‘I’m in love with 2 women,1 of them is pregnant and I don’t like her,’ confused man seeks advice

A man, who has confessed to being in a relationship with two women (one for five years and the other for two years) is confused on what to do.

According to the man, he loves the woman he’s been in a relationship with for five years more than the other one. But the problem is, he’s impregnated the one he doesn’t love (two years) and she has refused to abort.

He says he has since then broken up with the girlfriend of five years and he’s seeking advice.

“I have 2 serious relationships (5 and 2 years respectively) but am in love with the one I have dated for 5years than the other. The problem am having now is the 2 years lady is now pregnant and not ready for abortion but seriously in love with the other one. I don’t wish to lose or leave her for some reasons because we have shared a lot of things in common (she’s even having an international passport carrying my surname). Though I have told her (5years girl) to allow us to break up, but my mind keeps feeling guilty about it.  I am Thinking I have really offended her though she’s not aware of the other girl’s pregnancy but she will get to know once she delivers. Hope she won’t feel bad about this. I need advice.”

Check out the reactions

Oyin_sweetberry: Both of them don’t deserve an unreliable man like you!

Tushblackcoffee:  You are seriously in love but you cheated for 2 whole years without reservation and now you are asking if she won’t feel bad. Chai!!!!!!!

Mandy_smash: Guy you don’t love the 5 years one because if you do you wouldn’t have cheated on her.

Sunpeace: So you want to waste her time again for nine good months devil?

Breezy_zee: This world is wicked

Olodo: You don’t play with people’s hearts like that, man
Rachyejis: Reading this senseless post makes me think you deserve a series of dirty slaps…how do you keep two serious relationships and yet loved the first but still kept cheating.now you are here saying trash.is like you want to be unfortunate in this life you came to.

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Dear Women, Here Are Signs That You’re Dating A Married Man

Nothing beats the feeling of a woman knowing that she is in love and that her love is returned. Knowing that, she’s the first lady to a man somewhere (someone’s Salome). But what would you do after finding out that you’re just a side chick? Would you walk away or commit suicide because of that?

Well, here are signs that you’re dating a married man or rather he is cheating on you with his wife;

1. Always spend time in the sitting room when you visit him

This is a clear indication that he is a married man! He doesn’t want to take you to his bedroom because the wife might find out. His wife and you use different colognes or sprays and it will be easy for her to notice. Such a man will prefer you stay on the couch and even have sex there.

2. Hairs all over the bathroom sink

If you ever visit a man and there are long hairs everywhere in the bathroom or even in between his sheets just know that he is a married man. If the hairs are from wigs and weaves my dear run as fast as you can! There’s a man somewhere meant for you, and it is not him.

3. When you call him and he doesn’t pick

Ladies, if you ever call him during any time of the day especially weekends and he doesn’t pick up, just know that he is a married man and is probably spending time with his family. Or he is busy, making love to his wife.

4. Classy women clothes in his house

If you ever find women’s clothes, shoes, handbags, and lotions just know that he is a married man. Some will use their female cousins as an excuse but why would she put her clothes in the same wardrobe as his? Or why would she air her underwears in your bathroom yet the guest room has an ensuite bathroom too?

5. He prefers staying in the guestroom and not his bedroom

There’s no doubt that such a man is married. Why would he want to spend the whole time with you in the guestroom and not his main bedroom? Are you a guest? Ladies, take notes. He is married and you’re just an option to him.

6. Oooh! And if he texts you a goodnight message at 17:30 pm just know that he is a married man.

 

‘Someone Tell This Lady To Leave My Husband Alone!’ Begs Kenyan Woman

Dear men, if you have to cheat please make sure that you are a smart one. Always ensure that your main woman doesn’t know about your side chic in case you have one. Or else, they will embarrass you on social media. But why fight over a man?

Women need to mature up and let bygones be bygones. If he really loves you whether you have kids or not, he will come back, but if you aren’t meant for each other, he will never come back no matter what.

An angry married woman has exposed her husband’s mpango wa kando identified as Janet on Facebook. Apparently, Janet has been engaging in sex-capades with this woman’s husband and she finally gathered the courage to face her, but the alleged side piece denied the affair saying they are only business partners.

The stressed woman who wasn’t satisfied by Janet’s answer, went ahead to share the WhatsApp conversation screenshots online warning her to stay away from her husband.

“Someone tell this bitch so-called janet to leave my hubby alone!,” she posted.

Here are the screenshots

 

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Oops! Woman Accidentally Confronts The Wrong Girl, To Tell Her She’s Pregnant For Her Cheating Boyfriend

A woman has been mercilessly trolled after announcing she has fallen pregnant with another woman’s boyfriend – only to find she got the wrong number.

The unnamed woman, believed to be from the UK, texted the unsuspecting recipient out of the blue, saying: ‘I just thought i’d should tell you. Youre boyfriend made me pregnant (sic.)’

This kicked off a WhatsApp exchange which has quickly gone viral after being posted on Imgur. The recipient, known only as OddOod, replied a minute later in mock surprise, writing: ‘Oh no! Which boyfriend?’

The pregnant woman becomes more and more frustrated, blasting: ‘Samuel! Sam knocked me up and no he’s ignoring me! (sic.)’

An unnamed woman texted the unsuspecting recipient out of the blue, saying: 'I just thought id should tell you. Youre boyfriend made me pregnant (sic.),' kicking off a WhatsApp exchange which has now gone viral

 

However, OddOod continues to mock her, replying: ‘Ok ok ok you’re gonna have to narrow it down for me,’ before posting a series of pictures of famous Sams – from Lord Of The Rings’ Samwise Gamgee to Game of Thrones’ Samwell Tarly. Beneath each picture, she writes: ‘Was it this Sam? Or this Sam?’

OddOod continues to mock her, replying: 'Ok ok ok you're gonna have to narrow it down for me,' before posting pictures of famous Sams She posts pictures of everyone from JRR Tolkein's Samwise Gamgee to Game of Thrones' Samwell Tarly

She replies that the ‘whole situation’ is funny, adding: ‘And I’m hilarious!’

But the irate woman blasts: ‘So your boyfriend cheats on you. He makes me pregnant and you’re making jokes! I should known you’re crazy to stay with a guy like sam.

The other woman becomes more and more frustrated, writing: 'Wtf is wrong with you?' The irate woman blasts: 'So your boyfriend cheats on you. He makes me pregnant and youre making jokes!'

 

‘I mean he didnt even take me to nice food places he took me to the spur! And if you’re happy with those standards then i suppose you must be crazy (sic.).’

However the woman she believes to be Sam’s girlfriend is nonplussed, and launches into a lesson in correct grammar and punctuation, including the correct spelling of ‘you’re’.

She adds: 'I should known youre crazy to stay with a guy like sam. I mean he didnt even take me to nice food places' The 'pregnant' woman demands to speak to Sam, asking if the girlfriend 'has him'

The pregnant woman then demands to speak to Sam, asking if the girlfriend ‘has him’. She replies: ‘Have him? Like in the boot of my car? Yes! And I’m going to keep him there until he’s done with his pregnant making ways!’

She replies: 'Have him? Like in the boot of my car? Yes! And I'm going to keep him there until he's done with his pregnant making ways!'

Eventually, the penny drops and the first woman concedes: ‘I think I have the wrong number. I’m sorry.’
The recipient replies: ‘Well not as sorry as Sam’s going to be. He’s still in the boot of my car…what am I going to do with him now? He’s been wrongfully accused!?’

Eventually, the penny drops and the first woman concedes: 'I think I have the wrong number. I'm sorry.' The recipient replies: 'Well not as sorry as Sam's going to be. He's still in the boot of my car...'

The unfortunate exchange notched up almost 100,000 views within a day of being posted in Imgur and won a string of praise. One user called it ‘breathtaking’ while another gushed: ‘And in just 32 short minutes, a masterpiece was made. Bravo.’

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Ladies, Here Is What To Do If You Get Pregnant By A Cheating Boyfriend!

What do you do when you find out you are pregnant and your boyfriend has been cheating on you like the distressed reader below? Well, here’s the advice relationship expert Valentine gave her.

I am 30 years old and just found out that I am 6 weeks pregnant! I found out my boyfriend has another girlfriend and we broke up two weeks ago. He is always telling me that he needs me to have a son for him. I have not told him that I am pregnant. What should I do?

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‘You must feel so vulnerable, so hurt, so unsure and scared. It is a lot to deal with so how about we unpack the situation? First, you are pregnant. Second you are going through a break-up. Third, he is a cheating boyfriend and you don’t trust him. Fourth he says that he wants to have a child with you.

I think we start by asking ‘do you want to have his child?’ It is ok if you are unsure, that is perfectly fine. Pregnancy is long and you can tell him about it when and if you are ready. Remember that once you tell him, you will have to consider his feelings because he is the father. Take your time.

Now for the break-up. Your pregnancy is now coloured with heartbreak, and because you are growing a life, you have all manner of intense and hormonally charged emotions. You have to treat yourself very delicately.

Eat well, rest and try to exercise a few times a week. Expect to cry and be emotional and don’t be too harsh on yourself. Many of us have brought children into the world and into unstable relationships. The emotional stuff will pass and you will have a beautiful baby who will bring so much joy, love, and deliciousness into your life.

If you do decide to bring your boyfriend into your life and that of your child, I suggest that you do it slowly and do not be too quick to trust him. He said that he wants you to have his child and he might mean it, but people say many things that they do not mean. Parenting might sound good at the moment but some might find that the demanding nature of parenting is something that they cannot bear.

If you want your boyfriend in the life of your baby, you have to be prepared to clearly state to your boyfriend how you would want that to work out, that is, child support, visitation, and what his role will be in your life. Be clear and be firm.

In short, I am saying congratulations mummy. Your child will bring you many, many gifts, but you should be prepared to be a single mother. The heartache will pass, and I guarantee that regardless of what happens, it will all work out at the end of it all.’

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