A man has been putting off getting married to his baby mama because he wants her to age, making sure she’s out of the market after wasting her time.
Wanting to “test” the relationship a little longer before taking the plunge is a situation many Kenyan couples find themselves in today.
One of the main reasons your man may be uninterested in marrying you is because he wants to marry you when you are older and can’t move on.
They want you to commit to him for so long that you will have no other choice when you hit past 40 years.
The man called in to Classic 105 confirming this truth
What is the purpose of a wedding, as long as my heart wants you what else do you want?What’s the need of showing the public that I love you in a wedding yet after a few years we will divorce, si as long as my heart knows!
Look at the rate of divorce in Kenya. Look at today’s weddings, how many people are holding Sh2million weddings, then divorce soon after? What is the value of a wedding?
So what is his solution or alternative to marriage?
It’s very simple he argues. Come we stay together, have kids and in ten to twenty years we will see how things are. At that point I also know she has nowhere to go, coz who wants a woman with all these children? Which man will marry her?
t this point ladies I fail to see the logic behind staying with someone who doesn’t want to marry you if you want to marry. Perhaps some men want to wait for the right person, not you.