They say a healthy relationship is one where both parties fully trust each other without reservation.
If your guy doesn’t trust you, is it because of his own insecurities? This was the discussion on Classic 105 morning conversation with Maina and Kingangi.
Mwalimu was of the opinion that women do things to raise the red flag.
He added, ‘When you see a man keep quiet he is observing, you can’t just get up and go.’
What are the reasons for lack of trust? Have you behaved in a way or done something specifically that would make your partner not have trust in you? What kind of relationship is it and what are your goals for the relationship?
Here are four signs your partner doesn’t trust you
1. They check your phone multiple times
Do they consistently steal your phone away from you to check what you’ve been up to? Does it happen anytime you leave their sight most of all?
This can be one of the most frustrating expressions of mistrust because it’s an invasion of your privacy.
2. They ask a lot of probing questions
Does your partner ask you probing-type questions constantly? Questions such as:
Why did you take so long?
Why are you going there?
How long are you going to be there?
Who are you with?
If it seems that every moment of every day– or very frequently, at least– they demand to know where you are, what you’re doing, and who you’re with, they have big trust issues.
3. They have this need to know where you are at all times and perhaps will accompany you
If you feel like you’re being kept under close surveillance, there are probably some serious trust issues about.
One of the more common behaviors is calling the people or places you said you’d be at to confirm that you’re there or to check social for the same reasons, always trying to keep tabs on your position and pouncing anytime you can’t be located.
4. They attempt to control your behavior
One much more serious sign that your partner doesn’t trust you is by using controlling behavior in a broader sense.
As opposed to simply checking up on your location or questioning you frequently, the person might seek to control where you go and who you spend time with, dictating how you live your day-to-day life in an effort to make themselves feel better about their insecurity.
Dear Classic 105 fam, what other signs are there to suggest your partner doesn’t trust you? Drop your comments below, we will share them.