We get caught up with life and work that we tend to ignore the ones we love most. It doesn’t mean that we don’t think about them, it simply means that there is no more or very less romance between couples. But here’s how you can change that:
Spend quality time – Sometimes you maybe in the same room for hours but not talk to each other simply because you are busy with your own work. If you are alone with your husband make sure you spend the time talking to him.
Arrange for a date – If you have kids, arrange for a baby sitter and go out on a date. If he enjoys dancing then you can hit a nice place where you can shake a leg. If your man would like to indulge in some games take him to a bowling parlour. Believe it this will work like a charm.
Be the chef – Food is the easiest way to a man’s heart. So, cook a great meal comprising of the dishes he likes. But if you aren’t convinced about your culinary skills don’t try and experiment, order food from his favourite restaurant and then set up some candles for a romantic candlelight dinner.
Leave love notes – Whether it’s leaving some love notes around the house or SMSes or email, write him a lovey-dovey note. Men may pretend to be tough but they do like to know that they are on your mind.
Express it loud – Though you may have sent him a love note or email, there’s nothing like professing your love every now and then. Do let him know that after all the years as a married couple you are still very much in love with him.
Shower him with attention – Dote on him once in a while. Praise him for his hard work. Men love attention though they may claim otherwise. Praise him for his taste in clothes or perfumes, he’s sure to like it a lot.
Find ways to spend time together – It could be while travelling to or from work or just going shopping together or even a long drive after dinner. If you can’t head out for a vacation just find ways to be in each other’s company.
Let him spend time with his gang – Yes, you should spend some time together, but your man will really appreciate it if you let him spend an evening with his buddies. Ensure that you don’t call him during the time when he is with his friends.
Appreciate things he does – Even if it’s something simple, try and tell him how much you appreciate his help around the house. More then the praise and attention that you shower on him, it’s this appreciation that will make him fall in love with you all over again.