‘Never leave a man for cheating,’ Mwalimu King’angi advises

Kenyan men have blamed their wives and girlfriends for making them cheat.


According to a majority of men calling in Maina Kageni, they would not cheat if their wives were submissive and give them their conjugal rights.


The men justified themselves by saying they stray searching for the ‘love’ they are missing at home.

*Mike shared
“On behalf of Kenyan men, we do not cheat.
When we cheat we do so because of women, when you stop giving me what you used to give me while we were dating I will go look for it elsewhere.”

*Njoro says
“We do not cheat we go where we are welcomed more and accepted.
Mwalimu King’ang’i says women should be lenient with men who stray
‘Never leave a man because of cheating, it rains everywhere. Sometimes we get trapped.”

*Rose called in very furious.

” How can a man say they cheat because of women?
If the same energy you are using out there is the same energy you used in the house we would treat you right.
Men should evaluate themselves.
You cannot treat your side chicks well and then come expecting to be treated like a king.”

*Stella told men to stop bragging because women also cheat.
“Men should stop feeling like winners because we are also can cheat.
If you stop giving me when we were dating, I will go get it from elsewhere.”

There are different reasons why people cheat and these include;

  1. Adventure

Some women cheat just for adventure, they want to feel if the other man will satisfy their sexual fantasies.

2. Lust

Believe you me, even women are lustful and it’s not something to be proud about.
Women sometimes cheat because they want to experience the thrill, like men they also want to hit and run.

3. You definitely like different qualities in both of them

The two of them are so different, but both have qualities that spark your interest.

One of them may have the best sense of humour; the other may be incredibly witty and smart.
One may have the best butt; the other may have an impressive beard. (Hey, aesthetics matter to girls, too).

When you’re seeing two guys at the same time, they’re rarely similar. That’s what makes the situation attractive: They’re great in opposite ways.

4. You like both men so much, but you can’t bring yourself to pick just one.

This makes you want to cry.

At the same time, you’re so incredibly happy to have two people who make you feel so good. Your shame is palpable, but your indecision will always outweigh any guilt.

5. The fear of missing out (FOMO)

That ever-dreaded plague, the thing that keeps you wrapped up in both relationships: FOMO.

You keep up the charade as long as you possibly can, hoping that the world will decide for you. You’re terrified of missing out.
You don’t want to choose wrong and end up with nothing.

You don’t want to look back on this time in your life and think, “Wow, I really messed up when I was so close to finding love.”

6. Boredom

The saying ‘An idle mind is the devil’s workshop’ applies in this case, when a woman is bored she might be tempted to stray and sample that guy who has been hitting on her since college.

7. Loneliness

We all know that most women crave love and attention, let no one lie they don’t so when as a man you ignore your responsibilities your woman may be tempted to stray.

8. Revenge

It’s said that what a man can do a woman can do better and some women have taken the statement literally.

Some women opt to cheat as a way of revenge if they catch their men cheating.

9. Shetani (It’s the devil)

We always blame the devil so why not blame him when we cheat?

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Mike Mondo-I cheated on my ex with 3 of her friends after she cheated on me

Classic 105 host Mike Mondo has said he doesn’t regret cheating on his ex-girlfriend with 3 of her friends a few years back.

Speaking to Kalondu Musyimi, Mike says he chose to character develop the lady after she cheated with his friend.

“I character developed someone by sleeping with 3 of her friends. She was hollaing at one of my friends and the brother of this guy told me about it. I approached the guy and told him not to let her know I had found out she was cheating on me.”

Mike says although cheating is not something to be proud of, he gave the lady a dose of her own medicine.
“I always say that when you pretend you know too much I react to how you treat me. If you want to cheat, I will show you a different of how big boys play it. And when we do you will end up getting hurt.”

Mike says the lady never found out about him cheating on her.
Asked if he regrets doing it? “I have no regrets but I can’t do that now, sahi nimezeeka.”

There are different reasons why people cheat, these may be;

To seek revenge
Some people cheat to get back at their partners who might have strayed as well.
To soothe their ego
Some people, both men, and women cheat to soothe their ego and cover their insecurities.
Low esteem
Some cheat to seek validation from other people.
This mainly happens when the person they love doesn’t validate them.
Some have issues arising from a lack of good performance and small tools.
Getting someone who accepts them, and that person is not their partner might make one cheat.
Lust
Some people cheat because they are lustful and want to fulfill their sexual fetishes.

Mike had in the past revealed that some men like messy divorces or separations, saying,

I have seen couples go through messy separations. You find a man chasing out his wife and yet he is the one who is supposed to move out. Or you find a man taking away his wife’s car but with white people things are very different.”

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Apart from boredom and revenge here are reasons why women cheat

A list of sneaky ways girls save their clande’s phone number

Technology has helped many people conceal their cheating ways.

Do you find unusual names and numbers in her mobile phone address book?

Instead of the name, does she have abbreviations or codes?

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So if you see dad call a bit too often, there’s a problem. She is using that name to cover up all those flirty messages and calls.

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Reasons why wives stay with their husbands despite cheating allegations

Below are some of the ways she will save her side dish just to play safe in the relationship;

  • Some ladies have accepted that they save their “men” with ladies name as a cover-up.
  • Either just use a single letter just to avoid any arousing questions from either their spouses or boyfriends.

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  • Initials are the go-to most if not all women in this stage of life. I can agree with you that women are very smart beings and they can really play with any man’s psychology.
  • With the internet and dating apps present, some women have opened up to finding a side guy through tinder and saving them as “TN” with those initials to hide the person’s identity.
  • Last, but not least most are saved by where they live. This is a safe way because finding the person would be a bit difficult and challenging.

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Apart from boredom and revenge here are reasons why women cheat

Gone are the days where cheating among women was unheard of, more and more women are cheating and here are reasons why they may be doing so.

  1. Adventure

Some women cheat just for adventure, they want to feel if the other man will satisfy their sexual fantasies.

2. Lust

Believe you me, even women are lustful and it’s not something to be proud about.
Women sometimes cheat because they want to experience the thrill, like men they also want to hit and run.

3. You definitely like different qualities in both of them

The two of them are so different, but both have qualities that spark your interest.

One of them may have the best sense of humour; the other may be incredibly witty and smart.
One may have the best butt; the other may have an impressive beard. (Hey, aesthetics matter to girls, too).

When you’re seeing two guys at the same time, they’re rarely similar. That’s what makes the situation attractive: They’re great in opposite ways.

4. You like both men so much, but you can’t bring yourself to pick just one.

This makes you want to cry.

At the same time, you’re so incredibly happy to have two people who make you feel so good. Your shame is palpable, but your indecision will always outweigh any guilt.

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5. The fear of missing out (FOMO)

That ever-dreaded plague, the thing that keeps you wrapped up in both relationships: FOMO.

You keep up the charade as long as you possibly can, hoping that the world will decide for you. You’re terrified of missing out.
You don’t want to choose wrong and end up with nothing.

You don’t want to look back on this time in your life and think, “Wow, I really messed up when I was so close to finding love.”

6. Boredom

The saying ‘An idle mind is the devil’s workshop’ applies in this case, when a woman is bored she might be tempted to stray and sample that guy who has been hitting on her since college.

7. Loneliness

We all know that most women crave love and attention, let no one lie they don’t so when as a man you ignore your responsibilities your woman may be tempted to stray.

8. Revenge

It’s said that what a man can do a woman can do better and some women have taken the statement literally.

Some women opt to cheat as a way of revenge if they catch their men cheating.

9. Shetani (It’s the devil)

We always blame the devil so why not blame him when we cheat?

 

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‘My wife cheated with the driver and she is unapologetic’ cries city man

Would you forgive your spouse if they cheated on you? That’s the dilemma a city man is in after finding out the wife is cheating with their driver.

I remember my Sunday school teacher taught me that we should forgive each other “seventy times seven times” .

The verse above however has not stopped *Tom from wanting to revenge and making his wife pay for her mistakes.

I have become a bitter man and I am determined to hurt my wife. I want to expose her nude pictures all over the Internet because she cheated on me and she is not even remorseful about it.

We don’t have children yet and she is still very beautiful and has a perfect body to marry again so I want to mess her up same way she did .

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I have been suspecting she was cheating with my driver so I mounted a camera in my servant quarters because that is where they used to meet.

The camera captured all the dirty things they did .

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He goes on to add that despite being found out his wife was not apologetic instead she asked for a divorce adding that he is so tiny below the belt to be able to satisfy her sexual urges.

She was giving another head.A common driver a head yet  she will never do with me . I hate that woman .

I want to hurt her so bad the way she hurt me.

And when I showed her the video and expected an apology she insulted me and called me a small dick and told me she wants a divorce.

I felt humiliated ,so I sacked my driver but I don’t want to divorce her till I expose her body all over the internet.

Do you think him exposing her nudes on social media will help the situation?

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‘I learnt after our honey moon that my new wife had robbed a bank of Ksh 700K, ‘ City man confesses

What would you do if you found out that the man/woman you just said ‘I Do’ to is a murderer,rapist,con or even a woman batter?.

There are some sickening things that couples only found after they had already walked down the aisle with their better halves.

Here are the confessions

One woman says

“He had had a 4-year s#xual relationship with his best female friend, that he swore up and down he’d never dated. Also that he had raped his sister when he was 12 and she was 11.

I picked a winner, right? He never told me about these things. I found evidence of thing 1 and the sister told me about thing 2.

We are divorced.”

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Another victim says

“My husband and his friend came up with a plan to catch his friend’s wife cheating. My husband slept with his friends wife and friend ‘caught’ them. She got pregnant and during the divorce found out the baby was my husband’s. Found this out after 7 years and 3 kids.”

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If you think that’s horrible read the confession below

“She was a bank robber.

She told me she had saved up $700 (Ksh 700K) from working summer jobs and babysitting while in high school. We get married, and get on our way to Branson (Honeymoon Capitol of America, amIrite?). On the way, she confesses to me that she did not in fact save up.

So, we go on an extravagant (for me) week long spending spree of a honeymoon. We do EVERYTHING! Helicopters, boat rentals, every show, see a souvenir- we buy it. Oh a quilt? $500? Sure! We spent over $6500(Ksh 650,500 )extra on this trip.

We get home on a Sunday afternoon. We both have to return to work the next morning. There are several messages on the answering machine (This was before either of us had cell phones). The third or fourth message plays.”

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In conclusion he says

“It is her boss from the BANK she works at telling her to contact him at once, that there is an issue they need to discuss, and leaves a number. Up to this point, I am in the dark, but by Monday morning it has all hit the fan.

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I learn that there was no mysterious savings account from high school. I learn that she had been transferring money from a couple large accounts on a regular basis into HER OWN account. The total was somewhere north of $7700(Ksh 707,000) The bank was pissed, the clients were pissed, the authorities were already neck deep this and they were scary, to say the least.”

What is the worst thing you found out about your better half,share in the comment section.

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Here are the top 9 professions likely to have extramarital affairs

How to spot a cheater is an age-old question with no concrete answer. But according to a new survey, a person’s profession may provide clues as to whether they will stray.

Conducted by Victoria Milan – a website which aims to match up people seeking an extramarital affair – many users came from relatively specific streams of work.

According to the study, those in the high pressure and highly lucrative field of finance were most likely to cheat.

More specifically, 21 per cent of the women surveyed – meaning they were seeking an extramarital affair – were bankers, brokers or analysts.

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The second most represented group were also high fliers, with 15 per cent of participants working as either pilots or flight attendants.

Of those involved, 65 per cent of the professional women admitted to sleeping with a co-worker, but a hefty 85 per cent said it was a practise they wouldn’t recommend.

Relationship expert said:

There are several different types of cheaters and infidelity comes in different ways, shapes and forms. The most common of these I’ve narrowed to three types of cheaters and the tell-tale signs can vary slightly

‘Are they a once off cheater? Are they a thrill of the chase, repeat offender? Or perhaps they are an accidental cheater.’

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The top nine professions most likely to cheat

1. Financial

2. Aviation

3. Healthcare

4. Business

5. Sport

6. Arts

7.  Nightlife industry

8. Communications

9. Legal industry

Drama as Baringo man bumps into wife cheating with primary school head teacher

48-year old man in Kipsaraman, Baringo North Sub-county bumped into his 38-year old wife having an affair with 44-year old primary school head teacher on Wednesday night.

According to villagers the man (names withheld), a veterinary officer, had just arrived at his rental house at Kipsaraman trading centre around 11pm.

“His wife opened the door for him then he immediately spotted a man hiding under his bed, but the intruder didn’t notice he had already been seen” the husband said.

The husband went ahead to call a male relative asking him to rush to his house so he may assist take a sick child to the hospital.

“When he arrived, he directed him to identify for him the man lying under his bed, and the two then arrested him before calling villagers to come and witness the bizarre incident” source said.

The two, the wife and his lover were then escorted the same night to Kipsaraman Administration Police (AP) station for safety and interrogation.

In their defense the lovebirds admitted to have had their long time relationship since 2008, “no one should control me over whom I should fall in love with after all my husband is so lazy” the wife reacted.

Contacted for comment a local administrator confirmed the incident pleading on both parties to agree and solve the shameful incident.

“I hope this will just be taken as a normal love affair but not a criminal act so that it can be handled locally without engaging the law court” he said.

Hundreds of residents surrounded the AP station to witness the happening and learn how both the aggrieved individuals shall reach at the conclusion.

In the same sub-county Police are hunting for a 30-year old man who killed his 22-year old wife, mother of a-year old baby before running into hiding on Monday.

It is not ascertained the motive as to why the assailant Laban Kamuren descended to kill his wife of two children Judith Chesang in cold blood.

Nacy Chesang, sister to the diseased said she screamed while she watched helplessly the assailant in-law hacked her sister’s head and neck to death.

“I saw him ran to the house and while I was trying to help lift up my sister he appeared with a sharp panga then I ran away and he hurriedly hacked her” Nancy said.

Upon realizing she had killed her wife the assailant fled away leaving his breastfeeding one year old baby crying on the ground.

Sibilo Sub- location assistant chief Agnes Keitany confirmed the incident saying police took the body to Baringo County Hospital mortuary-Kabarnet.

‘I cried till my nose bled’ Pregnant woman recalls cheating baby daddy

A pregnant woman has revealed the moment she found out her boyfriend was cheating on her after she accidentally met his other girlfriend.

Rosie was expecting her first child with her boyfriend of four years Tom.

But when the woman showed him the positive pregnancy test, she didn’t get the response she was hoping for.

She explained how Tom had frantically left the house in shock despite previously talking about starting a family together.

‘It wasn’t quite the unbridled joy I’d been expecting. He ran out to our local pharmacy and came back with four. They all came back positive,’ she told Take 5.

Eventually, Tom began feeling excited about becoming a father after he saw their tiny baby on the screen at her first scan.

But things took a turn for the worse when at seven months pregnant, she discovered Tom had been in a relationship with another woman.

The couple had gone for a walk around town when they were confronted by Natalia who revealed she had been sleeping with Tom for 10 months.

Before Rosie could respond, she realised Tom had fled the scene.

Natalia took Rosie to a nearby cafe where she told her everything about their relationship, including how they met on Tinder, as tears streamed down her face.

‘As I listened, I felt the anger bubble inside me. How dare he. I was about to give birth to his child, I shouldn’t be sitting at a cafe with his mistress crying on me,’ Rosie said.

Five hours later, Rosie finally heard back from Tom who admitted to infidelity.

‘In the days that followed, I cried so much my nose bled,’ she said.

Rosie admitted how she couldn’t bear the thought of her baby growing up without a father so she decided to let Tom stay in the house.

After giving birth to their baby son Jackson*, the couple decided to give their relationship another go.

But when Jackson turned two, Rosie said she noticed endless payments to different dating sites on his bank statements.

‘He tried to deny it but I wasn’t having any of it. He had proved that leopards never really change their spots,’ she said.

Rosie said she’s now happier in a new relationship.

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Doctor’s Widow Admits To Have Had Affairs With 80 Married Men

A doctor’s widow has gone public about a series of adulterous affairs she has had with 80 married men, and claimed: ‘Living my s3x life to the max is my life’s work.’

Mother of two Louise Van Der Velde, 43, from North Yorkshire, says she has been living every day ‘like it is her last’ following the death of GP husband Stephen in 2004 – and juggles multiple affairs with a string of lovers.

She says the weeks after Valentine’s Day are the busiest time of the year for s3x cheats like her, because the reminder of all things romantic serves as a wake-up call to so many people in ‘dead’ relationships.

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And she claims many of her her lovers’ wives are aware they are cheating and turn a blind eye because they have gone off s3x.

Louise, who says she shields her children, now 12 and 17, from her dalliances with married men, claims that many women whose husbands cheat only have themselves to blame, because they put all of their effort into their children and domestic life, and effectively ‘abandon’ their spouse in the bedroom in doing so.

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Ni Samantha? Boyfriend caught cheating and insists his lover is a doll

A man caught cheating on his girlfriend apparently went to extreme lengths to get away with it – by repeatedly insisting his lover was a s3x doll.

A video, filmed by a woman in the United States, starts after she spots a scantily-clad woman seductively dancing with her boyfriend through his window.

When she storms in, the woman has suddenly frozen on the stairs – and her boyfriend repeatedly shouts that she’s a s3x doll, even brandishing a receipt in a bid to convince her.

‘What the f*** is going on here? Who the f*** is this?’ the girlfriend demands.

‘It’s a f***ing s3x doll! I got the f***ing receipt right here!’ he replies during an expletive-laden exchange.

His girlfriend remains unconvinced and repeatedly pushes the other woman.

She continues to stay still and at one point says in a robotic voice: ‘Please don’t hurt me.’

When the other woman switches poses, the boyfriend doubles down on his defence by saying: ‘It comes with reflexes.’

But it’s not long before the woman breaks character and begins to gather her belongings to make a hasty exit.

Even so, the cheating boyfriend continues to insist she’s a s3x doll.

‘It’s dysfunctional. There’s something wrong with it. I’ve got the receipt, I don’t know why the f*** she’s walking by herself.’

It’s not known where in the United States the clip was filmed, but after going viral on social media, many commenters suggested it was a hoax.

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‘I’ve Had Three ABORTIONS With A MARRIED Man I’ve Dated For 3 Years And I Still Love Him’ Confesses a Kenyan Clande (AUDIO)

Ladies, would you agree to be a mistress and date a married man for 3 years, yet you know very well that he will never settle down with you or be your husband?

Maina Kageni recently asked women if they could handle the truth if men decided to tell them all the dirty secrets and lies that they hide, and it turned out that some women would actually handle it while others would walk away if they knew the truth.

Interestingly, some women came out to tell Maina Kageni that they have more dirt than their husbands, with one particular one even confessing that she had an affair with the husband’s close friend for three months after finding out that he was cheating on her.

Ghai! Kenyan Woman Reveals She Had An AFFAIR With Her Husband’s BEST FRIEND To Revenge His Infidelity (AUDIO)

Marriages are not easy, more so when a woman finds out that her man has another woman or mistress, which seems to be a norm now.

But what happens when the woman in question is the side dish or ‘clande’?

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During Maina Kageni’s breakfast show, a particular woman called in, confessing that she has been a mistress for 3 years, and even confessing that she has aborted the man’s pregnancies. Yes, not one, but three.

According to the anonymous caller, she’s not with the married man for money but love, adding that she makes money with him, which is ‘their’ cash because they have a company together.

In fact, the woman goes ahead to say that everything the man’s wife has is because of her, including the car that she drives. The ‘clande’ feels that she has a better place in the man’s life more than the wife. What madness is this!

How about you listen to the full story in the short audio below.

 

Ghai! Kenyan Woman Reveals She Had An AFFAIR With Her Husband’s BEST FRIEND To Revenge His Infidelity (AUDIO)

Ladies, would you handle it if your man was truthful about everything he does or about everyone he meets?

A lot of ladies have come out to complain about their husband’s secrets and infidelity, claiming that they want to be recognized, and that it’s better to know the truth rather than being in the dark in the relationship.

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“So, if he tells you that he has two children out of wedlock, or he has bought another woman a piece of land or opened for a mistress a salon, is it worth knowing? If he traveled and said that he was sleeping at a hotel, but he confesses that he was actually at another woman’s house, would you survive that honesty?” 

This was the big question from Maina Kageni, who wanted to get views from women during his breakfast show recently after a lady called in saying that it hurts when one finds out secrets about the husband.

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A lot of ladies called in and texted, giving their different opinions on whether they would like to know if their men stayed and whether their husbands have ever revealed to them if they had extramarital affairs.

But things took a different turn when a lady called in to say that it’s the men who can’t handle the truth from women, confessing that she has a lot of secrets her man doesn’t know, including the fact that she cheated on him with his close friend.

Forbidden Fruits! Woman Catches CHEATING Husband ‘STUCK’ To Her SISTER With Help From a Witch Doctor

According to the anonymous lady, her man cheated on her and she happened to know, so she had an affair with one of his closest friend for three months, and he never knew it, just to get back at him.

The lady was daring enough to say that she can even cheat with his brother if he ever tries to be unfaithful again. This is madness. Listen to the details of the whole revelation in the audio below.

 

Shameful! Kenyan Married Man DECLINES Romantic Advances Of a ‘Thirsty’ Lady Who Tries To Seduce Him (PHOTO)

In a world where cheating has become a ‘norm’, it’s easy to think that every man is a cheat and a womanizer.

This has made a lot of women think every man is a player and that no man can say no to a woman, especially if it’s a lady who has made the first move on the lad.

Gone are the days when ladies would wait for a man to approach them or make the first move.

FOR LOVE OR MONEY? Kenyan ‘Clande’ Reveals She’s In Love With a Married Man, People React (Audio)

Nowadays, some girls have become very bold that when they see a man they like or are attracted to and he doesn’t approach them, they take it upon themselves to seduce the man.

But it looks like there are still nice and faithful men out there who don’t throw themselves at women who start flirting with them if a recent Whatsapp screenshot is anything to go by.

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The chat was leaked online, where a single lady by the name Esther approached a married man, asking him out for dinner but the man did not jump on the opportunity as some married men would.

The lady was left embarrassed after the man declined to go on a date with her, making it clear that he’s taken and busy by saying that he takes his wife out for dinner after picking his kids from school.

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She doesn’t give up there and asks the man for the second time, and this time round, she invites him to her house, and that’s when she gets a rude shock.

“Listen Mercy, I’m a married man. I love my wife and kids so much, I would never think of hurting them,” reiterates the man, and from the text, you can tell that he was super annoyed.

Check out the screenshots from the conversation below. Ladies, there’s still hope for good and caring men, who would never do anything to hurt their wives.

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Sour Love? A Frustrated Married Woman Reveals Why She CHEATED On Her Husband, It Has Nothing To Do With Money

Cheating has become the main issue that’s posing a threat to most relationships and sadly it’s being taken as the norm.

Gone are the days when men used to be the only ones who cheat in a relationship.

Nowadays, women seem to have mastered the game too well to the point that they beat men to it, and most of the time, they are not caught.

But what really pushes someone to cheat on his or her spouse, and yet they don’t want to walk out or leave them?

A woman took it to social media to open up on why she was unfaithful to her husband.

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The anonymous lady, disclosed that her husband is neglecting her physically and emotionally, an issue that led her to look for romance outside her marriage.

My husband pushed me into the hands of another man. My marriage is boring I’m always lonely no one to share a bed no compliments no gifts no dates or even sweet words the only time I get to have lungula with him is only when he thinks he starved me for so long and mind you it’s me who always makes the 1st move.

The lady is a mother of two girls, whom she raises single-handedly since he has no time for them. The lonely woman found solace in another man, though they only talk over the phone.

We have 2 beautiful girls but I’m the only one raising them he has no time for his family. So I don’t know how i found myself in the act because I never thought I could cheat as a married woman, this new man makes me feel whole again.

She goes on to reveal that she even sought their family’s intervention but he has not changed or showed interest in her. The lady is seeking advice to rekindle her love, wondering if she should stick around or just walk away.

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Read the rest of the post below. What do you think, should she give it another try or just start over with the new man?

He’s always there to console me sweet talk me and I really enjoy his company though we’ve never met we just talk on phone and chat how do I go about this I’ve spoken to my husband I even reported him to his family but he never cared I don’t know if the marriage is over in his mind because of the way he acts.

I feel he wants me to leave on my own because he frustrates my life I hate the way he treats me I just need advice and the strength to move on because my mum has had it too.

She’s ready to welcome me home but do you guys think that’s enough to leave I’m a love person I love attention but hubby and I are 2 diff people even though he showed me love before marriage why change now please help me guys because I don’t want to b caught cheating and don’t want God to punish me either.” Have something to add to this article or suggestions?

‘He Betrayed Me In Every Single Way’: Mother Reveals How Her Ex-Husband’s FORTUNE Sparked An Affair And a $400 Million Divorce

On paper, the relationship between Sarah Pursglove and her ex-husband Robert Oesterlund was beyond perfect.

The pair, who met in Helsinki in 1995, raised two daughters and enjoyed enormous wealth – $400 million to be exact.

However, Sarah, 47, has revealed how Robert’s millions eventually lead to his affair and a very public divorce battle.

Speaking to the Sunday Times Sarah said: ‘He betrayed me in every single way you could possibly be betrayed — you just never expect a husband to do what he’s done.’

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Sarah filed for divorce in 2014 after she discovered her partner’s infidelity when she followed him after discovering he had booked a taxi ride for two.

She was horrified to see a woman emerge from the car before Robert shared a kiss with her. Sarah said: ‘That was it — our marriage was over. I was devastated, I felt betrayed and hurt.’

But while the betrayal itself was painful enough Sarah was to be faced with further torment during divorce proceedings.

Robert claimed that he was only worth a few million dollars, hiding the family’s true fortune from the courts and leaving Sarah to face years of legal battles to get the money she was owed.

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Her lawyers eventually uncovered statements in the Bahamas where the couple owned a Superyacht suggesting that the family was worth $400 million.

The mother-of-two eventually reached a settlement that, for legal reasons, we cannot reveal.

However, Sarah says, she was never interested in the relationship’s financial side: ‘It was never about the money.

‘I would have been happy living with him in a small apartment, as long as we were together. I was naive not understanding how money can change people.’

The couple made their fortune in internet advertising, going from just one company in 2001 to a 40-firm empire.

They hired personal trainers and private tutors for their two daughters and travelled the world on their yacht and by private jet.

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It is a long way from Sarah’s beginnings in the former council house in Caernarvon, north Wales, that she shared with her mother Janice and sister Daphne.

She left school at 16 to pursue her love of photography and ended up working on a cruise ship.

In 1996 she met Mr Oesterlund, a Finnish flower-seller, and they married two years later.

She says they struggled financially until they hit gold with the internet advertising business in Florida.

The couple’s relationship first hit the rocks when, in 2009, Robert revealed that he had outstayed his visa and was unable to live in the US for ten years.

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He moved to a superyacht in the Bahamas where Sarah and their two daughters would visit him every weekend, but, she recalls that he began drinking as a way to liven his spirits.

After an accident aboard the yacht that left Sarah hospitalized when she was thrown from the deck into shark infested waters the couple purchased a $5 million property in Finland as well as a 165ft vessel costing $23 million.

The boat, named Déjà Vu, Sarah believed was a catalyst for Robert’s change in behavior as it attracted celebrities and partygoers.

She told the Mirror: ‘The money had gone to his head. I thought he was having a midlife crisis. I gave him a chance, thinking it would pass.’

It was after purchasing a $35 million penthouse in the Four Seasons in Toronto that Sarah became aware of his affair.

The businesswoman and former cruise ship worker is now living in Florida with her two daughters and is in the midst of selling her Toronto penthouse.

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Forbidden Fruits! Woman Catches CHEATING Husband ‘STUCK’ To Her SISTER With Help From a Witch Doctor

Ladies, would you go to a witch doctor so that you can find out if your man is cheating on you?

Well, a woman from Nakuru has revealed that she sought services from a witchdoctor so that she could tame her husband.

Margaret Nabwire confessed that she was the one behind a scenario where her husband got stuck to his sister-in-law when they were busted at a Nakuru Lodge.

Joseph Nyakundi was caught red-handed with Margaret’s sister during the shameful act. She received a call informing her that her husband was ‘stuck’ with the woman, something that shocked her.

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Nabwire revealed that she was introduced to the witchdoctor, Anne Mutheu, by a friend, who claimed she had the power to tame and catch her husband who had a roving eye.

“I suspected that my husband was having an affair but I did not expect that it would be with my sister” Margaret told The Nairobian.

According to reports, Mutheu is said to have given Margaret Nabwire charms that ensured her man would get stuck to the woman he was cheating with, outside of their matrimonial bed.

The two love birds were carried by residents while covered in bedsheets to Mutheu’s house, who managed to separate them after undoing the spell.

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Margaret Nabwire went on to explain that her husband had spend money meant for school fees on women. Joseph Nyakundi had apparently sold a parcel of land that belonged to them for Sh 800,000, but instead of paying their childrens school fees, he spent all of it on women.

This led Nabwire to seek help from Mutheu, so that she could teach him a lesson.

Actually, Joseph had lied that he was going on a business trip the time he was caught stuck to her sister in Nakuru.

“A few months ago, he sold a parcel of our land for Sh800,000. The money was meant to pay school fees for our kids, but I later learned he spent all the money with his women. I was angry and decided to seek the services of Mutheu to teach him a lesson,” she told the Nairobian.

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Mwanaume Kamili! Kenyan Man Apologizes Publicly To His Wife After Cheating On Her

A bold man by the name Bren Mwaura has left Kenyans talking for days after he took to social media to apologise to his wife for cheating on her.

Mwaura apologised to her for cheating on her with a lady he named Alice Wanjiru. Apparently, Wanjiru has been warming Mwaura’s bed although he was married.

He then promised never to go astray again a thing many men cannot do.

“Am apologising to my wife cheating on her with one Alice Wanjiru am really sorry dear  wife and it will never happen again.”

 

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He further went ahead to claim that it was because of the bad company he has been keeping.

“Dear wife I am very sorry for ever cheating on you, it will never happen again, it is the bad company that I have been keeping.”

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Bren has deactivated his social media accounts after his bold apology.