People fall inlove, date and get serious but sometimes things don’t go as planned and they end up separating. In some cases especially if you had mutual friends you are bound to meet each other every so often. This may rekindle old feelings and one may want to act on them by reigniting an old flame.
If you want to get back with an ex, here are afew tips that you need to be able to achieve this.
Plan – Formulate a plan in your mind that will help you achieve this. Consider things that they like/dislike in order to avoid petty issues that may arise. You will also need to confirm whether they are single before you initiate contact.
Chat them up – Begin to get into contact but in a friendly manner and establish a rapport with them first. Time changes people so take it as a new discovery journey.
No sex – No matter how good they are in bed, as tempting as it is don’t walk down that road. It will make things complicated for no reason.
Take your time – Its not automatic that your ex will be receptive of you especially if you had a nasty breakup. Allow them to slide back into your life at their pace, don’t force your agenda. Once you confirm that you are on the same page them tell them what you want.
Meet up – If you want something you go and get it. Do coffee, lunch, go to a concert and make new memories together. Its rewritting a new script for your lives again.
Once everything works out then start afresh, deal with your past demons and leave them there.