“I’m tired of protecting him” Burna Boys alleged side chick reveals affair

 

A 23-year-old girl has come out to allege that she and Nigerian Afro pop singer Burna Boy have been having an affair.

Jo Pear, the side chick, shared two Instagram TV videos, below, claiming the two off them  have been seeing each other for two years. Burna Boy and Stefflon Don began datign in 2018.

She insisted it all started with a DM, but refused to respond to his advances until they met in the UK where he was performing.

“I feel like what he made me feel like when I met him made me feel like love at first sight. He just gravitated towards me, he was very sweet,” she said.


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She said then found out he had a girlfriend, Stefflon Don following a disagreement that resulted in an argument. But they didn’t break up inspite of this.

“It’s just been like the elephant in the room that we choose not to discuss and we just go about things like it doesn’t exist,” she said. “In the past two years, he has never mentioned the person I see him with on social media to my face. That person never gets acknowledged, it’s like she doesn’t exist in our world.”


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I fear my husband will stab me in my sleep after cheating on him

Whew chile. People are going through the most out here.

A woman shared her story of being caught cheating on her husband and how his reaction to the incident has her living in fear.

She wrote that he caught her in bed with another man in their marital home, and instead of rage, he has been very loving towards her. She is confused and thinks he might be preparing to stab her to death while she sleeps.

“My husband found me in bed with another man, in our bedroom. I expected him to shoot us right then and there but he didn’t. He nicely asked my side guy to get dressed and leave. He told me to go take a shower. I tried to apologize but he told me he didn’t want to talk about it because there was nothing he can do to reverse what happened. That was the last time we spoke about it. Ever since that day he has been nice to me. He buys me flowers and takes me out at least twice a week. My husband is doing everything I want as from my man.”

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Now here is the tricky part, the husband is even planning a vacation before Christmas. But that is the least of her problems. It’s killing her inside not knowing what he is thinking. She said

“What he saw last month is eating me everyday. especially since he doesn’t want to talk about it. I’m even losing weight. I expected him to chase me away, punish me or call a family meeting to report me. He’s doing the opposite. I think he’s planning o do something bad to me. Sometimes I open my eyes at night and find him looking at me. When I ask him he says he’s admiring my beauty and thanking God for blessing him with a flame of a woman. I think he’s planning to do something to me when we are overseas. Am I being unnecessarily paranoid?”

Dear Classic 105 fam, is the woman reading too much into it or is the man silently planning something because of all these nice things he is doing instead of being raging mad?

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‘My husband cheated on me every year we were together’ Wife discloses 

 

The topic of President Uhuru joking (or not) about getting a second wife from Luo land, light up the internet.

Debate was intense and even spiraled over to Classic 105 where Maina Kageni gave his two cents over the matter. He basically called out men contemplating this, wondering why men never find the first wife enough.

” At the end of the day, I want you to tell me what your woman lacks, what does she have to do to be enough for you? me I don’t even think they wonder what you think, coz you are being told to your face you are inadequate for me. Fellas we need to have this conversation, what does she lack that you have to go out there? he pondered

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A woman called with her experience that is simply out of this world.

The woman told a horrified Maina that

“I don’t think it’s really something we lack coz no one is 100 per cent perfect as a spouse. I was in a relationship for more than 10 years and he cheated for all ten. The thing is I did everything right. I learnt how to cook his cuisine thinking I would be a better woman than others, I even went online to learn how to please him about bedroom matters, but he still cheated. I blame myself for it because the first time he cheated, I did not walk away. The fact that I gave him leeway to cheat encouraged him, sometimes it’s because of your circumstances coz you think he won’t provide for my kids, but I think it’s not about what we lack it’s a matter of personal decision”

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Men who take other women is because of his selfishness and bad choices. He woke up and left me one day and moved into the other woman’s house and started another family, and it’s been two years now. Before that everytime he would come back and tell me oh you need to work on this and I would do it to please him, but he still cheated for many many years until I thought I deserve more I deserve better, and women need to realize that and if you are ok with your man having other women then ok, but let’s not kid ourselves that we don’t feel bad he is with another woman”

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Man discovers he slept with his own mother in wifes revenge plan

They say hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

One man was horrified when he discovered he had mistakenly slept with his mother without realizing it.

The mans experience was recounted by a friend on classic 105, in a tale that tickled many.

He confessed that the incident was as a result of the mans bad habit of bedding the house maid late at night as his wife slept.

He used to sleep with housegirls and the woman of the house planned his downfall after the housegirl told her she had a confession.

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The maid told the lady of the house that ‘there is something I want to tell you mum and please don’t tell daddy (the names she used to refer to her employer and the husband) so she said if I tell you the truth please don’t chase me coz I don’t have anywhere to go. He used to come to my bedroom everyday, and he even gave me double the salary, so the affair went on.house-help-with-a-husband

So the lady wanted to know what exactly happens, and the maid said that ‘he told me to sleep without clothes so it’s easier for him to do it.’

The wife got upset with this information andd plotted her husbands downfall. She convinced the maid to exchange places so that the drunk husband could fall for the trap.

True to form, the drunk husband slipped inside the maids room, did his thing and left to go sit in the living room.

The wife was shocked how much stamina the husband has for the maid but not for her.

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The saddest incident happened, when one day the mans mother came visiting. His mother was given the maids room, and the wife did not warn her husband (remember the husband all along thinks the wife doesn’t know what he has been doing with the maid). So the drunk husband comes home late again, and makes his way to the maids room. He doesn’t notice anything and sleeps with the woman in the room.

The wife the next morning then told the man that he shouldn’t leave the house because his mother arrived last night. She further informs him that his mother is asleep in the maids room, and so he should wait to see her.

The man then realized that he had slept with his own mother, and the shock was too much.

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The one reason men rarely suspect their wives of cheating

 

What drives women to cheat? And do they stray as much and for the same reasons as men?

A woman told Maina that she began looking for excitement elsewhere owing to what she said was a boring marriage

‘If you only knew what married women go through hakuna love kwa nyumba, mwanauame wakati wa kulala you are told turn like this, there is no romancing there is nothing, then when a woman goes to someone like Mike Oliver anaromanciwa ata kama ni fake,  she is shown wonders by Mike’

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Mwalimu Kingngi and several men said the one reason they don’t suspect their wives of cheating on them is because they ‘can’t imagine it’.

A man was in denial, blasting Maina for even suggesting it ‘Skiza there are some things you can’t imagine. I can’t start imagining how, us Africans we have our own culture, romance yetu sio kama ya Alejandro, njugu na credo ndio romance what counts is what is in my heart, they shouldn’t apply telenovela to our relationships,

“Maina usiwai fikiria hiyo kitu because its very painful.”

Yes, they would rather not think about it. Yet it’s happening.

And two men wholeheartedly agreed with women’s reasons for stepping out

@JNjugunash..
I support Kenyan Women in this motion. The kind of movies acted in the houses are horror movies. Women are even strong that they try to pretend nothing has happened to them overnight. A well kept wife cannot go out searching for some Mike Olivers, wanaume changamkeni,

Another man aptly put it that ‘let me tell you you have spoilt things, just by telling men to think aboutit, now that thought can’t come out of my head. . The biggest problem is and I’m not supporting cheating, but what i’m saying is if a man gets a women pregnant he deals with it alone, meaning the wife isn’t involved, but if a wife goes out there and mike olivers, she then brings you a small mike oliver to your home, at the end of the day you have to think that if these things are not mine,

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Caller: “Men should know that women are not demanding a lot from them they just want you to create time for them. ” #MainaAndKingangi

Caller: “Women are like cats. If you don’t give it food, it will go outside to eat and come back to the house. Men need to take care of their women.” #MainaAndKingangi

Before morality batallion comes for me, I’m not necessarily encouraging infidelity. I just don’t think it needs all that much encouragement anyway after Mike Oliver outed the married women he has bedded, bragging about his conquests with photos.

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Dear classic 105 fam, drop your thoughts on this topic, we would love to share them.

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‘If he can cheat, I can cheat’ Married women’s reasons on thrill of affairs

Most of the women pictured with bedroom bully Mike Oliver were married and that fact is what men are refusing to acknowledge that their wives are out there cheating according to Maina Kageni.

The Wednesday morning conversation proved rather uncomfortable for men who were asked to imagine their wives cheating on them.

And as I went through social media I realized 99 per cent of men were supporting Mike Oliver saying he has done a good job for sleeping with women.  But there is one thing that we are losing sight of in all those pictures more than half of those women were married, why is it that Kenyan men never imagine that their wife can cheat on them, you suspect your girlfriend, your wife suspects you but there is no man that imagines that his wife is playing  him?

Co host Mwalimu Kingangi interjected saying ‘African man love with all our heart because we put them in a pedestal a hologram, pale juu we cannot even imagine it. She’s the mother of your children, this is someone very special, your wife is a different thing, girlfriends is different,’

Scores of women called in with their reasons why they are cheating on their husbands. Men pay attention please!

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One put it that the decision to cheat was the culmination of years of unhappiness. She said

‘If he can cheat I can cheat, if he lies and can also lie. As a woman I know how I want to be treated. So if he doesn’t treat me right I will step out.’ #MainaAndKingangi.

Another said

Maina if you only knew what these married women go through you wouldn’t victimize anyone. Hakuna mapenzi kwa nyumba, hakuna romance. So ukienda kwa Oliver unashughulikiwa.” #MainaAndKingangi

Men were urged to listen and not bury their heads in the sand by another woman.

‘hii ni kionjo tu, lakini vile wamama wamekua hunters…..men treat your wives better or “Oliveration’ itaendelea tu.

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When women cheat, they’re often trying to fill an emotional void. Women complain alot of disconnection from a spouse, and of the wish to be desired. Three other women admitted to this in the studio calls.
‘Mabibi wanaumia hapa nje! Hakuna mapenzi kwa hizi ndoa.’ #MainaAndKingangi

‘I’m wondering who do these men cheat with? They cheat with somebody else’s wife, so who are their wives cheating with? simple mathematics

‘If you only knew what married women go through. There’s no love,  hakuna love kwa nyumba, mwanaume akikuja wakati wa kulala you are told turn like this, there is no romancing, there is nothing then akienda kwa Oliver anaromanciwa ata kama ni fake, she goes to Oliver she is shown wonders, anaonyeshwa love ata kama ni fake, you know someone who has never been shown love will appreciate anything else,’

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Husband shares photo of pregnant wife carrying side chicks baby to explain infidelity

 

 

A married man named Jarmill Walker is trending on Facebook after confessing to having a child with a side chick, and impregnating his wife at the same time.

He shared photos of his pregnant wife carrying his side chick’s baby, and social media users are having a meltdown.
He has been married for 15 years and the wife is expecting their own child in 3 months time.

Sharing the photos, he expressed his happiness over the fact that he got married to a strong and forgiving woman who stayed by his side despite his mistakes.

God doesn’t make mistakes. Unfortunately people do. This is not the ideal situation nor am I the perfect man, husband or father but we learn from our mistakes.

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Here are some strong reactions from people, most whom said they wouldn’t tolerate such from a man and would kick him to the curb:

iamtanishathomas..
I can’t do it but more power to them ♥️

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tokyoxvanity..
Praying for her shit feel like someone literally taking a screw driver and stabbing you in the heart…

yammmzzz_01..
Trust he wouldn’t do this for her!! We all know women are toooo forgiving! Don’t @ me I said what I said!

fancy_this’..
As a wise philosopher once said..”nah”

allthingzharmony..
What in the “Rasheeda & Kirk” is going on here 😕

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slimin..
No way!!! Cheating is one thing but having a baby is another one. We’ll be getting a divorce !

alexandria_simmie..
Uh hell nall….I’ll make sure the babies have a terrific relationship together seeing as though they are innocent but as far as being together as a couple nope🙅🏾‍♀️

hennykenny215..
She a real one….cuz I would’ve been out 💨

beautiful_broken_imperfection..
Ain’t that much forgiveness in the world. Especially after 15 years.blackmancheating

leeann_fox..
She probably only stayed because she’s pregnant… which is totally understandable

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It’s a no for me. Cheating alone is a big No and then to bring a child into the mix. I know people say is ”cheating really that big of a deal?” to me yes. Once you cheat the trust is gone, plus he was out here raw dogging. Who knows how many other women he’s messing with

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Dear Classic 105 fam, how would you handle such a situation?

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Kenyan men share how they forgave wives for cheating multiple times

 

 

Classic host Maina Kageni and his co host Mwalimu Kingangi discussed a viral video of a Kenyan lawyer crying as he watches another man ‘eat’ his woman in Naivasha.

In the video, the lawyer (above) says he forgives her for the act and weighing in on this, Maina said ‘I have never heard of a Kenyan man forgiving his wife for cheating.’

In the video shared severally,  the lawyer is seen apologizing to the girl and saying that he still loves her, and amazes KOT when he tells her he will wait outside until she finishes twa twa.

‘We came here to Naivasha with you.. I didn’t know I’m bringing someone for you to f****. I’m sorry for the drama I caused…but its ok.. Baby I still love you. You have a history with this guy..Just finish f*****g him. I’m here waiting for you,’ he says.

Mwalimu wondered why Maina would say that because according to him, Kenyan men are very romantic and love their wives dearly.

A similar story has also been trending. It all has to do with Will Smith and wife Jada discussing how she had an affair, and she used the word entanglement to describe her relationship with August Alsina.

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Jada Pinkett and August Alsina

 

This prompted a flood of reactions from Classic 105 fans, some of whom recounted how they have found themselves in similar situations, and have had to forgive a cheating spouse.

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Men shared how they forgave while others spoke about not tolerating such nonsense.

Caller: “The first time my wife cheated on me I forgave her and then it happened for the second time. Lazima ukue na roho”

Caller: “The same thing happened to me. I took my wife to Naivasha and then we went to the club. When I went to the washroom, sikumpata kumbe she left with another guy. I left Naivasha that day.”
@AkokoSpector..
That man must have been bewitched nothing can explain the nonsense he displayed
Classic 105 Kenya Caller: “I have forgiven my wife so many times and if she decides to do it again, I will still forgive her.” #MainaAndKingangi

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@PeterWa66937579..
Can’t believe what Ave heard from you,that’s why I told myself to be extre caution with this gender,coz I know how they hurt a man,gosh,,but I can’t do such a thing,mwanaume ni kulia na kumove km ambulance ,kwani wanawake wameisha,,,he need to be tough
@DanPat001..
Ata anakaa aje…. Mwanaume ni kujicompose so kujiachilia kipumbavu ivi…. Mimi nikungoje ukitoka kufanyiwa operation na ndume mwenzangu….nijikute …#MainaAndKingangi

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A list of Presidents who have cheated on their spouses

Have you watched the movie The Good Wife? If not, make some time this weekend and you will understand where I’m coming from with this article.

The movie portrays a woman who faces public humiliation after her state attorney husband is outed for political corruption and other personal scandals.

 

Here is a list of Presidents who cheated on their spouses.

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 Bill Clinton – Though she usually stays hush-hush about their marriage, she’s opened up on a few rare occasions, including on one episode of The Tyra Banks Show. Claiming she’s never doubted that her husband loves her, and crediting her resilience to her faith, she told Tyra, “I really had to dig down deep and think hard about what was right for me, what was right for my family.” Hillary’s advice to other spouses in her situation? “You have to do what is right for you — and that may not be what anybody else believes.”

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 Nelson Mandela

Their marriage endured his and hers incaceration.

Two years after walking out of Victor Verster Prison in 1990, Mandela announced that he was seeking a divorce from Madikizela-Mandela. She was having an affair with a younger colleague, Dali Mpofu, he said.

But the couple’s problems ran deeper, Mandela said. His wife only entered his bedroom when he was asleep. They had barely spoken in months. And since his release from prison, he had been “the loneliest man.”

 Silvio Berlusconi

Berlusconi, 72, was at the centre of a media storm pressuring him to explain his relationship with 18-year-old Noemi Letizia.

The flamboyant billionaire met the pretty blonde when she was 17 and attended her coming-of-age party, offering her a gold and diamond necklace priced at 6 000 euros. The estranged wife responded saying “I have always loved Berlusconi and I built my life around my marriage and my family,” said Lario

 Nicholas Sarkozy

Their marital drama took centre stage in 2010. The rumour that they were both cheating started on Twitter, then to blogs and websites everywhere.

 John  F Kennedy
John F. Kennedy remains one of America’s most respected and admired presidents more than forty years after his assassination.
In his book the Dark Side of Camelot, writer Seymour Hersh alleged the late loved too many women. The book described in detail Kennedy’s womanizing. Hersh relayed how Kennedy frequently used the Secret Service to help him smuggle women — it was often more than one — into the White House for daily trysts.

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‘I thought I was different’ Kevin Harts wife on cheating scandal

 

American comedian Kevin Harts wife has opened up about her husbands cheating scandal while she was pregnant.

In a trailer on his documentary on Netflix, Eniko Hart revealed she was publicly humiliated.

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An emotionally distressed Eniko (who was pregnant at the time of her husband’s cheating scandal) can be seen confronting Kevin about his betrayal.

“You publicly humiliated me,” says her voice over. “I just kept saying ‘How the f*** did you let that happen?’”

Back in October 2017, the comedian decided to come clean to his fans about an alleged extortion attempt after a video of him with another woman in a car was leaked.

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Hart apologized to a then-8-months pregnant Eniko as he admitted that someone was using the tapes and images to allegedly extort money from him.

“I’m guilty, regardless of how it happened and what was involved, the s–t that I can’t talk about, I’m guilty. I’m wrong,” he later said in a Radio interview, insisting he was angered by people suggesting his cheating was Eniko’s karma for taking him from his ex wife.

“That title was put on her by my ex out of anger.”

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The documentary is set to premiere on Dec. 27.

 

‘I drank too much’ Timberlake apologizes to wife for cheating

 

Justin Timberlake has broken his silence after he was spotted getting cosy with his costar Alisha Wainwright.

The Palmer costars were photographed together — and seen getting cozy — at a bar in Louisiana on Thursday, November 21. The “Can’t Stop This Feeling” singer, who is married to Jessica Biel, sat at a table on the balcony of The Absinthe House on Bourbon Street with Wainwright, 30, holding hands and talking to one another.

The photos showed Timberlake, 38, who didn’t appear to be wearing his wedding ring, holding hands with the actress under a table and drinking together. At one point, Wainwright could be seen resting her hand on the “Cry Me a River” singer’s knee.

The two actors are currently shooting the movie Palmer, which is a drama about an ex-college football star who returns home after being in prison.

Timberlake has apologized via Instagram, in a message that has since gone viral.

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My husbands girlfriend has been silently cleaning our house

 

 

An un-meployed man made sure his wife came back to a clean house, and she never did ask how he manged to do that.

He didn’t want his wife to lift a finger after a hard day at the office, and so found an ingenious way to do the chores.

Maina and Kingangi storm off the studio after night long rape ordeal story

His wife narrated on social media just how she found out about his life.
This follows a question from a Twitter user who asked users whats the worst thing they have discovered about their relationship.

Nonki Sehume replied her shocking discovery. she says she can afford to laugh about the experience now but back then things were thick.

Back in 2010 my ex husband was unemployed, I’ll come back from work to a clean house everyday, washing would be done, sometimes even supper was cooked. Came back early one day and found this lady cleaning, turns out she was my husband girlfriend, she has been doing this all along

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Reactions:
Abdul Azeez.
Wow 😯, when I started reading your tweet, I was kinda happy for you but the end was read much slower like in a chocking state , did not expect that. So sorry 😐 about the traumatizing situation u been through. May the Almighty give u the strength to fully trust a lover again.

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Olerato’s Mom❤️.
That man might have cheated but at least he was good at something, getting you a maid without having to waste any money. And that other woman damn she would have made a great sister-wife

Musawenkosi Mosia..
She knew her place and your hubby made sure you came back to a clean home and you didn’t have to lift a finger, you just rest nje after work. Husband of the decade award belongs to him

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Ian Matukane..
Why did you go home early without alerting him!?

Women!😩

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‘His life is complicated, I make it better’ side chick confesses

 

There is a lot of truth to the phrase “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.” Though this isn’t always the case if you read on below.

A man, his side chick and the wife are in an open relationship, and loving it.

They are making things work out because the wife has given permission to the side chick to handle her man in tough times.

The mistress told Maina Kageni on Thursday that

‘anytime they have an argument, she asks me to come in and neutralize things’

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She added

I have been a side chick for four years, and the man’s wife told me to take care of the man, and anytime she is not around anytime she needs her kids to be picked up she asks me to, anytime they have an argument I come in and neutralize things

This love triangle is so fascinating that Mwalimu Kingangi and Maina were left speechless.

There is no drama, heartache and scandals because as she explains ‘we are close’.

She figured that I came first in the man’s life before they got married, so when she realized I am still in her mans life she decided I would rather know there is only one person in his life. So we are very close and the man knows that. We actually have dinner together as a family, we even take the kids out together.

‘My wife found out about my affair yet she still serves me food while smiling so hard, I’m scared she might kill me’ City man confesses

Having more than one lover or significant other is perfectly fine, we should all do what makes us happy…. as long as you’re being honest and everyone is aware of everyone.

Dear Classic 105 fam, what has been your experience if any.

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Khloe Kardashian gifted Sh51million car by baby daddy to make up for cheating

 

Fans have reacted sharply to reports that Tristan Thompson reportedly bought Khloe Kardashian a $500K Porsche to try and win her back.

He cheated on her twice in less than a year. The first time, photos and videos of him with two girls leaked online, and the second time was with Jordyn Woods.

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Khloe’s serial cheating baby daddy also tried to KISS her after the cheating drama.

In a preview from the new season of Keeping Up With the Kardashians, Khloe opened up about her struggle to accept that Tristan needed to be at their daughter True’s first birthday party.

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Speaking to her glam squad after, she revealed that Tristan had tried to rekindle their romance after the chat.

She described how she gave him a polite hug, but he wanted more.

“And then he was like, ‘Can I have a hug?’ And then I one-arm hugged him and he was like, ‘One? A one-handed hug?” Khloe said.

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“I was like, ‘That’s nice enough.’ And then he tried to kiss me and I go, ‘This is the problem with you.’”

“‘You can’t just take what you get.’”

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Khloe later explained that she just wants what is best for True, and having Tristan at the birthday party was the right thing for her family.

“I just want him to know, ‘I’m inviting you because you’re True’s dad and I do believe you should be there.’

And I think that’s the best choice for True, that’s really it,” Khloe later admitted.

“I don’t want him to take it the wrong way. ‘Cause, sometimes I feel like I feel like if I give an inch he takes a mile.”

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I forgave my wife for cheating because.. I’m ALSO GUILTY

 

When is it advisable to come clean about adultery and when is it better to keep things hush hush?

A man beat a hasty retreat after initiating a probe on his cheating wife.

He began narrating his discovery

what surprises me most is that our women are so discreet in what they do

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Does this statement come from personally experiencing something? He responds firmly, without hesitation.

yes

I just found out, I bumped into it. It was just a coincidence, of course I asked who is this and you see the mos intriguing part of it is that even if you ask her best friend, she will never admit it too.

He has a theory why women cheat more than men, something Maina Kageni dismissed as completely macho.

women are the masters, at the same time they are also masters of suspicion they suspect their men because they are guilty

 

while he was quizzing his wife about the affair, did he bother to find out how long she had been cheating?

well I didn’t get to find out how long it was we just has to sit down and sort it out

Perhaps by now you are wondering how a husband can get past cheating. He explains how they sorted it out

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I gave her an option because after all I felt it was unfair just to tell her to go home and I also had a mpango wa kando at the same time.

So Hol’ up, he forgave his cheating wife because he was also cheating? will wonders never cease….

yes….. he responded and hang up his phone.

 

Dear Classic 105 fam, do you have some major tea to drop? We are listening.

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 Tanzania to publish database of married men to tame cheating

 

Kenyans heard of this news and immediately wanted it replicated in the country.

News from Tanzania suggests that authorities will make public a database of the names of all married men, to stop cases of cheating.

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Reports suggest that single womens hearts are being broken by married men taking advantage of them.

So in a bid to protect women from broken hearts, the names will be published.

Dar es Salaam Regional Commissioner Paul Makonda said he has received a lot of complaints from women who were abandoned by their lovers after a marriage proposal, and that the planned database will help combat infidelity.

“I have been receiving complaints from women who have been promised marriage by men, yet the men didn’t fulfill the promise. I know women who have been paying bills yet the men walked away …” Makonda spoke.
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“If possible we will set up a database in the regional commissioner’s office in each region that every man who promises a woman marriage, this should be registered in the database which will allow women to check to see whether the person asking is married …,” Makonda said at a Monday news conference.
 

Here are mixed reviews of the planned database:

okwoche..
#Tanzania is to make its database of married men in the country public to help women know the marital status of their partners before they have a serious relationship with them. This came about following the number of women who claim to have been cheated on by men #CheatingMen

Basheer Chilungo..
Hope it works for those who didn’t know. In my little experience, single ladies are more attracted to married men and they advance to these men well aware of their marital statuses.

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Kennedy Ngûrî..
That does not even qualify to be listed amongst the superficial prescription to infidelity. The heart of man is desperately wicked and man is an inventor of wickedness. Website is so minor a thing to a wicked soul.

Alfred Steven 👉Sober-Man..
Silly idea to make a data base for all married men. Guys would always cheat if the need arises.

The farmer..
Govt accredited and certified cheaters…hahaha that’d be a 1st one

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Should the ‘other woman’ ever tell a wife her man has another family, Maina asks

If you’re the child of a wealthy man out there and are not known to his family, what are you doing about it?

If you are a lady raising children by another man out there, what are you waiting for? Turning up at his funeral is so yesterday, Maina Kageni began the debate.

A Psychologist shares her thoughts on this topic first.

It’s important for the other man or woman to consider their motives for disclosing the affair, stressed Alicia H. Clark, a psychologist in Washington, D.C. Sometimes, after being spurned or pushed away, affair partners want to strike back or regain power by revealing the relationship. It rarely works in their favor, she said.

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“You may want to speak up to punish your lover for staying with their partner, or seek some level of legitimacy for a relationship that has lived too long in the shadows or dismissed,” she said. “Unfortunately, such disclosures seldom yield such satisfaction and may backfire.”

Maina who was egged on by co host Mwalimu Kingangi shared why he is covering the topic.

I met a colleague of mine yesterday, she is raising teenagers who were fathered by one of the wealthiest men in Kenya. The thing is his family have no idea they exist.

How are you protecting your children? How are you helping yourself, even God says he helps those who help themselves.

Read Maina’ fans thoughts on the topic below

Felix Agola(Mr President)..

Maina a relationship is like an investment and having a secret affair with someone’s man is like throwing capital in someone’s business where you get nothing in return
Carol Kungu..
@ItsMainaKageni @Classic105Kenya The ladies who get babies with men who hide them from the society r to blame themselves they shud ve not agreed to this arrangement in the first place……#MainaAndKingangi
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@Classic105Kenya Maina and Keng’ang’i this women are many so you want us to introduce all of them to my parents so what?If awoman gives birth for me let’s take care of the kids,introduction has no impact on our relationship.Good day

Sylvanus Ndaso..
Men who don’t introduce their wives to their families don’t value them….they don’t love them; they only married them for procreation.
@ItsMainaKageni

Rtd Captain Kale..
@ItsMainaKageni @Classic105Kenya Maina now lemme shock you, our mothers know our mipango ya kando, they know how many kids we have out there,and our mothers will take care of all our kids when we die,tell our women to keep off from our mali, they are strangers #MainaAndKingangi

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What does a Kenya woman have to do to keep her man faithful Maina asks

The Classic 105 morning conversation was something that many Kenyans discuss either silently or in groups. And not one solution to the problem has been found.

‘I feel I am in season 5 of my life’ Makena Njeri responds to cheating scandal

What am I talking about? Maina Kageni was asked by a lady to ask Kenyan men on air this question below:

What do we have to do for them to remain faithful to us? What do they want? We are ready to listen

What is it that Kenyan men want their ladies to do to remain loyal? Can you please give them a point breakdown.

‘I paid my own bride price but he keeps cheating on me’ Shouts woman

It’s very simple according to the thoughts of Mwalimu Kingangi who says women should do ‘nothing’.

wakae hivo wachane na sisi. They don’t need to do anything, there are things you can’t change.

You know when a man saw you on day one, that is the image they have, do you get it ? So this metamorphosis yako they are not part of it, they still have that mental picture of when they first met you.

A male caller totally agreed with Kingangi saying

‘There is nothing they can do, hakuna even if you whine your waist, there is nothing, men want diversity and we were made that way by the way.’

A woman also supported this point of view leaving Maina skeptical.

Eko Dydda’s wife Cynthia exposes his cheating

‘I am not a man but I can tell you there is nothing that woman can do. I am a living experience.

I have given everything to the one I have, you can give a man everything but he will still go out, it’s only the man who wants, no matter what you do, it’s his vision not yourself.’

A similar view was held by two others in the thoughts below:

‘Listen good, a man was created with a default setting of being a polygamous man you cannot reset it, even the way you bought your phone you cannot reset it, you either work with it or nothing’

How sad is that posed Maina Kageni saying,

Are you telling me that you will just accept and go to bed knowing he is doing things challenged Maina as he asked for more reactions from listeners.

What’s been your experience girls?

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