Anerlisa Muigai’s quote about men needing to level up to a woman’s lifestyle was applauded by a man who called Maina Kageni saying young men should be ashamed to be exchanging body fluids for a rich woman’s money.
He noted that many young Kenyan men are living glamourous lifestyles, but all this is thanks to secretly dating older rich women who exchange money for twa twa. He called them lazy and told them to work their a**es off
“The worst thing a man can do is take money from a woman. men should spend on their women not vice-versa. Where does one get the energy to take money from a woman? As a man your work is to provide not to be provided for! Then you go show off”
Here is Anerlisa’s diss that excited Kenyans about men who live off women.
Poor Ben Pol just gets randomly dragged for being fed
Relationship za yengs akiwa mafutani ajaaab mtu hawezi hata pumua na amani.
Every turn ni attack.
Utapata hata raia iko hapa kucharaza mizigo but dem won’t let you breath juu ameunda few thousands mbele yako
Aaah Mjamaa angepiga mziki tu aachene na watoto wa geti kali.
Hahaha hawa madem wa geti kali ni wa kupewa cable na kusonga. Usiende kuweka beacons hapo.
Amerix hushinda amewaambia hamsikii. A relationship with a richer woman is always bound to fail. Na ikifail ile kuanikwa utaanikwa. The man should ALWAYS be wealthier.
Amerix is right. Men should not marry women with a higher level of financial status, age, academic status coz madharau ndogondogo lazima itaanzia mahali.
I’ve learnt through observation a good number of them if they argue with their partners…even if the partner has valid points in the argument they end up getting emotional and always remind them that they’re the one who provide most or all of the things they have/own
She learnt the hard way. Women need a man with a bright future, men need a woman with a bright past.
This should be two way,MEN leave your women the way you found them or even better look for a partner your level. Yess that’s the energy Ok hand
Tanzanian singer Ben Pol broke up with Keroche heiress Anerlisa Muigai in what he described as a slow and painful affair after a short marriage.
The two got married in March 2020, and Ben Pol filed for divorce early March 2021.
Speaking in a July 18th interview with ‘Simulizi na Sauti’, the ‘Moyo Mashine‘ singer painfully revealed he has moved on and no longer has feelings left for Anerlisa, insisting ‘simfeel’.
“Yes, I filed for divorce and the process is going on. We separated last year for like one and half months, then in September, we got back together and in February this year, we separated again. I think I did my best from my end to keep our love, but I can’t change anything.”
Ben Pol lived a lavish lifestyle flossing for Kenyans that he was a man of means, but all that was thanks to Anerlisa who funded his vacations and cars he showed off on Instagram, living the ‘soft life’.
She dragged him hitting back that “Don’t upgrade his life leave it as it was. Look for a partner your level or an already established partner”.
Maina on Tuesday July 27, gave his take on the story saying they are both his friends, but divulged some details all the same.
“Anerlisa Muigai woie my ka sweetheart, me I don’t know why women help men, why are you being helped? Me I have never understood I don’t even know how a man can literally stretch out a hand and beg for money, aie. Ben was flying first class to Hollywood, eh nawe even if you are my friend Ben Pol bro ni nini? Ako Tanzania amerudi huko”
Malimu Kinga’ng’i sympathized with Bens position saying “atauza kashata huko asipotoa ngoma ingine”
Maina laughed adding “You know that lady alimzoesha hiyo maisha he even had cars airlifted to Dar for him, ma range rover, aie, he was left with nothing she took everything, he has nothing”
Tanzanian singer Ben Pol in an interview on Monday 19th July told that ex wife Anerlisa wanted him to sign a non disclosure agreement after learning he filed for divorce.
Ben Pol dismissed the confidentiality agreement arguing that “how do you gag someone from speaking about their life when they wish to?”
“I found the letter from her lawyers baseless because it was actually gagging me not to speak about my marriage. I mean if you are married you have the right to speak about your marriage if you want to, how then do you gag someone from not speaking about their lives if they wish to do so.” he noted about the NDA.
“That letter had no head or legs because how can you prevent someone from talking about his life? According to the Tanzanian law, she is still my wife, and therefore if she is my wife, this is still my marriage, which means it is my life, so I can talk about it. I just ignored it and, of course, reached out to my lawyers. What we realized was that the letter had no depth. Secondly, it came from a point of insecurity. I’m a gentleman, I just can’t go talking about the person I was involved with,” he said.
The singer also blamed himself for ignoring signs that they couldn’t salvage their marriage.
The two got married secretly in 2019 and Ben Pol filed for divorce around March 2021.
Ben Pol confessed that the healing process has been slow because he really wanted the marriage to work and tried his best.
“When reports emerged on social media last year that we had split, things were bad, we were not on speaking terms. It is true, we had split for about a month and a half. Things were bad to an extent Anerlisa sent me documents from her lawyers asking for a separation. We were good until February this year when again the bubble burst. Again, we separated in episodes. We did not speak for three weeks, tried fixing things, and not long we were back in the woods and this time things were pretty intense,”
Tanzanian singer Ben Pol on Monday July 19th disclosed in an interview that the door has closed on his relationship with Kenyan Anerlisa Muigai after multiple attempts.
He admitted that he no longer has feelings for her and that their split took a toll on him.
The two got married in March last year and Ben Pol filed for divorce early this year. He told that they were on and off again in 2020 but in 2021, they reunited for one last ditch effort that flopped.
“We separated last year for like one and half months, then in September, we got back together and in February this year, we separated again. I think I did my best from my end to keep our love, but I can’t change anything.”
He also told that the divorce process was nasty that Anerlisa had her lawyers send divorce papers through email.
“Kwenye mambo ya Divorce ina process zake, na kwa hivyo Bado zinaendelea. Na mambo nyengine kwenye upande wake number moja au mengine alikuwa amuekea misuli. Kisheria Bado tumefungua ndoa, lakini kihiisia zidhani Kuna mtu anataka kuwa na mwenzake, ” he said.
Anerlisa on Tuesday night hit back, with a cryptic message that hinted there was problems.
In three messages, Anerlisa wrote “A real woman avoids drama, she knows her time is precious and she is not wasting it on unimportant things”
Another message said “Never trust your tongue when your heart is bitter”.
She also shared a meme that appeared to suggest she had learned a lesson. ” Street lesson ukienda place hau provide anything please usikae sana, no school will teach you this”
A video of Ben Pol being interviewed about the possibility of re uniting with Kenyan wife Anerlisa Muigai has emerged.
In the video, Ben Pol severally shakes his head vigorously to say no, after being asked if he will give love another chance.
“Mimi namwombea tuu alkini kumzimia? ah ah ah”
The interviewer repeated the question about getting back with Anerlisa asking “feelings kwake bado zipo?”
To which Ben insisted that “sina hisia wala si mfeel, unfortunately. Sasa hivi mimi namwombea tu heri mpoango yake, lakini kumzimia? ah hakuna kitu ina weza tokea kati mimi na yake mapenzi au mahusiano”
Anerlisa on her part has been writing cryptic messages about a certain someone. She also revealed that Tanzanians hate her saying “Tanzanians always like to abuse me and call me old but I let that pass because one day I would like them to support our business”
Anerlisa Muigai is one of the richest Kenyans alive. The daughter of the Keroche Breweries founders had lived the life of ostentatious wealth and luxury so much so that some Kenyans have resorted to attacking Miss Muigai.
Some of those Kenyans assume that because of the riches she has, that she should be happy-going against a well-worn phrase, “The rich also cry”, which Anerlisa has probably done over the years.
But Miss Muigai who has lost a sister and dissolved a marriage in the space of one year wasn’t playing around and went all Berserker rage on the troll.
“It does ***** and that is what you convince your miserable self? Pathetic,” she wrote. The followers of Ben Pol’s ex-wife came to her aid and called out the man supporting her nuclear response to the troll.
I for one can’t blame her for her response. If someone decides to come to my page to talk nonsense after I have posted something so innocent and innocuous then that person is asking for war!
Well, she has said it, do not believe anything she writes.
“I am that person who will tell different stories to different people so when you go out and spread, I’ll know who to tell the real truth. I am also the same person who creates stories to make you think like you know me but actually, ‘nobody knows me.’ I like private life and those who can keep a secret.”
Keroche Breweries heiress Anerlisa Muigai has had a topsy-turvy year. From the tragic death of he younger sister, Tecra, to the start and dissolution of her marriage, it hasn’t been that straightforward for her.
Let’s not lie losing a sibling is already tough but combine that with losing a marriage that one had probably hoped would go the distance shortly after must be tough for even the toughest of us.
The whole thing must be a trip for her as she has been sharing insights this past month that show that healing and probably self-reflection are going on.
Yesterday, she shared a post on Instagram reminding people that nobody is perfect and that everyone makes mistakes. “We fail, we make mistakes. The best one can do is open a new chapter and pray to never repeat the same mistakes again.”
In 2020, Anerlisa even attended the little boy’s birthday and shared photos, which she later deleted. Whatever is going on in her life, I hope that Anerlisa can reach a place of health and peace so that she can move on to bigger and better.
Socialite Anerlisa Muigai is one of the most fascinating characters in the Kenyan entertainment scene. The main reason for that is the way she can changes perspectives on the goings-on in her life, particularly her relationships with men.
The Keroche Breweries heiress will always serve up interesting tidbits about her life on her social media and this weekend was no different.
You see, Anerlisa is done dating men who have kids. She shared this revelation on her Instastory on Instagram, answering questions about the qualities she would like in her ideal man.
And shock of all shocks she wanted a wealthy man! How original? And not only that, she wanted the man to be smart too!
What is noteworthy about her admission is that her former husband Ben Pol was a father of one. Could her preference show be based on her experience with the Tanzanian musician and his son?
Her popular Tanzanian ex has a child from a previous relationship. Anerlisa was so invested in the relationship that she even attended the little boy’s birthday and shared photos, which she later deleted.
Who knows? But her advice comes hot on the heels of the I don’t want a man who has kids!
Not only has she dated some of the most handsome men on social media; from Ian Mugoya, Ben Kang’ang’i, to Don and now ex-husband Ben Pol.
2020 was an eventful year for Anerlisa, full of contrasts. Not only did she lose her younger sister Tecra in unfortunate circumstances, but she also got married to Tanzanian musician Ben pol soon afterward.
The marriage came as a shock, considering that she had lost her sister barely a month before. And from the word go the marriage was littered with rumours of infidelity and not seeing eye to eye by the two partners.
Not only that, the relationship looked like a long-distance marriage to keen observers making many wonder when (if ever) the two actually spent any time together.
And while the couple put a brave front in December with even Ben Pol releasing a love song with Anerlisa as his video vixen, that still wasn’t enough to save the marriage.
Early last month Ben filed for divorce in Tanzania with Miss Muigai hinting that she had acceded to his request later on in the month.
Now that she is a free woman, she has been making comments on her social media that hint at what might have been the cause of the demise of the relationship.
This week, the Nero Water CEO said that she is planning to become more selfish as a person. “The woman I am looking into becoming is a woman selfish with HERSELF, her FINANCES and her TIME.”
And that brings me to the gist of this article. I don’t think Anerlisa’s issue with men has been her giving nature. In fact, I think that is a positive in most genuine, reciprocal relationships.
Many times when you keep on having the same problem as Miss Muigai seems to have in her relationships with her revolving cast of men, one has to ask oneself the question? Who is the common denominator? Herself.
A few days later Ben Pol posted a cryptic message saying, “I needed some cleansing to do…”, with many wondering what was going on in his life?
A few months later, Anerlisa came out to say that she and her husband weren’t seeing eye to eye. This came about after a fan who took part in the artist’s InstaLive (which was very intimate) spread the word to her about Ben’s inappropriate actions that were allegedly taking place behind her back.
She revealed that she is “a person who likes to protect her image and strongly dislikes individuals who disrespect her”. She then went ahead to hint that Ben Pol did something that completely put her off, stating that “any husband should do the same to their wife”.
Keroche Heiress Anerlisa Muigai has hinted that she might have put pen to paper and signed the divorce slip and soon their marriage will be over.
In a post via her Insta-stories, Ms Muigai, said that, “I would like to make it clear that I signed whatever was needed to be signed and I do not wish to be associated with anyone. My focus right now is career and my peace.”
This comes hours after Anerlisa was rumoured to have moved on to a new Tanzanian musician, allegations that still haven’t been substantiated yet.
It would make sense if she had signed the papers as she was recently spotted in Tanzania and now her statement suggests that she had gone to sign the divorce papers.
This comes nearly 3 weeks after reports surfaced that Ben Pol had filed for divorced from his wife Anerlisa, just 11 months into their marriage for yet unstated reasons.
But he might have subliminally hinted as to the reason why in a post he made on his Instastories, throwing shade at Anerlisa for being rich but lonely and desperate at the same time. “Some people are so poor. All they have is money.”
The singer went on to link the Keroche heiress to fellow singer Ommy Dimpoz saying, “Malengo yako ya mwaka ni kufanya collabo na Fally Ipupa na kumzalisha “A” kizazi unacho?”
In January, the couple revealed that they wedded in a private ceremony in May 2020 in the leafy suburbs of Mbezi in Dar es Salaam, Tanzania.
Keroche Breweries heiress Anerlisa Muigai is one woman who has been born with a silver spoon, something she doesn’t deny.
Despite this, she has tried to parlay her wealth and fame into running her Nero Water Company as CEO. Other than her business exploits, Anerlisa normally sees the clout she has as an opportunity to dole out advice to young ladies and girls.
She recently offered more counsel to the fairer gender concerning an issue that is close to her heart-On the type of men that young women should get pregnant for.
In an Instagram post, she told her fans that a baby is a commitment that women should not be boxed into having by their partners if they are not ready.
She told women that they are better off being left by their partners because of their uncertainty on having a baby rather than being forced into it.
“Dear young girls, do not get kids with somebody you are not sure about. You can date, get engaged, etc, but kids? That’s a whole a** commitment. Rather your partner leaves you because you are not sure about having kids than be forced into it. That is just my opinion, others have different views,” she wrote.
How are you going to commit to a man for future marriage and you aren’t sure about him. By the time one is getting engaged, they should be sure and right about the man, having even gotten input from people they trust who have helped vet them.
Another problem I have with the advice is that it doesn’t take into account the effective use of one’s time. I think that women who want kids should only seriously date men who they can foresee having kids with after the first few dates.
Tanzanian artist Ben Pol and his wife Anerlisa Muigai have been the subject of scrutiny the past few weeks ever since rumours emerged that he had filed for divorce from her.
This came just days after Anerlisa had removed images of him and her from her Instagram page. Not only that, but she also removed his name from her official names and also unfollowed him, which is normally a sign that sh!t is going left.
And it seems that her recent outbursts have also put the normally secretive Ben Pol under the Kosh. The musician opined that it was ironic that people who give you marriage advice are those whose relationships have failed.
“Ushauri wa maana zaidi kuhusu mahusiano/ ndoa utaupata kutoka kwa watu ambao ‘ya kwao’ yamewashinda !! Sasa kazi kwako, unataka kuwa na akili nyingi au unataka kulicheza ‘densi’ lako kwa kadri unavyoliona wewe mwenyewe?”
One can see that both of the participants in this marriage are feeling the effects of the constant scrutiny about the state of their union.
But what is interesting is that the two still haven’t addressed the pervasive rumours online in their recent statements. Thing is, they don’t owe us any explanation as is their right but that doesn’t mean we can’t speculate either.
Ben Pol has been reported to have filed for divorce at a Dar Es Salaam based court. The singer married Kenyan businesswoman Anerlisa Muigai last year at a private white wedding.
The wedding was attended by immediate family only!
“When you replace judgement with curiosity, everything changes,” he captioned in one of his vacation photos
Pol, real name Benard Paul Mnyang’anga is currently vacaying at a hotel in Dodoma and no he is not alone.
“When you replace judgement with curiosity, everything changes,” he captioned in one of his vacation photos
The Moyo Mashine singer has been accompanied by his brother Japhet Paul Mnyang’anga as the two are having a bromance. Pol shared a photo of his brother and showered him with praises, describing him as his blessing
Ben Pol and Anerlisa’s divorce rumours come just when the Keroche heiress has been stirring pregnancy rumours.