Raw and heartbreaking letter of frustrated wife in loveless marriage

Marriages are not a bed of fresh roses. The scent can be appealing and in a flash turn into a stink.

One woman who is saddened by the way her marriage is going, has penned a heartbreaking letter to her husband pouring out her raw emotions.

Check it out.

Dear husband,
You are hurting me and you don’t feel bad about it, you just love to. You regret marrying me and just as you have said you made the biggest mistake marrying me. Its all good, I won’t lie, I am hurt and heart broken but guess I cant make you love me anymore. One day I will be strong to walk away from your life forever, one day I will look back at all these and smile. God knows how much I love you and want to be with you but you keep complaining and you are not ready to work things out. Just a day to our one year anniversary and you still have the mind to tell me you made the biggest mistake of your life marrying me. I have tried to make things work out, I forgave you when I saw your chat with a girl begging her to come meet you in a hotel you, I didn’t know asking ones spouse for sex is bad. You called me troublesome, sadist and repeatedly said ‘fvck you, to hell with you’. I wont hate you or curse you, I will only pray for you because you are the father of my child. If eventually we end things, I still want my child to see you as the best dad in the world. When I wake up tomorrow I pray not to remember its our anniversary. I wish you well in all you do.

My Dad Returned My Bride Price After My Cheating Husband Slapped Me In Front Of Him

A young married lady shocked many when she sought some marital advice on social media after her husband allegedly assaulted her. Wait for this, in front of her father, yes his father in law.

All this she says was because she took her husband’s phone, went through it and warned one of his mistresses not to ever text or call him. She says her husband’s reaction might have been either because her actions irked him or the side chick told him something else.

Her husband upon learning the whole thing walked right up to her, shamelessly slapped her twice in front of her dad and this angered the dad who punched and fought him, before his son who was present bundled him out.


She went ahead to narrate that her angry dad threatened to disown her if she did not leave the abusive marriage, and to make matters worse, he refunded her daughter’s bride price just to show that he was not playing around.

Her now remorseful husband was on his knees begging her not to leave him and the whole fiasco has left the battered lady in limbo.

Read her post below.

My husband slapped me in front of my father,right in his face he landed me 2 slaps and my dad punched him and fought him. He did not fight back he was just holding my dad ,before my brother came and bundled him out.
People might want to know what I did ,
I took his phone and warned one of his side chicks never to call him again,he go upset and could not wait for us to get home ,or maybe the side chick told him something else and he just came to beat me up .
My Dad has threatened that if I don’t leave that marriage he will disown me .
He put my bride price in an envelope and asked me to give it back to him while my brother follow me to go pack my loads back home .
My husband has been begging,who do I listen to .

Read some of the comments she received.

  • ogechi_jay: Listen to your father. That your yeye husband is not only disrespectful to you and your family but does not have sense. I am sure you don’t want to live with a senseless man all the days of your life!
  • samueldora298: Better quit now that u r still alive n in one piece
  • toniareal: For now follow your Dad,because what your husband is height if irresponsible, everyone temper is still very high which is normal but don’t pack all ur things but pick a few things you need in this trial time and be prayerful and advice your husband to do the needful by sincerely apologized to ur father if possible with his family because the issue has pass intimacy and lastly for your own good and ur life, don’t pick nose in ur husband affairs if you cannot control ur temper, men are what they are but through prayer and submissive we will all conquer…. Those demon called side chick are in for a mission and can ho any length to conquer please don’t give them chance again and be greatful to God always.

Dear Women, Here Are Signs That You’re Dating A Married Man

Nothing beats the feeling of a woman knowing that she is in love and that her love is returned. Knowing that, she’s the first lady to a man somewhere (someone’s Salome). But what would you do after finding out that you’re just a side chick? Would you walk away or commit suicide because of that?

Well, here are signs that you’re dating a married man or rather he is cheating on you with his wife;

1. Always spend time in the sitting room when you visit him

This is a clear indication that he is a married man! He doesn’t want to take you to his bedroom because the wife might find out. His wife and you use different colognes or sprays and it will be easy for her to notice. Such a man will prefer you stay on the couch and even have sex there.

2. Hairs all over the bathroom sink

If you ever visit a man and there are long hairs everywhere in the bathroom or even in between his sheets just know that he is a married man. If the hairs are from wigs and weaves my dear run as fast as you can! There’s a man somewhere meant for you, and it is not him.

3. When you call him and he doesn’t pick

Ladies, if you ever call him during any time of the day especially weekends and he doesn’t pick up, just know that he is a married man and is probably spending time with his family. Or he is busy, making love to his wife.

4. Classy women clothes in his house

If you ever find women’s clothes, shoes, handbags, and lotions just know that he is a married man. Some will use their female cousins as an excuse but why would she put her clothes in the same wardrobe as his? Or why would she air her underwears in your bathroom yet the guest room has an ensuite bathroom too?

5. He prefers staying in the guestroom and not his bedroom

There’s no doubt that such a man is married. Why would he want to spend the whole time with you in the guestroom and not his main bedroom? Are you a guest? Ladies, take notes. He is married and you’re just an option to him.

6. Oooh! And if he texts you a goodnight message at 17:30 pm just know that he is a married man.