Every woman needs a man hata yule kibogoyo – Akothee tells women

Akothee is one of the most influential women in the country, not only is she a popular musician, but she is also an entrepreneur.

But that isn’t what impresses me most about her. It’s her social commentary that always gets people talking. She might not always be in the correct but that doesn’t mean she will not fight hard for her right to be heard.

Yep, her opinion will be heard, all others be damned. Her most recent point of view is one case but I must first give some background.

Stop sending me your ugly organs! Akothee complains about men sending her n*des

Weeks ago, the mother of 5 had revealed that she has been trying to get pregnant since January this year.

”Boom it’s been 6 years yawa, if I don’t get another baby in these remaining 4 years, I will quit. Since January I have been trying to get pregnant, but it’s not coming.”

But that statement raised questions as most wondered which man she was trying to get the baby with or was she just bluffing about getting pregnant.

She has now advised women to get themselves a man, to help them in sorting out a few things. She wrote, ”You see, Now electric is back, and I can’t switch on TV to watch hayakuhusu by Akothee on yutube, someone come switch on the tv for me. Naona tu michele. This singleness doesn’t help. Every woman needs a man hata yule kibogoyo.”

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Stop sending me your ugly organs! Akothee complains about men sending her n*des

Kenyan musician and entrepreneur Esther Akoth, better known as Akothee will speak her mind, whenever, wherever and to whoever.

The mother of 5 has a bone to pick and it is with a section of the male gender who has been sending her unwanted se*ually perverse images.

The singer complained on her social media page about men sending her photos of their private parts. The 40-year-old hinted that it wasn’t the first time that it was happening.

“It’s better to cry in Dubai” Akothee tells daughter Rue Baby to chase money and not love

The tall dark-skinned lady went hard at the men shunning the behaviour writing, ”Please guys, stop sending me those ‘ugly’ organs in my inbox. It’s disrespectful to just send a 👁👁. I didn’t know men do send nudes too. Eeeeee. I am afraid of reading or opening DMs now, lest I meet dem.”

For the lady who has over 2.7 Million followers, it must be a certain headache for her dealing with the many DM’s she must be getting.

Sexting or sending obscene messages could land you in prison. Christopher Wambua from the Communications Authority of Kenya says sexting is an offense and you can be fined up to 50,000 shillings or be jailed for not more than 3 months.

Also, under Article 28 of The Cyber Security and Protection Bill 2016, a person who is caught sharing n*de photos of others on the Internet will be sentenced to upto 30 years in prison or fined upto Sh300,000 or both.

 

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“It’s better to cry in Dubai” Akothee tells daughter Rue Baby to chase money and not love

Musician Akothee is yet at it again, yep the president of the single mothers association is back to advising young women and her advice would make Huddah proud.


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In a recent conversation with her daughter, Rue Baby was told to never stay with a man because of love but because he has money.

Upset Akothee reveals HIV status after spread of malicious allegations

The mother of five who was celebrating her 40th birthday gave this information when she had a moment in a boat with her baby girl. ”My daughter, when you go for money, love will come, when you go for love, money will never come. You better cry in Dubai than cry in Kanyamkago. Go for money my dear,” she said on an Instagram video.

Some of the comments from Kenyans who saw the video are below;

”How sad, what about these young men who are still hustling, where will they go?”

”I fully agree, let people look for money first and find the rest later.”

”You better go for love otherwise you may end up like your mother.”

Akothee just like socialite Huddah has been adamant about dating men with means and even threatened to abort a poor man’s baby. In a post she made in 2020, the pretty socialite;

Deez nig*az can only afford weed and d*** and y’all having babies for dem? Id abort that child with my pinkie! No cap! F*** ya opinion! I’m not about to bring an idiot into this world knowingly! God Forbid!” read her Instagram story.

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Upset Akothee reveals HIV status after spread of malicious allegations

Self-proclaimed President of Single Mothers Esther Akoth aka Akothee doesn’t play around when it comes to defending her reputation.

The mother of 5 has a thick skin and never ever loses online battles, embarrassing all comers. This past weekend was no different as the singer had to deal with some allegations that had cropped up about her, particularly her HIV Status, after fake stories surfaced online alleging that she is positive.

Akothee shared documents capturing her HIV-Negative status, shutting down speculation about her health, also promising to deal with the lady who started the “Bad rumour”.

“Yes, I’m Proving a point, so don’t tell me not to prove. For those interested in my HIV status, what you do with this information is up to you. Sipendi Ujinga yenu. Hiyo HIV ikija kunipata siku moja, juwa nimeletewa nyumbani, ama vile ilivyo pangwa na Mungu, sijui lakini kwa sasa habari ndio hiyo saa hii tulia. I have a full medical checkup every year” said the artiste.

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She said that she now understood why most people tend to hide their HIV status from the public. “I have been wondering why public figures who are HIV positive can’t come out clean and embrace the campaign against Stigma / HIV/AIDS.”

Adding, “THEY prefer to play safe and protect themselves other than giving out their lives to ungrateful people. I once asked a friend, why don’t you just go public instead of hiding and people always threatening to reveal your status!? His answer: we we we people are bad, the stigma that comes with it is crazy, people will start running away from you & always use you as an example.”

Adding, “I now understand why people hide their HIV/ARVS status even to the people they are dating, SAD. It’s now obvious for me why men would dump a date day one when you ask them to accompany you to the hospital for an HIV test. This guy will either disappear or never pick your calls. People are living in denial with this thing because of society,” shared Akothee.

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Utawezana!? Akothee tells suitors she spends Ksh 500,000/month maintaining her homes

Kenyan musician Esther Akoth (Akothee) says that she is the wealthiest musician in Kenya, something that is hard to disprove considering the homes and cars she has shown off on numerous guys.

The singer is also a successful entrepreneur who has done excellently for herself as she has diversified to other ventures like farming and a tour business that is apart from her music career.

What most don’t know is that while wealth has its advantages, it also comes with a lot of advantages. The musician revealed this truth this weekend when she gave a glimpse of how much she spends maintaining her lavish homes.

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The mother of 5 said that she spends over Kshs 500,000 monthly just to maintain the palatial homes. She also added that the man who thinks he’s ready to win her heart, adding that she can never be a side chick.

”No man can side chicken me 🤣🤣🤣 unless he can control this empire with his pocket, Any man coming into my life ,just know these homes costs not less than 500,000 ksh a month to maintain ,if at all we have to share costs 🤣🤣.”

Adding, “We haven’t talked about going for holidays 🤣🤣🤣🤣 or school fees , saloon and stuffs AKOTHEE THE GOAT OF AFRICA. It’s not show biz this is reality 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.”

Mafisi mmesikia!? That’s what it takes to win the heart of this wonderful, wonderful woman! Utawezana? Check out the pics of her home below:

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My mother begged me to return to my ex-hubbie Jared but I refused – Akothee

Kenyan musician and Entrepreneur Esther Akoth aka Akothee, known for being the ‘president of single mums’ doesn’t fudge when it comes to the truth.

She is one person who can be quite uncompromising when it comes to stating her truth and one can probably attribute this to her having to make adult decisions from the time that she was 15-years-old after she got pregnant.

Akothee who was married to the father of her first 3 daughters would later leave him, saying that her mother wanted her to go back to that specific son-in-law.

While sharing a meal with both of her parents, Akothee says her mum didn’t want her to introduce her to any more men.

” There is nothing that fulfills my heart like seeing my parents happy 🙏. That’s why I bought land and built a home next to them ,so I can take care of them and enjoy my wealth with them 💪,” she wrote.

“My parents give me strength, they are proud to see me happy. It took my mom time to believe I can make it outside marriage, she pleaded with me to go back to my first marriage over time 🤔 she could not allow me introduce her to any man 🤔, she only knew one son in law 🤔, she only dropped this thing when I told her MUM ,even when I am dead ,I will not go back to my Ex and give him my sweet. But we can be friends and keep at as family 💪 We have kids 🙏,she laughed,she stopped worrying about me and now we are great friends, my dad is the opposite, a man of few words, Josi yeye mnunulie simu ,credit na pocket money 😂😂😂. Huyo mtu wako atamkaribisha. TAKE CARE OF YOUR PARENTS AS IF YOU WERE BORN ALONE 💪.”

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Akothee is right about single motherhood! The benefits of two-parent homes on children

Akothee is one woman who has blazed a trail in the entertainment industry. Not only has she succeeded in becoming a well-known star in the entertainment industry, but she has also done it as a single mother of 5 kids who isn’t afraid to tackle the tough issues that come with it.

In a recent hot take, Akothee decided to advise women who might be planning to turn away from their marriage. She stated that women should not use the excuse that they want to live like her.

Additionally, the musician claims that life on social media is not what it seems like and it’s very different from reality.

”It has come to my attention that I am misadvising women to walk out of their relationships. The problem is that you don’t understand my English. Please, if you’re married, stay in your marriage. Even our own parents stayed in their own marriages. Being a single mother is not pride, it is a circumstance. And we can’t change anything about that.”

Adding,

“Anyway, we’ve got to be strong to live this life. If you think you want to leave your husband because you think Akothee is living a good life, I will never showcase my frustrations online. You could be living a better life than me. But anyway, the choices are yours. If you want to leave your husband’s house, don’t leave with my name… You do not know what I’m going through off- cameras.”

While there are reasons not to stay in some marriages (like physical abuse and a financially unstable partner), just like Akothee, I have always advocated for people to stick it out in a marriage.

And my reason is simple-Do it for the children. The science is clear on the benefits children have when growing up in two-parent homes. Some are below:

1. Children growing up in homes where two parents who have been married continuously are less likely to experience a wide range of problems (academic, social, emotional, cognitive), not only in childhood but later on in adulthood as well (Amato; Howard & Reeves,).

2. In two-parent families, for example, children typically have access to more of the economic and community resources because parents are able to pool their time, money, and energy.

3. Family intactness has also been shown to have a consistently positive influence on earnings for prime-age males and is one of the most important factors (or shared the place of greatest importance) for females and children in determining an area’s dependence on welfare programs that targets poverty.

4. Family intactness has a beneficial influence on reducing out-of-wedlock births, increasing high school and college graduation rates, and even has long-term benefits such as higher employment rates.

5. Children living with married parents are more often involved in community activities such as soccer or other sports, take part in academic pursuits in local schools and other academic institutions that can lead to college, and eventually, a career.

6. Intact families tend to be more stable; parents tend to be more involved in their children’s lives and are more highly invested in their children’s success.

7. Children living with both biological parents are 20 to 35 percent more physically healthy than children from broken homes (Dawson).

8. A study by Kinard and Reinherz found that children from two-parent homes had higher scores on verbal reasoning than those from single-parent homes.

9. Manning and Lamb found that adolescents in intact families had higher levels of academic achievement and were less likely to exhibit problem behaviors in school compared to peers living in homes where single mothers lived alone or with a cohabiting partner.

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My children were accused of being part of the Illuminati-Akothee sadly narrates

Singer Akothee always has a captivating tale to tell on her social media and this week was no different. The mother of 5 who claims to be the richest musician in Kenya has claimed that her fame and money has attracted some vitriol and attacks on her image.

In a long Instagram post Madam Boss explained that when her daughters were in primary school, teachers and students judged them because of their background, saying that it had gotten to the extent of them being accused of being members of the Illuminati.

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All because she visited her kids in a big, black car, full of foodstuffs.

“When my kids were still in primary school, some teachers judged them based on their family background, some fellow students accused them of Illuminati…”

She said the presumption from the people in school had affected her youngest daughter in the biggest way possible, so much so that she had to change schools every other time because she couldn’t handle the pressure.

My last born @fancy_makadia is a quite girl who can’t handle pressure , she is fragile based on the fact that my marriage was dissolved when she was hardly 5 this left a heavy impact on her, I visited several schools to find what her heart required 🤷, she would not say anything but her performance kept deteriorating.

Adding, “We then took her out of ULANDA GIRLS where fellow students and other teachers named her Illuminati and even told other students not to eat from her lunch box🙏🏻.”

She went on to narrate that her daughter’s bullying had gotten so bad that her fellow students were even warned not to eat from her plate.

She explained that cyberbullying is devilish and unacceptable, calling on media personalities and teachers to be cautious of how they handle families because they never know what people go through, behind the scenes.

“To all single mothers/parents, listen to your children. If a child tells you she doesn’t like a certain school or environment, please take note of what she is saying, she could be Receiving pressure from school mates, teachers etc.

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Akothee admits she’s no longer fixated on ex husband after 6 year grudge

 

Akothee’s first born daughter Vesha graduated from Strathmore University on Wednesday December 3, with a Bachelor of Commerce (BCom) degree and drove her in style to Kempinski for a party.

She had invited close family and friends and even showed off a pre dinner bill costing almost 20,000.

The main party was an all white affair where they danced the night away and we saw Akothees ex husband Jared Okello Otieno also join the girls.

Now Akothee has written a long post on Instagram about how agonizing it was for her to separate and later divorce from the father of her daughters.

She admitted it was a long journey soul searching and she is now at a place in her life where she can be friends with him and co parent.

Healing process is very painful ,but the relief is joyful ,when you now see your Ex as a friend / a partner a fellow parent and no longer an enemy, then you can now see heaven with no baggage , it took me 6 years to let go 😭😭😭, I focused more on myself and my children 💪 don’t copy my chapter 10 ,it doesn’t work easily like that , work on yourself first before you hurt yourself again

Here is the Instagram post you need to read and learn from

 

 

Bahati serenaded Vesha together with Akothee and we also saw celebs like Lilian Muli, Mc Jessy, among others attend the party.

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Thank you Maina Kageni for believing in me – Akothee says in hearty post

Musician Akothee, born Esther Akoth, is one of the most recognisable people in Kenya. The mother of 5 has become the poster child for female empowerment and can-do attitude.

Her personality has gotten a fan for her in Maina Kageni, who has tried supporting her and Kenyan music in general. The singer decided to salute this fact in a post that saluted Maina Kageni for always supporting her career and always believing in her.

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Using her Instagram page the singer shared a photo of Maina Kangeni followed by a lengthy message thanking him for looking out for her.

She said that the Classic105 presenter had always been cooperative, looking to endorse an artiste, her way and at the same time applauding her for being an amazing person to work with.

“Let me take the opportunity to thank this gentleman @mainawakageni for believing in me. Maina I have seen your praises being preached. I have received five feedbacks from five different companies. By the way, I did not even know you love, support and believe in me that much,” she said.

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She, however, asked Maina to at least call her to personally laud her or at least pick her calls. She isn’t the first popular artiste to thank Maina publicly for the impact he has in his life.

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Akothee with Maina Kageni 1

Mr. Kageni got Diamond full of mirth when he recently released the song Cheche when a video of him dancing to his hit song went viral.

The clip was shared by the Bongo star on his Instagram page as he showed his excitement at watching a Kenyan celeb appreciate his craft.

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If I was able to commit suicide in 2017, I would have – Akothee reveals dark thoughts

Esther Akothe or Akothee is one of the most famous and distinguished of entertainers in Kenya. The mother of 5 has achieved that recognition by sheer hard work and grit.

This past weekend the “Sweet Love” singer delivered a fiery speech to mark the International Day of the Girl Child, (2020) during which she opened up on tribulations that almost pushed her to suicide and her experiences in life.

The entrepreneur and philanthropist narrated her own past experiences encouraging women to shun suicide when things fail to work in their relationships.

“If your child’s father pulls out, stand strong and take care of your child. I am telling you from experience. It happened to me. In 2017, if suicide was a pass, I would have done it in 2017,” said Akothee.

Don’t lower your standards! Why Akothee’s mantra for life has worked so well for her

The singer went on to tell women that they should work on building themselves and improving. That wasn’t all, the dark-skinned beauty shocked many attendees when she said that she seduces women for her exes.

“Most baby daddies and baby mama who create scenes are the ones who have not moved on. When you have moved like Akothee…I even seduce women for my exes -Hey there is a woman who wants you and here is her number” said the mother of five.

Below is Akothee’s speech.

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Don’t lower your standards! Why Akothee’s mantra for life has worked so well for her

Akothee is one of the most remarkable women in Kenya. The singer, philanthropist, businesswoman, and social influencer have come from far.

One of her posts this week reminds us of this fact. The president of the single mothers club as she calls herself posted an image of herself while expectant with one of her sons while she was living in France.

The 40-year-old informed her fans that at the time she had already developed a taste for expensive clothes and that she wouldn’t wear anything less than KSh 20,000 at the time.

Sponsors can pay for things in your life but will never make you rich – Akothee warns

She advised her fans that they should never lower their standards and stand their ground even when pregnant adding that she could not see herself carrying a child for a man who could not move heaven and earth for her.

While I don’t agree fully with her not lowering her standards comment (as life is full of nuance and compromise), her worldview has worked out well for her. I will use her past relationships to briefly elucidate this point.

The mother of 5 has seen a lot, splitting with her first husband when they had had 3 daughters together. She left the marital home because of some problems with her then-husband Jared-Don’t lower your standards.

She would later come back for her kids and move on with a white ex-pat who would become the father of her first son. But things didn’t also go well for her and she also left him-Don’t lower your standards.

She then moved on to another white man who would become the father of her 2nd son who she also left-Don’t lower your standards.

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If he tells you that that is his baby mama 🤣🤣, ,just know that ,he is a martied man ,married men have changed tittles , they play confused in their relationships, but deep down,they know very well,they cant choose you over their wives " (baby mama) He just want to box you , so he can get a different juice 🤣, then later he will say, oooh let me respect her for the sake of our child 🤣🤣🤣, those people are actually sleeping together and planning their future minus you 🤣🤣🤣. You are the game 🙆‍♂️🙈, As for me , you have to choose A or B You can only side chicken me if you are paying my bills. if I am wealthier than you,and you want to play hide and sick with me 🤣🤣🤣 ,MR Man , go play with your mates in the field 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️, you can't come to me with an empty pocket & a baggage as well 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️, where do I start Renovating you from 🤣🤣🤣🤣,then your wife will emerge and start embarrassing me for nothing 🙄🤣🤣 Women be carefull with this baby mama tittles ,its confusion, I don't know why men do this though? Why are men not proud of their wives anymore? Where are those men who use to introduce their wives to friends ,and were proud to put on their wedding rings and carry their children on their heads ? Where are we 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️

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All in all, despite her many baby daddies, the long-legged singer has shown that her decisions were smart as she is now one of the wealthiest single women in Kenya.

This proves that her mantra works admirably well for her.

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If I die, bury me on the same day! Akothee tells her family

Singer Esther Akoth aka Akothee is one of the media personalities that I hold in high esteem. The reason is simple; She isn’t afraid to speak and fight for her truth, even if it might ruffle feathers.

The mother of 5 has a reputation for saying what crosses her mind and it seems that the “Sweet Love” singer has been thinking about death.

Yes, you read that right. Akothee, who is also an entrepreneur, made a bold confession on death, stating that she has informed her family that when her day of resting comes, she should be buried on the same day.

Sponsors can pay for things in your life but will never make you rich – Akothee warns

She made her statement ahead of the burial of her sister-in-law (Sarah Anne Atieno Kokeyo) who passed away on August 20, 2020 while in Kampala, Uganda. The funeral arrangements and the ensuing issues have made her note that she doesn’t want to go through that herself.

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It is well min ji 🙏🙏🙏 Abondona 🙏🙏🙏

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The musician narrated that nobody had checked up on her and find out if she needs help or even comfort her, and her family during this difficult time.

“The air is thin up here. Always attending my family’s funerals alone. With my security, PA and photographers. I am panicking, I have no one to comfort me, no one is even asking if I need anything or any help. But when people have funerals, the number of phone calls I get only God Knows. I am learning to be selfish too, I wish I could, be blessed,” wrote Akothee.

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Haloooo ,who is looking for me ?

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She went on to say,  “Some people are so insensitive still calling me to send them contributions for their own funerals, no one has called to ask if they could accompany me to the burial or even when the burial is 🙏 wee. This time round I am too weak to attend & witness my brother lower his wife to rest, sijui niweke kichwa wapi ? 🙆🙆🙆💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔.”

She finished off by stating that she would like to be buried the day she died. “For me, if I die today, I have asked my family to bury me the same day 😭, the trauma my mother has gone through for a month waiting for nyabondo because of the COVID situation, I can’t stand seeing her making trips to the funeral home, May The Lord comfort everyone who lost their loved ones during this hard times 🙏🙏🙏, good morning, my love 🙏.”

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If he tells you that that is his baby mama 🤣🤣, ,just know that ,he is a martied man ,married men have changed tittles , they play confused in their relationships, but deep down,they know very well,they cant choose you over their wives " (baby mama) He just want to box you , so he can get a different juice 🤣, then later he will say, oooh let me respect her for the sake of our child 🤣🤣🤣, those people are actually sleeping together and planning their future minus you 🤣🤣🤣. You are the game 🙆‍♂️🙈, As for me , you have to choose A or B You can only side chicken me if you are paying my bills. if I am wealthier than you,and you want to play hide and sick with me 🤣🤣🤣 ,MR Man , go play with your mates in the field 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️, you can't come to me with an empty pocket & a baggage as well 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️, where do I start Renovating you from 🤣🤣🤣🤣,then your wife will emerge and start embarrassing me for nothing 🙄🤣🤣 Women be carefull with this baby mama tittles ,its confusion, I don't know why men do this though? Why are men not proud of their wives anymore? Where are those men who use to introduce their wives to friends ,and were proud to put on their wedding rings and carry their children on their heads ? Where are we 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️

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Sponsors can pay for things in your life but will never make you rich – Akothee warns

Trust Kenyan singer Akothee to speak her mind on issues that might be hot-button topics. And she does so with gusto and chutzpah that is both admirable and awe-inspiring.

The singer who has been blessed with 5 kids has been on a roll this past few weeks, advising ladies about relationships and life in general.

One of the best pieces of advice that Madam Boss gave this week (and which I co-sign fully) was the word of wisdom she delivered to many ladies in Kenya.

‘If he tells you that that’s his baby mama, just know he is a married man!’ Akothee warns

In a post on her social media page, Akothee told ladies that no one will ever make them rich apart from themselves. The long-legged and fit businesswoman explained that sponsors would only invest in their lifestyles and that very few will invest capital in their businesses.

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Happy Sabbath It's kiche 🙏

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The “Sweet Love” singer cautioned ladies that they needed to be smart when dealing with sponsors because they can be vindictive;

Supervise your work. You have to be present to achieve your goals; no one will ever make you rich, not even a sponsor. A sponsor will invest in your life style, business class tickets ,five star hotels , expensive weaves 🤦, but try ask for capital for your business 🙆🙆 very few will see a potential of investing in you ,for the fear of you being independent and dumping them, sponsors are also not stupid ,they know why you are with them 🤣🤣, so they hide the white ball very far , and when they dump you for another hot cake ,you fall like a rotten tree ,for they will want to take you back where they found you or worst, infact some of them ,will even revert the things they gave you just to see you frustrated and begging 😂😂😂 sponsorship is a scam it can land bad 😂😂😂.be wise.

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‘If he tells you that that’s his baby mama, just know he is a married man!’ Akothee warns

Esther Akoth Popularly known as Akothee is one middle-aged celebrity who doesn’t mind giving advice to younger women and girls online.

The mother of 5 has lived a life that would make most a memoir so long, even at her tender age of 40! So when she says something many take notice for she has some wisdom that she has gained from her experience.

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If he tells you that that is his baby mama 🤣🤣, ,just know that ,he is a martied man ,married men have changed tittles , they play confused in their relationships, but deep down,they know very well,they cant choose you over their wives " (baby mama) He just want to box you , so he can get a different juice 🤣, then later he will say, oooh let me respect her for the sake of our child 🤣🤣🤣, those people are actually sleeping together and planning their future minus you 🤣🤣🤣. You are the game 🙆‍♂️🙈, As for me , you have to choose A or B You can only side chicken me if you are paying my bills. if I am wealthier than you,and you want to play hide and sick with me 🤣🤣🤣 ,MR Man , go play with your mates in the field 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️, you can't come to me with an empty pocket & a baggage as well 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️, where do I start Renovating you from 🤣🤣🤣🤣,then your wife will emerge and start embarrassing me for nothing 🙄🤣🤣 Women be carefull with this baby mama tittles ,its confusion, I don't know why men do this though? Why are men not proud of their wives anymore? Where are those men who use to introduce their wives to friends ,and were proud to put on their wedding rings and carry their children on their heads ? Where are we 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️

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In a post she shared on Instagram, the mother of five said that if a man tells you he has a baby mama, it means he is married.

“If he tells you that that is his baby mama 🤣🤣, ,just know that, he is a married man, married men have changed tittles, they play confused in their relationships, but deep down, they know very well, they can’t choose you over their wives ”

He beat me when I came home drunk one day – Akothee claims about ex-husband

The singer added that men act confused in relationships yet they very well know that they can’t choose you over their wives, whom they refer to as baby mamas. She explained that when a man says that, it is an excuse to sleep with the conquest as he will not leave his wife.

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Was going through some self COMMITTEE when I took this photo I asked myself 1. Am I his number 1 priority? 2. Is his life full of love triangles? 3. Is he the man I really want to settle for ? Then I called my mom , we had a long chart ! My words " Mom, of late , I feel cold around 3.00 am and I feel like the homes are too big and I miss something 🤷 I have no debts nor stress ,but my nights are shorter than normal!🤦🙏I am worried 🙏 She said " Nyakwar maaa ,I understand where you are coming from, but the world is full of deceitful people 🙏you have a big heart ,and it's easy for a man to take advantage of you 💪, To amuonyi aduoki e iya nyakwar Elsa ? Jogi Biro negona in MERWA 🙏 atimi made maa? Atleast we are talking about it now My mom is not a joke,a proper disciplinary. I wish all married women / men I. Relationships a happy endings 🙏 It gets cold and lonely out here 🙏 All those proverbs we drop Ooh single & not searching it's a lie 🤣🤣 We are just trying to get our own space in the society 🙏 But every woman needs a warm strong Arm around her 💪 Money can't buy this feeling 💪 🤣🤣🤣🙄 "Monday on blogs " AKOTHEE IS DESPERATE FOR LOVE " 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Dis people amaze me I swear 🤣🤣🤣

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“He just want to box you , so he can get a different juice 🤣, then later he will say, oooh let me respect her for the sake of our child 🤣🤣🤣, those people are actually sleeping together and planning their future minus you 🤣🤣🤣. You are the game 🙆‍♂️🙈,” said Madam Boss.

She added that she herself wouldn’t allow a man who wasn’t as wealthy as she is try to make her a side-chick as she wouldn’t want to deal with his garbage and the subsequent embarrassment if the scandal came out.

The “Sweet Love” musician also wondered why men nowadays aren’t proud of their wives;

“Women be careful with this baby mama titles, its confusion, I don’t know why men do this though? Why are men not proud of their wives anymore? Where are those men who use to introduce their wives to friends, and were proud to put on their wedding rings and carry their children on their heads? Where are we 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️,” she added.

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He beat me when I came home drunk one day – Akothee claims about ex-husband

Deeper details about musician Akothee’s past relationship with her first husband was exposed earlier this month by her own daughter, Vesha.

The interview revealed a lot about the mother of 5’s past, something that she was upset about considering she didn’t believe that was supposed to be part of the interview.

The singer has tried to get ahead of the story and has been using her huge social media platform of Instagram to give her side of the story.

Akothee looking glam
Akothee looking glam

Akothee who calls herself Madam Boss said that she continues to blame both herself and ex husband, Jared for ruining their daughters happiness when they were still young.

Divorce is worse than death – Akothee narrates her terrible past experiences

The entrepreneur who got married when she was 14 year-old said that while she had already gotten kids at age 18, life as a housewife wasn’t hard but manageable; since hubby Jared always made sure they had paid their bills on time.

Akothee weds Jared

She explained that that relative bliss didn’t last for long as she claimed that he ex had put his hand on her after she came home drunk.

She went on to say that this happened after he had been lied to by a friend but nonetheless that was a wake-up call for her.

“My own Jared was and still a humble man, he was never violent ,he had never beaten me up in front of our children, I don’t remember when we argued, we lived in harmony ,most people admired our family life ,yes we were not really broke but we were trying ,Jared was earning a salary of 15,000 ksh as an accountant,with this money ,we had to manage our 3 daughters, and live the life we understood.”

Akothee's daughter's with their father
Akothee’s daughter’s with their father

Speaking about the first she was beaten, the singer says she was lied to by a friend to take alcohol; and afterwards she claims that Jared put his hands on her;

“It’s unfortunate that the love ended without a notice. That’s the only time violence appeared, His attention was diverted and I felt left alone 🙆; so a friend of mine gave me alcohol and I came home drunk. That’s when ja SDA beat the hell out of me 🤣, Jared knows No violence. It was triggered by confusion, I had never told my children this. I was waiting for the right time to tell them why violence emerged after living peacefully for 10 solid years with their father. Some of my friends ,cheated and mislead me; one of them who used to cheat on her husband🙄. lied to me to save her number as if she is my boyfriend , so, she was to call me midnight and make Jared jelouse; on the other hand she alerted jared too. That I have a boyfriend🙆 who calls at midnight, be careful with WOMEN.🙏”

Akothee in the outfit
Akothee in the outfit

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Divorce is worse than death – Akothee narrates her terrible past experiences

Akothee’s daughter Vesha recently gave a deep interview where she spoke about her mother’s first relationship with her father that ended acrimoniously.

The interview shed light on the relationship dynamic between the singer and her first husband, something that Madam Boss wasn’t pleased about.

Vesha Okello with her father
Vesha Okello with her father

But it seems that her anger at the person who interviewed her daughter might have dissolved as she herself has started speaking about the divorce.

Akothee sends harsh warning to radio presenters over interviews with her daughters!

In a well-written post on Instagram, Akothee explained that divorce was a really bad experience for kids and that although she tried to shield her kids from seeing their father as an enemy, that wasn’t always easy.

“It’s easier said than done, but I tell you, divorce is worse than death, especially when children are involved🙏. I would never ever wish for any parents to divorce after living together for years and bring up their children as a family, I am not saying you stay in a toxic, violent unsatisfactory relationship, but if it ever happens that there is need to break up 🙆then please try to do it decently without involving your children🙏.”

Akothee
Akothee

She added that despite it all she kept her tears hidden from her kids.

“The only medal CUP I gained is trying as much as possible to cover my children’s eyes never to see their father as an enemy 💪 it was hard, I took bullets, I broke down when bills were overwhelming, my children never saw my tears, after my divorce, they only learnt about my struggles on social media, when I started sharing my past,” read part of her message.

Akothee with her daughters
Akothee with her daughters

Akothee who has 3 baby daddies explained that she made it a point for all of the men she dated to love her children equally.

“I bought them gifts every time my other children’s fathers came to visit their children with gifts,I made sure I received the gifts first💪 combine with mines and present as a family . I forced every man in my life to love my children equally 💔, but never asked them to call any of them daddy until OYOO WAS BORN it came automatically,They still had their biological father ,whom they Loved so much ,still love him ,they call him DAD,” revealed Akothee.

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Akothee sends harsh warning to radio presenters over interviews with her daughters!

Akothee has not been a happy camper this past week. The reason for that is the interview her daughter Vesha did with Radio Jambo presenter Massawe Japanni.

The interview has been the highlight of the week for many celebrity-watchers as it shed a lot of light about Akothee and her ex-husband.

Vesha Okello with her father
Vesha Okello with her father

This forced Esther Akoth aka Akothee to caution all presenters looking forward to interview her daughters and younger sister Cebbie to be cautious with the kind of questions they ask.

I used to blame my dad for their divorce – Akothee’s daughter Vesha remembers

She added that those who interviewed her kids should keep off her children’s painful past and focus on important issues because they will never understand why they are being raised in a single family.

“To all presenters, gossipers and the rest, keep off my children’s past out of your interviews/ mouths, anytime you call any of my children for an interview, stick to the questions you said you will ask. Don’t try to gain impact with my children’s painful past, they don’t know and will never understand why they are raised in a single-family 💔 in as much as they play strong ,there is a broken heart somewhere 💔 the stigma they have gone through,is enough.”

Akothee with her relatives in the past
Akothee with her relatives in the past

Madam Boss went ahead to ask those interviewing her kids to be to be sensitive about other people’s family and to avoid mentioning her name when interviewing her sister Cebbie because she is a brand on her own.

“The fact that your homes are not out on social media ,doesn’t mean you people are living a fantastic life, I am happy that your children wake up and can call mummy and daddy , they can see both of you cuddle and it provides a sense of security 💪 be happy while it lasts .You have never felt the pain of rejection and divorce . So leave us alone. Some of the presenters are stuck in toxic marriages just to keep the face for the public ! The same shit you condon in your marriages, just to keep a name ,is the same shit that made some of us thrown out 🙏it was not our wish .

Akothee with Vesha Okello
Akothee with Vesha Okello

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