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‘My wife of 2 years left me claiming that she can not continue being my sponsor,’ confess a Kenyan Man

Well, classic 105 is a home for everyone and therefore everyone feels at home and are allowed to speak their minds, especially during the morning conversations with Maina and King’ang’i. The show basically deals with relationships and dramas that happens at marriage lives.

Since the beginning of this year, Classic Overdrive host Mike Mondo is sitting in for Maina Kageni who is currently on his holiday.

Today, Mike has shared a story of a gentleman who sent him a message in his DM explaining to him what has been happening to him and is currently disappointed in life.

Check out what the message was about;

Hello Mike,

I hope this finds you well. I write this and I’ll be glad if you can take your time to help secure a job, even through your morning show on classic 105.
I have been jobless since 2016 (2 years to be precise), after resigning from my high flying job with an international company. I was based in Jo’burg, http://S.Africa and later Gaborone, Botswana. I came home, settled with my long-term fiancé and started a business. Unfortunately the business went under with all my savings within six month. My relationship with my fiancé, now my wife, started going south with constant fights over everything. She’s the only breadwinner as she works for a prominent parastatal in Kenya. We had discussed on how she could help me secure a job in the same organization that she works for because she is well connected and the only barrier was that some 200k is needed to do that.
Unfortunately I don’t have the money. I’m down. It’s been difficult to get back to my old buddies, given I lost touch with them when I lived abroad for close to 3 years, with the general assumption that those who works abroad have lots of money to go broke. Now the twist is that my wife’s girlfriend offered to lend me the money. So I shared the same with my wife, with which she Okayed. Meanwhile my wife knows that her friend had a crush on me since our days in campus, and it was surprising that she agreed to her generous offer to lend the money. Because the friend works in Nairobi, we set up a meeting in Nairobi alongside the same period I’d attend an interview so I traveled to Nairobi. After the interview, I met the lady in one of the city’s hotels. To cut the story short, the lady had an unspoken condition that I had to sleep with her in order to lend me the money. She was drunk after several glasses of wine. I turned down the offer, shared the story with my wife, albeit selectively not to make her go mad at her friend. To my dismay, my wife turned against me, and sent me a whatsapp message after we had verbal altercation over the same that left me dismayed. I can’t figure out the puzzle. See attached. My wife of two years calls herself a sponsor to me, simply because I occasionally ask for money to help me move from one place to another in search of a job. The last time I cried like the moment I read her message was in 2011 when I lost my mom to cancer. I’m in the verge of losing my marriage, which I have come to terms with. My only headache is my 1.5-year-old daughter with whom I have a very strong bond with. Now all I request you bro is to help me get my dignity back by securing a job, be it a sales/marketing job I’d gladly take and work up my ways.

I am a graduate of environmental science but at this moment I can’t afford to be selective. NB: Kindly hide my identity to protect my wife/family in case you share my story

Thanks in advance

Check out the screen shots too.

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