If I was able to commit suicide in 2017, I would have – Akothee reveals dark thoughts

Esther Akothe or Akothee is one of the most famous and distinguished of entertainers in Kenya. The mother of 5 has achieved that recognition by sheer hard work and grit.

This past weekend the “Sweet Love” singer delivered a fiery speech to mark the International Day of the Girl Child, (2020) during which she opened up on tribulations that almost pushed her to suicide and her experiences in life.

The entrepreneur and philanthropist narrated her own past experiences encouraging women to shun suicide when things fail to work in their relationships.

“If your child’s father pulls out, stand strong and take care of your child. I am telling you from experience. It happened to me. In 2017, if suicide was a pass, I would have done it in 2017,” said Akothee.

Don’t lower your standards! Why Akothee’s mantra for life has worked so well for her

The singer went on to tell women that they should work on building themselves and improving. That wasn’t all, the dark-skinned beauty shocked many attendees when she said that she seduces women for her exes.

“Most baby daddies and baby mama who create scenes are the ones who have not moved on. When you have moved like Akothee…I even seduce women for my exes -Hey there is a woman who wants you and here is her number” said the mother of five.

Below is Akothee’s speech.

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Don’t lower your standards! Why Akothee’s mantra for life has worked so well for her

Akothee is one of the most remarkable women in Kenya. The singer, philanthropist, businesswoman, and social influencer have come from far.

One of her posts this week reminds us of this fact. The president of the single mothers club as she calls herself posted an image of herself while expectant with one of her sons while she was living in France.

The 40-year-old informed her fans that at the time she had already developed a taste for expensive clothes and that she wouldn’t wear anything less than KSh 20,000 at the time.

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She advised her fans that they should never lower their standards and stand their ground even when pregnant adding that she could not see herself carrying a child for a man who could not move heaven and earth for her.

While I don’t agree fully with her not lowering her standards comment (as life is full of nuance and compromise), her worldview has worked out well for her. I will use her past relationships to briefly elucidate this point.

The mother of 5 has seen a lot, splitting with her first husband when they had had 3 daughters together. She left the marital home because of some problems with her then-husband Jared-Don’t lower your standards.

She would later come back for her kids and move on with a white ex-pat who would become the father of her first son. But things didn’t also go well for her and she also left him-Don’t lower your standards.

She then moved on to another white man who would become the father of her 2nd son who she also left-Don’t lower your standards.

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If he tells you that that is his baby mama 🤣🤣, ,just know that ,he is a martied man ,married men have changed tittles , they play confused in their relationships, but deep down,they know very well,they cant choose you over their wives " (baby mama) He just want to box you , so he can get a different juice 🤣, then later he will say, oooh let me respect her for the sake of our child 🤣🤣🤣, those people are actually sleeping together and planning their future minus you 🤣🤣🤣. You are the game 🙆‍♂️🙈, As for me , you have to choose A or B You can only side chicken me if you are paying my bills. if I am wealthier than you,and you want to play hide and sick with me 🤣🤣🤣 ,MR Man , go play with your mates in the field 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️, you can't come to me with an empty pocket & a baggage as well 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️, where do I start Renovating you from 🤣🤣🤣🤣,then your wife will emerge and start embarrassing me for nothing 🙄🤣🤣 Women be carefull with this baby mama tittles ,its confusion, I don't know why men do this though? Why are men not proud of their wives anymore? Where are those men who use to introduce their wives to friends ,and were proud to put on their wedding rings and carry their children on their heads ? Where are we 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️

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All in all, despite her many baby daddies, the long-legged singer has shown that her decisions were smart as she is now one of the wealthiest single women in Kenya.

This proves that her mantra works admirably well for her.

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If I die, bury me on the same day! Akothee tells her family

Singer Esther Akoth aka Akothee is one of the media personalities that I hold in high esteem. The reason is simple; She isn’t afraid to speak and fight for her truth, even if it might ruffle feathers.

The mother of 5 has a reputation for saying what crosses her mind and it seems that the “Sweet Love” singer has been thinking about death.

Yes, you read that right. Akothee, who is also an entrepreneur, made a bold confession on death, stating that she has informed her family that when her day of resting comes, she should be buried on the same day.

Sponsors can pay for things in your life but will never make you rich – Akothee warns

She made her statement ahead of the burial of her sister-in-law (Sarah Anne Atieno Kokeyo) who passed away on August 20, 2020 while in Kampala, Uganda. The funeral arrangements and the ensuing issues have made her note that she doesn’t want to go through that herself.

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It is well min ji 🙏🙏🙏 Abondona 🙏🙏🙏

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The musician narrated that nobody had checked up on her and find out if she needs help or even comfort her, and her family during this difficult time.

“The air is thin up here. Always attending my family’s funerals alone. With my security, PA and photographers. I am panicking, I have no one to comfort me, no one is even asking if I need anything or any help. But when people have funerals, the number of phone calls I get only God Knows. I am learning to be selfish too, I wish I could, be blessed,” wrote Akothee.

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Haloooo ,who is looking for me ?

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She went on to say,  “Some people are so insensitive still calling me to send them contributions for their own funerals, no one has called to ask if they could accompany me to the burial or even when the burial is 🙏 wee. This time round I am too weak to attend & witness my brother lower his wife to rest, sijui niweke kichwa wapi ? 🙆🙆🙆💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔.”

She finished off by stating that she would like to be buried the day she died. “For me, if I die today, I have asked my family to bury me the same day 😭, the trauma my mother has gone through for a month waiting for nyabondo because of the COVID situation, I can’t stand seeing her making trips to the funeral home, May The Lord comfort everyone who lost their loved ones during this hard times 🙏🙏🙏, good morning, my love 🙏.”

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If he tells you that that is his baby mama 🤣🤣, ,just know that ,he is a martied man ,married men have changed tittles , they play confused in their relationships, but deep down,they know very well,they cant choose you over their wives " (baby mama) He just want to box you , so he can get a different juice 🤣, then later he will say, oooh let me respect her for the sake of our child 🤣🤣🤣, those people are actually sleeping together and planning their future minus you 🤣🤣🤣. You are the game 🙆‍♂️🙈, As for me , you have to choose A or B You can only side chicken me if you are paying my bills. if I am wealthier than you,and you want to play hide and sick with me 🤣🤣🤣 ,MR Man , go play with your mates in the field 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️, you can't come to me with an empty pocket & a baggage as well 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️, where do I start Renovating you from 🤣🤣🤣🤣,then your wife will emerge and start embarrassing me for nothing 🙄🤣🤣 Women be carefull with this baby mama tittles ,its confusion, I don't know why men do this though? Why are men not proud of their wives anymore? Where are those men who use to introduce their wives to friends ,and were proud to put on their wedding rings and carry their children on their heads ? Where are we 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️

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Sponsors can pay for things in your life but will never make you rich – Akothee warns

Trust Kenyan singer Akothee to speak her mind on issues that might be hot-button topics. And she does so with gusto and chutzpah that is both admirable and awe-inspiring.

The singer who has been blessed with 5 kids has been on a roll this past few weeks, advising ladies about relationships and life in general.

One of the best pieces of advice that Madam Boss gave this week (and which I co-sign fully) was the word of wisdom she delivered to many ladies in Kenya.

‘If he tells you that that’s his baby mama, just know he is a married man!’ Akothee warns

In a post on her social media page, Akothee told ladies that no one will ever make them rich apart from themselves. The long-legged and fit businesswoman explained that sponsors would only invest in their lifestyles and that very few will invest capital in their businesses.

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Happy Sabbath It's kiche 🙏

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The “Sweet Love” singer cautioned ladies that they needed to be smart when dealing with sponsors because they can be vindictive;

Supervise your work. You have to be present to achieve your goals; no one will ever make you rich, not even a sponsor. A sponsor will invest in your life style, business class tickets ,five star hotels , expensive weaves 🤦, but try ask for capital for your business 🙆🙆 very few will see a potential of investing in you ,for the fear of you being independent and dumping them, sponsors are also not stupid ,they know why you are with them 🤣🤣, so they hide the white ball very far , and when they dump you for another hot cake ,you fall like a rotten tree ,for they will want to take you back where they found you or worst, infact some of them ,will even revert the things they gave you just to see you frustrated and begging 😂😂😂 sponsorship is a scam it can land bad 😂😂😂.be wise.

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‘If he tells you that that’s his baby mama, just know he is a married man!’ Akothee warns

Esther Akoth Popularly known as Akothee is one middle-aged celebrity who doesn’t mind giving advice to younger women and girls online.

The mother of 5 has lived a life that would make most a memoir so long, even at her tender age of 40! So when she says something many take notice for she has some wisdom that she has gained from her experience.

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If he tells you that that is his baby mama 🤣🤣, ,just know that ,he is a martied man ,married men have changed tittles , they play confused in their relationships, but deep down,they know very well,they cant choose you over their wives " (baby mama) He just want to box you , so he can get a different juice 🤣, then later he will say, oooh let me respect her for the sake of our child 🤣🤣🤣, those people are actually sleeping together and planning their future minus you 🤣🤣🤣. You are the game 🙆‍♂️🙈, As for me , you have to choose A or B You can only side chicken me if you are paying my bills. if I am wealthier than you,and you want to play hide and sick with me 🤣🤣🤣 ,MR Man , go play with your mates in the field 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️, you can't come to me with an empty pocket & a baggage as well 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️, where do I start Renovating you from 🤣🤣🤣🤣,then your wife will emerge and start embarrassing me for nothing 🙄🤣🤣 Women be carefull with this baby mama tittles ,its confusion, I don't know why men do this though? Why are men not proud of their wives anymore? Where are those men who use to introduce their wives to friends ,and were proud to put on their wedding rings and carry their children on their heads ? Where are we 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️

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In a post she shared on Instagram, the mother of five said that if a man tells you he has a baby mama, it means he is married.

“If he tells you that that is his baby mama 🤣🤣, ,just know that, he is a married man, married men have changed tittles, they play confused in their relationships, but deep down, they know very well, they can’t choose you over their wives ”

He beat me when I came home drunk one day – Akothee claims about ex-husband

The singer added that men act confused in relationships yet they very well know that they can’t choose you over their wives, whom they refer to as baby mamas. She explained that when a man says that, it is an excuse to sleep with the conquest as he will not leave his wife.

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Was going through some self COMMITTEE when I took this photo I asked myself 1. Am I his number 1 priority? 2. Is his life full of love triangles? 3. Is he the man I really want to settle for ? Then I called my mom , we had a long chart ! My words " Mom, of late , I feel cold around 3.00 am and I feel like the homes are too big and I miss something 🤷 I have no debts nor stress ,but my nights are shorter than normal!🤦🙏I am worried 🙏 She said " Nyakwar maaa ,I understand where you are coming from, but the world is full of deceitful people 🙏you have a big heart ,and it's easy for a man to take advantage of you 💪, To amuonyi aduoki e iya nyakwar Elsa ? Jogi Biro negona in MERWA 🙏 atimi made maa? Atleast we are talking about it now My mom is not a joke,a proper disciplinary. I wish all married women / men I. Relationships a happy endings 🙏 It gets cold and lonely out here 🙏 All those proverbs we drop Ooh single & not searching it's a lie 🤣🤣 We are just trying to get our own space in the society 🙏 But every woman needs a warm strong Arm around her 💪 Money can't buy this feeling 💪 🤣🤣🤣🙄 "Monday on blogs " AKOTHEE IS DESPERATE FOR LOVE " 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Dis people amaze me I swear 🤣🤣🤣

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“He just want to box you , so he can get a different juice 🤣, then later he will say, oooh let me respect her for the sake of our child 🤣🤣🤣, those people are actually sleeping together and planning their future minus you 🤣🤣🤣. You are the game 🙆‍♂️🙈,” said Madam Boss.

She added that she herself wouldn’t allow a man who wasn’t as wealthy as she is try to make her a side-chick as she wouldn’t want to deal with his garbage and the subsequent embarrassment if the scandal came out.

The “Sweet Love” musician also wondered why men nowadays aren’t proud of their wives;

“Women be careful with this baby mama titles, its confusion, I don’t know why men do this though? Why are men not proud of their wives anymore? Where are those men who use to introduce their wives to friends, and were proud to put on their wedding rings and carry their children on their heads? Where are we 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️,” she added.

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He beat me when I came home drunk one day – Akothee claims about ex-husband

Deeper details about musician Akothee’s past relationship with her first husband was exposed earlier this month by her own daughter, Vesha.

The interview revealed a lot about the mother of 5’s past, something that she was upset about considering she didn’t believe that was supposed to be part of the interview.

The singer has tried to get ahead of the story and has been using her huge social media platform of Instagram to give her side of the story.

Akothee looking glam
Akothee looking glam

Akothee who calls herself Madam Boss said that she continues to blame both herself and ex husband, Jared for ruining their daughters happiness when they were still young.

Divorce is worse than death – Akothee narrates her terrible past experiences

The entrepreneur who got married when she was 14 year-old said that while she had already gotten kids at age 18, life as a housewife wasn’t hard but manageable; since hubby Jared always made sure they had paid their bills on time.

Akothee weds Jared

She explained that that relative bliss didn’t last for long as she claimed that he ex had put his hand on her after she came home drunk.

She went on to say that this happened after he had been lied to by a friend but nonetheless that was a wake-up call for her.

“My own Jared was and still a humble man, he was never violent ,he had never beaten me up in front of our children, I don’t remember when we argued, we lived in harmony ,most people admired our family life ,yes we were not really broke but we were trying ,Jared was earning a salary of 15,000 ksh as an accountant,with this money ,we had to manage our 3 daughters, and live the life we understood.”

Akothee's daughter's with their father
Akothee’s daughter’s with their father

Speaking about the first she was beaten, the singer says she was lied to by a friend to take alcohol; and afterwards she claims that Jared put his hands on her;

“It’s unfortunate that the love ended without a notice. That’s the only time violence appeared, His attention was diverted and I felt left alone 🙆; so a friend of mine gave me alcohol and I came home drunk. That’s when ja SDA beat the hell out of me 🤣, Jared knows No violence. It was triggered by confusion, I had never told my children this. I was waiting for the right time to tell them why violence emerged after living peacefully for 10 solid years with their father. Some of my friends ,cheated and mislead me; one of them who used to cheat on her husband🙄. lied to me to save her number as if she is my boyfriend , so, she was to call me midnight and make Jared jelouse; on the other hand she alerted jared too. That I have a boyfriend🙆 who calls at midnight, be careful with WOMEN.🙏”

Akothee in the outfit
Akothee in the outfit

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Divorce is worse than death – Akothee narrates her terrible past experiences

Akothee’s daughter Vesha recently gave a deep interview where she spoke about her mother’s first relationship with her father that ended acrimoniously.

The interview shed light on the relationship dynamic between the singer and her first husband, something that Madam Boss wasn’t pleased about.

Vesha Okello with her father
Vesha Okello with her father

But it seems that her anger at the person who interviewed her daughter might have dissolved as she herself has started speaking about the divorce.

Akothee sends harsh warning to radio presenters over interviews with her daughters!

In a well-written post on Instagram, Akothee explained that divorce was a really bad experience for kids and that although she tried to shield her kids from seeing their father as an enemy, that wasn’t always easy.

“It’s easier said than done, but I tell you, divorce is worse than death, especially when children are involved🙏. I would never ever wish for any parents to divorce after living together for years and bring up their children as a family, I am not saying you stay in a toxic, violent unsatisfactory relationship, but if it ever happens that there is need to break up 🙆then please try to do it decently without involving your children🙏.”

Akothee
Akothee

She added that despite it all she kept her tears hidden from her kids.

“The only medal CUP I gained is trying as much as possible to cover my children’s eyes never to see their father as an enemy 💪 it was hard, I took bullets, I broke down when bills were overwhelming, my children never saw my tears, after my divorce, they only learnt about my struggles on social media, when I started sharing my past,” read part of her message.

Akothee with her daughters
Akothee with her daughters

Akothee who has 3 baby daddies explained that she made it a point for all of the men she dated to love her children equally.

“I bought them gifts every time my other children’s fathers came to visit their children with gifts,I made sure I received the gifts first💪 combine with mines and present as a family . I forced every man in my life to love my children equally 💔, but never asked them to call any of them daddy until OYOO WAS BORN it came automatically,They still had their biological father ,whom they Loved so much ,still love him ,they call him DAD,” revealed Akothee.

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Akothee sends harsh warning to radio presenters over interviews with her daughters!

Akothee has not been a happy camper this past week. The reason for that is the interview her daughter Vesha did with Radio Jambo presenter Massawe Japanni.

The interview has been the highlight of the week for many celebrity-watchers as it shed a lot of light about Akothee and her ex-husband.

Vesha Okello with her father
Vesha Okello with her father

This forced Esther Akoth aka Akothee to caution all presenters looking forward to interview her daughters and younger sister Cebbie to be cautious with the kind of questions they ask.

I used to blame my dad for their divorce – Akothee’s daughter Vesha remembers

She added that those who interviewed her kids should keep off her children’s painful past and focus on important issues because they will never understand why they are being raised in a single family.

“To all presenters, gossipers and the rest, keep off my children’s past out of your interviews/ mouths, anytime you call any of my children for an interview, stick to the questions you said you will ask. Don’t try to gain impact with my children’s painful past, they don’t know and will never understand why they are raised in a single-family 💔 in as much as they play strong ,there is a broken heart somewhere 💔 the stigma they have gone through,is enough.”

Akothee with her relatives in the past
Akothee with her relatives in the past

Madam Boss went ahead to ask those interviewing her kids to be to be sensitive about other people’s family and to avoid mentioning her name when interviewing her sister Cebbie because she is a brand on her own.

“The fact that your homes are not out on social media ,doesn’t mean you people are living a fantastic life, I am happy that your children wake up and can call mummy and daddy , they can see both of you cuddle and it provides a sense of security 💪 be happy while it lasts .You have never felt the pain of rejection and divorce . So leave us alone. Some of the presenters are stuck in toxic marriages just to keep the face for the public ! The same shit you condon in your marriages, just to keep a name ,is the same shit that made some of us thrown out 🙏it was not our wish .

Akothee with Vesha Okello
Akothee with Vesha Okello

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I used to blame my dad for their divorce – Akothee’s daughter Vesha remembers

Akothee loves her 5 kids. That is known. The singer’s children are a perfect reflection of who she is-tough, strong, fiercely independent, and speaks her mind.

Akothee with her daughters
Akothee with her daughters

One of her daughters recently spoke about her mother in a detailed interview with Massawe Jappani. Vesha Okello explained how her parent’s separation when she was in class 4 had been a really tough period.

“My parents separated when I was in class four. I could not understand why they had to break up. One day they were arguing and I locked them up in a room and told them I would not open until they reconciled. I used to see on TV that divorced parents could still work out, so I didn’t understand why mine were not making things work.”

Vesha Okello

Their argument made Akothee park up and leave and didn’t communicate with her kids for 2 months.

“My mum left and never communicated at all, no one knew where she was. We did not hear from her for like two months, my dad then left us with his mother and went to look for a job.”

According to Vesha at some point she even started feeling like an orphan thanks to the way she was being treated!

“I used to feel like an orphan. I would mop the house and an uncle of mine would come with muddy shoes and dirt the house. So I had to mop again. She then sent my aunt Cebbie to come and pick us up and we joined her (mum) in Nairobi.”

Vesha Okello
Vesha Okello

Vesha then went on to explain that she still didn’t understand why her parents had split up and for a time blamed her father for the divorce.

“I felt like I could not forgive him but my mum kept telling me that he was still my dad and I had to forgive him. At the time I felt like he was the problem. All this time he never explained why they were arguing in front of us. To date, he has never explained why the two divorced. But right now we are very good friends. We talk and he advises me, now that I’m grown up I understand things better.”

Vesha Okello
Vesha Okello

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I locked them up in a bedroom they deal with their issues! Akothee’s daughter narrates

Akothee is one celebrity who doesn’t mind sharing deep and personal details about her own life. The mother of 5 has ascended the heights of celebrity and not looked back since she boldly came on the scene a few years ago.

The singer has had a fascinating life with one of the most interesting facts about her being that she has 3 baby daddies and with whom she gets along at the moment.

Akothee with Vesha Okello
Akothee with Vesha Okello

But that wasn’t always the case as the business ladies daughter Vesha Okello attested to recently. The socialite has explained that her father, Jared Okello and Akothee fought a lot when they were married and didn’t see eye to eye forcing her to leave her husband and kids at their marital home.

My love for Akothee is crazy, she is more of my mother – Cebbie says about sister

The 40-year-old’s daughter said relatives tried searching for her but no one knew where Akothee was hiding for a couple of weeks.

“She was silent, my dad did not know what to do with three girls and he always wondered where my mum had gone to,” Vesha remembered. “I remember locking them up in a bedroom and demanding that they sought out their issues if they wanted to be released,” she said during an interview with Radio Jambo.

Vesha Okello with her father
Vesha Okello with her father

But hopes springs eternal for Vesha as she had faith that her parents would one day get back together and not only that, stay together forever.

But things would not have that Disney ending as they permanently separated when she was only four years old which confirms Akothee’s own testimony about what marriage means to her.

Vesha Okello
Vesha Okello

The president of the single mothers club has previously said that she was never cut out for marriage because she was hard-headed and always wanted to be free but that she still respected him despite their past.

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My love for Akothee is crazy, she is more of my mother – Cebbie says about sister

Elseba Kokeyo popularly known as Cebbie Koks Nyasego who is sister to Akothee has been trending for all the wrong reasons.

The reason for this is the beef that has been escalating between her and her sister that has played out in public. No it seems that she is ready to set the record straight on what has been going on.

Akothee with her relatives in the past
Akothee with her relatives in the past

She recently appeared on Jalang’o’s YouTube show where she explained that nothing, and no one can come in between her and the elder sister.

She noted that Akothee had been the one who took care of her when they were younger, meaning that their bond was very strong.

Akothee out in public
Akothee out in public

She added that she loved her older sister with all her heart. She said;

“My love for Akothee is crazy. I love Akothee so much, she is more of my mother and I grew up under her care. So I think there’s nothing that can shake the bond between us, maybe death. If she lost me today or I lose her, that will shake the bond because I know I shall have lost her. But everything else is secondary to our bond and our friendship and our relationship. She is someone I look up to, she is someone I can defend from here to wherever, with every drop of my blood.”

Cebbie Koks Nyasego
Cebbie Koks Nyasego

He added, “I love her so much and I respect her so anyone thinking they can come in between us I think I’ll say pole for you,” said Cebbie.

‘They have bewitched me not to get another child’ Akothee regrets sharing her dreams

This comes after blogger Edgar Obare has exposed screenshots that allegedly came from a conversation Ms Cebbie had with a friend talking ill of the “Sweet Love” singer.

Cebbie Koks Nyasego

Akothee later shared a long message talking about sibling rivalry, which some interpreted as her response to the on-going war between the two.

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It’s not sibling rivalry, just jealousy – Akothee speaks about beef with sister

Akothee is one of the few celebrities that takes no prisoners when she engages in beef. The mother of 5 has no qualms about going hard on anyone that comes at her in a way that she dislikes.

Thing is that the singer even takes down her own family without fear or shame. One scandal that has dominated her life this past month has concerned her younger sister, Cebbie koks Nyasego.

Akothee with her relatives in the past
Akothee with her relatives in the past

And it seems that it will not end anytime soon, with Madam Boss as she calls herself saying that it was a cover-up for jealousy, saying that she wished she also had a bigger sister who could cuddle her.

Help me choose which baby daddy to get another child with! Akothee tells fans

Her long post is below;

“Treat them the same way you would treat your own mother, there is nothing like sibling rivalry, it’s a cover up for jealousy, never try to compete with someone who is older than you. They are still your seniors🙏 I wish I had an older sister that could cuddle me and tell me all will be okey , one that would help me sort out my bills when things are thick, one that my children can visit and I feel well , my own kids are good in my moms hands 🙏🙏.”

Akothee in the outfit
Akothee in the outfit

She went on to add;

“But if your sisters does motherly things to you ,and you keep hurting her , and expect her to always forgive and take you back as usual 🙏 I am sorry ,time changes and people grow up 💪 once you grow up ,please pick up yourself and start taking care of your sister the same way you would take care of your own mother when they are old and when they need you 💪 you can’t just be a taker always ,givers also get tired 🙏. Give back a hand to those who saw you grow . If your elderly sister saw you through education and now you are working , please ,, shop for her if not every month ,then atleast 2 times a year 🙏 surprise her even if she is rich or stable ,buy her small things like ,Dera,lesos ,cloths ( by the way ,rich people appreciate gifts ,not because they can’t buy ,but simply because , someone has thought about them” reads part of Akothee’s post.

Akothee posing in white

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Help me choose which baby daddy to get another child with! Akothee tells fans

Wherever Akothee is, one can expect drama, entertainment and plenty of laughs. The mother of 5 isn’t afraid to address difficult areas in her life.

Yesterday, the singer who has 3 baby daddies tickled her fans with a hilarious question. She asked them to choose which of her 2 white baby daddies should impregnate her with her 6th child?

Akothee with her daughters
Akothee with her daughters

She explained that she wanted to go to France as soon as possible as she craves the touch of a man and has no choice but to decide which of her baby daddies she should get physical with.

‘Whether he is working or not, provide for your families’, Akothee tells women

She also explained that she wanted the 6th kid to be from a man she had already had a kid with. Interesting thing is that the businesswoman only had good things to say about her two white baby daddies, saying that they were all worthy.

Akothee with one of her baby daddies
Akothee with one of her white baby daddies

Akothee has been very honest about her situation saying that she misses her kids who are almost always away and that she gets lonely. Getting a child for her would be a way of fixing that issue.

“You know this dry spell? I want to get a baby and I want the seed to be from within the family. So who should give me the baby? You guys should tell me,” she said.

Just to show that the “Oyoyo” singer isn’t one to shy away from difficult topics, the singer recently explained the reason she had unfollowed great friend Zari on her Instagram page.

Akothee has defended her decision, saying she is tired of pretending that the two are still buddies but not social-media mates.

 “It doesn’t have to be breaking news when I decide to unfollow some of my colleagues in the industry of social media. It’s a way of getting fresh air,” she said.
Akothee hanging with Zari
Akothee hanging with Zari

“Some of them I would defend with my uterus when they are attacked, but they will not come to my rescue when it’s my turn, they will coil their tail and come back when the storm is calm, but I understand, maybe they fear bloggers or they have underlying issues.”

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Great friends Akothee and Zari Hassan unfollow each other on Instagram

Akothee and Zari have been defined as friend goals among many women. The two celebrities have been supportive of each other through the many challenges and scandals they have faced over time.

The two have also spent time together going on vacations together showing that their relationship wasn’t just based on lip service.

Akothee hanging with Zari
Akothee hanging with Zari

But it seems that things might have fallen apart between the two. Keen Tanzanian blogs were first to comment on the fact that the two had unfollowed each on their respective Instagram pages.

Unfollowing in this social media age is a strong indication/precursor to show that a relationship is in trouble or has become obsolete.

‘Whether he is working or not, provide for your families’, Akothee tells women

The two haven’t been seen commenting on each other’s posts in recent times, a tell that they might not be close as they were anymore.

Akothee hanging with Zari
Akothee hanging with Zari

Zari used to comment a lot on Akothee’s posts while the Kenyan singer has also been silent not mentioning the Ugandan socialite by name anymore.

In 2019, Zari had been hosted by Akothee who took her golfing while in Kenya. Zari even asked Akothee to return the favour by visiting South Africa where she resides.

The president of single mothers agreed and promised that she would do so. It would be sad if indeed the two aren’t friends anymore as they ave more similarities than most.

Akothee hanging with Zari
Akothee hanging with Zari

They are both single mothers. They both have 5 kids. They both have/had complicated relationships with their baby daddies. They have all done well for themselves financially.

In essence, they looked like kindred spirits…

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Akothee responds after family member alleged that she couldn’t pay fees for her kids

Some of the deepest wounds inflicted on us are caused by those closest to you. This phrase is one that Akothee might be deeply familiar with after being caught up in a controversy that involves the singer and her sister.

The hullabaloo she is involved with started after YouTuber Edgar Obare released communications showing alleged texts from one of Akothee’s family members which claimed that the famous businesswoman was struggling financially.

Akothee out in public
Akothee out in public

The alleged texts from the family member went on to claim that she couldn’t even pay for her children’s school fees. The philanthropist has finally responded to the hurtful texts saying that people had been trying to control her charitable organisation for their own ends.

“When people wanted to own my life and jump onto my success, using Akothee Foundation that is hardly a year old, with no sponsors or donors as a way of hurting me! I had to put it on hold and concentrate on my life and my children! It hurts when you do things innocently and people feel entitled,” she wrote.

I was not born to cause pain – Akothee as she finds out adopted son cruelly lied to her

She also added that she was been accused of having money problems because she had stopped helping family members except for her own parents.

Akothee in tights
Akothee in tights

She explained that her family wasn’t aware of the financial might that she had noting that they didn’t know who was responsible for handling those finances.

Despite her disappointment with how her family had treated her, Akothee said that she would always love her family.

“Since I stopped dishing out money and attending to family problems apart from my parents and grandparents, I am hardly loved. My family has no idea of my wealth nor my whereabouts, even if I die today, they have no idea of whom is handling my will or bill’s, they are guests in my life. I respect and love my family very much and the only way to keep the relationship is to love them from afar since I have no option but to love them,” the mother of five said.

Akothee with her daughters
Akothee with her daughters

While ending her emotional message, Akothee even reminded fans that the only people who had visited her when she was in Karen hospital after her stage accident last year were her children, friends, employees, fans, and her insurance company.

This last incident was a confirmation of who her close circle is.

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Hot Chocolate! Meet Akothee’s future brother in law

Akothee’s younger sister Cebbie over the weekend accepted a marriage proposal from a tall, dark and handsome fiance.

While Akothee was not present for the romantic moment, she has commented and praised her sister.

Akothee has asked her sister if her fiance has a friend or a workmate. Thirsty much?

I still love you though with your all talk baby! Nyashinski and wife argue in cute video

Cebbies fiance Juspus Rusana  is a doctor and went down on one knee to ask her to marry him. He also surprised her with a car at the same moment.

Girls here are pictures of Juspus to drool over as we try to stay warm this cold weather:

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I was not born to cause pain – Akothee as she finds out adopted son cruelly lied to her

Akothee is well-known in Kenya for her giving heart. The mother of 5 is probably the most philanthropic celebrity that we have in Kenya.

In fact, Esther as her I.D reads has her own philanthropic organisation where she tries to help women and children in impoverished areas in Kenya.

Akothee in Turkana
Akothee in Turkana

In that vein and spirit she has adopted several kids and taken them under her wing, paying their fees and even feeding them.

But life is not as straightforward as most of us would want it. It has transpired that one of the orphan’s madam boss was taking care of isn’t actually an orphan.

Akothee with Shadrack

Akothee revealed this information on her Instagram page telling her fans that she had found out that the boy had another family that was alive and kicking.

The musician has discovered that the disabled boy Shadrack Mwita, had lied about being an orphan and had a mum who was alive and kicking despite lying that she had died in a grisly road accident – an accident he claimed had caused his disability.

Women envied me over my white baby daddy but they didn’t know how I was suffering – Akothee

Akothee briefed her fans starting out by letting them know that the boy was now fine and had recovered.

“Mission Accomplished. ❤❤❤❤Shadrack Mwita has fully recovered now🙏🏾 and can hold and carry heavy things, he can stand on his feet and fend for himself other than begging due to disability👊.”

Akothee's adopted son, Shadrack
Akothee’s adopted son, Shadrack

She then explained the bombshell she had just experienced explaining how the boy had told her,

“Shadrack’s Family reappeared in the picture,and the pressure was too much for me to handle 🙏🏾. I can’t continue living eating in a palace ,while my family is suffering, , as I promised my family ,that I am going to Mombasa to look for a life ,and once i am successful, I will come and change their lives too So I want mama to go and build for my grand mother a house next week ,says shadrack ” 🙏🏾🙏🏾”

The news had shocked her so much but she took it in stride,

“This was a shock to me, as before this ,he started becoming very negative, Moody and this was scary to me 💪 I didn’t know how to handle this , however when I met shadrack ,he told me he had no one 🙏🏾”

Akothee with Shadrack
Akothee with Shadrack

Despite the lying and the disappointment, Akothee was still willing to help Shadrack and explained what she would do for him saying, “Moving forward , Shadrack has his own rented house fully paid for a whole year 💪 I am still looking for a business that he can do , so he will help himself and meet his families demands 🙏🏾, He is still under my custody and I make sure he has food and basic needs”

Concluding succinctly, “I was not born to cause pain ,I was born to provide solutions.”

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Women envied me over my white baby daddy but they didn’t know how I was suffering – Akothee

Akothee is 40 years old right now. The mother of 5 has lived such a dramatic and captivating life over the years that it would surely make a great movie were someone to make it.

The singer, businesswoman, philanthropist and social leader always seems to reveal a cool and interesting antidote about herself week in week out.

Akothee posing in her office

This past week wasn’t any different as the “Rollam” singer took her fans down memory lane where she described her tough relationship with her first white baby daddy.

Esther (the singer’s real names) explained that although many women might have been envious about her “entanglement” with a white man, she was suffering silently.

‘I was only showing up in bed, Akothee reminisces on how she was poor in bed

She revealed that at one time during her relationship with the mzungu baby daddy that she was six months pregnant and the father of her child was rarely at home.

Akothee with her two sons
Akothee with her two sons

She related that Papa Ojwang (the white baby daddy) used to come home at 2am, while sometimes leaving the house as late as 11pm claiming to be going out for a drink. But on one night she followed him and found him going to a certain woman’s home in Mtwapa whom he saw almost every night.

“Women were jealous of me after I snatched papa Ojwang, ,They never knew the sleepless empty nights I had, I was craving for him to even hold my hands while going shopping at the then Nakumat mmm, my baby would walk 10 Meters away from, the father of my son was never at home ,He was coming home @2.00 am ,even after I struggled to Cook for him and gave him some JB 🙄😭😭😭, the niga would still leave at 11.00 pm saying he is going for a drink at Safari in ,he will come back ,my niga ended up in kasorina ,and came back home at 2.00 am, one day, I decided to follow his car ,( he was driving my car ,which I gave him ) upon arriving in mtwapa, he packed the car in vichochoro ,I could not figure out which house he went into ,I suppose it was one girl he always talked about ,her Name was” Amore ” but they were several so I don’t know who 🙄 , I lost hope and went back home as it was scary to just pack there yet I was 6 months pregnant,🙄,” said Akothee.

Akothee with one of her baby daddies
Akothee with one of her white baby daddies

When the mzungu baby daddy returned home at 5 in the morning, he hid something under the mattress, which the singer found out was condoms.

According to Akothee, she could not do anything because she did not have the strength and was afraid of losing him because she was in love. All she could do was cry.

She concluded that after her experiences she had stopped chasing a man for love and used that energy to “fight for rice in funerals and weddings”

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