Gospel artiste Kambua has come out to shut her haters who have been trolling her for not bearing kids after 6 years in marriage to the love of her life.
Kambua tied the knot to her now hubby Jackson Mathu in 2012 and people have been expressing their concern on why the celebrated singer is not a mother .
Elder Neil L.Anderson once said
“Motherhood is not a hobby ,it is a calling ,it is not something to do if you can squeeze the time in, it is what God gave you time for.”
The celebrated singer-cum-presenter has come out to clear the air on the motherhood issue saying;
“Motherhood is a calling. A great one. But it’s not the only one. Stop all this kosokoso of making people feel “less than” because they’re not mom’s, by choice or by circumstance.”
This is not the first time the beautiful damsel has touched on the issue of motherhood as during an interview with a local show, The Trend, Kambua said
“it angers me when people keep being intrusive on issues such as when are you getting kids it upsets me because people don’t know what you are struggling with, people don’t even know whether you want to have children or not.
She continues “People don’t know if you can actually get children or not, There are so many women who are fighting infertility and I would wish that people be sensitized on this issue. It’s such a shame that we have become a down shaming society.”
Kambua is among the few local celebrities who have talked about motherhood.
Other celebrities who have been vocal about not being able to conceive is DJ Soxxy who waited for a long time before being a father due to the fact that her wife had complications which made it hard to get pregnant.
“Like any relationship, it has not been easy. I remember when we were getting to know each other, she confided in me that she may never be able to have children because of a condition she had, called PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome). At that point, I didn’t even consider what she had just told me because having children or not was not a big deal to me and at that point I hadn’t thought she was going to be my wife. Perhaps it was love that was clouding my judgement, because after all, they say love makes you do and say very foolish things.”
In the beginning of the young marriage, the couple had decided to delay getting kids so that they could at least enjoy each others company. That did not bother DJ Soxxy, but it did bother his wife.
He continued, “Once in a while she would hint that we should start trying for a child but I would be adamant because we had agreed on how long we will wait. Slowly Anne began to get depressed and the roughest season in our marriage began.”