Anerlisa Muigai is giving tips on how to help your partner completely forget about their ex. The businesswoman has admitted that she bins everything that is from her man’s previous relationship.
Taking to social media, Muigai wrote;
“If you want your partner to completely forget their exes, is by first removing and replacing anything they ever left in that house. Your partner will even respect you more because they will see you have the same power of replacement.”
“I am that person who can’t even stand seeing even a handkerchief bought by an ex laying around lol. #Trashed #JustSaying,” She concluded with the hast tag petty
Recently, Anerlisa revealed that she and her boyfriend Melvin are almost celebrating their first anniversary.
“Can’t believe I am almost one year with you, 20th June.”
Anerlisa was married to Tanzanian singer Ben Pol. Rumours of their divorce came into the limelight a few months into their marriage.
Ben Pol was reported to be the one who filed for a divorce and in an interview, he admitted that;
“At the moment, because it is true I was the one that filed for divorce, I think when it comes to divorce matters, it entails a lot, and because of that it is still ongoing. But the status is that according to the Tanzanian law, we are still bound, but emotionally I bet none of us wants to be with each other,” he said.
The love emoji was followed by pictures of a private birthday dinner her new man threw for her.
And the event planners sublimely responded to her caption that her man planned it all. She wrote ‘Thank you romantic curators and my love for organizing this surprise for me. My birthday was lit.’ Adding a thankful emoji.
The vent planners said ‘Was an honor to be part of this beautiful surprise . You deserve it all and he reconfirmed that. Happy birthday once again’
And a photo of her mysterious bae was leaked online. He really does resemble Ben Pol in all ways.
Anerlisa Muigai’s ex husband Ben Pol has been selected as a representative for Tanzania at the 2022 World Youth Forum taking place ion Egypt, under the auspices of H.E Abdel Fattah Al Sisi, President of the Arab Republic of Egypt.
Ben shared videos and photos taking off to Egypt like a boss. He wrote about his excitement in several captions.
The world youth forum is a global youth platform built by promising youth to send a message of peace, prosperity, harmony and progress to the entire world.
This opportunity gave me an effective platform to interact with top policy makers, and network with my fellow promising youth on one platform. Discussing pressing topics, and to generate collaborative ideas.
Ben Pol said he is looking forward to have more enlightening conversations with youths from all over the world in the next following days.
It’s been a week since bongo singer Ben Pol’s tell all interview about splitting from Anerlisa.
In a follow up interview on July 30, Ben Pol was also asked if he expects divorce settlement from Anerlisa.
Clouds FM interviewed by Fridah Amani about marital property and how it will be divided. Also will his music reflect his personal life especially his marriage to Anerlisa?
“unajua kwenye jamii na mila zetu quality love hio hatunaga hiyo affection, kwa bahati mbaya au nzuri, haikua na quality, I could not cry to my parents about my issues in african culture its not right, i was looking for quality love, its a processs naweza hata kuzungumza na vijana, taking care of yourself maanake unakwa mfano nilivyokuwa mtoto nisinge sema mama sitaki ugali, labda saa ivv najipa zile vitu nataka, najihudumuia saa hivi, I was looking for love, siwezi blame kitu chochote ni mahesabu ya kidunia, you can do nothing to change it, its a natural process tumekutana tumefanya tumepasuka, so I can’t pin point what led to the breakdown, of course lazima mwanzoni mkaexpericne differences”
He hinted that the marriage was rushed. and if he were to go back in time, what would he change?
“kukutana na yeye imkuwa na faida, kama kuna kitu cha kubadilisha labda ningekuwa kauzi kwenye mipango, ningesema ndo haifungwi sasa hivi subiri, mimi nime lezwa kwa enzi la mipangio, I was not forced into the marriage unajua mapenzi ni kucompromise, uanweza sema mimi sitaki kuvaa hivi, kuna vitu tuaadjust ili mpenziwako afurahi but in the process you lose your identity.”
Pre nup issues and sharing property?
“Mimi na aliyekuwa mke wangu hatukusaini chochote kwamba mali na nini, kuhusu mali pili, hatujachuma chochote kwenye ndoa yetu na tatu hicho hakikuwa kwa vipau mbele changu. Hamna”
“Nisiwe muongo kwa mikaka hii miwili muziki umekewepo lakini mimi ndio sijakuwepo sana kwenye muziki kutokana na safari za hapa na pale kuwa nyingi kiukweli kwa sasa ndio nuimerudi rasmi kwenye muziki watu wategemee vitu vingoni na mengi kutoka kwangu”
He was asked if he feels bongo music has lost it’s identity following numerous complaints from Tanzanians.
“I don’t want to comment if Tanzanian music is losing popularity or is trash as has been said by others. mimi kazi yangu kama msanii inanifunga kuongea I am not in a position to judge someone ele’s music or lost it’s identity, when it comes to good music i leave it to fans, mimi kusema ka mtandao? hapana”
Ben Pol is back to making music, and has released 4 new songs to test the waters.
“sipende sana ile idea ya EP nimetaka kutoa kitu sio album sio ingine, sitaki kuitambulisha kama EP. I decided to release songs because baada ya hichi kifurushi nitakuwa natoa EP, watu wasikilize wafurahie, mimi naanza safari ya album, naanza rasmi safari, hizi wimbo ni kama kifurahishi, sasa nimerudi kazini.”
On July 19th, Ben Pol in an interview with SimuliziNaSauti revealed the details leading to his split from Kenyan wife Anerlisa Muigai.
On Monday July 19th disclosed in an interview that the door has been closed on his relationship with Kenyan Anerlisa Muigai after multiple attempts.
This resulted in a back and forth, with Anerlisa telling him that real men don’t beg, they provide hinting that she was financially providing for him.
Maina Kageni corroborated this information, saying Anerlisa paid his way.
Anerlisa Muigai’s quote about men needing to level up to a woman’s lifestyle was applauded by a man who called Maina Kageni saying young men should be ashamed to be exchanging body fluids for a rich woman’s money.
He noted that many young Kenyan men are living glamourous lifestyles, but all this is thanks to secretly dating older rich women who exchange money for twa twa. He called them lazy and told them to work their a**es off
“The worst thing a man can do is take money from a woman. men should spend on their women not vice-versa. Where does one get the energy to take money from a woman? As a man your work is to provide not to be provided for! Then you go show off”
Here is Anerlisa’s diss that excited Kenyans about men who live off women.
Poor Ben Pol just gets randomly dragged for being fed
Relationship za yengs akiwa mafutani ajaaab mtu hawezi hata pumua na amani.
Every turn ni attack.
Utapata hata raia iko hapa kucharaza mizigo but dem won’t let you breath juu ameunda few thousands mbele yako
Aaah Mjamaa angepiga mziki tu aachene na watoto wa geti kali.
Hahaha hawa madem wa geti kali ni wa kupewa cable na kusonga. Usiende kuweka beacons hapo.
Amerix hushinda amewaambia hamsikii. A relationship with a richer woman is always bound to fail. Na ikifail ile kuanikwa utaanikwa. The man should ALWAYS be wealthier.
Amerix is right. Men should not marry women with a higher level of financial status, age, academic status coz madharau ndogondogo lazima itaanzia mahali.
I’ve learnt through observation a good number of them if they argue with their partners…even if the partner has valid points in the argument they end up getting emotional and always remind them that they’re the one who provide most or all of the things they have/own
She learnt the hard way. Women need a man with a bright future, men need a woman with a bright past.
This should be two way,MEN leave your women the way you found them or even better look for a partner your level. Yess that’s the energy Ok hand
Tanzanian singer Ben Pol broke up with Keroche heiress Anerlisa Muigai in what he described as a slow and painful affair after a short marriage.
The two got married in March 2020, and Ben Pol filed for divorce early March 2021.
Speaking in a July 18th interview with ‘Simulizi na Sauti’, the ‘Moyo Mashine‘ singer painfully revealed he has moved on and no longer has feelings left for Anerlisa, insisting ‘simfeel’.
“Yes, I filed for divorce and the process is going on. We separated last year for like one and half months, then in September, we got back together and in February this year, we separated again. I think I did my best from my end to keep our love, but I can’t change anything.”
Ben Pol lived a lavish lifestyle flossing for Kenyans that he was a man of means, but all that was thanks to Anerlisa who funded his vacations and cars he showed off on Instagram, living the ‘soft life’.
She dragged him hitting back that “Don’t upgrade his life leave it as it was. Look for a partner your level or an already established partner”.
Maina on Tuesday July 27, gave his take on the story saying they are both his friends, but divulged some details all the same.
“Anerlisa Muigai woie my ka sweetheart, me I don’t know why women help men, why are you being helped? Me I have never understood I don’t even know how a man can literally stretch out a hand and beg for money, aie. Ben was flying first class to Hollywood, eh nawe even if you are my friend Ben Pol bro ni nini? Ako Tanzania amerudi huko”
Malimu Kinga’ng’i sympathized with Bens position saying “atauza kashata huko asipotoa ngoma ingine”
Maina laughed adding “You know that lady alimzoesha hiyo maisha he even had cars airlifted to Dar for him, ma range rover, aie, he was left with nothing she took everything, he has nothing”
Tanzanian singer Ben Pol in an interview on Monday 19th July told that ex wife Anerlisa wanted him to sign a non disclosure agreement after learning he filed for divorce.
Ben Pol dismissed the confidentiality agreement arguing that “how do you gag someone from speaking about their life when they wish to?”
“I found the letter from her lawyers baseless because it was actually gagging me not to speak about my marriage. I mean if you are married you have the right to speak about your marriage if you want to, how then do you gag someone from not speaking about their lives if they wish to do so.” he noted about the NDA.
“That letter had no head or legs because how can you prevent someone from talking about his life? According to the Tanzanian law, she is still my wife, and therefore if she is my wife, this is still my marriage, which means it is my life, so I can talk about it. I just ignored it and, of course, reached out to my lawyers. What we realized was that the letter had no depth. Secondly, it came from a point of insecurity. I’m a gentleman, I just can’t go talking about the person I was involved with,” he said.
The singer also blamed himself for ignoring signs that they couldn’t salvage their marriage.
The two got married secretly in 2019 and Ben Pol filed for divorce around March 2021.
Ben Pol confessed that the healing process has been slow because he really wanted the marriage to work and tried his best.
“When reports emerged on social media last year that we had split, things were bad, we were not on speaking terms. It is true, we had split for about a month and a half. Things were bad to an extent Anerlisa sent me documents from her lawyers asking for a separation. We were good until February this year when again the bubble burst. Again, we separated in episodes. We did not speak for three weeks, tried fixing things, and not long we were back in the woods and this time things were pretty intense,”
Tanzanian singer Ben Pol on Monday July 19th disclosed in an interview that the door has closed on his relationship with Kenyan Anerlisa Muigai after multiple attempts.
He admitted that he no longer has feelings for her and that their split took a toll on him.
The two got married in March last year and Ben Pol filed for divorce early this year. He told that they were on and off again in 2020 but in 2021, they reunited for one last ditch effort that flopped.
“We separated last year for like one and half months, then in September, we got back together and in February this year, we separated again. I think I did my best from my end to keep our love, but I can’t change anything.”
He also told that the divorce process was nasty that Anerlisa had her lawyers send divorce papers through email.
“Kwenye mambo ya Divorce ina process zake, na kwa hivyo Bado zinaendelea. Na mambo nyengine kwenye upande wake number moja au mengine alikuwa amuekea misuli. Kisheria Bado tumefungua ndoa, lakini kihiisia zidhani Kuna mtu anataka kuwa na mwenzake, ” he said.
Anerlisa on Tuesday night hit back, with a cryptic message that hinted there was problems.
In three messages, Anerlisa wrote “A real woman avoids drama, she knows her time is precious and she is not wasting it on unimportant things”
Another message said “Never trust your tongue when your heart is bitter”.
She also shared a meme that appeared to suggest she had learned a lesson. ” Street lesson ukienda place hau provide anything please usikae sana, no school will teach you this”
A video of Ben Pol being interviewed about the possibility of re uniting with Kenyan wife Anerlisa Muigai has emerged.
In the video, Ben Pol severally shakes his head vigorously to say no, after being asked if he will give love another chance.
“Mimi namwombea tuu alkini kumzimia? ah ah ah”
The interviewer repeated the question about getting back with Anerlisa asking “feelings kwake bado zipo?”
To which Ben insisted that “sina hisia wala si mfeel, unfortunately. Sasa hivi mimi namwombea tu heri mpoango yake, lakini kumzimia? ah hakuna kitu ina weza tokea kati mimi na yake mapenzi au mahusiano”
Anerlisa on her part has been writing cryptic messages about a certain someone. She also revealed that Tanzanians hate her saying “Tanzanians always like to abuse me and call me old but I let that pass because one day I would like them to support our business”
Anerlisa Muigai is one of the richest Kenyans alive. The daughter of the Keroche Breweries founders had lived the life of ostentatious wealth and luxury so much so that some Kenyans have resorted to attacking Miss Muigai.
Some of those Kenyans assume that because of the riches she has, that she should be happy-going against a well-worn phrase, “The rich also cry”, which Anerlisa has probably done over the years.
But Miss Muigai who has lost a sister and dissolved a marriage in the space of one year wasn’t playing around and went all Berserker rage on the troll.
“It does ***** and that is what you convince your miserable self? Pathetic,” she wrote. The followers of Ben Pol’s ex-wife came to her aid and called out the man supporting her nuclear response to the troll.
I for one can’t blame her for her response. If someone decides to come to my page to talk nonsense after I have posted something so innocent and innocuous then that person is asking for war!
Well, she has said it, do not believe anything she writes.
“I am that person who will tell different stories to different people so when you go out and spread, I’ll know who to tell the real truth. I am also the same person who creates stories to make you think like you know me but actually, ‘nobody knows me.’ I like private life and those who can keep a secret.”
Not only has she dated some of the most handsome men on social media; from Ian Mugoya, Ben Kang’ang’i, to Don and now ex-husband Ben Pol.
2020 was an eventful year for Anerlisa, full of contrasts. Not only did she lose her younger sister Tecra in unfortunate circumstances, but she also got married to Tanzanian musician Ben pol soon afterward.
The marriage came as a shock, considering that she had lost her sister barely a month before. And from the word go the marriage was littered with rumours of infidelity and not seeing eye to eye by the two partners.
Not only that, the relationship looked like a long-distance marriage to keen observers making many wonder when (if ever) the two actually spent any time together.
And while the couple put a brave front in December with even Ben Pol releasing a love song with Anerlisa as his video vixen, that still wasn’t enough to save the marriage.
Early last month Ben filed for divorce in Tanzania with Miss Muigai hinting that she had acceded to his request later on in the month.
Now that she is a free woman, she has been making comments on her social media that hint at what might have been the cause of the demise of the relationship.
This week, the Nero Water CEO said that she is planning to become more selfish as a person. “The woman I am looking into becoming is a woman selfish with HERSELF, her FINANCES and her TIME.”
And that brings me to the gist of this article. I don’t think Anerlisa’s issue with men has been her giving nature. In fact, I think that is a positive in most genuine, reciprocal relationships.
Many times when you keep on having the same problem as Miss Muigai seems to have in her relationships with her revolving cast of men, one has to ask oneself the question? Who is the common denominator? Herself.
A few days later Ben Pol posted a cryptic message saying, “I needed some cleansing to do…”, with many wondering what was going on in his life?
A few months later, Anerlisa came out to say that she and her husband weren’t seeing eye to eye. This came about after a fan who took part in the artist’s InstaLive (which was very intimate) spread the word to her about Ben’s inappropriate actions that were allegedly taking place behind her back.
She revealed that she is “a person who likes to protect her image and strongly dislikes individuals who disrespect her”. She then went ahead to hint that Ben Pol did something that completely put her off, stating that “any husband should do the same to their wife”.
Keroche Heiress Anerlisa Muigai has hinted that she might have put pen to paper and signed the divorce slip and soon their marriage will be over.
In a post via her Insta-stories, Ms Muigai, said that, “I would like to make it clear that I signed whatever was needed to be signed and I do not wish to be associated with anyone. My focus right now is career and my peace.”
This comes hours after Anerlisa was rumoured to have moved on to a new Tanzanian musician, allegations that still haven’t been substantiated yet.
It would make sense if she had signed the papers as she was recently spotted in Tanzania and now her statement suggests that she had gone to sign the divorce papers.
This comes nearly 3 weeks after reports surfaced that Ben Pol had filed for divorced from his wife Anerlisa, just 11 months into their marriage for yet unstated reasons.
But he might have subliminally hinted as to the reason why in a post he made on his Instastories, throwing shade at Anerlisa for being rich but lonely and desperate at the same time. “Some people are so poor. All they have is money.”
The singer went on to link the Keroche heiress to fellow singer Ommy Dimpoz saying, “Malengo yako ya mwaka ni kufanya collabo na Fally Ipupa na kumzalisha “A” kizazi unacho?”
In January, the couple revealed that they wedded in a private ceremony in May 2020 in the leafy suburbs of Mbezi in Dar es Salaam, Tanzania.
Tanzanian artist Ben Pol and his wife Anerlisa Muigai have been the subject of scrutiny the past few weeks ever since rumours emerged that he had filed for divorce from her.
This came just days after Anerlisa had removed images of him and her from her Instagram page. Not only that, but she also removed his name from her official names and also unfollowed him, which is normally a sign that sh!t is going left.
And it seems that her recent outbursts have also put the normally secretive Ben Pol under the Kosh. The musician opined that it was ironic that people who give you marriage advice are those whose relationships have failed.
“Ushauri wa maana zaidi kuhusu mahusiano/ ndoa utaupata kutoka kwa watu ambao ‘ya kwao’ yamewashinda !! Sasa kazi kwako, unataka kuwa na akili nyingi au unataka kulicheza ‘densi’ lako kwa kadri unavyoliona wewe mwenyewe?”
One can see that both of the participants in this marriage are feeling the effects of the constant scrutiny about the state of their union.
But what is interesting is that the two still haven’t addressed the pervasive rumours online in their recent statements. Thing is, they don’t owe us any explanation as is their right but that doesn’t mean we can’t speculate either.
Ben Pol has been reported to have filed for divorce at a Dar Es Salaam based court. The singer married Kenyan businesswoman Anerlisa Muigai last year at a private white wedding.
The wedding was attended by immediate family only!
“When you replace judgement with curiosity, everything changes,” he captioned in one of his vacation photos
Pol, real name Benard Paul Mnyang’anga is currently vacaying at a hotel in Dodoma and no he is not alone.
“When you replace judgement with curiosity, everything changes,” he captioned in one of his vacation photos
The Moyo Mashine singer has been accompanied by his brother Japhet Paul Mnyang’anga as the two are having a bromance. Pol shared a photo of his brother and showered him with praises, describing him as his blessing
Ben Pol and Anerlisa’s divorce rumours come just when the Keroche heiress has been stirring pregnancy rumours.