‘Never lay a finger on a woman’ Maina Kageni reacts to Wajir Woman rep assault

 

A photo of Wajir woman rep Fatuma Gedi’s swollen face after being slapped by her MP counterpart in the precincts of Parliament has elicited mixed reaction.

Women are outraged, and men want to know what she dd to him to land a slap.

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Maina Kageni on Classic 105 on Friday, asked listeners if Kenyan women are safe and why men always ask what a woman does to be hit by a man.

 

It’s amazing how men have rallied around this guy and they are asking this question: What did she do to deserve this? That is really pissing me off, said Maina.

To him that was not right at all to even lay a finger on a woman.

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‘This women get beaten up by their husbands at home but you will never hear about it. Why is it that it becomes a problem when beaten in public? That should not be an issue at all to be discussed because she might have made the MP upset.’

This is what one of the male caller said. They felt that women at times took advantage of them especially if they knew your weaknesses. They were of the opinion that if at all the women rep was assaulted, then it was because of something she did to offend him.

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Maina wondered about all the comments that were coming from the men’s side. He wondered whether those were the kind of men and fathers in 2019 or 1890. One women callers asked,

What do these men gain after beating us, do they gain a kilo? As they ask what the women rep did to provoke the MP they should also ask what the MP did to her that made upset also. Women don’t rant without a reason’ there has to be something.’ 

Other comments were;

Sometimes one slaps keeps stupidity out of a woman.

Sometimes these women can really push you off to limits. They should mind how to control their mouths because we are tired of being shouted back at!!

These Kenyan are tough headed and they deserve to be beaten. Why is it only in our parliament and not in other countries? They should control their yapping to avoid such violence!!!

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‘Is it really necessary to send naughty photos?’ Maina Kageni asks

The morning conversation on Classic 105 with Maina Kageni and Mwalimu Kingangi centred on the culture of sharing intimate photos.

This was something I know has been happening for the longest time ever. I would never do this. But now it’s leading to deaths, Maina said.

here is a lady who has gone viral on social media after her boyfriend released her photos online. The was a love quadrangle that went wrong between two couples  who did not know they were exchanging spouses and when they fond out nvdes started flying around which resulted in the death of one man, Maina continued.

Why do you have to send such photos when asked to? Why do you men also ask for the photos? What is wrong with you? Maina asked.

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This is mainly among the young people. It shocked Maina that some of the male callers were positive about the idea, saying they deserved to be sent for such photos.

One of the male callers was of opinion that it was a way of appreciating their women and there was nothing wrong with sending them. However some of the people were against the idea.

Another male tweeted saying that he gives money to ladies to share nvdes. This left Maina wondering where this generation is headed to.

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One female caller was of opinion that it is not right to share your photos and she swore never to share hers with anyone.

Other comments were;

Nvdes ni kama window shopping you have to kagua the product before purchasing it. You have to know the quality of something before going to the value.

I think private parts should be given another name because they are no longer private. I wonder who is the mother of that man saying its okay to send nvdes.

It’s not a bad thing to share nvdes with your girlfriend but you should not expose them in public once you are in bad terms.

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Kenyans weigh in on whether Mengi’s young wife should keep all his wealth

The morning conversation was based on whether the first wife is aware how much her man spends on his second wife/other women?

The debate was elicited by the death of Tanzanian billionaire Reginald Mengi, 75 who was married to Jacqueline Mengi, a 39-year-old woman.

According to first wives, they are disgusted when their men do this, leaving property to women who joined his life when he was already established.

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Reginald Mendi during their wedding anniversary

Here is what one caller had to  say

Mengi said Jacque was the reason he was  age is just a number and true love conquers all. Let the woman be.

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Another male caller adds

It does not matter when you are dead, what matters is the wife you had before your death whether you had millions or billions.

Whether he had money or not Jacqueline was his wife and she gave him happiness and that will not change now that he is here no more.

We cannot call her a gold digger just because he is dead  and she was young. Jacqueline is in the right place and the property is rightfully hers,after all they were officially married.

Reginald Mengi with his wife and kids in a past photo
Reginald Mengi with his wife and kids in a past photo

Just when you think that Kenyans are done with the matter another caller says

Maina I am waiting for a mega contract I am supposed  to sign and once I do that I plan on leaving my wife.

I can’t enjoy that sweat with her, I have talked to my lawyer and she does not know. You cannot live a life where you only come to see the kids.

I am planning on taking the kids to Mombasa and explain to them what I am about to do.

I have worked hard for myself, She has been running around and she won’t enjoy a thing.

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Morning Conversation: How do deadbeat dads live with themselves

On Wednesday, the Classic 105 morning conversation was about the new court ruling, that will allow children born out of wedlock to access their inheritance.

Today Maina Kageni wants to ask men one thing about being a deadbeat father:

‘You know you have a child out there, and you have never sent a coin to support that child. How do you live with yourself?

The fact that you have a child out there, doesn’t it bother you, Maina posed to deadbeat fathers?

Mwalimu tried to convince Maina that these mothers push men away, that is why baba mtoto does not help.

‘wanakwambia you are not a role model to the child. Kwanza when the lady is a bit stable haaa utaonanga huyo mtoto kwa TV champions league.

you want to go see your child unakatazwa.’

Girls is there any truth to this?

Men called in to respond to the allegations telling Maina that women are to blame.

One man said:

‘ nimemuuliza fees structure na amekataa, bila hiyo silipi!

 

Another Caller:

“Me and my ex got a child together. Then she got a job which changed her a lot. Sai ata siwezi ona mtoto.

Augustine chemiat Mwotei said:

Maina what these ladies to us wacha tu. When i want my daughter to pay me a visit or aende kwetu excuses huwa mob na nadaiwa fee na shopping aje heri you stay vile uko maina

Noah from Kilgoris said

‘kuna mke tulipenda nayyey tukazaa mtoto mmoja, na kuongea na huyo mtot ni shida atat kuchukuwa simu yangu ni shida, hawa watu wakipayta kazi hata kusalimia mtot ni shida, hakuna siku. Sisi wanaume tunapitia vitu nyingi dunia hii.

Nikitafut namba anabadilisha, nikijaribu kuongea na mamake anakataa. wananifrustrate bure.’

 

Girls you stand accused. Is this true? Drop your comments below.

 

My husband has never hugged me since we married

A woman confessed to Maina something that left Mwalimu Kingangi disagreeing with her.

In all her years of marriage, the woman says her husband has never given her a hug.

She said

“If you are my man and you don’t give me what I need I will get it elsewhere and I will walk away.”

Maina we need to feel pampered as Kenyan women, we also need to feel loved, I mean if I get someone to make me feel good I will give him my heart because he is appreciating me.

Guys, Maina wants to know do you know the value of appreciating and pampering a woman?

Mwalimu wants to know is she a bear to get hugs? What is pampering, he also sought to know.

Mwalimu wants to know what kind of pampering women want with this kind of economy? He says the best pampering is men paying rent, buying meat etc.

Ladies, Mwalimu wants to know, how should men pamper you?

Men if you don’t pamper your women, whoever does it for her will get something in return.

Kimani from Thika called saying, wacha ni kwambie unawatetea, ukitaka mwanamke amee pembee endelea hivyo, 

Another said the reason they doesn’t give hugs is simply because they women are too spiky.

We sample some views from our Twitter feed below.

@MucangiV..Good morning Maina?The only women I can pamper is my mother, my children and my wife should come last…my wife is there for companionship nothing else.
@jhorraceo..
@ItsMainaKageni women you’ve made a habit of downplaying your blessings, being unsure of the good things that come your way, being afraid of whether the good things that come will stay, but don’t you see that you can never attract what you’re not ready for?

@sharon_ondisa..
For that last caller Maina if I could be near him, ningemchangamkia Kofi moja,
What is he saying? Busy Unanitafutia mambo mengi gani ? You don’t have time to hug😏😏.Mambo mengi unatafuta Ni shida na wasichana nkt!! Go drying!!!
@[email protected] @Classic105Kenya Eti I pamper my wife? For what? Why? How? Pampering died when I made you pregnant, when I paid dowry for you, it went with dating. Saizi ni kulea na kujenga boma na familia. What’s wrong with you women? Damn #MainaAndKingangi

How Classic 105’s Mwalimu Kingangi identifies his neighbors

Terrorists who killed people in the Dusit attack lived a normal life in Ruaka.

No one knew he was on a deadly suicide mission.

News that one of the killers of the Riverside suspected terror attack lived in Ruaka, has shocked many.

Neighbors say he was even in the whatsapp group, and did not talk much. The only person he spoke to was the watchman.

For the longest time the government has spoken about nyumba kumi.

Maina Kageni in  the morning conversation challenged listeners to name five of their neighbors and their careers. Not many could do this.

Mwalimu Kingangi knows one of his neighbors as ‘that guy aliyeniibia vest’. He says we know our neighbors by the things they do eg, the guy with the noisy subaru, or the one with many children etc.

kuna moja wacha nikuambie. aliniibia vest, na nitakuja kumwabia ebu toa shirti nione vest. 

How does he know the neighbor stole?

‘unaona vile zinamfinya. vest anakuachia zile zimetoboka, 

 

Do you know you could be living next to the biggest killer in Africa, Maina posed this question.

Do you know your neighbors full names? You cannot know someone by the name Baba sweetie. Do you realise the importance of knowing your neighbor?

One female caller echoed Kingangi’s thoughts saying

Actually I only know my neighbors by their children’s names. I know mama Kate, but I don’t know her full name. I know my landlords name because we pay through the bank account.

Another said

Ata mimi najua Wambua anaitwa Wmbua baba ngonyo jina lingine sijui, na yeye hufanya hii petrol station. Najua mwingine anaitwa Kariuki, lakini si jina kamili.

Maina is challenging Kenyans to do the know your neighbor challenge, and report back.

‘He asks me to send him bundles and buy him credit ‘ Kenyans on people they are cutting off in 2019 (Audio)

It’s 2019 and Kenyans are making new resolutions and women are more  determined to cut off toxic men from their lives and here is why.

During the morning show on Classic 105, a woman confessed that the man she was with does practically NOTHING for her.

“This guy never wants to go out on anything, never buys anything yet he comes to my place and expects me to feed him.

Yet when I go to his place he never buys anything nor even cooking a meal. I remember there is a place I went to visit and we just sat there.

When I have problems he gives excuses yet when he has problems he expects me to help. I can’t even think of a single day he ever spent a dimme on me.”

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She adds

“He will be the first person to invite me to his place. I have been thinking and I have concluded that I am the one who has been entertaining his nonsense.”

The debate opened a pandora’s box and below are some of the confessions from women and men on the kind of people they are cutting off in 2019.

“I am cutting off women who live of for Fridays, they party from Friday through to Sunday. Those who don’t put anything but are dramatic, those who don’t want to spoil their nails and make up doing chores, I am cutting them off.”

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Another adds

“I met a 35 year old man last year and he keeps asking me for airtime. He even asks me for bundles. I gave him some cash of which he promised to refund after two days up to now he hasn’t.

Lemmie remain single and take care of my money.”

 

Listen to more of the discussion in the audio below;

 

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‘My ex of 6 years calls me daily yet he is married, It’s a nightmare’ (Audio)

Some people don’t easily accept being dumped, and become stalkers, harassing exes through emails and messages.

During the Morning show on Classic 105, a woman confessed how her ex has refused to let her be despite the fact that she is married.

“My ex keeps following me up to now and I am married. I can’t change my number because of him. I have told him to stop calling me. It’s just that my husband understands other wise it would be trouble.

Whenever I tell him to stop calling me but he keeps calling and texting that ‘He wants me back and he still loves me, adding that he doesn’t care whether I am married.

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My husband once picked the phone not realizing that it was my ex. On realizing that it was my hubby, the ex went on to lie that me and him were still seeing each other.

He even lied to my hubby that he did not know I was married luckily for me I explained myself and my hubby understood.”

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Another woman says

“I had been married from 2010 to 2016 and for all those 6 years I gave up and left my man given that I had given him so may chances to change and he did not.

He calls each and every day, I do not know what he wants.

I am ok without him. I do not need him but he calls me each and everyday despite the fact that he is married.

Men should learn to let go after we are done with them.”

Here’s more of the discussion in the audio below;

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I haven’t worked for the last 4 years thanks to my married West African bae

During the Morning show on Classic 105 a Kenyan woman caught many by surprise by confessing to being a kept woman for 8 years.

She further added that she has not worked for the last 4years.

The debate was based on whether it is possible for women to be successful without depending on a man and here is what the caller had to say.

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“I am a woman and I know this things are happening, I am doing well in life and I can’t complain and its all because of a man.I met this man 8 years ago ,He is married and the wife lives in a different country.

We met in a different country(not where he is living with the wife) and things are super,My child is going to a good school ,I am living in my own house men help build our empires so lets not lie about it.

He is not a sponsor since we have been together for 8 years,we are not gonna get married and we are not planning to have kids but yes he is providing.

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I am also doing other stuff as well ,he sends me 300$ (Ksh 30,000) every month and he even told me I don’t have to work.Initially I used to work in a very reputable organization but since the man had money I just became comfortable and he told me that I don’t have to work.

Its been four years without me working and I am comfortable I started a business which i operate without his knowledge all he knows is that his girl is in the house.

He is a West African man,men support women to be successful lets be real tusidanganyane.”

The confession left Maina Kageni dumb founded

Listen more on the audio below

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Maina Kageni blasts Kenyan man who disappeared leaving his date to pay a sh37,000 bill

‘This is the height of bad manners’, shouted an exasperated Maina Kageni on Wednesday morning.

If you have been on Twitter, you must have stumbled upon a thread by a Kenyan dude who described how he left his date to pick up the Sh37,000 bill racked up during a date.

This guy takes these ladies out, they enjoy drinks, eat and have so much fun. But he does the unexpected and he bails out on them leaving behind a bill of ksh37,000.

Here is part of the thread, that will leave you in stitches or upset.

‘Nairobi living- A friend’s friend( a babe) invites me for a drink a few weeks back and later tell me she’ll be bringing friends. I go to meet her and get there before her and order my beers and chill’

Is that a man behaving badly or is it just being mean?

 

At this point, the chicks have mulikad him on social media.

Maina dug in, responding to this thread saying;

‘When you entertain a lady men, you must entertain her completely’.

KOT recounted their experiences with dating girls, saying majority of women take it as an opportunity to order for things they have never eaten or drank in their life.

He added;

‘Guys if you cant afford it don’t invite girls for a drink. Women never travel alone. Don’t guys know that?’

‘If you know you have a problem just say it guys, it’s bad manners to leave girls like that.’

 

Read more of the thread below;

Who is the problem here; is it the man or is it the women and their ordering habits?

Girls have you been embarrassed by a man like this?

 

Have you ever been taken for a date and abandoned there with a bill?

What’s your opinion?

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Girls, what do young men tell you to run away from home? (AUDIO)

A dude called in yesterday to Classic 105 studios saying his 16-year-old daughter has disappeared from home and he has heard she is taking drugs. He has no idea where she is.

‘Let me tell you my own daughter changed from one school to another, right now she has disappeared, where do you begin, I do not know where she is, is she taking bhang, I don’t know if she is taking the hard stuff.’

Mwalimu said wazazi huchoka, lakini swali ni watoto huchoka

Mwalimu confessed even his sister disappeared with a ‘kevasu’ (a local loser), and she was told to return to where she went, after she returned pregnant. He says children don’t know of the pressure they give parents.

‘Na kevasu hakuna kitu ako nayo.’

I want to know especially from ladies, when you run away from home, where do you go?

If you have ever run away from home, what do these young men tell you ladies?

What can anyone tell you to derail you from what you know is the right thing?

‘Sistangu alienda kwa posho mill barabarani, na akaolewa na kevasu when she was 17-years-old’, narrated one amused man, describing his sisters deeds.

 

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What makes parents kick their kids out Maina Kageni asks (AUDIO)

A woman called in to the Classic 105 studios, recounting her anger at being chased away by her parents with a three-month-old baby.

The angry woman revealed she was just 23-years-old, when her ‘heartless’ parents kicked her out and yet she had not healed from the wounds of the C-section. She was chased away when it was raining heavily.

‘Maina some parents are just heartless, nilifungiwa nyumba, wakaniambia hatuna pesa sort yourself out, niko na mtoto amcnga sijapona kidonda, some parents are heartless, she narrated

It was raining and I was calling my parents ati hawana pesa. There are some arents who are heartless, she repeated.

How can it get there?

Mwalimu was not convinced by her story, and demanded she come clean on the matter. He insisted parents also get tired to the extent where they chase away their child.

He says there is a story behind her explanation. He adds that by the time parents chase away their child, there have been events leading up to this drastic action, when they say enough is enough. Parents have warned their kids, but they are not listening, what do you want them to do?

‘inafika mahali unachokesha mzazi now it’s to watch you’,

Do parents get tired? Are you a parent?

Have you ever gotten there with your parents to the extent they don’t care what happens to you?

Some parents even take their child to the police and beg them to arrest their child.

One caller said’ Maina, don’t blame parents, there are things we do to them. Like my sister was in Form two and she went and got married. when she was pregnant, the guy used to beat her up, and then she went back home to our parents. ‘alikuwa anaambiwa stop going back there‘, but she didn’t listen.

‘She was told to go and sort herself out. sometimes we are to push our parents to do so’.

A parent gives her reasons for kicking out her son, and why she has no regrets about it. Listen below.

What Kenyan women tell their children about their deadbeat fathers (AUDIO)

On Monday the morning conversation on Classic 105 was about how Kenyan women don’t name their children after their fathers who are absent from their life.

The conversation continued into Tuesday, with a twist to it as Maina and King’ang’i thought it was important for children to know who their deadbeat fathers were. King’ang’i asked this to women,

“Hawa watoto mnawambianga baba zao walienda wapi?”

A lady called and said that she will not lie to the child if he asks about the father. She will tell him the father denied the pregnancy and left, but she will never give her child his name.

A man however called and said it is important for the child to know the truth because if they find out the truth it can bring problems between the mother and the child.

Twitter went wild as many contributed to the discussion. Here are some of the comments.

Sarah: They is no need since the father is a dead man for me although he is alive bring up ur own children without stress I have learn from my mother experience

Sammiel: single mums start lying to their children that their fathers were killed by stray lions from Nairobi National Park. Others have been lied to that their fathers were run over by speeding miraa,mungu anawaona Kenyan women.

Purity: you dump me during my pregnacy and you expect me to tell my child you are still alive haha not me i will even tell my child you were killed by a stray bullet during riots in nairobi period!!

Jacob: Maina if you are broke then ulikongwa na gari, if you are rich unapelekwa kotini.

Listen to the full conversation below.

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Would you name your child after the father even in cases of absenteeism? asks Maina Kageni

Deciding which last name to give your child can be a tough choice, and this formed the morning conversation on Classic 105 with Maina and King’ang’i,

They wanted to know if it is important to document and name your child after the father, even in cases of absenteeism?

Maina and King’ang’i had different views. Maina thought that a child whose father has not been in his life or responsible should not have any right to be on the child’s name while King’ang’i thought that it is important a father’s name to on the child’s name as a sign of identity.

A lady who had named her daughter after herself called and said that the father of the child doesn’t provide and the daughter doesn’t even know who the father is. She added that the guy in her life at the moment is the one taking the place of the real father because he cares and takes responsibility of her daughter.

A follower on twitter said a very important statement about the topic. he said,

“It is not important at all, if you can’t remember your responsibility as a father what makes you think your name should be anywhere connected to that child any man can father a child but it takes courage, commitment and sacrifice to be a loving and caring father.”

Would you name your child after your man left and didn’t take responsibility for the child?

Listen to the full conversation.

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Mama Rachael’s heroic story shocks Mike Mondo and King’angi (AUDIO)

Mama Rachael’s story has gone viral on social media due to her ‘heroic’ story and women were applauding her for what they term as a brave and smart move after discovering her husband was cheating.

She found out her husband was cheating on her with a lady by the name Nancy Wambui and she decided to play cool but in the long run she was planning her traditional wedding ‘chini ya maji’.

One of the best part about this story is that before she left her cheating husband, she made sure she re-furnished the house.

I mean, how smart is that to be honest.

Todays morning conversation on Classic 105 FM with Mike and King’ang’i, they discussed Mama Rachael’s story and were shocked how she had out-smarted her husband.

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To them, they thought that what she did wasn’t fair and it was a harsh move.

Mike and King’ang’i did not expect that men would side with Mama Rachael.

A man called and said that men are the one’s that bring these problems on themselves because they rarely spend time with their wives. He argued that women start seeing other men who give them attention and care since they don’t get it from their husbands who don’t spend time with them.

Her story seemed to have brought such situations in the limelight as another man called and said his wife had done a similar thing only that she did not get married to another man.

He said he had a ‘mpango wa kando’ and his wife found out about it and she started dating a rich man without his knowledge. She cooked nice meals, bought him  gifts which were clothes, shoes. He wondered how his wife afforded the gifts but he later came to find out she was seeing a richer man and she used his money to buy things for him.

King’ang’i was left wondering who was advising women to do this.

Here is the Mama Rachael full story as told by the husband.

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What would you do if you found out your husband was cheating?

Cheating has been a thread these days. Men and women find it easy to cheat and they are not apologetic about it.

Today’s morning conversation on Classic 105FM with Mike Mondo and King’ang’i, the discussion was about women overacting when they found out their men have done something wrong.

Mike shared a story of a lady who destroyed her husbands vehicle (Prado) and her reason was because her man cheated and reacted by destroying the car. He went on to ask ladies why they go to such extremes when they find their husband cheated? Do you heal?

King’ang’i gave other scenarios he knew, he said a woman destroyed her husbands best suits using cigarettes (alichoma) and another that she actually burnt down the house.

A lady called and gave her story on how she dealt with her cheating man. She said she found him with a lady and confronted him on why he wasn’t answering her calls and  that the man had lied to her parents that their daughter had said she was tired with the relationship. She got mad and hurt because she loved him dearly and due to the anger she broke all the windows of his house and doors.

A man who was a victim said that he got home and his girl had tore all his trousers and his underpants.

Mike wondered why women react instead of just walking away peacefully without destroying properties.

Listen to the full conversation below

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Is Kiambu Woman Rep Gathoni Muchomba right to advocate for polygamy?

Kiambu Woman representatives Gathoni Muchomba made highlights after she advocated that polygamous should not be a problem

“Kama wewe ni mwanaume mkikuyu na unaweza kuweka bibi watano weka kama wewe ni mwanume na uko nauwezo wa kulea iko nini.”

Classic 105 FM morning conversation was fire as the conversation brought about mixed reactions from women as some agreed with Gathoni Muchomba and some thought it wasn’t right.

King’ang’i was happy that Gathoni talked about it and he thought she spoke the truth because back then men married more than one wife and had many children and they took responsibilities.

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A lady called and was totally on board with Gathoni. She said that men should be allowed to marry other women because most men already have children outside wedlock with other women and that would reduce the number of single families and also she believes that most violent marriages come from monogamous marriages and if women knew that their was another women they would behave and respect their husbands.

A lady gave her life story and seconded Gathoni. She was married and her husband had another woman and so she left because she couldn’t stand another woman. She later found herself in the same situation but as the other woman and five years down the line she got married and she and the first wife have a strong bond.

Well the discussion was quite interesting as Mike Mondo did not expect that women would support her.

Another lady called and said that maybe Gathoni had a reason why she said that because she might be advocating for herself to avoid judgment from other people and that it was not okay because it would create a platform for men to cheat and wouldn’t take responsibilities of their kids.

The discussion was blowing on twitter and women had different opinions about it.

Listen to the whole conversation below.

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Do Kenyan men cheat because their wives relax after marriage? (AUDIO)

You can bet that on the Classic 105 FM morning conversation with Maina and Kingang’i, men and women will always have differing opinions on cheating. On Friday was no different as men shared with Maina why they cheat on their wives. They defended their actions by saying:

“Please tell our wives this, these other women feel a certain gap in our lives.”

Maina asked King’ang’i if it is true women can’t satisfy their needs and King’ang’i spoke on behalf of most men saying that they their wives cannot satisfy their every need because they can’t be everything.

A lady called and said that sometimes women are not to blame because they try to satisfy their husbands needs but they do not appreciate their efforts. She gave an example saying that her husband is the one that doesn’t satisfy her needs.

This conversation however turned tables since Maina expected most women to have a different opinion but instead some sided with King’ang’i.

A man called and poured his heart out saying that women relax after marriage and when they go to other women they don’t cheat but they try to make themselves happy. He also said,

“The problem with ladies is that when they get married they relax, so when they relax their are some things they don’t do for us and if they don’t do this things for us wee end up with other women.”

 

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