You have probably heard the phrase mwanamke ni tabia sura hata mbuzi anayo. This  applies mostly for Kenyan women who have been termed disrespectful.

Maina Kageni could not wrap his head around the fact that despite some men being respected in the whole country, having the president on speed dial, their wives belittle them to an extent of them getting stressed.

Here is what Classic 105’s fans had to say

“When growing up I kept hearing my mother refer to my dad as useless and not because she was mean but because he would dedicate himself to other so much and only give us leftovers.

Every time he came home he was always tired ,not even wanting to talk to my mother but with us there is no smile no emotion nothing.

But when talking to someone else you would see his excitement, he was always giggling, yet he had no interest in the family.”

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She continues

“My mum has been fending for him since he retired 20 years ago,he does not even want to get involved in a business, I do not know what happened to Kenyan men .”

Another says

“I am a director at a real estate company, I am well respected and people even come telling me that they wish they had a marriage like mine, if only they knew.

I decided I will not pay school transport for my kids because I want to spend more time with my kids because when I get home I have to keep quiet because anything I say is used against me later

If  I was given a chance to get married I would not marry this lady, she was a queen when she started dating but she changed so much .”

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He adds

“I looked forward to the day we would love a life together, when you hear people talking about women with sponsors there are times I wish someone can just katia her so that we can share the stress.

Whenever she tells me that anapitia kwa ofisi I make sure that I get something to do outside the office just so that she finds me absent.

I wish you knew whom I am so that you can understand what I mean, this lady peels you like an onion,sometimes I just go to the bathroom and look at the mirror I don’t see anything, she takes everything out of you.”

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Women are known to be insecure but in some instances it goes to the extreme. Most of their insecurities stem from beautiful house helps.

House managers are supposed to be like family but more and more women are insecure due to instances where house managers took husband saway from the lady of the house.

Classic 105 presenter Maina Kageni was shocked when someone confided in him that she had not talked to her house manager for the eight years she has worked for them.

Maina gave his listeners a chance to give their reasons on why they are paranoid, most of the callers were women who said that women are their worst enemies. Adding that if they gave their domestic workers a chance they would plot and run away with their husbands.

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“Entertain these ladies and you will regret. Ukieka sura ya kazi and there will be respect in that house,” said one of the caller.

Another caller did not mince her word and here is what she had to say:

‘My man should not even stare at her even if I find them talking to each other she will have to pack her bags and go.”

The next caller was a man and he could not understand how he is not supposed to talk to his house manager yet he is the one paying her. One caller advised Maina that if he wanted an easy life he would rather keep off from house helps and if not possible just hire a house boy.

Another caller left listeners in stitches after saying this:

“My house manager will not dress the way she wants there is a uniform for her and a long one for that, I cannot employ a young girl I would rather employ an old woman who is already experiencing menopause.”

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