Broke slay queens to fake lifestyles: Things Coronavirus will expose

Coronavirus is here and it’s exposing a lot that we have not been paying attention to.

Here are a few of the things:

1. Broke slay queens

We all have to accept it, slay queens are merely broke girls trying to live a life way above them. With the recent limited movement and the 7pm-5am curfew, slay queens are feeling the pinch.

The luxury lifestyle they enjoyed has been put to a halt.

They are languishing with over kept weaves, rent arrears and all they have to do is wallow in frustrations. If they die, peace be with them.

2. Fake lifestyles

People out here are faking everything. From purchasing things beyond their means and spending unnecessarily.

Trying to please friends who don’t care anything. People will go back to their dungeons which they have been avoiding all along.

Depression will be real than ever before. People were busy partying and have to put up with their empty houses.

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3. Lazy wives

So guys married women because they were good in lungula. They depended on eat outs and order in. Right now men are having to put up with mashakura.

Women who can’t peel potatoes nor boil milk. They can only shape their nails and post on Insta stories. You got married to Insta wives and the quarantine is bringing the hell out of you.

4. Broken homes

Money is good but it’s becoming a necessary evil. People were busy looking for it at the expense of their families.

In these times of the pandemic, it’s becoming evident how homes are dead places. The love is out of the window and people live together as a bunch of zombies.

Children spend most of their time in the bedrooms chatting, surfing the internet and catching up with the latest movies.

Why the act of sending naughty photos is on the rise

Most probably 7 out of 10 readers of this post have sent a nude or semi-nude at a point in their life.

It’s the new culture amongst people of all ages. Over the past few years nudes and sex tapes of favourite actors, musicians and public administrators have leaked and done rounds over the internet.

Some were photo shopped as the victims claimed.

Technology has played a major role in the rise of this act.

It’s of essence we look into why this act is gaining popularity among the populace:

1. Sexual empowerment

With the rise of feminism and women taking pride in their bodies sending nude comes as a form of sexual empowerment. University of Arizona researcher, Morgan Johnstonbaugh, in his experiment concluded that for most women, sexting and sending nude was empowering to women because they can create a space where they feel safe expressing their sexuality and exploring their body. Desire is what drives most women to send nudes. It emerges in response to rather than in anticipation of sex.

2. Spices up relationships

With most relationships being short lived, extra activities must be put into practice to keep the fire burning and sending nudes happens to be one of them. Nudes adds flavour in times of sexting as the pictures are tantalizing and creates a sense of anticipation where sex is expected in the near future. With women generally wanting to feel desired, the act of sending nudes is majorly an issue played with them. The response given by most men- wanting to get freaky with them- is what creates the dire need for women to send the nudes.

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3. Self esteem

With nudes been sent from a point of positivity, at times the reverse can happen. With majority of the youth suffering from self-esteem, sending nudes acts as a feel good feeling. With the recipient thirsting over the nudes, the sender feels good about themselves as someone somewhere desires their bodies. With nudity been one of the highest levels of intimacy, acts of sending nudes acts as a way of boosting self-esteem. With heterosexual women sending nudes to satisfy requests and prevent them from losing interest bisexuals and lesbians send them to feel empowered and gain confidence. Women bodies are commodified in the dating market in ways that men’s bodies aren’t.

4. Peer pressure

This has to be one of the most common reasons why most people send nudes. Everyone’s sending nudes, so why can’t I. It’s becoming okay for people to take pics of their body naked and send them to the waiting recipient. One of the unexpected reason for sending nudes had to be most women trying to prove a point when men turned angry if they withheld sending them at first. In return most women found themselves victims of this selfish act.