5 career lessons everyone should know about the job market

“Work hard and get those good grades so that you get that perfect career job,” are some of the words that we have all heard in our years of growing up.

However, as you get into that job space you realize that not everything is on a silver platter like they once said.

So here are 5 lessons that  you need to know in the career world.

1. Success takes time

Success takes a lot of hard work and simply just sticking to your plan is very important.

Being happy in your career doesn’t come as easily as you think or just with a blink of an eye, reaching success takes time  and accepting this requires patience.

One more thing, success doesn’t happen by taking one bold leap. Don’t forget the little steps you take along the way, they may not seem much now,they may even seem insignificant  but years from now, you will be glad you took them.

 

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2. Even your best career will have its down sides 

Even on your worst days, that carer is still worth the try, it may have some down sides to it like working long shifts, little or small pay but that does not necessarily mean you have to quit that job.

Looking at the positive side to that job will help you know your initial goal and that is to work hard  reaching for that success.

 

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3. Your idea of a dream job can change

In the job industry, the idea of what you have in mind as a dream job can easily change. The truth is everyone deserves to love their career, but more importantly everyone has the ability to do so.

It won’t happen immediately, and along the way you might find that you are good at another career than the one you thought you were good at.

You may have thought that your career path was writing but you may find that you are also really good at anchoring.

 

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4. Career happiness require work

Ever been in a work environment and you see people leaving their work stations everyday with a smile of their face? Do you wonder why? Do you wonder what their secret is ? You may even think they got a work promotion  or won the lottery 365 days of the year.

Well the real secret is that people work hard to get to where they are .

Some may not have even loved the job when they stared but they persevered during all those low days and low paying jobs just to get to where they are.

5. You can create your own opportunities

In every job career, when it comes to making moves in our career, we tend to wait for permission. We wait for someone to show us all the ropes instead of going to get the experience yourself.

We wait to get job promotions and increase in salaries instead of working hard to acquire you own job/firm so as to become less dependent of that place to begin with.

It’s a trap we so easily fall into when in reality, we are the only ones who can give ourselves permission to do something.  You can accomplish much more in a team than by yourself of course, but do not let the absence of help pull you down.

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Ladies: Here are styles that can hide that broken hair line

Don’t we all wish we had the natural thick edges and hairlines that go on forever and ever?

It is sad that thinning or hair loss is a problem that not only affects women, it also affects men in general

Hairloss is caused by one’s use of harmful products on your hair, age, stress and straining your hair with different styles.

 

Here are some of the ways to protect and also hide your hair from hair loss

Sheila Ndinda

Vlogger and blogger Sheila is a natural hair enthusiast who is a natural hair care enthusiast.

Ndinda has embraced her natural hair and through her, we get to see how she manages natural hair, the styles she recommends and the hair routines she has used.

She has also gone an extra mile to start a natural hair parlour that focuses on natural hair.

 

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Kambua

The beautiful Kambua has also mastered ways of protective hairstyles that not only focuses on keeping the hairline intact but also gives her hair volume keeping it healthy all the way.

This is also one of the ways that you can hide that broken hairline.

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Can we just take a moment and admire how neat and classy this hairstyle is?

This is one of the ways that may not necessarily hide the broken hairline, but guess what, it really does help to repair and grow it back.

This is something that you must try.

 

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Joy Kendi

Vlogger and blogger Joy Kendi is known for her signature look which is the short hair.

Alright, here is the thing, short hair is not only a show of class but to some people, it is also a show of confidence.

Some people who have had hair breakage, have ended up cutting their hair in order for it to start afresh.

This is also a good way for you to start using good and healthy products for your hair and if you have always wanted to go natural, why don’t you start now.

 

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Wig it all the way they said.

This is also a good way of hiding that hair breakage.

Well underneath you could do some protective styles like cornrows which could help in bringing your hairline back.

Don’t you think this hair looks good on TV personality and actress Kate?

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“I am determined to kill this guy and go to jail” Heartbroken woman swears after finding out her boyfriend is cheating on her with her blood sister

A woman has experienced first hand what it means to be stabbed behind your back after finding out her boyfriend is cheating.

The hurting part is not that he is cheating, but the fact that he is cheating with her own blood sister is something she feels she cannot forgive him for.

Due to the emotional distress she says she feels like killing him or committing suicide, but is it worth it?

“I want to commit suicide or pay some group of boy’s to kill my boyfriend, my boyfriend is dating my own blood sister, that’s our last born that stay with me.
I never know that my boyfriend is dating my sister and at the same time dating me. According to my sisters explanation they started dating since December, while  both of us started dating in February. I can’t look at my sisters face, I can’t talk to her, am depressed.

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I am devastated, am thinking of what to do to him.
I broke in tears this morning when my sister ask me if I know this guy and she mentioned his name and I said yes, and she said hope I’ll not feel bad that the guy was her boyfriend, that she opened my phone and she saw all my conversion with him on WhatsApp.”

 

She emotionally goes on to narrate how she kept away her men from her house to protect her sister but it seems that was not good enough.

 “She also used my phone to call the guy and confronted him but he couldn’t say anything.  my sister is 18 years, ever since she came to stay with me,I am not used to coming with any man in my house.
I didn’t know  that when I go to work that she goes to the guy’s house and she refused to open up to me, am proud of her that she’s still a virgin.  Advice me on what to do because i am determined to kill this guy and go to jail.”

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I have carried out 5 abortions, unknowingly killing my twins in the process

The topic of abortion is a sensitive one but not until you hear the story of one Nairobi woman who has carried out not one, not two but five abortions.

Martha Anne has seen it all, but the sad thing about all this is that her last termination was  of a set of twins.

Speaking about her harrowing experience on a local TV station she says;

“I grew up in a very protective family so here I was at 17 after finishing my O Levels someone asked my dad for my hand in marriage and just like that my dad booked me a ticket to India to go study.

There was money, booze and freedom. It was not before long that I started having irregular menses so I went to visit a doctor.

To my shock the doctor told me that my body was self aborting, to say I was shocked would be an understatement given that I have always wanted kids.”

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She adds

“I now went deep into partying six months later I was pregnant for the same guy.When I told him he panicked and  convinced me to terminate it.

 I went to the same doctor and carried out the abortion.”

The wise men said ‘Once bitten twice shy’ but that was not the case for Martha Anne given that months later she was pregnant.

She says

“We went on studying but 6 months later I was pregnant for the same guy. I started developing stomach pains.

When I went to the doctor he told me that the pregnancy was not so good thus carrying it to term would put me at a risk, so it was terminated.

After the third abortion I got into depression, more s#x , more booze, the body does not forget some things, most of my pregnancies were always at 4 months.

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2 years later I got pregnant with the same guy. I had purposed to keep this baby until a friend of mine busted my bubble after he went and told the guy.

He came back and convinced me to terminate it, to date I still hate the smell of Hospitals.”

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Martha goes on to narrate that she got pregnant for a fifth time, went on to terminate it without knowing she had carried twins.

“I met a guy who made me fall for him and within no time I was pregnant again. He started noticing and he panicked because he was there on sponsorship.

So the naive me felt pity for him and decided to terminate it. I went to a doctor and the doctor said Ok. In India abortion is legal until three months they do not have an issue.

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However after three months you must have a doctor’s letter. After they started the process, I started experiencing breathing problems and they stopped and took me for an Ultra sound.

They found out I was expecting twins. He even asked why I wanted to get rd of such beautiful kids. I told him that I just wanted them out.”

She adds

“I was in the maternity for three days with excruciating pain, sorrow, pain beyond measure nothing was happening.

People were here to give birth yet I was here to get rid of mine.

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At some point I wished I could keep the babies but it was already too late since I had already been induced. In the morning I just prayed to God and told him how sorry I was.

I got some strength and went to where the babies had been put. Seeing them hugging each other broke me. I cried so hard.

I have never cried so hard in my life. They looked exactly like their dad.”

 

 

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Team Natural: Six easy and classy ways to rock natural hair – Photos

If you have natural hair you probably do not know how lucky you are! Here are ways on how you can rock your natural hair daily.

Stephanie Lahart once said

Natural Hair is an Exquisite Crown. It’s a wonder and fascination to many. But to the confident Black girl or Black woman who’s rockin’ it, they know what they’ve been born and blessed with.

A head full of unique, healthy beauty. NATURAL BEAUTY.

Here are simple but unique ways you can rock natural hair.

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1. Flat twist updo fro hair’

This look is versatile, meaning one can rock it to the office, a date or just any form of setting. Sadly it’s suitable for those with soft and curly hair. You can play around with a gel in-case yours is not as soft to achieve the same purpose.

 

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2. Messy fro’ up do

This is one of the easiest ways to do your hair, it looks messy but sexy right?

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This look is appropriate for casual events such as a drink up with your girlfriends or just a visit to your grand ma huko ushago.

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4. Wash and go fro’s

This style is self-explanatory, however kama uko na nywele steel wool this style is a no otherwise you might end up looking like a mess.

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5. Natural mo hawk Curls with bangs
Wondering how to style your hair for that long awaited date with your crush? Worry no more because natural mohawk curls with a bang are here to save your day.

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6. Short natural hair

This look is easy to maintain hence the tag short and sweet.

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Kiherere mtaacha! Habits women should drop after moving into their men’s house ASAP

Women have on several occasions confessed to tricking men so that they can move in with them and men are not impressed, with many saying wanakandamizwa.

There are also things that they unconsciously do and it does not sit well with men.

Here are some of the things that women should drop ASAP

1. Kukatalia kwa nyumba yake

Ladies, whether you help  pay the rent or not you have no right kukatalia in a man’s house. Don’t forget that man is not your father so he owes you NOTHING.

2. Appointing yourself as the wife

As long as he has not introduced you to his closest friends and family, acha kiherehere ya kuambi awatu kw plot ‘by the way am nani’s wife’ – who appointed you?

3. Don’t visit his house uninvited

Women we are tired of all the drama once you find out your man showcasing his bedroom skills to someone else.

So instead of kumeza panadol juu ya heachache ya mtu mwingine, just visit only when invited if you can’t kaa kwenyu maisha ni ngumu kwa kila mtu.

4. Stop creating trouble with his neighbors

I know you might think that just because you are dating you might think you have the right to create trouble with mama wa kufua nguo, caretaker or even mama mboga.

But believe you me as long as it’s his house and he has not put a ring on it, you have no say.

5. Disorganizing his household items

With the determination to prove you are a wife material you might be tempted to rearrange or reorganize furniture or even sort out his clothes, but before you do kemea hio pepo.

Until he tells you to just seat and enjoy his company or watch the newest series.

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Habits you should avoid when going to a club

When you gong to a club there are some habits that you should avoid to have a good time. They include;

Mixing drinks

Mixing drinks can really put your liver at risk. It can lead to vomiting as it may tamper with your digestion system. It is advisable to take such drinks in dilute form with either water or a soft drink.

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Leaving your items unattended

You should be careful with your items especially your phone and cash. Not everyone goes to the club with good intentions. Other go with intentions of stealing from the drunk people, so more reason you should be careful.

Wearing high heels

If you love dancing, wear comfortable shoes. Six inch heels are cute to look at, but you won’t be able to dance.You could even fall and break your ankles if drunk.

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Taking stranger’s drinks

Taking someone’s drink that you don’t know is way too dangerous folks. In this day and age of spiking drinks, you need to be careful about this bad habit girls.

Getting wasted taking too much alcohol

Medics constantly berate us with messages that consumption of alcohol is harmful to ones health. When in the club, it’s important to limit how much you drink, plus also know the limits because of your health and your security too. If you get too drunk chances are that you may black out and in the process people can take advantage of you.

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What is considered a taboo among Kisii community

There are some acts considered to be a taboo among the kisii community. They are as follows;

Circumcised boys going to master bedroom

They believe that once a boy is circumcised, they should not go to their parents bedroom and even their sister’s bedroom.

This shows that once the act is done the boys are mature enough and so they should respect some areas to visit.

At this point the boys are expected to behave in a more mature way and expect their young ones to respect them.

Girls wearing trousers 

This is considered to be disrespectful if girls wear trousers, more so those tight ones that shows off their curves. The Kisii man is not supposed to see how blessed you are.

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Mothers should not dine in their daughters houses

It is a taboo for mother to enter especially her married daughters house. She also shouldn’t eat chicken at her daughters house as it makes one to be seen as corrupt.

Also going to her daughters house is considered to be a sign of disrespect to their daughters and thus like seeing their daughter’s nakedness.

Fathers too are not expected to set their feet in their married sons houses as it is considered as going to bed with their daughters in-law.

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Visiting mother in-laws all the time

Once a young man marries he is not allowed to be frequently visiting his mother in-law all the time as it is considered to be a sign of disrespect to the family.

Unless the situation is unavoidable like funerals or sickness.

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Screw driver: Why you should have this drink in your menu tonight!

Are you hearing this name for the first time and wondering what we are talking about?

Worry no more!

If you are a cocktail person, then this should be in your list tonight.

Screw driver is a drink that is so easy to make you could easily do it with your eyes closed (literally) and you wont screw up (see what i did there? No?  )

How you do it? Well, this drink is just a mixture of two drinks- Orange juice and Vodka, very easy right?

 

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This only means that you do not necessarily have to go to restaurants to have this drink, you can actually make one yourself at your own comfort.

Let us give you a small history of the origin of this drink.

So decades ago, some American oil workers decided to take a break from their days’ work and decided to take a rest.

While on the break they decided to add vodka in their orange drink.

As they looked for something to stir their drink, well they could not find anything. What they used to stir was a screw driver.

The name screwdriver originated from events that happened that day.

 

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7 type of neighbors you are likely to meet in Nairobi’s flats and estates

The search for greener pastures has seen many Kenyans relocate to Nairobi and its surroundings, creating more neighborhoods.

The government even introduced the ‘Nyumba Kumi’ initiative to be able to handle the rise of insecurity due to increase in ‘majirani’.

With the increase in population emerges a rare breed of neighbors who are not only annoying and petty but a pain as well for their uncouth behavior.

Here are the types of neighbors you are likely to find.

1. Nosy

We all have seen that one neighbor who wants to know anything and everything that happens in your house. From who you are dating to what you ate last night. They will always seek to find out where do you buy your clothes, who is that booty call who checks into your house at midnight on those lazy Saturday nights etc.

One would be mistaken to think they are compiling a top secret, classified report to give it to the police.

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2. Stalkers

They are the kind of neighbors that stalk you wherever you go just to have some juicy information to share with other idle people who might be willing to listen to her. If they don’t do it physically, they create pseudo accounts to cyber stalk you.

She will befriend you on all social media platforms, come to your house uninvited and even try talking to you whether you want to or not.

3. Thieves

These are the kind of neighbors who have ‘mkono mrefu’ they never miss to see your new lingerie on the clothes line or a new pair of shoes and not grab them.

Problem comes in when you go and claim it as yours, they deny it so much even swearing with the names of their long dead ancestors.

4. Gossipers

Such neighbors are termed ‘BBC’ for their know it all attitude. They are better than CSI when it comes to investigating their neigbours. They have a PHD in not minding their business. Nothing seems to pass their ears.

 

They know who fathered who, who is dying, who killed who, where and when…It is lke they are always there when anything happens.

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5. Drama Queens

This are the worst type of neighbors one could ever come across always causing drama at the slightest provocation. Always arguing over who fetches water first, whose clothes line they will hoard, why were you staring at their husband and many other petty issues.

Such neighbors also love attention and will do anything including shouting and name calling just to look like the ‘boss’.

6. Dirty and Unkempt

NEMA should arrest such neighbors for their unhealthy behavior which puts everyone at risk of getting communicable diseases such a cholera.

So annoying are these neighbors that it requires some self control not to get into a confrontation with them, they throw waste anywhere, leave uncovered diapers all over, leave the communal sink littered with food leftovers thus blocking it in the process.

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7. Slay Queens

This neighbors are always idle, strutting along the corridors showcasing any thing new they might have bought including some cheap second hand dresses which leaves nothing to imagination.

They always have a mirror trying to re-pimp their make just in case the guy next door fails to notice them. Such neighbors pretend to be well versed when it comes to fashion when they actually know nothing at all.

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Kenyan celebrities whose parents you did not know are pastors

It is hard to imagine that some local artistes both in the gospel and secular sector have parents who are pastors given the fact that some of them do not talk about it.

Well here are some local celebrities you did not know are children of pastors

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1. Pitson

Known for his hit song ‘Lingala Ya Yesu’ ‘Wanajua’ ‘Niache Niimbe’ among others comes from a Christian background. During an interview with Parents magazine, he said it was not easy.

“There was a lot of pressure and stigma as a pastor’s child and little room for mistakes or normal reactions to a situation such as anger or hatred. I found myself wishing my dad had an office job like other parents,” says Pitson who says his heart broke one time when his father gave him Ksh 30 to go buy himself a shirt while his friends traipsed all over town in the latest trendy attires.”

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2. Amani

Amani who is now a gospel artiste strongly stated that despite her being secular artiste before, her parents were Christians and her mother a pastor.

In a post she explained that at some point she had to learn to ‘share’ her mother with other peole after all pastors are considered as ‘mum’ and ‘dad ‘ by their followers.

“As a pastors child I had to learn to share my mum…she always put her family first but had to pastor many.’’ The post read in part.Pastors have a lot to give and their kids are always surrounded with a lot of love but they have to learn how to share their parents with others for they are considered parents by many,’’

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3. Emmy Kosgei

Emmy who is loved for her indigenous gospel music is a child of a pastor, her father. She recently shared a photo of her father preaching in Dallas, expressing her excitement at the fact that he was now comfortable and did not have to struggle as he is physically disabled.

He lost the use of his limbs after a polio attack.

My lovly daddy in Dallas doing what he is called to do …. ! Thank God for technology 🙌🙌🙌 now he has custom made electric chair for ease ,comfort,mobility and ability to speak comfortably at his age! Praise be to God🙏🙏”

 

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4. Rev Natasha

She is an affirmation that the apple does not fall far from the tree as she has followed in her mothers footsteps of spreading the gospel.

Natasha is a minister at Oracle Of God while her mother is pastor with Maximum Miracle Center, and she is pastor Esther Wanjiru.

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5. Andrew Muiru

Many might remember him for his energetic dancing performance back in the day, he is son to Maximum Melodies Pastor Pius Muiru.

What many do not know is that he is also a pastor himself, following keenly in his fathers foot steps.

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Men, Here Are A Few Tips On How To Impress Your Bae

 

Kenyan men argue that women are materialistic while on the other hand women argue that Kenyan men are stingy.

Could all this be due to conflict of interests? Or is it that our men don’t take time to understand what women want.

Today we give men a few hints on what really impresses women as you all know, mwanaume ni effort.

Designer Shoes

Just like the way to a man’s heart is through the stomach, the way to a woman’s heart is a nice designer shoe. Women love to look good and a nice pair of stilettos gives them that confidence and makes them feel beautiful. So in case you are wondering what to get her, just get that shoe.

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 Designer Handbag

A handbag is more like a woman’s baby, wherever she goes it goes too. Handbags are like a woman’s office and thus they strive to get the best brand in the market. It’s every woman’s dream  to own a designer handbag so go ahead and gift her that Gucci bag, or LOUIS VUITTON bag she has been eyeing.

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Designer Perfume

We all want to start the day smelling good. Men, forget about buying your woman those cheap perfumes and deodorants sold by the roadside and get her some nice designer item.

She will not only be in a good mood but she will try and impress you too and you never know what she might settle for.

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A Vacation

Going out on a vacation is every woman’s dream, with all the hustle and bustle around, an all paid vacation is the way to win  your woman’s heart .

This is a nice time for women to flaunt their curves and their bikini bodies. After all, that’s why women work so hard at the gym.

This can  only happen after the coronavirus pandemic.

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Designer Make Up Kit

No one wants to walk with smudged lipstick or sweaty make up. Every woman wants to own a designer make up kit to achieve that flawless face. Go ahead and get her that and she will love you forever. After all mwanamke ni sura.

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 A Man Who Cooks

We all want to be spoiled. A man who cooks for his woman is heaven sent. There is nothing more s3xy like a man in the kitchen.

It’s very romantic to come home to a warm meal and this act would warm even the hardest of hearts.

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Spontaneous Surprises

Women love surprises. In this day and age, things are moving very fast that means that important events in our lives are slowly being overtaken, but no matter how petty it may sound women still expect you to remember all big days in their lives. To win a woman’s heart just keep tabs on when her birthday is, graduation and drop spontaneous gifts and notes and she will be yours forever.

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So men, the next time you want to impress your woman, make sure these things are on your list.

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5 Reasons why first impressions matter when going to see your in-laws

Maybe you have for a long time avoided meeting up with your fiancee’s family. Well truth is, first impressions can make or break a relationship.

All we are trying to say is that there is better reason to impress them now before you know, they finally become future in laws.

This is the first time they are meeting the guy or the lady they may be dealing with for decades. It’s a big moment

There are reasons why first impressions matter.

We have highlighted why this is the case,

1. Show of commitment

Most of the times when they get to see your partner, it’s a sign that you want to commit to their child.

That is a sign that they will be seeing you for a long while, if not forever.

This improves the relationship that you may be trying to build with your in laws and this first step is very important.

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2. It is a judge of character

Most the times, when the in laws are meeting you for the first time, they simply want to know who you are.

Questions here and there from them may deduce the kind of person that you are.

Well in laws may tend to push buttons once in  a while, but basically all they want is to get to know you better.

3. In laws influence your partner

Now this is the part I would want to insist on.

Making good relationships with your in-laws is very important.

This is because , no matter how connected you are to your partner, they may have an upper hand in influencing them.

This however should not keep you off balance from making that decision to see them, creating that good connection and balance between the two of you could go a long way.

 

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4. They will be around you

Planning forever with your partner means planning forever with the family as well.

This only means that they will be around you for as much time as possible.

Through out the meeting stages, it is important to create a good rapport with them because this not only means a relationship with your partner,  it means a future relationship with their whole family.

Thus you need to have a good relationship with them before that life time.

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5. You just genuinely want them to like you

Is this not everyone’s hope?

To just be liked and loved by the family of the person you want to spend forever with ?

On that first meeting above everything, all we want is to make that first connection that will last.

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From Vera to Mwakazi, celebs who have had failed businesses

Being an entrepreneur is every persons dream but what many do not know is having a successful business is not a walk in the park.

This is something some of our Kenyan celebs know very well. They have experienced the agony of losing a business.

We take a look at celebs who have overcome failures in business.

1. Johnson Mwakazi

The media practitioner had at some point opened a media station dubbed WTV which sadly ended up being closed after three years.

He ventured into the solo project after he left his news anchoring job at Citizen TV.

I started a TV station and after three years it didn’t work out.

I remember there were families depending on it as their source of daily bread, and to call them and tell them we are closing down and that we would be releasing some of them was the lowest moment in my entire life.”

Sometimes I meet them.

I’m glad some have jobs, but when I look back, if only I had the option, I would have given them. I would have wanted to have more people employed there.

Johnson Mwakazi

2. Vera Sidika

Vera Sidika’s Hair Lounge specialised in selling of human hair weaves and extensions.

The lounge, which was located at the Greenhouse Mall, Adams Arcade along Ngong Road used to stock super expensive human hair and was expected to be a flourishing venture for her.

Speaking about her business failure in a past interview, the damsel said that the business failed because she was too young.

I am sure a lot of people know I had a high end hair line and it was doing quite well. But I think I was not ready in terms of strategising, planning.

I was a bit young, naive, I was very excited,” she said. 

3. Jack Ma

The owner of Ali Baba has had failure not only in business but in his professional life. As a job seeker, he was rejected in each and every job interview he went to looking for a job.

He says,

I went to get a job at KFC. 24 people lined up, 23 were taken, I was rejected. Five of us went to look for a job in the police. 4 were taken and I was rejected.

My cousin and I waited for two hours in a queue to be the waiter in a four-star hotel in my city on a very hot day.

My cousin’s scores were much lower than mine but he was picked and I was rejected.

This did not stop Jack from wanting more, he took the disappoint and pain and turned it into gold. He used it to build China’s biggest e-commerce company from scratch.

Jack Ma
Jack Ma

4. Bill Gates

Before making it in business, Bill Gates was the co-owner of a failed business called Traf-O-Data. He is currently among the richest people in the world.

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Bill Gates

‘How do I throw out my man’s side chic?’ City woman cries for help

A city woman is in a dilemma. She is asking for advice on how to deal with her husband’s side chic after she came to her house to fight her.

*Jane* does not understand what would give the side chic such guts.

Is this where we say ushikwapo shikamana?

My man’s side chick came to my home to fight me.
I just heard a bang on the gate, I woke my man up and he asked me to go check.

I wore my coat and went to the gate upon inquiring who was there she went quiet.

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She continued,

So I just opened and she started fighting me. I beat her up before my man rushed out and was asking her to leave before he adds to the beating.

The  girl said she was not leaving that she loves him so much and he was the one that asked her to come and fight me.

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Jane goes on to add,

This girl insisted that she won’t leave the house, sat at the gate with 3 boxes .
My man was begging me but I don’t get it.

I am not really married to him but we are making plans, he said he wants to be with me but he is not yet ready to marry.

I don’t know how to handle this girl at the gate, she is irritating me as I see her from my window.

‘God came through when I had no food and rent,’ cries Mercy Masika

The wife-to-be look for options among them, “Should I just accuse her of stealing or anything!”

Here is the rest of her narration.

My man is just acting confused but he has asked me to take any action with his permission.

I need quick advice this girl is by our gate and swore not to live until she enters the house and man is a calm man .

Please how does a wife handle a side chic who is stubborn?

Huyu tutamsaidia aje?

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Wanampendea? List of the sexy women Diamond Platnumz has dated

Diamond Platnumz is a pro not only when it comes to producing music but also when it comes to selecting women, his taste for women is unmatched.

His latest catch in 2020 is Vanessa Mdee’s sister Mimi, and the rumors are spinning really fast.

in 2019 he hooked up then later broke the heart of Kenyan lass Tanasha Donna in 2020 and going by his confession they loved each other, just their stars didn’t align. They have a son together. Tanasha is not the first nor the second woman has dated.

No offense but this dude is a pro but also a dodge as well. While dating Wema Sepetu, he cheated on her by sleeping with her BFF’s Jokate Mwegelo and Penniel Mungilwa.

He is a father of two kids with Zari – a son and daughter and he also has a son with Hamisa Mobetto.

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Below is a list of women he has dated.

1.Tanasha Donna

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2. Zari Hassan

She is known to many as the boss lady, she is mother to two of Diamond PLatnumz’s kids Nillan and Tiffah.

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3. Hamisa Mobetto

She has a son with Diamond named Dyllan

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4. Jacqueline Wolper

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5. Jokate Mwegelo

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6. Upendo Mushi

‘I was forced to breastfeed my husbands snakes’ Narrates woman

7. Penniel Mungilwa

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8. Wema Sepetu

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And his most recent conquest according to rumors coming from Madale is that he is possibly romantically linked to Vanessa Mdee’s sister Mimi. she has been warned not to get pregnant if indeed she is having a thing with him.

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Kamba Love: Female Kamba celebrities driving men crazy with their charm

Have you seen these Kamba dolls who have been giving men sleepless nights with their beauty and brains?You look at some them wonder how they do it.

There’s something people love to say that Kamba women are multi-talented and when it comes to bedroom matters, they don’t disappoint.

Now that’s something people say all the time but is there any proof? Yes there is and its in this photos

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Well, we have celebrities like Kambua, who has been married for a couple of years, but men still drool upon seeing her. She’s a petite media personality and a really bright and soft spoken at the same time.

 

Betty Kyallo

Betty Kyallo is not one to be left behind. In as much as she has been linked to controversies left, right and center, she is among the most successful and beautiful Kamba dolls in the 254.

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Kush Tracey

Kush Tracey recently revealed that she has accepted Jesus Christ as her Lord and Savior.

She said,

It has been a longtime coming,I always fought with my inRedykulassner spirit every time I was doing secular music,but as I always say #GodAboveAll🙌 I have given my life to Christ today and ready to embark on the journey to fulfill my divine destiny,my anointing,my praise,my worship will never be paralyzed by the devil again,well y’all know the fear of God is the beginning of all wisdom to God be the glory AMEN😇

Well, she was beautiful when she was a secular artiste and she’s equally beautiful now that she’s saved. In case you didn’t know, her real name is Teresia Ndoti Wambua.

Kush Tracey

 

Lillian Muli

Lillian Muli is definitely a force to reckon with and has made sure that y’all realize she’s good at what she does.

She has been in the media industry for years and as time goes by, she has learned how to block noise from her haters. She’s one Kamba doll who says things as they are whether you like it or not.

 

 

Olive Burrows

Olive Burrows, one of the most talked about news anchors is a sight to behold. Many people have questioned her race but one thing you should know, she’s a Kamba doll too.

Olive is an only child, born to a Kamba mother, who passed away and a Kenyan father whose father is British and mother is Tanzanian. Heeee, this explains why she looks amazing; this is indeed good genes.

 

Saumu Mbuvi

Saumu Mbuvi, daughter to Nairobi Governor Mike Sonko, is not a stranger in these streets. She has made headlines both good and bad but that has never stopped her from doing her thing.

In 2016, she made her parents proud after she graduated from JKUAT. This Kamba doll is smart and beautiful, best believe that.

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‘My man loves me yet I met him while procuring an abortion,’ Brags woman

Does where you meet a man determine whether he will marry you or not ?Well this is the dilemma one woman has found herself in.

They say you can meet the love of your life in a bar, church or at a bus stop but for * Nelly she met him as she was visiting a clinic to carry out an abortion.

Yes you read that right. The problem is that every time Nelly gets pregnant he takes her for an abortion and she feels he is using her past to judge her.

“My priest tried to penetrate me from behind,”cries city woman

Narrating her sad ordeal on a social media platform, she says

” I met him on my way to go and do abortion, because he was so nice I opened up to him, told him everything and he loved me for me.

I wanted him to taste my body before I take out the pregnancy so we had S#x in the car that same day , after s#x he drove me to the place I did the abortion and even paid and bought me drugs . 

Since then we have been dating and he is so sweet .

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He does everything for me but I am scared he might not marry me I am scared because anytime we get intimate and I tell him I am pregnant, he will just drive me straight to where he met me and pay for the abortion

He even collected the docs number, I have 3 of his pregnancies since we met and I feel that he is judging me with my past .

Do you think he will marry me or should I ask just  him?”

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Below are some of the comments some full of wisdom while some are straight to the point

doyinsolatolulope:Some ladies eh,they r just a disgrace.. Mumu, he will marry you you think he is so stupid like you. Uncle is using you as a mopping stick. When u r not useful again then you will know whatsapp

goldshuga_zika:Helping you destroy your future & you ask if he’s gullible enough to wanna be part of what he destroys?….Hell no! You’re just a tool for distraction & evacuation. He ain’t dating but using you. I’m sure his real gf is somewhere prolly still a Virgin. Please grow up.

posh_alicia:Seriously!!! You don’t need to cos he will not marry you gosh!!! Wake up

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