Kenyan men have blamed their wives and girlfriends for making them cheat.
According to a majority of men calling in Maina Kageni, they would not cheat if their wives were submissive and give them their conjugal rights.
The men justified themselves by saying they stray searching for the ‘love’ they are missing at home.
“On behalf of Kenyan men, we do not cheat.
When we cheat we do so because of women, when you stop giving me what you used to give me while we were dating I will go look for it elsewhere.”
“We do not cheat we go where we are welcomed more and accepted.
Mwalimu King’ang’i says women should be lenient with men who stray
‘Never leave a man because of cheating, it rains everywhere. Sometimes we get trapped.”
*Rose called in very furious.
” How can a man say they cheat because of women?
If the same energy you are using out there is the same energy you used in the house we would treat you right.
Men should evaluate themselves.
You cannot treat your side chicks well and then come expecting to be treated like a king.”
*Stella told men to stop bragging because women also cheat.
“Men should stop feeling like winners because we are also can cheat.
If you stop giving me when we were dating, I will go get it from elsewhere.”
There are different reasons why people cheat and these include;
Some women cheat just for adventure, they want to feel if the other man will satisfy their sexual fantasies.
Believe you me, even women are lustful and it’s not something to be proud about.
Women sometimes cheat because they want to experience the thrill, like men they also want to hit and run.
3. You definitely like different qualities in both of them
The two of them are so different, but both have qualities that spark your interest.
One of them may have the best sense of humour; the other may be incredibly witty and smart.
One may have the best butt; the other may have an impressive beard. (Hey, aesthetics matter to girls, too).
When you’re seeing two guys at the same time, they’re rarely similar. That’s what makes the situation attractive: They’re great in opposite ways.
4. You like both men so much, but you can’t bring yourself to pick just one.
This makes you want to cry.
At the same time, you’re so incredibly happy to have two people who make you feel so good. Your shame is palpable, but your indecision will always outweigh any guilt.
5. The fear of missing out (FOMO)
That ever-dreaded plague, the thing that keeps you wrapped up in both relationships: FOMO.
You keep up the charade as long as you possibly can, hoping that the world will decide for you. You’re terrified of missing out.
You don’t want to choose wrong and end up with nothing.
You don’t want to look back on this time in your life and think, “Wow, I really messed up when I was so close to finding love.”
The saying ‘An idle mind is the devil’s workshop’ applies in this case, when a woman is bored she might be tempted to stray and sample that guy who has been hitting on her since college.
We all know that most women crave love and attention, let no one lie they don’t so when as a man you ignore your responsibilities your woman may be tempted to stray.
It’s said that what a man can do a woman can do better and some women have taken the statement literally.
Some women opt to cheat as a way of revenge if they catch their men cheating.
9. Shetani (It’s the devil)
We always blame the devil so why not blame him when we cheat?