‘Sis, secure yourself first. You are the bag’ Huddah advises

We are living in a world where women would rather bring children into the world without fathers and be okay with it. In today’s era, most women would rather seduce a rich man, get impregnated by them in order to get financial support from the acclaimed baby daddy.

Thinking its the easiest way out of poverty, many women have opted for this type of arrangement, only for them to be left high and dry. Take the incidence of Bridget Achieng, Nairobi’s socialite who was dumped by her Nigerian boyfriend after she told him she was carrying her child. The man, threatened her with abortion or he would walk away from her life for good. Thinking that she could out smart a Nigerian man, by keeping the baby and ask for child support from the man, that’s where she failed the test.

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The man disappeared on her in thin air. There was a point the socialite went to Nigeria and stayed for weeks in the search of her baby daddy for support in bringing up the baby, knowing how having a baby in this tough economic times isn’t easy but her efforts bore no fruits.

Angered and left with no choice, she flew back home to face the reality that she will be a single mother, fending for her baby without the help of her baby daddy.

‘Haven’t had my conjugal rights in 2 months’ – Huddah claims

Hence, why Huddah Monroe advises the ladies, that these days, getting a baby to secure the bag is utter nonsense. She asks, what if the first bag is empty? Will you go out to get 10 children with 10 different men just to get that coin without working for it? Later on, you have 10 children that you can barely take care of only because sweet words were whispered into your ears by these men. Women it’s time you open your eyes and shine them bright.

 

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The petite lass goes on to say that, such reasons is why she is not ready to get kids without a fatherly figure in their lives. She adds and says that the society is messed if you think that bringing up children without a fatherly figure in their lives is a good deed. Ladies, it doesn’t matter whether your man is a cheat or not but your children need a fatherly figure present in the household.

IMG-8841Ladies, do not sell your selves short. As Huddah advises and I conquer with her as a man that y’all are the bag, secure yourselves first!

She writes, ” Sis, secure yourself first. You are the bag.”

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A list of the types of baby daddies in Kenya

Are you a baby daddy? What kind of a person are you? Do you take care of your child(ren) or you’re a deadbeat father?

Well, below is a list of different types of baby daddies in Kenya.

1. Deadbeats

They never provide child support. They are always on social media posting pics of the child yet they don’t even contribute a dime to.

2. Providers

These are the type of baby daddies most women love. They provide for their kids even after parting ways with baby mamas. They’re heaven sent.

3. Those who smash

These are the ones who will keep sleeping with their baby mamas even after separating. They are always sexually starved.

4. Rumour mongers

No one likes such. He will always go around bad mouthing you and even spoil your relationship with your new bae.

5. Violent

Wife batterers. They will beat their baby mamas and threaten to kill you if you ever think of suing or reporting the matter to the police. They’re the reason why some children end up being orphans.

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6. Abusive

From physical to emotional abuse, they make their baby mamas go through hell especially the drunk and disorderly ones.

7. Those who vanish only to come back when the kid is doing okay.

Churchill show comedian Jemutai shows off her cute baby 

Jemutai the comedian has for the first time introduced her cute bundle of joy to the world.

She has jealously shielded her private life from the public eye, only choosing to share her jokes on social issues. But this time it seems she could not hold it back.

The proud mummy shared a photo of her son, proclaiming her love for him.

Meet her adorable baby below.

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Back in March this year, Churchill show’s Jemutai was forced to come out and deny that her peer Prof Hamo is her baby daddy.

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In a statement seen by Classic 105, Jemutai said:

“I AM IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE WHO IS NOT IN THE LIMELIGHT. PROFESSOR HAMO IS NOT MY BABY DADDY. SUCH STORIES CAN DESTROY A FAMILY. HE HELPS ME A LOT WITH MY COMEDY AND WE WORK TOGETHER, THAT IS WHY WERE ARE ALWAYS SEEN TOGETHER BUT WE ARE NOT DATING.”

Last week, one such celebrity surprised us when she shared photos of her babies and their rumored father.

Citizen TV’s Anne Kiguta has never addressed rumors that the father of her twins was President Uhuru’s nephew until last week when she praised him and he responded.

Others who have never told the world about their baby daddy include Papa Shirandula’s Awinja.

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