Betty Bayo declares-The happiest women today are not the married ones

Controversial singer Betty Bayo might have gotten engaged earlier this month but that doesn’t mean she isn’t still going to be dishing out her interesting takes on social media.

One of her latest ones is the contention that the happiest women today, aren’t those who are married. Isn’t she trying to get married herself?

But wait her message wasn’t as straight-forward as that with a distinction being made with the singer saying that single women are also not happy, and neither are those with stable careers and good income.

“I refused to confess defeat with my mouth” How Betty Bayo overcame a broken marriage

Her empowering message focused on the self saying that the happiest women are those who have chosen to love themselves wholly, by putting behind all the bad things that have happened to them.

“The happiest women today are not the married ones. They’re not the single ones. They’re not the ones with stable careers and good incomes. The happiest women are the ones who made a choice to love themselves wholly and truly. 😘👌Women who chose to leave the past behind, worked on their self-esteem and put a high price tag on their self-esteem.💯💃🏻,” read part of her post.

Betty who was married to disgraced pastor Victor Kanyari went on to add that those women had moved on past their anger and tears.

“They stopped playing victims. They stopped whining in self-pity and dining in pity parties. They moved past their anger, tears and bitterness. They realized that happiness is a personal choice and responsibility. They chose to be defined by their present, but not their bitter pasts.”

Adding that those women didn’t need validation to be happy.

“They are happy because they don’t need validation from anyone. 🤷🏿‍♀️They are happy because they know that they don’t need to throw shade on anyone for them to shine. They are happy because they chose to be Queens and not doormats.❤❤❤💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻,” added Bayo.

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Betty Bayo’s recent posts show her deep regret at leaving Kanyari

Betty Bayo has become more vocal this year, especially on issues that touch on relationships. The advise that she has been giving this year has really made us take note.


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There is power in the name of Jesus @abbeyslacewig

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Why? The nature of it. Two recent examples come to mind. First off, Betty encouraged Size 8 to stay with her husband Dj Mo after allegations broke that he had cheated on her. She wrote;

“Size 8 am soo proud of you ..fight for your marriage cheating is a minor offence.. if I ever get in a marriage worth fighting for I will… On my knees I will fight for it… I’ll prove to all of you marriage works… And for those telling me to go back to my past… don’t you think I know the way…

Her advice got me thinking. Was it possible that Betty regrets leaving controversial pastor Victor Kanyari after he was exposed for scamming his followers?

Betty Bayo and Pastor Kanyari
Betty Bayo and Pastor Kanyari

Could her advise to Size 8 be applied to her that she should have fought harder or maybe I was reaching for something that wasn’t there? Maybe…

Why does she keep mentioning me on social media? Kanyari asks about Betty Bayo

But my initial suspicion that she might be having regrets about leaving Kanyari was re-animated again this past week when she posted another controversial message on her social media.

Her message was to urge women to stay in their marriages through most trouble. The only caveat she gave women was women were allowed to leave if their man told the woman to leave.

She wrote;

“Attention!!! TO ALL WOMEN

DON’T leave your man coz he got broke

DON’T leave your man coz you got richer than him.

DON’T leave your man coz he can’t perform his duties .in bed

DON’T leave your man coz of Peer pressure .

DON’T leave a man coz his going through shame instead stand with him.

Don’t leave a man coz of social media

LEAVE A MAN ONLY when HE TELLS YOU WITH HIS MOUTH TO LEAVE..don’t force your self it will cause more harm .. . my sister livuuu obedient is better than sacrifice…

These 3 lines particularly stand with me,

DON’T leave your man coz of Peer pressure .

DON’T leave a man coz his going through shame instead stand with him.

Don’t leave a man coz of social media

They are exactly the things Betty was facing when Kanyari was exposed by Jicho Pevu. Is it possible that Betty sees her life now and sees the mistakes she made during that period? I think it is possible.

Such a clear rebuttal of her earlier stances and behaviours is quite fascinating and shows that she might be having second thoughts about leaving Kanyari after his crazy scandal.

But I could be wrong and  Betty’s advise only applies to women apart from herself…

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I lost my car, my house, my happiness and my marriage – Betty Bayo narrates

2020 has been the year Kikuyu singer, Betty Bayo has gone full Akothee-Meaning the artiste has become more outspoken about her life offering full-bodied and unvarnished explanations of her life.


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Bayo as is her norm recently spoke about her tough experiences after she left disgraced pastor Victor Kanyari. The mother of three said that she had lost her car, house and worst of all her marriage came crushing.

“Sometime back five years ago when I was still a celeb. I reached a point I felt like giving up in life I lost almost everything… I lost my car, my house, my happiness and my marriage,” wrote Bayo.

She added that the period was so tough for her that she couldn’t afford to give her kids a balanced diet for her children. “I remember I could not even feed my own kids with a balanced diet… I stayed for 6 months without paying my rent or my house girl but she was so patient. I did not want to share with anyone including my mum what was going through coz nobody would believe… Most friends ditched me,” added the singer.

But what kept her going was her faith in God and didn’t stop praying for her circumstances to change, which they did as she seems to be doing much better.

Betty has been on a roll the past few months with her advice showing a deep regret about her past marriage and doesn’t want her fellow women to make the mistakes she made. Please read this article to get a better idea of what I am saying.


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TO ALL MEN with all due respect . If you have wronged your rib and you know ulimhurt sana until she walk away … if you know you still love her . Just DjMo her dont take too long to apologise.. nowadaiz women adjust very quickly .si unaona ata corona tushazoea .that woman who is crying for u today and begging you wont do that forever one day she will wake up and move on…..dont follow her when it’s too late . Some can’t wait for the coming of christ and still wait for you …dont allow her to know apart from youtube movies Kuna Netflix.. dont allow pride to make you loose your family .go for her now that she is waiting for you..dont say I dint tell you ….. #enjoying Netflix. @djmokenya

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Leave a man only when he tells you with his mouth to leave – Betty Bayo tells women

Vocal singer Betty Bayo is becoming one of the most interesting relationship coaches out there. Her advise is a breath of fresh air for many women as in many cases it goes against the common narrative.

The mother of three recently added to her already substantial agony auntie portfolio when she advised women not to dump or leave their husbands just because they can’t perform in bed or they are broke.


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Just remember a memorable moment when God helped you and just say THANK YOU LORD!!

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She added that the only reason that a woman should leave a man is when the man in question says so to his wife or partner.

She went further to say if a woman decides to leave her man because of peer pressure or that she has found a better man, her choice would often attract more harm.


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She wrote;

“Attention!!! TO ALL WOMEN

DON’T leave your man coz he got broke

DON’T leave your man coz you got richer than him.

DON’T leave your man coz he can’t perform his duties .in bed

DON’T leave your man coz of Peer pressure .

DON’T leave a man coz his going through shame instead stand with him.

Don’t leave a man coz of social media

LEAVE A MAN ONLY when HE TELLS YOU WITH HIS MOUTH TO LEAVE..don’t force your self it will cause more harm .. . my sister livuuu obedient is better than sacrifice. ..

Short comment only .am cargoling my cargo #laPresidento wa masingo #mamayao.

Her controversial advise comes a few weeks after telling Size 8 not to leave Dj Mo after his alleged cheating scandal. She wrote;

“Size 8 am soo proud of you ..fight for your marriage cheating is a minor offence.. if I ever get in a marriage worth fighting for I will… On my knees I will fight for it… I’ll proof to all of you marriage works… And for those telling me to go back to my past.. don’t you think I know the way .. What about if we both agree to disagree…#hinjio ni maku #amsingleonfacebookonly.”

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Why are female celebs like Betty Bayo advising Size 8 to stay married to Dj Mo?

Size 8 and Dj Mo will probably look back on the first week of October 2020 as the year that either broke/made their marriage.

As many of you are well-aware of, allegations cropped up of Dj Mo cheating on Size 8 with a certain socialite. The fall-out has been terrible for the Dj with Kenyans who called him out for the alleged infidelity.

And what about Size 8 herself? How has she taken the news? The mother of two has said that she would fight for her marriage and attributed the devil to be the one causing the issues at the moment in her marriage.

While many Kenyans have asked her to move on from the marriage, some fellow female celebs have had some interesting takes on what the couple is going through.

Size 8, don’t leave Dj Mo even if he allegedly cheated on you! (opinion)

Most times when men cheat on their wives, the female battalion normally come out in droves to call out the man’s behaviour, while also telling the woman who has been cheated on to leave the bum (my words).

Media personality Ciku Muiruri had a very sympathetic viewpoint when speaking about Dj Mo’s alleged cheating scandal.

She noted that sometimes men cheat and their reason for cheating has nothing to do with their partners. Muiruri argued that men have been wired differently and sometimes they just do things because they believe they can get away with it.

“Your hubby cheats for a myriad of reasons and sometimes they have nothing to do with you. Home life is great; I think I’ll cheat. Interchangeable with home life is bad; I think I’ll cheat. It’s Tuesday, I think I’ll cheat. I’m wearing blue today; I think I’ll cheat. It’s 7 pm; I think I’ll cheat. I had a burger for lunch; I think I’ll cheat. Guys are wired differently,” reads part of Ciuku Muiruri’s post.

Another female celeb Betty Bayo also advised Size 8 to stay in the marriage, opining that cheating should never be a reason for a marriage to break up. In the two posts, I have not seen any castigation of Dj Mo’s alleged behaviour, who is the villain in the story.

Why is that? I have a possible answer to that and I may be wrong.

I think that both Betty and Ciku through the years have seen how hard it is to take care of a child as they are both mothers.

They might have realised that having a man who is present at home who will provide and protect for the kids is much better than not having him there.

We have an unfortunate situation in Kenya (dare I say worldwide) where at times men who have separated from their wives stop being as supportive of them and as a result their kids suffer-Out of sight, out of mind as the old saying goes.

If even a wealthy celeb like Zari can complain about the lack of support from her baby daddy Diamond, what about celebs with less. Taking care of kids is the hardest undertaking in a marriage.

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Betty Bayo opens up about her life as a hawker

Pastor Kanyari’s ex-wife Betty Bayo has been learning how to keep her fans and Kenyans entertained like another famous singer before her, Akothee.

Betty Bayo’s eyebrow-raising advise for Size 8 after Dj Mo’s cheating allegations

Betty has become more open this past year and no topic is out of bounds for her as she spills her heart out on anything and everything.

One of her most recent posts shows this new engaging side of her as she disclosed that she was once a hawker who used to sell Safaricom lines. Writing;

Commercial break from story za masingo ..
I #mamayao Today I want to share aka story on my journey of faith . One day I was hawking in town safaricom lines … that day the sales were so good nlimake 700bob was so excited coz I had a dream to work hard and buy a car but now 700bob utolewe gari wapi .. I took a step of faith walk in a shop that was selling car keys..

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Good 9t all

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But her situation didn’t stop her from dreaming about the good life and she purchased a car key which was an act of faith for the life she wanted, something that ended up happening. Read the rest below:

Believe you me I first bought a car key as a step of faith its was a Honda.. I walked with that key dairly for 3 yrs .. I remember one day nlijichocha kwa mat by calling imaginary mechanic kumkelelesha eti kwanini hakunishow service ya gari was to take the whole day now I had to take am mat home .🤣🤣🤣 unfortunately simu ikapigwa na ilikua full volume and everyone laughed wakajua I was faking the call ..but that did not stop me from dreaming .. oibo people say …fake till you make it ..and the bible say faith without action is dead ..sometime faith make you look stupid but do not listen to people focused on God and your dreams.

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Betty Bayo’s eyebrow-raising advise for Size 8 after Dj Mo’s cheating allegations

Singer Betty Bayo has come out to speak about the trending topic of the week-Dj Mo’s and Size 8’s relationship drama. The gospel musician has come out to deliver her opinion on the topic that has gotten Kenyans talking the whole week.

Betty who has been loud and proud with her opinions over the last two years has a fascinating take on the current crisis facing the Muraya’s.

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What has been said about my marriage has been said whether it is true or not I dont know only God knows the whole truth and we cannot reverse what has been said. I ve been angry and sad handling things physically but that stage is over for the bible says in Ephesians 6:12 we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities rules of darkness mashetani And if any of us fight physically we are bound to fail coz the devil is the main enemy not people. So no point of bitterness anger unforgiveness or fits of rage!! IT IS TIME TO PUT THE FULL ARMOUR OF GOD IT IS BATTLE TIME ON MY KNEES IVE GONE TO PRAY AND STARTED A 3 DAY FAST FOR MY MARRIAGE AND MY FAMILY I KNOW I SHALL SEE THE SALVATION OF THE LORD IN MY HOME! GOD HAS ALREADY GIVEN ME VICTORY BY FAITH!!! HE WHO IS ME IS GREATER THAN HE WHO IS IN THE WORLD!!! To all women and men facing hard situations of all kinds in marriage God is able to defend your homes let's pray in the name of Jesus!! LET THE MARRIAGE PRAYER MOVEMENT BEGIN FROM TODAY FRIDAY AND SATURDAY!!! We meet live on my ig and Facebook on the 3rd day at 8pm that is on Saturday for atleast 30mins of praying together. Look, I am the LORD, the God over every creature. Is anything too difficult for me!!! Jeremiah 32:27 MARRIAGE IS A VERY GREAT COVENANT!!! A COVENANT CREATED BY GOD!!! @djmokenya @ladashabelle.wambo @muraya.jnr #themurayas #DineWithTheMurayas Hair by @divineluxuryhairkenya

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Betty complimented Size 8 on the way she had handled her husband and urged her to keep fighting for her marriage. Miss Bayo said that she felt that cheating was a minor offense that shouldn’t derail the marriage.

“Size 8 am soo proud of you ..fight for your marriage cheating is a minor offence.. if I ever get in a marriage worth fighting for I will… On my knees I will fight for it… I’ll proof to all of you marriage works… And for those telling me to go back to my past.. don’t you think I know the way .. What about if we both agree to disagree…#hinjio ni maku #amsingleonfacebookonly,” said Betty Bayo.

Her viewpoint is interesting considering her relationship history. Betty was married to controversial pastor Victor Kanyari with whom they had two kids.

When scandal hit Kanyari in the form of the 310 church scandal, Betty decided to stay while he was engulfed in the storm but left after things had settled down.

“I did not leave him immediately. It didn’t feel right to me to leave him in the mess. So I held on a little longer. And I had to forgive him. When I saw he was stable enough, I decided to leave. He had changed and become a better person but in my heart nothing would stop me from leaving.” Betty admitted during an interview with Sunday Magazine.

Her advice to Size 8 and her decision to leave Kanyari in the past are at cross-purposes. Or am I reading too much into this?

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Best fans ever! Betty Bayo’s fans open WhatsApp prayer group for her future husband

Pastor Kanyari’s ex-wife and baby mama Betty Bayo has been a fresh of breath air in this Covid-19 affected year. The singer has been open and honest about her desires, needs and inner thoughts this year.

The mother of 3 hasn’t been afraid to speak her mind especially about things that many women would readily hide away from the public.

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PRAYER FOR MY CHILDREN #Oh, Almighty God , my children are gifts and testimonies, and for this, they shall be blessed in their spirit and soul. # I shall not mourn over my children, because they are satisfied with long life, they shall live long and take care of me. #They shall eat the good of this land and any land they step their feet. # God shall not take them where there is no grace. #Erase my children's name from every evil list. #There shall be no form of delay in the lives of my children. #Where my children cannot defend and stand for themselves, Oh God, defend and vindicate them. #My children shall not be an embarrassment to me, they shall not be a cast away in the society #Almighty God, give them self announcing testimonies, to the glory of Your Holy Name. #My children shall not receive death wrapped as love, they shall not eat the food of their enemies. #My children shall not receive battles wrapped as blessings, they shall not seek for help in the camp of the wicked. #My children shall not be spectators in the gathering of glory. #My children will be the ones to take care of their own children. #I shall not use my own hand to destroy the lives of my children. #My children shall not be the victim of anybody's mistake. #My children's prosperity will be obvious. #Their voices shall be louder than the voices of their enemies. Also, send this prayers to parents and parents to be and let the prayer chain continue. In Jesus name Amen. Shalom

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One of those things is her desire to get married again. Betty has been very vocal in her desire to get a new man after her failed relationship with Victor Kanyari.

If one was to look at her social media pages this past year, one would see the amount of posts she has made talking about her future husband.

It seems that her constant posts regarding getting a new man has finally piqued the interest of her fans and followers who have decided to start a prayer group for her.

Finally! Betty Bayo’s recent update proves that she is ready to move on from Kanyari

Betty noted this fact on her Facebook page with a heartwarming message. Her caption is below;

This one have moved me in tears aki😭😭😭Yaani mpaka mnafungua whatup group kuniombea future Husband you mean it this serious? My marriage is our marriage…

He post is below;

This one have moved me in tears aki😭😭😭
The blessing of having Facebook followers who are prayer warrior, who not only…

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This measure by her fans comes after Betty started vocalising the type of man she would want on her social media pages.

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PRAYER FOR MY FUTURE HUSBAND. TO my future husband I know you are alive all grown up with beared and ofcourse your not in your mother's house. I already know that your are HE since me am straight In the mighty name of Jesus I disconnect you from every unGodly relationship that is making you comfortable not to look for me , i diconnect you from all generation curses that want to waste youthhood . I pray God to give you peace from your ex Coz I don't want dramas also God to give you courage to seek forgiveness from any woman you have ever hurt out of foolishness or intentional coz I don't want her tears to affect our new marriage.. . In case you have debt I pray God to sort you in advance before we meet coz we need to concentrate and enjoy our union . I also pray for both our past PARTINER to accept our decesion and also God to remembers them . I I pray God to heal you all the wounds from your past relationship as he heal mine since you dint leave our past relationship out of fun. I pray that you will not be intimated by my celebrity status or the house I bought with mizizi africa homes all is vanity.come baby come we build a home , …kaba kiriko kiega ngukira kiambiriria…. Allocate me now by fire in Jesus name amen. Your future wife is waiting

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This move by her fans shows me how much of an influence that the entertainer has on her fans and followers. I don’t know how many fans would do this for a celeb that they care for and follow? Maybe Akothee would get this type of loyalty from her fans.

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Finally! Betty Bayo’s recent update proves that she is ready to move on from Kanyari

Gospel artiste Betty Bayo has been on a tear this past year especially as concerns her personal life. The singer has ramped up her controversial posting with many of her posts alluding to her past relationship with the father of her two kids, the “charismatic” pastor Victor Kanyari.

This past week was no different for Bayo declaring that she was now ready to move on and her story is one that will get a lot of chuckles.

Betty said that she hopes that the next man she gets hitched to doesn’t come with baggage from his previous relationship.

Oooliskia wapi? Fans react after Betty Bayo declares to be the next President of single mothers

In a lengthy Instagram post, Betty spoke hilariously about the type of man that she wants the good Lord to bless her with in the future.

The singer said that she prefers that the man has a beard and isn’t living in his mother’s house. She asked God to disconnect him from any relationship likely to make him uncomfortable in finding her and also have peace from his ex – because she is not looking for drama.

“In the mighty name of Jesus I disconnect you from every unGodly relationship that is making you comfortable not to look for me, I disconnect you from all generation curses that want to waste your youthhood. I pray God to give you peace from your ex because I don’t want dramas, also God to give you the courage to seek forgiveness from any woman you have ever hurt out of foolishness or intentional because I don’t want her tears to affect our new marriage,” she wrote.

She also prayed that he would not be exhausted by his previous relationships and nor intimidated by her celebrity status or her new house.

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My inbox is full of proposal to cut the list short here are CHARACTERISTIC OF MY FUTURE HUSBAND apart from being born again and God fearing below is the list of quality of my future husband mundu wa Ngai ni Kwiyaria 1 divorcee/single father ( bird of the same feathers ) 2 high self esteem staki mtu hajaovercome past yet I have Mimi nsha overcome no crying babies 3 not mamas boy no no noo 4 be a tither in his church , no heavenly thief 5 know english, we can't both talk broken english my fans must see the different 6 love my kids 7 vaccinated to cyberbully kama hana i will give him a dose huku tunaservive by fire by force 8 no shouting or violent I love peace 9 no too serious I don't want a boring life 10 statement and original id😎 #friday manenos #myenglishteacher is online #winningteam #womanpower For those men in boxing me now you know

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Her post comes shortly after she had cautioned divorced men to be ready with documents proving that they were actually divorced before getting a chance with her.

This new post by Betty proves that the “Jemedari” singer is finally over her ex, Pastor Victor Kanayri. Betty had been taking shots at the cleric, with the latest being her Father’s Day post where she savaged the man she shares two children with.

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My inbox is full women asking me for advice on what to do, please note I betty bayo will never advice any1 to leave their marriage, marriage is good I wish mine iliwork ,people who have decide to leave actually don't even need advice the just leave .no 1 advices me myselfu , And for the one who have found themself single like me don't allow society to bring you down being single is not a disability, walk head high,laugh at your mistake and problems don't die of depression Ruto need you vote come 2022, kubali matokeo ,and remember the greatest achievement of a born again christian is to make it to Heaven . heaven sio kama noah ark( ti thafina) it's not a business of 2 by 2 , infact it is illegal to show up in pair ..kila goti litapigwa kivyake #new song kaana now on youtube #i refused to be silenced #utaskiawakisema am bitter #marriageworks #my englishticha am making it without you https://youtu.be/07SlyEZRP-0

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She wrote that although he was a wonderful father, he was a poor husband in a backhanded compliment that showed that the hurt she had for him was still there.

Her recent posts show a woman who is ready to move on. She is single and searching and all I can say is, “Good luck” to her.

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“Am I threat to marriages” Betty Bayo asks after incident at car-wash

Betty Bayo is probably the most outspoken gospel singer in Kenya. The ex-wife of controversial pastor Victor Kanyari isn’t afraid to share personal experiences, even ones that seem extremely sensitive, a stance she has increasingly taken the past couple of years.

Betty Bayo and Pastor Kanyari
Betty Bayo and Pastor Kanyari

And I can’t blame her, after the shame she went through when her husband was exposed for allegedly defrauding his congregants, she most likely developed a tough hide.

And this next story is an example as she vented on her social media recently after a misunderstanding occurred at a car-wash.

Betty Bayo wearing headwrap
Betty Bayo wearing headwrap

Betty was unhappy with a man who prevented his wife from speaking to the singer and the reason according to the singer was that she was a single mother.

“Yesterday I met this couple at the carwash and the hubby was protecting his wife from talking to me, is it true that I am a threat to marriages?” she wrote.

‘Divorced or a single father…’, Betty Bayo gives the qualities of a husband she wants

In her Facebook post,  the “Maneno” singer wrote that the husband didn’t want her to be a bad influence on his wife, saying that that might explain the horrible treatment she received.

“I know no married man would want their wife to be my friend especially when the man has failed to be a real man, to all men if you’re threatened by me it’s because you have failed stop blaming me, no happy woman would leave a happy marriage coz BETTY BAYO said this or that, deal with your own insecurity,” she added.

Betty Bayo in pink

She then added that it wasn’t her fault that she was divorced, finishing her message by telling the man to work on himself and not project his issues on other people.

Betty finished off by saying that only a failing union could collapse because of her and no strong marriage could fall apart just because she was friends with the wife.

“Am only a threat to abusive bloodsucking God forsaken unions, and am too loud to be silenced and am not afraid of insult, am immune.”

Betty Bayo on stage
Betty Bayo on stage

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Betty Bayo threatens to expose men sliding into her DM’s

Gospel singer Betty Bayo is one of the few gospel musicians who isn’t afraid to speak her mind-a fact that her ex-husband Victor Kanyari is all too aware of.

The mother of two recently revealed that she would be willing to expose some men who have been sliding into her DM’s.

Betty Bayo in pink
Betty Bayo in pink

Bayo explained that she had tried keeping them a secret but it didn’t work out as planned. She then went on to add any man who wanted to date her should be prepared to be in the relationship with a movement that includes her fans.

‘Divorced or a single father…’, Betty Bayo gives the qualities of a husband she wants

Betty added that if any of the men in her DM is divorced, they should be ready to present their divorce papers.

“To any man in boxing me please note that I don’t keep secret nowadaiz I am petty the last time I kept a secret it dint work.., if your dating me be ready to date me together with my fans, my fans are my spies, you’re not dating me alone your dating a movement, and if your divorced ukuje umeuma divorce papers na mdomo,” read part of her post.

Betty Bayo
Betty Bayo

She also prayed that her married fans don’t get to the point where they have to leave their marriages because divorce is not for the weak.

“na kwa wale watu wa God hates divorce please tag a lot other thing God hates, who loves Divorce anyway, the secret of many people who are divorced that they don’t tell is that they reached a point in life where they only had two option. Divorce paper or eulogy… ata kama ni were ungechangua ngani?.. I pray to every happy married fans in this page they will never reached the point of divorce.

Betty Bayo on stage
Betty Bayo on stage

#englishcocktail #God speed #thispage is not for the weak #follow me at your own risk #exposing inbox chat and audios,” said Betty Bayo.

Betty was married to Victor Kanyari before they split up after his 310 scandal was exposed for all to see. The relationship left her with the blessing of two kids but with the scars of being married to the infamous preacher.

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Why does she keep mentioning me on social media? Kanyari asks about Betty Bayo

This past year, gospel singer Betty Bayo has spoken more about her baby daddy Pastor Victor Kanyari than any other year after they split up.

And she has been doing so much and so frequently that Pastor Kanyari seems to be getting bothered. The pastor recently spoke to The-Star and had some words for the woman who he shares two kids with.

Victor Kanyari with his two kids
Victor Kanyari with his two kids

 

According to the pastor, Betty has been mentioning him everywhere; yet she also happens to have other exes she can talk about on her page.

Speaking to Word Is, Kanyari said, “I don’t know why Betty keeps on speaking about my relationship with her, yet she had other relationship(s) before me.”

“She should not be worried that I may appear and fight for love. I am a good man and I don’t fight for love. I have never been with a person I loved that much to make me fight for her to love me. When we separated, it’s a decision we made so I cannot go back to her,” he said.

Pastor Kanyari
Pastor Kanyari

Asked whether he was a wife batterer, Kanyari said, “I never hit her when we were together. The fact remains we separated. I never touched her. One day I came home angry and hit a picture on the wall but I never fought her. She can even testify to that.”

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Kanyari’s advice on love is that it’s not that serious.

“Ukiachwa achika. Otherwise, depression is there. If she was not your destiny, then let her go and stop begging for their love. If she stays, it’s okay,” he said.

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One of the most incendiary posts that Kanyari might be referring to might be the post she made on Father’s Day. In the post, Betty issued a back-handed compliment calling him a great father but a bad husband.

If the post was intended as praise for the father of her two kids, then it backfired spectacularly as all and sundry could see the passive-aggressive nature of her post.

I hope the two settle their issues for the sake of their kids.

 

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I moved in with a man whose full names I barely knew – Betty Bayo speaks about Kanyari

Betty Bayo and Pastor Victor Kanyari had one of the most complicated relationships ever seen on the Kenyan landscape. Betty the uprising and loved gospel singer, Kanyari the charismatic and ambitious pastor with a secret to hide.

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Their relationship came tumbling down after Kanyari was outed for scamming his congregants. Years later it seems that the cleric has moved on and even recently announced that he is single and ready to mingle.

Betty Bayo headwrap
Betty Bayo headwrap

But it seems that Betty herself still bears the scars of that failed relationship that produced 2 beautiful kids. Betty has for long referred to the preacher as her estranged husband admitted this past weekend that the two never got married at any point in their lives.

Betty Bayo wearing headwrap
Betty Bayo wearing headwrap

In a long Instagram post, Betty said that she and Kanyari were living in sin but did not want to let the world know. That wasn’t all, Betty revealed that she moved in with him 3 weeks after knowing him and still didn’t know full names only knowing that she was in love.

“In my past relatioship i made mistake from day 1, Though I was still a Christian and still saved I moved in with a man 3 weeks after we met with no wedding or anything legal ata affidavit hakuna ,unlike the expectation of many ,nilienda come we stay sorry i mean come we fight 🤣🤣 I moved in with a man who I barely new he full mpesa names .everyday things were unfolding i dint keep the social distance I got pregnant kidogo kidogo .pregnant aaagain🤣🤣 . the rest is history i was forced to say i did a wedding then was naive .. nani hapa alikula mchele ya harusi yangu,??? ” Betty narrated.

Betty Bayo

This year Betty has a lot more about Kanyari and even wrote a Father’s day message that can best be described as a backhanded compliment. In it, she praised him for being a present dad but a useless husband. No chills…

Victor Kanyari with her two sons
Victor Kanyari with her two sons

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Are they dating? Betty Bayo elicits controversy after photo with Ben Githae

Betty Bayo is one of the most popular female musicians in Kenya. Not only that, but the fact that she was married to controversial pastor Victor Kanyari also added to her draw for many celebrity watchers out there.

She recently evoked a lot of emotion after she posted an image with Kikuyu singer Ben Githae on her Facebook page. The photo she posted wasn’t the problem but her caption spoke a thousand words with many questioning the real meaning of it.

Betty Bayo with Ben Githae
Betty Bayo with Ben Githae

She had written; “If God can take away something you never expected losing, He can replace it with something you’ve never imagined having🌹.”

The post elicited different reactions with many positing what her message might have meant; Where they dating? Did she actually mean that God had replaced Kanyari with Githae?

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Some of those comments are below;

Sammy Ondimu Ngare Am I the only one nimemisunderstand Betty???

Malaika Kimani Betty Bayo people are overthinking here🙈 Just came back from comments🙆‍♀️

Geoffrey Ndungu That is why i love God,no matter how you have been behaving, hawezi kukunyaganya kipawa. Anyway GOD is watching from a distance….

Betty Bayo on stage
Betty Bayo on stage

DjChoqz Aka Arthur Gitau You people should not be this judgemental, maybe it has not been well stated. If Betty Bayo had an affair with Ben, How on Earth could she post such on social media….I don’t know what she meant but with my understanding, we’re thinking the opposite. …See More

Peter Mungai I have to sit down and try to chew what my younger sister Betty Bayo was trying to say ” They’re ready to produce a song with Ben”…In Kiambu you don’t need English to express your feelings,you can as well use signs… Waititu should confirm this🤣

Betty Bayo
Betty Bayo

Josephine Mwaniki Ooh my, gaka kairitu gutiri undu gatekuona muturireini, be careful what u post Betty, it may not be what people think, but people judge by what they see. Some of us honesty loves your music & considers you as a strong Christian. So, maundu maria mangikuhaka giko ta Maya tiga gupost social media, most of the comments are really bad.

Both Betty and Githae have had their fair share of relationship dramas in the past. Might this be the start of a wonderful thing-according to some Kenyans or is it just a great friendship? Time will tell.

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‘I went to a wedding in slippers’ Betty Bayo reveals about depression battle

Betty Bayo is among the latest line of celebrities to speak about the tough battle with depression. The Kenyan gospel artiste opened up on her battle with depression and had some counselling words for Kenyans who might be undergoing it.

The singer
The singer

The lady who was married to controversial Pastor, Victor Kanyari explained her struggles on her YouTube channel. She said;

‘Someone might ask if I have ever been depressed and I would say, yes I have. I knew I was depressed after I attended a wedding only to realize that I had worn slippers. I had not combed my hair nor had I applied lotion on myself.
in my mind, I knew that before I left home I had planned on attending a wedding but I did not plan on attending while looking unkempt.’

Betty-Bayo-Pastor in a file photo
Betty-Bayo-Pastor in a file photo

But thankfully the singer had some great news to share with her fans and followers. She added;

‘Thankfully I overcame my depression, with time I will open up on what drove me there in the first place and how I overcame that phase.’

Betty Bayo
Betty Bayo

Other Kenyan celebs who have also said that they have suffered depression are;

Annitah Raey – The Hot 96 presenter sunk into depression after a rape ordeal at Jevanjee Gardens after she ran away from home due to the harsh nature of her mother

Joey Muthengi – The Voice of America correspondent has battled depression and anxiety since the age of 14.

Joey Muthengi
Joey Muthengi

Mejja – The Kansoul member Mejja battled depression after his wife left with his child while he was away on a business meeting.

Pierra Makena – The ‘Beat Box Live’ DJ went through depression at the worst time ever, during her pregnancy.

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Grace Ekirapa – The Crossover 101 TV host tried committing suicide in Class 8 and once again in Form 3 after suffering from depression.

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Hapendi Ujinga! Betty Kyallo responds to a perverted fan

Betty Kyallo is doing well for herself.

She recently opened a salon just the other day and from the look of things, it is doing quite well. This story stirred up a lot of talk just after she opened up the salon right across her ex-best friends, Susan Kaittany.

Betty Kyallo

Talk about drama! Betty has been using her fan base to gain more clients and beat the ones at Posh Palace. Her Instagram Live has been going crazy! Betty goes live every time she is at Flair By Betty and she never lacks cocky comments.

Betty Kyallo's new salon

This time the comment was a bit too much. A guy by the name Sukhdeep just decided to throw a nasty comment asking her to show him her boobs. Betty has been asked to dance, to sing, to shout out but this one was way too much.

“Show me your boobs”

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Of course, this got Betty Kyallo very mad and she could not contain her anger! She blew up telling him to get off her page. From the look on her face, she was actually very shocked like “ooh my God shocked”!
Betty Kyallo

I will not show you boobs that is very wrong. Get out of my page, Sukhdeep1257. As you can see the weirdos have now checked in. Why would I show you boobs? I am not…anyway whatever its fine

Betty Kyalo

Such weirdos never lack on social media. Women have faced this more than the men. A lot of the times Indians have topped the list when it comes to being perverts and many women have complained about it.

Just the other day, a man posed as a mzungu by the name Robin Jonson and the women ran for him. The internet is being used for all the wrong reasons. The other case was the trend #ifikiewazazi.

Betty Kyalo

Betty Kyalo. photo credit: instagram/Betty Kyalo

Betty has been accused of so much especially to do with men but this just proved that she respects herself.

Nimetoka mbali sana! Betty Bayo buys a car for the daughter

Betty Bayo loves her children very much. The gospel singer was once married to controversial pastor Kanyari.

The two co parent in raising their children together.

In a recent interview highlighted by Mpasho.co.ke, Betty said she is too beautiful to be single and thus, she is dating.

“Yes I am. And I am happy. If it works out or not, I will still be happy. I will still be Betty. I am wiser now. I do not cling to relationships. It is only that I am too beautiful to be single.”

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Betty-Bayo
Yummy mummy Betty Bayo

There is nothing like a mother’s love. Betty Bayo lavishes her two children with soooo much love.

She wrote, “When i look back kuria nyumite haria ndi (where I have come from and where I’m at now) all the challenges ups and down and how God has been faithful kwanza hii mwaka Wacha mungu aitwe MUNGU.”

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Betty Bayo is experiencing and enjoying God’s favour and blessings. She recently bought her first born child, a daughter named Sky, a car.
Sky Bayo
Betty’s daughter Sky Bayo

Sky said, “Hey, this is my brother, this is my car. [My brother] likes screaming a lot.

She also fired a warning shot at her mum.

“Please don’t ever, ever, ever take pictures when we are going to church.”

Check out the sweet ride in the video below…

Uyu niamakia ati arenda istagram acc follow her on @Skybayo1

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WHEN LOVE TURNS TO HATE! 5 Of The Biggest And Nastiest Break Ups In The Kenyan GOSPEL Industry

There has been a noticeable increase in the number of celebrity break ups in the last couple of years in Kenya, and we can’t all help but wonder what’s going on and especially for couples who seemed like they wouldn’t part ways.

Dating while in the limelight must really be a hard task, what with all the prying eyes and scrutiny from the public judging your every move, which makes it hard for celebs to keep under wraps relationship challenges they’re facing.

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In the Kenyan entertainment industry, particularly gospel artistes have grabbed the nation’s attention because of the frequent break-ups facing them.

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So which gospel artistes have sadly called it quits? Check out some of the worst Kenyan gospel celebrity break-ups below.

1. Gloria Muliro and Pastor Omba
Gloria Muliro shocked Kenyans when she came out to reveal that she had walked out of her 5-year marriage. She accused her then husband Pastor Eric Omba of emotional abuse, cheating, and mismanagement of her money. The two have since moved on and Omba already has two kids from different women.

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2. Eunice Njeri and Rapper Izzo
This was one of the biggest and most controversial celebrity break-ups this year. Eunice Njeri walked down the aisle in December 2016 and on February 2017, she announced that she had annulled the marriage the same day. The singer claimed that her heart was in Kenya and wasn’t ready to settle down in the US.

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3. Dr Ofweneke and Nicah The Queen
This is the latest Kenyan celebrity break up with details emerging that comedian Dr Ofweneke broke up with his fiancée, Nicah. The two have had a rocky relationship and though they tried to keep it a secret, the two have called it quits. In a shocking revelation, Nicah shared a photo accusing the comedian of beating her.

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4. Pastor Kanyari and Betty Bayo
These gospel bigwigs were a couple at some point bus sadly, it ended in a very nasty separation after Betty Bayo decided to walk away from the marriage. This came after someone accused the pastor of conning church members. Betty Bayo, later on, revealed that she was pregnant with another man’s baby and has since given birth.

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5. Hey Z Da Brand and Mercy Njoki
The gospel singer broke up with former Tahidi High actress Mercy Njoki aka Izareeh after dating for 6 years. He accused her of cheating on him and after calling it quits, the lady moved on with another man just a few weeks after. Sad!

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