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Trust Kenyan singer Akothee to speak her mind on issues that might be hot-button topics. And she does so with gusto and chutzpah that is both admirable and awe-inspiring.

The singer who has been blessed with 5 kids has been on a roll this past few weeks, advising ladies about relationships and life in general.

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Anyone who hates or hurts your mother , is automatically a families enemy . Please take my word 🙏🏾 nothing will be done under the table that will not come to light., always be true to yourselves @rue.baby @veshashaillan @fancy_makadia love you

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One of the best pieces of advice that Madam Boss gave this week (and which I co-sign fully) was the word of wisdom she delivered to many ladies in Kenya.

‘If he tells you that that’s his baby mama, just know he is a married man!’ Akothee warns

In a post on her social media page, Akothee told ladies that no one will ever make them rich apart from themselves. The long-legged and fit businesswoman explained that sponsors would only invest in their lifestyles and that very few will invest capital in their businesses.

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Happy Sabbath It's kiche 🙏

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The “Sweet Love” singer cautioned ladies that they needed to be smart when dealing with sponsors because they can be vindictive;

Supervise your work. You have to be present to achieve your goals; no one will ever make you rich, not even a sponsor. A sponsor will invest in your life style, business class tickets ,five star hotels , expensive weaves 🤦, but try ask for capital for your business 🙆🙆 very few will see a potential of investing in you ,for the fear of you being independent and dumping them, sponsors are also not stupid ,they know why you are with them 🤣🤣, so they hide the white ball very far , and when they dump you for another hot cake ,you fall like a rotten tree ,for they will want to take you back where they found you or worst, infact some of them ,will even revert the things they gave you just to see you frustrated and begging 😂😂😂 sponsorship is a scam it can land bad 😂😂😂.be wise.

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Esther Akoth Popularly known as Akothee is one middle-aged celebrity who doesn’t mind giving advice to younger women and girls online.

The mother of 5 has lived a life that would make most a memoir so long, even at her tender age of 40! So when she says something many take notice for she has some wisdom that she has gained from her experience.

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If he tells you that that is his baby mama 🤣🤣, ,just know that ,he is a martied man ,married men have changed tittles , they play confused in their relationships, but deep down,they know very well,they cant choose you over their wives " (baby mama) He just want to box you , so he can get a different juice 🤣, then later he will say, oooh let me respect her for the sake of our child 🤣🤣🤣, those people are actually sleeping together and planning their future minus you 🤣🤣🤣. You are the game 🙆‍♂️🙈, As for me , you have to choose A or B You can only side chicken me if you are paying my bills. if I am wealthier than you,and you want to play hide and sick with me 🤣🤣🤣 ,MR Man , go play with your mates in the field 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️, you can't come to me with an empty pocket & a baggage as well 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️, where do I start Renovating you from 🤣🤣🤣🤣,then your wife will emerge and start embarrassing me for nothing 🙄🤣🤣 Women be carefull with this baby mama tittles ,its confusion, I don't know why men do this though? Why are men not proud of their wives anymore? Where are those men who use to introduce their wives to friends ,and were proud to put on their wedding rings and carry their children on their heads ? Where are we 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️

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In a post she shared on Instagram, the mother of five said that if a man tells you he has a baby mama, it means he is married.

“If he tells you that that is his baby mama 🤣🤣, ,just know that, he is a married man, married men have changed tittles, they play confused in their relationships, but deep down, they know very well, they can’t choose you over their wives ”

He beat me when I came home drunk one day – Akothee claims about ex-husband

The singer added that men act confused in relationships yet they very well know that they can’t choose you over their wives, whom they refer to as baby mamas. She explained that when a man says that, it is an excuse to sleep with the conquest as he will not leave his wife.

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Was going through some self COMMITTEE when I took this photo I asked myself 1. Am I his number 1 priority? 2. Is his life full of love triangles? 3. Is he the man I really want to settle for ? Then I called my mom , we had a long chart ! My words " Mom, of late , I feel cold around 3.00 am and I feel like the homes are too big and I miss something 🤷 I have no debts nor stress ,but my nights are shorter than normal!🤦🙏I am worried 🙏 She said " Nyakwar maaa ,I understand where you are coming from, but the world is full of deceitful people 🙏you have a big heart ,and it's easy for a man to take advantage of you 💪, To amuonyi aduoki e iya nyakwar Elsa ? Jogi Biro negona in MERWA 🙏 atimi made maa? Atleast we are talking about it now My mom is not a joke,a proper disciplinary. I wish all married women / men I. Relationships a happy endings 🙏 It gets cold and lonely out here 🙏 All those proverbs we drop Ooh single & not searching it's a lie 🤣🤣 We are just trying to get our own space in the society 🙏 But every woman needs a warm strong Arm around her 💪 Money can't buy this feeling 💪 🤣🤣🤣🙄 "Monday on blogs " AKOTHEE IS DESPERATE FOR LOVE " 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Dis people amaze me I swear 🤣🤣🤣

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“He just want to box you , so he can get a different juice 🤣, then later he will say, oooh let me respect her for the sake of our child 🤣🤣🤣, those people are actually sleeping together and planning their future minus you 🤣🤣🤣. You are the game 🙆‍♂️🙈,” said Madam Boss.

She added that she herself wouldn’t allow a man who wasn’t as wealthy as she is try to make her a side-chick as she wouldn’t want to deal with his garbage and the subsequent embarrassment if the scandal came out.

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I am responsible for my life and the lives of my loved ones ,I will only do what is right for the best interest of the people I love ❤️ Migori county I love you

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The “Sweet Love” musician also wondered why men nowadays aren’t proud of their wives;

“Women be careful with this baby mama titles, its confusion, I don’t know why men do this though? Why are men not proud of their wives anymore? Where are those men who use to introduce their wives to friends, and were proud to put on their wedding rings and carry their children on their heads? Where are we 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️,” she added.

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Akothee’s daughter Vesha recently gave a deep interview where she spoke about her mother’s first relationship with her father that ended acrimoniously.

The interview shed light on the relationship dynamic between the singer and her first husband, something that Madam Boss wasn’t pleased about.

But it seems that her anger at the person who interviewed her daughter might have dissolved as she herself has started speaking about the divorce.

Akothee sends harsh warning to radio presenters over interviews with her daughters!

In a well-written post on Instagram, Akothee explained that divorce was a really bad experience for kids and that although she tried to shield her kids from seeing their father as an enemy, that wasn’t always easy.

“It’s easier said than done, but I tell you, divorce is worse than death, especially when children are involved🙏. I would never ever wish for any parents to divorce after living together for years and bring up their children as a family, I am not saying you stay in a toxic, violent unsatisfactory relationship, but if it ever happens that there is need to break up 🙆then please try to do it decently without involving your children🙏.”

She added that despite it all she kept her tears hidden from her kids.

“The only medal CUP I gained is trying as much as possible to cover my children’s eyes never to see their father as an enemy 💪 it was hard, I took bullets, I broke down when bills were overwhelming, my children never saw my tears, after my divorce, they only learnt about my struggles on social media, when I started sharing my past,” read part of her message.

Akothee who has 3 baby daddies explained that she made it a point for all of the men she dated to love her children equally.

“I bought them gifts every time my other children’s fathers came to visit their children with gifts,I made sure I received the gifts first💪 combine with mines and present as a family . I forced every man in my life to love my children equally 💔, but never asked them to call any of them daddy until OYOO WAS BORN it came automatically,They still had their biological father ,whom they Loved so much ,still love him ,they call him DAD,” revealed Akothee.

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Some of the deepest wounds inflicted on us are caused by those closest to you. This phrase is one that Akothee might be deeply familiar with after being caught up in a controversy that involves the singer and her sister.

The hullabaloo she is involved with started after YouTuber Edgar Obare released communications showing alleged texts from one of Akothee’s family members which claimed that the famous businesswoman was struggling financially.

The alleged texts from the family member went on to claim that she couldn’t even pay for her children’s school fees. The philanthropist has finally responded to the hurtful texts saying that people had been trying to control her charitable organisation for their own ends.

“When people wanted to own my life and jump onto my success, using Akothee Foundation that is hardly a year old, with no sponsors or donors as a way of hurting me! I had to put it on hold and concentrate on my life and my children! It hurts when you do things innocently and people feel entitled,” she wrote.

I was not born to cause pain – Akothee as she finds out adopted son cruelly lied to her

She also added that she was been accused of having money problems because she had stopped helping family members except for her own parents.

She explained that her family wasn’t aware of the financial might that she had noting that they didn’t know who was responsible for handling those finances.

Despite her disappointment with how her family had treated her, Akothee said that she would always love her family.

“Since I stopped dishing out money and attending to family problems apart from my parents and grandparents, I am hardly loved. My family has no idea of my wealth nor my whereabouts, even if I die today, they have no idea of whom is handling my will or bill’s, they are guests in my life. I respect and love my family very much and the only way to keep the relationship is to love them from afar since I have no option but to love them,” the mother of five said.

While ending her emotional message, Akothee even reminded fans that the only people who had visited her when she was in Karen hospital after her stage accident last year were her children, friends, employees, fans, and her insurance company.

This last incident was a confirmation of who her close circle is.

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Akothee is well-known in Kenya for her giving heart. The mother of 5 is probably the most philanthropic celebrity that we have in Kenya.

In fact, Esther as her I.D reads has her own philanthropic organisation where she tries to help women and children in impoverished areas in Kenya.

In that vein and spirit she has adopted several kids and taken them under her wing, paying their fees and even feeding them.

But life is not as straightforward as most of us would want it. It has transpired that one of the orphan’s madam boss was taking care of isn’t actually an orphan.

Akothee revealed this information on her Instagram page telling her fans that she had found out that the boy had another family that was alive and kicking.

The musician has discovered that the disabled boy Shadrack Mwita, had lied about being an orphan and had a mum who was alive and kicking despite lying that she had died in a grisly road accident – an accident he claimed had caused his disability.

Women envied me over my white baby daddy but they didn’t know how I was suffering – Akothee

Akothee briefed her fans starting out by letting them know that the boy was now fine and had recovered.

“Mission Accomplished. ❤❤❤❤Shadrack Mwita has fully recovered now🙏🏾 and can hold and carry heavy things, he can stand on his feet and fend for himself other than begging due to disability👊.”

She then explained the bombshell she had just experienced explaining how the boy had told her,

“Shadrack’s Family reappeared in the picture,and the pressure was too much for me to handle 🙏🏾. I can’t continue living eating in a palace ,while my family is suffering, , as I promised my family ,that I am going to Mombasa to look for a life ,and once i am successful, I will come and change their lives too So I want mama to go and build for my grand mother a house next week ,says shadrack ” 🙏🏾🙏🏾”

The news had shocked her so much but she took it in stride,

“This was a shock to me, as before this ,he started becoming very negative, Moody and this was scary to me 💪 I didn’t know how to handle this , however when I met shadrack ,he told me he had no one 🙏🏾”

Despite the lying and the disappointment, Akothee was still willing to help Shadrack and explained what she would do for him saying, “Moving forward , Shadrack has his own rented house fully paid for a whole year 💪 I am still looking for a business that he can do , so he will help himself and meet his families demands 🙏🏾, He is still under my custody and I make sure he has food and basic needs”

Concluding succinctly, “I was not born to cause pain ,I was born to provide solutions.”

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Akothee is 40 years old right now. The mother of 5 has lived such a dramatic and captivating life over the years that it would surely make a great movie were someone to make it.

The singer, businesswoman, philanthropist and social leader always seems to reveal a cool and interesting antidote about herself week in week out.

This past week wasn’t any different as the “Rollam” singer took her fans down memory lane where she described her tough relationship with her first white baby daddy.

Esther (the singer’s real names) explained that although many women might have been envious about her “entanglement” with a white man, she was suffering silently.

‘I was only showing up in bed, Akothee reminisces on how she was poor in bed

She revealed that at one time during her relationship with the mzungu baby daddy that she was six months pregnant and the father of her child was rarely at home.

She related that Papa Ojwang (the white baby daddy) used to come home at 2am, while sometimes leaving the house as late as 11pm claiming to be going out for a drink. But on one night she followed him and found him going to a certain woman’s home in Mtwapa whom he saw almost every night.

“Women were jealous of me after I snatched papa Ojwang, ,They never knew the sleepless empty nights I had, I was craving for him to even hold my hands while going shopping at the then Nakumat mmm, my baby would walk 10 Meters away from, the father of my son was never at home ,He was coming home @2.00 am ,even after I struggled to Cook for him and gave him some JB 🙄😭😭😭, the niga would still leave at 11.00 pm saying he is going for a drink at Safari in ,he will come back ,my niga ended up in kasorina ,and came back home at 2.00 am, one day, I decided to follow his car ,( he was driving my car ,which I gave him ) upon arriving in mtwapa, he packed the car in vichochoro ,I could not figure out which house he went into ,I suppose it was one girl he always talked about ,her Name was” Amore ” but they were several so I don’t know who 🙄 , I lost hope and went back home as it was scary to just pack there yet I was 6 months pregnant,🙄,” said Akothee.

When the mzungu baby daddy returned home at 5 in the morning, he hid something under the mattress, which the singer found out was condoms.

According to Akothee, she could not do anything because she did not have the strength and was afraid of losing him because she was in love. All she could do was cry.

She concluded that after her experiences she had stopped chasing a man for love and used that energy to “fight for rice in funerals and weddings”

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