Julie Gichuru is the hero we men need and deserve! And that last statement comes from a man who is under siege this Valentine’s to make a huge statement to go out and spend huge amounts on the woman in my life.
Yes, in an economy where tomatoes are as expensive as diamonds! Thank God for Julie who has come out to defend the boychild while also challenging the girlchild to practice some of the equality we always hear so much about coming from the fairer s3x.
In a powerful post to her Instagram page, the former Citizen TV news anchor addressed men and women separately. To the men, Julie advised her “sons” not to bow down to the pressure of delivering beyond their means.
According to Julie, if a man feels pressured to spend beyond his means, he should seek a woman who is more understanding.
“To my sons, there is no need to feel pressure to deliver what is beyond your means or even simply imprudent or impactical. One rose and your time is more than enough and any woman worth her salt would get it. If you feel pressured to live beyond your means maybe you need to look for the woman who will be your friend, partner and equal. Give love, respect and attention every day, that is the true gift ♥️ ,” wrote Julie.
And to her “daughters”, Julie challenged them to spoil their men if they are able to(Julie you are a very very wise woman!)
“To my daughters, There is nothing more empowering than deciding to break the mold and take control. Get him a rose. Give him a gift. Take the drivers seat and spoil him if you can. A woman must know that she needs nothing from any external forces other than God. She must know that she can handle her business. She therefore needs no man but is able to choose her partner – her homie/lover/friend. That is powerful. Be that woman ♥️ Be different. Do it your way. No pressure. Hii mwaka haitaki makasiriko ☺😉♥️😘😘😘” she concluded.
Such a smart woman!