second chance?

He contnued pointing out second chances are important

The biggest culptirts are men. You mess up and she keeps forgiving you and taking you back and you just don’t get it.

Ladies have you ever given a man a second, third and fourth chance and he just doesn’t get it. Do we understand the value of a second chances, do we understand the value of forgiveness.

Do men get it? This is the weekend you will disappear this weekend and reappear on Monday with the same excuse.

Why don’t men get the idea of a second chance guys?

What’s your story?

@moniqueKimm..

@ItsMainaKageni You keep calling a man when you’re newly wed but as time goes by these men harden us,second chances don’t exist any more cause they take your love for granted!That’s why women are giving up cause u can’t be lied on forever!

@Classic105Kenya#MainaAndKingangi

@pieremutongah27…

Replying to @kipskiplagat @Classic105Kenya and @ItsMainaKageni

Sometimes you just have to lie coz that’s what they want to hear. Lie when its necessary not always. Dont tell her everything also. 🙊🙊🤭🤭 #MainaAndKingangiv

@AnzigaleMike..

The saying, “Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me” has always stood true in my mind, especially when it comes to relationships.

@itsmainakageni @classic105kenya #mainaandkingangi

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Is your partner still obsessed with their ex Maina Kageni asks

 

Is your man fixated on his ex girlfriend?

Ladies, if your man is in a situation like this, how do you handle it?

This stems from the confession one woman made on Classic 105, about being with her high school crush who is currently married:

‘My married side chick and I plan our off days together’ boasts Thika man

I have had one he was my childhood friends and I knew I was the one until I went to his house and found his current wife. It broke my heart so much I cried so much, and all along I thought I was the one. I had asked him to wait for me. He told me he couldn’t wait. I have all along thought I was his only girl, and it broke my heart so much. Trust me, we have kept in touch with him ever since. His wife knows and she calls me to fuss, but he is with me, whenever I’m heartbroken I will call him, if he has issues with his wife he calls me, if I’m broke he gives me money, if I want to call him when he is at home I use a private number.

A shocked Maina shouted:

What do you mean there is nothing his wife can do about it. Ladies, how do you deal with a situation like this, you know she is there an there is nothing you can do? How do you deal when you know he has this friend whom he relies on and there is nothing you can do, how does it work?

‘I got married while in love with my ex’ – City mum confesses

It just doesn’t seem normal to me said Maina who asked listeners to chip in to the conversation.

Read the crazy marriage confessions below:

A man called saying

My brother Maina unaishi kama hauko kwa hii dunia. I’m married, my wife left me and she doesn’t talk. I even sent wazees but she doesn’t talk. Now I have this new girl who loves me and then my wife comes back knocking saying she wants me back, so Maina it has to be this way, and that’s the plain truth. You see this other woman she has accepted that I’m married, my wife has even tried talking to her. So Maina even if it’s you, what would you do. It’s been a year and three months with the other one, and I see her everyday. She lives near my house with my wife. Even my wife passes her everyday to see what’s up. I think she’s accepted her fate.

Another man also revealed his tricky relationship:

Hii mambo yote ni ya ukweli. We all have that lady we confide in. I am yet to be married, but I have messed a few opportunities because of such friendships, becauae this friend meets the woman I want to marry but there is always tension, so I listen to this friend more than I listen to the love of my life. Let me tell you and it is not fake a lot of men have this type of woman in their life. I almost got married twice and I broke it off on the advice of this woman. This other woman is married with kids, he confessed.

‘My married side chick and I plan our off days together’ boasts Thika man

Whats is your story. Do you still keep in touch with that one who lit your whole world despite being married?

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